I hope that you are right. Dr Phil mentioned "annulment" and you can bet your bottom dollar that is what he will go for. Her sister needs to help her get a damned good lawyer. Sad to say that if she was handed a paper that said in BIG BOLD letters "Final Decree of Divorce" that this was not real bright in signing it.

Word!

I hope she gets custody of both kids. Having a narcissistic parent is no way to grow up.

Exactly❤😊

I was thinking the same thing! But, all she needed was to fight the custody agreement. Men like him have a way of making you feel like you’re in danger if you dare go up against him! I am sadly too familiar with his kind!

He DOES have character, BAD character!!

He doesn't respect himself so can't respect for anyone.

Because he has convinced her that no one else wants her and he couldn’t be more wrong. Poor lady.

She kind of has a hang dog look on her face. I can see why he would think they're perfect for each other. But she could do much better with a little more confidence in herself.

He's a complete nutter, Controlling, abusive relationship. She needs to get out , and get a new life. He's vile 🤢🤮🥹

@@lilys7431 I would. I find her extremely good looking. She might not know she's good looking though.

Right?? Like if you looked up “most punchable face”, it’s his.

I agree with you, however; my mother in law thought it was relevant. My husband didn't feel that way.

@@RivyGenX I agree but Paul does think it’s relevant 😢

She's trailer trash? He has zero class.

Oh he's all class, mostly lower, but all class.

Not just passive; he is attacking her son.

Run to a good attorney! Borrow the $$$ if you have to! I was married to an abuser - at the age of 53 I had to call my father for $$$ (my ex wanted me ‘to stay home, the kids and I need you!🙄) as I had no income. I was humiliated to have to call my father. He came through big time.❤️. My attorney’s fee, at that time was $400/hr. There was a pre/nuptial (written by my ex) in play. I walked with 1/2 the proceeds of the sale of the home-enough to get my footing-and shared custody of the children except for 1 who refused to spend 50% of her time with him. It took about 2 years of counseling, an extremely Competent Attorney who was a tiny little woman to never cower to this 6’2” narcissist! Haven’t dated since I drove away from that ‘dream home’-more like a house of horrors!

AGREED 100%!!! Dr Phil grew up DIRT POOR, and he's not ashamed to admit it. I'm surprised he didn't bring it up

Well said my friend

He’s worse than a narcissist. He is clinically a psychopath, antisocial personality disorder, and they are always narcissistic. He has ZERO empathy. He is cruel and abusive. He has a shallow charm. He lacks remorse. He has no regard for right or wrong. He lies and blame shifts. He takes no accountability for his actions. He is violent and threatening. Symptoms Symptoms of antisocial personality disorder include repeatedly: Ignoring right and wrong. Telling lies to take advantage of others. Not being sensitive to or respectful of others. Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or pleasure. Having a sense of superiority and being extremely opinionated. Having problems with the law, including criminal behavior. Being hostile, aggressive, violent or threatening to others. Feeling no guilt about harming others. Doing dangerous things with no regard for the safety of self or others. Being irresponsible and failing to fulfill work or financial responsibilities

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Ohhhh my gosh 😂😂 that's hysterical!

Bahaha

If me hubby put sticky notes… those notes would become his bed buddies in the spare room

Good one 🤣

I love that, l am going to use it.

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YES, LOL!

Or maybe he is a product of his genes

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YES

Exactly and when the right man comes along that will treat her right She will be Happier than she ever knew she could be.Hes NOT BETTER THAN HER !!

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She isn't safe with this guy. That's a fact! She needs to run away and take her son, for his safety , if she can't be interested enough about hers

@@jacqueline8559 I agree!

They're both pompous southern men. You will find that in many southern "gentlemen". They can be poor or rich, some are still awful.

Alex Murdaugh murdered his wife Maggie and Paul. He was a wealthy lawyer in South Carolina and went to prison for their murders !

Looks like too

AMEN!!

Exactly!

This wife needs serious help….GET OUT & stay out!

Duh! I can’t believe she did that!!

Sadly the US education system is pretty whack. The fact that the average reading level in the US is 7th-8th grade.... AVERAGE.... tells us everything

Ya she was hot. This is like 15yrs ago but she was

Lol sucks for you, I’d hate to be old and alone

@@sevel7556so you are together with your spouse because you can’t be alone? That says a lot about your relationship.

Do u have 8 or 12 cats?? 😂😂

good for you ! 🌷

Good for you 🎉 alone is great if you're happiest 🎉

Dr Phil mentioned "annulment." You can bet the next phone call that he will make is to his lawyer to get that process rolling. He is going to try and hold on to the daughter. The $100.00 a month for child support was just to give her another slap. I do volunteer work at a charity shop. We had a customer come in on Sundays and she had left her (cashed up) husband and taken the two preschool aged daughters as hubby was very abusive. She was the primary caregiver and her parents had babysat the girls two days a week whilst she went to work at a part time job. Sadly, in the process of getting the divorce she had borrowed money from her parents (and they cannot help her anymore financially) and had taken out a special loan for women who are trying to get divorced (this is in Australia) and she had reached the maximum loan amount before the final proceedings. She told us that she was thinking that she might have to represent herself in the final proceedings. Ex hubby wanted full custody of the girls and that they would go into full time day care. When he would be travelling for work HIS parents would be looking after them. He was going after her for child support and he was going to limit access to her. She told my manager and myself that even is they got a fair divorce and she would get half of his assets that it would all go back to paying off the loans to get the divorce. She had been paying 20% interest to this special loan for desperate women. She told us she did not qualify for legal aid as she worked two days a week. She told us that the only thing keeping her sane at the time was working the two days a week. We told her to apply for assistance through the organisation that we work at. One time that we did see her was at Christmas time and she bought her daughter's Christmas presents. Her parents paid for one of her daughter's birthday party. Early on in the piece she bought a framed painting for her daughter's bedroom. It was signed. I told her to do some research and find out how much it was worth. It might help with the $$$. This was a university educated woman who had a total mind F by her husband. We have not seen her since January.

A very good point! I hope that she heard that part.

​@@lillianfoulkes4084l would not count on it!

Fr. Im just sitting here thinking, "You are not smart." He's like a flailing fish out of water and thinks it's working.

They need to be married to a slob.

I mean, that rule does make sense...a dish rag should never be left in the sink. But I'm sure there were plenty of other reasons for why he made the relationship suck.

Finally breaking free from a narcissistic is difficult painful long winded process but feels like you are lighter and can breath again

"She's very teachable." Right there...

@@pamelavarilone2614 ahhhh yes, I repeatedly told my ex that I was not broken, so stop trying to fix me ... 🌷

Not easy as they have a child together. Trust me, a bad man can make your life just as miserable when you are divorced as when you were together - if you have a kid together. Especially if you want to move interstate or your child wants to travel internationally. One of my neighbours tried to get a passport for her daughter for a school trip and he blocked it. (this is in Australia)

​@@margaretsmith8999Yeah I'm in W.A. & went through some terrible stuff trying to co-parent with my daughter's father. My biggest issue with him was stopping him just turning up at my house whenever he felt like it. You would think it would be pretty simple to just get a restraining order in that situation but I was refused one by the magistrate & told to take my case to Family Court. I was never living with this guy in the first place so none of his abusive behaviours were considered domestic violence at that time! This was in the late 1990s So frustrating & that was just the beginning. He didn't stop the bs for at least 15yrs...

Of course they do. It makes them feel like they rescued you. They enjoy having that power over them. This is why they don't like when women make equally as much or more than they do. They lose their power.

Yes! They sure do

Get a good lawyer this time.

Good for you! ❤

He couldnt marry within his "class", otherwise he couldnt be so much better than you. He had to find someone " beneath" him.

I totally agree 💯👍

She is to blame as well and doesn’t deserve pity

He definitely thinks he’s higher class than him 😢 run girl run and don’t ever look back again 😡

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Kids remember love not the house.

nothing wrong with a trailer..sometimes thats what is affordable...and it has nothing to do with trash. Good for you to shelter your family.

@@lindathompson7707 definitely nothing wrong with living in a trailer you know you have shelter and you can take it wherever you want to go that week my husband and I are close to retirement and that’s my dream is to retire with a trailer and paper travel, roasted kids and grandkids move away from the heat and extreme cold 🤷🏼‍♀️

You are right they are absolutely 12 year olds absolutely embarrassing.

If he hurt my baby he’d be out! The End!!

Her responsibility to read the agreement.

No lawyer should ever represent both party's. It's called a conflict of interest.

@@bubbagump1306 I took a Business Law class, and I can tell you if a document is written by a trained lawyer and is written in legalese it almost never means what a normal, intelligent person would think it would mean. Even with training, I have heard that on average it takes a minimum IQ of about 120 to understand the typical legal document. So with all due respect, she is an absolute fool if she believes it is her responsibility to read the agreement. She made a common mistake in the past of believing her husband when he said the lawyer was representing both parties. I'll give her a pass for the past for making that mistake, but she doesn't get a pass if she makes that mistake again. Her responsibility is to HIRE A LAWYER and have the LAWYER read the agreement and explain both what the agreement means and also what legal alternatives she can explore if she doesn't want to sign the agreement.

The husband lied not the "lawyer". There probably was no "lawyer".

@@user-xk3fd9yi4x Oh, I’m convinced there was a lawyer. And you are right that it was the husband who lied. My big question is 1) did the lawyer know or at least have good reason to suspect the husband was going to lie and say the lawyer was representing both people, 2) did the lawyer potentially actually suggest that as a possible strategy, and 3) even if he didn’t know about the husband’s lies, did he have enough indication that he knew or should have known the wife thought he was representing her as well? I don’t know the facts of the case well enough to judge. It’s entirely possible the lawyer was genuinely completely clueless on that part. But while it is a lawyer’s duty to advocate on behalf of their client, another almost equally important duty of every lawyer is to clearly communicate that a person is not their client if there is any possible reasonable expectation on someone’s part that the lawyer is representing them. The fact that she erroneously believed the lawyer was representing her, too, is pretty scary for the lawyer. I wouldn’t pronounce the lawyer immediately guilty, but I would say the burden of proof is now on the lawyer to prove he didn’t know or suspect she believed that and also couldn’t have reasonably known that. Tricking someone into signing a contract that greatly benefits your client is a bit distasteful, but it is common practice. Doing so while the person signing the contract believes they are your client quickly turns into malpractice.

Good point

She's way out of his league, extremely beautiful actually and sweet too.

She is terribly insecure in herself sadly.

You made the right choice

I’m sorry you lost your big love, but you did the right thing.

If he was abusive towards your kid, it was just a matter of time before he would start to do the same to you. A man who is unkind to children has a special kind of evil in him.

Well done mama🎉

I wish I had left the husband who abused my son from a previous marriage. It is the biggest regret of my life. You did the right thing!

I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.

She is smart this girl

I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.

​@@margaretsmith8999It automatically is an annulment because they were only married three weeks, which does not constitute a valid marriage by law.

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Praying for you. God is The healer and He loves you. There's nothing too hard for Him. All will be well🙏🏽🫶🏽

Spammer Steve alert!

I'm praying for you Steven. Been there. Healing takes time, faith, perseverance and wisdom. Don't give up. I was once 94 lbs and I'm 5'6"! Maybe I can help....

Sending up prayers. I am so sorry for your suffering 😢

Omg your so right omgggggggg omgggggg I laughed so hard that I’m in the hospital now 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

So savage, but true, and the truth hurts LMAO. I wish he would act more like Joey too But I guess that’s just too much to ask.

She should get a lawyer and follow their advice!

I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.

Sadly she in so very insecure in herself. She desperately needs counselling and help to realise her hidden strengths.

That doesn't work on narcissists.

I doubt he loses his temper with his boss or others who can impact him so it would seem he chooses to use it to control her.

Trauma bond.

@@rachelcanney7330 Co dependence and she is sadly very insecure in herself and in her worth. Sad. She needs counselling to grow herself or a life coach. Actually if Dr Phil offered her life coaching to help her become independent in all ways I imagine she would then see her “ husband” as very unappealing.

Right I think she also wants a REDO on the DIVORCE Papers!!!

Exactly what I thought

@@sandraowen6783 I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.

@@helenmcdonnell2585 I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.

Amen

Entitled brat would be my surmise . One whom has not grown up. Awful husband material.

No, but if his parents see it they are not going to be real impressed with their son's behaviour. His ex wife, current wife humiliating their son on national television.

I believe she is essentially a really lovely woman who needs help to see her worth and help to discover she can be independent for her and her son. She is sadly lacking self esteem and is very frightened to be alone. She actually believes he is a “ good deal”

He had child custody. I'd think she married him again to get her kids back.