Living with a Stammer - Gareth Gates

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3 жыл бұрын

In this vlog Gareth opens up about the battle he constantly faces with his Stammer; giving us a little insight into how it's shaped his life, from being a child to adulthood.
This vlog is part of a series that address's some fundamental issues we all battle with; including self confidence, self acceptance and overcoming our biggest fears.

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@MMG_MoonManGuitar
@MMG_MoonManGuitar 3 жыл бұрын
Cheers Gareth. I've had a stammer for years. Almost 25 years. But getting there mate. One love bro.
@katieu2490
@katieu2490 3 жыл бұрын
You sound beautiful both speaking & singing Gareth! You really are amazing! So so proud to support you, keep being you ♡
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@mariaw81
@mariaw81 3 жыл бұрын
I’ll listen later when I feel a bit stronger as I know it will make me emotional but you are one of the most amazing, strong inspirational people anyone could know especially with the struggles you’ve faced due to your stammer. I’m proud to call myself a fan always. Lots of love. xxx
@Wetterfront
@Wetterfront 4 ай бұрын
I am absolutely impressed by you! Great!
@patrickd9957
@patrickd9957 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a 62 year old man and I’ve had a stammer all my life. It takes real guts to go so public Gareth and I have mammoth respect for you. My stammer is not so bad these days as I have learnt ways around it such as stringing words together or not starting a sentence with a pronunciation where I know I’ll get stuck. I too got bullied but by my family. I was never bullied at school thankfully. My life became a living hell and I contemplated suicide at 10 years old. As a result I now have PTSD. Your video sends a lot of strength to other stammerers. You are one awesome man. RESPECT. 👍
@carolmcreasey6990
@carolmcreasey6990 3 жыл бұрын
You are brave and so inspirational Gareth, and so very talented. I am so glad I got to hear your amazing voice because you had the courage to go on Pop Idol, you did not allow your stammer to stop you. You deserve every bit of success you have had, and I will always be proud to say I am your fan. God bless you. xxx
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@elizabethh4648
@elizabethh4648 Жыл бұрын
We've just watched you live Gareth, in Crewe, at 'The Best of Frankie Valli'. And you were amazing to listen to and watch. Thank you so much for your work. X
@mariaw81
@mariaw81 3 жыл бұрын
Watched and listened now, i’m so proud of you for having the courage to talk about this, ill be continuing to watch and listen to the rest of your vlogs 🤗bless you Gareth. xxx
@TazDeville1
@TazDeville1 3 жыл бұрын
I have lived with my stammer for many years and couldn't explain it as well as this. I now work with other children and will share this for the others who work with me so they understand. Other disabilities are so well understood and seeing is not understood as if we are 'putting it on'. I'm glad you have gained strength in who you are. Be strong and keep these blogs coming
@hayleylamgston97
@hayleylamgston97 3 жыл бұрын
You're amazing Gareth you have done so well, so proud of you, love you lots xxx
@dalenekock6342
@dalenekock6342 11 ай бұрын
What an inspiration for other stammers. Fantastic Gareth
@emmapatterson9970
@emmapatterson9970 3 жыл бұрын
My hero always, I have a condition called selective mutism where I physically can’t speak in situations I’m scared or anxious in along with my autism, I’ve been bullied my whole life have severe mental health and your the reason I fight everyday I love you Gareth xxx
@rups22
@rups22 3 жыл бұрын
Love your openness and honesty!
@francillefourlin2224
@francillefourlin2224 Жыл бұрын
Bravo gareth, très heureuse de vous retrouver après tant d’années et sans aucun baigaiement, bravissimo 😉😉😉😉😉👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@scottishwifey1557
@scottishwifey1557 3 жыл бұрын
Gareth, this blog brought a lump in my throat! You have done so amazing. Yeah fair you’ve been on a bit of a rollercoaster but this video just proves how strong you are and seemingly always have been. I have mental health and have dyspraxia and got bullied badly too. Always told I’m stupid and wouldn’t achieve anything. (I’m now 30 and don’t work as little self belief). Was actually you that pulled me through. This video is so touching. Keep being amazing. You should be so proud of who you are! F the haters! ✌🏻❤️
@GarethGatesOfficial
@GarethGatesOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Keep going - Struggle makes us stronger. Sending you lots of positivity. Gareth
@scottishwifey1557
@scottishwifey1557 3 жыл бұрын
@@GarethGatesOfficial ❤️
@QUEEN-ji9lj
@QUEEN-ji9lj 3 жыл бұрын
@@GarethGatesOfficial hai Gareth, I love you so much, and i hope i can meet you someday.. I love you so much Gareth.
@heidibristow4257
@heidibristow4257 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gareth, loving the vlog, took me right back to those school days. A great watch for both people with stammers and awareness for those without. Take good care. x
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@joannewilliams2658
@joannewilliams2658 2 жыл бұрын
You are awesome. Period.
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@amylowson405
@amylowson405 3 жыл бұрын
That 'creeping death' stayed with me and still does when at work in meetings where I have to introduce myself. No wonder I have anxiety issues. Teachers weren't great at school, mostly due to ignorance of how to deal with someone with a stammer. I didn't need challenged or tested by being put on the spot. I needed to speak when I felt comfortable. It does get easier as you get older as you can be a bit more in control of your situation plus I'm more likely to call people out for making comments about how I speak. Interesting vlog, thanks.
@Laura09m20
@Laura09m20 3 жыл бұрын
Inspirational 😍 always admired you for going for your dreams and not letting your stammer hold you back x
@GarethGatesOfficial
@GarethGatesOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@christopherking70
@christopherking70 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty, you have helped me and you are very brave and I look up to you
@corazonflores3576
@corazonflores3576 3 жыл бұрын
You voice is so amazing never gonna stops you're voice when you are singing it's so amazing ,amazing
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@JenniferElliott1
@JenniferElliott1 2 жыл бұрын
I just literally typed in your name in the search bar on You Tube and saw that you have a channel and subscribed. I was just playing a few old songs from the 90s and your name sprung to mind and straight away tapped on this video. I just want to say that you are very brave to be talking about your stammer in front of your fans and others that have the same issue. It's a great encouragement! So good on you! :)
@ruthdevenneywall7467
@ruthdevenneywall7467 3 жыл бұрын
I have struggled with my stammer over 40 years i do relate with you , Thanks for the vlogs , you should be very proud keep up the good work
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@Ryan-Ellis
@Ryan-Ellis 2 жыл бұрын
The feeling when you wanna get involved in the conversation but your hesitant that you may stammer so i decide to stay quiet. Most people think I’m shy and awkward but don’t know the metal battle I’m having with every sentence that comes to mind. This lack of confidence just comes from previous Incidents when I have stammered infront of someone. I just feel so bad , I’d rather just stay alone these days
@bestogu
@bestogu 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I've had a stammer all of my life, only more so these days I find it alot worse. I'll be 31 this year and feel that I am putting my life on hold for it! I loved you growing up, massive fan, saw you many times in concert 😂 enjoyed watching your videos 😊 xx
@johnwilson3740
@johnwilson3740 2 жыл бұрын
I stammered a lot between the ages of 9 and 18. Fear would gripped me especially when I became conscious of the words and phrases which I knew I would not be able to say out. Some say the stammerer does do so when he speaks out loud to himself/herself, or talks to animals or when two stammerers speak out or read out together. I don't know how far this is true. I was healed of this impediment in a Reinhart Bonnke meeting in 1984. However my heart still goes out to those who can't express themselves and it breaks my heart because a part of me hurts knowing what they are feeling inside. Anyway even in the Bible, Moses, a great hero himself was a stammerer and he was nonetheless a great leader. I just hope this sharing has helped somebody. Cheers. 😊
@MaxineShannon.1995
@MaxineShannon.1995 3 жыл бұрын
What can I say Gareth I have ALWAYS been your fan from day 1 you hit tv ❤..I am 27 years old and always had a stammer its really affected my life I hate speaking on phones texting I love it ❤..In you're video you said it holds you back and It really does 😭💔 I can relate to you soo much ..You are such a beautiful,warm person and share light to everyone who are in same boat as us ❤..People who dont stammer dont link to us and dont understand what we go through its really irritating 💔😭
@agnescuento2218
@agnescuento2218 3 жыл бұрын
You're anazing Gareth...i know how it feels being bullied specially speech is concern. But you are great now...you speak very well. Who would have thought you can speak straight now. Good job...
@Sara-mn8ih
@Sara-mn8ih 3 жыл бұрын
i was bulled from year 7 till year 11 when i was in school because i was shy couldnt answer questions when teacher asked.. my life was so bad when i was in school im 30 years old now and still not confortant going places meeting new people still hard for me... but Gareth u have been my hero from a very young age xx
@sheilamorris2545
@sheilamorris2545 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always admired you for not letting it stop you live your dream xx❤️👍
@GarethGatesOfficial
@GarethGatesOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Ah Thank you so much
@Chalky1mil757
@Chalky1mil757 2 ай бұрын
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@Chalky1mil757
@Chalky1mil757 2 ай бұрын
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@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 7 ай бұрын
I hope you see this comment and know it’s possibly to overcome a stammer. I did mine earlier this year thanks to a book, How to Stop Stuttering and Love Speaking by Lee Lovett. It’s the best book I’ve ever read and his WSSA program is equally fantastic.
@leannexx93xx
@leannexx93xx 3 жыл бұрын
Love you always. I was bullied in school too and couldnt speak in front of the class, i stutter when nervous my fiancee finds it cute. I ended up not attending school during any lessons where i knew there was a task of speaking in front of class. Right from that first moment you walked in on pop idol, you had my support. You signed my pop idol tshirt that had your image on it. Will try find the picture of me wearing it. XX
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@francisalejandrino6818
@francisalejandrino6818 3 жыл бұрын
love to hear you sing again say it isnt so xxxxxxx
@dangilmore9995
@dangilmore9995 Жыл бұрын
Love your music man
@lukasgabreal5165
@lukasgabreal5165 3 жыл бұрын
You're amazing my idol.
@claudiamuscan4919
@claudiamuscan4919 2 жыл бұрын
You are amazing🥰...i love your voice...🥰....
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@nadinkarinkarin5045
@nadinkarinkarin5045 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite u'r songs ...Anyone Of Us & Say it is'n so ...Gareth Gates 😍
@divyangbargali1554
@divyangbargali1554 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video
@jamesmarshall3098
@jamesmarshall3098 3 жыл бұрын
I can so totally relate to you I struggle myself with a stammer
@emmapatterson9970
@emmapatterson9970 3 жыл бұрын
My hero xxx
@guineapigcuteness6887
@guineapigcuteness6887 Жыл бұрын
Hi Gareth! Your videos are great. Please can you do a new one? I’ve followed you since I was 13 and you were on Pop Idol! Xx
@janetwinifredansah9170
@janetwinifredansah9170 3 жыл бұрын
You sound Perfect to me, From the first time I heard you singing (Pop Idol) love you always 🙄😍😍
@femabugay6949
@femabugay6949 3 жыл бұрын
STILL MY IDOL
@elizabethrosenbaum4270
@elizabethrosenbaum4270 3 жыл бұрын
i m a stammerer miss your lives Gareth gates ❤
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@SARAHA.WAPAEMI-kv6ok
@SARAHA.WAPAEMI-kv6ok 9 ай бұрын
❤️
@ellaloveseire
@ellaloveseire 3 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@BethanyEvans3
@BethanyEvans3 Жыл бұрын
👏
@user-us5ol3ov6g
@user-us5ol3ov6g 2 жыл бұрын
I missed you
@aizamatutinavergara2617
@aizamatutinavergara2617 3 жыл бұрын
I love you always,,,,,
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@corazonflores3576
@corazonflores3576 3 жыл бұрын
I like you're voice Gareth it's so nice
@corazonflores3576
@corazonflores3576 3 жыл бұрын
@GarethGatesofficial thank you gareth I will try to send the messages to your email you know what every time I always listening to your music from u tube you so hand some hehehehe and your voice it's so amazing
@usamanadeem7142
@usamanadeem7142 3 жыл бұрын
I have stammering problem from 13 to 15 years i use some tricks some times like speaking in whispering to laud and which words i can speak well i say that in normal way and people think I'm weird but it works for me sometimes and i didn't find any cure for this problem or disease i feel very embarrassing in front of my Friends and relatives when they are talking & ask me questions and can't reply them very well and they just laugh instead of giving me any solution.i also lost my job because of this and when i meet someone i have things in my mind which i want to say but i can't really say that and they just keep talking and my reply is just "hmm" and now i just stop meeting people and i spend most of my time in my room,, even my family is not supporting or helping me to get out of this problem.i also can't apply to any job bcuz most jobs requires good communication skills and i don't have these and I'm very depressed now if someone have any solution for this i really appreciate that or i just have to wait to get old😑
@mariafoster2232
@mariafoster2232 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gareth, my son has just turned 18, he has had a stammer since he was 5. At school he was quiet, and his stammer has affected his social confidence. He spent many lunch breaks on his own. He is happy within his family network. I've approached a speech therapist, and they seem to be going down the road of acceptance rather than treatment, would you recommend any particular treatment or therapy? I've not heard you speak in years and how you speak now is incredible. My son James isn't too keen on treatment, he just accepts it, but i don't know whether to push for him to get treatment to help him as he goes through his adult life. Sorry for the long story! Maria.
@TracyLawrence980
@TracyLawrence980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your love❤️and support for me and my career🤓I appreciate your support and warm comments✊ god bless you and stay safe❤️
@Keepinitreal61
@Keepinitreal61 3 жыл бұрын
My grandsons best friend has a stammer. They are 10/11. He's just come to call for my grandson, I've just asked him if he knew you, he said no. I said look you up. ❤️
@ms.puspitakirana7622
@ms.puspitakirana7622 3 жыл бұрын
I've never thought that you've lived with a stammer. I always see you as a perfect singer❤
@alliemeek7050
@alliemeek7050 3 жыл бұрын
Being a singer with a stammer myself I can confirm that it does not affect your ability to sing.
@bjhill4448
@bjhill4448 3 жыл бұрын
I note that you mentioned that you can’t get the thoughts out fast enough. And yet stuttering “cures” often involve talking slowly. And don’t get me started on dealing with teachers.
@vhic2009
@vhic2009 3 жыл бұрын
hi long time no see,hows life,be safe and Godbless...love from Philippines
@jamiepoems
@jamiepoems Жыл бұрын
Hi Gareth I am on the autism spectrum and I had and sometimes have a stammer I know how you feel I have got a singing lesson tomorrow
@louisesuter3314
@louisesuter3314 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I have stammer myself more worse though
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