I Married A 26-Year-Old Who's Jailed For Life

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I Married A 26-Year-Old Who's Jailed For Life | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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MONTREANNA and Manny started off as high school sweethearts before splitting when they were still at school. Years later, Montreanna found out that Manny had been sentenced to life in jail. Speaking to Love Don't Judge, she revealed: "It was very hard for me. I understood that he didn't deserve that and he doesn't deserve that. I was just looking at his charges and looking at the situation and was like, that's not him, what's going on?" When she bumped into his cousin, Montreanna asked them to get Manny to call her and weeks later, he phoned. Montreanna gushed: "It felt like my heart was literally beating out of my chest. I just felt every single butterfly you could have on this earth in my stomach." The pair got married at Manny's jail after he proposed to Montreanna over the phone. However, Manny's current sentence means that he's behind bars for life and many question why Montreanna is sticking with her man. Today her mum, Comanetta, will be coming over to share her own brutal opinions on the relationship. Comanetta said: "When she first told me that she was getting back together with him. I was real sceptical. You need to think about the reality." Despite the challenges and judgement that the couple face, Montreanna refuses to let the hate dictate their relationship. Reflecting, she said: "There's nothing wrong to me with loving somebody. It doesn't matter where he's at, where he resides. I love someone."
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@blackheavyblans 4 ай бұрын

She's the biggest example of "I can fix him"

@ItsBrittany. 4 ай бұрын

Hahaha right

@robertchapman160 4 ай бұрын

Hell get out and two weeks later unfortunately he'll kill her after an argument

@blackheavyblans 4 ай бұрын

@@robertchapman160 I'd not confuse if that happens

@xararogers3186 4 ай бұрын

@@robertchapman160this happened to someone I knew. She worked in the same building I worked in. Her husband committed larceny/theft, but it was federal because he stole a government issued computer. He went to prison for 2 years and right before he got out, his mom died. Within a few weeks of his full release from a halfway house, he killed her, dumped her body and left her. Thank goodness, he’s in prison.

@jdwrcc 4 ай бұрын

her mind is made up , he’s in there for life, you’re so young, yes you are his everything because you’re all he has, you should have found a better role model for yourself and your children, just goes to show you how a man can get into your head, especially when you have low self esteem

@catapillargirl2021 4 ай бұрын

If he truly loved her he would tell her to live her life until he’s out. They can stay in communication but it’s selfish for him to expect her to not live when she didn’t commit any crime.

@death24314 4 ай бұрын

Trust me she got somebody on the side

@finezzer 4 ай бұрын

I thought accepting a proposal was agreeing to get married but ok

@sugarrbear7113 4 ай бұрын

This is the most important statement. Once you have worked in a prison , jail or detention center, it some things you cannot unsee. The most strongest male , toughest male , have been compromised or has had his way with someone. It can be a deputy, inmate, cook, or anyone who is willing to satisfy him at any cost. Men have several women on their visitation list in rotation. You need to understand that no matter how much you love him his commitment is with himself.

@Starrynight77-7 4 ай бұрын

@@sugarrbear7113Working in prison I know for sure that you also encountered men that were loyal to one person and didn’t engage in those other activities.

@Starrynight77-7 4 ай бұрын

Why is there an assumption that she isn’t living her life?

@elizajanica7679 4 ай бұрын

I dated a man in prison and it was horrible. He is extremely selfish and was constantly putting me down. I did so much for him, put money on his books, wrote letters, visited him etc just for him to say I've done nothing for him. He's been out for a few months and has done absolutely nothing to help me and he has physically assaulted me. Not only that but he has been with other women. I would never advise a young woman to date/marry a man in prison. If the shoe was on the other foot, would he do the same for you? 🤷‍♀️ Ladies don't waste your time!

@ivyamaru9537 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow I’m so sorry that happen to u & u went thru all that, God bless u & stay safe🙏🏽❤️💫✨

@elizajanica7679 4 ай бұрын

@@ivyamaru9537 I appreciate that!

@ivyamaru9537 4 ай бұрын

@@elizajanica7679 you’re welcome, np❤️✨

@carloscoy7015 3 ай бұрын

@@elizajanica7679i myself did 15yrs.in prison.the first thing i did was divorce my wife.not because i no longer loved her but because i loved her.i didnt want her tied down to a loser like me.i didnt want her to become an adulterer and i didnt want her to miss out in life.i did my time.i loved her and shed many tears.she is married now with two kids.im so happy she was able to move on.even if it hurt her happyness meant more to me.

@real8342 2 ай бұрын

🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️..black women do stupid stuff

@sammietulip7948 4 ай бұрын

It is painful to watch people making a fool out of themselves.

@BanannaSlipknot 2 ай бұрын

Naw it’s entertaining

@jernisharichard5032 2 ай бұрын

😢 yes, she is lost. God should be your first love, he deserves our attention. I pray she finds the love of Christ, and be transformed by the RENEWING of your mind.

@summerdowlig Ай бұрын

Very sad.

@carlosmark9840 Ай бұрын

It’s hilarious 😂

@dorinefotsa4706 17 күн бұрын

@@jernisharichard5032 Amen

@gregc3832 4 ай бұрын

She is 26, come back in 10 years, and let me know how that waiting is coming along.

@daphnepierre1038 4 ай бұрын

Exactly right 👍

@virginiahall4030 4 ай бұрын

Exactly

@xararogers3186 4 ай бұрын

I hate to be a Debbie Downer, but I agree. Also, as her friends start having children, she may feel she is missing out.

@Maui_Gyrl_ 4 ай бұрын

@@xararogers3186 She already have 2 kids by him. This is probably why she's doing this...maybe no better options around her or in her community.

@choheadmusic8460 4 ай бұрын

@@Maui_Gyrl_how do you know its his kids because she never said that

@chouanna7417 4 ай бұрын

This is all wrong, and dragging her kids into this mess is ridiculous

@Spanishcuban 4 ай бұрын

Shut up

@eric-fz1np 4 ай бұрын

This has a common relationship that black women love for the last 40 years

@HMKASTheImpeccable 2 ай бұрын

Sad af

@charleeceejay8543 Ай бұрын

Preach!!!

@taliaasims 4 ай бұрын

I really like the magazine. She should make these custom for people and sell them. Very talented.

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🫶🏽

@kellsliving3220 4 ай бұрын

how you make that’s

@Lovelivewell 4 ай бұрын

Facts

@taliaasims 4 ай бұрын

@@itsmontreanna awww thank yu!!! I’m happy to see you are reading the comments. Don’t pay attention to negative people comments. Live your life. It’s too short!

@Layzboy304 4 ай бұрын

You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. True love is hard to find so I will Say I'm happy for you. It really sounds like you being faithful and everything, he a lucky man. Everybody is different what's good for you is for you. People hate cause of their own situation or their inner self knowing that they could not hold it down for someone locked up. There is a book I believe the name is " woman in waiting". I read it when I was locked up and it helped me see what we do our woman, ( mothers , wife). I didn't plan to write this much but check out the book and you are in my prayers . Reply back and let me know how it's going..4/13 24

@6333. 4 ай бұрын

teaching the young kids about your jailbird husband is crazy

@brianal7143 2 ай бұрын

I'm sorry when she said my youngest son understands jail I literally 🤦🏾‍♀️. That child should have NO concept of jail. Why put those thoughts into his head as a toddler? She's so misguided

@S0.3 2 ай бұрын

So those are Not his children? 🙆🏾‍♀️ gets worse

@lichi1244eva 4 ай бұрын

It's the delusion for me. She kept saying "WHEN he's out" when he's currently serving a LIFE sentence. Even with a successful appeal, a new trial and acquittal, you're looking at SEVERAL more years. This beautiful young woman is wasting her best years on this man. Prison relationships rarely last, she's pretty and has young children to set an example for. She can definitely do better than this.

@lindalong7219 4 ай бұрын

Agree

@finezzer 4 ай бұрын

Acquittal means charges are dropped

@lichi1244eva 4 ай бұрын

@@finezzer acquittal means a defendant couldn't be proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. In this case, whether the scenario she imagines her husband coming home is from eventual parole in several years (assuming life with possibilty of parole, we don't know what he's in for), appeal/new trial/ acquittal, or exoneration (all possible, but long shots and could take years) why willfully subject yourself and your children to such mental, emotional, financial, physical, struggle? Ultimately, she's an adult, it's her life, she'll do what she wants.

@PRINCESS2527 4 ай бұрын

Exactly

@Diamond-pm3vt 4 ай бұрын

Love is blind

@Healingwithflo 4 ай бұрын

Don’t do it my sister was with her man for 20 years and all through his prison sentence she worked hard and saved money for him to come home to something and he did, they got married in jail, stayed together for a while and then he got bored and moved in with some other girl and said bye to his kid and her and don’t care about them! They play with u use u and then when their bored it’s BYE!

@winthrop1177 4 ай бұрын

Yea there’s a reason why they are called bad guys. It’s because they’re bad. I understand why ladies turn to them for comfort. It makes them feel good when they’re treated well by them , when they’re 💩heads to everyone else. It makes them feel special 🤷🏽‍♂️

@erock9594 4 ай бұрын

He's a criminal. What did she expect? It's her fault for thinking he's someone who has good character and cares about other people

@SuqarCakies 4 ай бұрын

@@erock9594you’re right sadly

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

Im so sorry that happened to her! Thats horrible. Although I know my husbands heart and dont fear that, I dont ignore the reality. That COULD happen to me, but in these moments we are together I AM happy. I wouldnt dare leave my husband based off a risk that EVERYONE takes everyday in their relationship. Someone can be with someone on the outside for 20 years and they get bored. Its the same risk. But in these moments I am enjoying my husband and I am excited to walk into our future the way we plan to. If that doesnt work out then it doesnt. Its life 🥺

@Ausgar-yc1yl 4 ай бұрын

You said jail and prison. There is NO such thing as being sentenced to jail for years.

@YouTubeUzername 4 ай бұрын

What a fool, he only took her back because he needs her money to make his life better because he is serving a LIFE sentence. She is wasting her life and her youth for absolutely no reason at all. She is a beautiful girl and she can have a healthy loving relationship with someone that’s free and available. What a selfish and heartless individual her husband must be.

@shanecoleman7114 4 ай бұрын

Well she grew up seeing her mom used and abused. Dating criminals. So she is going to follow her lead sadly...

@comanettalanehart445 4 ай бұрын

⁠@@shanecoleman7114NOT TRUE AT ALL!!!! SHE SAW HER MOM LOVE HER WITHOUT CONDITIONS!!! YES I HAVE DATED MEN WITH A PAST. I HAVE A PAST, SO I SHOULDN’T EXPECT TO BE LOVED BECAUSE OF MY PAST?

@finezzer 4 ай бұрын

She could but she doesn’t want you or anybody else. That only makes u feel some type of way

@IdirisHasan-hf1ol 4 ай бұрын

@@comanettalanehart445yeah you shouldnot be loved coz of your past Becouse your past will determine your future

@nomorekidsatodd 4 ай бұрын

Seems like she has a healthy, loving relationship with her man, who is now taken happily by her!!

@trapptelevision4651 4 ай бұрын

Hes locked up for first degree M and robbery after unaliving someone during a home invasion he will never, ever be among us law abiding citizens again! Thankfully@itsMontreana

@angelinedhliwayo913 2 ай бұрын

Oh he killed someone and she is waiting for him?

@JayElSee91 2 ай бұрын

No he didn't. She has a video on tiktok explaining what happened

@levelintent 27 күн бұрын

So sad that she would still want to be with someone like that... poor girl. At this point it's a family curse because her mom said she did the same thing.

@SuqarCakies 4 ай бұрын

How many women have to make this mistake before women realize this ain’t it .

@Tawana_X 4 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯 I watched love after lockup and I was shocked at how many women is still falling for this scam!! I thought we all knew better by now 😂😂😂

@RandomCaliforniaAdventure 3 ай бұрын

Certain groups of ethnic women are just built differently in America. Just visiting her IG page and looking up the situation of the husband tells me all that I need to know.

@IsThatTYRA 3 ай бұрын

@@Tawana_X ong lol

@marckristian81 2 ай бұрын

This is another case of Snowflake theory. Just because it went sideways for thousands of other women doesn't necessarily mean that's going to happen to me.

@BadWolf222 4 ай бұрын

Why would he let someone marry him and hold out hope like this? I can’t imagine wasting the next 20 years waiting on a chance he might get out. You can’t get your time back

@marylee19941994 4 ай бұрын

Exactly

@frostyshock 4 ай бұрын

Well that was her stupidity. She's a weak minded fool

@frostyshock 4 ай бұрын

Well that was her stupidity. She's a weak minded fool

@sundaywhite6082 3 ай бұрын

Selfishness he don’t want her to be happy in life cause he isn’t

@frostyshock 3 ай бұрын

Blame her, it's her fault for being so weak minded

@Deonte692 4 ай бұрын

This fool said "he got LIFE in prison I don't know when he coming home" 😂......HE NEVER GETTING OUT HE GOT LIFEEEEEEEEEEEEE🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

@CrookedJaee 3 ай бұрын

U can parole n sum cases.... Life w/o is the killer

@dianad3080 2 ай бұрын

The length of a "life" sentence varies by state and depends on whether it is a sentence of life WITHOUT the possibility of parole which means the person will serve the remainder of their natural life in prison. Life WITH the possibility of parole means they have to serve a minimum (that minimum is what varies by state and is up to the judge to state (ie: serve a min of 15, 20, 25, 30, etc) before becoming eligible for parole based on good behavior and whether the parole board determines the person has been rehabilitated and won't pose a threat to society. Only 20% of all inmates in the US are serving actual life sentences for the remainder of their natural lives.

@Gregory-pi3oc 2 ай бұрын

@@dianad3080 what did he do

@fatonyalmitchell3281 2 ай бұрын

Life is 25 years or less

@Deonte692 2 ай бұрын

@@fatonyalmitchell3281 🤷🏽‍♀️And who the hell wana waste their youth waiting 25 yrs or whenever for someone to get out of jail!!! I know people do it but that shyt is crazy, i give her props for sticking around so far bcuz most men wouldnt 25 yrs for a women to get out , there are to many free women walking around to just sit around waiting on a jail bird to be released😂

@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424 4 ай бұрын

If I want him out of jail,he’s already out of jail😂😂😂😂 Sis,the law don’t care about your affirmations😂😂 Queen of the delulu world

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

You have a AI picture of yourself as your profile.. but im delulu?

@MsLulu200 4 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭💀

@yoggybear5752 4 ай бұрын

💯 agree her husband will NEVER get out. Who would want a murderer living next to them.

@HoneyBee1980 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@milanC4659 4 ай бұрын

@@itsmontreannaYes you are delulu you need God himself and therapy big time plus time will tell You put your business out for people to judge and we have the right to judge righteous!!!

@badcaseofstripes 4 ай бұрын

Love isn't always rational. If I was in prison and I had a wife on the outside and I really loved her, I would be constantly pushing her to go find someone else, and live her life with a good man to help father those children.

@robertchapman160 4 ай бұрын

💯💯👍🏿👍🏿

@adamblack6867 Ай бұрын

Tell me would you think of her while you were clapping some guys cheeks in there ? ?

@RahYisrael99 27 күн бұрын

Seriously. Only a completely selfish and delusional person would think they are in a relationship while incarcerated. What are you relating to?

@Cherie-yl4zi 4 ай бұрын

Girl...Bye

@ms.rivera7898 2 ай бұрын

😂

@Goldmina-s1b Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Jaycarbrownie12 4 ай бұрын

A life sentence is just that a life sentence

@YouTubeUzername 4 ай бұрын

Laws change and life sentences get overturned every single day. She’s still dumb af tho!

@Ausgar-yc1yl 4 ай бұрын

A life sentence is 25 years, then there is a sentence of life without parole.

@michaelwinfrey7705 4 ай бұрын

The only way he is getting out If you eliminate electricity for god.

@emmafitzpatrick7213 4 ай бұрын

FYI- life starts @ 15 years, so no, life is not just life. The life you’re talking about is the life without parole. Now that’s life.

@higherrealms5309 4 ай бұрын

Apparently he has life “with the possibility of parole.” Meaning he could potentially get out in about 20yrs

@reemagee4828 4 ай бұрын

He has a life sentence but we don't know when he's getting out...🙄

@higherrealms5309 4 ай бұрын

He obviously has the possibility of parole, otherwise she wouldn’t have said that.

@Bren-dl6sb 2 ай бұрын

@@higherrealms5309HE GOT TWENTY TO LIFE SHE WILL BE A. OLD LADY IN TWENTY YEARS

@KJ-bu9jo 2 ай бұрын

😂

@fatonyalmitchell3281 2 ай бұрын

Life can be up to 25 years but not natural born Life

@nottoday2452 4 ай бұрын

And I was with a man for 4 years out of his 24 year sentence and pulled his phone records and he was talking to other women trying to get money from them etc. It doesn’t matter how good you look or “I know where my man is so he can’t cheat” they cheat no matter where the hell they are even with a long ass sentence. She’s wasting her life just like I wasted 4 damn years. She’s an idiot

@yvesvolupte8486 4 ай бұрын

Good thing you finally came round and got out of it. But calling her an idiot and a fool ( which I agree with you anyway).....for the exact same thing you also did. Does that mean you are that too? Just asking?

@kyndracrump 4 ай бұрын

How were you able to pull the phone record?

@pmerancier 4 ай бұрын

@@kyndracrumpeasy, she probably was the one paying for it. people sneak phones into prisons all the time and depending on your popularity/class, the guards are okay with it.

@blackberryblackberry9062 4 ай бұрын

You was a fool as well.

@rhondazaragoza4588 4 ай бұрын

@@kyndracrumpThat’s what I want to know

@grimmwicked313 4 ай бұрын

So no one ever came close and she didn't date anyone else but she got two kids and they aren't his?

@i_am_west_10 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@djkaybabebabe 4 ай бұрын

just bcuz she has two kids that are not his doesn’t mean that someone has come close sometimes the connection can be different even when u have kids by someone ijs

@grimmwicked313 4 ай бұрын

@@djkaybabebabe bruh she literally said in the video I haven't been with a man since him. She said she never slept with no one else so how'd she get them kids adopt them. This video has left so many unanswered questions that no one is ever going to get answers on. Like who did he kill to get in there in the first place.

@djkaybabebabe 4 ай бұрын

@@grimmwicked313 should watch the video again. She said that a man has not come close to him. She never said she hasn’t mess with noone

@grimmwicked313 4 ай бұрын

@@djkaybabebabe I'm Afraid if I watch this video again I'm going to start permanently damaging my brain cells from the sheer ignorance and stupidity of it.

@lorddrakkon7390 4 ай бұрын

So women rather wait for jailbirds instead of intelligent brothers in suits it's definitely the endgame

@GHO5tMod3 3 ай бұрын

Can’t group us all because I’m not interested in that type of situation

@neal6473 2 ай бұрын

It's sad but true.

@Scifi4life Ай бұрын

Can't fix stupid

@luvmelonqtym Ай бұрын

Unfortunately, there’s not enough brothers in suits 😂😭 Atp that cant even be an argument if statistics show otherwise- I don’t necessarily agree with this situation but Imma need to see more ‘brothers’ in suits for this to be a credible argument(.)

@inactiveaccount6106 Ай бұрын

Stop basing all women on this one pick me. That's your first mistake. I love how it's always "nOt aLL MeN," but we can be grouped together without a thought behind it.

@danielwhittemore845 4 ай бұрын

I did 13yrs met my wife on Facebook while I was incarcerated I been out 4yrs and yes I been with her since I been out I do have a child with her, I’m in the Union I’m a IronWorker Since I been out I got my Wife a brand new Camry and I’m in the process of getting my wife a house I gave her everything even my heart she deserves it because when I was at my lowest she stood by my side even when people said I would leave her soon as I get out, my wife endure a lot from family and friends but through it all she stood by my side. I love you Wifey

@marquitiaw 4 ай бұрын

That's awesome,it's funny how nobody commenting on this post .. I guess cuz they feel like all men that are incarcerated are the same .. but wish y'all nothing but best

@user-wr9fo6bz6s 4 ай бұрын

Good for you.

@user-wr9fo6bz6s 4 ай бұрын

I struck gold found me a real one 4 1/2 years in and #2025 hopefully coming home.

@danielwhittemore845 4 ай бұрын

@@user-wr9fo6bz6s you know what mess us up! that show love and lock up! it made women don’t want to mess with anyone that’s incarcerated, and you got people leaving bad comments of there friend, sister, experience but never experienced themselves. They need more people to speak up for all the people that’s incarcerated because we have mad hater’s

@marquitiaw 4 ай бұрын

@@user-wr9fo6bz6s that's good💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾.. wishing y'all the best ...

@FbuaryDmon 4 ай бұрын

Her & her mom look the same age ❤. If she doesn’t have a problem with waiting in vain, I don’t think we should bother caring. Do you, life is short spend it how YOU want.

@cristyluv1205 4 ай бұрын

This girl had no daddy

@Bren-dl6sb 2 ай бұрын

THIS GIRL HAS M MENTAL PROBLEM

@rrrealqueen Ай бұрын

Fatherlessness behaviour.

@CAdams93 4 ай бұрын

A father's worst nightmare lol 😭

@justbecuz5723 4 ай бұрын

If the father was even present to begin with 😮

@ashleysalazar2012 3 ай бұрын

Her daddy doesn't care. He's still out buying a carton of milk.

@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 ай бұрын

A mothers too! I would be hurt if my babies wasted time like this....

@Scifi4life Ай бұрын

She has no father.

@christmasbaby6651 4 ай бұрын

Teaching the kids about jail 😮😮 this is ridiculous wow i wish she knew her worth

@ShaniLee-vd5pe 4 ай бұрын

😢❤ fr

@ms.opinionated4422 4 ай бұрын

On top of the fact that he’s not their father. It’s concerning.

@DeepBreathingMeditation 4 ай бұрын

@@ms.opinionated4422 Wait what?? Her kids aren't his?😮I missed that

@rrrealqueen Ай бұрын

@@ShaniLee-vd5peshe has two kids each from different dads abd its not his kids hes not going to take care of them lmao

@RahYisrael99 27 күн бұрын

Yup. They will think going to jail is normal

@Snooty-Pookie 4 ай бұрын

She’s using him for the status of having a husband, why else sleep around with mainly women and have a husband that you’ll never see?

@finezzer 4 ай бұрын

U missed the part where she was into women in high school and this is nearly 10 years later. U also missed the point of the video. And the channel’s name…

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

@@finezzerthey also missed where I said I can be with whoever I want but chose to be with him. Thank you for listening to understand and not to respond 🫶🏽

@MsTamika 4 ай бұрын

The status of having a husband??? That makes absolutely not on ounce of sense. There’s no “status” of being a wife to someone who is in prison. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@nsanejane7713 4 ай бұрын

You do know ppl can be bisexual right? Lol she likes both plenty of women do 😆

@kingwillie206 4 ай бұрын

I’m that guy

@mayjay26.xo_6 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been on this train before ! Twice ! And it’s been 5 years since the last time ! And he’s back in prison and I ain’t doing that shit ever again! They will never change !

@TheLiquidheat2643 4 ай бұрын

What's crazy is I have a good job and my own s*** going on and I can't even get me a girl😂😂😂😂. Maybe I need to catch a stupid charge

@mimimomo4902 4 ай бұрын

😂 you cracked me up. But as a woman I can tell you there is definitely some truth to what you said! A lot of my girlfriends are always attracted to drama and instability and good stable guys are friend zoned. It's bizarre

@slightreflections2921 4 ай бұрын

Nah bro u can’t get a girl because your most likely unattractive physically.

@Miss.TJ516 4 ай бұрын

That’s because you’re not desperate and won’t settle.

@Miss.TJ516 4 ай бұрын

@@slightreflections2921you’re a fool looks have nothing to do with it lol plenty of unattractive people in relationships 🙄

@death24314 4 ай бұрын

@@mimimomo4902 your girlfriend's sound like lil girls not women haha

@VRu-wb6ye 2 ай бұрын

I fell out when she said he proposed to me over the phone 😂

@yungreem88 4 ай бұрын

The apple didn’t fall far from the tree the mom admitted she dated incarcerated men too… On another mother how old are they? Mom looks like big sis, down to the belly shirt 🥴‼️

@red7iris 4 ай бұрын

Mom commented up top she had her at 16 , mom is 41 now

@robertoisnar891 4 ай бұрын

Facts that ain't her damn mama

@dozzyt4334 2 ай бұрын

Even the lady said "when he come home" sad

@lovaniwalker9814 4 ай бұрын

9 years elapsed since the hs relationship. And he was able to convince you to marry him while in prison. Seems as though he just want a guaranteed, visit, phone calls, and deposits in his account. More people is doing that now, more power to them.

@Nia62899 4 ай бұрын

How long can she be delusional

@shayc.1025 4 ай бұрын

She has a life sentence of being delusional..

@shanecoleman7114 4 ай бұрын

What did you expect? She has herself face and neck tattoos lol 😅

@shutarakademars2881 4 ай бұрын

For life 😂

@madi_love4040 3 ай бұрын

She's young and has to learn on her own

@Nia62899 Ай бұрын

@@madi_love4040 I’m 25 & I know better

@Foodwithoutlabels 4 ай бұрын

Delusion at the highest level. I think she's just too slow to comprehend the truth that's before her. Not mature yet .

@ralphwiggum1982 2 ай бұрын

Let’s say dude does come out most offenders usually end up back in prison plus it’s a good chance she’s gonna be the one taking care of everything as i imagine it’ll be hard for him to find a job that pays anything substantial

@pken9814 2 ай бұрын

You have some amazing art/graphic design skills. That magazine looked professionally done.

@Flyrabbit1 4 ай бұрын

Honestly the mom and daughter really speak to eachother nicely. She’s making a mistake of course but she’s got to live it and find out for herself .. everyone does

@deddietv9336 4 ай бұрын

Bro that’s wooski ex girlfriend in Chicago, crazy smh, she a true loyal person to be around for a life sentence. I wouldn’t even waste her time and let her live her life fr especially if I got life 💯

@madi_love4040 3 ай бұрын

I was in jail with her mom

@AprilTheRealest 2 ай бұрын

I knew that was her

@ese_CORTES-HARBOR310 2 ай бұрын

Yall for reals ??? Mom was busted with yall???

@thatb2666 2 ай бұрын

"He's innocent" lmfaoooo

@tylergnosis2581 4 ай бұрын

Listening and watching the mom I see where she gets her thinking from sad

@lindalong7219 4 ай бұрын

Bad parenting

@ms.opinionated4422 4 ай бұрын

Her mother can’t do anything about it. I had to learn that with my daughter. When your child is an adult, you cannot control their decisions anymore. All you can do is be there when they figure out what they’re doing is not going to work.

@makishacox6100 3 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing..

@DeepBreathingMeditation 3 ай бұрын

@ms.opinionated4422 yea i get what your saying but what kind of decisons did the child grow up up seeing you make? How honest and real did you keep it with your flaws and mistakes and trying to show her the right way to do it and what to prioritize? I never grew up seeing a revolving door of men in my mamas life and neither has my own daughter. She knows if she or my mom meets somebody im not playing no games as far as the vetting goes

@Haileymarlene 4 ай бұрын

The person I was in love with I was with for 7 years and he ended up cheating on me with a minor and got sentenced to 15 to 24 years in prison. It was the hardest thing for me to accept and I loved him but once he went to prison especially for what he did I couldn’t do it no more. There is a reason someone goes to prison for that long and 99% of the time it’s because they did something that is absolutely terrible… so I hope that she realizes that even if she thinks she knows a person and thinks he is not bad doesn’t mean he ain’t. I never thought the man I was with that was so in love with me and couldn’t stand to be away from me would ever do what he did to me but he did.

@cristyluv1205 4 ай бұрын

The entire story is quite sad. Her three year old knows what jail is. She talks about him getting out like he doesn’t have a life sentence. And the cycle continues

@akeeg8408 4 ай бұрын

Really that’s it!?!?, that’s the sentence he got for sexually abusing a minor, 15 years for him to possibly get out of prison and do it to more minors, that is the most RIDICULOUS sentence a judge could ever give to such a perverted, disgusting pathetic excuse of a human being, that victim will forever have to live with the fact that their innocence was snatched away by the filthy monster that RAPED them, mentally scarred for life, but no the prisoners still get to live theirs feeling proud about what they did when they walk out of prison after only spending few years behind bars, the justice system them these days is just so blind when it comes to the gravity of a sex offending defendant actions and really neglect the severe impact it has on a victim’s life, in fact it’s so blind that they think 24 years is an adequate enough sentence but really that is just completely useless for justice on account of the fact that it wouldn’t deter the offender from committing the same crimes again instead just treating it like some minor crime, they should just give child sex abusers a life sentence with no parole set, no minimum terms, no chances for appeal, absolutely no opportunities for them to try and wriggle their way out of a lifelong time in prison or failing that bring the death penalty on them that way they’ll know what it’s like to feel helpless and in pain like their victims did.

@ivyamaru9537 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow I’m so sorry that happen to u luv, God bless u & stay safe🙏🏽❤️💫✨

@Kung_fu_doctor_87 4 ай бұрын

Father's please stay in your daughter's lives this the outcome

@joeSun721 2 ай бұрын

Rikers Island 1993...seen a guy with 75 yrs cursing his girl over the phone, telling her don't bring nobody to her house. Same energy. I tried telling him,man u ain't even started your bid yet...hope that brother got over that. .

@alexmark9175 4 ай бұрын

He has a life sentence, isn’t that life?

@kellybowe8765 4 ай бұрын

Ma'am you're completely fooling yourself key word here is (life) in prison, you're young and free live your life move on !

@Spanishcuban 4 ай бұрын

Worry about yourself

@qo6099 4 ай бұрын

I need this level of delusional from my next gf

@MsLulu200 4 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣😭💀

@Estymom3 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@shaunaboo961 4 ай бұрын

😅

@natashacashaw9803 4 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣Damn

@his1day 4 ай бұрын

🤦🏾‍♀️😂

@GhastlyCretin 4 ай бұрын

What is he in prison for? Also, was her mother 5 years old when she gave birth to her?

@YouTubeUzername 4 ай бұрын

Most likely murder, and yes they look like sisters.

@tsvetochek_v_tsvetochnom 4 ай бұрын

Or rape@@KZfaqUzername

@bryntu9m 4 ай бұрын

Probably 12

@Roadrunner0077 4 ай бұрын

@@bryntu9mblack don't crack

@comanettalanehart445 4 ай бұрын

WELL THANK YOU FOR THE COMPLIMENT, HOWEVER I DID HAVE HER WHEN I WAS 16. I am now 41 and my daughter is 25.

@breezystl777 4 ай бұрын

In her husband's case, he and other codefendents m^rdered a man and tried to m^rder the woman, but she somehow survived. As someone who has been in the woman who survived's exact same position, I feel like this man should never get out. He sentenced the surviving victim to a lifetime of pain (physically and mentally), complications and pain from the wounds she has to live with forever, unimaginable grief over losing her man in such a traumatic way right in front of her, the constant torture and torment of PTSD, etc. Not to mention the man who didn't survive. His family will never get to see him again. In short, when you take someone else's life, you forfeit the right to your own. I've seen women like her before. Usually on that show "Evil Lives Here" talking about how thought this man was so great and couldn't ever believe he was capable of being a m^rderer, serial k^ller, etc. Exact same personal issues, probably some trauma in her past or upbringing, probably not the healthiest view of men or relationships, but she won't see reality until she's ready unfortunately. Hopefully at some point, she'll realize she's been sweet talked into believing he's a better person than he actually is. They don't just lock you up for m^rder without evidence. If that were the case, my loved one's case (the one i mentioned in which i was in the same position as the surviving woman) would be solved right now. This lady is all in the comments defending her prison boo, so I hope she sees this and takes a minute to imagine what the victims went through.

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

Hey love! I defend my husband because thats not at all what happened and also the victims mother wrote a letter on my husbands behalf. So before you analyze or PROJECT your situation on ANYONE ELSES please know FACTS. Thank you & I hope you heal love!

@breezystl777 4 ай бұрын

@@itsmontreanna You didn't share many facts, so had to go off of what I could find online. And I'm more concerned about the surviving victim who was also almost m^rdered. Also, if he's having you put money on his books or commissary or you're the one paying for phone calls, I suggest you stop sending money for a couple months to see what happens. Because most of those men keep a woman on the outside while in prison long term for that reason and for company. Just make sure you're not getting used. You deserve the best, and you deserve a healthy man who is present for you and your kids. Not someone who was involved in a brutal m^rder. Even if he didn't pull the trigger, he was involved. He is part of the reason the victim is dead and the surviving victim is most likely suffering. You can look at it however you want, but facts are facts. Either way, I wish you and your family the best.

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

@@breezystl777 facts ARE facts, which it is clear you dont know. If you did I promise you would not be saying that, im sure you didnt see court documents otherwise again you wouldnt be saying he played a part in this. But I dont share many facts and I have my reasons 🤍 which will come out later! 🤍 until then. You have to stop projecting what you went thru on other people. You dont know how ANYONE who was involved in the case feels. Because you are just not them.

@breezystl777 4 ай бұрын

@@itsmontreanna I did read the court documents. They're available online. And I wasn't trying to project my experience. I was trying to get you to put yourself in the shoes of the victims and consider what your husband participated in putting then through and taking one's life. This is honestly just more sad than anything. And like I said. Stop sending money for a couple months as a test. See if that is part of why he's keeping you around. Better to know than to have no idea and think it's just "love". I'm sorry if I came off as harsh though. If anything, as a woman, I'm trying to look out for you and trying to get you to at least consider that this man isn't the knight in shining armor you think he is. If I'm wrong, cool. That would actually be a relief to see this not be what it seems to be. But this isn't about what I think. Just be careful and protect your kids and yourself, as well as your heart. And don't just believe everything he tells you. Like I said, I really do wish you and yours the best. 💜

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

@@breezystl777 well I thank you for that, If you care then I need you to trust me. I put this man through many tests to make sure he was for me and I dont just use my heart. My common sense. & I just ask when people comment makesure you state your opinion not speaking on things as if you all know facts because 90 percent of what you said was false 💯 & thats in the COURT documents NOT news articles. Also, Ive done that already (tested him) He passed with flying colors. I appreciate it tho. Thank you!

@toschajeffries8833 4 ай бұрын

Don"t waste your time i met my ex when i was 16 and he went to jail at 18 he had 2 life sentence running CC he served 23 years. We had every conversation in the world while in jail, marriage etc he got out he start working and met a woman and marriage her. I was devastated and heartbroken. He claim he did it because i was dating while he was lock up! Now what man thinks someone going to be faithful to someone doing 2 life sentences? 3 years of him being out his marriage was over and he was back in jail. I now thank God that he show me his true colors and that i dodge a bullet.

@blackcherry5598 4 ай бұрын

Did this fool say now her son understands jail? 🤦🏿‍♀️LORD be a social worker

@lovaniwalker9814 4 ай бұрын

Like for real, if it ain't his dad, there is no way on earth, my child will be exposed to this.

@CarRobbin Ай бұрын

I mean she at the very least knows exactly where he is at every point of the day and night.

@GoMrTom 4 ай бұрын

Don't wait for such a boy. He is a troublemaker and not a guy who can make you happy.

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

Aww! I appreciate your feedback! Although I am happy I appreciate your comment.

@winxclubstellamusa 4 ай бұрын

Exactly!! This dangerous criminal is a danger to all of society, including her.

@candice3480 3 ай бұрын

I worked at a daycare center. One day, a mother tells me that her son can’t go outside today because his father (in prison) said so. I asked why. She casually says “he said the heat and pollen is going to be bad today and that’s not good for the baby’s allergies”. It was 8am and I had so many questions 🤯

@mariemells3510 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@llv9111 27 күн бұрын

Like how he is making decisions behind permanent closed doors. Sis, I get it. Trust and believe, I kinda get it.

@latashafeagin 4 ай бұрын

I hope she can wake up not only is she throwing her life away shes throwing her children's life away things can be so much better for people but we tend to be our own worst enemy and not even recognize it

@Makeoverplus 4 ай бұрын

If HE loved her the same, he wouldn't want her to stop her life and what may become.of her life. Especially when a child is involved.

@ms.opinionated4422 4 ай бұрын

Exactly.

@kentuckywildcatsgirl6376 4 ай бұрын

Girl, he’s going to say everything you want to hear to keep you tethered to him. He needs somebody to accept those expensive calls and put money on his books. He’s never getting out, so what future do you have with him?

@brandonaustin9339 4 ай бұрын

Well at least he'll have someone to put money on his books for life, and is her mom single???🥵

@charleeceejay8543 Ай бұрын

"Tell him to call me!" ✔️ She checks all the boxes: Delusion. Denial. De-crazy. In that order. 🤔 Taking her kids to prison visits "to set a positive example for HIM" did it for me. 😱

@LegacyByT 4 ай бұрын

First of all, we know he murdered somebody if he got life in prison. I think it’s selfish to want someone to hold you down on a life sentence.

@itsmontreanna 4 ай бұрын

You dont KNOW anything, because he did NOT.

@TheKatChat47 4 ай бұрын

@@itsmontreannawhat was the reason for this punishment? It will give more clarity to audience and will not lead to so many assumptions if you include that too.. at the end of the day, it is your life 😊 stay strong and remember you have a life too ❤

@DeepBreathingMeditation 4 ай бұрын

@@TheKatChat47let me put a comment so I can get alerted if and when she responds 👀

@ashleysalazar2012 3 ай бұрын

@@DeepBreathingMeditationSame

@richavery7491 4 ай бұрын

Crazy I’m a corrections officer them mfs be having wives and girlfriends. She wouldn’t know who come visit him or who he calls fr she get wise with age

@crimeandcrafting 2 ай бұрын

I hope so too. Everyone makes mistakes but some mistakes are easier to bounce back from. Dude’s gonna be trading her address for a honey bun before this is over.

@tamiterrell1398 Ай бұрын

I was with someone for 17 years while he was in prison. It was by far the best relationship I've ever had thus far. He told his first love to go and live her life when he got sentence. I respected that. We had built a friendship. A mutual respect for each other. People think if your not screwing then it's not a relationship. That's far from the truth. Live and let live. If she's happy be happy for her and him. ❤

@Natureboy207 4 ай бұрын

“He got a life sentence and we don’t know when he gettin out”…ummm…Never! That’s what life means 😂😂 waste your youth if you want! If he ever gets out, them edges of yours will be thin and gray!

@roxyj3182 4 ай бұрын

Life doesn’t always mean forever, depending on the state. But it’s def a long ass time

@taliaasims 4 ай бұрын

Life is usually 25 with chance of parole but he probably served 7 and maybe got time served if he was waiting for trial. So Possibly paroled in another 5-7 years depending on what he was arrested for he can do the rest of the time on probation.

@bfly1 4 ай бұрын

Not really I follow her on TikTok and he has another court date coming up this year for a reduced sentence but hey that’s her life.

@Roadrunner0077 4 ай бұрын

She getting her back busted

@BadWolf222 4 ай бұрын

I mean some sentences include parole after x years but I doubt that’s the case here. Duh lady

@blackbway 4 ай бұрын

A life sentence, IMO, usually means someone lost their life, means he is there for murder. It would seem like these are the type of men these women want.

@amandapanda7878 4 ай бұрын

I was just thinking 🤔 that

@pfeenxh 4 ай бұрын

Good for you. You both are serving life sentences

@anengineer8848 Ай бұрын

"He has a life sentence, we don't know when he's getting out." Never. he's never getting out.

@DestinyAdreanna 4 ай бұрын

My Soulmate High School Sweetheart Definitely Was In The Department Of Corrections For 7 Years! I Held Him Down All 7 Years And My Baby Is Finally Home. People Called Me Crazy But My Man Is Loyal And We’re Engaged.

@ivyamaru9537 4 ай бұрын

I’m happy for u guys….Thank God he was able to get out🙏🏽👏🏽, congratulations to yall on bein engaged & gettin married, God bless you guys & stay safe🙏🏽❤️🥳🎉🎊💫✨

@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 ай бұрын

At least your man came home hers is serving life 🥺

@user-zj1kl4hk1k 2 ай бұрын

Yes but HERS GOT LIFE

@keeshmason466 2 ай бұрын

Same. My fiance did 12 1/2 fed. We dated at 19 and 20. He was paroled July 3rd last yr, contacted me on July 5th and we've been together since. Got engaged in January after my birthday. We're bringing our families together, going to church and bout to close on a home🤗. He has always been My Fav❤

@AprilTheRealest 2 ай бұрын

❤

@Hijadediosj 4 ай бұрын

He's sooo lucky, he got someone that can support him financially while he's on yell

@jazzyj6640 3 ай бұрын

It’s funny how some dudes really think letting their “woman” date another woman won’t back fire on them but they wouldn’t like it if she wanted to date another dude? 🤨

@monbrat3064 4 ай бұрын

Whats his crime? 🤔 Who is the father of the two boys?

@tolufalaye6081 4 ай бұрын

Murder and felony robbery. They shot two people while they were asleep and robbed them

@AFFTFOMSICHTS 3 ай бұрын

I aspire to be This level of delulu !! You go girl with your lil incarcerated boo!!!!

@Latruthisfree 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@christmasbaby6651 4 ай бұрын

Is she slow talking about he has a life sentence and she doesn't know when he's getting out he's getting out when his life is over😢😢😢

@luckiered2212 4 ай бұрын

She delusional and is not living in reality

@christmasbaby6651 4 ай бұрын

😢😢😢 yikes@@luckiered2212

@cristyluv1205 4 ай бұрын

Fathers are very, very important

@sarahess530 4 ай бұрын

life’s too damn short for this she’s a beautiful young lady who deserves to experience something REAL. not this nonsense

@The_Dork_Knight 4 ай бұрын

She said “ He has a Life Sentence and we don’t know when he’s getting out “ 🤦🏻‍♂️ 😆

@marquitiaw 4 ай бұрын

Well that's because a life sentence can be 15 to 25years ..

@tomhome6414 4 ай бұрын

Waiting for what? Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂

@TerrieHouston-wj4pi 4 ай бұрын

Child he want you to keep money on his book and too have somebody for a company keeper.Bless your soul you're gonna need it.

@the.baddest.mitch1 4 ай бұрын

And pay fir those expensive phone calls. He is receiving all the benefits and she is... we talk all the time all he has is time...HE IS INCARCERATED!!!

@elizajanica7679 4 ай бұрын

Yeah but she's wasting her time and money just for conversation.

@user-uo5kp8nr7p 4 ай бұрын

It's up to you... he has no future... you have no future... He needs someone to fill up his account so he can get extra ramon... after he gets out (if he ever gets out) it won't last...

@JewelPray 2 ай бұрын

Girl I hope yall don’t end up like Kayla & Martell from Love After Lockup 😩 she wasted 15 years all for him to come home and be ungrateful af

@ew7512 2 ай бұрын

Easy to love someone when you don't have to live with each other and navigate the messiness of life. Not so easy when they get out and you realize you're legally tied to a murderer.

@sc80386 4 ай бұрын

The Quad-City Times reports that 22-year-old Tristin Alderman and 21-year-old D’marithe Culbreath were sentenced Thursday in Scott County District Court. A jury found the pair guilty in December of first-degree murder and other felony counts in the death of 20-year-old Brady Tumlinson. Each received additional prison terms for the other counts that will run at the same time as their life sentences. Prosecutors say Tumlinson was killed during a robbery Sept. 22, 2017, at his home in Davenport that also involved several other people. Another man, 22-year-old Nakita Wiseman, was sentenced in December to 35 years in prison for burglary and robbery counts in the case..

@NaiRoandKai 4 ай бұрын

Which one is him lol

@user-fp4st9vo1d 4 ай бұрын

She seems like an intelligent young woman, she seems to have a big heart. What next for them as a couple???

@argentumsound 4 ай бұрын

The daugther looks older than the mother.

@robertchapman160 4 ай бұрын

Damn her and her Mom look just alike!! Is Mom Single?😂😊

@JordynAshliHats 2 ай бұрын

She's lost. For real. Lord, open her eyes to see you.😢

@Clarrissaharrison 4 ай бұрын

Waiting for what 🤔🤔🤔

@ryehall4266 Ай бұрын

Having a life sentence means he’s not coming out.

@labreshajones8041 4 ай бұрын

I never would judge you.. this is your life and if you are happy with it that’s all that matters. God has your back and your man is going to be the man he needs to be for you and your children no cap.. I support you 100% my man is locked up right now and guess what everything he says he’s going to do when he gets home I believe. I’m claiming nothing but greatness an and happiness over your relationship.. keep telling your story because it keeps giving me hope that me and my man will be back reunited sooner rather than later ❤️❤️❤️

@marquitiaw 4 ай бұрын

I swear I'm in the same boat, ppl are so judgemental it's pitiful... Wishing you guys the best tho 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

@user-wr9fo6bz6s 4 ай бұрын

Me too

@9687loveless 4 ай бұрын

No one in jail ever deserves to be there according to friends and family…. I bet whoever they hurt and their friends and family would think very differently …. There always “a good person” good people don’t get life sentences …. Reality isn’t what you apparently are living in.

@ventromanable 4 ай бұрын

And 5 years she'll forget all about him

@kevikev214 4 ай бұрын

Our people are thru 😂😂 finished

@porsha2172 4 ай бұрын

I totally can relate to you love. I was willing to wait for my boyfriend who’s in prison for life, until I discovered that he wants to be friends with all these Instagram models on Facebook. I broke up with him over that today. I can’t be loyal to that. I pray that your man is released by a miracle of God for you.

@MichaelJohnson-gt8gt 4 ай бұрын

You rather throw you hold life away for someone you don't even know if will worke out in the future 😂

@Latruthisfree 3 ай бұрын

How tf are you waiting for him, if he has life? The math isn’t mathing. Waiting on his corpse? 😂

@empresskhadijah2677 4 ай бұрын

There's no guarantee that he will be approved for Parole

@grimmwicked313 4 ай бұрын

I'm confused at the part where people change because he wasn't a thug he was a nice guy but then he did some thug stuff and I imagine a guy's dead because of him but he changed into a good guy again? I've never seen women so delusional.

@QueenEst 4 ай бұрын

The mom in the crop top tells me everything I need to know about why she thinks her actions are okay

@bridgetxrose 4 ай бұрын

Her mom is beautiful ♥️

@TheShawna78 3 ай бұрын

My best friend‘s parents got married while her dad was doing a dime in the pen at Folsom and when he got out they were solid until the day he died many decades later. I hope your man get to come home when his debt to society has been paid and when the good lord sees fit. Stay strong and true to you and do what you got to do and ignore all the haters because after all love is not deterred or limited by the walls of a prison.