I believe its not ALL about koj tus txiv zoo nraug and is uneducated. Its also because he is a nice guy and have genuine love and respect for u. Moreover, the chemistry u both have together as well. These qualities adds up. Saying ur husband is zoo nraug only is not good enough for people to support ur marriage, and like and respect ur husband. U want them to appreciate him, he has better qualities than just look itself. Hope u learn to explain and compliment ur husband so people see him more worthy.

You are a good woman. Life is not all about making lots of money. As long as your husband loves you, is faithful to you, and is good to you, and you guys have enough money to cover all your expenses, then your marriage is good regardless of what your family thinks. It's your life, they have no right to mess with it. BTW, your family's actions/words towards your husband and you are deplorable and incredibly unchristianlike! They should be ashamed of themselves!

I’ve notice that it’s always the ones who believes in Christ, are the ones who disregard the others. My ex- in laws were like this.

What an astonishing story. Can't believe your family is so biased. I fully support your decision, sister.

I'm so glad you stood up for your husband. You're not loving your husband because he's handsome but because of his heart that made him handsome. If your parents were real Christians, they wouldn't just bring you in and talk to you. Your family and parents are so toxic.

so great you were saved by God and know the true meaning of God's love. Your family needs to continue to go to church so they too can be saved from the evil grip and understand the true meaning of love and the true words of God.

Love wins all!! Doesn’t matter what religion you believe in! Don’t let anyone persuade you to have a fallout in your marriages even family members! What matters is you loving/supporting him and him loving/supporting you.

I’m glad you stand your ground. May god bless you and your marriage and only brings you happiness.

Kuv ntseeg tau tias VajTswv yog tus uas tso koj los hlub koj tus txiv koj niam lawv txw koj paum cas los koj thiaj li tsis khiav. Koj thiaj li yog tus uas tau VajTswv cov koob hmoov hos ntawm koj niam lawv lam muab VajTswv lub npe coj los tua xwb lawv tseem phem tshaj dab ntxwg nyoog lawm.

If only some girls and guys out there set boundaries with their families like you. Lots of marriages would be saved.

One thing for sure, not all but a lot of church goers are haters of Hmong shamanism. I have experienced these haters but I chose to ignore them. I have both Hmong shamanism and church goers relatives.

Glad you stood your ground, educated or not, religious or none-religious, hey love wins.

Koj niam koj txiv thiab koj cov nus muag tsis yog mus ntseeg Vaj Tswv. Lawv tsuas mus tsawj xwb. I am glad you stand on your ground for a true loving husband.

wow those r the fake christians...live ur life, as long as u r happy.

Youre happy so thats all that matters! If hes hot and he treats you nice and thats what you like then thats good.

You have a good heart.

You did the right thing Thank You for sharing

Stay away from those heartless people who called themselves Christians. Only love those who love you. It’s your choice and your life.

Zoo heev nawb mog yug moog yuam cuab xeem hmoob twg ces yuav tau yoog lub neej txhaj moog taug koj ua yog lawm

Vaj tswv yexus Los yeej Yog dab Los ma..cov niag hmoob ruam es😂 cas nej yuav vwm tshaj cov neeg xiam hlwb.

Bad family but keep loving your husband n his family. They love you

That's true love right there. I wish every woman liked that and also my so-called ex-wife.

Yuav ua tau ib tus niam tsev zoo yuav tsum yog coj khov kho li koj no nawv. Kuv quas koj os me ntxhais. Cov neeg ntseeg tiag yuav tsis coalition lawv no. Kuv xav kom koj ua ib tus niam tsev zoo kom kawg.

Your family call themselves Christians but they sure don’t act and talk like Christians. Follow your heart and do what makes you happy. Sounds like your husband is a supportive, loving husband despite him being slow. You’re right, your family doesn’t love you. I’d rather have a husband like yours than a husband who makes money but cheats or beat you up. Don’t be sad that your family disown you. You have your husband and children. It’s your family’s loss that they blocked you out of their lives, not yours.

Zoo rau koj mas yog ua tau li ko na!! Follow your heart!

As long as you are happy

Huab Tais Tswv ntuj yeej muaj lub hom phiaj rau koj los hlub thiab pab tus txom nyem. Koj ua tau yog lawm mog. Koj tus qauv zoo yuav ua rau koj tsev neeg paub Tswv ntuj txoj kev hlub. Tej zaum Tom ntej no lawv twb tseem yuav los ua neeg ntseeg vim koj coj zoo.

Your parents doesn’t know God well yet. God hates divorce. If your parents know God, they will never encourage to leave your husband. Pray for your parents as well as your husband. You are the light to shine for both sides.

I've experienced this as well

Wouhaou, twb yog neeg ntseeg vaj tswv es tseem txw ntxhais nrauj txiv os ? Tsis yog lawm vaj tswv txoj cai lawm os. Lis no mas vaj tswv tseem rho xoj tua nej tuag kiag xwb os !

Remind your parents and family about Ephesians 5:21 - 33. If they're true Christians, they should know about this in the Bible. Sounds like they are fault Christians because they truly don't know the Bible.

I have a similar story.

You do you, boo. Your parents will come around sooner or later.😊

Tau phem niam phem txiv ces yog koj niam koj txiv tsis txhob muab vaj tswv lub npe coj los hais tus tswv tsis siab phem li lawv

Txhob quav ntdej lawv lawm os.av tsij hlub loj tus txiv thiab me nyuam xwb

Thov qhia tus niam tsev no nawb koj niam lawv tsis hlub koj xwb koj muaj caij xaiv tus neeg koj hlub koj nyiam kawg kev hlub yeej yog li koj thov Kom koj tsev neeg sib sib hlub xwb mog

Cas cov neeg mus ntseeg Vaj tswv es pheej qhua tias lawv yog cov zoo xwb ua li lawv puas nco qab tias ua ntej lawv mus ntseeg Vaj Tswv lawv twb coj kev caij qub thiab nes ...Ua neeg nyob yus yuav mus ntseeg abtsi los nyob ntawm yus xwb es txhob pheej mus khav tias yus ces thiaj li yog tus zoo

Cov niam pog nkag siab li koj tus no mas zoo kawg kuv mas kuv tus txiv tsis puv puas los kuv tus niam pog tseem twb tsis hlub kuv thiab kuv tu siab tshaj rau kuv lub neej.vim kuv yog 1 tug ntxhais ntsuag kuv tus txiv mas yeej pab tsis tau kuv nyob zoo li 1 tug mi nyuam yaus xwb.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8a (ESV) Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth - Your family there are NOT Christian because Christ followers don’t act or do things like that. I am sad that your family acted like this toward you and your husband. God is love and God does not change.

Well !! The God is created a partner one smart than other , not both are smart , only couple , not all , you are doing the right way . Hmong old parent have a bad mind , about culture i am better choose hmong tradition than going church , going church we have to go every Sunday and pay 1% of 10% that we earn income , hmong tradition we only make our culture once a year we buy 3 chicken 2 hu plig 1 teev xwm kab that is !!! Cost $30 .

Koj ua tau zoo vim nws hlub koj thiab nws niam nws txiv lis hlub koj ne. Yog lawv tsis hlub koj li koj xav mas koj yeej ua tsis tau li os.

Its probably because he isn't of the same religion. I have noticed that some church people can be very bias against those of a different religion. Especially in the hmong community.😅

Koj tsevneeg Tsis yog tus ntseeg Vajtswv os lawv Yog tus lawb dab xwb😢

I'm surprised your parents and siblings treat you and your Husband soo poorly just because he's a little slow. How smart are they to even judge you guys that way and tell you to divorce your Husband. If they really knew Jesus and God, they should know only God can judge and no one has no right to judge others because you don't know what your future holds. Good on you for choosing and loving your Husband and family. I hope your family finally figures it out because it sounds like their heads are screwed on backwards.

😂 muaj ib cov tibneeg yeej nyiam kom lwm tus khoom nws. Cov submitted person muaj ntaus hom ( kev hlub, kev hais lus, ua haujlwm...) koj tsis ruam koj yog cov tibneeg nyiam li no

ruam thiaj ua qhev rau neeg zoo nkauj/zoo nraug....zoo nraug zoo nkauj siab phem noj tsis tsau

This family doesn't learn anything from God!!!

Please tell your family to go back and read the bible and not the church, geez! Pray for the ones that don't love and appreciate you bc you are worth it.

Tsuav koj txaus siab ua koj tus txiv zoo nraug qhev ces kav tsij ua kom kawg. Ntshe tiam tas los koj tsuav nws nuj nqis pob?

Yog lawm yog lawm kuv li nyob xwb tsi x zoo rau kuv tus kheej kuv nyiam ua dej num ncig lees hauv vaj hauv tsev zoo rau peb cov laus

Wow its all about religion. Your parents are so controlling, sounds toxic. If this is all it takes to disown you, its them not you. You are so strong to stand up to your whole family, for a husband who loves you. You go ahead and reteach your parents and siblings what God’s love truly is. Its not “ua qhev”, but its what you do for the one you love and its mutual.

O yo yog hom niam tais yawm Txiv Ab tsi na cas tsi txhawb es tseem qhia kom Liam

Ua li Cas ho muaj ib Co niam tais yawm txiv zoo li no na ha ha ha hi hi hi Cov. Niam tais yawm txiv no Mas ruam tiag22 lios Yom

Ntuj aw teb aw ua cas kuv muaj ib tus ntshais zoo li tus niam tsev t l.hiab tab kuv tus ntsshais tub muaj 37 xyoo

Your fanily is using the excuse that he doesnt work, but it sounds more like they want you to leave him because of his religion.

"My side of story ", lady we want to hear the other side of story too, not just your self serving one sided story. If you really believe in God, tell God, not KZfaq. Because you trust KZfaq, you will go to KZfaq, not God's heaven.

Wow..no love 😂😂😂😂

Opposite attracts. He’s attractive but slow. You are unattractive but educated. You both complete each other because you make up for each other’s flaws.

Ca koj tsev neeg yuav phem luaj na cuag li koj yuav koj tu txiv ce koj yuav rau lawv tib si

Whoever your parents' pastor is, he's not teaching the teachings of Jesus correctly in certain things. I think they are misled in certain teachings

Koj yog tus niam tsev zoo thiab koj ntseg koj txoj kev taught yam kho kho, koj coj yog lawn.

Cov ntse ntse zoo zoo nraug ces siab lim hiam.

Don’t tell to your husband that “koj txaus siab ua qhev rau nws” he’s going to used against you

Dumb title..good for you

Dayam. What kind of cult is ur family in??

2:47 I'm going to give you some very good advice. Notice that I just started listening. What you said is already wrong. Sometimes, there isn't two sides to a story. There are no two sides when the love is only one-sidedd. Loving the way you do is not normal. So let me ask you, what happens when everything you can give is no longer enough. How you are loving is very dangerous. What you have is not a good, healthy relationship. It's called infatuation and lust. Both are very risky ideas.

Lom zem heev

Cov niag ntseeg ntawv yuav raug txim nyav. Cov neeg ntawv yog ntseeg Ntxwg Nyoog xwb.

Vaj Tswv txoj lus yeej qhia kom ntxub cov tsis ntseeg

Koj yug los ntawm tsev neeg ruam tabsi koj yog tus ntse

Koj txiv lawv ntseeg ntuj xwb tsis yog ntseeg vajtswv os.

Nws tsis yog ruam pob tsuas yog tsis muaj education xwb pos.

Txawm zoo thiab phem rau yav tom ntej rau lub neej los cia nyias tus kheej mam txiav txim siab rau nyias lub neej thiaj tsis muaj kev kiam rau nyias. Koj tus txij nkawm thiaj yog koj lub neej los yog nws thiaj yog koj tus yeej cuab loj tshaj plaws yog neb tsis txawj sib hlub lawm.