Omg such a sad story. This one made me cry..I'm not sure a crybaby but for some reason this one hit me different. Tu siab heev li os. 😭😭😭

Just be grateful you were loved by two families and you were not left to die in the woods with your grandma.

😢let her son take her back and let them know how you feel

Niam tais e, koj zoo nkaus qhov khoom uas tsis tsim nqi es koj txiv liam ncua ua qab ke luag. Zoo kawg koj ntsib ib tug txiv neej uas yug tsis tau muaj tub ki thiaj khaws koj los cawm ciaj hu nws ua txiv hu nws poj niam ua niam, los loj hlob mus nrog luag yuav muaj txiv muaj ib tse tub ki. Ntawd ces twb tseem nqi tshaj nkawd tej nyiaj tseg rau nkawd tej tub yug thiab tshaj qhov nkawd cov tub yuav xam koj yog muam. Yog thaum ub nkawv ho rov koj rau koj txiv yug uas tseg koj tuag ua qab ke luag los koj yeej tsis tau kev hlub tshaj os. Koj txiv yuav poj niam tshiab ces muaj ntxhais tshiab, koj yeej yuav zoo tsis txawv ntsuag puab ntsa thiab poj qhev las ma. Pheej tseem yuav tu siab na. Twb tsis tau tuag ua qab ke luag li koj pog lawm mas. Luag ntxhi es tej nyuag neej tsa ob phab ces tso plhuav cia tom qab os. Koj niam qhov twb tu koj ciaj ces koj tu nws tuag los yeej yog lawm. Tsis thas yuav tos nyiaj li os

Tus Viv ncaus aw koj yeej siab zoo kawg lawm os tab sis yog yus twb txaus siab tu tus niam uas tsis yug yus thiab tsis hlub yus ces txhob tu siab... yog kuv no tej zaum kuv yuav tsis tu vim nws twb muaj nws 3 tug tub thiab 3 tug nyab tej hauj lwm ntawv yog lawv hauj lwm.

Txob tu siab os mog. Peb cov niam txiv in plab yug kiag los twb zoo li koj thiab os.

Leej niam no siab tsis ncaj thiab tsis zoo. Xa lawv niam rov qab mus nrog lawv nyob. Lawv yuav sib nrauj los tsis care. Pab niag tub no tsim nyog noj tshuaj. Tsis kam yuav lawv niam tabsis ho ntshaw pob nyiaj. Txaj muag dhau lawm.

Me vivncaus aw nrog koj tu siab os. Koj txawm hlub koj niam npaum cas los koj niam yeej hlub koj tsis ti txha vim koj tsis yog nws yug os. koj twb ua zoo them lub txiaj ntsim tas lawm es kav tsij coj koj niam rov qab mus nrog koj cov nus nyob mog. Cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim thiab foom koob hmoov rau koj mog. Muab nyiaj ces muab koj niam Nrog tib si lub ntuj yeej tsis npam os. Yog yuav npam ces twb npam koj cov nus lawm. Txog hnub koj niam tuag koj cov nus yeej tsis ntab ntws os. Tu siab tshaj.

Zajj neej neeg no cas tu siab ua luaj oss tus mi niam tsev😢😢😢, hlub hlub koj oss mog 😢

Pab koj Tus siab kawg os koj yog ib tus neeg kheej heev lawm os tus sister aw hlub2 koj os❤

Nrog koj tu siab os me ntxhais aw, cov tub ces xav yuav nyiaj xwb tsis xav tu os, Hmoob ces ib txwm yeej hlub cov tub xwb txawm yog tej ntxhais lawv yug kiag los lawv yeej hlub txawv tej tub mog

These old fashion hmong parent siab phem tshaj just because you are not their biological daughter, you did all the right things, but your mom still only worry about these unfaithful sons. 😢

You didn't have to take your mom in but you did so don't be sad it's your choice

You do it for yourself, sis! Luag twb txhob txwm tsis hlub yus es yus tseem siab ntev hlub lawv ces txhob tu siab nawb. Kaj tsij uv mus xwb es ua twj ywm. Tej zaum koj tshuav lawv nqi.

Ua siab ntev tu os viv ncaus aw!! Lawv tsis hlub koj los tej zaum lub ntuj kuj yuav pom koj txoj kev hlub es tom ntej no koj yuav tau ib txoj koob hmoov zoo mog, koj cov nus ces tom ntej tej zaum tsuas muaj qhov phem nkag lawv lub neej xwb os.

Omg kuv yeej tsis kam zov li lawm os ntuj es

Cov nus coj tsis yog rau tu muam. Cov nus hlub pob nyiaj xwb.

Yog tsis muaj lawv ces yeej tsis muaj koj lawm kav tsuj tug koj niam kom koj txhob tsuas lawv nqi lawm os sister aw

Txhob tu siab phim nw cov tub coj nw mu nyob tsev lau xwb ca koj tsi kàv liàm nrog koj tu siab heev

Cas nco txog nyiaj xwb os hmoob tsis nco txog txoj kev hlub li

Ntxhob nus lawn nog Tus viv ncau aw lawv yeej tsis hlub koj lawn os nog

Sister don't be sad. Koj cov nus hais tias lawv yuav saib seb koj tus txiv neb muaj peev xwm npaum li cas. We know for sure you have more balls than all 3 of your brothers combined. Ua ib tug ntxhais Hmoob mas tu siab tshaj. Ntxawm cov laus twb mus tau ntau xyoo lawm los lawv yeej tseem nco ntsoov hlub cov tub dua.

Thaum koj tau kev txonmyem koj twb tsis tau yug koj los nws twb khaws koj thiab cawm koj dim ntawm txoj kev tuag. Tsam nod nws ho tau kev txomnyem los koj yuav tau pab thiab cawm nws…peb ua tib neeg nyob dejsiab dejjws loj tshaj nyiajtxiag. Nej s/d txoj hmoov yeej los li ntawd…ib leeg cawm ibleeg rau ntu txomnyem. Thov Vajtswv Ntuj foom koob nchuav hmoov thiab txhawb koj lub dag lub zog pub rau koj nawd mog tus me vivncaus aw

If the sons have no respect for me and just want to come n take all the money but still dnt want to care for their own mom, i say then and there at the party to take his mom with him, no exceptions. Its so sad they used her to care for their mom and then just come n empty her out. Karmas a b$%&@ to the sons. Since the mom made it clear her sons means more to her than i as a none bilogical daughter leave her to the sons do their way with her. Her sons problem if these tradional parents want to leave their life in their sons hands....so annoying.

Sister, you do it to yourself. I know you’re looking for love but you will never be fully love until you love yourself. Be thankful to both side of your family and just love the family that you created with your husband!

Txhob tu siab os txawm nej koom niam txiv ib plab los tus siab nqaim ces yeej yuav zoo ib yam ib ko ces koj hajyam yuav tu siab

Yus txaus yus siab os viv ncaus aw. Koj niam ko twb tsis hlub koj los koj tseem yuav ua tus cawm seej tu nws es nws tseg nws tej nyiaj rau cov nws yug xwb los koj txaus koj siab ces tsis pom qab tu siab rau koj

Txob tu siab mog me Niam laus aw tus neeg hlub koj ce yog koj txiv tu koj xwb os koj txiv tuag lawv ce tsi muaj leej twg hlub koj lawv os cov yuav hlub koj ce yog koj tus txiv thiab koj cov me nyuam lawm xwb mog

Oh yoh sister aw, cias nws nyob tsev laus es meskas mam tus os mog. Yus tsis tshuav nws nqis lawm mog.

Ntxhaiv tau tia cov tsi muaj me nyuas e mu muab lwm tus los e yus ma muaj cev yog tus me nyuams tawv los theej ob niam txiv tawv lub ntxoj xb yig li na . Tus me niam lau aw koj niam koj txiv tus koj thb tau kev tshav ntuj ho nub no koj thb ntsaus ntuj os . Hlub koj heev os

Tu viv ncau aw nrog koj tu siab kawg os mog. Thov qhua koj tu txiv siab loj siab dav tseem kam tu niam tai thiab. Txawm koj hmoob phem ib qho lo koj kuj hmoov zoo ua tau tu txij kawm zoo os nawb

G yog luag yug ce luag yeej g hlub os

You should have left her with her own sons. You have no obligation to take care of her. You choose to do that on your own…😩!

Kj yeej ua yog lawm os kav tsij ua zoo ntxiv mus os thaum kawg ces kj yeej tau txais txoj kev zoo xwb os

Thanks for sharing your story sis. You're such an amazing person with a humongous heart. Wished we have more people like you. All I have to say is that "all of your step brothers are so cruel to you".

Tu siab hv lí o

Sister you do your best god bless you😢sister txhob tu siab mog Muaj tej cov twb koom niam koom txiv kiag twb tseem phem tshaj ko thiab os

Tus Viv ncaus txhob tu siab nawb mog. Luag yeej tsis hlub koj los koj twb ua koj txoj hauj lawm zoo rau koj niam lawm Ces koj yuav tau koob hmoov zoo xwb os. Hos koj cov nus lawv ces tsuas xav tau nyiaj xwb. Lawv yeej tsis tau koob hmoov dab tsi li os. Lawv tsuas tau koj niam cov nyiaj tam sim no xwb. Lub neej pem suab lawv yeej tsis tau dab tsi li os. Hos koj ces tsis tau dab tsi tam sim no los mas tab sis lub neej tom n tej no koj yeej yuav tau koob hmoov xwb os. Qhov koob hmoov koj tau tom n tej no tsis yog koj niam muab rau koj os. Tab sis lub ntuj yawn saub pom koj txoj kev zoo ces nws yuav foom koob moov rau koj lub neej pluas Mias rov los rau koj xwb os. Txhob muab lawv txoj kev tsis hlub koj coj los ua kev nyuaj siab thiab TU siab. Xav Tias yus ua ib txoj kev zoo thiab hlub tus neeg cawm yus ib zaug nyob hauv nyiaj teb no xwb nawb

Tsis ntev tam nteb no koj lub neej yeej yuav zoo dua koj cov nus os nawj vim koj niam koj txiv muab kooj hmoov rau koj lawm koj cov nus ces yuav caum tsis cuag koj li nawj

Cas yuav pab hlub koj ua luaj os mog

Cas nim nrog kj tu2 siab li os

Xa rov qab rau cov nus mog. Luag tsis hlub yus txhob ua zoo lawm

Tu siab tshaj li os cov neeg laus coj li no😪💔

Niam Ntsuab teev! Tus Niam tsev ko nws twb paub tías lawv tsis hlub nws vim tsis yog Niam Txiv yug, Tab sis nws kuj ntaw lawv cov nyiaj kawg li nawb. Yog yus tsis ntsaw nyiaj ces yeej tsis ntsaw tu lawv li nawb.

Lub sijhawm nod yog lub sijhawm koj yuav pauj txiaj pauj jim uas nkawd cia li zoo siab hlo khaws koj tom kev los tu thiab tseem phij cuam rau koj mus ua koj lub neej. Tsis txhob muab tej nyiaj me me ntawd los ua kev tu siab. Koj ua koj part zoo lawm ces lub ntuj yeej yuav foom koob nchuav hmoov pub rau koj es cia li zoo siab rau yam uas koj ua tau pub rau koj tus niam ntawd kod

There's no need to be saddened by your mother. The debt owed to them for saving you is enough as you've stated. Even amongst blood siblings, there will be unequal love poured out to them from their parents. It's just the reality of life. Every child is different and thus they require different things. Often times, they're are favorites. And those who need the most help will receive more for their parents. I do believe that what your brothers did are wrong. But you've done right for what you've done for your mother.

Sister, you lucky! your adopted parent loves you 10X more than mine. My mom passed away with all my responsibles for the funeral and now my father living with me. It sad!!

Tus sib ua lua li os me nem 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Kj tsis tau 1qho los kj twb tau 1qho, kv niam &kv txiv muaj wb 2 nus muag xwb los, kv twb tsis tau 1yam ab tsi li tiag, nkawv muab nkawv lub neej tag nro rau nkawv tus tub xwb.😢

Sister, don’t worry about the money and all, those are just material things. Be grateful and blessed that they took you and loved you. Just think of taking care of your mother as a pay back for them taking care of you and loved you all those years. Some of us with parents still don’t get the love you got.

Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One of the toughest decisions a father has to make during a live and death situation is painful and disappointment. Thaum Koj niam tuag ntshe koj peb niag nus dev no yuav tsis kam log tiag ces koj yuav tau txais khawv yaj khawv yws xwb.

Pab koj tu sb kawg li os niam laus aw yus tsis yog lawv yug ces lawv yeej tsis hlub yus hauv lawv nruab sb tuaj os mog peb twb yog niam txiv yug lawv twb hlub peb tsis sib luag os koj nc ntsoov tias cov niam txiv ib plab yug luag thiaj hlub yug xb os mog koj tsis cia koj niam nws mus nyob tsev laus ces twb tag plaub lawm mas koj hlub lawv luag yeej tsis hlub koj os nb

Omg your little boy is all grown up May!!

tu siab tiag2 li o😅😅😅😅😅😅

Sister muab koj niam rov qab rau koj cov nus nawb. Tsam lwm hnub koj niam mus ces lawv tso Lub ntees rau koj ces koj yuav txom nyem os

Wow

Txhob tu2 siab. Tim koj niam tsis ncaj es cov tub thiaj tsis zoo thiab. Koj los Txhob xav li cas vim koj niam twb khaws koj los tu2 ea thiaj li loj ea koj hlub koj niam pauj xwb mas. Sib pauv zog xwb mog

Cas zoo li koj ntshaw2 tu ib niag pojniam uas luag twb tsis nco koj txiajntsim tias koj hlub nws yog kuv ces tsis tu lawm os

Sister koj niam tsis Hlub koj os, tseem koj tsi tu koj niam los tsis npam koj li os

You are lucky your husband is an understanding person.

This is so sad 😭

It's such a sad story. I feel so bad for you. Even us daughters who have birth parents don't love us as much as the sons. You and your husband have a heart of gold. You should have just left after you found out what your mother did.

Coj koj niam mus nyib tsev laus es kom koj cov nus mus nug tim tsev laus seb lawv khaws tau koj niam cov nyiaj li cas lawm ma . Cas ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj tsis txaj muag li ntuj os teb aw😭

Why does this sound so familiar? I saw a fb video of someone dropping off their mom at the door. So sad.

Cas siab yuav phem ua luaj es xav tau nyiaj xwb tsis xav yuav leej niam es ho txawj ntshaws niam li nyiaj thiab lawv twb nqa nyiaj tas lawm ces kom lawv tuaj coj mus nrog lawv nyob mas lawv ua li cas cia ces yuav tau txais li rov qab xwb yeej khiav tsis dim

cov nug Dev nó ib nub tw yuav plua tuag vim phem e ntiaj teb foom nw niam xya nw .nw twb tsi yuav nw niam na e hai qhov khwv...... ntuj aw khwv ưa luaje tseem lo tseeb tej nyiaj ưa tsi na

Kom nws cov tub tuaj coj nws mus rov qab mus.nrog koj me mus koom txiv os mog cov nus dev kom yeej yuav npam lawm xwb

ntshe koj tshuav koj niam nqe xwb os nrog koj tu siab

Ua li Koj ua tau xwb os sis, peb niam Los Twb nrog peb cov ntxhais nyob thiab xwb os

Yus twb tsi yg lawv yug lawv twb tsi hlub yus twb ua kom ncaj rau sawvdaws tsi tsim nyog li nco ntsoov hais rau cov neej tya tias nyiaj lawv nqa tas lwm hnub lawv yuav tsum ntas tus laus no nb tsi li ces kj cv nus tyeem yv cia koj ntas thb ov

No our old fashion parents not only because we're their biological daughter but we are their own daughter and they even treat us like we have no feeling like we an outsider how do I know because I live in that life os ib tsoom me phooj ywg aw tu2 siab tshaj plaws li os nej cov nyob lub neej zoo li no nej thiaj paub 😢kuv hais nej tias yog xaiv tau los es yuav los ua me nyuam ntsuag no ces kuv xum xaiv lub neej ua me nyuam ntsuag tuag txhob los yug ua me nyuam ntsuag ciaj nawb vim tias yug los ua me nyuam ntsuag tuag ces yus niam yus txiv tuag tag lawm ces ntsia qhov twg los yeej tsis muaj lawm ces tu2 siab los kuj puam chawj tab sis yog yus muaj niam muaj txiv es lawv tso yus mus nrog kwv tij nyob rau ib lub txawv teb chaws mas luag Haj yam tsis xav hlub yus niam txiv los txom2 nyem thiab mas luag Haj yam cem thiab tsis nyiam yus li mas yog ib qho tu siab tshaj plaws li os lawv aw.

Yog leej niam ces tej me nyuam taw2 ncauj ces tej thaum yuav tau hais lus ncav os nej tsis paub txoj kev ua ib leeg niam os rau cov me nyuam taw2 ncauj os

Koj yog lub kaus roos koj 3 tug nus me nyuam tsaub, Lawv saib tsis taus koj ib hnub twg lawv lub kuamuag ntshav yuav los nawb mog. Uasiab loj2 nawb

Tsis txhob tu siab os txhua yam koj cov nus tsua yog nyiaj xwb koj yuav tso lus rau tus thawj coj kom koj 3 tus yuav tsum faib cov nyiaj koj niam tau muab faib ua yam koj tsis tau ib kis peb neeg ntiaj teb pom thiab hnov tag

Mi sister aw lwm hnub ces txhua yam ces cia li muab pov kiag rov qab rau koj cov nus xwb nawj mog cov nus zoo li koj cov ko na

Yus txaus yus siab mus lav niag laus los tu ces txhob nroo nroo os. Lawv tsis tau yuam kom yus mus coj los tu ces tsum xwb mas. Yog tus siab npaum ko ces coj rov qab mus rau tseb laus xwb mas. Koj mas twb yog muaj hmoo kawg koj tus txiv tseem yuav koj os. Yog tau tus txiv siab me ces ntshe nws twb muab koj pov tseh ntev lawm vim koj mus lav koj niam tu.

I don't know why you are sad when your parent don't give you any money.. is just money. They pick you from the street love you feed you as their own.. appreciate it and love them.. it's all about the money?. go make your own stop waiting to get free money. Love your parent no matter they give you money or not.. you want something to remeber them by.. well there clothes blanket other stuff.. WHY DOES IT ALWATS END UP WITH MONEY.. PEOPLE GO MAKE YOUR OWN..

Koj niam siab phem thia koj cov nus tshuav koj txiv thiaj hlub koj xw cas tsis cia mus ngob tsev laus kom pau tab nas

Why are u complaining u chose to, you always know the outcome but chose it. Txawm ib plab yug los yeej zoo li no thiab os.

Don't be sad. My Siblings and I are all blood. My Mom and Dad had 8 of us, 4 boys and 4 girls. And My Brothers don't love me. My Parents always spoiled the boys and forget about the girls. My Mom would always give money to her sons but forget about her daughters. It's not about blood or not, it's about if the other people actually care about and love you. Blood doesn't mean much because The Hmong Community still puts boys before girls. So, txhob tu tu siab os.

Very sad story sister. Nowadays, most sons and their wives are not reliable to take care of their own parents. It’s always the daughters with a big heart to love/take in the parents. You are very lucky to have a wonderful husband, who allowed you to take in your mom. He is right about how your brothers and relatives disrespected you when they came and took all the money you’ve saved while your mom was living with you. Your mom was also in the wrong for telling your brothers how much money you’ve saved😔 Didn’t you mentioned that your brothers wanted the money to find your mom a nice elderly home for her? And now they took everything from you and then decided they can’t take care of your mom anymore after only 1 night? Maybe you should’ve gotten your relatives involved again. As much as you love your mom, your brothers need to take her back. If they put her in elderly home again, then so be it. Sometimes you need to stand up for yourself and not let them tun all over you.😢

Koj ntshaw ntshaw kev hlub es koj thiaj li ruam tas li lawm os.

Phem li koj niam ces muab xa rov qab rau lawv es lawv yuav muab xa rau qhov twg los xij Los mas koj tseem tu los tsis muaj txiaj ntsig os,

Tus viv ncaus aw koj tsis tas nrhiav koj niam koj txiv os nkawv twb tsis yuav koj os koj koj txiv tu koj tsis hlub koj ces koj yeej tuag nrog koj pog lawm os koj yog ib tug neeg tsis txawj xav os tsim nyog koj yuav tsis hlub koj txiv tu koj os

Haub yog koj niam tseem coj li ko ces cia nws nyob tsev laus zoo dua...yog koj tu ntev ntshe koj niag txiv tseem tsis xav yuav koj....koj niam yeej tsis tseg koob hmoov rau koj....nws tseg rau nws cov tu xwb...cov tub yuav tu thiab tsis tu lo yog tu yug lawv....koj tsis muaj feem teb chaws yuav hais nws lub neej twb feeb tas rau cov tub lawm..tu neeg hais koj tsis zoo ces yog neeg phem xwb

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Nope koj pab 5 phav xwb kom lawv tuaj vim koj tu txaus dhau lawm cov tub hauj lwm nawb

WOW, your father abandoned you and your grandmother, but he took your brother with him. Such cruel and heartless.

This is why daughters who have parents that loves sons only... stop taking your parents in. I understand its mean, but to save all the dramas and troubles for you and your husband. If they do not love you, just visit and take care of them as you can. To the brothers who doesn't want their mom, stop being greedy when it comes to money when you cannot even open your house to your own mom.

Your brothers have no shame! Shame on them!

Tsis txhob tusiab os tus viv ncaus. Koj muab xav kiag hais tias cav cuag cov uas yog niam thiab txiv yug es niam thiab txiv tseem xaiv hlub thiab xaiv pab es twb hlub tsis sib npaug no. Muaj ib txhia niam txiv Hmoob thaum lawv tseem noj taus hais taus ces lawv tsis nco qab hlub cov hlub lawv. Thaum lawv noj taus hais tsis taus li koj niam no lawm ces lawv mam li nco tias tsis muaj tus hlub lawv xwb no. Ua siab loj xav tias koj niam yog tus uas tu koj loj no xwb. Tsis tas li ntawv, hlub koj niam pauj rau koj niam uas yog tus yug koj no es koj thiaj li tsis qaug zog nawb.

This is so depressing. I have a feeling when your mum passes away, the brothers are going to ask you for more money. It's all going to fall on you, and then after the funeral, your brothers will take it all and forget that they ever had a sister like you. So many stories like this sis, you need to listen to your husband and just let your brothers take her. Even if it means letting them take her into a care home

Hais kom koj cov nus tuaj coj koj niam mus tu tam sis no thaum koj niam tseem muaj txoj sia nyob os me ntxhais. Thaum kawg koj thiaj tsis raug teeb meem vim koj cov nus twb tsis hlub koj ne!

Nej cov ntxhais ruam los ntse ? niam txiv yug tau sawvdaws tab sis niam txiv tsuas hlub lawv cov tub koj li lawv haistias koj yog tus ntxhais qhua xwb, koj niam twb muab nws cov nyiaj tas rau lawv cas koj tsis cia lawv muab nws xa mus rau tsev laus twg kom koj nyob tsis taus los yog koj ntshaw nyiaj ? koj puas yog hlub koj niam tiag los yog koj xav txeeb nws tej nyiaj xwb ? koj yog ib niag neeg kem txab quaj taug ua tsis taus niam koj thiaj tau noj qhov iab cia qhov qab rau koj cov dablaug noj.

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So say😢

Cas tsis muab rau lawv coj mus nas

Sister, koj ua tsis tau Niam xwb. Koob hmoo ntawm koj niam tu xwb koj tws tau ntxaus lawm tsis need tu koj niam lawm. In the long run, yuav tsis zoo rau koj thiab koj tus txiv. Just let her go.

You and your siblings only care about money. Regardless they raised you and treated you well and never asked for repayment. The least we can do for our parents is help take care of them when theyre old without expecting anything back. Whatever my parents choose to do with their money is up to them. Its their hard earn money. I dont rely on what they leave behind. Work hard for your own money so you dont have to worry about what they give you or not.