At this point Jessie's braids has lasted longer than Clay and AD's relationship🥴. Eeeeeeeey mwen pah kopon...Eeeeey wyoooooo🤲🏾

“Ok body” at the alter is INSANE 😂

The conversation between Clay’s parents was the ONLY real moment in the entire season.

I really thought when Clay’s daddy started talking about his son beating him in that race, that he was going to say “and you’ll beat me at marriage too”. But no. It never came 🤦🏾‍♀️

Clay not only wasted AD’s time, he wasted OUR TIME TOO like why tf are you on this show?! 😭😭😭

No wonder clay thought cheating was something that can be passed down genetically .. he has a father who also has no idea what accountability is. His father also blamed his dad for his cheating ways. 😅

Clay only started going hard for AD when he thought he would lose to Matthew

When AD said SHE is not enough, that broke my heart!!!♥

“I’m rocking with you” after smiling in this girl’s face and then saying no is DIABOLICAL. The electric chair!🗣️👩🏽‍⚖️

AD proved that Love IS blind… blind to all the damn red flags

I’m mad for the little girls witnessing that rejection. Remember someone’s watching how we value ourselves. It’s work but get there!

Clay was shallow but AD was too, she didn’t see nothing but a conventionally good looking man! Everyone wanna come for Reesa Teesa but this season showed us that, that type of stupidity comes in all shapes and sizes

For a 32 year old to start this process saying, “when I see red flags, I paint my nails red to match,” the outcome makes sense! The math is mathing let’s be very fr. Sarah Ann said, “worry about your own relationship” and AD gets blindsided? Lmaoo

the fact that Clay said "i know that you will fight for me" while dumping her... shows exactly how delusional AD was.. on their wedding day, he said BODYYYY... she called him beautiful though lmao. AD was in everyone's business except her own!!

The best thing Clay did was say NO to AD! That whole relationship was dululu! Clay is his Dad! They speak a lot about nothing, a bunch of words that make no sense!

The odd thing is I think Ad is out of Clays league. She’s a cheerleader and gorgeous! I don’t find Clay attractive and his personality makes him much more unattractive. Ad is sweet and gentle plus she’s gorgeous. So confused.

Clay wasn’t attracted to AD. Plain and simple. This isn’t to say he’s colorist or that she’s ugly, he just wasn’t that into her. AD oozed over him like he was the finest man she could get & Clay never once said she was pretty or gorgeous on camera. Face wise she wasn’t his type & that’s okay. She should’ve caught the hint when he told her fildelity was gonna be a problem. People tell you stuff like that when they want to dump you and not be the bad guy.

You’re so right about Chelsea. Notice how her face changed when she realized that Jimmy wasn’t falling for her white tears. The tears immediately stopped.

When Chelsea blasted the info of Jimmy and his friend's past relationship on tv after he asked her not to....I think that was the moment he knew, she wasn't it. To take something he told her in confidence and shout it publicly was so disrespectful. I actually can't believe she was so shocked he didn't want to marry her lol. It's like Girl, you've been acting crazy since day one.

Clay gave me “ I only date lightskin or white women “ vibes. He only stayed for ADs body. He was using that girl

Clay’s dad was putting out his resume for the ladies. Trying to be on the next season of the Golden Bachelor 🤣

Let’s be fr y’all, we ALL knew Clay was gonna say no. That man told AD repeatedly that he wasn’t ready to get married and didn’t think he could be faithful. Our good sis chose to ignore every single red flag and that led to her being embarrassed on national tv in front of her friends and family. I did hate seeing her be so hurt and talking down on herself but she does need to acknowledge the part she played in her own suffering. (It’s giving Reesa Teesa) Also, I wish I could shake Ms.Margarita’s hand because she ate Clay’s father up!!! It broke my heart hearing the hurt in her voice and honestly, shame on Clay for telling the whole world her business like that. I hope she cussed him out off camera.

I never found Clay attractive. Clay is NOT husband material. Clay was so clear on not liking AD. AD was blind alright! Stop choosing these men. 🛑

AD stop getting into one sided relationships with build a bear men 🛠🐻

Two things can be true. He wasted her time and she ignored the United Nations of Red Flags as well. She deserves better

"Black female pain is so profitable." You said a mouthful, Jessie, in just 6 words.

I wish the show would cut the drama and actually focus on love and successful relationships. This is the same dark turn that married at first sight took years ago. We are here for a love show. Show us the LOVE

Any scene with Amy and her parents...I AM BAWWLING! You can tell she comes from a family of LOVE. What an ABSOLUTELY JARRRING Juxtaposition when we see AD walking in there by herself, I cried for that too. MY GOODNESS

What gets me is that Clay had no issue enjoying AD’s body yet KNOWING he was not going to commit to her 😢

Amy & Johnny were honestly portrayed as extras on this season, their love story didn’t get the romanticised like it deserves.

idk why Clay's dad's track speech reminded me of Kwame talking about picking his tan khakis over his black jeans before proposing to Chelsea lmaooo like what are you talking about?? 🤣

1:12:09 WHEN YOU SAID CLAY IS THE PRIZE!! Cus when he "proposed" in the pods he said "will you take my _beautiful_ hand in marriage"!!! He literally complimented himself while proposing! That's when I found out he thought he was the prize!!

AD is so disappointing. Girl stand up! Clay’s father is every Caribbean uncle, cousin, neighbor that play women like musical chairs. They say a whole bunch of nothing!! 🙄😩

Not the minister saying Clay & AD fell in love in the pods sight unseen, then Clay whispering, *"I didn't say all that."* 🥴

When Amy's father blessed her across that table, that brought so many tears to my eyes. That's what a girl wants from her father. It was beautiful.

My jaw dropped when Clay said: "you got that shit on" after the body comment. He's not respectful or tactful. He doesn't take mariage or weddings seriously

The pastor’s face while Clay was talking at the altar was EVERYTHING! He was like, “This 🥷🏾”

Clay is a waste of TIME but AD was blind AF

When Clay said “ Will you take MY Lovely hand in Marriage” ☠️☠️☠️

Stark contrast between Amy's father and Clay's father. We must all overcome the negative parts of our upbringing, but we cannot deny that having emotionally healthy and supportive parents sets any child up for future success in relationships or life in general. Loved Amy's family. ❤ AD's father wounds are glaring and it's so sad. 7 unmarried sisters, she said. Great recap as always! Thx.

Clay did not have the balls to tell AD that he wasn’t that attracted to her.

I'mma be honest... And it pains me to say this because I hate this term, but AD is a pick me. She played the "perfect girl" role...body, sex, listening, understanding, long-suffering... all for HIS benefit, with no expectations of anything in return from him except for him to CHOOSE HER. That's the epitome of a "pick me". Sis gotta have some standards. I love my husband DOWN and yes, I spoil him, but he spoils me too... If there's no reciprocation for the love you give a man, you gotta keep it movin sis! And know the dang difference between real love and just playing a role.

I can not thank you enough for saying everything you said about AD and her mother who was very much so easily impressed! This is why AD is the way she is, accepting the bare minimum. Clay wasn’t even giving that! Clay has told her several times he wasn’t ready. Several. My fear is that there are plenty of women out there just like AD right now accepting foolery like that.

what's also crazy is when clay walked in to meet her mom he didn't shake her hand or give her a hug this sassy man just took a seat. didn't even apologize for being late.

Clay’s dad made me realize the difference between being familiar and being family. Clay would recognize his father if he saw him out somewhere, but he does not know that man. Watching them force conversation and Clay nod and smile waiting for his dad to stop talking was so sad. Imagine being a distance acquaintance to your own parent. The whole family needs healing. Trevor is a lost cause though.

Clay PREPPED AD for the NO. How many ways did he tell her he wasn’t ready and does the timeline matter and his daddy cheated and also he’s been doing market research and it doesn’t look like he fits the criteria for a husband 😂😂😂 To be as shocked as she was is delusional.

While in the pods, AD stated Clay gives her "player vibes". She should have heeded the warning. She was desperate.

I want AD to stand up! As a fellow Mass girlie, I wanted her to win. But I’m glad Clay said no. They do not need marriage, they need therapy. Clay said no and was allowed to kiss her?! Come on!

Finally, someone is calling AD out for ALWAYS being in everyone else’s business. She saw red flags in everyone else situationship except her own.

AD and Clay is showing the black love struggle on national television 🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀

Clay absolutely wasted ADs time. If he was not ready for marriage then he should have stayed home. Each season of Love is Blind seem to be getting worst and worst. Most of the cast just don't seem to be ready.

So many good points! One thing that stands out to me is … How do you get a son like Clay? It’s both parents (his mother and his father) that have created that ... His mother doesn’t get a pass, just like AD’s mom hasn’t been given one. AD being “wiser” and “knowing her worth” (as people are suggesting) is as important as Clay being more empathic and honest, and less superficial. He’s clearly missing something from childhood (unfortunately) that in adulthood he needs to find so that he will no longer hurt people. It’s his responsibility now. We can raise amazing girls but if we don’t raise amazing boys too, things will always be off, wrong. I give her grace because that’s a lot of unlearning to do and it doesn’t happen overnight for most, or ever for others unable to recognize what’s wrong.

Clay NEVER ONCE named anything he loved about AD other than she put up with his bs. Bro was giving wife teas constantly saying “I’m a lot to deal with”. 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Clay told AD she "got that shit on" in front of the pastor 🤣

LMFAOOOOOOO when I heard him say “ok BODY” it took me all the way out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

Omg! You ain’t lying!! A.D. and Clay‘s wedding segment was so long I forgot Johnny and Amy had to get married still!

Jessie I’m so glad that you pointed out how beautiful Amy & Johnny’s dynamic was. A lot of people are calling them boring but instead, they should get so much credit for grasping the heart of the show. Amy was so thoughtful to include Johnny’s sister and her brother in the ceremony, the tiara, the painting woosh! Beautiful. And I can’t help but compare this white/hispanic wedding to the black wedding of Clay & AD. Amy surrounded and AD walking alone. Just sad. That was hard to see such a stark difference between the two.

The sigh of relief I had when Megan Unfox and Jiminey Crickett FINALLY broke it off😭 took too damn long but we all know the mess that would’ve ensued if Jimmy said no at the altar. Respect him for saving her from embarrassing herself even more than she already has this season😂

“Love is Blind and Tyler Perry, same wigs, same people.” Screaming 😂😂😂😂

I said the same thing about AD’s wedding look. No makeup, no jewelry, and a bodycon dress.

Clay acting like he was crying right before his dad walked in. Him wiping his invisible tears when the camera went to him took me outtttttttt. He is such a con!!!!! 1,2,3 ACTION

I do NOT find Clay attractive AT ALL! I truly don’t understand why they were gassing him up like that 🤷🏾‍♀️

Clay's dad saying he has always been a good father even though he was bringing his song along on his infidelity trips, is a special type of delusion. Also, I think it's Black women being humiliated that is profitable. It's painful for us and comical for society.

Clay was never attracted to her. He didn’t want to look mean on camera but looks even worse now.

Clay was blinkety blinking too much the entire time .That man was lying from day one

Not clay at the altar saying why do you care about titles? 😂

“Black women pain is profitable” Girl! I felt that! You need to tm these Jessicaism

Lord Jesus, I wish Netflix would let you host the reunion. The way you would eat dem questions up! You would have that reunion go up in flames!! 🔥

Clay just wanted to beat out Matthew…. He had a hissy fit when he went back to the men’s quarters and saw who Matthew was.

I'm glad Clay said no. That girl was signing up for a healing project. He needs to get help on his own.

I cried when Amy's Dad accepted Johnny, too. My Dad is just as loving, just not as expressive. I got married in an unconventional way and it took him time to come around, but I love that he was supportive of me being happy

I give grace for Jimmy to have broken things off when he did, because being emotionally abused, it is not easy to get your thoughts together and keep the facts straight. It's actually amazing that he clocked what she was doing and called it for what it was when he he did.

Clay is his Daddy. His Daddy hasn’t matured emotionally and that is the generational curse on his family….Clay never named characteristic traits that he liked about AD. It was always what AD did for him. Clay got free therapy from AD.

I knew Clay was not going to marry her...AD was trying too hard to be cute and submissive and comfort her man like she was his therapist. Stop go heal somewhere else.

Everything you said about Clay was FACTS!!!!!! Did you see how many times he blinked his EYES???’ 😅😅

Clay was almost gitty at the alter waiting to shame AD in front of her whole family. That smirk on his face after she had to be consoled by her mother and his said it all. I hope Ad doesn't allow him to waste another second of her time. The he had the nerve to come to her dressing room after that for more camera time. He is trash!! 🗑

Considering how emotionally constipated Jimmy was in the pods (especially with Jessica), I was surprised to see him really open up and try with Chelsea. People like to rag on Jimmy bc of his initial reaction seeing Chelsea, but if you payed attention, you could see that he got over that and was genuinely trying to make it work with her. Homegirl was just an absolute mess.

AD is WILLING to be cheated on. She chooses to be dragged.

lol the way I just hollered LMAO!!! Jessie Woo you are hilarious!!!

Clay is the whole reason that women are consistently told that you have to choose someone that loves you more than you love them. The older I get, I'm starting to believe that.

Jess is Funny: What we having for dinner? "My Daddy's A Cheater"🤣🤣🤣🤣

“Let them pink balls hang” is sending me 😭😭😂. Jess you are unwell 😭

Love this review!! I feel like AD (and most Black women)believes that she has to fight for ppl to earn their trust and loyalty. The way she defended Laura is a prefect example of this. But in the end, she’s going to tire herself out fighting for ppl that would never do the same for her. I’m glad Clay said no because he needs some healing from his childhood, but AD needs to learn to allow a man to pursue her and take care of her. She cannot be everybody’s watchdog therapist

Clay’s parent’s convo was my favorite part of this episode…. Still don’t understand why his dad never explained to him that his behavior was unacceptable and he should be a better husband.. I thought maybe that’s where the track convo was going but I guess not 😂 he could’ve said “ I was good at track but you took it to another level, and I know you’ve seen me not be the best husband to your mother but I hope you take being a husband to the next level and be a better man than I was and I apologize for hurting your mom and including you in my inappropriate behavior” that would’ve been 🔥🏆

AD's trauma comes from the absence of her dad. This became obvious when she keep feeling the need to prove her value to Clay and said how she's never not good enough. She needs to unpack that and heal before a narcissist ruins her life. I'm honestly glad Clay said no. She needs to work on herself too.

ad definitely wasted her own time by choosing to overlook him telling her over and over he don’t want her. but he definitely wasted our time.

When AD said I wanted it to be my turn! It just reminded me of Reesa Teesa when she said the same thing

Honestly I just hope that AD took time for herself and went to therapy and is in a better place mentally. She made some mistakes but I can imagine having to relive the experience in addition to the comments from everyone. Wishing the best for her moving forward

I've never heard that before... for parents to say "We are going to make sure your marriage is successful." Wow!❤❤❤beautiful

“MY DADDY IS A 🐆!!!” 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂

Factssss that group of black women at the back facial expressions killed me😂

I’m not going lie , when she said they found love in a concentration camp I started to sing we found love in a hopeless and how ironic she starts singing it 😂😂😂 great minds definitely think alike 😂❤

I’m from Guyana and laughed so hard because I was thinking seeing the father explained everything. He’s got the Caribbean sweet talker fraud vibes😂😂😂

Clay looking down on AD cause of alleged poor finances still has me bothered. A self proclaimed “provider” rejecting a woman over “questionable finances” has me trying to connect the dots and they are not dotting 😒

Omg that’s my tik tok 😂 i love you so much i knew the girls that would get it would get it. People were in my comments livid saying im projecting and the real girlies that knew were like nah we saw that from the start. All his little back handed comments made me SICK. This made my day ❤ alllllll facts!!

it all boils down to: Clay was not in love with her. Yes, some men will be in love and not ready for marriage but how clay acted and the things he said made it obvious. He wasn't in love, he tried to discourage her from marrying him with the cheating comments, he couldn't see himself only ever being with her, and he begun also to nitpick in the end mentioning her finances --because whatever reason to rationalize it. If she was way more beautiful to him, or they clicked in a deeper way, then he would'nt have spoken of cheating so much.

Clay was friendzoning AD the entire time and she was actively telling herself that it’s ok. If she would’ve decided to come back from dreamland, she would see that clay actually has NEVER switched up. He’s been him the ENTIRE TIME. Even after he told her ‘no’ at the alter, his cold reaction had me like “well I mean yup, classic clay. Emotionless” She can feel blindsided but at the end of the day, she blinded herself, by choice.

I was shocked Clay showed up to the wedding! He must’ve just wanted to get dressed up that day lol

We don’t know what types of men AD brought home, right?!? Perhaps Clay is the best that she has brought to meet her mother. It was clear that AD struggled with self-esteem so that said alot to me in how she related to Clay. He was honest with her. You can’t fault him for that🤷🏽‍♀️

Clay even said he wasn’t deeply in love with AD