Hello, Your words just saved me from destroying myself and marriage, I realised I don't even trully love my son , am going back to my first love God and learn from him how to love. Thank you so much, may Our Father continue blessing you.

This is so true because i am so hard on myself and it shows on how i treat others as well i am normally so hard on others too.

I’m gonna get up and listen to this everyday until it gets better for me.

Many dont love themselves. God is love. I'm the same. Tell me. Love warns. 1Cor 13 Love does not rejoice in iniquity.

This message is perfect on my journey with God. I feel so unworthy based on my life circumstances. But God is love so I must love myself, and if I truly love Him, I will obey this commandment

Nothing but the Holy Spirit spoke to me through you. Every word was the truth, thank you for being obedient and creating this video for your brothers and sisters in Christ❤

I’m alive, I give God so much thanks for it. I was a mess, I knew I wasn’t myself. I felt and heard people’s judgement towards me, it hurt so bad. I’ve been living with a “time to get them back” mindset now that i’m ‘myself’ again. It was so much pride and anger and honestly hatred i thought was justified but it was wrong and evil and Lord I am so sorry. You had so much grace for me during that dark time I choose today to forgive anyone I felt judged by and to forgive myself for who I ‘was’ back then

I struggle to take care of myself. I am a single mom with a special needs child. Each day is a struggle. I know God is with me and teaching me each day.

The crazy thing is that even the things that we may dislike about ourselves now or have disliked in another season of our lives, are the very things that draw others to us. I was drawn to you because of your voice, because of the fact that you look like me, and speak in confidence. Thank you for being you and for being obedient. I thank the Holy Spirit for speaking through you and being a voice that resonates with me, so that I can receive His word. May God continue to bless and protect you🙏🏽

That so crazy because sometimes I would get mad at my husband for no reason because of things I don’t love about myself.

Man I needed this , cause I’ve been so hard on myself bruh. Imma just go ahead and focus on having a better relationship with myself.

I have finally gotten to a place where I (almost) love myself. He's brought me a long way, but lately, it's as if I've forgotten how to let God love me and to receive it. It's odd, somewhere along the line, I became so focused on loving others that I forgot I need love, too. Please pray for me that my heart will be open to re-learning how to receive His love. Bless you, family ❤

Hi Kamia, thank you. As tears flow I have come to the realization I really did not love me. I need to go back to my first love immediately because the enemy is attempting to hold me captive. Thank you for being a helping hand. I am officially joining the family.

This is my first time coming across your page and the first video I have ever watched of yours and I am at awe of it. This video spoke so much to me and my partner. I have subscribed and joined the family. Thank you Holy Spirt for talking to me through Kamia. Amen !! ❤️❤️

Your accent is adorbs!!! I really love this breakdown, keep it up sister. =)

Soooooo thankful for this. I feel the same about the importance of self-love as a christian. I feel I got so worried about what the Christians who think any love for yourself is bad that I wouldn't allow myself to read what was clearly stated in his word. I idolized criticism and opinion and it put God in a box of the angry father love only me and not yourself in any capacity and I think it damaged my personal relationship with him because I allowed others to define that for me.

I had to watch this twice. Thank you for your obedience❤

Hearing may have very well changed my life. I pray to God daily and been trying to get my life together as my relationship with God is concerned but now I know why I can’t move forward and it’s because I don’t love myself, which I secretly am aware but have not openly admitted to others. I haven’t forgiven myself for the things I have done and how I have hurt others. I carry weight on my shoulders that went on in my child hood and teenage years with not having a great relationship with my dad and not knowing how to communicate over into my adulthood. And now I don’t know how to resolve issues with friends , I don’t know how to forgive when I feel wronged and I don’t know how to forgive myself. Where can I even start now.

This video is amazingggggg… the breakdown?? The explanations?? I’ve never heard someone speak & disect this topic like this. See in how much self love connects to Our love for God n others.. so amazing

I watched the video because my mom was advising me because she saw I looked ragged and did not look so good and she asked me ' do you love yourself as a person' I was stunned to answer because I never thought of that question and I was shocked to realize I did not love myself like I proclaimed and if I do not love God , how do I love myself then? i want to love God first because I get swarmed by my emotions and get concerned not knowing I did not care for his temple my body well. Thank you, it really helped me!!!!!!!!!😘😍🙂

This is amazing❤️. The point about using 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 on your relationship with yourself is something I’ve never considered, I’ve only seen it as a tool on how to take care of others! God bless you!

Girl this changed my life. This is so gooooooddddd. Especially when you started breaking down 1 Corinthians 13 kind of love. I forget that we should behave that way towards ourselves. You opened my eyes to so much. Thanks for your obedience.

This is what I needed to hear. Sometimes I become negative towards myself and struggle with low confidence from past events. These still bother me today but your words have touched my heart 🙏🏽🙏🏽God bless you❤❤

Girl i listened to this in the shower and i don't know if i should cry or what but this is beautiful ❤️ thanks

Discipline is the highest expression of Self love, thanks for contributing to this topic, I wrote a song titled Self Love for people on this journey.

I realized that I don’t love myself like I thought I did & this video is helping me. thank you Jesus & thank you so much for this video 🫶🏾

Amen, sister ❤️

Thank you for this ❤You really spoke to me

Amen sista this is Good ❤

This is right on time.

I needed to hear this 🥺

I needed this video, thank you ❤❤❤

Oh yessssss Go Jesus!!🥰🥰

Thank you this message has helped me today. I have to forgive myself, God has forgave me already

THANK YOU FOR THIS. Be blessed, Kamia❤🙏🏽

This is the video I didn’t know I needed. Thank you. ❤

God Bless You, thank you for this

Finally, someone is actually connect the dots!❤

Needed all of this 🫶🏽 I struggle a lot with self condemnation and didn't have this perspective on it! God bless you 👏🏽

thank u so much ! ts touched me

Amen sis this blessed me 🙌🏿❤️

You are spot on sis❤ God bless you

your calmness and ur vibe is soo gud i love ya

Amen ❤ be blessed sister! 🙏🏾

Thank you so much.

Amen. Thank you!

Thank you, this video was very helpful and eye opening. I came into this video thinking I met the requirements for loving myself, but I learned more about self-love, and I receive this. As I began to finish this video I began to think about God's word where it says in Hosea 4:6mand He says my people destroyed for lack of knowledge, so thank you so much for posting this video and allowing me to gain more knowledge, God is so good. Ask and you shall receive and that's exactly what happened tonight! God bless you for this video, I hope that you receive more followers but also more of God, don't you give up! Amen.

This is really insightful, thank you🫧💗

Amazing sis.

Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww you did that! This was worth it !!!

This is so very very good.

This was an on time message to get me back on my square.. Thank you

This really blessed me so much. Most definitely a vid I will refer to over and over.

I'm on a self love journey as we speak. New follower I love your channel you Rock gorgoues ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

off topic! you are soo beautiful, face card, hair, skin tone! First time on your channel, I had to pause the vid to check if you had a haircare routine. GLORY BE TO GOD for your beauty! okay let me get back to the video haha!

Thankful for this message the very thoughts I was curious about

Thank you I needed to hear this ❤

this was on point, keep doing what you are doing sis

Thank you for sharing!! 🤍

Thank you beautiful sister! God bless you!🙏🏽❤️

Hey, girl, hey! You popped up on my home feed.

This came right on time. Thank you so much! ❤❤❤❤ thank you Jesus!

Thank you for sharing. So encouraging! 🙏

Really great and detailed video, what a blessing ❤

great analogy between boundaries and the ocean - love that !

This video is everything. Thank you so much and may God continue to bless you !

I am having a hard time dealing with confusion. I prayed to God to reveal His words and for understanding, since I backslid for 3 years and I have just decided to go back (very hard). I read the verse again when Jesus told His disciples to deny themselves and follow Him then I came across a quote that loving people, and loving life is a reflection of how you love yourself and that is the love the author has been searching for. I told myself I am that kind of person. I love taking care of people, I smile at strangers, I consider my friends' feelings, but then thoughts that I am selfish came up and I felt guilty. I don't know how to align this with God's words as it contradicts what the word of God says. I have so many questions like, how can I biblically love myself and deny myself at the same time? I'm confused and keep praying to God for this clarity and peace. I searched and found your video, and it's clear to me now that I have been doing all that because I was self-seeking in friendships/relationships. I am a people-pleaser. I wasn't considerate because I love people. I wanted them to consider and see me too. I wanted them to validate my feelings when the times comes, so when they wanted advice from me, I was available for them 24/7. I lacked boundaries and my actions were selfish, not self-love. My motivation in "loving" people was to gain something from them such as company, acceptance, validation, their time, and everything made sense. I confused myself with the ability of smiling to strangers with the innate character of being kind. I did that because I feared being negatively perceived. My sense of self started to shake, and I realized that I have been functioning based on my trauma and every action, and Jesus revealed to me now, that in the past, every relationship I had including friendships, failed because I was selfishly loving them. I was self-serving and the illusion is clearing up now. During those times, I didn't love God enough and I wasn't showing them how Christ lived in me. I lost my ability to genuinely love and I let people trample me, became a victim and dwelt in that narrative that I am a victim in every failed relationships and friendships because I wasn’t accountable and responsible of my actions that led to that. God warned me already through my parents, but I took their corrections and advices with aggression and thought that they didn’t know what they were saying. All your points, thank You Lord Jesus, are making sense, because these problems I had with correction, patience, all came from my lack of understanding of how Jesus loves me and so I didn’t love myself enough to take care of the temple, to glorify Him in my peers, my actions, my way of loving, and it hurt people in my life and damaged me threefold. Now, I am unworthy of God’s love and I will never be, and that’s good because that means I recognized that I can only do life with Him beside me. Without Him, I will just keep messing my life and my relationships and I will just go farther away from Hi, which I do not want anymore after living in sin for 3 years, gratifying myself and that is what “deny yourself” meant and it’s all clear now. Praise God for your life, sister. May God bless you more. Thank you for being an instrument of Jesus Christ

This really blessed me. Thank you for sharing

This was right on time . Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

Amen. Thank you for this message. God bless you sister!❤😊

Such powerful words. Thank you!!

Man this is the best video I have watched in a LONG Time thank you 🙏🏼

I grew with a lot of self hate when I was younger I still am young though but God is helping me I just have to continue to seek him

Love this

Wow , I relate to this soo much and it was soo spot on. This has blessed me. Thank you sister 💜

Thank you very much! I really needed to hear this💕

Listening to this daily during this week.... God bless you!

This was so good, thank you! New subscriber ♥God bless

I like your hair It looks good on you love from uganda 🇺🇬

This is such a inspirational video! Thank you for talking about this! I am encouraged! ❤

Amen

This just saved me. I lack the ability of be patient with me or myself

😢❤ I received every word! Thank you for this video I needed this

Yes NiV version Amen.

Thank you sis🤍.

Thank you for this! I needed to hear all of this. You’re spreading the right message and I’m so happy I was led to your video. Thank you!! Have a great day

Thank you Kamia!! Three of the signs spoke to me. I am ready to fully love myself and most importantly love God more. God bless you for blessing others! You have a new subscriber in me!❤🙏🏾

Thank you for making this video

Your words spoke very true to me. Thank you Kamia.

This was an amazing video thank you so much for this. This is my first time watching and I plan to watch more.

Im so thankful to God for recommending this video to me! This was very helpful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us

God bless on your heart on journey to love myself during single season age 42.

Thank you so much for this, Queen. It was very necessary, in Jesus name ❤

Wow thank you for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you!! Needed this! 😢❤

I needed this today. Im on a road to self love so i can love others as well. It takes time, and anything that takes time takes patience. I love that you didn't sugar coat anything in this video. ❤

This was truly a blessing. I definitely needed to hear this message. Thank you, Jesus and Thank you Kamia.

This video was truly sent by the Lord for me. Thank you so much, God bless you gorgeous💗✝️

What an anointed message! Bless you for blessing me today with such a reminder that I didn’t deserve forgiveness therefore I definitely should be forgiving others!

Great Message! Amen! Made My Evening Feel At Ease! GOD Bless You! 💙💙💙

First time viewer ! Thank you for this video. New subscriber ❤️