Uche & Aaliyah were in the pods crying about how great of a person Lydia is. Then, when Aaliyah asked him, "Do you think she followed you here?" Uche cursed her out. Now, Lydia is a stalker. Uh huh ok

It is KILLING me how nobodies talking about how when Uche originally found out that Aaliyah and Lydia were close, he said oh Lydia will be the best friend you will ever have. Then when it was convenient for him, now all she was stalking you? Why weren’t you pissed as soon as you learned your stalker was latching onto your girl in the dorms? He gave Aaliyah absolutely no warning about this so called crazy girl AND encouraged her to be friends with her! Makes no sense.

Heres an update yall, Aaliyah did another interview and she explained that she did go on a few dates with Uche afterwards but she decided not to continue dating him cause she felt emotionally unsafe with him cause he started back chastising her again and that watching the show back she realized how terrible he treated her. On her instagram she revealed her new man and they are engaged as well!

“He Sees suffering as a sign of endurance” is such a powerful way to describe a serial abuser. It’s so true. If you’re willing to suffer through whatever they put you through and you’ll stay, that’s what they want.

I done hear “Lynette, Lysette, LaGuardia, Lacienda, Linda, Lilibeth, Liliana”, not once I heard her actual name “Lydia”😂😂😂and I love it all

If Uche cared about Aaliyah why didn't he ask Lydia about what happened in the women's quarters? Lydia made Aaliyah so uncomfortable she left. So why isn't Uche questioning Lydia about that? Instead he confronts her about what ended their relationship, which doesn't have anything to do with the present.

Whoever said that Uche didn’t talk to Aaliyah crazy is used to being talked to crazy. He even said himself that the experience taught him to adjust his tone.

It's not just Nigerian men, american black men also view suffering as endurance and a positive trait. It's in the language they use when referring to what makes her a good woman. The first thing they mention is her being "strong." For many, Black Americans love is built on a historical premise of struggle. That show "Black Love" on the OWN Network highlighted that weekly. That mess wasn't aspirational, it was frightening.

Jessie idk what it is about you but my 4 month old will stop everything she's doing when she hears your voice and just stares at the screen in amusement 😮 😂

Who do we have to call, email, send a letter or pigeons to get Jessie to host one of these reunions 🤔🤔

Izzy told Johnnie his glad he made the right choice after seeing Stacy's life style. Mister thinks he has hit the jackpot but i hardly doubt Stacy will stay with this ass anyways.

If Jessie is going to do anything she is going to SANG in her intro!!!!! Canta Mamita Canta! durante el mes de mujeres afro latinas!!!

Uche antagonistic narcissistic is his type. What this season has shown me. Is how many people in the reaction video space have no idea what abuse looks like. Thank you Jess for keeping it 1000% appreciate you Sister

I actually have respect for Lydia. She didn't release any "I need to explain myself bc I know I'm guilty" crap on IG. I trust her so much more than Uche. He cheated on her and I believe that version.

I'm on the autistic spectrum and my whole life i've sstruggled so much trying to figure out people, which has led me to situations where I put myself down or outright get played and scammed. But ever since I started watching your videos and the way you just understand people and their motives, I've gotten so much better at reading people. Sometimes what you say is hard to swallow but it all comes from a place of love and I just really wanted to thank you for your videos, they've had a great impact on me. Saludos desde CDMX!!

Most of the men this season seriously projected their shhh onto the women. If he said he wanted loyalty he wasnt loyal. If he wanted honesty, he wasn’t honest. If he wanted respect, he was disrespectful. And all of these examples describes Uche. Most describes Izzy and JP.

I think Izzy wanted Johnie to be crying and throwing up that he dumped her 😂

Am I the only person that wishes the LIB cast members were actually sincere about finding love... I'm over the lying, the games and the crazy.

A lot = cheating A lot = verbal abuse A lot = emotional abuse A lot = mental abuse A lot = physical abuse @jessie, please don’t ever stop renaming these people …. It’s hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I agree with you. I was side-eyeing Uche when he said his parents went through a lot. If it isn’t some type of illness or family death, then what exactly is a lot? Anything else would be forsaking your vows, what is it? There were too much arguing and suffering between Aliyah and Uche and they haven’t even been official yet. Stay away from men who have seen their mother suffered and still suffering.

Johnnie is the winner of the game. Chris appears to be the only non-toxic man on the show. Good looking too.

A day with a Jessie Woo notification, is a good ass day. I’m so ready to laugh my ass off🤣

I feel like LIB needs to have a full cast reunion to at least mention everyone’s connections/engagements

Jhonnie absolutely dodged a bullet!!! Izzy was giving ALL the sass!! Bc why was this man so damn hype to tell her anything?? Ain’t you engaged?? 🤔

And who are these girls that notice Lydia watching their stories? How would they know who she is? and that all goes out the window when he decides to look past the stalking and sleep with her.

I think that low-key, Izzy wants Johnnie. He feels a way about Stacy, but won't admit it. He knows that he can't measure up to her. So he wants Johnnie to be sad and hurt because he is. Because why would he even care to confront and hurt Johnnie, if he didn't "care"

I’m not sure why so many of the women were drawn to Izzy in the pods. He always gave an impoverished energy to me.

I noticed Uche said "IN THAT MOMENT I was being truthful." This doesn't mean that prior to being caught he was truthful.

Uche praying on the fact that Lydia was in a vulnerable state in her life and “needed him” really shows his character. I love that she stood up for herself when he showed up with that bullshit

Lydia was even being discrete by not calling out "what he did" in the confrontation, but after he came for her she was like "he slept with another girl". Like she wasn't even going to call him out, but his outburst made her go "welp, here goes!"

I guess Johnnie putting Izzy's bad credit business out ticked him off😂😂 Izzy went on LIB for a place to stay!

Thank you! Production MAY have made Uche keep his lil secret, production did NOT make him tear into Aaliyah for her mistake.

It’s really sad how many people don’t see the issues with Uche

I definitely thought you forgot about part 2! This is going to give me the kiki I need to finish off my day at work 🤭

The truth is, Izzy went into the get together believing Johnie would be single and begging for his attention and another chance. He never imagined she would not only be in a happy relationship but that relationship would be with Chris. His ego could not handle this new information and in an attempt to gain power and control back he plucked at her self esteem like a needle for that entire pointless conversation. It was about ego. Quiet as it's kept, I think he also lashed out at her from misplaced anger that he knows good and well his wife and her entire family look at him as a broke loser.

Jessie’s constant refusal to call Lydia by her name is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

The only person Uche couldn’t manipulate and get under their skin was Milton which is wild seeing he’s the youngest. Uche is such a good manipulator he even has some of the audience caping for him. We throw the word gaslighting around so much people don’t even recognize it anymore when it’s right in their face. Literally trying to make everyone think Lydia is crazy and they were never serious when it’s clear he cheated on her and she reacted like most people would. Literally if he wanted he could put the same logic on Aaliyah who left, reached out to him, blocked him, unblocked him, sent him a vn, unsent it etc. Men who never talk about what they do to you but focus on your reactions to THEIR actions are almost alwaaayyyysss abusive in some way…

Just when I’m dying at work bored out of my mind, Jessie saves the day 🥳

We won't get any answers on the reunion. I already know how love is blind gets down.

I hate to say it, but this is exactly what it’s like dating men in Houston. A LOT of them act like this. The dating pool is HELL. Moving to Dallas was such an upgrade. 😭😭🤞🏽🤞🏽✨

I would not be surprised if Uche's dad had babies outside of the mariage but his mom stayed by his side

Izzy has low self-esteem. That's what I get from him. He compensates for his low self-esteem with attention from women (and lowering other women's self-esteem/making them feel bad and/or guilty). The conversations that he had with Lydia and Johnie (ESPECIALLY Johnie) were so unnecessary. It's like he gets off on letting women know he rejected them or he gets off on the sound of it/repeating it out loud to himself. It's also like once he's had interest in a woman, he doesn't want them to be with anyone else (even though he apparently doesn't want them anymore), for example, Johnie. The way he was talking to Johnie was almost like he was hoping that she would just leave crushed and wouldn't get a chance to be with anyone else (or at least wouldn't get the chance to be with Chris). Like why does he care whether or not she was his number 1 or not if he didn't choose her or want her anyway? It just seems like Chris and Johnie's relationship (logically) shouldn't bother him, regardless of the fact. It should be more of a concern for Johnie and Chris, than one for Izzy. I'm not going to put on the cape for Johnie because I'm still unsure of her. However, Izzy's entire conversation with her in episode 7 did not even have to happen. He just wanted her to feel bad. And Stacy is not being wise by going along with it. Izzy just wants his ego boosted. He has low self-esteem. EDIT: Also, just to add, it's also like he never wants to be seen as "the bad guy". He's always trying to make sure that he's not seen as bad in the eyes of others (what I got from his unnecessary conversation with Lydia and Johnie, and also got a bit of the from his meeting with Stacy's family and the "lost and found" conversation). He's always is trying to present himself as more "put together" than he actually is. And he also always seems to try to present himself, his behavior, his intentions, etc as more "innocent" than they actually are. Edit: Also, as a little bonus opinion, it's like Izzy and Uche are two sides of the same coin. Just that Uche is the head and Izzy is the tail. They do the same thing. One is just better at it than the other. And they may have both similar and different motivations for doing so.

Lydia and Uche was on they Queen Charlottte. "Today is an even day we must be together" 🤣😂💀

Uche accusing Lydia of not knowing how to have a conversation was funny. Uche doesn’t have conversations when there is a conflict, he talks AT people. And expects them to sit there quietly and listen while he buries them. And if they walk away he gets furious. The whole time he was talking at Lydia I was waiting for him to arrive at the point. I just didn’t see why he had to sit there and rehash their entire relationship. Especially as up to that point he had said nothing but nice things about Lydia. When production discovered they knew each other they wanted to kick them out but they plead to stay. They said nice things about each other. Now all of a sudden Lydia is the crazy chick from Fatal Attraction? Like Jess said, if Lydia was so crazy, why didn’t he just decide to gtfo as soon as he realized she was there? I don’t think Uche and Lydia are in this together. Because I don’t see what Lydia is gaining from having this man paint her as a crazy stalker.

Uche’s goal when talking to Lydia was to paint her as a stalker so that he can discredit her

It was also said that Carter was aggressive and brought another girl to the shared apartment. That same Tiktoker said that he threatened production if they showed it. He said he would unalive himself. So maybe production went on the side of caution.

What you said about Uche seeking a long suffering woman was the tea that needed to be clocked beyond anything else! Everything you said was a cold hard fact and is a truth that needs to be investigated by men of this ilk.

Yes Jessie!! you nailed the character profile of abusive men to a T!!💯💯🎯🎯💥🔥 you are so wise & empowered...you are a true warrior princess & role model for young black women ..they should listen to you instead of these female rappers glorifying abusive & transactional " relationships" to the young girls..♥️🖤♥️💥🔥love & respect from black Germany 🇩🇪👍🏾🖤

JP=Robin Williams mixed with Uncle Fester…spot on 🎯🤣🤣🤣☠️

The singing voice is flawless you’ve been given a gift.

Your registry is giving me ideas for things I didn’t even know I needed. NOT ME BUYING THESE FOR MYSELF!

I cackled every time you called Lydia “LaGuardia”!!!!

I don’t even watch the show but LaGuardia and Uche are diabolical and seem made for each other.

I’m 100 percent in agreement when it comes to Uche. Idc what anyone says he still looks bad to my eyes

I really feel the producer should show all the pod connections and all the reveals....even if they cut some by the time they get to Mexico

Sad that Abuse has to Explained but thanks for a clear explanation to those that don’t get it!!!

So many props to you for preaching about what a healthy relationship is!

I just wanna know when tf Netflix is gonna understand that we want to see ALL of the connections that are developed. Successful and NOT successful. They do this every season 🙄

And one thing that people conveniently gloss over about Uche is the fact that HE ADMITTED TO BEING A CHEATER ALSO! He downplayed it as though it was nothing as he was driving a stake through Aaliyah, but he too broke someone's trust. He should NOT be able to throw stones at anyone! This shows you that the woman who are in Uche's sphere have been driven to madness by his omissions, lies and un-therapized insanity. Ladies, if you ever come across a man like this, RUN! 🚩They cannot ever be rehabilitated without deep introspection!

“It’s giving he stole the staplers out of Nancy Pelosi’s stapler on Jan 6th.” JESSIIEEEE😭😭 the way the comedy rolls right out effortlessly and you just continue like you didn’t just drop a bomb. Also, ever since you moved into this house you’ve been giving us VOCALLSSS. Yassss acoustics, yasss giant house echos!! I love it (especially that girlfriends part.) Lastly, please @jessiewoo please crop the video monologue about men who are selecting long suffering women and You choose not to sign up to be a slave because your ancestors already did that and make it into a tiktok. I’m Cameroonian (but born and raised in US) and have had very similar discussions with my close Caribbean friends about how women in our lineage wore being long suffering women as a badge of honor. I peeped that the moment he said that musical chairs statement regarding his parents as well. We don’t want it oh!!! I will not fight for that last chair, let the music cut, Ibeg😩

I think the suffering is universal for women. Men always want someone who will stand by them through it all but won’t do the same. Black women too and I’ll also add white women. I think it’s a generational thing which is why I side eye people who say “marriages used to last back in the day” and it’s like “yeah because women couldn’t leave!”

“It’s not abusive because he was calm when he said it” (about Uche to Aaliyah) is giving very much the same energy as when people say people with lots of education (doctors, lawyers, advanced degrees in general) “Can’t be abusive because of the position they hold in society”.

“You sassy niggas be worried about the wrong things” PERIOD 👏😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 Your reviews be so spot on and having me CRYING laughing!

When you listen to what Jonny said to Izzy vs what she said to Chris it matched up....? there was no contradiction, the way Izzy made it sound like there was

You are spot on with your assessment of Uche. He has a typical Nigerian man's mentality. Been watching your videos for a while but subscribed after watching this analysis. Great Job Jessica!👍

May the Lord be with you always being the light that leads you in all that you do. Find strength in his love. Have a blessed day everyone❣

You see how when Uche is talking about Lydia, it's all about what she offered him. IT's still all about him

Thank you for all the work you put into giving us the content 🎉 all these people this season are unhinged lol

Sassy power rangers era. I can't deal. This season was a hot mess and half. I love your country vocals, Jess.

Milton is my favorite on this season, mature focused and confident.

I have a feeling that Izzy and Uche could end up being on Perfect Match season 2 😂

"did y'all know Ricky Martin is gay??" 😭

Hey Woo ! I am so thanksfull for what you've said about U... character. I dated a guy like this years ago (just 5 months). When i started to stand up for myself, he asked for a meeting in his favorite bar. During this meeting, he spoke (very polite, no curse words) but when it was my turn to speak, he started to talk with a (female) bartender like i wasn't there. Then, i stayed because i didn't wanna make a scene and i thought that we could go back to our conversation. That AH had the audacity to end the conversation with : "we good" who means no relationship but lets stay friends. I felt so humilitated. I decided for preserving my peace to stop talking to him. So 2 months after, when i saw him flirted in front of me, i decided to write him a very long mail (no curse words but with facts and receipts) because i thought that AH deserved to know my thoughts. And you know what he said to me ?! i was violent in my words 😂. Some men always want to have the last words, especially when they got a good job and all entourage (family, friends, co-workers, neighboors...) describe them like the good guy. Somebody can be good to you, and awfull to me. As a society, we need to hear both sides. ❤️☮️

All the names for Lydia had me cackling 😂

This season makes me wanna watch season 1 LIB, and cleanse myself with the story of Lauren and Hamilton 😂 🤦🏾‍♀️

Spoiler Alert: They way they read Uche for filth is exactly wtf needed to happen! He thought he was going to be able to manipulate the girlies so he didn’t have to take accountability. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

You and Out Of The Pods should do a collab! They seemed to see Uche in a positive light which caught me off guard. I agree with your POV and think if you discussed this season with them once it is over it would be super introspective

From what im seeying.. I'd hire Hoochie as a lawyer. Every scene he is presenting a case.😅

Izzy really triggered me in that convo with Johnnie and I need To unpack more within myself to figure out why…but he’s def weird and wild af He especially killed me when he said “I’ve listened to everything about you” like that’s exactly the point ! You have not listened TO HER just to the things said about her and have made your mind up from the very beginning

Not me finishing work right as you drop a video!! Look at God 🙌🏾

Miriam why couldnt you say that to Uche? "Im working on the product im not finished yet" simple.

"a scheme that Todd set up" will always be funny🤣

I'm here for the singing. I love that Enrique Iglesias song. That was my jam, bringing back memories of the late 90's.

As the child of an abuser and a “long-suffering woman”, thank you for the term, Jessie. Its described perfectly. My mother was his perfect wife until she wouldn’t take his abuse, then she had more abuse for having boundaries and putting her foot down. Who was his next relationship with another child? Another long-suffering woman. By then, I didn’t have the energy or connection to that woman to support her through his nonsense. Having endurance, empathy, and love for others through the ages are wonderful qualities to have as a person. No one deserves to be abused because they have those qualities. I hope Aaliyah and other people like her begin to understand themselves so people like Uche have to stay far away.

listeeennnnnnnnn.... 25:00 the "a lot of you men saw your mothers suffer" is soooooo trueeee!! igbo person here, and when Uche said that as I was watching the episode, literally your brain transcribed my exact thoughts because yes, my maternal ancestors and women in my family have died early, i'm talking as recent as 2020, sudden death at 42 from hypertension, chronic stress, unappreciated labor, a broken heart trying to keep extremely abusive marriages together...what these men who clearly hate their wives and see them not for who they are but for how well they can suffer do after they've killed them?? remarry...find another woman to continue projecting their unprocessed pain and insecurity they refuse to face, heal from or even cope with, onto in the name of wife, in the name of "God does not like divorce", in the name of "i can keep a man", why aren't men being dragged for not being able to keep their women?? big YIKES. NOPE...we are RUNNING FARRRR! absolutely no more, nope. these women do have a choice, 100, and they are adults clearly gaining something by staying in the marriage but some of them were never told or shown different was possible, most of them were raised to seek and find value in being a wife first and foremost because these sexist af societies will refuse single/childless women respect or credibility, being single was/is a curse people would go to church for deliverance, fasting and prayer, exorcism...the works just to find husband (the industry of "men of god" scamming desperate single women in nigeria...that needs a whole documentary on its own) so of course in marriage this fear/stigma persists to the point of them choosing abusers over their own children, parenting their abusive husbands and leaving children to parent themselves and experience emotional neglect, heck even recruiting the children to parent their abusive father by anticipating his emotions and trying to be "good" to avoid emotional outbursts, and this was considered normal growing up, "children are meant to be seen not heard"...and tbh, yeah, they're abuse survivors, but they're also accomplices, no child should have to experience being responsible for managing the emotions of an adult toddler person with traits like Uche is portraying..imagine this kind of person raising kids with a passive partner who's scared to stand up to him (probably the only kind of partner he'll pick or want, we obvi now know why he didn't go for Miriam)

The intro alone needs a round of applause! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Why is Izzy acting like Johnnie dumped him???? And then offering to give her advice after berating her???? Please.

Renee is so cute, I just wanted to see her looks. Baby girl was giving and stealing scenes.

I want you hosting the reunion!!!! You’ll ask the questions we really need to know.

Okay but can we please get a Bailamos cover because you ate that!! 💃🏾

I stopped watching the show but I have tuned in to every one of your reviews, thanks Jessie!

I think production doesn't want to admit they got played, duped, bamboozled!! That's why they didn't show the other couples

"I'm allergic to slavery!" Lol 😂 Me too. Me too. Been married 16 yrs and my husband knows this.

You can tell Uche has put Loraine THRU it

The “Girlfriends” rendition sealed the deal for me! 😭😂😩 I LOVE YOU

Chilleeee this season is a HOT MESS.. everyone posting their boyfriends and girlfriends..Izzy already doing interviews like my god Netflix need to just drop all the episodes tomorrow

I'm glad I'm not the only one to notice how Uche paints his narratives to seem like a victim. He's a habitual liar. Omission is lying. And he uses his profession on those in his personal life. Why are these women sitting through these interrogations like they're criminals. No ma'am.

You don't need to change your verbage, it is what it is. You have said it clear as day.

What if they did a “love is blind uncut” or a “love is blind behind the scenes” re release that would be a gotcha gotcha I’d be watching this is too much mess they couldn’t keep up 😮

Not Jessie singing FABULOUS got me here jamming 😂😂😂😂😂