Love Dorsey: Deconstructing Toxic Relationships

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Relax And Take Notes Podcast

Relax And Take Notes Podcast

3 ай бұрын

Love Dorsey: Deconstructing Toxic Relationships! In this discussion we will uncover the issues and concerns surrounding day to day relationship matters stemming from single mother households, absent fathers, and the lack of accountability.

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@promayes8186
@promayes8186 3 ай бұрын
I stumbled across this show and I really love the fact that I did I've never heard of this guy that has this show but so far so good he's got a good thing going raising awareness to a very vital part of our black community I've never heard of this young lady but she is speaking facts and I like the fact that it was a nice constructive conversation with substance and purpose instead of a yelling match back and forth about two insecure people male and female yelling at one or the other saying how the black woman is to blame or the black man is to blame thank you brother for just having a nice adult mature conversation without power struggles thank you sister for presenting yourself as a young lady with class instead of male bashing I will black men but really just speaking in love for both black men and women so that we can get back to black family unit and work together with each other instead of falling for the tricks that have been thrown out for us to go against each other cuz that has been the problem for far too long. And thanks to the both of you for conveying this message in a way that everyone from Every Walk of Life in the black community can understand nothing went over my head or underneath me I understood exactly both points of view. The final thought I know a lot of what she touched on was difficult for black females to hear but it's nothing but the gut wrenching truth cuz we need to get to the bottom of it and fix it on our end cuz what we been doing is not working going against each other is not working and I'm with her I don't care nothing about being a modern woman I grew up with women allowing the man to be head of the household as nature intended I grew up with a wonderful father that my mom did not mind being submissive to because he was an excellent leader and she knew the order of things the same way he knew the order of things and he always treated my mom with the utmost respect and took pride and protecting his family and providing and guiding my brothers to know how to be men and they are excellent man because of it and I feel like I'm an excellent woman in my own right because of the example that I had in my mother is so important to have both in the house if all possible and I definitely Believe In traditional gender roles I don't care nothing about getting under no car fixing on a house. All of these Heavy Artillery jobs that men have to do most of the time I don't care to do it and do appreciate a hard working man so I definitely could understand what was being said about that . and the welfare system broke down the black family in our time.. this is a great show
@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast
@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast 3 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉
@oliver25ster
@oliver25ster 3 ай бұрын
​@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast you a smart brother man. You definitely good at interviewing. The other podcast that had love dorsey, didn't know how to interview, they were over talking her and interrupt her.
@J_Isabella
@J_Isabella 3 ай бұрын
One of the most powerful, constructive conversations I've heard in a while. Let's keep having these type of discussions 💯
@cookiesandpie4837
@cookiesandpie4837 3 ай бұрын
Facts
@RAV24FAR
@RAV24FAR 3 ай бұрын
😊😊😅😊 19:34
@MidwestBrotha
@MidwestBrotha 3 ай бұрын
You need to watch "We need to Talk" podcast then...this & that are very much on the same level....
@victormuhammad1393
@victormuhammad1393 2 ай бұрын
Grandma used to be 70 on assistance and helped raised babies. Now she’s 28 with the 14 year old daughter with a baby from a dude over 18!!
@Bdoe19
@Bdoe19 2 ай бұрын
I can listen to her all day. Dropping gems
@melanietheloyal1988
@melanietheloyal1988 2 ай бұрын
Yes I love this chic right here.
@coroywheeler2958
@coroywheeler2958 3 ай бұрын
Dope conversation she really understands both sides of the coin
@Yesimchanel
@Yesimchanel 2 ай бұрын
I remember dating someone who said “I just love being with you because you’re part Korean and you know how to treat a man, y’all Asians cater to your men” that shit made me look at him so poorly because huh? Don’t do that! I am the way I am because I know the struggles we face in our BLACK community and I rather lift up and not drag down. We as a community really do need to come together & change our viewpoints because the same black women you look down on are the same ones who like Love said birthed us. We have to have more love and camaraderie for one another. I’m not your typical mixed girl. I will fight everyone I know tooth & nail to have these types of conversations because WE ARE LOST as a whole. I value our black men & women and it’s time we spread that. Ain’t no way we should be looking outside of our race. Let’s change our experiences PLEASE!!
@nokings92
@nokings92 3 ай бұрын
Manhood is about doing what's necessary, without the expectation of being thanked, and being prepared for blame when things go wrong, even when blame is never productive.
@anitragilmore3239
@anitragilmore3239 2 ай бұрын
This woman is anointed by God. May she always be blessed and protected !
@Coco_Love
@Coco_Love Ай бұрын
We need each other …it’s that simple
@desireeg1441
@desireeg1441 3 ай бұрын
I wanna see her and Princella the Queen Maker have a conversation
@Divinelydriven8
@Divinelydriven8 3 ай бұрын
Me too I thought about that weeks ago
@The37344
@The37344 2 ай бұрын
Me too!!!
@janushomer9111
@janushomer9111 2 ай бұрын
princella the miserable-single-mom-maker
@BABBALUCCI315
@BABBALUCCI315 2 ай бұрын
Appreciate the maturity and honesty of this conversation 💯💪🏿
@georgechambers8912
@georgechambers8912 Ай бұрын
This is a great conversation for the black community. This lady is cooking and very attractive.
@Marywhite-pd1hw
@Marywhite-pd1hw 3 ай бұрын
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@Marywhite-pd1hw
@Marywhite-pd1hw 3 ай бұрын
@user-ul3px1ed9i Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@Marywhite-pd1hw
@Marywhite-pd1hw 3 ай бұрын
@user-ul3px1ed9i Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@mauricewiley7588
@mauricewiley7588 3 ай бұрын
Time......gets your over things like this
@keithwisdom1663
@keithwisdom1663 3 ай бұрын
Why did she leave? Examine yourself and do research.,. Maybe she is turned off by your strong desire to be with her Maybe you are not rich enough or maybe she thinks she can do better
@pauloskidane2819
@pauloskidane2819 3 ай бұрын
Chronichles of judah
@2befrank101
@2befrank101 3 ай бұрын
This is a incredible conversation!! Both men and women can benefit from this discussion if their willing to listen with a open mind 🙌🏾
@NellyMilligan
@NellyMilligan 3 ай бұрын
This was good, and honestly she needs a bigger platform so that the world can hear this!
@AJMac1
@AJMac1 3 ай бұрын
Would love to watch Love and Dr Umar talk.
@CarlLewis-xb4ce
@CarlLewis-xb4ce 3 ай бұрын
Let's just have these teachings flood the world. The understanding or lack of understanding can be simple starting with the understanding between MEN and WOMEN a lot of problems will be resolved
@jmbarnes87
@jmbarnes87 2 ай бұрын
I needed this! And I need to go apologize to my spouse. Thank You
@ObserveStoicism
@ObserveStoicism 3 ай бұрын
I always love Dorsey, found her before KS, started talking to women. Always spoke light to darkness.
@teachandinspire437
@teachandinspire437 3 ай бұрын
Its refreshing to hear her not using profanity every other word.
@neteraunkh406
@neteraunkh406 3 ай бұрын
First time listening to Love Dorsey. I must say today...she has a new fan!
@ah10t72
@ah10t72 3 ай бұрын
She probably the only chick I still have the same type of respect for. She still speak 💯 3 minutes into the vid
@promayes8186
@promayes8186 3 ай бұрын
Shout out to Queen Elder Miss Ali who was the pioneer of the very same message that this young lady is saying today much respect
@milliewinfield5919
@milliewinfield5919 3 ай бұрын
What a phenomenal conversation! Powerful truths. They hit it from every angle!
@A_lady_alwyz
@A_lady_alwyz Ай бұрын
She & Princella need to talk...that would be EPIC! #IYKYK
@caline626
@caline626 Ай бұрын
Ohh that’s what I’m waiting on!
@Mrs.Yates0417
@Mrs.Yates0417 Ай бұрын
Exactly! I would love to see that
@mistamone
@mistamone 3 ай бұрын
Men have to understand to pick women that's in their lane. I love Dorsey because she keeps It real. Men have to teach other Men about hiarchy and where their actually position in the dating market.
@akiria0628
@akiria0628 3 ай бұрын
I adore Love Dorsey! She is so real and raw! This is one of THE BEST podcasts I’ve watched ❤
@carolynanderson1779
@carolynanderson1779 4 күн бұрын
OMGosh how I wish I had this guidance and correction when I was a child having children. Great conversation very much needed
@chavislawrence2465
@chavislawrence2465 2 ай бұрын
This Is The Conversation OF THE YEAR So Far .... One That Can Save The Culture By Both Sides Being Accountable So WE Can Come BACK Together For The Future!!🦍👑
@Dunbar_Dynamics
@Dunbar_Dynamics 3 ай бұрын
When I say I love me some Love Dorsey‼️ I am in her book club and mentorship program! Have done plenty one on ones and zooms ❤ she hasn’t let me down ever 🤞
@keithwisdom1663
@keithwisdom1663 3 ай бұрын
Problem is that we should invite the experts who have actually researched and documented these facts. We discount the scholars who can prove the truth.
@desireeg1441
@desireeg1441 3 ай бұрын
Yes because what they’re saying sort of contradicts what scholars are saying about men and women biologically… what are these two backgrounds in education? Or are they just spitting opinions based off experiences?
@keithwisdom1663
@keithwisdom1663 3 ай бұрын
@@desireeg1441 seems like the scholars don't want anything to do with talking heads. They stay out at work and at school. Or perhaps the masses don't like smart
@GemaiyeSelene
@GemaiyeSelene 2 ай бұрын
This is a beautiful interview!💛
@user-mr1mq8ge1q
@user-mr1mq8ge1q 8 күн бұрын
These Problems have Existed Far Before "Social Media"
@tajefleming810
@tajefleming810 Ай бұрын
You guys should have y’all on show. The best podcast out here… why?! Because you guys actually provide real solutions and hold men and women accountable. Unlike these other podcast who only fuel this gender war between men and women.
@ItsOkayToBeHappy
@ItsOkayToBeHappy 3 ай бұрын
A+ I loved this conversation, thank you everyone involved in this production for the work you are doing!
@abbysrl12
@abbysrl12 3 ай бұрын
Love me some Love Dorsey ❤
@8a8yBleu
@8a8yBleu 2 ай бұрын
Amazingly raw conversation that needed to be had publicly! Loved every moment of it.
@MYCHELLE4EVA
@MYCHELLE4EVA 3 ай бұрын
Love this conversation. Thank both of you for having this hard conversation that nobody wants to talk about. Definitely an eye opener
@syddejbau
@syddejbau 3 ай бұрын
Excellent content… She is GODS CHOSEN ONE..
@aririyqueens4150
@aririyqueens4150 Ай бұрын
This conversation helps to bring change. I thank you both. I would love to converse and add to the wisdom. Beautiful!!
@mbrown7804
@mbrown7804 5 күн бұрын
These conversations. Podcasts should be held in the schools....how can yall.reach these street kids in Atlanta???? These slots is needed on 107.9 and V-103 instead of those dumb ass challenges. .etc. Shout out to "Let Go" the side pieces....to capture the culture 😊
@poohtoo33
@poohtoo33 3 ай бұрын
Great conversation very balanced!!!
@brownsugarmisha9936
@brownsugarmisha9936 3 ай бұрын
Love doesn’t miss ❤ this was so good and the host added great value as well 💯
@MichaelRoberts-yo1hz
@MichaelRoberts-yo1hz 2 ай бұрын
She’s Holding women accountable
@AsAFather_TV
@AsAFather_TV 3 ай бұрын
This was a phenomenal conversation! Salute to the both of you! 🫡🙏🏾💪🏾
@mellads86
@mellads86 2 ай бұрын
Can we talk about the adults that were raised by both parents and still have toxic traits
@victormuhammad1393
@victormuhammad1393 2 ай бұрын
We should but let’s address the toxic parents first then the environmental influenced inheritance.
@zackeryjasmine
@zackeryjasmine 3 ай бұрын
I love the conversation. I want to be clear when I say that men and women have to be accountable for relational issues. However, accountability starts 1st with men and then women. If you want to look at who raised the boy who became the man we see, you’ll find that there’s a mother who cannot do beyond what she knows (yet many do a wonderful job, considering the circumstances). you cannot look at the mother who raised a son without asking, “where’s the father”. You learn this even in the corporate world that part of leadership is assuming responsibility 1st. God said, “Adam where are thou”. Let’s deal with you first.
@mrskeeford
@mrskeeford 3 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@duanenonlyac
@duanenonlyac 3 ай бұрын
Fantastic conversation. I attended one of Love’s events last year and she is indeed in the trenches educating, motivating and inspiring people about real life issues so that we can one-by-one overcome the trauma’s our people have faced for decades. During that event I got the opportunity to meet her and she’s really genuine and down to Earth. Great video.
@ItssTDuhh
@ItssTDuhh 3 ай бұрын
Brought tears to my ears this whole podcast I hope this buss like kat Williams did ❤❤
@roydwiggins
@roydwiggins Ай бұрын
That comment 'they immitate what they precieve as power'. Deep.
@waltdiesel
@waltdiesel 3 ай бұрын
I love this woman!!!!!
@Thr33SixZer0
@Thr33SixZer0 3 ай бұрын
Every possible relationship is not a plausible relationship. Meaning just because yall can be togethe doesnt mean you should. If you are the type of man that cant deal with a woman out earning you... then DONT deal with a woman out earning you... its just that simple.
@richbabe7836
@richbabe7836 3 ай бұрын
Man I didn’t want this to end.
@HalosOrbit
@HalosOrbit 3 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this conversation
@SouthernSingingKitchen
@SouthernSingingKitchen 2 ай бұрын
If you don’t know Shahrazad Ali please look her up and read her books. Love Dorsey is making strides for us as well
@ishorneramsey4244
@ishorneramsey4244 3 ай бұрын
She is a bad women! she is speaking facts!
@amilcargonzalez6794
@amilcargonzalez6794 3 ай бұрын
Team love Dorsey for life
@marcusevans406
@marcusevans406 3 ай бұрын
Love Dorsey is needed
@pvnkpecan8106
@pvnkpecan8106 3 ай бұрын
Amen ❤ We need each other!
@reallyrell8892
@reallyrell8892 3 ай бұрын
Solid listen!
@Bdoe19
@Bdoe19 2 ай бұрын
I really hate that I am just now finding about this strong beautiful woman
@AuthenticallyThick
@AuthenticallyThick 3 ай бұрын
This was definitely needed. I appreciate yall for this one yall did yall big one came with facts knowledge and fawkin solutions I love it here❤
@BrokeTruckerGyal
@BrokeTruckerGyal 3 ай бұрын
She is so on point.
@user-iu4vy1nc1i
@user-iu4vy1nc1i Ай бұрын
Yes this is why I listen to love Dorsey been a fan for years ❤
@theblaqueowtpodcast
@theblaqueowtpodcast Ай бұрын
I love Love Dorsey so bad!! She really helped me through a lot! ❤❤❤
@keishakemp2065
@keishakemp2065 3 ай бұрын
Very helpful!!! Thank you for the love and concerns ❤
@mrdanshote
@mrdanshote 2 ай бұрын
i love the way she puts things i try to check all of her stuff out this was dope
@psalms91eva
@psalms91eva 3 ай бұрын
Deep! Thank you for this. Definitely sharing this on my FB page and sending to my children and family members. You two really broke this down. 🔥 🔥 🔥 ❤️
@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast
@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@alexismcaffee5658
@alexismcaffee5658 3 ай бұрын
She is so funny but real I can listen to her all day! Thank you Dorsey!
@skyrainna8332
@skyrainna8332 3 ай бұрын
Love Dorsey speak 🗣️ on it sis ❤💯
@ron3864
@ron3864 3 ай бұрын
I love everything they're talking about. And it's all real really good conversation.
@dirkezy
@dirkezy 3 ай бұрын
great interview!!!!!!!! i want love and charleston sit down too
@user-mr1mq8ge1q
@user-mr1mq8ge1q 8 күн бұрын
Thanks for Acknowledging
@noillcallyou
@noillcallyou 2 ай бұрын
The part where he put his woman through law school is true. They be looking to leave when they make more money. Then she turn around and won't help you get to that level because you the man you suppose to pay for everything.
@wallace245ful
@wallace245ful 3 ай бұрын
Every black woman needs to watch this
@imdoinbttrthnu
@imdoinbttrthnu 2 ай бұрын
I adore Dorsey. Been listening to her for a couple years.. and she rap well. Straight fact checker all day long ❤
@lesmichele39
@lesmichele39 2 ай бұрын
I’m just getting hip to her, I like her and will be checking out more of her content. I’m salty I never heard of her but better late than never
@kwekhu-ty7et
@kwekhu-ty7et 3 ай бұрын
Excellent topic excellent discourse blended template
@KarenDelores
@KarenDelores 2 ай бұрын
I am so thankful that this podcast is "non-ghetto" the last podcast she was on was N this and B that and the whole platform was not relatable for me. This is a breath of fresh air to listen to.
@kimberlyb6522
@kimberlyb6522 2 ай бұрын
You must not be familiar with her platform then 😅
@KarenDelores
@KarenDelores 2 ай бұрын
I am very familiar with it, she cleaned it up for this man and I appreciate the respect she has for him and herself on this one
@victormuhammad1393
@victormuhammad1393 2 ай бұрын
Those words don’t water down the message . She knows who she’s talking to
@derricadarling
@derricadarling 15 күн бұрын
Great building information for our community.
@J.O.561
@J.O.561 2 ай бұрын
Sista Ali and Love Dorsey 💪🏾❤
@jazlaflor
@jazlaflor 2 ай бұрын
From a digital marketing standpoint, this is a great hook…
@keeshawnpayne3692
@keeshawnpayne3692 3 ай бұрын
This was beautiful
@rogerchamorro9127
@rogerchamorro9127 Ай бұрын
She can be a modern woman in the business world and traditional at home.
@Roxkis
@Roxkis 3 ай бұрын
This interview was great!
@shomarimonroe150
@shomarimonroe150 3 ай бұрын
Fantastic video and facts
@MsFlygrl
@MsFlygrl 3 ай бұрын
Great information!!!!❤
@user-mr1mq8ge1q
@user-mr1mq8ge1q 8 күн бұрын
We ALL Experience (have) Those Thoughts And Experiencees
@illyanhargett9540
@illyanhargett9540 2 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Great, great interview and conversation ‼️‼️‼️
@shaysmith6577
@shaysmith6577 Ай бұрын
I WOULD LOVEEE FOR DORSEY TO BE ON RAVEN SIMONES PODCAST or vice versa!!! That would be an interesting one.
@kendrarob3355
@kendrarob3355 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ amazing 🤩 conversation ❤❤❤❤❤❤ just when you truly think 💭 and recognize everything you both are saying is the Key 🔐 wow 🤩 thank you soooooo much ❤❤❤❤❤
@kennedypayne9638
@kennedypayne9638 3 ай бұрын
i love love dorsey 🫶🏾 so glad she’s been doing interviews lately
@staceywilson5212
@staceywilson5212 3 ай бұрын
The goat speaks ❤
@dredai
@dredai 2 ай бұрын
Great conversation. Even when he tried to equate the manosphere as a whole to hurt men hating on women in general, blk women in particular as if there are no women good enough. But Love brought reality to the situation. Overall I think we get into the habit of looking for someone/something to blame for our issues before, if at all we look at ourselves. This was a great discussion on how holding not only each other accountable but ourselves because that's where it starts.
@user-nn4og6bt6b
@user-nn4og6bt6b 3 ай бұрын
Enjoyed the show
@jazzyshaz11
@jazzyshaz11 3 ай бұрын
Powerful facts👑💯💪🏾🙏🏾❤️🔥📣
@Private_Pookie
@Private_Pookie 3 ай бұрын
I've experienced a women seemingly display jealousy in my confidence when it came to decision making and problem solving. She was very indecisive and always dwelled in problems versus constructively trying to find solutions. Was always a victim too.
@technofilejr3401
@technofilejr3401 Ай бұрын
Yep how dare you know who you are and what you want to do on your own.
@kwekhu-ty7et
@kwekhu-ty7et 3 ай бұрын
Matters of important senses in common
@teepaint6076
@teepaint6076 2 ай бұрын
You earned my subscription brother, solid convo sis! i pray we can fix the dating dynamics between each other in our community its tough out here
@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast
@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the sub!
@Prwttyleo
@Prwttyleo Ай бұрын
Love Dorsey❤
@ciarapratt4288
@ciarapratt4288 3 ай бұрын
Yessssss love ❤️
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