Loving Your Spouse When You Don't Like Them

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Жыл бұрын

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@mrs.murphy2611 Жыл бұрын

My husband lives by the scripture that speaks on living with your wife with patience and wash her with the word. That has made a TOTAL difference in our marriage. It makes me more loving toward him and gentle with him, more of a listener etc. I'm grateful for our growth. We have Not always been there!!🥰 thank you Jesus!!

@ItsBrittany. Жыл бұрын

Wow! We are believers as well. What exactly does your Husband do according to scripture? If you dont mind me asking

@whenyouwishuponastar6643 Жыл бұрын

This is a wonderful reminder that it’s normal to “not like” your spouse sometimes. I am horrible at this. When I’m irritated or I think my husband is irritated idk I just panic and I think we have to be together MORE and talk it out right then and there and find a solution, sometimes we both need space. This is something I’m working on. Thank you all for this!

@shaylacrawfordmccoy7540 Жыл бұрын

You wouldn't believe how quickly I clicked when I saw the title!😅😅

@everleandodson1519 Жыл бұрын

LOL!! Yvette, girl I be rooting for you on the intro every time and I am so happy for you when you get it right:) It is hilarious:)

@katelynransey8231 Жыл бұрын

Communication with my husband and myself is normally blocked because I try to predict the conversation before even having the conversation. Certain triggers I have impacted the way I communicate and how often I communicate. I just sit and determine if I’m overreacting or “no, go talk to him your feelings are valid” 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

@empresslivewire Жыл бұрын

To solve the lotion issue, have one in each bedroom and one in the bathroom specifically for Glen where the children can’t reach it 😂

@brandycole6557 Жыл бұрын

You guys makes my heart smile - I love how patient you are with each other as you both are in your different process 💕

@belvamoore8169 Жыл бұрын

Glenn maybe you should try Shea butter. Yvette is that lotion on your side of the bed because he's sure to walk that way 😂☺️. Get a lotion despenser for the bathroom, they have bathroom sets. I mean who takes the bathroom decanter ( I guess that's what they're called) out of the bathroom?? Just keep it filled. Whenever you clean up be sure to check it. And make sure the lotions are in there proper places, and lotion the kids so they know how much to use and put it out of reach until they know how much to use. I May not know a lot of things but I hope these will help.

@awardtour93 Жыл бұрын

Definitely agree on shea butter

@boluadebekun9370 Жыл бұрын

I live for the descending beat after “wedding party” ☺️🤤

@belvamoore8169 Жыл бұрын

Don't assume that a person is not hurt. If you have to say, I know that they did not mean to hurt me, then there is a problem. The person that hurt you needs to know that they hurt you; without giving a excuse to you but a solution weather they were right or wrong (I say weather right or wrong because we all need corrective criticism at times with out taking it wrong ,and getting all bent out of shape, but allowing the readjustments if need be. We all need tweeting every now and then) it helps to be sensitive about a person's feelings. That same grace may come back to us when we need it and we will need it as long as we live on this earth or anywhere else😒👀. ...be quick to hear, Slow to speak ,and slow to wrath( James1:19).

@jeaninewarren2442 Жыл бұрын

We love seeing Lily!

@joyprice209 3 ай бұрын

My hubby is awful with loading, and honestly, he is awful with hand washing, too. I just go behind him because I don't want the argument 😬

@danielleredman3540 Жыл бұрын

For the drill bit thing… hold a bit and the screw you’re gonna use together in your fingers and if the drill bit feels *slightly* smaller than the screw (not a lot smaller! Just slightly) that’s the correct bit to use. You want the screw, when you drill it in, to still grab the sides of the hole you drilled. I hope that makes sense 😂

@dirtykitchen_thebowloflife Жыл бұрын

I CHUCKLEDDD. HOW Marr...THATS just how.... Da*n it!!!! Lololol!!!!

@LearningLeadersGrowLiveGive Жыл бұрын

🤣I feel Glen and that 3-minute window out of the shower! Some of us with high-porosity skin/hair can't afford to miss it! 😆

@sneaky0girl Жыл бұрын

I'm feeling Glen on the lotion thing. My siblings used to do this and it got on my nerves so much 😂

@jeaninewarren2442 Жыл бұрын

Love y’all. Loved this episode.

@AngelaDenise611 Жыл бұрын

Cute dog!!

@victorianameneverner6271 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful episode

@LifewithKeeley Жыл бұрын

Easy fix for the lotion, have a couple of bottles, keep on one by Yvette’s dresser and one in the bathroom - that’s what works for me.

@gloriamadrid1468 Жыл бұрын

Guuurrrrlll!!! I am the same!! The week before my lady thang, I am so irritated, frustrated, and the littlest things and questions just seem nagging!! Smh.

@SNIPEZONE23 8 ай бұрын

I know this ep. is old but I know the frustration about the lotion, get your own dedicated one for the counter 😁

@TakeshiaDavis-bw6go Жыл бұрын

Scientific answer on why women become so irritable around that time is due to serotonin levels droping drastically; which makes it difficult to control. Ive come to find that cacao helps to re-balance those hormone levels.A healthy diet a week before and durning meaning eating cacao,avocado,grapefruit,starfruit stricly clean as well as certain sea foods tend to do the trick. Hope this helps, thank you for the lovely, deligent, yet self reflecting conversations i greatly appreciate every E.p / blooper.

@Mrs.Shumake Жыл бұрын

The “raptured clothes” 😂❤

@jazelyneverett2346 Жыл бұрын

Y’all are so awesome! I’ve truly been enjoying the videos and have been applying these tools into my own beautiful marriage with my husband of almost 7 years. Thank you both and continued prayers on lifelong journey to better friendship/ marriage/love with each other.

@shkase398 Жыл бұрын

Why am I sending this to my husband so that he can understand my point of view on things like me on my menstrual cycle, how to load the dishes, etc. I feel like if someone else says it, he might consider what is being said.

@ItsBrittany. Жыл бұрын

My husband is the sameeee. I be like, here, click this link 😂

@CocoTea101 Жыл бұрын

I felt the lotion thing to point where I had to pause on spotify to come comment here. I try to hide my own bottle in the bathroom but they always find it. Can't have nothing nice lol

@gladitsnotme Жыл бұрын

WE DO WANT LILY

@antoineerikascott5022 Жыл бұрын

Just get two things of lotion!

@belvamoore8169 Жыл бұрын

3or 4 and a couple of purse size ones for the car and Anya's purse and Yvette's

@flashgiovanni6694 Жыл бұрын

The dishwasher part him home. My wife never turns the faucet on when loading the dishwasher. I am currently at the point where if I open it and I see anything not clean I just close it right back

@belvamoore8169 Жыл бұрын

You can also have soapy water ready for after dinner. Everyone or designated person scrape the plates and put them in the water. No need to put them in the dishwasher if they're just going to dry while sitting. Hope this helps.🌹

@gladitsnotme Жыл бұрын

@@belvamoore8169 this is what I do with coffee mugs. Leave em in the sink with water in them so the gunk doesn't stick, then put them in the dishwasher when I'm ready to run it.

@belvamoore8169 Жыл бұрын

@@gladitsnotme It works👍🏾🙂.

@l.dozier1984 Жыл бұрын

Add that bleach to that little hole in there. That's what it's for.

@msgrace77 Жыл бұрын

Please buy your husband his OWN bottle(s) of lotion. Ash is unacceptable!! 😊

@ChaM_25 Жыл бұрын

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@kevafisher6921 Жыл бұрын

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@turquoisebrowntq Жыл бұрын

Glen get you a bottle of your own lotion and put some Velcro on the bottom of it. Stick it to the counter top. There’s gonna be guilt associated with whomever decides to snatch it up!😂

@moa.2869 Жыл бұрын

Btw I like seeing lily 🥹

@sharonvisini5531 Жыл бұрын

I just don't get it

@SSB1985 Жыл бұрын

Lol y’all need y’all own lotion. Problem solved!

@belvamoore8169 Жыл бұрын

Glenn is Lilly getting more rubs👀😬 than Yvette I'm here watching this👀. I hope the menstrual cramp machine don't hurt men internally; but it may be a great idea for Glenn to experience it🤐😬😐😶‍🌫️ There I said it.