Love & Sex in Japan: Desire in Decline? | Japan's Unconventional Approach to Love (Documentary)

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5 ай бұрын

In the land of the Rising Sun, love and relationships are in danger. A quarter of all Japanese aged 30 to 40 are virgins and 50% of the population admits to not having sex regularly. Unsurprisingly, this has led to birth rates plummeting. 30% of Japan’s population could disappear by 2060. But what are the reasons for this detachment from the world of love and sex? Tough jobs, stress, money problems… not exactly an ideal environment for finding love.
The country has developed a unique industry from this phenomenon, with the trend of ‘solo weddings’ emerging: young women in wedding dresses pose in front of the camera for their big day… except, they’re not actually marrying anyone. Paradoxically, Japan is also one of the largest producers of porn movies in the world, with many men seeming to prefer manga heroines to women their age. As Japanese men and women slowly lose the skill of connecting, courses are flourishing teaching the art of seduction.
This documentary was first released in 2016.
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@user-wg2vw3mz1v
@user-wg2vw3mz1v 4 ай бұрын
The British narration gives this an aura of National Geographic 😂 😂 😂
@domenicoaraujo9913
@domenicoaraujo9913 4 ай бұрын
An aura with a nice and charming British accent, for sure‼😉☺😍🥰
@OriginalGaPeach
@OriginalGaPeach 4 ай бұрын
Yes, lol. Almost like the people are a wild species of animal that are becoming extinct...
@Shadowz227
@Shadowz227 4 ай бұрын
Here we see the Japanese in their natural habitat
@srichey444
@srichey444 4 ай бұрын
Annoying isn't it? 😂
@animal79thecat
@animal79thecat 4 ай бұрын
More like the Eurotrash series from the 90s
@samtron5000
@samtron5000 4 ай бұрын
I lived in Japan for 10 years, I was married to a Japanese man and have 2 half Japanese kids. The main reason people aren’t getting married is because Japanese companies aren’t providing lifetime employment like they used to. They pay low wages. A single person struggles to survive on a university graduate office workers wage. When you get married you have kids and when you have kids the wife doesn’t work. You have to rely on the men’s income.. but today, the men’s income isn’t enough to support a family.
@user-ty1hq1lw5o
@user-ty1hq1lw5o 4 ай бұрын
Just in case u r curious, in Japan they only censor the part between ur legs, it's not considered indecent exposure up therev
@pixelpuppy
@pixelpuppy 4 ай бұрын
the problem you mention is just one of many. It's a combination of factors that lead to a cyclical downward spiral. Bad economy leads to low pay wages leads to less spending, less marriages, less children, which leads to a worse economy and the cycle repeats.
@stevenlowcb
@stevenlowcb 4 ай бұрын
Japan is a rich country, but you say they cannot afford a family. Third world countries with most of population in poverty are breeding like rabbits.
@masteryoda2183
@masteryoda2183 4 ай бұрын
Also, don't forget that many governments actually desire a decline in population growth. Secretly they consider this a "necessary evil" in order to allow for another round of "population growth" which then starts a new cycle of prosperity. This is why after e.g. a war the governments pay huge "child benefits" to parents in order to get the population replenished. However, when the society is considered large enough or too large, the child benefits are kept unchanged, so that they are eaten by inflation. Sometimes the child benefits are even reduced blatantly. Many people pretend governments would never reduce their own population size, even though this would be irrational for them to NOT do. As governments need to lay the ground work for a prosperous society, a few years of hardship are no problem for them - as they are always payed handsomely while the rest of the population goes through the recessions.
@louistournas120
@louistournas120 4 ай бұрын
I guess they would have to leave the kid with the grandparents. Here in Quebec, a lot of people leave them at daycare and it is government subsidized. It costs the parent 7$/day. I don’t know why they don’t leave the kid with the grandparents. I would say another problem is the sexual revolution of the 60s. I think that creates unstable relationships. Even when a couple gets married, it doesn’t last long. 50% end up in a divorce in 8 y. It looks like Japan doesn’t have that problem but they don’t date much. Maybe people copy each other. If your friends sleep around, you tend to do the same. When your friends don’t date, you don’t date?
@yasedky
@yasedky 2 ай бұрын
"You brought sunshine" "No i often bring rain" For some reason this hurt me so much ...
@browneaglelopez3116
@browneaglelopez3116 Ай бұрын
😢
@goosify
@goosify 28 күн бұрын
That's bantering. I would have said "But rain is good too because it brings beautiful rainbows" :) She'll definitely giggle after hearing that :)
@LoLFilmStudios
@LoLFilmStudios 24 күн бұрын
Nah it’s a thing in Japan there are sunshine people and rain people (as in they bring either one of the weathers) There is minimal negative connotation to being a rain person besides all of it being a bunch of bull.
@TheMan-ud2wq
@TheMan-ud2wq 11 күн бұрын
​@@goosify getting ot in for sure after that.
@dustymcdust825
@dustymcdust825 5 күн бұрын
Dude in the black shirt knows women and girls. lol
@darkbornelines4587
@darkbornelines4587 2 ай бұрын
Woman in Japan getting married on their own, and here i am feeling weird going to the cinema by myself
@mac1bc
@mac1bc 13 күн бұрын
It's not nearly as bad as marrying yourself 😅
@j.7881
@j.7881 4 ай бұрын
My ex sister inlaw was Japanese, her brother got married to a very modern girl in Japan, but here's the kicker- she (the brothers fiance) ONLY wanted an "American wedding" so her family went full-out with a giant fancy dress, expensive reception, etc....only for that girl to divorce him 3 MONTHS LATER!!! She only wanted the wedding. Sad.
@eatplastic9133
@eatplastic9133 4 ай бұрын
I've heard some people drop the mask after the wedding. Maybe the guy wasn't who she thought he is
@LeBronya_James
@LeBronya_James 4 ай бұрын
@@eatplastic9133If you hyperfixate on just the wedding, nobody will be able to make you happy. You have to take time and actually be aware of who you choose as your partner. Most behaviours and signs can be picked up if you stay alert. Things like big wedding and constant honeymoon phase don’t strengthen a marriage. Love, companionship and comprimise is what seperates lifelong marriages from divorce. Don’t bother marrying if you can have those three things, you’ll just end divorcing, losing time and money.
@weirdnomad8868
@weirdnomad8868 3 ай бұрын
There was a study that said the more expensive the wedding the more likely it is for the mariage to fail. Anway, if he hit her or cheated on her then she was right to divorce him.
@morphinehannah3274
@morphinehannah3274 3 ай бұрын
pardon me??? 🤯😲
@EL0c1n
@EL0c1n 3 ай бұрын
Damn!!
@Happyhoppies10
@Happyhoppies10 4 ай бұрын
I couldn't imagine living like this. Living to work basically, no time to do anything not even meet people. Their society is so Depressing
@malakhani5884
@malakhani5884 4 ай бұрын
It is like that in many countries sadly, including the one I live in
@Karlach_
@Karlach_ 4 ай бұрын
It's no wonder the suicide rate is astronomically high in Japan and many other Asian countries. People should work so they can live, not live so they can work.
@alinamatselisobonde5354
@alinamatselisobonde5354 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 OH GOD THIS IS DEPRESSING, NO NO NO I M SORRY
@burrrn___
@burrrn___ 4 ай бұрын
it’s BEEN happening in many countries. the U.S. for example lmfao
@burrrn___
@burrrn___ 4 ай бұрын
the U.S. forced japan into capitalism and perfectionism after WW2
@saifchowdhury7062
@saifchowdhury7062 4 ай бұрын
Being in love with a fictional character is most often a symptom of wanting perfection and in reality humans being are not perfect.
@arthurvp1682
@arthurvp1682 4 ай бұрын
also fear of rejection
@weirdnomad8868
@weirdnomad8868 3 ай бұрын
I never thought of that, intersting.
@richie1002
@richie1002 3 ай бұрын
Also protection. That 2D character isn't going to have an opinion about you. You can imagine what they would think of you, but I think it is less repulsive being hurt by yourself than by others.
@OurSpaceshipEarth
@OurSpaceshipEarth 3 ай бұрын
that's the appeal. It's incredibly brave to let yourself become naive.
@affinity1996
@affinity1996 3 ай бұрын
Pursuit of power, money and relationships are also the same stuff of seeking perfection. Fact is it is nowhere to be found neither in your so called reality nor on thier beloved delusions.
@bobertoroberto953
@bobertoroberto953 4 ай бұрын
The guys hanging out with friends and playing video games have it way better than the husband sleeping in the bunk bed and drinking by himself.
@elsands9774
@elsands9774 4 ай бұрын
That’s pretty sad, yet true
@creativethinker121
@creativethinker121 4 ай бұрын
Couldn’t agree more.
@youtubeblachblach
@youtubeblachblach 4 ай бұрын
yes, its not a life living that that husband.
@Karlach_
@Karlach_ 4 ай бұрын
I respect them staying together for the sake of the kids, but man, that guy is wasting his life away being in a loveless and sexless marriage. Same with the woman. Being a single guy who jerks off and plays video games with friends is far superior to that man and woman's "relationship".
@walcoman
@walcoman 4 ай бұрын
@@Karlach_ gulp gulp gulp, burrpp.......AHHHHH......then all that's left to do is wipe the weapon and nighty night. 🤣
@john.a.gonsalves3731
@john.a.gonsalves3731 5 ай бұрын
When your life exists online and there is little human contact in every form, I believe you can become de-sensitized and lose grip on reality.....physical contact is vital.
@juanf5391
@juanf5391 4 ай бұрын
It's not that. It's the Post-Industrial world that Western economies are currently based on. Both men and women go to school, work, and build wealth before getting married. Most couples in the U.S. don't get married until their mid-to-late 30s. Germany is currently at a -1% population growth. It has nothing to do with "human contact."
@jacobperez8921
@jacobperez8921 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Western social trends are also resulting in the loss of meaningful relationships in the west. Men aren't having kids in the west like in many countries around the world. and it's a worrying trend that needs to be adressed.
@nat3299
@nat3299 4 ай бұрын
​@@jacobperez8921it definitely feels like something that's happening to developed countries not only the west, birth rate declines are common in easia and north America/Europe. In the global south it's really different and I feel like it has to do with many different aspects, in my country having a child is hard because of the economical situation
@edilee5909
@edilee5909 4 ай бұрын
I believe you are right, having experienced this myself
@louistournas120
@louistournas120 4 ай бұрын
​@@jacobperez8921 It is not just western countries. Other countries are copying the western model of getting a university education, getting a good job and then maybe get married. The goal is to have plenty of stuff, go out, go on long vacations, which means fewer kids. Nobody wants to live in a single room with 20 kids anymore.
@williamabaker12
@williamabaker12 4 ай бұрын
This is so incredibly depressing. Only one thing is guaranteed to come from this, societal collapse.
@Becky_Cal
@Becky_Cal 4 ай бұрын
I strongly agree. This is NOT a good trend and it is starting to happen not only in Japan but the U.S. and across Western Europe. 😬
@FromDkWithLove
@FromDkWithLove 4 ай бұрын
@@Becky_Cal Starting? People have been opting out of relationships and dating for years and years and decades already in the west. We're already well past the point of no return. Only reason mainstream still haven't caught on all these years, is that these people, new and older generations have become so accustomed to loneliness and suffering in silence and solitude with no one to reach out to. They're invisible, like ghosts and they're everywhere. Only now that the problem has become so severe that it affects 40 (soon to be 50 and 60)% of the population, are we starting to talk about it, in half whispers only.
@GameCritics
@GameCritics 4 ай бұрын
people only approve romantic relationships but you need to be attractive as a male to have romantic relationship with woman@@FromDkWithLove
@henrikswanstrom9218
@henrikswanstrom9218 4 ай бұрын
This is one of the effects of lategame capitalism unfortunately.
@exempligratia101
@exempligratia101 4 ай бұрын
It’s honestly better that way. Humanity’s greed and power of money have done well in destroying every inch of our lives and we should collectively reap what we’ve sowed. Tragic, yes, but better than anything else that people have done.
@amantekle127
@amantekle127 4 ай бұрын
I don't know how I landed here, but I am blown away by what I have just learned from this documentary about Japan. ❤
@beastybeefsupreme5507
@beastybeefsupreme5507 2 ай бұрын
Me as well.
@nasserm3908
@nasserm3908 4 ай бұрын
This makes the case in support of the fact that the wedding day glamour has never been about the marriage. It's a concept sold by wedding industry and appeals to women. It's not about the husband or commitment to marriage.
@JamilaLoubrielModelActress
@JamilaLoubrielModelActress 4 ай бұрын
right lol
@RyuzakiPragmatico
@RyuzakiPragmatico 4 ай бұрын
wedding party is unnecessary for the couple, it is more inteligent spend money on good moments between the couple than spend on luxurious "wedding day" and wedding clothes.
@SongsoftheEons
@SongsoftheEons 4 ай бұрын
LOL, you put into the words the very thought I had in the beginning when that woman had a wedding for herself. This is exactly why I hate the wedding industrial complex. My wife and I feel the same way on this, and we got married at the court house.
@superjock28
@superjock28 4 ай бұрын
​@@RyuzakiPragmaticoI spent 30k on the wedding my wife always wanted. No regrets
@MichelleP-J
@MichelleP-J 4 ай бұрын
Weddings predate the wedding industry. All cultures even the most primitive have wedding, rituals and cultures.
@oneyedthing
@oneyedthing 4 ай бұрын
This feels like an early 2000s NHK documentary
@jaynycha1705
@jaynycha1705 4 ай бұрын
VHS Quality and everything.
@fadingship935
@fadingship935 4 ай бұрын
did NHK existed and popular outside of japan then?
@hoseki4031
@hoseki4031 3 ай бұрын
that Otaku guy had 2 Accel World body pillows and a PS3, So this documentary was probably shot at around 2012-2014
@jaynycha1705
@jaynycha1705 3 ай бұрын
Yes! pre-social media Otaku (such as myself) existed. And we were visiting Tokyo waaay before ClownassFckng youtubers started flooding the city. Also, NHK would come on for a few hours on weird channels in NYC as early as 1999. So would Fuji-Television @@fadingship935
@hechsb3371
@hechsb3371 3 ай бұрын
It's in the description... This was released in 2016 so the estimate isn't far off
@moahammad1mohammad
@moahammad1mohammad 4 ай бұрын
Sensationalism with a poor explanation of the problem. Higher aging population, lower available younger dating pools, long work hours and public unwillingness to socialize and date/marry outside of familiar circles (schoolmates, co-workers, colleagues) is why relationships are in decline in Japanese CITIES. Take a bunch of strangers from across the country and dump them into four metropolitan cities by themselves and tell them to find a wife while studying and working 12 hours a day... now you see the real problem. Same thing that afflicts Korea.
@joshanonline
@joshanonline 4 ай бұрын
And too much suppression of masculinity by extreme punishments for masculine behavior. Men have too much to lose by approaching women while women have 0 accountability for misbehavior. There's even documented abused men by japanese fem coworkers and if revealed, the victims get punished lol That 'male' star said women got too strong for men, but that's mostly wrong. It's that women got TOO MUCH privileges in western cultures while men get destroyed by gov, courts and culture. And with far less rewards too. That Gamer guy said it best: "anime girls won't betray me." that's all it is. There's 0 loyalty in the dating market. Years ago, your wife would EVEN stay homeless with you. I've seen it. But I know I won't see it again--ever. Stuff of museums.
@burgertim7878
@burgertim7878 3 ай бұрын
After 12 hours of work (and probably the occasional "social" drinking night with boss and coworkers), I wouldn't be in the mood for sex or pursuing a relationship either.
@isaacbejjani5116
@isaacbejjani5116 3 ай бұрын
​@burgertim7878 the drinks are often mandatory in their culture as well. I have no problem telling someone I don't want to get drinks in the us, but in Japan it that can get you fired
@richie1002
@richie1002 3 ай бұрын
At least this documentary zooms in on a particular part of the problem. I learnt many more things from this that I can't learn elsewhere.
@pinksandalsnomusic6954
@pinksandalsnomusic6954 3 ай бұрын
Also thinking about Korea. But the main difference is that it looks like in Korea promiscuity is quite high, but in Japan it's the reverse of it 🤔...
@oszaszi
@oszaszi 4 ай бұрын
Im sorry but i cant stop laughing about the fact that they did not want to say Hentai so they said "very erotic manga" instead 🤣
@user-bi8ko7kc6h
@user-bi8ko7kc6h Ай бұрын
Cause hentai is a Japanese word but this is a English channel. 😂
@user-qx1om2wj1h
@user-qx1om2wj1h 24 күн бұрын
Hentai doesn't mean what you think it does, depending on context can mean strange or pervert. Erotic manga in Japan is actually called ero manga "ero" being short for "erotic". And porn is often referred to as "AV" which is short for "adult video", because yes Japan does use some English words.
@MJluvrr9220
@MJluvrr9220 3 ай бұрын
I’m a mixed Japanese, but I’m not from Japan or anything, however… the government is mostly to blame for the decrease in marriages and population. They need to stop overworking their people… or pay them more. Working people barely get holidays or days off in Japan.
@cristian15154
@cristian15154 4 ай бұрын
Actually couples that turn into parents and stopping having sex is not a thing only in Japan, it's all around the world. What happens is that most people turn the blind eye to this situation cause it's avoiding reality is easier.
@joshanonline
@joshanonline 4 ай бұрын
or nobody cares. People are so flooded with information online that they easily stopped caring about many important things like human interaction.
@regularguy2391
@regularguy2391 3 ай бұрын
Very true, my experience is that most woman if not all give up on sex after few children, after this life just becomes " go and buy this and that, bring grocery, wash cloths" many married couples dont even have sex months, and that all over the world.
@OpenBorders4isengard
@OpenBorders4isengard 3 ай бұрын
That’s depressing, I wonder why women give up on sex after having children, maybe the solution is to just keep making more children?
@dedesunbeam9361
@dedesunbeam9361 3 ай бұрын
@@OpenBorders4isengard They could keep having sex and use birth control, or better yet, get a vasectomy and tubal ligation.
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 3 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with not having kids if you realize you're not that type of person.
@tastychai5817
@tastychai5817 3 ай бұрын
A Japanese lady married to a Japanese man living in Japan and speaking French to the documentary maker. Very interesting!
@DouglasZanini
@DouglasZanini 3 ай бұрын
Several factors at play here: 1) Japanese women have only just recently (about 2-3 decades ago) joined the labor force. With their newfound array of possibilities, many are postponing marriages or skipping it altogether. 2) As mentioned by many, long work hours since WWII, but thats not the only thing. High housing and cost of living and low wages are also at play here. 3) The party in control of the government is a conservative party, that looks down on immigration, and has kept itself in power because it focuses on expanding social services programs for the elderly, that being the largest population group. So the aging population keeps them in power by virtue of being the majority, but the high cost associated with these program expansions increases the cost for everyone else. Most young Japanese don't vote. 4) Married couples simply cannot afford having kids. They both have to work full time jobs, sometimes more than one job to support themselves. Young people don't have as much interest in marriage as they used to, same as everywhere else in the world. Very little to do with shut-ins and "virgins". They exist (everywhere, not just Japan) but they are not the root of the problem.
@Hikari_Sakurai
@Hikari_Sakurai Ай бұрын
if japan ever opens their borders to uncontrolled immigration, they're doomed.
@internetmeta
@internetmeta Ай бұрын
Importing a bunch of free / cheap labor isn't and never has fixed anything. Opening the flood gates to imagination is only going to hurt the native people of what ever land.
@SuperMakalena
@SuperMakalena 4 ай бұрын
I don't understand why the husband and wife don't just sleep in the same bed at night.. your child can be important to you but you need to make room for your husband too. 😢
@Flavour25m
@Flavour25m 4 ай бұрын
Ofc I understand it. The children have become the NO.1 priority. If the couple agrees to that its fine I guess. But as a man I would adress this issue and work on it. There are ways of improving quality-time and sex-life as a couple. Make some sport together, consume healthier food, boost your testosterone with medication. If all that aint enough, there are pills to take. On the other hand if both are fine with that, I guess thats also okay. If you dont feel your lacking something, why work to achieve it?
@pk-ip2ek
@pk-ip2ek 3 ай бұрын
all the peolple shown here seem so friendly and sweet. i wish them all the best
@antoaneta70
@antoaneta70 4 ай бұрын
To me this is truly sad :(( I’m 38 and not married , we live in some crazy times 😢
@dfaro8453
@dfaro8453 4 ай бұрын
Bro you’re living the dream. You don’t have to worry about people using you.
@kevinisawake
@kevinisawake 4 ай бұрын
Are you male or female?
@gingerlove7739
@gingerlove7739 4 ай бұрын
We are the same age and not even married, it is sad.
@xanperia
@xanperia 4 ай бұрын
Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness. Many married people are extremely unhappy. I came across one study that showed that people who are generally cheerful and happy, are also happy in marriage or single. People who are generally negative and prone to saddness, are more likely unhappy in a marriage.
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up 4 ай бұрын
​@@xanperia Marriage provides intimate support in times of sadness, it must have a positive causitive effect on mental health and life satisfaction.
@picketf
@picketf 4 ай бұрын
One very big problem for families is there are almost no daycares. Even in a big metropole like Tokyo I have been to nearly all places and the programs seem very limited in comparison to schools which have a comprehensive syllabus and good staff... I found many unqualified people looking after small kids in daycares, meanwhile the prices and waiting lists are unbelievable absurd. There seems to be a great disconnect between early child education or activities and school content. To be honest all the facilities felt like little prisons and the kids were mostly looked down upon, almost like orphans. I know it's much more common for a parent to stay home at least until 1-2. grade.but still I was shocked to see that the most expensive facilities were not one bit better staff and content wise. This seems to me like the most obvious fix for the government to tackle. Families get very little support and being forced to quit careers is not a great incentive.
@simonrowe3124
@simonrowe3124 3 ай бұрын
Sex is a minor aspect of a deep and committed relationship between two individuals. Sex has become seen as essential to the healthy perpetuation of the relationship, though there are far more critical aspects that get overlooked, such as communication, listening, assisting one another in understanding one’s place in a complicated world. The sex industry has trivialised sex into a commodity, something to earn a living from. There is tremendous pressure to be in a relationship, and have sex…. All this is not to say that sex isn’t a natural human urge to perform.
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 3 ай бұрын
I blame MTV, and then the social media companies, mainstream media, music labels, and the general populace that watches trash like the kardashians, in Japan the general populace that buys into lolicon anime.
@honorafox4709
@honorafox4709 3 ай бұрын
@simonrowe3124 That was beautifully well said, Simon. 😊
@honorafox4709
@honorafox4709 3 ай бұрын
​@@astrahcat1212well put. And now lolicon has been making its way here in the United States for some time, too...
@buildertrash4102
@buildertrash4102 3 ай бұрын
Spot on description mate!. Nailed it.👍🏻
@bengal_tiger1984
@bengal_tiger1984 2 ай бұрын
I agree. In the West, sex is presented as some sort of cool and naughty adult pleasure not so different to substances. It's a natural human urge, but with it being featured so heavily and shown as something that's simply hedonistic and not the intimacy it has, it's doing its role in a committed relationship as something cheaper. Just anecdotally, it seems a couple that's madly in love with each other have it a lot more of it than someone who has one night stands or is known to be promiscuous.
@FireEagle89
@FireEagle89 4 ай бұрын
He patted her like you do a puppy 😂
@Vash3557
@Vash3557 3 ай бұрын
lol fr
@EP-qi8ed
@EP-qi8ed 3 ай бұрын
Because shaking hands is too business-like, and kissing is too intimate...I'm surprised he didn't just do a wave or bow instead....
@Shewas-kathybates
@Shewas-kathybates 3 ай бұрын
@@EP-qi8ed hugging isn’t allowed?
@cheesypoof19
@cheesypoof19 10 күн бұрын
after telling her "is a 100 times better when you've licked before" 😂 that was hot actually but at the end he had to bring it down a notch is only business after all
@roykong7024
@roykong7024 22 сағат бұрын
Petting is considered an affectionate sort of touching between couples in the culture. It's interesting how we differ between cultires just like how we find uncles and aunties kissing your cheeks weird in Europe.
@sharaswitala6296
@sharaswitala6296 5 ай бұрын
What a emotion less world. This is just so weird and painful. What a society
@Ghost007-yu2jm
@Ghost007-yu2jm 3 ай бұрын
their entertainment industry is one of the major reason they r like that, anime like stuff keeps you away from the reality
@user-ep7dx1fp1v
@user-ep7dx1fp1v 3 ай бұрын
It's really sad for them, you’re right, people should really try to live in reality instead of fantasies.
@buildertrash4102
@buildertrash4102 3 ай бұрын
Ours isn’t much better to be fair. In fact, it’s going down the debauchery path and will not end well.
@joachimlucious
@joachimlucious 4 ай бұрын
I thought i had problems in life, but having watched this video, i leave as the most satisfied man on earth. I am baffled 😮
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Ай бұрын
I see the red pill movement and their complaints about western women. It's a shyer culture there, but the distance between the sexes is far vaster. Perhaps the grass isn't greener on the other side after all. I think many of the passport bros that think Japan is much better might be in for a rude shock.
@mikeshafer
@mikeshafer 4 ай бұрын
Fascinating video, thank you.
@brianm.8585
@brianm.8585 5 ай бұрын
Very informative. I appreciate all of the work that went into producing this film.
@PlateletRichGel
@PlateletRichGel 5 ай бұрын
french documentaries are very well done.
@SandStormXII
@SandStormXII 4 ай бұрын
@user-wg2vw3mz1v
@user-wg2vw3mz1v 4 ай бұрын
Question: How does this all work? First the "solo wedding" and then...mitosis?
@markuchiha7737
@markuchiha7737 4 ай бұрын
In a world where everything is so connected electronically, while everyone is closed off. We live in a sad boring matrix that will not stop.
@Karlach_
@Karlach_ 4 ай бұрын
Most of the women were beautiful. So crazy that Japanese men weren't throwing themselves at them like us American men would be.
@GB-vw6kr
@GB-vw6kr 4 ай бұрын
@@Karlach_ It's not that Japanese men aren't throwing themselves at women, but it's largely due to the women rejecting men. This isn't just in Japan, it's turning into a global phenomenon, even in 2nd and 3rd world countries.
@arthurvp1682
@arthurvp1682 4 ай бұрын
@@GB-vw6kr true, japan is just ahead in time; in 5-10 years most of the west will look the same, immigrants will balance it out but native westerns will live like japanese
@a.s.1737
@a.s.1737 3 ай бұрын
​@@GB-vw6krwell I can't blame women for rejecting those Otaku guys. They were really sad
@buildertrash4102
@buildertrash4102 3 ай бұрын
@@a.s.1737yeah, because of the women!. 😂
@Nandini_Ea
@Nandini_Ea 4 ай бұрын
When work is your priority, everything else is diminished. So very sad. Hope these young people are able to turn things around for their generation and the next.
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 3 ай бұрын
It depends, if your work is helping people, then it's a different story.
@THORMYN1
@THORMYN1 4 ай бұрын
I have learned so much about Japan, its history, culture and people through all these wonderful KZfaq videos. I had no idea about the lost generation and difficulties young people are facing in society! I always thought that Japan was the perfect country and had no idea there was a darker side to it! I love everything Japanese but only as a visitor.
@thepsychicspoon5984
@thepsychicspoon5984 4 ай бұрын
I had no idea Japan has a dark side to it. Every country on earth has a dark side. There is no such thing as perfection. Especially, Japan who has a cruel and violent history. Look up Unit 731 and what the Japanese did at Nanking.
@captainmorguen3431
@captainmorguen3431 4 ай бұрын
​​@@thepsychicspoon5984Dude...😂 You didn't just go dark, you went straight to the infernal😂😂😂 Yes. Japanese history is full of terrors. As any other country, sure, but with a little extra morbidity on top😂 But that has very little to do with today's problems that Japan has.🤷‍♂️
@thepsychicspoon5984
@thepsychicspoon5984 4 ай бұрын
@captainmorguen3431 Does not a perfect country mean that it does not have any blemish? Oh, yea, modern Japan has nothing to do with the showa era, except that they keep denying it and downplaying it. Modern Japan, it is one of the most conservative cultures in the world that some liberal foreigners may not take a liking to. Its work culture is one of the reasons why the birth rate is so low, and drives people to .... themselves. Japanese work cultures take the worst of American work culture and cranks it up to 11. Its criminal justice system is questionable at best. The thing is that most people's knowledge of Japan comes from anime, and Wikipedia.
@bertramratneiya4010
@bertramratneiya4010 4 ай бұрын
Clear
@TRaWi
@TRaWi 4 ай бұрын
After some decades studying and admiring Japanese culture, I'd now say they have so many problems as virtues. I also had a time considering it perfect and the best possible place to live, but only because I was so enamoured of their creative and daring arts. The average Japanese person is very unhappy as their lives are plagued by the constant pressure to erase their individuality and still succeed. People don't ask for help, they don't ask for favors, they don't communicate to a personal level, making friendships is hard, you're expected to impress everyone and make your family proud in being able to reproduce harmful expectations. They know about mental health concepts but there's few to no mental health services because people refuse to use them.
@talky2721
@talky2721 4 ай бұрын
this was an extremely intresting docmentary!! thanks for the research
@solarmilonga3170
@solarmilonga3170 4 ай бұрын
Well presented film focused on the growing problem in Japan, packed with views from many angles & shades - great way that leaves hope & optimism rather than being forced to settle on simplistic ideas.
@EricaHigley
@EricaHigley 4 ай бұрын
The apartments with the stripper pole and bathtub as being the way to make couples intimate is so out of touch. These people do not want to even date to the opposite sex until into their 30s. There is no way they would use a stripper pole at all. Lol
@fecchitheillustrator7063
@fecchitheillustrator7063 14 күн бұрын
Pole seemed very unnecessary to me as well 😅
@dakshchandore6435
@dakshchandore6435 3 ай бұрын
There are just two thousand bengal tigers left in this world, and we are just like them, an endengered species - A wise japanese man
@boweandrew3
@boweandrew3 5 ай бұрын
Great documentary
@tony9305
@tony9305 4 ай бұрын
This was a very interesting video. Thanks for doing the research.
@Yoshiecatattck
@Yoshiecatattck 4 ай бұрын
This makes me appreciate my partner so much more!also the fact that I e never really had a problem finding a significant other here in the states makes me feel more privileged to live here
@Karlach_
@Karlach_ 4 ай бұрын
We're much more open with feelings and less restricted by traditions here in the US unlike the poor Japanese.
@ross9581
@ross9581 4 ай бұрын
They are not poor...and they behave...@@Karlach_
@user-ui9yo1kb9v
@user-ui9yo1kb9v 4 ай бұрын
They tend to forget the meaning behind a wedding
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 3 ай бұрын
In the Phillipines, you can't get unmarried by law, which I think is actually bad, but one good side effect is that when a woman marries she is ready to devote 1000% towards it, and would never dream or even culturally have the thought of future alimony or benefiting from divorce. So, a marriage is seen as incredibly sacred, and that's really how I think marriage should be.
@Greg-yu4ij
@Greg-yu4ij 4 ай бұрын
This is heartbreaking. I was with my woman for 32 years, happily married, three boys. I can’t imagine, living life like this. In my time, my girl and I used to double date with hook up our friends with each other. Most boys would match up with most girls. The boys had similar rights of passage that strengthens their character, and made them confident and attractive to women. Nobody knew how to pick up girls, and nobody had to learn, either. It just happened. Sure, every guy fantasize about being able to pick up hot chicks by snapping your fingers and sleeping with him that night, but our expectation was not outcome oriented. We had a great time together, we ran, played games, fought, had fun and round and round it went. My wife always came to me for sex and always climaxed. Then we all had our families and our children grew up in freedom. Cancer took my wife last year and I learned about the dating disaster. We need to stop worrying, forget about politics and get our Japanese brethren and all our virgin bros laid.
@malachit3741
@malachit3741 4 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss, I really hope to find that kind of love someday in this dating disaster. Back in your day, dating was easier and more pure before social media
@ving3573
@ving3573 4 ай бұрын
Thankyou for sharing your story. It’s giving me chills . This generation is so much focused in over thinking and doing the right thing that they lose touch with reality . Seems like Just having fun and quality time is hard these days ,
@ingodwetrustdellaware-inc8322
@ingodwetrustdellaware-inc8322 4 ай бұрын
Double date 📅 ???
@Groovy_Bruce
@Groovy_Bruce 4 ай бұрын
Lol
@Frivals
@Frivals 4 ай бұрын
In which country you had that experience?
@AwokenEntertainment
@AwokenEntertainment 4 ай бұрын
it's incredible how social and economic pressure has overcome the natural desire to mate in the country of Japan.. hopefully they can start having normal relationships again!
@bevrosity
@bevrosity 4 ай бұрын
what does religion have to do with it?
@sitdowndogbreath
@sitdowndogbreath 4 ай бұрын
Cold story bro Now make me my chicken teriyaki sandwich
@movement2contact
@movement2contact 4 ай бұрын
Pressure to what...? Not marry? What are you on about.... 🤦
@LeBronya_James
@LeBronya_James 4 ай бұрын
@@bevrosityReligion? Edited out because I don’t see
@bevrosity
@bevrosity 3 ай бұрын
@@LeBronya_James yes, they edited it out.
@nasernaeem9977
@nasernaeem9977 3 ай бұрын
I firmly believe that the "sex counselor" and the apartment "architect" Have absolutely no knowledge of how relationships or love or sex work in anyway whatsoever 🤷🏻‍♂️
@gargwinvinesnake6961
@gargwinvinesnake6961 3 ай бұрын
You didn't find the floor lamp, mysterious living room counter tap to the hidden tub, and random stripper pole the epitome of seduction?! 😂
@FRGTNDRKNSS
@FRGTNDRKNSS 2 ай бұрын
You believe that because their approach is foreign to you. They are giving advice and counseling based on the established taboos and societal constraints regarding sex and love within Japan. It’s not like most of the rest of the world where people twerk, dress half naked and promote their onlyfans everywhere.
@nasernaeem9977
@nasernaeem9977 2 ай бұрын
@@FRGTNDRKNSS aaahhh yes yes I see its working perfectly, I didnt say to dress half naked or whatever you are talking about, But what they "advice" doesn't work for anyone is just plain stupid, Plus the "love advisor" or whatever.... Doesnt have love.... Not a very welcoming sign 🤣
@nasernaeem9977
@nasernaeem9977 2 ай бұрын
@@gargwinvinesnake6961 eyyyy The architect must took the idea from the sex counselor who doesnt get any her self 😭😭😭
@explorermike19
@explorermike19 4 ай бұрын
How terribly sad. I have spent a lot of time in Japan. Japan really can be a very lonely place especially for Japanese people.
@dev9100-luv-the-world
@dev9100-luv-the-world 5 ай бұрын
Very interesting documentary
@Greg-yu4ij
@Greg-yu4ij 4 ай бұрын
Kamazawa did well. If he only knew how well… He hit it off with his girl, they had fun, and he boldly got her number. Then the best thing happened. He got rejected. Do you know why? Hold that thought. Imagine if he went on a date with this girl, held her hand, gave her a hug goodnight and topped it off with… “I love you”. Not holding eye contact he would be ghosted and never know what happened, that those 3 words are not just words, they can be kryptonite. He will watch this video, see her cringe and learn keep his intentions ambiguous, a lesson that usually costs a lot more. Kamazawa is a stud. Now he just has to rinse and repeat,… and keep his intentions to himself so that when he does say those 3 words- they are more than words.
@Strong256
@Strong256 4 ай бұрын
haha best thing lol
@amarjo351
@amarjo351 3 ай бұрын
He ain't a stud yet, but if he keeps trying he'll get their.
@chichi-ir5dy
@chichi-ir5dy 4 ай бұрын
What a very interesting documentary
@zaharizahariev
@zaharizahariev 4 ай бұрын
The reality is that even with two working parents the salaries are not enough for a child to be brought up properly in the west nowadays. The education housing and health care are astronomically expensive don’t mention the water and electricity bills and food. It’s a hunger games in which even the fittest won’t survive.
@Flavour25m
@Flavour25m 4 ай бұрын
You can survive on 1 meal a day. Food is overwhelming the planet. Its more than ever before. You really dont need a nice flat to live in. You can get a camper-can or whatever. Issue is most people dont think about that stuff and blame others like society for their issues. In the west we have all possibilities most people on earth want. You dont even need a car. There is cheap transportation in most countries. You can even get help from the state if your unemployed and use your working-force to find jobs where you can earn money where you get paid directly like in dog-care, house-work and so on... . If you struggle to survive and your a healthy human being your just making up poor excuses for yourself.
@toscadonna
@toscadonna 3 ай бұрын
Both of my grandfathers worked 2 jobs their entire lives to provide. Men don’t do that anymore. They expect their wife to work both inside and outside the home, and many married men with only one job go out dating after work leaving their wives to pull the second shift of work at home alone.
@OkamiRose
@OkamiRose 2 ай бұрын
@@Flavour25mYou sound ‘fun’ to talk with at parties
@JapanMonAmourTheJapanHouse
@JapanMonAmourTheJapanHouse 4 ай бұрын
it may be selfish, but its so tempting to be single and live a less complicated life without the responsibilities of having a partner
@THORMYN1
@THORMYN1 4 ай бұрын
I know it’s very tempting , I’ve been married for 50 years and if I could do it all over again I would not even though I love my children and grand children to death! The stark reality is that when there are no more children entering the workforce and pay taxes there eventually won’t be an old age pension anymore. I wonder what the future holds for coming generations, would be interesting to see how this problem is handled!
@eatplastic9133
@eatplastic9133 4 ай бұрын
Not selfish at all! People fear loneliness too much and get into relationships before they have figured themselves out
@SirusStarTV
@SirusStarTV 4 ай бұрын
And it's so easy you don't need to do anything to avoid being not single 😂
@simonrowe3124
@simonrowe3124 3 ай бұрын
@@THORMYN1The Government will pay people for sperm and eggs, and ‘make’, or ‘create’ a work force, and the divide will be between naturally born humans, AI imitations and humans born in a test tube. Don’t worry, there’s a solution for all problems, no matter how distasteful it might first appear!
@mindyschocolate
@mindyschocolate 3 ай бұрын
It’s not selfish. I’ve always been single. I love it. Way better than getting into a bad spot with a crazy person and having to deal with drama. Not worth abusive relationships.
@melissalarson2569
@melissalarson2569 5 ай бұрын
Japan friends, im so sorry about your earthquake. We are praying for you and your in are heart and thoughts. ❤
@Azul.007
@Azul.007 4 ай бұрын
Excellent documentary. 👌🏼👍🏻
@kevinanaks8554
@kevinanaks8554 4 ай бұрын
Japan is in real trouble if this lack of love-trend continues..
@willisransom805
@willisransom805 4 ай бұрын
A very interesting and informative video respectfully done answering 99% of the interpersonal questions in Japanese society. Very well done.
@michaelsowden5892
@michaelsowden5892 4 ай бұрын
I went to college with some Japanese exchange students. We were all bizarre aliens from another galaxy to them.
@alexhamilton3522
@alexhamilton3522 4 ай бұрын
Now I'm interested. Why was that? You should start a blog about it, lol.
@JeanClaudeCOCO
@JeanClaudeCOCO 3 ай бұрын
With how closed Japanese society is towards foreigners and as this documentary points out there is a growing gulf between people coming together let alone finding intimacy I wonder if them opening up and potentially finding mates outside of their culture or race would help bridge the gap and potentially give people other options than just what is available inside Japan. Interfaith, intercultural marriages, dating and just being friends with others from different backgrounds could widen the possibilities.
@jordannewman177
@jordannewman177 3 ай бұрын
@@JeanClaudeCOCODiversity erodes the quality of a national and eventually destroys it. Mass immigration causes societal collapse and ruins social cohesion. Homogenous nations are the best off, and history has always proven this. Multicultural nations that have sizeable populations from cultures that don’t mix, don’t work.
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 3 ай бұрын
@@alexhamilton3522 Japanese groups, even if you are half japanese, will never allow you to be one of them, even if you were a master at the language and lived in Japan for decades.
@prottentogo
@prottentogo 2 ай бұрын
@@astrahcat1212 wow that's crazy
@kalpanabharatme
@kalpanabharatme 4 ай бұрын
I think one main problem is their online world. When you loose your connection to the real world how can you live in it?
@Andrea-jg1df
@Andrea-jg1df 3 ай бұрын
Also, working all day long like crazy, and at the end of their long day, they come to their boxes. Not homes but boxes.
@sondraedwards5205
@sondraedwards5205 2 ай бұрын
💯🧡
@udug3583
@udug3583 3 ай бұрын
Very interesting documentary, thank you.
@georgenemtzov
@georgenemtzov 4 ай бұрын
it's not economic or social pressure. It's a governance balance challenge - how to make the population productive (incl. sexually), but also obedient and farmable. Japan is a very firmly structured, traditional society that has advanced in the "obedient and farmable" departments. These (un)fortunate people live in such advanced, safe but stagnant society which offers no meaningful existential challenges or social mobility - 2 natural baby-making boosters, in the absence of which you can only try more weird, unnatural solutions.
@wakaikozy6084
@wakaikozy6084 4 ай бұрын
Well said
@dmitriikurilov1569
@dmitriikurilov1569 4 ай бұрын
It is much more simple than that: 1. Corporations keep wages so low that workers cannot afford having children. 2. Workers decide to not have children. 3. Population quickly shrinks and the nation cease to exist. Karl Marks called it "over exploitation" i.e. exploitation so ruthless that labour resource cannot replenish and get exhausted over time. Corps are so greedy and short sighted that they kill the very society they feed on. Like the Spanish flue virus that killed their bearers in time of the First World War. It's very ironic if you think about it: these super advanced corp monsters have the level of consciousness of a primitive virus half-life 🤷
@Luigi13
@Luigi13 4 ай бұрын
It is definitely an interesting documentary that shows when human births are in decline there are no restrictions to express the importance of making it happen between the sexes. Well documented and presented in the film.
@plaguedoc1403
@plaguedoc1403 4 ай бұрын
At this rate, many other countries will end up like Japan, and that terrifies me.
@heavent883
@heavent883 3 ай бұрын
that exactly what i thought
@Ghost007-yu2jm
@Ghost007-yu2jm 3 ай бұрын
what can be done to stop this? stop the weeb culture?
@plaguedoc1403
@plaguedoc1403 3 ай бұрын
​@@Ghost007-yu2jm I'm not sure if that's fixable. I think these are the natural results of religional decline, internet era and economical independence of women. Married couples had many obligations to stay married and tolerate eachother for a lifetime. Now the reasons are few.
@Destiny15
@Destiny15 4 ай бұрын
This documentary sure was something, enjoyed it tho 😂
@sirgeoh
@sirgeoh 5 ай бұрын
These women are so beautiful. Crazy to think they are not being approached by men there. Screen addiction is distorting our reality and our natural selves. Nobody wants the stress and financial burden of raising kids anymore. Maybe when half the population dies, the people in power will realize that pure capitalism (which does not care about the health and wellbeing of society) needs to be adjusted.
@blacksilverchair3315
@blacksilverchair3315 4 ай бұрын
Women's liberation movement. Plus MeToo.
@VioletteToussaint
@VioletteToussaint 4 ай бұрын
@@blacksilverchair3315 That does not exist there.
@VioletteToussaint
@VioletteToussaint 4 ай бұрын
@@Tttttttttttggghggffhh Japanese people just don't feel like getting in relationship anymore
@AngloSaxons
@AngloSaxons 4 ай бұрын
I agree about the internet influencing society negatively, but I don’t blame Capitalism, and I’ve never had a problem with women or finding meaningful relationships. Maybe I’m just a Chad 🤷🏼‍♂️
@anthonyboomer641
@anthonyboomer641 4 ай бұрын
In todays world, Screen addiction is preferable to 'social humiliation'!
@bobbytran6759
@bobbytran6759 4 ай бұрын
This is what happens when you live in a world that everyone demands perfection! Even ones own orgasim!
@BtheLee11
@BtheLee11 4 ай бұрын
that and when your employers fail to pay even enough to cover rent and food
@torontoyes
@torontoyes 4 ай бұрын
Nah.. this is what happens when you stop worshipping God, define your own purpose and go completely of the rails.
@SUPSIRO
@SUPSIRO 4 ай бұрын
@@torontoyes Japanese never worshipped God, so youre comment is bullshit. Also this makes no sense even in the sense of Religion.
@torontoyes
@torontoyes 4 ай бұрын
@@SUPSIRO LOL, you know, you don't need to guess, you can simply do a Google search. I mean, we live in a time of information. Your WRONG. Every nation that has walked this earth has had a belief in God, what is foreign to us, is the opposite of that. In fact, children are born with the natural disposition to believe in God, this was a study done, by Oxford University, they spent I think almost 3 million dollors to determine that, lol. Let me know if you want the reference for that. They should have asked a Muslim, we would have told them that for free.
@Zeno362
@Zeno362 4 ай бұрын
​@@torontoyes lmao, and here I thought Christians were all about chastity..XD what a joke.
@inog3633
@inog3633 3 ай бұрын
This is heartbreaking. 😢. I cannot imagine how lonely some people might be.
@matroschka5145
@matroschka5145 3 ай бұрын
Having a wedding without a groom was a nightmare I once had which had me traumatazied for years now
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Ай бұрын
I can't imagine paying big money to spend a day as a bride alone. They even offered those girls a man to take pictures and enhance the fantasy of a wedding day, and they were declining it. Seemed all about the the wedding dress, and some American glam experience.
@rainHellsing
@rainHellsing Ай бұрын
@@saintejeannedarc9460i get it, i want a wedding only rn to get dressed up all fancy : )
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Ай бұрын
@@rainHellsing I don't get that, but I understand a lot of women really want that princess treatment and it's really cultivated in our culture to have the dream wedding. I guess I'm more basic and only care about marrying someone I love, that will love me deeply and be faithful and loyal. That would be my ultimate goal in a wedding. What I wear is well behind that. But women really love to look their best too, and that's very important.
@goodfox9250
@goodfox9250 4 ай бұрын
In the past the practice of arrange marriages also added to Japan’s population. Now with their modern society, Japan will hopefully embrace more childcare and financial benefits for the younger generation. In doing so I believe Japan will find a balance.
@xanperia
@xanperia 4 ай бұрын
Yup. Years ago, I studied Japanese in uni (here in Europe) and one of the teachers was from Japan. She was 25 and very concerned that she wasn't married yet and that she had no boyfriend. She said "Well, I guess I have to let my parents arrange a marriage for me". We, students, gave each other a wtf-did-she-just-say look, but the teacher herself was dead serious. Luckily, she found a Japanese boyfriend, who had also moved here from Japan and I think, over time, she didn't feel so pressured to actually get married so quickly anymore. So it worked out well for her.
@sitdowndogbreath
@sitdowndogbreath 4 ай бұрын
​@@xanperiathat was years ago bro The situation has declined Even further.
@LetTheWrite1inn
@LetTheWrite1inn 5 ай бұрын
Very interesting
@Randorf100
@Randorf100 2 ай бұрын
Good job Olivia keep it going
@rapramix
@rapramix 4 ай бұрын
Japan has two issues that are: 1. Workforce related. 2. Too conservative view on parenthood which means that dads are too lazy when it comes to raising their children.
@sssoundslike2259
@sssoundslike2259 4 ай бұрын
Don’t blame conservatism, the issues you see here are a liberal invention. When the country was more conservative, marriage was valued which lead to greater birth rates. The loneliness of both men and women in this video is incredibly sad, this will be the West in 10 years if we don’t reverse it.
@Bonita.Vampira_
@Bonita.Vampira_ 4 ай бұрын
@@sssoundslike2259he’s right. Men go to work, women stay at home and raise the kids. Plus for women they judge on appearance when they go back to the workforce. They hire only Young people
@mathewdeu3328
@mathewdeu3328 4 ай бұрын
Its not about being conservative.....they overwork themselves...they need to encourage one of the parents to stay home and take care of the kids....financial incentives would be good.
@tr1bes
@tr1bes 4 ай бұрын
​@@sssoundslike2259parenting kids today required both parents to be involved. Why? Capitalism today pretty much have both parents work. A single income is not likely. So both parents have to work somehow. Chores and taking care of the kids require time and dedication. One person can work for the whole family but it's going to be divided up with how many people at home depend on it. There won't be enough savings or very little of it. Today's problem of single, single parents, kids problem (mental), and family's social problem can be attributed to Capitalism. If people have enough income where money is not a problem, people can devoted to family time and other people. People don't have to worry about overtime and make ends meet.
@tr1bes
@tr1bes 4 ай бұрын
It's been like that since WW2, where female goes to work. It's an extra income. Now that business think that the female and male once join can make more income, they raise the commodities up. So single income for the whole family is not going to work in most cases.
@afab777
@afab777 4 ай бұрын
there is an elephant in the room: there is something wrong when one prefers the comicbook companionship than live ones, when one is afraid of being rejected so they just go to make-believe professionals... this is sad.
@RyuzakiPragmatico
@RyuzakiPragmatico 4 ай бұрын
deal with real woman isn't easy, in most cases it means deal with rejection.
@superjock28
@superjock28 4 ай бұрын
​@1984inBR rejection happens every day lol who cares, move on to the next girl
@che55ie
@che55ie 3 ай бұрын
@@RyuzakiPragmatico then deal with it and move on.
@hellitsabouttime8487
@hellitsabouttime8487 3 ай бұрын
@@superjock28 For what and why? The nerds seem a lot happier then the lonely husband drinking alcohol by himself
@superjock28
@superjock28 3 ай бұрын
@hellitsabouttime8487 I didn't say get married. Idc what anyone says, single nerds that are afraid of rejection are not as happy as a chad who has been with girls even if they have been rejected
@rosemichel2551
@rosemichel2551 18 күн бұрын
The ending was beautiful glad I stayed to watch it.
@francisssali2550
@francisssali2550 4 ай бұрын
This is a real crisis, they need some serious help
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 3 ай бұрын
The crisis is that 99% of everyone uses the internet at this point, and social interaction and meeting people in that way is a whole other ball game that most aren't adapted to. It also raises problems of how groups of women get together and will 'cancel' a guy they don't like, often breakups will happen in a sort of cancel culture way now, I've seen this phenomenon like 50 times now online. I've seen guys actually swear off of women because when they went through a breakup, that added element of online harassment and bullying drove them to depression, near suicide, and now they prefer to be completely alone. Other guys, this one guy my friend knew, actually kept joining groups of girls online and kept getting cancelled by them over and over again. By 'cancel', I mean, the group of girls start trying to dig up dirt on their past, and then posting that publicly online. When he goes into some other group, they go after that group too, because their goal is to try to permanently destroy his reputation. They'll even stalk him years afterwards sometimes. Usually the easiest way for a group of girls to go after a guy these days, is to try to tell everyone they know, including just the internet publicly the common 'He talked with a minor' lie, this is a common thread between many cancellations I've seen. At that point, it then becomes a hazard to talk to ANY women at all, because even if a guy is to meet one offline, they'll still text each other, and texting itself becomes dangerous and becomes a recorded documentation of their conversations, which can be used against them later, as it works as evidence, 'evidence' that can often be misconstrued and taken out of context later.
@avidtraveller
@avidtraveller 4 ай бұрын
Ideas like this only help to solidify the notion that Japan (and other countries) are in dire, cardiac arrest. Socially the core idea of family, and the steps that lead to continuing a healthy society are going to decline even harder. The story of this woman paying for a fake wedding is disturbing to me. She's afraid of being with a person, and afraid of life's realities. That said Japan also needs to consider a different strategy of work / life balancing.
@tattooninja
@tattooninja 2 ай бұрын
All the stories were disturbing, I found the French weirdo the most creepy honestly
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Ай бұрын
@@tattooninja At least the French guy was doing a matchmaking thing and trying to alleviate the problem. It looked like it had more success than the Japanese matchmaking retreat. Though it was Frenched up and a lot more sexual.
@xmine08
@xmine08 2 ай бұрын
This is also the future in the West. I could've been japanese as far the documentary is concerned just until a few years ago. Took about 3 years of hard labor on myself to get to the point of being able to do anything dating related, and then another two years to find a girl. She also hadn't dated before. Writing this from our shared flat we recently moved to :)
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Ай бұрын
Best of luck to you both. Hope you get married and have children too.
@demonslayer9772
@demonslayer9772 25 күн бұрын
Please consider writing back to give us updates from time to time. I want to see how the story ends. Good luck with everything.
@natepowell1141
@natepowell1141 2 ай бұрын
This is so depressing! Paying for a hug is so wild to me! These men need to step up and be confident in themselves
@AntonOfTheWoods
@AntonOfTheWoods 4 ай бұрын
From what I am able to understand about Japanese culture, plastic dolls are more acceptable than non-Japanese as both sexual partners and spouses. Abstinence is also preferred over foreigners, no matter where they come from. I find it hard to believe but even Japanese who emigrated for a generation or two then went back are apparently no longer ok. Maybe cultures come and go, and that's ok?
@LondonEE16
@LondonEE16 4 ай бұрын
So how come in places like the states Asian women frequently choose white men as partners? It's a real problem for Asian men.
@JeanClaudeCOCO
@JeanClaudeCOCO 3 ай бұрын
That is the root of the problem. Even in other Asian cultures there is a continuation of that bloodline regardless of place of birth of their partner. While Japan is closed off and frown upon that for the most part.
@LondonEE16
@LondonEE16 3 ай бұрын
Why then are foreign women prized as bar "hostesses?" And in the West, Asian women are marrying Non-Asian men at a rate that hinders Asian men's chances at getting a partner at all?
@amanaopaluwa317
@amanaopaluwa317 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for putting this video out... I have learnt a lot about the Japanese people. with love from Nigeria🤗
@lek8630
@lek8630 3 ай бұрын
ppl ability to make profit out of thin air never cease to amaze me
@user-mm2bz5pf9y
@user-mm2bz5pf9y 4 ай бұрын
This is what free country is all about, this is not allowed in some countries or people dare to do that due to the pressure from either family or society.
@mars2459
@mars2459 4 ай бұрын
I think marriage is still there, it just getting pushed back later in life. Example people are buying house and settling down later in life compared to how life was 10, 20 + years ago. Factors such as financial stability, debt, cost of living, inflation does affect people ability to settle down.
@MultiSciGeek
@MultiSciGeek 3 ай бұрын
Beyond depressing... and I say this as a person who's indoors alone 24/7.
@stdenis9327
@stdenis9327 12 күн бұрын
I'm blown away i never though even a second that this existed!
@johnadams1976
@johnadams1976 5 ай бұрын
Is there anywhere in the world that society hasn't messed itself up???? I need to go live wherever that is... If it still exists... While it still exists
@marpintado
@marpintado 5 ай бұрын
Depends of what you think is not messed up in a society. The world is no longer of the people but of the governments and ultra-rich.
@beverlyledbetter4906
@beverlyledbetter4906 5 ай бұрын
These guys need to grow up!😶
@sumitmangar8563
@sumitmangar8563 5 ай бұрын
india
@Xane69
@Xane69 4 ай бұрын
the gods kingdom is the only one now lmao... every place just seem to have their own flaw now
@fayiaforay
@fayiaforay 4 ай бұрын
I believe Africa stands a better chance in this because of our close community relationship.
@amaiaormazabal1879
@amaiaormazabal1879 4 ай бұрын
Head in lap, I was expecting her to stroke his hair 😅
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Ай бұрын
Or hold hands or something. It was very polite and very distant. I can see why the rules were for him not to touch her, but she didn't touch him either, unless it was a paid extra.
@Jj-rq9sp
@Jj-rq9sp 19 күн бұрын
I was surprised at that as well. But I don't think the men would have been able to handle it if the women were using there hands in the interaction as part of the service. From what I gathered from video it seems that service is not meant to be sexualized. And given that hugging and holding hands are big steps in intimacy in the culture in general I can see how they wouldn't find it strange and find value in just being in the person's presence and talking and having whatever contact is allowed. They don't have it otherwise so they find it valuable I guess?
@luisescamilla3344
@luisescamilla3344 4 ай бұрын
This is so interesting and sad.
@abdullahaltaf334
@abdullahaltaf334 2 ай бұрын
3:31 we are endangered species had me dying 🤣🤣
@maggietang4536
@maggietang4536 4 ай бұрын
I would not want to marry a person who thinks a solo wedding is a good idea
@MaruMaruPoyo
@MaruMaruPoyo 3 ай бұрын
I wouldn't think they would want to marry you either so it works ig
@mujexzilla
@mujexzilla 4 ай бұрын
If you've ever thought relations between the sexes in the West is autistigly cringe, just watch this documentary and something tells me you will feel better, in a depressing kind of way...
@hoodybaker8249
@hoodybaker8249 3 ай бұрын
Japan has been ahead of us in many ways ,so sadly this is to come for us as well. You can see it already happening.
@desiree2428
@desiree2428 3 ай бұрын
To me, this is so sad. I've been married almost 27 years with 4 children and wouldn't trade it for anything.
@Zharael-Z
@Zharael-Z 4 ай бұрын
She's looking for someone like that rental boyfriend? come one, let's be real, you'll never find someone like that. That is a rental boyfriend, a transactional relationship, he will give you the best experience there is. No man would act like that in real life, all I see is that rental bf raising the bar and expectations for that lonely lady.
@SirusStarTV
@SirusStarTV 4 ай бұрын
Even he acting awkard, so other non rental guys would be even more awkard.
@copperredd
@copperredd 4 ай бұрын
If she would rather be single than settle for less, its her decision to make
@Zharael-Z
@Zharael-Z 4 ай бұрын
@@copperredd You right, I mean, the definition of settling for what you want does exist out there. Only unreachable.
@copperredd
@copperredd 4 ай бұрын
@@Zharael-Z i think it comes down to the individual and what they r willing to do to get what they want...
@mymommalife8259
@mymommalife8259 4 ай бұрын
Although I love my career it is not enough to hide away. I adore my husband and kiddos. I can’t imagine life like this. It’s different times
@rvs55
@rvs55 4 ай бұрын
When you have a brutal work culture as they have, how can all young people have time to even think about love or marriage?
@TheCSClassroom
@TheCSClassroom 2 ай бұрын
I found it interesting how the mother at 23:22 switched to French to discuss some more "taboo" topics regarding relationships in Japan.
@mlrussell1
@mlrussell1 4 ай бұрын
What a sad state of affairs. The dystopian future that we see in movies is real - in the East as well in the West.
@forrestfey
@forrestfey 3 ай бұрын
In some countries there are child care, and women continue to work.
@SelvirDedic
@SelvirDedic 5 ай бұрын
Stupidity has no limits, but hey there is always someone taking advantage of it and getting rich. The more crazy the idea the more chance of success nowdays 😂😂😂
@KatendeNasser
@KatendeNasser 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@diendiadre
@diendiadre 4 ай бұрын
You sound like Mysterio.
@TomSir79
@TomSir79 Ай бұрын
true true...
@chilled99
@chilled99 3 ай бұрын
Solo weddings are proof weddings are not about the husband, just the fulfilment of a Disney like dream. Women should do this solo wedding to get it out of their system so they can marry someone for the right reasons later.
@kyttraus
@kyttraus 3 ай бұрын
Sex used to be one of the easiest available fun times people could have. Nowadays there are so many alternative ways to feel good (like playing games for example) and also the whole lack of physical interaction coupled with less time, higher prices etc, makes real relationships harder to start and maintain
@SomethingNewAMBW
@SomethingNewAMBW 4 ай бұрын
they really need to learn how to interact with each other....AGAIN. second, address the work culture for Christ's sake! there needs to be work/life balance.
@jaswindersian3159
@jaswindersian3159 5 ай бұрын
How SAD to have a created such a twisted society !
@JosephLee2012
@JosephLee2012 4 ай бұрын
If the Japanese ban porn, I believe many men and women in Japan would marry. It may be the same in Korea, but many went to church in Korea for the purpose of finding a marriage partner.
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