thank you for this. Heart to remind me if these 💗🎀

@@happyheart8888 You are very welcome, I wish you the best in your heartfelt journey!

Totally agree with a lot of these as long as they're genuine and not just being done superficially to bag a guy. Just don't play games and be manipulative. Some of these pointers could encourage someone to cross that line. Become your best self and you'll attract someone awesome. Most guys won't say anything at the time, but we can see way past the bs. Don't try too hard. Nothing really fools us.

As a guy I will say good points, but don´t overthink this, be yourself. Also British women need to switch out their wardrobe, often it is just too slutty. It is better too look refined and feminine. Also, be careful sending out the "princes vibe", he may interpret that as you being high maintenance or difficult. Bossy feminists are a no go. Confidence in women is not really that important for a man, as long as you are able to send him a sign you are interested. Prince charming is not going to show up at your door, so go to places where you think those guys hang out, shooting ranges, pub, diners, supermarkets, specialized shops that sell things like fishing gear or tools etc. The good news is he does not care about your employment or education, so don´t let that stop you. And there is never any good reason you should be sitting on a toilet in his presence!

Be your best self...have your own interests. How much pretending can you do. Be you. But your best you.

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Very profound

I am a man and I agree 💯. I teach my clients both men and women this.

Amen girl

Men are wonderful. ❤️🙌🏼

I’m so happy you found found 😅the the 😊way too 😊 7:52 am in my office is not

100%!!

They are mainly targetting rich and extremely attractive guys so it doesn't matter what the general male population thinks. If a woman wants real love she shouldn't pretend being playful or lighten the load when she herself has a lot going on. Those advices are for women who want to use the man for benefits not for those that are looking for real love. If a man really loves the core of you he wouldn't care how much hobbies you have or if you are too anxiously attached, he will love you. Unfortunately most men love with their eyes so it doesn't really matter as long as you are unbelievably hot, they will love you even with the worst character. The author is suggesting an unending game of pretend so you can keep your partner on the edge so he knows he can always lose you if he shows disrespect and that for me it too exhasting

It goes both ways.. an highly independent man that is too busy and emotionally unavailable is also a turn off for a non gold-digger woman. I’m looking for a companion not bread crumbs of a man and affection!

@@penka2954I disagree. A man of character isn’t going to deal with trash treatment just because she’s hot. There are millions of hot women..

In my opinion, saying this is designed for users is a cynical take. Being your best self means you are growing as a person. That includes learning about your attachment styles and, if they’re not as healthy, working on them so you can have healthier relationships. It means that you take the time to develop all parts of who you are, including the hobbies that fulfill you. It is recognizing that your life shouldn’t be centered around another person, as a co-dependent relationship would be; nor being completely independent, which isn’t healthy, either; but having a healthy sense of interdependence with your partner. Both having your own hobbies, passions, and things that fulfill you so that you bring more passion and fulfillment to the relationship. All these concepts are supported by psych and relationship experts. There are many women who become whatever they think a man wants them to be, and many marriages see the desire wane in a couple years. This advice is encouraging women to be more of themselves instead, so that they can have a more fulfilling and healthy relationship while keeping the attraction alive long term.

She addresses if a woman is too attached to attached too easily too. She also gives different situations and examples and states “if that’s what you’re looking for” to keep an open discussion. Cues and reminders, besides the general‘don’t nag’ but also why, and how to avoid it when you really might feel alone and ignored in the housework etc.

How would one go about finding out this?

@@sabrinalittle7914depends on the guy and his specific desires/aspirations. A pretty easy method of deciphering how he wants to be perceived is by considering what fictional characters he idolises, eg. a man who loves Batman/Superman most likely fantasises of being perceived by people as a hero. Make him feel like a hero and you’re on the right track!

@@sabrinalittle7914 if you spend time with him you will notice the things that are important to him. Men loved to be praised for the things that they put their energy into. Use your words of encouragement and acknowledge the ways that he’s amazing!

@@sabrinalittle7914 by making yourself interesting and easy to talk with and being willing to listen. Then he will want to share with you his hopes and dreams and what he is interested in. But when he does this- take advantage of the opportunity and show you want to be part of it in an authentic way (of course if you're not interested don't pretend to be but when something is interesting let him know you want to hear more and he is going to want to know what you think too).

Nothing is enough for some narcissistic arrogant toxic males

I'm really glad you're finding this info young. A lot of us are learning these things later in life. Best of luck in your relationship! 💝

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They are mainly targetting rich and extremely attractive guys so it doesn't matter what the general male population thinks. If a woman wants real love she shouldn't pretend being playful or lighten the load when she herself has a lot going on. This advices are for women who want to use the man for benefits, not for those who are looking for real love. If a man really loves the core of you he wouldn't care how many hobbies you have or if you are too anxiously attached, he will love you. Unfortunately, most men love with their eyes so it doesn't really matter as long as you are unbelievably hot, they will love you even with the worst character. The author is suggesting an unending game of pretend so you can keep your partner on the edge so he knows he can always lose you if he shows disrespect and that for me is too exhausting. Отговор

I love this comment. I know exactly what you mean

Hi! 👋 just had an idea for you. Are you able to have an intimate space with a pole, where you can perform for your significant other? I feel like that would really be an awesome way to keep things spicy 😉 maybe some role playing as well. But there's much more needed to maintain a happy, playful, long term relationship. I am 24 and have been w my hubby since 13, have a toddler. Doing small sweet gestures on the regular, still trying to impress/show appreciation for eachother, trying new experiences together, continue persuing your hobbies- are all key I think to keeping that passion. Continue to give praise and communicate. My husband is still obsessed with me 100%. He tells me all the time and shows it. Idk if any of that was helpful, maybe you already knew those things. But that is what I thought I would share after reading your comment. :) wish you the best!