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I was being ignored by my SP as I was always the one making moves, texting him and he wasn't responding much. I didn't know what was happening until I started watching Shelly's videos. She mentions a lot that our inner reality creates our outer reality. I eventually realized that I was the one constantly expecting him to ignore me because I believed that he thought I was annoying or that he just wasn't interested. Shelly's self-love videos changed my life. I started telling myself that I am worth it and I won't take him treating me the way he is. I changed the story in my head and convinced and believed that I am everything to him. I eventually stopped reaching out to him because if he's not gonna do the same then I don't need him. I stopped feeling lack and focused on myself. It has been three weeks now that he's constantly messaging me and we're going on a date next week

Nobody has the power to ignore me in my reality unless I don’t want them in my life anymore and intend for them to go away. Everyone is me pushed out😝 I am the god in my reality.

I forgive myself for ignoring me and giving my attention to others first.I choose to look within and feel the divine presence, love and peace in me. I detach from him and allow him to reach out and shower me with attention, affection and love and respect only.

1-ignoring is a type of rejection .. and the solution is being present with urself and ask urself why am I giving my energy and love to someone who is rejecting and ignoring me while I’m here the one who’s ignored the one who needs love ? 2- give ur energy , your love , ur care and ur acknowledgement to urself bc u’re the one that needs these things not the person that’s ignoring u 3- stop identifying with the person who is ignored ( especially by urself ) and start affirming and identifying with being acknowledged and loved by everyone and know that the beauty is really in the eye of the beholder and that u’re loved in the way u like to be loved rn 4- ask urself was I really giving my care and attention and energy to someone who were rejecting me ? Who do they think they are ? 😂& have a laugh at urself ( you will never do that again !! ) YOU WON’T EVER ACCEPT LESS THAN U DESERVE !!!

Shelly, you look pretty in yellow...this color suits your personality.

He is thinking about me all the time and coming back to me 💕

"We teach people how to treat us." just caused an A-ha moment and took on a different definition.

He is calling and texting me everyday

Make someone stop ignoring you..!! What do you do to make someone stop ignoring you..? * Essentially we create our reality. * If we are the reality of being ignored we have create this by our own. * You threw your own beliefs expecations or beliefs , you have someone kind of expecation within you to be ignored, left or abandoned. * This comes from usually past , way back from childhood. * We are exposed to behaviour as kids from our parents , any ongoing experience from childhood. * You dont actually dont have to go back and findout to heal the wound . * This experience comes in your reality due to this past experience. How to create a new reality of not being ignored. :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: 1.) To create a new reality you must change your expectation whats gonna happen to you. * Changing your self concept, your beliefs etc. * The main to stop ignorance is changing your inner reality. * Everyone is you pushed out. They act acoording to your alignment of your expecations. * We are living with some sought of expectation in our realitionship that this is gonna happen. ********************************** A.) SELF - LOVE. * self love incredibely potent in treating ignorance. * when you show up to yourself when you want the same way to be treated by others. * You automatically develop the expecation of people showing up to you. * You also raise your self standards that you wil be only treated in a certain way * Self love is huge when it comes to change your entire experience with self and others. ************************************ B.) INNER CHILD WORK. * The best thing to do also is inner child work * if you notice a pattern of ignorance in relationship this is the best practice to do. * this a potent practice to do. * This is a indication that there is a wounded self within you who expects to be ignored and by practing child work you say to your self that your gonna be there for the wounded self.❤ * When you start to feel ignored or triggerd. * Go within yourself hold yourself tight and talking to him/ her. * That your here for them, you are never gonna leave them. * When you do this consistently it is gonna heal you from within. * By doing this you no longer be triggred from outside reality. * You dont expect to be dropped any more since you show up to yourself. * When you change your expectation you will change your reality. #################################### 2.) You must create a new expectation what the person is doing with you in your reality. * Dont jump to this step directly. Do the first step nicely. * Once you develop a deep self love you can move step two * When you feel confident and centered in your self then you can go within and create a new reality of how will the person show up to you. * dont focus completely on them ignoring you what you focus on create more of. * Raise your self more often deeply. * Start to imagine a new scenario with your sp. + they are not ignoring me they are coming towards me. + they are thinking of me all the time. + They wanna reach out to me. + They are starting to come back. + I feel them coming to me. * Feel the truth of these affirmartions. * Feel this new reality and amplify this new reality. * people have to.allign to your expectations. * Do this on a consistent basis . * Change your self concept. *and you will see the evidence in the outer reality❤ Thank You Shelly ❤️

I’ve been doing the exact self love practice you talk about for a while now, and I’m getting more attention than I’ve ever gotten before haha

Self love is my priority right now. When I begin the think of him, I switch my thoughts and my focus to me. It’s about not trying to “get” something from the outside and providing it for yourself.

This SP Journey is like peeling back the layers of an onion, but I’m grateful to uncover the true source of my problems as I’m going along. It’s quite a wake up call to think about the ways we make ourselves smaller and how we accept only partial attention just because that’s what’s we know.

I've watched this a few times and I've never had the realization I just had because I thought --- well I don't recall being ignored when I was younger, however I have been ignoring myself! ignoring my needs what my body needs what my soul needs and just pushing forward towards goals, now that I know I won't zone out I'll stay present with myself, excited to see what happens!

Yes, become focused on your own life + worth and you probably will stop even caring if they are ignoring you (and then ironically, watch them contact you) haha!

Shelly, I acted in my relationship on a auto pilot, my inner child was running the show, I followed. I knew something was “off but I didn’t understand why I was acting that way. I was attracting good looking successful guys but I was suffering with fears, and accepting they will soon find someone else... it is soo understood now!! In fact inner child work , your videos and courses really help me !! I wish I had you before but better late then never. You are amazing!!!

Two things I have to say: 1) inner child work - whenever I feel low/hurt/ abondoned..I go back and soothe myself, which has made me feel lighter from the inside. I am not sure of whether I am /am not triggered by what's going on outside,but I am sure I am not adding to any more wounds on my inner child! That's a done deal 💕 2) changing my inner expectation: since I am learning to keep MYSELF FIRST, I have started to set inner boundaries which don't allow me to waver from me being my first priority. And what I've observed is , one of my recent affirmations is : I am the queen and my sp (SM) treats me like a queen! And I am so glad that it popped up naturally!I don't feel lack anymore. Though we're in regular contact now, I'm sure that he'll soon show up the way I want him to! So basically, if I change my inner expectations I'll automatically expect it from others because EIYPO!❤️

She love me. She's constantly texting me. She's constantly thinking about me.

Work on self, and always remember inner creates outer! 🥰😘

Today I wrote in my gratitude journal that I am thankful for Shelly Bullard entering my life and giving me the light, peace and meaning beyond everything. I can see clearly. Feel fully. Live calmly. And it is forever, not for a period of time. 🥰💗💫

Yesterday I was listening to this random meditation music for positivity on KZfaq. During the meditation there was me and a mirror image of me. N i im telling myself" i love you ","you are enough ","everything is going to be ok" . I cried i cried so hard because im pretty much a loner and i keep myself busy but sometimes it's so much especially since im unemployed, broke and still have bills and rent to pay. When i was working I would check upnon different ppl ask if they're ok... no one has done that 4 me. My sp n i were really close it's been a while I've been trying to manifest him. I know its not entirely to do with what she was saying but it was the highlight of my day. I've never cried during meditation. I was actually hugging me.i hope this helps someone out there.

To everyone reading this, you all will manifest the love of your life.Who will love you for what you are.. Be it your ex or someone else. Type AMEN if you agree 👈👍👍👍👍

I love that you’re open about the fact that you have practiced what you’re teaching and that is has brought your results. You being living proof is very encouraging to me and I’m sure many others. 💓

I have noticed that I attract my "fears".... Gonna work on them..! Thank you

He can’t ignore me🧿

I love the inner child concept - that is very important to know for those of us who have no idea how it works. I used to work as a social worker for street children and I know how hurt they are inside when they are abandoned and have no one to look up to. Thank you and hope to have more from this concept.

I walked away from my ex he ignored me and I expected him to ignore me. Now I do love myself and I embrace my inner child. But I don't know why I always feel like the universe knows who is the one for me. I do love my ex but I love myself so much more that I don't want to force him to love me. I believe that the universe / God will lead me to my sp.

That colour of lipstick and the yellow look amazing! Looking forward to this video of yours, as always 💕🌞

The bad things that we identify with came out of nowhere and we decided they’re our beliefs for good .. so we can easily identify with new beliefs that also came out of nowhere and we can keep affirming them just like we did the old beliefs .. and these new preferred beliefs are urs forever and nobody can change them or take them away from u , they’re always going to be and stay inside of u

Thank you so much Shelly, it's been a month since I've following your channel and learn how to manifest my SP, I learn how to love and focus on myself first then suddenly he texted and asked me out last night even though we didn't talk or see each other for 6 months. I'm so grateful that it finally works!!

This is so profound. I’m feeling the shift. Thank you for teaching this super important empowering concept.

Absolutely love the new thumbnail style, it adds depth; it becomes more relatable.

Yes, inner child work has been the key to my self-improvement. Great video, and you always wear the prettiest dresses! 😄

Such a beautiful message in this video! It includes everything we all need to implement. Fantastic! Thank you 🙏 💕

I really love how u reply to everyone ur so nice , thnk u i just realized ive been ignoring my inner child while wanting attention from sp💕

Thank you shelly! I feel better after trying this and my sp just texted me too

Shelly, thank you for another amazing video! I learn so much for you always🥰btw.. yellow is such a good color on you! You’re glowing!😍

Thank you for all of your videos Shelly, I'm making progress in every aspect of life for just under a year thanks to learning about LOA and feminine energy, feeling excited for each new moment 💃🎀

Hi Shelly. I’m so grateful that I found your channel. Everything you teach is so powerful. I’ve been listening to these topics for a long time & I honestly thought I knew it all. But you put things in such a different perspective for me that it’s mind blowing. You’re incredible. Thank you ✨

Your newest SP course is resonating with me so much that I've been living in the end for days now! ♥️

New subscriber! I really needed this video and I’m so glad I found it. Thank you so much Shelly. It’s late but I can’t stop watching. You’re like my own therapist and I’m showing up all the time.

Inner child work is so powerfull, especially when combined with the self love work, thank you Shelly :) ps. i absolutely love your inerchild meditation too :)

Dear Ms. Bullard, I have watched so many videos, such different aproach to everything and you are the first one to land everything for me. I am sure you have your own purpose to make your videos, but I am that individual who was in profound need for some clear guidance, and I thank you deeply for your generous teachings. I wish you success and I will totally buy your courses as soon as I can. Much love ❤

I am amazing. I love myself deeply and this is what the others feel for me..

That's some pretty powerful information there, Shelly! I remember feeling 'not enough' when i was about 2yrs old...so i'm not sure where that came from! Im 57 now, and hardly worth digging into, put certainly time to show myself some empathy and compassion!

For me, just realizing that I need to love myself was in itself life changing. Like true, deep self love. Everytime I have anxiety I start my affirmations and focus on being and feeling loved, because I know I am. I've even started declaring that I do not have anxiety and anxiety does not have me and it fades everytime. I filled a while piece of loose leaf sheet with affirmations that I recite at least 3 times a day, I completely saturate myself in this truth, these facts. I feel great 💕🌞

Amazing video working on this, this week! Thank you Shelly

Thank you for this video. I would love your ebook and I’m definitely gonna take that class to heal abandonment

Wonderful video! I have been working on this topic for a while as this was a recurring pattern with my ex, who is avoidant (looking forward to tomorrow’s video!). I really can see a difference in how my ex shows up more and communicates more when I am in a deeper center and expecting him to.

I love your videos, Shelly. You have amazing energy! ❤️

I'm so glad I found your Channel. You explained everything so well. A while back I listen to Louise Hays, she explained how to look into your eyes in the mirror and tell yourself, I love you. At first it was strange. But I started really feeling the love. I like how you put your hand on your heart and hold yourself. You don't feel I'm alone so much you're putting that love back into yourself. It sounds kind of strange. But I feel it actually does help. Thank-you for all you do!🤗🌻🥀💖

This was so powerful shelly ♥️ i love it

Loved this Shelly 💜

I'm going to watch your inner child Playlist. this is something I keep coming back to. I want to stop doing this. thank you for this. you're awesome Shelly!!

I just loved your painting behind you ...also your stuff too

Thanks for all you do Shelly!! By the way my wife said your makeup is on point!!!

Thank you, you make it sound so easy

I'm getting to love the self-love and inner child talk ☺. I have just realized/learnt that everyone acts or behaves in alignment with the energy you give off. When someone it "seems" someone is ignoring or rejecting you it's actually you repelling them with your energy and expectation of getting ignored, rejected, abandoned,lack of love etc. EIYPO is really true. I'm really learning alot from you Shelly. Thank you 💗💜💗

A combined meditation inner child self love + affirmations of getting the love and attention from sp would be very powerful. Thx for all your videos

i love every single video you post!!!! so much valuable information! you've helped me so much!

My SP contacted me yesterday to tell me he has a new girlfriend, which I found very interesting. I'm not worried at all. Me six months ago would've been running around and screaming like Spongebob.

Makes perfect sense. Love it, keep them coming.

I am so glad I have found your channel. It couldn't be more appropriate to me right now.

As ever this advice is invaluable and Shelly you are simply AMAZING!!Everything you say and express is so true and resonates with every corner of my soul.Recently I've changed the reality in my head and rather than a running commentary of "why hadnt he messaged me,doesnt he care?Why does he treat me like this blah blah blah" I've now gone to "He loves messaging me,he is thinking about me inbetween the messages,his messages are filled with what I want to read,he's always showing up,he cares and he is present". It's been working beautifully and I am getting a steady stream of very present-messages that Express what I want to read. My inner reality is manifesting as my outer reality....the future is exciting and what lies ahead is my inner visualisation. Thank you Shelly....and cannot wait for more of your words of wisdom!! 🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻

I forgive myself, that i ignored my feelings and wishes and make me my number 1. I forgive myself, that i hoped, that someone give me all love that i'm seeking for. I give my self love, bliss and pleasure. Now i'm chancing my self concept. Thank you Shelly❤️

I absolutely love your approach of manifesting a SP. Thanks to you now I know even more about what I have to change to finally be with my SP. Thank you always Shelly ! ♥️

Never skip step one, love ya Shelly 💚✨

Excellent. It really does come down to self love. Also, you are looking radiant!

Unbelievable...and i was watching all this years relationship videos of how to act..you opened my eyes.. Amazing! Thank you 🙏💫

Inner child work, raising one's standard, self love ....techniques really help to heal the wound....this 1st step is essentially important. Yes, it is true. We have to be confident with 1st step. And then....go to the 2nd step. Yes , I too have changed the concept about my sp. I want my sp to be available, more concern about me, to love me more...

Yep! I started focusing on me way more, intending more and the changes are amazing 👏 💖

I never comment but this was too much not too. As I was watching this I realized I've identified those inner child issues before but I was looking for an outside source (i.e. my specific person) to heal those past traumas instead of loving myself. As I was watching the video and making the connection I replayed a few parts especially her affirmations until I really felt good about them. The part that forced me to comment was that no sooner did I do this I got a text from my S.P.! Today is 4/9 and we haven't spoken since 3/27! I realized this was the first time during that separation that I was focused only on loving myself. This works!!! Shelley you are a true blessing for sharing this with the world!! From the bottom of my heart I thank you and Im so unbelievably grateful! Life changing!!

you're such an angel without wings! beautiful soul!💜💜💜 btw, i want e book yay!

Maam you are amazing. Your content inspires us to become a better version of ourselves

God bless you Shelly. I am so moved by your work. This is incredibly profound xxx thank you

Shelly Ballard am impressed you said exactly what I wanted to hear.

Hi Luv! Sunshine and smiles! 🙋‍♀️ Gosh. You remind me so much of my younger self... could be my sister...💕

Shelly, while I do want to attract someone, your video has been really helpful. I have to focus on myself. I have to heal myself first.

Very insightful. Things that you know until you practice them. Thank you. 🥰

You explain it so well. Thank you Shelly ❤️

Thanks for creating this video. I just love it!

Love the picture in the background. I am loved by myself!

I did the inner child work through one of your courses purchased through MBG a few years ago. I remember sitting at my table crying huge tears of years of release!! It was life changing.

Pleasant listening to you. Notes taken ❤️

Amazing Content! Thanks for Sharing!

Wow!! Nice video and good reminder that we are in control .. thanks 😊

Thank you. I'm triggered and whilst feeling immensely disappointed in myself after a few weeks of major improvements (and bought your course), this reminded me that being able to self soothe is part of the work I need to do (self concept can include not wanting to exist when 3D hurts bad. Eugh). I totally dodge inner child work. I can't bear the idea and yet I probably really need to do it and I suck at the self talk currently...which says a lot. Anyway, sorry tedious long msg but thank you for showing it's part of the process. Part of my seeing them with love is to flip all the blame on myself which is so heavy to bear. If you haven't done so, I'd appreciate a video on hormones. My period is due tomorrow and I am genuinely feeling total chaos. A few days ago, until a friend totally undermined my belief system, I was in a good place!

Your videos are getting better and better!

This video is Great! The Child Love technique to heal, I Absolutely Love!!

Absolutely Amazing.I'm going to care and heal my inner me(little girl)No time to focus on him right now,it's all about me.

You are Amazing!!! Thank you so much for the love and guidance you put into your videos... You are a breath of fresh air !!!

Its been a while since I did inner child work, and I can totally see why some of my affirmations regarding SP are not showing in my 3D: its because Im affirming from a place of lack! bad manifesting vibes. Self love is always the first step

Words cannot describe how grateful i am to have found your channel. You are amazing and inspiring. Thank you and godbless !!!

Thank you so much Shelly I really love you and your videos❤

You're styled beautifully with the yellow and red. You look great.

Shelly, I'm grateful for your knowledge and how you embody all of it in a such a perspective. So much love to you 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

I'm glad I found this channel💙

Wow this was awesome information and very eye opening!

you’re such a healer thanks!

Good video. I look forward to the day I can e-mail you a success story in regards to my SP.