Nrhiav kom tau tis hlub yus mog. Txhob tag kev cia siab mas.

Sounds like someone with a bad judge of character playing victim for bad decision after bad decision.🤔

I think you just make really bad decisions regarding your spouses. The first mother in law didn’t like you and that marriage didn’t work out. When you met your second husband and his mom already didn’t like you from the start, you shouldn’t have married him but you did anyway. The third husband, you didn’t do your research before you married him. Each time you got divorced, you didn’t learn anything. That said, it’s ok to be alone too. I’m glad you made your peace with being alone. Maybe you finally learned something after so many divorces.

Omg, the first 12 mins into this story and, girl, you already wronged big time. I don't care how "nquag" you claimed yourself to be but you were not smart enough to make your own decision from what's right and wrong. You're mother in law is right. No matter how lazy your husband tells you to be lazy, you do your part. When I was newly married, my husband also said the same thing...to sleep in with him, I don't have to cook for his parents, etc, but I still resisted because I know where my role stands. If you can't distinguish your role as a "nyab" then don't blame it on your lazy husband; he was right that you buy into it as well and was lazy yourself. I'm glad they're smart enough to send you off but be glad u didn't have any kid at the time. And what a niam tais you have. If it's my mom, I've would've been scold and lectured to be a better nyab. SMH!

Stop dating mama boys!! Love yourself sister. And this is the main reason why our hmong sister is dating other races because these monster og mother-in-law..😂

Omg lady, you're too perfect. Tsis muaj tus zoo los haum koj ces nyob ib leeg xwb mas.

It's not your luck. It's your bad choice and not taking the time to get to know the person. Remember, men will say anything and do anything, including selling his own mother if it'll get him what he wants. Why do you keep choosing the same path? Men are known liars.

Zoo mloog heev 👍 👏 👌

Feel sorry for u. U r not alone. Sister koj mus mloog Mej tshis Kab lia tu Facebook los yog youtube, los mis pab thiab yshawb koj lub zog. Good luck

👍👍👍

If you work for 3 companies and they all fired you, then look in the mirror and see what's wrong. 3 companies can't all be wrong about you, I know it's your story so u want to be the hero.

Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li nas viv ncaus 😢

Tsis need yuav txiv os need yus tus kheej xwb thiaj muaj kev kaj siab os! Tham xwb tsis yuav os! Koj pheej ntshaw yuav na!

Yeej Yog li koj Niam pog hais lawm nawb. Tus txiv cheem yus los yus yuav tau txhob mloog es sawv kiag mus ua hauj lwm pab yus tsev neeg xwb mas thiaj haum Niam pog nawb. Yog txiv cheem me me es cia li tib nkeeg kiag ces tim koj lawm nawb

Why people alway blame others and their Txoj hmoo phem? 😅 Let’s face reality, it’s all YOU because it your life and you can control it. Best is to be honest and face your flaws & admit your wrongs. It ok, no one is perfect . Most important learn your lessons and try to be a better person and not make the same mistakes on repeats. & don’t blames others for your own mistakes.

Tus 1 ces tim luag. Tus 2 ces tim 50/50. Tus 3 ces tim yus lawm . Yuav tau pauv qho yam.

Koj niam pog hais yog lawm txawm koj tus txiv hais kom koj nrog nws pw los yog koj yog ib tus nyab nquag li koj hais ces koj yeej sawv mus ua noj ua haus lawm. Koj yeej yog ib niag neeg tub nkeeg!!!!

Koj ntshaw txiv dhau lawm xwb pom kiag tu no yuav kiag pom tu pev yuav kiag ce thiaj zoo li no yus yuav tsum saib yus tu kheej kom muaj nqi lo ua poj nrauj lawm maj mam xaiv tsi muaj tu yuav lo yus nyob yus

Yog li ces koj tus Niam pog thib ob yeej tsis dag thiab. Yog koj yuav nws mus ntxiv ces koj thawj tus txiv yeej tuag lawm. Pab hlub koj kawg thiab os. Yuav tsis tau txiv los tham ua phooj ywg tau kawg mas

Feel sorry for you hope ur life be better

Being a Hmong daughter in law and living with the in laws is not easy. It's more like living your life for others. After the first marriage, it's more of your bad decisions.

Hmmm seems like a really desperate lady without any idea of who she wants as a partner in life…just goes along with whatever and has no standard. 20 marrying 60, 😂. Anyone making that kind of decision is DESPERATE and STUPID, seeing he’s still MARRIED (doesn’t matter the situation). This is what happens when you have NO idea what you want in life and just marry whoever wants to marry you. Know what you want, who you are and make decisions that pertains to living the best life.

Tus me viv ncaus aw, tsis yog tim txoj hmoo yog tim yus tsis txawj xaiv xwb os. Thiab kuv hais txog qhov koj mus yuav tus yawg 61 xyoos na. Nws tus pojniam lub cev txawm qhuav2 nrog tsis taus nws tus txiv pw es tus txiv cia tsis hlub xwb, twb tsis yog tim nws es koj twb yog ib tug pojniam koj tseem mus yuav thiab. Txawm luag cev qhuav los nim yog luag txhob txwm ua kom qhuav na. Luag cev qhuav los luag yeej khib2 luag tus tus txiv yeej tsis xav kom muaj lwm tus los hloov luag qhov chaw. Nws tus tub yeej hais yog lawm. Txawm yog kuv los yeej tsis pub koj los nrog kuv nyob ib yam thiab os.

Koj ua 4 zaug poj nrauj ib zaug niam yau thiab ib zaug poj ntsuam nawb...

You fall in love too easily. Don’t put yourself too low

Yog kawg koj yeej yog tus neeg tub nkeeg thiab os yog koj Nquag ces koj yeej tsis pw nrog koj tus txiv na

Cov me nyuam teb chaws no mas phem tiag2 os lawv aw txhob mus thab tsam mag qws li koj os. G yuav txiv los yeej zoo nyob teb chaws no nyob ib leeg los g txhawj os.😂😂😂

Thaub aw.. ntshe koj yaim koj niam lub p a u m xwb os yus ib tug txiv neej es tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws hlub yus tus pojniam li los. Ntseeg yus niam vim yus niam lub siab yeej phem tiag tiag na ib tus niam pog li koj niam na. Koj mas tseem tseem yaim koj niam lub p a u m tiag tiag li lau.

Tus 1 los tsis nyiam tus 2 los tsis nyiam yus. Yus yuav tau saib ib puas ncig ntawm yus tej zaum yus muaj ib qhov tsis zoo lawm thiab pob.

For your first marriage, your mother in law is not totally wrong about you. Maybe you just don’t see your bad side.

Hmoob pheej hais niam tais cov ntxhais , nov ces niam cob tub

Ham tsis yog li lawv hais lawm los mas 60xyoo lawm. yog koj tsis yuav nyiaj es koj yuav ab tsis mas. Koj yeej yog ib niag neeg tsis zoo thiab os. Mloog xwb yeej paub koj lub mai zoo. Koj hais koj zaj dab neeg mas koj cuab ntse tshaj thiab koj thiaj yog tus zoo thiab yog xwb.

Vim li cas koj ntseeg hmoob cov poj saub yawg saub na yog lawv paub npaum ntawd ces lawv ua nom kav ntiaj teb lawm las cas tseem yuav mus tos yuav luag tej nyiaj saib saub xwb na txhob ntseeg ntseeg saub os mog.

Tsis yog tim Hmoov phem nawb. Tim yus txoj kev xaiv yuam kev xwb. Ruam thiab ntse yog tim yus tus kheej xwb. Neeg yuav cem tias yus ruam, qhua tias yus ntse los tsis tseeb ceeb. Peb sawv daws yog neeg tib yam, tsis muaj leej twg yug los zoo zoo nkuaj zoo nraug, muaj muaj nyiaj. Yus tib leej xwb thiaj thuam thiab qhua tau yus lub neej. Cov txiv neej zoo yeej tseem muaj coob, tiam sis koj pheej nyiam xaiv cov koj nyiam nyiam xwb thiaj li tsis zoo. Qhov tsis zoo rau koj mas, koj thuam lwm tus nkaus xwb, koj tsis thuam koj tus kheej. Pheej hais tias tim tus ub tus no, tim tus txiv, tim niam pog, tim txiv neej siab phem, tim tsis muaj txiv neej zoo lawm. Yog koj tsis pom koj qhov phem, thiab tsis kho, ces cov txiv zoo yeej tsis pub koj pom lawv. Yog koj kho zoo lawm, cov txiv zoo yeej yuav tuaj nrhiav koj. Pojniam thiab txiv neej los tib yam. Yog yus zoo lawm ces, cov zoo yeej tuaj sib txeeb yus.

Your second chance you need to choose the one is respect for you . But it still looks like the same problem over and over again... The same thing happens to just take a lesson..

First : zoo rau qrhov koj niam pab koj everytime. 2: zoo rau qrhov koj tsis muaj koj cov txiv phem ntawv ib tug me nyuam lis. Mus yuav mes kas ces tiav hauj lwm xwb os.

Koj yuav tau hloov koj tus xeeb ceem los yog cwj pwm koj haum nyog lwm tus mas koj thiaj nrhiav tau txiv yuav yog koj tseem xav yuav txiv ntxiv.

Cov niam pog hauv zaj neej neeg nov cas siab phem kawg ua zoo tsam thaum laus dab tsis yuav ces ho nyob laus2 tej tug ntxim2 ntxub tsw ntxhiab ntsuav tsis muaj leej twg care nawb cov niam pog uas nyiam2 cob tub na.

There’s more to this story.

Tim koj xwb, koj yog tus phem raws li koj txoj neej neeg

Qhov tseem ceeb ces yog qhov koj tsis muaj mi nyuam xwb tsis hais tus txiv qub txiv txhiab

Cov poj nrauj tam sim no ces yog tib co gold digger xwb nawb lawv aw...

Koj tsis muaj hlwb. You make really bad choices. You don’t have to listen to what your husband says if you feel that it’s wrong. I have a friend who always say that nws mas nim tsis lazy kiag es niam pog lawv tsis nyiam. When she hangs out with my friends and I, she’s freaking lazy. Some people never see their wrong doing.

Not understanding the 60 year old man and you living with his son that is way younger than you? And suddenly he just slap you out of the blue? Words must had been exchange to get him that piss.

Tau zoo nyob tsis nyob zoo zoo es pheej xav xav yuav tej niag txiv dev laus no

Its good scary but what happen at the end.

Hihihi! Is it not true? I think they only told the truth, truth hurt, is it not? Yus yog ib niag pog tshob, pog tub nkeeg ces txhob keb ub keb no tim hmoov ub hmoov no no mas, lees zoo zoo tias yus yeey yog neeg tub nkeeg ces hauj lwm tiav xwb maj.

There's more to the story. You in your 20s and you married a guy in his 60s 🤔🤔you must know he has lots of life insurance policies.... 🤦‍♀️

Sister koj mus saib qhov twg os.

WTH Lady! 😂😂😂

Girl, you're another woman who is desperate for love again, after fail marriages you need to access your situation and life and not rush into love so easy. Take time for yourself.

You must be on a different level of ruam. Smh.. but at least you learned your lesson.

Koj niag txiv nws tseem xav ua paum sawv ntxov ne.....teb chaws no tsis noj mov sawv ntxov tsuas noj bread. Koj tus nus los cob koj tsis zoo muab koj luam tub nkeeg

I want to feel sorry for you but I can't. You made really bad choices.

Wow maybe its ur destiny to be born beautiful but bad luck with love. Yes it is best for u to just be alone and date.

Sorry sister but you should’ve stopped and learned after the second husband, you should’ve just date not marry, either way you’re getting love

On the title spell wrong txiv neej. No tsis neej

Hmong people do have some crazy beliefs

I feel like you are lying about this story because a son wont hit his stepmom unless she is running her mouth or did something savage. Why would you married a 60 yr old? Also if two of your husbands divorced you then 😩😩😩😩😩😩

Hell fuk no. You should've called the police on his son for assault and have him arrested.

Lol idk why but i don't like this woman and i don't feel bad for her

Wow I did feel bad for you until the Niam yau. Than I’m like, yea you are a gold digger. 😂😂

This lady hmong nplooj? wtf married old dude

I don't feel sorry for you. You made such poor choices.

You are lazy 😂😂😂😂

What a story!

Txhob ntseeg saub tej lus dag os viv ncaus. Nrog koj tu siab nawb. Mus ntseeg VajTswv es mus nrhiav tus hlub koj mog.