I'm happy that it turned out good for you and your husband at the end. Getting married young shouldn't have to be a crime, but a tough lesson learned. Life is harder when you have rude and unthoughtful mother-in-laws. If a nyab is willing to learn and is respectful, give her a chance. You can't expect to get respect if you don't give any. I love how both of you have trust in one another to wait for the right time. I'm sure it wasn't easy, but you guys pulled through together. Real love is hard to find, so when you find it, don't lose it. Many blessings to you and your family. 🙏

The saddest thing is that he chose his parents, not the family he built with you. I personally would have never re married someone like him.

I am so happy for you sister. Although it took this long I am glad you both forgave each other and have one another

What a coward. He can't even stand up to his mother. Not a man at all.

Yikes! I'm glad you both are back together but to me he is a coward for not marrying you while his mother is still alive. What a waste of 10 years. You could have continued your education in in those 10 years to better yourself AND maybe meet someone better. SMH.

Damn, lady, you crossed the line by telling him to date his mom. I know and understand being a nyab in our community because it’s expected too much of us. They always say uv thiab uv if your husband still loves you even if your mil is evil to you. I connect with you. His love ❤ for you never stops. I’m happy that both of you reunited and live happily together again.

It’s unfortunate that your husband isn’t able to be mature enough to stand by you and allow his mom to dictate to him.

It’s good that you guys didn’t move on with the another marriage and came back also i feel like marriage couple mostly divorce due to the mother-in-law just like the daughter-in-law only I hope that this new generation will change and not act like that

Kj txhaum rau qhov kj hais li lus ko is vivncaus

WTH. He loves you but he waited 10 years before he would marry you??? He has no backbone. I wouldn’t have rein him back. If he truly loved you he would’ve came back to you even if his mom didn’t die

Oh how the universe works .. but maybe you’re both meant to be and this was a time separate for its own reason. Glad you guys are together for 2nd time.

Wow.. im happy that you are together now but he couldn't even grow a backbone to tell his mom that he loves you no matter what. So sad that he had to wait for his mom to pass in order to take you back.

I’m very happy that you and your husband got back together. Thank you for sharing your story. 😊❤

I love this one very inspiring story and also I wish everyone would end up like this one because of the true love and for children.

Wow yog kuv tau ib tug nyab zoo li koj ntshe ncaws tawm xwb lau ib tug nyab cas yuav heev ua li nas

Ur 16 ur husband 18 that's not young.. 😊😊😊

One side story

Thank you for sharing your true love story!

Beautiful story love it❤

Very good sister, your guys made the right decision, may God bless your life and family for happy ending.

That’s what happened when you only know how to love but don’t know how life is and to served parents. Get a life b4 married..good lesson to learn and teach your children..

Nrog neb 2 leeg zoo222 siab kawg nkaus li os sister aw!!!😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️

Thau kv twb raug niam pog cob kv niag txiv ib yam nkaus li ko, but, because kv yog hmoob dawb, lawv yog hmoob lees, lub neej no , txog nrab neej thiaj tawg tas, I know how you feel, but kj txhaum me me, qhov kj muab kj tus txiv lo rau niam pog xwb os

If it's true love you are meant to be, it will lead you back to each other's heart!! For imma hypocrite bc I don't believe it! Lol

To each their own but I would never go back to a man who didn’t chose me to begin with. He only chose you because his mama died.

Sister kuv los zoo li koj tias os. Kuv thiab kuv tus qub txiv wb tseem niag si ntsib. My ex husband and I still secretly meet with one another. His mother and his sisters hates me so much too when I done nothing to them at all.

Story of my life. After 8 years, my fil passed away. My husband came back and married me again

Wow!!!! This true love!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Looks like you both needed alot of time to mature and grow up.

Yog koj tus txiv hlub koj tiag nws yeej tsis xaiv nws niam, ib leej niam yog leej niam yus twb tsis nrog nws niam ua neej na, cas nws ho xaiv nws niam tsis xaiv koj, qhov no qhia tau hais tias nws tsis hlub koj tiag.

What a horrible mother-in-law. Your husband much suffered too much. He can't choose you but can't let you go.

koj tsi muaj txiv yuav los ua caag ib nrauj taag 10 lub xyoo es koj tseem yuav hab

Happy ending !

Well! It’s was your fault too! Don’t blame your mother in-Law for some of your errors. When you’re with your parents you may never learned or perhaps disobey your parents teaching about how to cooked simple foods, cleaned and takes responsibility when you were young, when you married it’s was a totally different situation because you know the simple cooking doesn’t goes well and your in-law gives you the lectures than you are not able to cooperate with her. Hope that now you have sons of your own, you will learned the lesson how, when you will not choose your future daughter in-Law’s or not complaining about her disobedience your orders or instructions! Normally the last ntxhais Ntxawm always got aways with most everything for not taking responsibility because my baby sister has done that too!.

He doesn’t love you if he wants to wait for his mom to die first before he marries you.

Lady, you disobeyed your parents, you disrespected your own mother's advice that you were too young to be married. You decided to marry your kid husband because koj ntshaw ntshaw nws. Then just worry about your husband, don't worry about your mother in law, don't ask for your mother's advice, don't eat and live with his mothers foods and house, just be with your husband whether you have food to eat, school to attend, place to sleep or words from his mother's mouth. Why are you complaining when you made your own decisions and disobeyed, dishonored and disrespected your own parents? Why complaining that your husband tureen against you? You were smarter than everyone, do stop complaining. Decisions have consequences and take those consequences without a single complaint. You left your parents to get married, don't come back to your parents when your marriage went bad.

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I thought that was a good strategy. The wife didnt have to go back and endure that aweful old lady and wipe her ass before she died. Bravo man! At least, they dated for 10 years. But, he was a spineless man. No one will forget that.

Only victims in this story are the 2 boys, they lost 10 years of being brothers. SMH

Ruam dhau lawm os.ib niag txiv ruam li ntaw es koj tseem tos dab tsi os.koj puas paub tias koj yog nws naj bawb 2 xwb os.luag tias tsis muaj mov noj ces ,lam noj mov pob kws.koj ces thaum nws tsis muaj chaw cob cuab es mas rov los khaws koj xwb.ruam dhau lawm os

No one's fault but both of your faults. He can't be man enough and you have your own faults too for yelling at your MIL and not telling your husband about taking birth control.

Koj yeej tsis yog ib tug nyab zoo thiab yog ib tug neeg zoo

Cuz u 2 married 2 young. 16age, u have no good job, good pays, know how to cook, patient. U don't know what marriage, & life is.

Your older brother wasn’t wrong. Sounds like you never listened to anyone and you don’t think before you speak, which is why you didn’t get along with anyone. You both were very immature and clueless. Hopefully you teach your kids to not get married at a young age.

Vuag koj tej niam pog ko mas keej keej cem nyab kawg kiag. Ntuj aw nyab los heev txaus nkaus. Nyab aw uv kom yeej ces yeej zoo xwb xwb los mas.

You guys wasted 10 yrs. In those 10 years, you both could have continued school and advance yourselves into good careers and be financially stable before you both got married. I guess it is what it is. The mother in law is bad herself (a traditional mother in law who gossips and is impatient knowingly that her daughter in law is only 16) but your wife is a bad herself, too. If she loves you, she would have taken initiative to learn duties and take on her role as a nyab.

🤨😏. I rather not make a comment about this story cuz it ain’t gonna be to nice. Whatever floats your boat.

koj kuj phem kawg li thb

Your is a coward. Yaim niam pog 2 ceg xb 2nisg txiv neej.😅

Not a man at all