Make People Chase YOU Instead Of Giving ALL Your Energy To Them

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Owen Cook

Owen Cook

Ай бұрын

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Are you tired of always being the one who puts in all the effort in your relationships? Do you feel like you're constantly chasing others for attention and validation? It's time to flip the script! In this video, we reveal powerful strategies to make people chase you instead of you giving away all your energy.

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@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp Ай бұрын
ATLANTA & NASHVILLE see you this weekend for the free event - www.selfhelpfreetour.com - Portland, Seattle, Chicago, NYC, Boston, Philly, D.C. up NEXT! The networking and live energy is amazing, but if you want the main lessons from that event NOW? www.higherpurposeprogram.com - this is a step-by-step course with my best content, also for free to get you going. Super recommended to watch it, designed to get you results FAST -Owen
@bradsmith1295
@bradsmith1295 Ай бұрын
Bro you're way better than Tony Robbins. Keep hammering away and you can dominate the entire industry.
@AndrewZambetti
@AndrewZambetti Ай бұрын
the delimma of a good person, trying to help people too much
@alxcross1850
@alxcross1850 Ай бұрын
fuck most people. they are all egotistical and selfish as fuck.
@jmurillo0317
@jmurillo0317 Ай бұрын
I'm sure you hear this all the time but you said something so profound that it was a paradigm shift for me. Every one knows you should value your time but you clarified how to make others value your time = mind blown. Thank you for all the positive energy you send out. Obviously the universe is compensating you handsomely for your efforts. Please never retire.
@realedperez
@realedperez Ай бұрын
💯%
@monkmodementor
@monkmodementor Ай бұрын
This video is amazing. The solution is true as well: have a f-ing schedule and stick to it. Don't waste your time on randoms, whether girls or guys.
@BaronStVon
@BaronStVon Ай бұрын
It’s crazy how rudimentary of a concept this is, yet we still so easily fall into the temptation of it
@Nicolettidaniel
@Nicolettidaniel Ай бұрын
The new era of Owen is about to be 👑
@bladenovak
@bladenovak Ай бұрын
Right?? I can feel it lol
@robertsoley2989
@robertsoley2989 Ай бұрын
>wut
@user-gs4uf4kq4v
@user-gs4uf4kq4v Ай бұрын
good to see owen talk about social skills again. Socializing and pickup should be dialogue, not standup comedy. I usually start conversations with a walk away body language to show I can walk off any moment( my time is valuable). and then tease them.. as they get interested, I see the change in their body language then I give them a bit more attention. then I ask them simple questions, give them chance to talk. what owen says about entertain and then people walk off is often a result of not having a dialogue or letting the other person speak. learning to not be always available is important. if someone say they gotta go( now focus is their time is valuable). I immediately shift back to me - I gotta go. thats frame control. whoever gets the otherside to focus on them wins the frame. if someone tells me their problem, I immediately tell them my side of the problem. ex: I dont wanna go to your place. me; but I dont go to ladies place
@Denver_____
@Denver_____ Ай бұрын
Doing toastmasters for the voice and thinking on my feet aspect.
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks Ай бұрын
Is it helping? Would you recommend going?
@SS-qk8oc
@SS-qk8oc Ай бұрын
@@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks Just go out. Out. Talk to people. People. Out. Go! Caution: people are weird and will try and convince you that you’re the weird one. Keep being real and they will relax. Watch. Practice. Be the Man. Chill. Also, take a class with Big Owen and do what he tells you….
@Denver_____
@Denver_____ Ай бұрын
@@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks of course it is, its putting evolutionary pressure on yourself. Much like going out and getting rejected. Who do you think would benefit more? A guy going to Toastmasters or going out and getting rejected, or some dude on the internet only learning theory, but maybe goes out once a month?
@gwills9337
@gwills9337 Ай бұрын
Toastmasters is full of loser and bad political opinions. Glad you’re trying to- just go out. You’ll pick up their weird twitches and mannerisms
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks Ай бұрын
@@Denver_____ What happens during a Toastmasters session?
@shahrezqureshi
@shahrezqureshi Ай бұрын
Saw this video recommended and it reminded me of how much you have done for all of us. I am so glad that you are still sharing your knowledge.
@lindenh2014
@lindenh2014 19 күн бұрын
I'm going to apply this to a friendship I have with a Filipina I've never met. She will ask me for help with something, so I send her some pesos. And yet, something else always comes up. It never ends. I give my resources to her, but all I am doing is paying to talk to someone.
@MX-CO
@MX-CO 14 күн бұрын
Very dumb, its probably a guy in india
@josec705
@josec705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this amazing video Owen! You have helped me so much throughout the years, your content is always on point.
@Gregg_Nguyen
@Gregg_Nguyen Ай бұрын
Thanks Owen for the content as always - never found other channels who offer such personally relatable info - I’m sure many others feel the same. And hope you’ll get well soon - I’ve also hurt my leg for half a year now and life has been hard. Best wishes to you from Japan 😇
@anibalmoraga
@anibalmoraga Ай бұрын
Struggling with this right now, im gonna really apply myself to the content here. thank you Owen.
@JackMee-hOFF-Jr.
@JackMee-hOFF-Jr. Ай бұрын
I’m dealing with this now and your video came at a perfect time for me Owen… as you mentioned, it’s so dang crazy you have to do all these things when you just want to help! … and spread good vibes! and they look at you as “creepy” I’ve been doing a ton of social experiments lately and one of them involved over-tipping at restaurants (undeserved) for my takeout menu orders mind you and I never got a single thanks or sign of appreciation. You gotta make people fight for your energy and validation… it’s such a game. I guess life in so many ways is a game and we gotta learn to play it
@KS-wk6uk
@KS-wk6uk Ай бұрын
It seems as though they were playing the game before you realized the lack of appreciation for your kind gesture. They wanted to sit back and let you work hard for their approval. Maybe if you continued tipping larger bills with more frequency, they'd have showed you "some" acknowledgment. Many people are sucked into this pattern of pouring into others a lot of energy expecting they'd be appreciated.
@966royce
@966royce Ай бұрын
Great video exactly what I needed to hear
@hugotavaresgomes9539
@hugotavaresgomes9539 Ай бұрын
14:11 This is so true. I met many people all over the world who had never been to many beautiful tourist places around because it's always there.
@grahamhartmann940
@grahamhartmann940 Ай бұрын
This was a great one 📈
@Stanfromaroundtan
@Stanfromaroundtan Ай бұрын
Love this one!
@user-zq4ls1ml4j
@user-zq4ls1ml4j Ай бұрын
Great, great Video Owen! Thank you. Just finished Blueprint Reloaded for the first time - amazing product. Greetings from Germany.
@Behruz-vu1wj
@Behruz-vu1wj Ай бұрын
you are such a hypnotist!
@highwill76
@highwill76 Ай бұрын
Frame and mindset. Thanks
@slavik4225
@slavik4225 Ай бұрын
Thank you, very insightful
@oualidben5660
@oualidben5660 Ай бұрын
Don't be needy and be detached and they will come to you
@frankrincon5557
@frankrincon5557 18 күн бұрын
Not always
@oualidben5660
@oualidben5660 17 күн бұрын
@@frankrincon5557 , You are right: not always. Is there something that works 100% of the time ? Probably not, the goal is to have an approach witth a higer likelihood to succed. It seems tough to find a better approch than being detached.
@NicholasOrthodoxOfficial
@NicholasOrthodoxOfficial Ай бұрын
Yess, thank you💚
@Rogerkonijntje
@Rogerkonijntje Ай бұрын
good stuff Owen, as always
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks Ай бұрын
New upload boys let’s go!
@pinkalishcouture
@pinkalishcouture 3 күн бұрын
The lesson I'm learning right now. Wish I learned it the easy way lol
@ramonthebomb
@ramonthebomb Ай бұрын
This is gold ❤
@prashiyer2368
@prashiyer2368 Ай бұрын
Love this man. Tylerrrrrrr my dearr Owennnnnnnnn I love you. Get better soon and I know it doesn't even bother you
@buildthedream77
@buildthedream77 Ай бұрын
Filming at rainbow row! Great place in Charleston! Your awesome Owen, thank you for the videos, awesome to see you here in the south!
@lordalphafart8923
@lordalphafart8923 Ай бұрын
Love this
@user-zq4ls1ml4j
@user-zq4ls1ml4j Ай бұрын
Nice watch!
@alejogocaca
@alejogocaca Ай бұрын
amazing ❤
@nf-ib2cr
@nf-ib2cr Ай бұрын
I love the background💯💯💯
@mrbeety
@mrbeety 29 күн бұрын
Just goes back to the principles that can never be ignored. Show value and let them show interest in you before you show interest in them. It's not strictly linear like Mystery used to talk about it, but it sure as heck still never goes away no matter how good one gets at inner game and spirituality.
@victorbarton3039
@victorbarton3039 Ай бұрын
1000/10 video
@BillyNoodles
@BillyNoodles Ай бұрын
Thx Owen! 🤙(feel like we are a step beyond collapse of society rn...)
@marcellemay7721
@marcellemay7721 10 күн бұрын
I personally have an aversion to the "used car salesman" personality type. You know the kind that gives unwarranted compliments or tries too hard to befriend you. Maybe it's me, being from the northeast New York/Boston metro area where everybody is suspect. But when somebody approaches me out of nowhere and starts with that BS I just shut them down or walk away. Call me cynical, but I'm a pretty hard sell.
@user-gs4uf4kq4v
@user-gs4uf4kq4v Ай бұрын
people walk out when entertainment stops is because whoever stops talking has not reached hook point yet where you can see the other persons body language and demeanor changes- moving or leaning toward you
@rezzbuilds8343
@rezzbuilds8343 Ай бұрын
6:02 I hit that sticking point in game a lot of times. Find myself arguing with the girl why she should just go out with me and its weird because shes interested but it's that road block of being too forward and direct
@Zizoumadden
@Zizoumadden Ай бұрын
nice
@tonyednalvo
@tonyednalvo Ай бұрын
back to basics
@CjrussHardcore
@CjrussHardcore Ай бұрын
For someone thats trying to improve their expression how often do you recommend they do exercises? and are expression exercises still apart of your weekly practice?
@casiinotown
@casiinotown 29 күн бұрын
🔥
@leucthuan2810
@leucthuan2810 Ай бұрын
Vietnam Event is probably cheaper and easier to buy Tickets than US Events. I usually buy Events Tickets in Vietnam at 5-8$. US Events must cost 500$-1000$ to attend
@youdontknowme6420
@youdontknowme6420 Ай бұрын
Great video and I’ve benefited a lot from RSD’s content over the last few years. Initially I got hooked by the promise of dating success but through it learned so much about self improvement. Social skills and dating became just one aspect of that. But it does feel weird when we keep getting marketed free events… when they are not free…??? First thing I see when I go to the link is that it asks for credit card info and charges over $25. Seems a bit off… especially when you have preached about being skeptical. Honestly since it’s only $25 I’ll still probs go since the upside is limitless while the downside is fairly low outside of potentially losing a full 1-2 days. But still feels off and misleading when you keep saying free tour when it’s not a free tour. Will ask you in person I guess haha 😜
@specialone6731
@specialone6731 8 күн бұрын
How do create energy within yourself to give?
@oreldorf
@oreldorf Ай бұрын
5:17 groundness verification moment😂
@packno1729
@packno1729 Ай бұрын
yeah, I would be like: horsey!, I am out of here!
@Alex-we9uc
@Alex-we9uc Ай бұрын
Perfect timing im currently stuck herexd
@insiderperson18279
@insiderperson18279 Ай бұрын
Hard qualifiers sounds pretty technical. What does it mean exactly?
@jumbojet8
@jumbojet8 Ай бұрын
When are you coming to Southwest Florida? Beautiful beaches.
@BethRoxyy
@BethRoxyy Ай бұрын
Tyler is milking tf out of that wheelchair. Truly one of a kind.
@nf-ib2cr
@nf-ib2cr Ай бұрын
I cant watch any other self help channel because of you😂 all of them are too generic and too superficial and doesnt related to real life.
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks Ай бұрын
Ruined us and spoilt us content wise.
@nf-ib2cr
@nf-ib2cr Ай бұрын
@@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks exactly. 💯💯
@NoelFiedler
@NoelFiedler Ай бұрын
bro I feel the same, the other ones just seem like clowns in comparison
@nf-ib2cr
@nf-ib2cr Ай бұрын
@@NoelFiedler 😂
@kevinansari8612
@kevinansari8612 28 күн бұрын
My favorite part is Owen looked into his eyes and he could tell the guy was thinking he was getting fucking scammed hahahaha!
@billusher2265
@billusher2265 Ай бұрын
Owen what is your opinion on “The Real Christ” by Bernadette Roberts and “The Infinite Way” by Joel Goldsmith
@nosferadu
@nosferadu Ай бұрын
I can relate to laid-back Owen significantly more than to crazy-high-energy Owen. Maybe this is also a manifestation of the same thing he's talking about in this video.
@cloudcity2012
@cloudcity2012 10 күн бұрын
What was that song in the beginning?
@dmytoe5679
@dmytoe5679 Ай бұрын
I MISSED the videos Owen. The great scenery, the vibe, EVERYTHING. The lessons just stick when there's a pretty background, don't they?
@paulfitness5157
@paulfitness5157 Ай бұрын
Basically you need to neg,qualify ,or use a false time constraint
@martinsvensson6884
@martinsvensson6884 Ай бұрын
@@YeYe-Boy 10 years ago?
@sunilsohn4137
@sunilsohn4137 Ай бұрын
Matthew ch 6 verse 9-13
@victorbarton3039
@victorbarton3039 Ай бұрын
What’s the music at 7:30? Love the trance….
@SteveWiIIDolt
@SteveWiIIDolt Ай бұрын
I couldn't help but notice that the person you are dating you keep calling by they/them pronouns starting at 11:33.
@majidmohaqiq465
@majidmohaqiq465 Ай бұрын
I want be an English teacher where should I start? ❤
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks
@Jacob.Boulus.Speaks Ай бұрын
Start posting YT videos teaching English!
@jonsnow911
@jonsnow911 Ай бұрын
00:50, 5:00, 9:10, 13:20, 15:50, 19:30
@Hobrecht
@Hobrecht Ай бұрын
Bye!
@buildcreatemake4088
@buildcreatemake4088 Ай бұрын
How much I miss the old 2012 era Owen Cook and RSD!! I have changed and so have time. If anyone knows of similar Motivational/life advice guru's like the old RSD material please comment below!! Not the PUA stuff more like "The truth about success" "Rising from Anxiety/Depression" material. The nature background and Owen's ambitious energy were very influential
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp Ай бұрын
@@buildcreatemake4088 check out the Free Tour channel it's been poppin -Owen
@ancientbehemoth6448
@ancientbehemoth6448 Ай бұрын
Broccoli + macarony + cream + chicken breasts in an oven + yellow cheese on top... MMMMmmmm you'll love broccoli
@JMW_JMW_JMW
@JMW_JMW_JMW Ай бұрын
Lol @ Owen vloggin in public in a wheelchair. Dude is unstoppable.
@ebrosow8
@ebrosow8 Ай бұрын
⚡️
@patrickvingaardthrane1050
@patrickvingaardthrane1050 Ай бұрын
Comment for algorithm
@ShimonRachelis
@ShimonRachelis 24 күн бұрын
Why Tyler is in a wheelchair?
@oli7120
@oli7120 Ай бұрын
Owen get out of the road lol
@justcausebedothink
@justcausebedothink Ай бұрын
noticemesenpai
@paulfitness5157
@paulfitness5157 Ай бұрын
Is Tyler in a wheelchair permanently ?
@araoghlian5890
@araoghlian5890 Ай бұрын
Owen, contact me. I will expand your teachings in Canada. We’re high in NPC’s here. Let’s link.
@bennybenny7382
@bennybenny7382 Ай бұрын
Why on earth should a sub 5 in looks have money? Just give the money to a handsome chad for gods sake seen as though you didnt hit the genetic lotter.... BUT BUT BUT social conditioining! confidence! statu.... No owen.
@hugotavaresgomes9539
@hugotavaresgomes9539 Ай бұрын
why are you in a wheel chair?
@CJ2K
@CJ2K Ай бұрын
Skiing accident
@hugotavaresgomes9539
@hugotavaresgomes9539 Ай бұрын
@@CJ2K thanks for answering.
@comunidadedeseducao
@comunidadedeseducao Ай бұрын
Why you sitting a wheel chair?
@user-zq4ls1ml4j
@user-zq4ls1ml4j Ай бұрын
Skiing Accident
@Hermdognation
@Hermdognation Ай бұрын
bro you gotta remember people cant just drop what theyre doing to go and see you.
@princeakeem5694
@princeakeem5694 Ай бұрын
My boy is still pushing out content....in a wheelchair. Owen could be at home crying,moaning about how life is unfair and how being in a wheelchair is a obstacle. Owen is teaching you guys to run your day and not let the day run you. If Owen posts footage of him tearing up the club in a wheelchair...RIP to the haters😂
@travis938
@travis938 Ай бұрын
extremely good value shared. sales and women this help a lot.
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