🅱️ruh just dont be , only reason to say you hate it is that you wanna keep playing the shy character and never know people , maybe its the kpop thing

@@BRZkomarov 1. Its.. not a kpop thing 2. I am not shy.. that's why i hate when people say it

ikr it doesn't help at all, it makes me more shy when people say that idk why, I hate that word

@@BRZkomarov wdym kpop thing?

@@BRZkomarov do you know how this works? you telling people to not be shy doesn't work at all, that's like telling somebody with cancer to just get better, i dont fucking care if im over reacting.

True 😭😭😭😭😭😭 so I have to wait in my room.... It's the worst...

Oh shit you just explained me i pissed in my water bottle cause i had guests over

So relatable

So damn relatable!!😭😭😭😭

P I S S O N T H E F L O O R

Thats every single day for me and I hate it so much, even small little things I just overthink and then I just wanna curl up in a ball and stop existing

Here before it blows

I have a problem projecting people's reactions to me on myself. As the gospel truth. People's negative reactions.

Word for the word the same as the comment above it.

Facts

Same

Same

You can have very happy and good life without interacting with mostly stupid people, so it is not true.

Fr😔

I felt that too

And "why do you talk so quietly" "your so smart- why don't you put your hand up and just answer the question"

Honestly

Emily Sank for real

That is so true when someone asks that question I don’t know what to say and feel awkward and then it is quite and it becomes even awkward

epic9yearold gamer same

When you want to go to therapy because you're pretty sure you have social anxiety but you don't want to tell your parents because you're sure they'll only answer "you're just imagining it"

@@Len-nl2jf yeah my mom's just gonna ground me for even suggesting that i have something like anxiety without her telling me. She'll just end up ranting about how she knows me and that she just KNOWS that i don't have it.

Desta Melaku I think if my dad knew I had social anxiety he’d be supportive of me and not judge me for it. He got a call from my school saying that I’m gonna be in a program or something and that I’m gonna be in classes with fewer students because I hated being in big classes. But I really hope your mom could understand you and listen to you, hope everything works out

Oh my gosh ikr

It takes me 7 years to break my fear and go to therapy... Seven... years....

Relatable 😢

Or peeping through a crack in the door to make sure a vehicle or no one is around and then you make a run for it to your destination.

Sameee

wtf i read this the same time she said it but same💔.

this is all to true and its sad

What we can do to help people with social anxiety to relax a little bit when talking? I don't have this, I'm just very shy, but I can talk with people with a little more effort, so I don't understand you guys, but I'm trying to... How can I help? If someone with social anxiety try to talk with me, so I don't scare them, or I don't know... make things worse? Or if I see someone alone with this, should I try to talk? Better not? Give me advices, to smooth life for you guys!!

@@hellencristinamarcelino9910 Just smile while you talk and be nice 😊.

Indeed 😔

True, sometimes I feel like I live in another parallel dimension and that's why others can't understand it. It sucks that they put pressure on you since you put pressure on yourself all the time because of your social anxiety.

I can feel you:))

Same

same

Same

How relatable 😅

Me neither

I know

@thot holy shit i commented that in my sleep

i am so sorry y'all had to witness what comes out when i roll around on my phoen 💀

Ikr

Omg same 😭

same😭

Same 😥😥😥😭😭😭😭😭

But they are. When you're in the car, don't you also look at them? And yes, everyone is making assumptions. But so what? That's human behavior. And remember: you'll never see them again. So fuck it. Let them stare.

they are

Me too 😢

It's hard I know, but don't give up. Sometimes I think my life would be better spent if I went out and helped people in need all day every day and just forget about myself and everything else.

Go the other way. Stop saying “What do people think of me?” Start thinking “What do I think of them?” And heal any trauma based around social rejection. Let yourself feel the pain and eventually you will accept it.

damn, i’m in the same boat, 29 without a career due to dropping out of college. i wear a mask to work, even though it’s 2023, didn’t have the courage to not wear it. 😢 worse part is people know im socially anxious as i never make eye contact with anyone. taking some new medication, though… hopefully it helps

@@pieceofpie5402 it's good if you can practice making eye contact with strangers on the street. It can seem hard at first but it gets easier, then just smile when they make eye contact with you. just try a little bit each day

this is true

I still cant do it. But...Music and Art does.

that's true, it started to improve when I started to be gentle to myself, loving yourself even with your flaws is the best start to work on these flaws

Its too hard to do that cuz i feel like everything i do and think is weird and wrong 😭

Same

me too!

And if they leave you on read you think of all the things you did to turn them off

My best friend said once to me that before she got to know me, she'd thought that I'm boring, so this kind of fear is even greater to me

mee too!

Thermal Paste I was always told I was shy when I was younger. Turns out it manifested into social anxiety...

​@@williamknudsen4856 True. The teacher keeps saying that I'm shy, when I really do want to speak to others with confidence but can't because fear takes over. I hate it when teachers pick on me to say something that I clearly am uncomfortable doing. I over-analyze that people will just judge me if I ever said anything.

I am not even shy. I am so extroverted. I'd just wish these thoughts wont hold me back.

Thermal Paste ughhh i hate that☠

Thermal Paste Hell yes. None on my family members understand...

I don't think my face is attractive that's why I feel better with mask.

Samee but now that the pandemic is over..I can‘t wear one because nobody is doing it and I don‘t want people to stare. I had to put all my courage together to stop coming to school with a mask anyway.

I hate people attention on me 😅

nah that would gather more attention

yea, it felt A LOT BETTER

Oceane imperfect and human are we

is something anyone could seeeeeee

*its* *something* *anyone* *can* *seeeeee*

Because it's so trueeee

Why did I sang that in my head?

My friends left because they stopped talking to me and I was too afraid to talk to them

Same

Yep same reason

What the fish.! I never realised that before.!

Okay edgelord

The problem is not in "standing out", but actually being lonely and basically sacrificing your life, hopes and dreams to an irrational fear...

„oh i didn‘t even know she is here too“ **laughing**

@@mustis_fangirl7721 Ooooooh yes every time I eat with my family.

Yeah, i want to kick their ass

oh he can looking to my faceeeee *_*

The worse😭

Alex J Alex J You have no idea how much I relate to this, without even making a mistake , by just talking to people, I can't look at them in the eyes thinking that they'll laugh at my personality and how weird I am, and sadly, I end up acting weirder and feel extremely embarrassed about it knowing that it"s the only way for me to escape the situation and that I'll redo it again and again.

Alex J that part hit me so hard because honestly that's what I think

Unluckiest Creature Alive, HeyItsKyra ! Me too, when I heard those words, I was like "That's me, literally me". I have a really good memory, so I think that everything I do is embarrassing and everyone will remember it till I die. So I'm constantly nervous. But the truth is that no one cares. I wish I could see that, but I don't.

Alex J I completely understand what you're talking about, and the worst thing about anxiety is wondering if you'll ever be understood or feel normal again, so here's a small piece of advice that I hope would help you in that case, a gentle reminder that the bad feelings will eventually go away can work wonders because you'll remember to anticipate that better time, it's like a beacon of hope. Well then, may god help you feel calm whenever you're most anxious, stressed, and worried, and may your burdens get released and days be filled with peace.😊

Unluckiest Creature Alive That made me feel better, and it's so nice of you that you wrote an answer! Thank you very much! Really!

Omg I think the same thing like people can see me breathing in and out and will think I’m weird or something:

Same

bruh, thats exactly how i was feeling yesterday

Yep

Exactly. I always just sit in my room crying for what feels like forever and decline when my friends ask if I want to play with them. I’m only 12 am I normal? :(

I feel the same ! And also, when I'm thinking about my crush, it's like there is a ticking clock in my head. Counting every day that goes by without me taking action/making the first move. It goes: tick... Tock... Tick..... Tock..... Tick.... Tick.... Tock.....

@@Allie-Bo-Ballie one thing I've recently realized as an introvert with social anxiety and a thing that is currently helping me battle the stress and sadness, is realizing that I am completely normal and not alone in this, and so are you! Social anxiety doesn't make us any different, doesn't make us freaks or anything, doesn't make us lower or worse, even though we often think like that. You're really not alone in this, i get your struggles and many other people do! There's so many people in our environment that we may not even be aware are struggling with the same exact issue and just want to naturally cover it up, just like us. And even if there's people that won't ever understand the issue of a person with social anxiety, they still have their own problems to deal with, literally everyone has some issues, some are more severe, some are less, but in the end we all go through similar things often without realizing. So yes! You're completely normal and fine, don't forget, you're not alone in this, there's so many other people which can relate to this issue, people your age, older people, people in your environment or simply most people in this comment section!

Yeah I definitely think that's how social anxiety starts for a lot of people. You try what you think is right but then it doesn't work so it wasn't right after all? What else am I doing that's not right? And you get in this spiral of overthinking bam, social anxiety in the house

@@rafaelac.1643 Yeah hahaha and it sucks especially if your job is a manager 😂

@@mikeea.15 damn, I'm sorry 😅😅. Hope you're able to overcome this!

@@rafaelac.1643 hahaha thanks 😁 you too.

This is sooo true

You are so beautiful

@@idontknow1bro Thanks & Happy New Year ❤🙂

The feeling comesli ke a sharp knife of shocked then it comes in all my body of sadness and fear i expienced tat to much sadly

And then you try to run but slipped

then you tense up and look all stiff and weird so you think everyone is judging you for how stiff you look when your walking so you start sweating and tears threaten to slip out and you get a lump in you throat and everything becomes blurry and it gets hard to breathe and you feel like crawling up into a hole and never coming out.

@@rreverie. explained it perfectly!

I’m now homeschooling, but before then school was literally ruining me inside out because of my social anxiety and it’s the ‘small’ things like that that really just make everything so difficult.

same

Halima faisal omg SAME

literally same as my heart is beating out of my chest scared that my voice is gonna crack or i'm gonna pronounce a word funny while it feels like everyones eyes are locked on me

Forever5elena and coughing so many times before reading so your voice doesn’t crack, having extremely sweaty and shaky hands and your face turning so red while you’re reading so you try to hide your face with your hand or behind the book

Āññā ̊ i cant cough though because I’m afraid people will judge me for coughing too much

It's like you just tryna survive, not live. And it hurts really bad

Same 😢

Go to the gym

Therapy and drugs disguised as medicine won’t ever help you. Social anxiety is an extreme vitamin deficiency in B , iron ,& vitamin D. Get a sun room, exercise sweat eat healthy . One step at a time, say “hi” to a stranger in public today for no reason. If not in person than yell it out the window in a random city or wave, baby steps and work up to a compliment , then work up to joining a conversation

@@nicoleymacaroni I will surely try these all , thank you

Learn to hate your enemies, stand by the friends you have, even if it's just one, and don't give a sh*t about people that don't care about you much either. The system is often designed to keep you small, you are supposed to do what others tell you without questioning it and individuality has a low value in general. Whatever you do is wrong and don't dare to come up with own ways. But that way you can never find value in yourself, all others feel superior to you and there is always this what-if-I-fail. It's not easy to get rid of this if you were shaped that way when you were a child or teen. Also there is some percentage of people who are in fact different from the like 90% of the rest.

OMG YESSS. I also do this at family events

@@taylor8153 at family events I'm always the one taking photos so I don't have to be in them 😂

Sameeee!! I would feel so bad if I asked them to move bc I overthink it

So true😅...

Almost everybody does this. Quite normal.

Same

Yep I’m with ya

Seriously. I was not expecting her to list out my entire thought process. Bit of a frustrating realization lol.

Same

Sup my dude

me too :(

How did u heal

Please tell how you healed

same bro.

Sammme

My dad used to treat me badly and i was bullied from some bad students 3 years of middle school that's the main cause of my social fears , what about u?

tabib mohamed dhia literally the exact same reason

@@kylajayne8241 hope u get the power to break those fears ❤

Brownieb B but it’s true kinda, not the lazy part, but the phone part it’s true, that just keeps us away from the world, but thing is we kinda want that and we don’t, it’s a weird contradiction 😕

i guess our mom are secretly twins

sara wong lmao in that case, nice to meet you cousine😂

@@alejandragabrielforqueda5495 think about what you said again. Internet exists.

I SWEARR GDDFV

Bro same and because of that I used to get picked on Most times they would be like she's a dummy and then my friends would say something to me to prove to them that I can talk.

ikr

@Clarissa damn yes. same.

A guy in my class told me that yesterday :/

ugh I know right, people always say you're so quiet, why don't you say anything, or talk it's not that hard. But it IS

Or “why don’t you speak up” when I have to give a presentation 😭 Also, F the people who can’t understand that we hate talking in front of others! Also, the fact I have a high-pitched voice makes me feel self-conscious whenever I even have to utter one simple reply. Hence, the mumbling...

That's so irritating 😬

I used to just laugh, but its getting annoying..

My teacher always used to say ‚Ohh you can actually talk ?!' and I was just like please shut the hell up

alwine mendes oh wow and ur so pretty I’d never expect u to have it

That happens to me alot, and a few days a girl said "I didn't know she could speak"

same

Yay you wrote it

Holy shit that’s me 😭

oh gosh same here

same

ME TOO 😭

@@lamargames3940 I’m sorry. We don’t deserve to go through this 🥺💓

@@Katherine-cs6dc yes😔♥️

Same and my friends joke about having anxiety and are like imagine having anxiety and it makes me feel upset because my anxiety makes my life miserable and I cry about it all the time

@@3gymnasticsgirls4 me too girl🥺😔 I hope you feel better love xo

Yeah same but I have to put on fake smile if I ever have small talk

Sameeeee

small talk is exhausting

Small talk - vomit.

Sameee

💯💯

and makes you hating socialy normal people and wishing their death

So true I get an improvement about that aspect and know I can see All the opportunities I lost and it hurts a lot but now I can be happy I can be alive again

@@Az-gv4bj this is so mee lmfao

I felt that on my soul

Feel ya

I don't even have to be in public. When I'm alone in my room I'm still feeling like judged

Sometimes i tried not to think that i'm going to be judges by the way that i drees etc. But i do feel my heart pounding like crazy wich i can't stand so i tried to walk fast and get out of there

I eat really fast even when I'm alone because it's just a reflex at this point. The faster I do things, the less time people are paying attention to me for. It causes acid reflux so I'm trying to stop, but it's hard to do.

@@bihayalimyok300 From someone with social anxiety, maybe you feel like you're being judged because you're subconsciously judging yourself. Try not to be so hard on yourself. I notice I feel most anxious when I'm showing a side of myself that I'm insecure about meanwhile, the other person isn't even paying attention to whatever it is at the time.

Nice man I feel better too

mallory murphy IKR OMG

Walking in ANYWHERE and everyone's head turns. It is THEE worst feeling ever. I go into panic mode...which makes them stare more...which makes me panic more....which makes them stare more...which makes me panic more. Never ending cycle. I would never turn around and look at someone who just walked in......1 I don't care..... 2 I would be too anxious to look anyway.

I've never been tardy

yess..exactly i am Engineering student and i am 22 but i am severly afraid of doing prezentation, or even to walk normaly around people who are just boys and girls of same age...! i am very afraid of starting any conversation with even classmates..i cannot talk to girls.. i lost my close friends, i failed at one subject and got year down(wasted year) i cannot talk to anyone about all this and i am depressed and hopeless worried about my future... i dont know why i just type all this sorry😓

omgg yes that's why I try to come at like recess or a free period lmao

Omg yes

I wait for them to stop talking, or leave. then I dare to come out

True..

Alejo Me at university right now living in student accommodation! When I need to cook and I’ve got my hand on the door handle ready to go to the kitchen, but I hear talking in the kitchen so I just mentally battle myself like “I need food! But there’s so many voices out there... but health! But awkwardness...” I leave my hand on the handle for ages til the noise dies down, sink to the floor and breath slowly for a bit, then go and eat. If it’s like one or two people at most, and I can hear who they are? If I know who they are and know I’m better at talking to them than other flatmates when we’re alone, I’ll probably manage to leave my room, even if I don’t say much, I’m better at talking to just one or maybe two people than talking in groups where I just feel left out. It just means there’s more opportunities to improve my social skills cause they have nobody else to talk to. But omg I spend so much time with my hand of my bedroom door handle feeling anxious because of loud flatmates on the other side. If I hear laughing it makes me really sad and makes me dive into thoughts like “they’re laughing and having fun... and look at me, hiding in my room. If I was more confident, I could be out there. Laughing with them...”

Alejo me too😞

Exactly...😭

Yup

Man thanks for putting my feelings in words

@@cherrymydear Worst Advice

@@nandozaw8453 alright then show me how to give advices

I never wear my headphones in public. I like to know what's going on around me and not be too distracted and vulnerable.

I always leave my headphones on my head when I'm in public. Even if I'm not listening to music, I'll still have it on my head at all times to avoid interaction.

i wouldnt say i use it to avoid social interaction i just simply love listening to my bangin tunes all day long...thats what theyre for

Everything you do in public, with headphones feels less awkward

im always scared the music is too loud

Better for the earth.

Sameeeeeeee

Go eco and bring a fabrinc bag, you can store it tiddy in your pockets (hope that helps)

I make people I know do it for me

Always bring bags with you

I felt that 🗿 The sentence I always got from the boys when I talked to them and regret

Y.E.S I have a naturally quiet voice so ppl tell me to speak up ALL THE TIME. And it feels weird to talk louder than that because it makes me sound weird and then I get self conscious and insecure so I usually choose not to talk at all

always in class. the teachers pick me WITHOUT ME RAISING MY HAND and then i say something and then they are like “i cAn’T hEaR YoU” and i speak up and the answer is wrong then i start blushing and in the worst case they even point it out and i’m just there like AHHH

EXACTLY I have a kinda quiet voice but sometimes people will just keep saying speak up and I’m like I ammmm

They say "CaN yOu sAy hEllO??"

😘

Is it possible to overcome social anxiety?

@@shrfshn2004 Yes. I did. It's allll about changing your mindset and changing the way you view yourself and others. It is really hard and I had to go through a lot but I am gradually finding ways that I can mentally cope with my anxiety so I can do the things I really want to do in life.

exactly.

and when I do be confident, it results in an awkward silence..

I remember when my mom said that to me, thanks mom it totally worked🙂

Trot

My ‘close friend’, Emma, what I should really acquaintance, when I told her I had social anxiety (over messages) in later August, I shared with her the symptoms of the disorder, and she immediately self-diagnosed and said: “we both have a lot in common... i think i have social anxiety too, a mild case”. However, this was, is and never will be true. I see her communicating with our friends confidently, loudly and with full eye contact/etc, as well as with her family on her phone. She doesn’t stutter, and her oral presentations (for assessments) are pretty great and clear. Soon I allowed Emma to tell my other close friend, Cami, about my problems with social anxiety, but that didn’t go so well. Emma had made my condition look mild and ‘easy to get over/overcome’: Emma: Emily has social anxiety, and I have it too, but a mild case, that’s why she’s quiet. Cami: Oh.. I see... she is really quiet, you can be too, that’s fine. Cami is beginning to drift away from me and talk to other friends in our group more, and she kind of tries to run away/hide from me so she doesn’t have to talk to me all the time, because I’m ‘clingy’ (which I kind of am). Also, I’m genuinely very pissed right now, because where in the hell do you show any symptoms of social anxiety, Emma? You told Cami you had social anxiety too? A mild case? Or are you just diagnosing your mild case of shyness as a mild case of social anxiety? You’ve made Cami as well as yourself look as if social anxiety is easy and straightforward to overcome, as if it was mild shyness. It’s much worse than that. Don’t suddenly self-diagnose yourself with social anxiety because you haven’t been talking to people as much today - that was just a like ‘one-time’ thing. Compare and contrast yourself throughly with the symptoms, don’t be so straightforward. Emma and Cami don’t really talk to me much nowadays, unless if we sit next to each other in our classes or they needed something from me. Now at lunch I sit near the group, but alone and silent. Thanks for making social anxiety look like mild shyness that can be overcome very *easily!* Thank you so much Emma, I appreciated that!!! (Emma and Cami are just random names I used, not their real names)

I feel you : (

sameeejdjsjs

Same

Yup😕

Same

Leila omg😂😂

😂😂

Or no one would talk to each other

I'd stand outside and pace trying to reverse how I enter or stand or sit. Worse if I'm late and everyone stares at me and I end up standing up awkwardly trying to figure out where to go. And end up standing with a group of acquaintances. Then they realise how awkward I am then I get nervous and start panicking

OMG HAHA 😂XD

Same

That's why I never raise my hand up

Sameeee but i was introverted before i had my period but confident when i was really young

Its like it been almost half of my whole life i had social anxiety alrdy it been that long

it's worse when you're that 'smart' kid in the class

True

true

fax

THIS

People just make everything worse.

Same one time in school I raised my hand and a classmate said „ohhhh Alexa u can raise your hand?“ I directly stopped raising my hand and didn’t speak for the rest of the lesson...

“YOU TALK? OH MY GOD YOURE GROWING UP!!!” *me who’s ready to strangle their throat:*

'so you *have* a mouth??!' is the most annoying thing ive ever heard in my life

IKR! I CAN RELATE TO THIS SO BAD It gets irritating sometimes

ikr or they just look at me weirdly

Right!?

i mean its definitely possible to be an extrovert and still have social anxiety

@@merrychristmas9598 I've been that person It's been an awful year and a half, but now, thanks to therapy, I'm cured I mean, almost...

halcyon you can’t ‘cure’ anxiety, only simply help it. There’s no cure.

@@JoiieeJo why?

moon :3 omg same

Same...

Me too.... I have really bad social anxiety

Same u.u

same lmao

junkookie would'nt want u to feel this way u know army..

jungkooksdumplings I always think about everything I say, but I still screw up, I thought my classmates were disgusted by me because I had a cold and kept blowing my nose every 2 minutes but in reality they weren’t.

Ты наверное меня не поймёшь, так как я пишу на русском языке. Но я бы хотела узнать, ты мальчик или девочка?

Goswami .Vidushi ooo hi Army 💜

jungkooksdumplings relatable

well, it doesnt get better in college...at least not for me....

Bro this is me,im so scared to need to go for there tomorrow😔

The problem with highschool is you're stuck their with the same people for years. Out in public my social anxiety isn't as bad because I don't really care what people I'm never going to see again think of me, but in school you have to go back and see them the next day. Deep down, I don't really care what people think of me, but my anxiety tells me I should and then I end up caring. The moment someone even notices me I get anxious.

@@bruh1214 that's the reason i prefer online

@@bruh1214 right. And i prefer a place has older people than younger one.

I really fucking hate when this happens

I'm guessing it's a weak attempt that's literally begging for everyone to ignore you lol. But to be honest, even normal pple get ignored and talked over every now and then. It's very normal. Only difference is they don't imagine negatively or too much into it, or see it as an attack on their self-identity etc.

Naomi The Not so iconic shishter THIS

WORST FUCKING THING

Omfg i hate when this shite happens

I know it really sucks

I feel you 😭😭😭.

Praise Max even though he isn’t above us. People like this usually have the lowest IQ, and end up on the bottom of the food chain. The reason people who have social anxiety tend to be smarter and more artistic is because these people like to know how and why things work. When they can’t figure it out, that’s where the social anxiety part comes in... fear of the unknown if you will.

U are cute though

I used to feel like that too. But NoFap cured me.

This has worked for me in the past. I've struggled to be more social this year though, I guess just out of laziness to put myself out there. But also friendships/relationships always seem to drift away and so I have less motivation to keep trying.

Also good on you for making yourself go out there and be more social.

So me😂

Same, but I don't want it 😖

hi you explained my life😃😃

if i tell my mom im in depression she will not care

@@babiefanai1017 thank you

I relate soo much it feels so good when u drink and feel the embarrassment and anxiety go away:(

This happened to me today I was finally feeling ok and did my make up and dressed up and then family started saying how I look like I’m trying to be sexual and how I need to act like a lady and it ruined my whole day:/

It happen a lot

@Ruby Wallace That not stupid! It makes a lot of sense. Since you feel confident showing people your face without having your hair cover it!

This happened to me, I felt great about myself and felt I looked cute until someone said “it looks like you haven’t slept”

@@autumnolguin5329 I bet you looked great ❤️

Same here

Thats so true

ok imagine if you are walking on the streets and ou saw somone talking. do you judge him and thing that he is a weirdo ? no cuz that is not how humans act and btw dont feel judged people got places to be. somthing to do they probably didnt even look at you. so dont feel judged unless you are doing somthing bad

Same.

Yeah,when it happens i starts to be nervous and walk weirdly

I'm guessing it's a lot easier getting dates as a socially awkward woman, but imagine getting dates as a socially awkward man. You can't unless it happens by accident.

I've had this feeling, makes me feel like the dumbest person on earth and I think everyone will make fun of me and remember it "hey remember when that weird kid got the question wrong! Haha!" Sounds a bit dumb when I type it out..

I know right! It's absolutely terrifying. It's happened to me before and it was very embarrassing. 😖

Fr

I used to feel this way back then. But trust me, they don't really care at all :)

that’s why i never raise my hand and it got to the point where i cry if the teacher tells me to read something without me raising my hand.