Hi I would love a talk around how this impacts the person it happens to after a long term situation with it and how this is not just a romantic relationship thing that it happens from parrent to child, employees to bosses visa versa, friend to friend and this dynamic around flying monkeys, doormat'ed partners that defend the situation. Personally I've gotten less receptive of all types of "up-talk", and there's a difference between beeing critical around praise and getting angry and defensive because of it.

True. They Come in all colors.... Different personalities, different games ..

promosm