I love my unborn child so much that I refuse to bring them into this existence.

If humanity is counting on me for its continued existence…🤷🏾‍♀️ Sorrows, sorrows, prayers.

He said " Why create another SLAVE for the SYSTEM 🔥 🔥 🔥

The human race going extinct has nothing to do with me

All of these kids in the foster system that are forgotten and all some people care about is creating more humans.

Men are getting scared women have had enough

The man saying women should want further the evolution of species. Why ? Men have relinquished their role as providers and protectors. Women should relinquish their role for birthing more people. Women are not obligated to have children.

I have never regretted not having kids. As a black woman I probably would've been raising the kid by myself.

‘ becoming a parent is a selfless act’? Completely untrue. Kids don’t ask to be born. Men and women force kids into this world…a world that doesn’t gaf about them, their survival, ability to thrive, or mental/physical health. I have kids and I was selfish for having them because they have to grow up in this trash world with trash people who are evil. Choosing not to have kids is a merciful and selfless act.

The generational trauma ends with me. My ancestors will thank me.

Mama of 4 kiddos here, all you child free women are my HEROES!!! I adore you precious souls!! Don’t let anyone convince you that you are being selfish. On the contrary, you’re actually able to find your destiny! The more people that discover and live in their destiny, the less this world sucks. Don’t ever get sucked into the TRAP of relationships & procreation!!! Keep your sovereignty!!

Women literally risk their lives to be pregnant. He's right. It would be different if the world valued women and children and families and just humans in general- but it doesnt- so why bring a child into that.

He said nothing but facts in my opinion. It's high time people spoke the truth. I knew from very young I didn't want kids and why I didn't want them.

To the guy that said it’s our duty as humans to procreate….I must laugh. My duty is to live my life for MYSELF, to do what I want to do, to put myself FIRST. All of that goes out of the window if I have kids, I will no longer be first place in my own life & that sounds torturous. My duty in life is to reach self-actualization & to put my well being first before anyone else’s.

As a 29yr old woman. I dont want them and I don't need them. They are cute when they are some body else's problem 😂

This man makes so much sense. I would still have kids but under very specific conditions. Most men pretend to be logical but are just as emotional as women. The majority of the population is not logical.

It’s funny how men call women selfish, but not wanting to keep humanity going, but they don’t have a problem being selfish when it comes to what they want on this earth in one women to just accept it

Why ppl out here acting like there aren’t thousands of children in the foster care system… Even if a woman changes her mind, she can still parent a child..

I understand where he's coming from, I just emailed my child free daughter this video. If a woman choses to have children good for her, but with all the drama and relationship problems not to mention domestic violence I see the child free lifestyle catching on. I'm a 59 year old African american Black man. I have a son and daughter, neither have children, I always told them not to have children until they had good educations, careers and about 200K saved up that was in 1999. Today I'd increase the savings to 500k. Florida is a very expensive state and they live in the palm beach area. I also told them there's nothing wrong with having sex if they chose to just don't have children.

I applaud any man or women who refuse to be pressured into having a children.

You said “I love them so much to not have them!” I totally understood what you meant!

Men of all races are begging us to stop birthing them😂

He is absolutely right. Also, not everyone is capable of being a good parent be it financial reasons, mental health issues, emotionally traumatized themselves...Or they simply do not want kids, and that's okay too. It's best you make that decision BEFORE they get here and you create another broken person.

💯👏🏽 This is my main reason why I’m child free , never been pregnant, I use to look at friends, married friends, my co workers, I’m like , they are stressed to the max, I love my cat , and peaceful life , y’all can have it, cause the switch up is real from men , they will abandon anything that won’t benefit them

That sista nailed it. It's okay when men say it but not when women say it. And I personally feel that women should stop listening to men anyway.

I learned a long time ago that it wasn't for me. I'm flying out to Greece next month for a month because I can. My accommodation is adults only and it's perfect timing because all the kids are off from school for the summer holidays. Completely self centred, completely selfish and Idgaf 🤸🏾‍♀️🍾🥂

Women are choosing to be single and child free; it is the absolute BEST thing for women!

Oh please 🙄 If the "species" is not making it condusive for women to have children why would they sacrifice EVERYTHING for a "species" that doesn't give a damn? And yes it's "ME ME ME ME ME" because it is ME who has to carry them. It is ME who's stuck with it should the father not want to be part of raising said child. When society wakes up and decides to support people who bring children into the world, especially women, we owe society nothing.

There are more than 8 billion people, in the world today. Why do we need one more person?

12:10 Bold of him to assume I GAF about propagating the human species 😂🤣😂🤣

Women have been preaching this, he’s using women’s own words for profit and clout! Take your power back!

When people keep trying to convince my childfree self to have children, i always ask them: “Are you gonna take care of my kids if i have them?” And they get confused when i ask them. And then i respond with, “well, if I don’t want kids and not interested in being a parent, why are you trying to convince me to have something and do something i’m not interested in? Because the only logical decision is to give my children to those who constantly try to tell me having kids is the best decision of my life since they are more adamant about me having kids than i am.” That’s when they stop talking about it and move on to another subject. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’m 43, no kids and at this point, I’m pretty sure that God will bless me with a bountiful life without them.😊 It’s definitely not selfishness. It’s being considerate of what you’re capable of at this stage in your life. Be honest with yourself 😊

I watched a video yesterday of a baby resting next to his mom just staring at her with this loving adoration, it was the sweetest and purest thing I've ever seen. I cried because that's an experience I would have loved to have. I think I would have been a very good mom. But at almost 40, I haven't been with the right man to share that experience with. My last ex, who was a friend of 26 yesrs, told me he couldn't get anyone pregnant, said by his doctor. He had no problem knocking up a woman he was juggling me with. She moved to a different state and he wasn't helping financially. That's the last I heard. And that's exactly what I never wanted to see my child go through. My own dad once told me he didn't want kids (pretty easy to tell by his treatment). And with the condition of this world.. my heart hurts for the children and what they've been through psychologically especially the past few years. This world is not what we think it to be. And there are so many broken children walking around in adult bodies. I feel at this point my greatest contribution to my potential child is to protect them from a life of suffering in this dumpster fire.

When that lady said your baby is like having a piece of your souls walking outside of you, I was shook. 😮 she’s right.. I cant be a parent, I’d lose my mind if anything happened to my kid

Listening to a man talk is like listening to a drunk talk. They mean nothing they say. It will change when ever the wind blows. It gets you no where.

Becoming a parent is NOT a “Selfless” act!!! Sirrr…. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

I love how they say selfish like it's a bad thing. You are supposed to be selfish, or put self first when it comes to making decisions about your own life. #BeSelfish

The guys who said that if no one had babies the human race would go extinct. YEAH! And it would be the best thing for the planet!😂

Ladies do what’s best for you. We already see the outcome of having children and in the end you’re rearing them on your own. Also, our children are not safe in this wicked world. I applaud the men and women who are child free. 👏👏👏

To the statement that women should have children to prolong the human race. That makes sense on paper, but due to men’s degenerate behavior and patriarchal belief, this proposal isn’t worth it. If men weren’t such jerks in relationships it would be. But since they refuse to change and treat women like humans, then let the chips fall where they may. 🤸🏽‍♂️

What he said about being a byproduct is so true. I do not understand how you can watch your parents, your grandparents, or even your great grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc, not like how they live, and do the exact same thing. Or worse, hate your life and force your kids to follow down in yours and your ancestor's footsteps if you love them.

What he said about the system was gold. Also the people I know with kids are always talking about how hard they have to work to provide for the kids. Many speak on it as if it’s a burden. In addition to that, the guilt placed on kids because they’re being taken care of is ridiculous.

Most men who want children have no idea what to do with them. That is why the majority of the time, the women go through emotional rollercoaster to raise them, and the men can either do not help as much or stay and still not help. So when a man says that women will regret not having children ..well it would also be regrettable raising them one while a man is still in the home. Akon said men didn't need women. All men need an incubator.

People say I'm selfish for not having kids but then feel entitled that I owe them a future generation because they want one 😂😂

I thought Akon told the shmenz to find incubators since women aren't needed to have a baby. why is everybody tripping? Akon figured it out 😊😊😊

I’m glad to find a tribe of women who share my immerse feelings on never wanting to be a mom 🥰

That white guy.. says its not about you? Then who is it about? When you have a child - your life is constantly revolve around the child.

32 no children and single. Wasn’t my ideal lifestyle but it’s working for me. I’ve came to terms that this can be my life and I’ll be okay with that

Dude at 12:22 acts like there’s parents that aren’t selfish. Dude said duty?!? And I fell out 😂

*I've also observed and noted just how many men **_cheat_** on their partner during pregnancy.* *It is so bizarre, and **_incredibly_** disheartening. Moreover, many seem to leave the union within the first 2 years of the child's life.* *Such a gamble, **_and sacrifice_** for women...for multiple reasons.* 😔

As a woman with 1 I completely agree.. I love my child don’t get me wrong but 85% of my stress comes from raising my child I do feel like there are many other things I want to spend my time doing than cooking and cleaning drs appointment school etc Chile it can be very overwhelming

A child is like having your soul walk outside of you, WOW! That's so deep

Why should women have more babies? These guys said they arent marrying so whats the benefit and why should we continue their lineages? That guy is talking about evolution but why should we make that big of a sacrifice for people that clearly are ungrateful for what we do as women 😂😴

I rather mop the ocean with a shirt than birth a kid. Ain't no way.

I don't care about what males think about childfree women. For him it's 5 seconds of pleasure and being praised for the rest of his life, for me it's 9 months of suffering, 18 years of work, lifelong consequences and constant shame and blame. He has zero right to open his mouth about my "duty" because he's lazy and selfish by definition.

I’m childfree by choice and I approve this message.

5:09 Beautiful sister and speaking wonderful truth. My sperm donor fathered 8 children with my mother and abandoned us as I see it, I'm the youngest. He never kept a steady job was a drunk and acted childish. He didn't mind whipping ass either. On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd give him a 3. In my 13 years knowing him before he died. I'd estimate having talked to him personally for around 15 minutes tops.

At 4:58. I was speechless. Sis couldn’t have said it better. I want my non existent children to have so much that I would never place them in this world. This world is horrible.

With all this madness going on today I'm so relieved I don't have kids. And I only see things getting worse and more confusing for children. Good luck to all the good & active parents out there🤞🏾🙏🏾

I'm an only child, my father is too. I knew since the age of seven that motherhood was not for me. I tell my mother all the time, she should have married again after my father passed away and had more children. It would have increased her chances of being a grandmother. She was in her twenties when my father died. I dont why she wants me to be a mother, it's something that has never appealed to me.

I am 39 divorced childless by choice now single and celibate too... it's cruelty to bring a child into this world we live in today number 1...number 2 I haven't met a man I want to help reproduce...number 3 I'm a little selfish..I love that I and my cat are my.only responsibility....number4... that ish is the closest a human can come to death without actually dying. 😂

That white man screaming at 13 minutes was just projecting lol

These women are smart! Being a parent is not for everyone. I have two grown sons, and all I do is worry about them its crazy. I was a single mother, and it was rough, I struggled the whole time. More people need to definitely think of these things before having kids. I say dont have them unless you have six fiqures and a stable loving marriage mate..😉

He says we're not that important because we're going to die, but then having a baby isn't important because that baby's just going to die too. 😂

I hate my life and I think of suicide daily. I would never be so cruel to a child as to bring it into this earth.

The most loyal thing we can all do is walk hand in hand into extinction.

Especially for black women the stakes and risks are astronomically HIGH and unreliable irregardless of her wonderful intentions and aspirations for those children. Can’t make people, family or society to love and have empathy for your children well being.

He nailed it. Everybody is different and doesn't find joy in the same things. And the way some of these males walk off and don't want to financially support their children is mind blowing. It's not worth the trouble.

I agree and society all over the world is struggling and yet, people should bring more life into this miserable world.

The white guy was emotional and extreme. Not everyone is going to think this way 🙄🤐 they need to be more humble. They made this a losing proposition. Make it a winning one 🤷🏾‍♀️

So, I never had children and a few years ago I moved to a country where I’ve learned that people just make babies for the sake of it and always look stunned, dazed and confused when I state that it was my choice not to marry or have children. People INSIST “but you must have at least one...” it’s ridiculous. For starters, I made this decision in my 30s, I’m now 50 which most are stunned to learn but STILL insist “it’s not too late, you can still have one...” 👀 When I explain that I would not under any circumstances have a child at this age when I chose not to have any 20 years ago, they all look like they didn’t think that was an option. Meanwhile, I see miserable women here every single day, struggling to raise a gang of kids that they clearly don’t want and often treat like sh!t. But this society insists on people having a bijillion babies that the women typically care for with little to no help from the men, they often still have to go out and work, and they’re doing nothing but creating generational poverty. I try to avoid having these conversations but as people don’t realize my age and insist on trying to link me up for marriage, I inevitably have to end up telling people these things. I’ve even had to tell a few obnoxiously pushy men “you lot are not the prize. I’m good” ... and they generally look confused and irritated that a woman could be fulfilled without a man and some babies. Meanwhile, I’m living my best life. Ladies, don’t be conned into it if you don’t want to be strapped down forever. You can live a comfortable and happy life without children.

Bingo man at 11:38 just repeats the usual tired fear-based "reasons" to have kids. He should put down his phone and do more thinking.

Ladies do you. I am a mother choice. Two daughters college educationed. One wants children and one does not want children. My girls are critical thinkers, "you hang with a critical thinker, you catch critical thinking". DO YOU!!!

Omg where can I find female friends like these women here? They are so thoughtful.

I fell into the trap of having kids. They are adults now however If I knew what I known now, I would have never had any kids.

How is being a slave to a child and a man fulfilling?🤨🤨🤨🤨As a woman as an individual IT IS all about me so I will put ME FIRST. I DGAF about the human race. As a matter of fact, needs to end because we are so cruel and evil towards each other. The human race DOES need to end.

Thank you! 5:52 I suffered from depression and high anxiety because of mental and emotional abuse from my dad. I used to wonder why my mum had me then would tell me to just cope with what she had chosen for herself when I didn't have a say in it. When I would ask her we leave my dad from when I was young she'd say she needed him for support but ended up doing it on her own regardless. When I would express my disdain for him she'd tell me he's my dad and to just accept him as he is and still love him. This conditioned me to be in toxic relationships and before I got the self love I have now, I was in emotionally, mentally and PHYSICALLy abusive relationships cause that's what was normal to me as I saw it from my mum and dad's relationship. Once I realized I was programmed wrong and acted right and got the right man, I fell into serious depression and anxiety cause literally HEALTHY was so foreign to me it was like a disease. 😳 I didn't want children even after being with my man for 6 years but now I am due next week. In the first trimester what scared me is how I'll be able to show the kid this "new" healthy life when I am also getting accustomed to it. I am now ready for my baby and thank God for the healing otherwise I would have brought another broken person into this world who would be abused. I never judge anyone who doesn't want a child because I also didn't but life had a different plan for me. Thank God it was when I am healed and mentally and emotionally stable. People should truly live their lives and not judge others. We are all walking a different path to fulfill our own unique destiny. What's best for you might not be for me.

I have one.....and we've talked. She understands why I said...If I had known this world would be THIS bad.... I probably would've left her in heaven. I went through a lot to even conceive and I worry about her future in this hell hole. She has told me that she's NOT having ANY children....... her dad and I FULLY SUPPORT her decision. I hope she sticks by it.

Valid points! I'll be 39 on June 16th. No kids yet but I always desired that for me. However, I must have a suitable partner and have various systems in place before I feel comfortable. You have ppl having kids because its a checklist just like marriage. I'm 30, I must be married and have kids when they are not suitable for neither roles. I work in the children system of care and its disgusting to see some of these parents and they wonder why their kids have issues. Its because you haven't healed and work through your bs before kids and now these same parents are frustrated and/or mad. Another point too, kids are trophies to some parents, the idea of how can they benefit from or off that child too. Work on you first before bringing another human into the world!! If not you are lowkey selfish. To be a parent you have to be selfless. ✌🏾

One of my friends almost died on the delivery table giving birth to her son. I thank God she made it. 6-12-2023(Mon)

From what he's saying, to his whole energy, the Guy at 12:00 is the VERY REASON WHY some people SHOULDN'T have Children. 😒💯

As a 25 yr old, I’m currently undecided but one thing I know is this - I won’t have a child until I can emotionally, financially and spiritually afford to do so. I won’t be a single parent and I won’t have more than one. If you need kids to feel fulfilled and have purpose, you’re doing something wrong...

That yt man is worried about the human race alright🙄

I don’t understand the influx of the desire to have children if you don’t have anything to pass down to them but your trauma. Men want a legacy and don’t have a dime or land to their name. Women want children just to say they’re a mom but have yet to realize how selfless you have to be. Bearing children should be reserved for those that are mentally and financially stable.

The "Make Babies" guy was so dramatic. 🙄 The human race is not on the brink of extinction. There will always be some people who choose to have children. Not everybody has to procreate to perpetuate the species.

First guy blows my mind. Love it! Love you ladies, what ya’ll are saying is soo true. What the lady in the red swimsuits is saying is so true, she’s on point. Plus, the lady in the cream hoodie described it well ‘having a kid is like having your soul walk outside of you’. Like her, I’ve never trusted anyone to ‘babysit’ my kids! (except my mum). I love having kids, but I’m now informing my daughters & son - they have a choice, they don’t need to have children!

As a single mother I do love my son however I would advise any young woman to truly take every precaution to avoid pregnancy until she feels she is ready to be a mom and she can provide for the child. Even if you have a guy or married, you still need to assure that u can provide for the child.

My momma kept having kids knowing she was an UNFIT mother for that reason I never want to bring a child into this world .

1 and done. I should have never brought my son to this sick place. Life is not a fairytale. This was a selfish decision.

I was so busy helping my mother take care of my siblings that I lost the desire to have children. 6-12-2023(Mon)

LMAOOO @ to be a parent is your duty … I didn’t know that was something that was assigned to me

Another thing…. This entire planet is decaying from the inside out at a daily rate of 3%. The environment is no longer conducive to families and creation of families. Far to many men that do not want those kids either and it’s a horrible cycle.

Wow, finally a guy who gets it. That guy talking about the human race going extinct is stupid. That won't happen because there are always going to be those who do want kids. He's being intentionally obtuse.🙄

This man is brilliant!☝🏾

Men have been crippled by their mothers' mollycoddling. I have a theory that women with sons live their repressed carefree childhood through their male offspring and their unfulfilled potential through their daughters, hence the popular saying that "mothers love their son but raise their daughters" and the clear contrast in childrearing approaches. I've been exposed to many cultures through the years and I've noticed a pervasive trend when it comes to the dynamic between mother and daughter: daughters are raised to be tough and to shoulder adult responsibility and absorb a deluge of criticism before even the beginning of puberty. Whereas boys are encouraged to preserve and fuel this childlike wonder and insouciance all through their adulthood on the premise that they will marry a woman who will manage and spearhead all forms of responsibility, household management, and emotional labor on their behalf. In short, men have been giving libre passage to sustain a Peter Pan syndrome that makes them completely detached from reality in all of its aspects; whether it pertains to fatherhood, financial responsibility, awareness about the requirements for a sustainable partnership etc. This emotional intelligence deficiency is evident and understandable given that men have been sheltered by their mothers from the necessary suffering and concepts of self-sacrifice that are conducive to fostering it. Women today are not bound by the same economic limitations faced by their foremothers and are coming to terms that there is an immense irreconcilable fissure in men's self development that makes partnership unlivable today. There is literally nothing to gain from marrying an overgrown child who perpetually believes the sun shines out of their ass because mommy told them so. There is nothing to gain from marrying someone who harbors contempt for their skewed understanding of a woman's nature. They also see you as a sex accessory in a neverending video game to impress other men. They do not accept that your brain is capable of existential needs that go beyond the scope of the role that they've limited you to: breeding, adulation, and worshipping of the male. Please do yourself a favor and stay alone.

Facts!!!! I love my 2 unconditionally but whew!!! If I could do it again I'd be child free and free free being a mother is not for the week and ppl bash and toot their nose at women with no kids are unmarried and single mothers it's all b.s

3:55 This ish here….it’s a WHOLE word. 🥰👏🏾💯🥰👏🏾💯🥰👏🏾💯 It the NUMBER ONE reason I’m childfree by choice and proud of it.

As a child free man I applaud the child free women

It’s selfish to have a kid knowing you really can’t take care of it. It’s selfless and smart not having a kid knowing you can’t take care it. The 2nd woman said it!!!