Lady, don't use the excuse that he lived far away and you didn't know him well. In the Hmong communities, it's easy to find out about the person before marrying him or her. As you said, you were so crazy about him and you failed to investigate as normal people should do. Even your parents warned you but you ignored their advice. Anyone who rushed into a life long marriage relationship without knowing the person is not normal. Normal people spend months and years to know the person and visit the person's life, family, work, living conditions. This lady met one time and didn't even want her mother to do 1 simple investigation. Now she has no right to complain.

A real good man will not put all the blame on the other person. He will admit to his wrongdoing and not praise himself. If you meet someone who only says good things about himself/herself than that person is a selfish and narcissistic person.

Thaum kawg yog koj tseem nyob ces koj yeej kawg tuag rau nws txoj kev phem lim hiam

Tu siab kawg li os kuv zag dab neeg yuav luag zoo txoj no li os kv mloog tag yuav luag zoo li kv txoj thiab😢😢😢

I love the mom who could detect the evil in the guys eyes even before the daughter blindly walked into a marriage with him 😂. Any divorced person is never blameless. There is something wrong with them for the marriage falling apart, the most innocent being too dumb and not doing due diligence into a person's background before jumping the gun to marry them. Even the most innocent person has failed in something not to be able to assess the situation accurately. So, watch out if they are divorced. And, if divorced 2 or 3x...omg! Watch out!

Yuav luag qub txiv tau luag qub mob tos luag niam loj ho muab nrauj tso los niag yeej lim2 hiam

As a women, if he talks crap about the ex. Most likely he's lying. There was red flags all over... I've learn parents are always the smartest. I'm glad it worked out for you in the end.

Tsis tseeg tej laus ces thaum kawg thiaj tau kev quaj ntag tim tib qhov koj liam tsis mloog tej laus cov lus hais

Pab hlub koj kawg os. Yog koj lam mloog koj niam lus es txhob yuav tej tug neeg siab phem li koj niag txiv ko lawv tsev neeg ces yeej npog nws lub qe tsw lwj es koom siab hais lus phem2 rau niam loj xwb. Lawv tsev neeg siab nyoos heev yus tus twb liam tab sis tseem kom muab qhov phem pov rau luag kom luag g tau neej ua es lawv tus thiaj tau xwb neeg lub siab qias neeg ces zoo li tsev neeg no mas.😢😢😢

Anyone that talks bad about their ex right from the beginning are usually the bad one. You were blinded by his good looks

Guys that blamed everything on their ex wife are the worst. I met one a long time ago and he is super greedy. Lesson learn. I’m so glad that he and i didn’t end up together. Such a blessing I dodged the bullet.

Nyuaj dhau lawm ces cia nyias tso nyias nyiaj xwb cov txiv neej no muaj ib txia coj txawv txawv li os

So glad she was smart enough to move on from that guy.

Yup...no. 1 reason for divorce is money...greedy spouse, spendy spouse always leads to divorce. If someone is divorced, look to their financial background. Nine times out of 10, it's greed or gambling/overspending.

This story sounds like my husband too

You need to put his real name out there to save other dumb ladies from falling into his trap.

WOW…! Only a cower man hits his wife…a real man will never hits his wife…good that you got away from this evil man and find a new good man…👍🤠!

Tsov txaij nraum neeg txaij plaws.

Wow! Your mom was so right about your husband. Yawg nplaum need to just marry his money.😂😂

Tim tib qhov koj ntshaws nws tshaj qhov nws ntshaws koj

Zoo koj muab nws pov tseg mas koj yeej raug tsim txaus nkaus mas..

Cov tibneeg coj tus cwj pwm zoo li tus txiv tsev no lossis cov niam tsev uas coj zoo li no mas yeej tsis yog ibtug tibneeg zoo Nws tsuas pom tias Nws yog neeg zoo no tabsi qhov tseeb tiag yog tibneeg phem. If no change doesn't matter how many wives or husbands will not last long..

😢kuv twb pom ib txhia txiv neej mas phem tshaj plaw nws mus haujlwm mas xav muab yus xauv cia hauv tsev xwb ntshai dhau lawm os cov txiv neej vwm vwm

You knew what he's? If you want chickens, you should've got some for yourself before you deliver.

Tsov tom niag txiv dev siab phem no kv xav lawg phom xwb os ntxim ntxub ua luaj li txiv neej Hmoob lub siam twm xeeb qia dub

Haven’t you heard of the Hmong saying, “tau luag qub txiv tau luag qub dab?”

A guy who calls his ex names is clearly a RED flag! He has no respect for the mother of his children....

He chose you for a reason you he knew he could control you. Most often Motherly instincts are right.

Nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no yog koj tsis mloog koj niam koj txiv lus ces koj yeej tsis muaj lub zoo neej nrog luag ua li

Txog txij poj niam mus deev hluas ces poj niam twb dhuav txaus lawm Raug leej twg leej twg thiaj paub Thaum sib yuav mas thiaj li paub qhov tseeb tias Tim leej twg

Kuv mloog zaj no o mab vaj aw, tos tsi taus koj cov neej neeg tawm tuaj li o

Cov poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj tam sim no siab phem phem zoo ua nkauj nraug xwb tsis zoo ua txij nkawm nawb lawv aw...

Kudos to you sister, divorcing an abuser and a narcissist bastard!!!

Smell to fishy. He sounds like a control freak

Cov niah npe hu ua Cai ....Mas ntshe yeej lim xyiam tshaj....kuv niag txiv Lem hu ua Cai thisb...nws Mas lim xyiam tiag tiag li....Siab phem tiag tiag ....Liam tej yam yus twb tsis tau ua tsis muaj li nws Liam...nws twj lug dag yuav rov Npam nws xwb....

The moment he bad mouth his ex wife that should have been a red flag

Good for you for leaving and not waiting till you had 5 kids!

Wow ib cov neeg mas tsis paub li...

Sounds like my younger sister’s story. She about to divorce him

I felt sorry for you, sister. I'M GLAD YOU'RE OUT!!!

Should listen to your mom.

Dont blame anyone, but yourself for being a poor judge of character.😅 Looking for the handsome one doesn't mean they will be nice.

What a narcissistic manic he is to have as a husband or even just a friend. I think I'm better think twice about my relationship current situation....while I'm gone!

Ntuj aw 10 tus qaib xwb kuv noj tag 45 tug dia ho vim kuv pab txiv tub nrog kuv noj me ntsis thiab nes😅

The Tilte 😂😂 Never think of the shoes situation the same again. 😂

Giggles; Really Time ... Wtf! Some People, Seriously So Weird I Tell Ya!! This Is Far The Funniest Of Them All!! That's A Good First Wife & People Need To Learn! But, It Don't Matter 1st or 2nd Wife Must Be Nice! I Refuse To Have Anymore Kids Because Most Hmong Men Don't Love You When Your Pregnant!!

😂😂nyuam qhuav ntxim pom dheev luag tej txiv yawg nrauj xwb ces nyiam ceev ceev ces zaum no paub lawm poj?? Pom nquab ya tsi pom nquab zes ces yog koj ntag os me viv ncaus aw..,tej laus yeej tias tsi phem ces tsi tau ua yawg nrauj puas paub 😅😅😅

But why am I SOOO curious about the nasty narcissist ex husband life though. Like I wanna know if he’s suffering. That’s all!! 🤣🤣

Yuav tau yawg nplaum lawm lau zag no na hahaha

Wow that's one husband out of this world I don't think no more can top him. Controlling freak... thank god you left him.

very evil dude..like to know who he is

The man is an accountant, and you are not. He is normal for who he is and you are normal for who you are. It your fault for not knowing who you marrying into. Do your own diligent.

I’m glad u left him. He sounds much more worst then my brother-in-law.

Cov neeg qia dub li tus txiv dev no mas thaum kawg yam laus ces nws nyob ib leeg thaum tuag tsis muaj neeg pom li