Mashallah that you are so young and searching for this! Rabana yikrimak

Ameera Hammouda 🥰🥰

May Allah (swt) bless you for your good nature and thrive you have

Regarding modesty and Haya, I have really benefited from this book: "A return to modesty by wendy shalit". I recommend it.

Ashiqul Islam barakallahu fi umrak

Ameen.

I don't think that encouraging a child to become confident and less shy is equal to removal of hayaa.

There is a difference between lack of confidence and haya as there is a difference between confidence and shamelessness.

there is nothing so shameless in asking ur teacher a question, she is there to help, I think u have mistaken confidence for shamelessness

Lol, people don't want you to fight for yourself because they want to abuse you. Simple. However fight for yourself doesn't mean being unfair with people, it simply means you do your best so that people respect those right God almighty gave you, and speaking your opinion is one of those rights, there so many story about that. Don't let people to walk on your feet simply because you're a woman, don't you know how the women of the time of the Prophet (pbuh) where behaving? They were modest, but they wouldn't hesitate to fight for their rights, for justice, for people, this is Islam.

Islam is here so you can emancipate, and emancipation is not conform with the western value (like for a woman going almost naked in the street, shouting to get attention...), no, it's about you living a full life, like being respected as an individual, speaking to say what you have to in a respectful and a dignified way, the right to choose what you want for yourself as long as you're on the right path of Islam, saying no or asking question when things doesn't seem right (bc God gave you a brain, and it's not to use other's). Study Islam it's the best way not to get manipulated. And last thing if you fight your right do it intelligently, sincerely, with respect, and ask Allah to guide, and I'm saying that to you and me.

Great name for a baby girl Masha Allah

ma shaa alaah may Allah make her among righteous

Ask Allah if he is good for me facilitate for me ..pray 2 rakah and then after tasbeeh and darud say dua of istikhara also read it's meaning ,it's beautiful and complete dua.....you are asking Allah inshallah He will guide your Heart in the right direction.

Make Istikharah sister. Insha’Allah the Lord will answer your prayers.

Tell them you’re not ready and they will get it

Assalaamu'alaikum, sister Sophia. You may ask a person whom you know and really trust to be the middle person or a mediator for you and the brother you are interested to marry. The middle person can help to pass the message properly. May Allah subhana wa ta'ala make it easy for you to marry a good man, ameen..

@@kongshannice4488 jazaak Allah khair but I dnt knw anyone in between who can convey my msg so pls pray fr me tht Allah swt put in his heart to marry me 😢😞.

Brother you should listen to Professor Jonathan AC Brown leacture about slavery and Islam

Rape is a form of harm and abuse. You are forbidden from abusing your wife or slave There's no word to accurately describe the Islamic slave, the mental picture and connotations of the word slave is not the same as what we generally know in English.

Asalam-o-alaikum, Here is the verse from Surah Nur that forbids forcing your slave into sex without their consent. " But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allah enriches them from His bounty. And those who seek a contract [for eventual emancipation] from among whom your right hands possess - then make a contract with them if you know there is within them goodness and give them from the wealth of Allah which He has given you. And do not compel your slave girls to prostitution, if they desire chastity, to seek [thereby] the temporary interests of worldly life. And if someone should compel them, then indeed, Allah is [to them], after their compulsion, Forgiving and Merciful." - Quran, Surah Nur, Verse 33 Here are also some useful links about these matters: - islamqa.info/en/answers/13737/what-is-the-ruling-on-intimacy-with-slave-women

If you hv haya when alone you'll naturally be bashful and careful with the opposite gender no?

@@Life-bt9yo akhi you are forced to gender mix these days

@@zubayergillarkyckling7832 Even if you're in a situation where you have to interract.. brother what i mean is if you have haya when alone as per the hadith because you're shy that Allah sees you crossing a line even when alone so u remain dignified then what's to say of a situation where people can see you and you're caught up interracting with the opposite gender. One should Control all that IS in one's control as best we can. Things that are not in our control we leave them to our Rabb.

@@zubayergillarkyckling7832 Of course more in depth discussion on the topic would be beneficial I agree.

@@Life-bt9yo True but another issue I hoped he touched upon was considering how important haya is in Islam, to what exent should my Geerah be when my wife is forced to interact with males or even casually since its so normalised. Can one be a good muslimah but in the same time mix and what should our attitiued be towards such? Problems like this

But it is, the quran clearly talks about khimar which means head covering and says to extend it over the chest area.

The aura is obligatory, so full hijab is necessary.

The Qur'an clearly states you have to wear/have hijab Niqab is a choice

Complete haya = 1. Modesty in speech 2. Modesty in behaviour 3. Modesty in clothing (i.e. hijab) 4. Modesty in our worship

@@danoneall4013 you don't have to wear hijab wearing the headscarf is open declaration of your Islam in public its not fard to announce your Islam to the world so hijab modest clothing is fard but not clothing that gives your religion away