Very sensitive topic....and to be v honest there are too many heartless people who say.... Akyli kaisay rhti ho ... Ma to ek din na rah skun husband k baghair ... For all such heartless people... Koi b Khushi say akyla nhi rhta ... Majbori ma rhta h...

sir thanks ye video bht zada zarori thi ham overseas ki lie

ma sha Allah. i was thinking about this issue from last 3 years as my husband is out of country. JazakAllah sir

Ma shaaa Allha ma shaa Allha Sir u have covered all the things in very short time nd limited words… U also described my situation hopefully many people agree with u…

Ya Allah pak jo jo pareshan hai uss ki sari pareshaniyan dur ferma 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼or jo jo bimar hai uss ko shifa atta ferma🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

I am one of them my husband is in UK and I am here with three kids my younger daughter haven't met even her father please pray we get together soon

Khush kismat hai wo saks jiska rozgar wohi hai janha uska ahloayal hai.. 😑

Very important topic, jazakallah sir

Very very very good Massage For Everyone Mashaallah Allah bless you Ameen Yarbulalameen ☝️☝️☝️🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

You have covered a brilliant and very sensitive topic. Many hundred and thousands of families has been destroyed . But it’s so hard not easy to earn a decent earning in Pak ( 50 to 80 k Pak Rs ) . People face challenges . They have to go through a lot not only in Pak but living in a foreign country . In my humble opinion it’s the male who bear and suffer a lot, I know it’s debatable and many people won’t agree. Thank you Dr Sb. جزاكم الله بالخير!

Allah pak zindagi sahat wali tandrusti wali atta farmai ameen

Am also outside the country but inshallah i will arrange my spouse AS soon as possible

100 % true that if job n family is at one place, is a blessing. Thank u sir, all u said is right.

I like very much how sir started and ended with the Hadith. The answer is right there. I think if a man goes off to a foreign country and ends up there for many years there is always the danger that he may start thinking he is a bachelor. Therefore always better for husband and wife to live together. Then there is the problem of should the wife live with her in-laws while her husband is away or go to her parents home. These are extremely difficult decisions.

Sir g bht achi Tara ap n explains kar da

20 din se akaili hon 😭😭😭 ALLAH PAAK husabnd k paaaas le jaye ameeeeeen.. Newly married no babies 😔

door rehty rehty physically and emotionally dono itna gap aa jata hai k shadi sirf naam ki bach jati hai...

Crore ropy ki bat ki ap ne aj tak es bary ma aisi video ni dekhi. Thanks

Sir please make a detailed video on this topic. Thank you so much

Sir its seems like you made this video for me

Best point of whole conversation,,,,,khawateen ka kisi productive kaam main khud ko involve kerna......aik bara masala hai yeh

As usual zabdast 👌

Doctor sahab I am a huge fan of yours for me your videos are very short I want to listen you for hours and hours

You are right❤

Finally mera question jo me ne kai kai bar pochha aaj address hoa, but Sir it's really really incomplete answer. No one can satisfy with this answer. Let me requote my question so u can make a detailed video on this: please isko bohat serious lijiyega it's not only me but hundreds of thousands people are going through this issue, bus har koi pochhny ki himat nahi kar pata:: Sir main job k silsily may Dubai may rehta hun, long distance relation ki waja sy meri family life may bohat c complications hen, wife k sath bhi or bachon k sath bhi, main proper time dene ki koshish karta hun, lekin phir bhi bachy meri baat ko itni importance nahi dety, wife bhi apna rona roti hy k bachy akely meri zimadari to nahi etc.. Sir mujhy mere iss issue par aik detailed video banaiye, k long distance may kesy spouses apas may behter communicate kary or relationship strong kare. Or second bachon ki tarbiyat may main kesy aik effective role play karun, kiss andaz sy bachon sy baatain karun k wo meri baat ko importance dain, because mere pass voice or video call k ilawa koi or option nahi hy.. Apki videos dekhne bohat pareshan rehta hun k kahin mere bachy mujh sy kharab na ho jain or main kal ko afsoos na karun. Or ye akle mere aik insan ka masla nahi, mera ye sawal lakhon logon ki taraf sy hy jo meri tarhan long distance relationship may hen or pardes may nokariyan kar rahe hen. Ap k jawab ka muntazir rahunga. Jazakallah 😥

Jo مرد حضرات ye bol raha hum کوشش kren gy bv ko b sath le jain, i really appreciate your efforts pls apny maa baap ko b bahir le jaen onka b to ap pr haq ha ni to wapis aa jaen

U r right sir ......mn b isi wja se depration mn rehti hun

I was also outside the country, Alhamdulilah i took right decision at right time (just after marriage) i quit my Job, came back to country with no other job options and empty pockets i started my business here with Zero Investment.

Sir I agree with you 💯

Assalam Walakum Very well said

logo k comment prhti thi to rooh kanp jati thi. aj khud ye ho gya mere sath

Aslamoalikum very nice topic .sir pher guide krian aik single parent yani aik man apny bachon k terbyiat kasy kary .m husband bhe bahir hoty hain .m 2 bety hain mashallah se

Best topic

Mujhy 2 month hue ... but family k liye krna prta h majbori me inshahAllh 2 3 sal bad hum bi sath ho gy inshahAllh 😊

Aoa sir I always watch your video. I want you to discuss one topic which Im facing. Siblings gap / relationship my daughtes have 4yrs age gap elder one is not happy she feel left out all the time. we living abroad so there is no one for her like grandparents. Please suggest how can i develop a bond between them. Thankyou.

Mashaallah

salute sir

صل الله عليه وسلم

Helpful video

Great SIR 👍

بہت عمدہ

I am one of them my husband is out of country me and my kids are alone here in Pakistan it's being 2 years we didn't meet each other even my two year son has not seen his father other birth

Aslamo Alikum Warahmatullah wabarakatuhu Plz is mozu pr bhi bat kere. Jo hesband wafat paa geye jen us ke bache hen choti age ke, 5, 6 years ke, aur kuch bache teen age ke hen, to sir kuch is bare main bat keren, bachon ko kis tarha is duch se bahir nikala jae aur us ke sath kese mother akeele behter deal kr dakti hen. Plz is bare main tafseeli bat keren. JazakAllah

Beautiful ❤️

sahi kaha ap na sir

Sir singl women n berti hoi omr k sath singl rehny valy person k jo problem hoty n zehni jo presher hota hy singl man or wlmen p or esay m es trha ki orat ko jo tanha hy esay case hoty hn inhy kya krna chahye plz es p roshni daly or hal btayn

Sir you video is knowledge full

Jazak Allah sir 🙏 Mery husband bhi 9 years se UAE main hain jany ka pata hota hy lakin aany ka nhin 3 3 saal guzar jaty hain jab maa hukam deti hy to aaty hain warna nhin mera blood pressure high rehta hy aur thyroid ka bhi problem ho gia hy bohot preshan hon 😑

Sir u r great.

v insightful

shadi ka prof. pahli baar dekha h

😭😭😭😭 yahi dukh kha rha k rozgar apnay mulk mei ni ho pa rha 😭 Allah sohnay nay rizq pardes mei likha😭

Assalamualaikm ..... from Bihar

"I'm facing a tough dilemma. Getting married in November and returning to Saudi Arabia as an expat for two months after. I've built a separate house but have two unmarried brothers and elderly parents. I'm worried about leaving my wife alone without family support as she isn't from my family. Financial constraints prevent me from bringing her to Saudi Arabia. Any advice on how to navigate this situation would be greatly appreciated."

TRUE

ASSALAMOALIKUM. Jo wife apne husband ky sath other countries main rehti hain apni sari family say dor pardaies main or husband b ghair say bahir b na jane dy to woh Kya kry pardaies main plz help women

nice video

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Overall appreciate your effort Just one point it’s not actually correct just studies finances or back home needs isn’t just all we need humans what he is saying about children because i have gone through the situation where my father was away for around 15 years of beginning of my life than after 15 yo you are already somewhere ahead of adult life so after rejoining we especially my siblings and me have real problem relating to my father, we haven’t built a good relationship and such a awkwardness it’s just insane socially disconnected to each other we don’t know each others personalities so we are not used to each other which caused most of the time tense or conflict like situation in family. I never share anything personally or else with my father on other i feel so easy to talk to my mother like how was my day and my problems etc plus we have to be in limits or we ourselves create boundaries like the time father is at home we feel like in security surveillance or something like that so exactly i am not in my confort zone and wherever he is any home we feel confort/relive. Now i am 21 and have siblings younger than me so as i saw in my life what i have faced not a catastrophe for sure but also not a good thing for mental health or supportive point of view when we were in need of father and he wasn’t there now we adapt to that situation so most of the time i feel sad whenever my father is suffering from something but i don’t have that courage, go to see him and ask him about if it’s all right? I will never do such thing whatsoever the situation be in my coming life. It’s a devastating experience and i really demotivate every brother who wants to leave his family behind for economic reasons or etc. You dont know the price of value time you gave to your family. Now as of many relatives we are in Europe so we have safe secure future but every society has its own pros and cons and the life here is robotics 8-5 work. Here yes people are making money yes off course but to achieve such a mental fatigue life you have lost such valuable moments of life. I recently met a newly married brother to which i gave advice to never leave her spouse back home, rather do some legal process and take her with you wherever you want to adjust abroad or else you rest here where you are and be patient the amount of money (Rizq) Allah has written in your life you will have it just do hard work and no excuses as i have seen many people always looking for excuses there back home.

Assalamualaikum can i get the hadith reference?

I miss you my hubby long distance relationship😭

Good

Main 8 sal se akeli rah rhi apni 3 bachon k sath me aik din b nhi rah skti thi husband k Siwa lkn majboriyan

Nice

If the government of our country is in order and the condition of the country is good, then no other country should come.

Mera shohr baher Hy Mai joint family mai rehti ho beti Hy our gar Mai bachy Marty Hy koi mana Karny wala nh Hy mana kre to sab naraz hoty Hy es Ka hal batay

Mae b es wajas sa depression mae gaye ...ab nekl nhe paa rahe ...

My husband is also in another country and what can be more difficult than that? 😕

Kash hum log rishton ki qadr kr saken.mere husbad sath rehte hovay b sath nai. He is always on Mob. Mob lock is secret. After several tries now I have taken step back and I ignore him. I am not spending time. Life is passing us.

Dr Sahab Aoa... My husband is in Karachi... He is an engineer in Atomic energy... I have two kids... My husband came after every 2-3 months... I have done MBA but my husband and in-law don't allow me to work. My issues is my husband even when came he have no time for me and our children... When he is back he went to his family business with father and brother that's good but even after then he go with his friends came late.. 11 to 12 pm im waiting for him... I'm from outside not their relative so my in-laws don't allow me to attend marriages and other gatherings because their other daughter in law are from family and they have right... My husband understand but he didn't support me... I feel very depressing.... Please guide me...

Sir I have some problems help ke

Or ager jis ka ghar hi ho or wo 8 8 months guzer jaty wo nhi bolata apni biwi ko to wo biwi kya kery

Hum nay buhut suffer kia , hamaray father america mn thay aur hum Pakistan mn jawan huey, aaj tak hamara apnay father say acha relation nhn ban saka iss wsja se.

Mjhe b koi advice dy

ویسے بھی شریعت میں 3 ماہ سے زیادہ گھر سے دور رہنا منع ہے۔ روایات میں آتا ہے کہ حضرت عمر رض نے اپنی بیوی سے معلوم کرنے کے بعد کہ عورت خاوند کے بغیر کتنا عرصہ ذہنی و جسمانی طور پر فٹ رہ سکتی ہے، فوج میں قانون نافذ کردیا تھا کہ کوئی بھی سپاہی دنیا کے کسی بھی کونے میں ہے وہ تین ماہ بعد فوری گھر وقت دے۔ اس لئے علماء حضرت عمر کے بنائے قانون کو عام عائلی زندگی کیلئے بھی بنیاد قرار دیتے ہیں۔ شادی شدہ افراد کا گھر سے سالہ سال دور رہنا فطرت کے خلاف ہے۔

Abi tou mei husband k sth hi rehti but Mera yahan Dil nai lgta wapis Pakistan jana chachti hn

Sir bad me jo susral waly saloq karty hen bus kuch na pochin

Mara Abu bher rahta ta pher un ke Death ho gye mare Ami abu ke shadi 30 sal ka arsa thee jes ma Mara abu sirf 30 dfa aya hun ga. Muja apna Ami abu ka bara ma soch ka bhut duk hota ha.

وہ خواتین کیا کہتیں ہیں اور اپ کیا کرتیں ہیں اگے سے

Salam sir please do not make a video on Nishter Hospital incident But do some efforts on it🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭😭😭😭

Aesi Aurtein jo bewa ya talaq yafta hen ya phr apne husband se dor hen mujhse rabta kren INSHA ALLAH Sab theek ho jae ga

mere shohr bhi 4 saal se reh rhy or ab is bar aa k btaya k me ne dosri shadi kr li h

12 Sal akyli rahi jb ikathy huy to half mantle vala seen tha or hai 😢

My husband is outside ..we don't have children also...I am going through so much depression...

Me 22 year sy

Mery pahly husband ki 5 years pahly death ho gae the, second marriage ko 3 years hony waly hain, dosry husband k 3 bchy hain meri apni apni koi aulaad ni, husband 1 month rhny k bad out of country chly gy or m yaha bcho k pas rehti hn, husband shadi sy pahly 6 months bad aa jaya krty thy, jb sy mj sy shadi hue 1 bar b pakistan waps ni ay, m 3 years m buht depression ka shikar ho gae, aisa lgta h nafsiyati mareez bn gae, abi b kch pta ni husband ne kb ana h,. Corona k bad in k papers ka issue bn gya or abi tk msla solve ni ho rha

I wanna suggest my husband to watch this video....... 😐😐😐😐😟😟

Maira husband 14 saal sai bahar hai.

Jo affod b kr skta h wo b apni wife ko n la kr jya sat to kya kra

Q k mere husband sb se chhotey hn 2 jeth jethani sth rehtey 2saprete rehtey mjhe kis k pass rehna chahye maikey me ya Jo 2 jeth jethani sth rehtey hn ya mjhe APNA alag ghr rent pr ly kr rehna chahye maikey k qareeb

I also live in Pak without husband since 11 years... its realy tough nd unbearable if someone seriously think about it... I also have 2 kids..

Mjhe ye pochna h k agr saas susar hayat naa hn aur sb married Dever jeth saprate reh rhe hn tou biwi ko apne maikey me rehna chahye ya jeth ki family k sth

Mere pyary bahayo behno. Bat al mukhtisar ha. Dee's apna hi Acha ha. Pohky b hon to bv k sath. Nangy b hon to bv k sath. Moj karo zindagi mukhtisar ha. Paredes main Buda ho k any ka koi faida ni. Main 5 sal KSA Madina manawrah raha hon. Koi faida ni uder app bas pese Wali machine hain ger walon k liye uder.

socail

Mery husband USA mein Hein job ke waja sy her 6 months k bad atty Hein leikin sirf 2 weeks k leay Meri aik he beiti ha abhi koi our oulad nhe ha.mein job b Kerti hn leikin sary' gher ke zimadari akaily mujh per ha koi support nhe ha Meri beiti ke health ka issue ho yea Mera apna I am all alone to manage each and everything alone...ye sab mein ker tu rhe hn leikin Pakistan ka mashra aeisa nhe ha k aik akeili ourat ko asani sy jeeny ka Haq dy...mery husband is bat ko understand nhe kerty k USA or Pakistan ke life mein Kya ferq ha. wo samjhty Hein k ager wahan ourat sab kuch ker sakti ha tu yehn Kya masla ha...ourat ko independent hona chaheay.....mein aeisa Kya kern k onko ahsas ho k life is not easy for me being alone in Pakistan.

Husband bahir country jaty to earn kerny hain bt cheater bn jaty hain My personal worst experience which destroyed my life

Kon kon comments parhny aya hai😎

How to manage relationship after nikah only.....and the gap or years from nikah to getting married. Kindly cover the topic

Mery husband bahir gaey to ma un ki call ka buht Pyar sy intezar kerti thi bt he always avoided me Aik din mujy call kr k kaha kyun mujy call kerti ho ma Tum ko call kerta hoo koee????

Mujhe samajh ni ati k q shadi krty hen aisy log