Manti Te’o: God Has Two Answers

Manti Te’o: God Has Two Answers - Yes & Not Now

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9 ай бұрын

Manti Te’o (former NFL player) opens up about enduring his very public catfishing scandal, the spiritual and familial strength he drew on to overcome it, and how it brought him to a journey of self-discovery. He explains his connection to his Samoan heritage, the giving nature of his culture, and the expectations that were placed on him as the oldest child in a large Polynesian family. Manti discusses the double-edged sword of having a public persona, using football as a means to help his family, and the nature of faith when life isn’t turning out the way you want it to. He considers how the devastating fires in Hawaii have impacted the people and culture there, and how he thinks people can best support the population through it.
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@KristinM626 9 ай бұрын

When I wake up to the KZfaq notification that a new video has been posted, I’m always disappointed when I don’t recognize the name of the guest but am pleasantly surprised when I find myself enjoying the episode. This week’s episode was no exception to that. Thanks for another great start to my Tuesday

@MayimBialik 9 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@whatshername369 9 ай бұрын

Same for me. And he was a "sports" dude. I had no interest, but watched it because she and he were That Good.

@mollysmith1226 9 ай бұрын

@@whatshername369agreed!!

@karenleemallonee684 9 ай бұрын

This has got to be my favorite episode now, so great! He is a true example of a Godly Man. May he and his young family continue to grow in the way of the Lord, and may the Lord continue to prosper them. Beautiful interview, Mayim 🤗

@stifft50 9 ай бұрын

Actually, God has 3 answers 1. Yes 2. Later 3. I have something better for you

@OneLoveRSR 9 ай бұрын

What an absolutely beautiful conversation! The compassion, the empathy, the willingness to connect with others that this man has within him is truly gorgeous. It's clear he understands that his faith is for himself, to help him navigate how to be the best version of himself to help others. From his stories, it can be said that his father intuitively knew his son had a heart of service and made sure to nurture that heart to help him put it into action. What a lovely human being. I wish him wellness and continued peace!

@brittanioliver9000 9 ай бұрын

Protect Manti at all cost!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙂🙂

@m_brokenleg 9 ай бұрын

Not knowing his catfish affair previously, I can’t even imagine the gossips, stupidities, jokes, memes, chaos, & a wonderful career almost destroyed he sure suffered! Mouthdropped watching him and how amazingly strong & resilient Manti is! Maybe the answer his father gave him being a small kid that far Mother’s Day in front of a homeless had a big part in his way to react & be. Bowing at him from the distance! Thanks Mayim for bringing him to me! 🫶🏽

@nicolewilliams2468 9 ай бұрын

I love that you referenced Esther here. I’m currently reading through two different stories on her story, & it’s amazing. I would love a non-WTMYB podcast with you going through the Torah & understanding what it means to you. And your guest- WOW! What an amazing human being. Such calm & waiting in hopeful expectation, & praising God in the yes, the not now, & the “I love you & I know better than to give you that for which you’ve asked.” What a beautiful interview. Thank you for this. ❤

@kdholden 9 ай бұрын

What an incredible interview. Your Netflix documentary was SO inspiring. You are one incredible human being 🙌

@eyeballmaster3509 9 ай бұрын

This guy has gone through so much, I actually haven’t heard anything about this guy in a while, it’s cool to see him again. Last time I ever heard about manti was the documentary

@darnitthelma4247 9 ай бұрын

The documentary on Netflix is out of this world! Poor man. No matter what you say he has been through a traumatic experience and has to live with everyone knowing it 😢

@josievaccaro 9 ай бұрын

There is no shame in people knowing... the idea of the documentary is also possibly part of the recovery

@darnitthelma4247 9 ай бұрын

@@josievaccaro I agree…I mean that it really touched me what he went through and how he has pulled through

@josievaccaro 9 ай бұрын

@darnitthelma4247 I understand. It takes courage and strength, and I hardly make it on a daily basis, so I can see how he leaves you in awe

@esamathteacher9029 9 ай бұрын

What a wonderful conversation. Thank you for keeping the questions respectful and inquisitive at the same time. I’m glad to have found your podcast-been a fan for decades ❤

@kymberlyward6683 9 ай бұрын

I am a recent Widow at only 59… and although I am surrounded by wonderful family and friends I often wonder who I am in this new world of mine now? When Manti talked about ‘who am I?’ It resonated deep in my soul, especially what cross each of us has to bare... I am so grateful for your podcast Mayim… each of your guest has offered so much wisdom and insight. Thank you!❤

@Deb5S5111 9 ай бұрын

@kymberlyward6683 My sympathy to you on the passing of your husband. I REALLY hope you have those around you who you can honestly share your grief with. You do not need to be so 'strong' that you are not being honest. It's a journey and reach out and say... I'm not okay today, IF that is how you are doing. Hugs & prayers. 💚 💙 💚 💙

@MayimBialik 9 ай бұрын

Our hearts are with you during this difficult time, Kymberly. So very sorry to hear about your loss, and wishing you strength as you move through grief. 🫶

@kymberlyward6683 8 ай бұрын

@@Deb5S5111 Thank you for your kind words and some very sage advice. I do have all but one of my boys, geographically close to me.. So, 2 sons & 1 daughter along with 10 Grandkids live 10 minutes from me! I am very very grateful. And I can tell my grown children when they ask how I’m doing! It’s others that I say “I’m fine” because the tears come when less expected… my sweet and only daughter suggested that when asked to say “I’m managing” and wow! Those two words have made such a difference when running into people. Thank you once again! ❤️

@kymberlyward6683 8 ай бұрын

@@MayimBialik I can not thank you for your sweet words of encouragement to me. Since I wrote my comment I have turned 60.. and I try to look for the lesson I think I am supposed to be learning in all the good and heartbreaking things in this thing called life.. Sweet Lady.. keep doing your podcast! I want you to know that I am only one of many who have learned a life lesson from your guest and you especially, not to diminish your acting roles, nor degrees or accomplishments … you were meant to do the good works you are doing in sharing yourself and of course Johnathan into this world! Keep sharing yourself with us, because I can tell you.. personally, you are changing peoples life! ❤️

@PitiMiami 5 ай бұрын

☘️🌹☘️

@rebeccas6263 9 ай бұрын

Was so fascinating to hear about the journey of this Mormon mensch I had never heard of before today. Thanks to Mayim and Jonathan and the rest of the crew for another interesting conversation touching on many important aspects of life and how one moves through the world.

@samanthabouffard8061 2 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this episode, as well as many of the episodes and the podcast itself. As a Hawaii "Local" of 15+ years and having raised my family here, Manti Te'o is no stranger to the Islands. We, and I mean all of Hawaii, has followed his whole football career. We love him. He is inspirational, he is humble, and his faith (no matter where it's coming from) has help him pull through the mud. Thank you so much / Mahalo nui loa for sharing your uplifting story and life. And yes, we definitely share Aloha here.

@moonbeanification 9 ай бұрын

What a strong, empathic and inspirational man ... I'm greatly enjoying this interview. Thank you Mayim and Manti!

@josievaccaro 9 ай бұрын

He's so humble... and so much resonates with African values, too... massive respect 🙏🏽

@leticiaperez243 9 ай бұрын

His explanation of weeds and plants with roots as part of his therapy. That was such a different way to describe it. I resonated with that and how both the new things we are trying to change we need to give time to take hold and grow roots. Another great way to start off my Tuesday

@curseofcontext 9 ай бұрын

i've also been exploring notions of faith and duality, i think it makes this planet make a little more sense to consider how fall is also as spring is and that they share and contrast seasonal qualities, how summer is also a displacing of winter on this orb, these throughlines in cycles of living ground and awe and humble me. what a beautiful tattoo sleeve!

@Echolyris212 9 ай бұрын

I saw a short on this interview and I went to the Netflix documentary. I was like “oh yeah I remember this story.” Throughout the documentary all I kept thinking was this isn’t even a big deal why are they giving THIS guy such a hard time. I’m not saying it didn’t suck, but what I could not get was how bad the media was hitting this guy. I came back to see this interview and I am very happy this guy was able to build an amazing life for himself after all this. He ain’t bad looking either 😂 you’re right, boy did he grow up . 😂

@marisamartinezolivera 9 ай бұрын

Such an episode! I’ve a kind of knot in my throat, along with an imense joy for Manti. That’s what this podcast, its guest and authors use to do to me always. As the elder of six, how much I can relate myself to Manti in holding from a too early age too much responsabilities. But we’re separated by a generation. I live in Europe and I’m in my 60’s. Asking myself if that old fashioned way his family or/and religion raised him in these days failed him to be prepared in front of the big suffering and giant hoax he was victim of. Or if it was the one that precisely let him successfully overcome it..

@whatshername369 9 ай бұрын

Like he said. Maybe it was his "cross to bear" and he came out showing such strength and integrity.

@julietchristensen3957 9 ай бұрын

It seems like he made it clear he knew he would get through it with God.

@ronniewaidelich9003 9 ай бұрын

Wow, what a gem of a human! So inspiring...thank u❣️

@susanhill6438 9 ай бұрын

The very last thing he said was so impactful for me. It was such a good reminder that God made me to be who I am, and if there are are people with whom I fundamentally disagree, that is okay bc I can only be who I am, I cannot let myself spend time wondering why those people are how they are. ❤️🙏🏻 I am going to watch this over and over so I can reiterate this to myself and it can, once again, be a part of me. Thanks for a wonderful interview y’all!

@MayimBialik 9 ай бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@JeffreyD44 9 ай бұрын

What a wonderful episode. Dr Mayim Bialik you never disappoint. I truly look forward to Tuesdays and your episodes. I heard a rumor a more drama based Blossom is possibly in the works. My inner child could cry with excitement ha ha. Sending love and appreciation from Detroit 💙🌈💙

@maryooliss 9 ай бұрын

What a wonderful interview and truly inspiring man! Watched the Netflix special, and I am incredibly touched by Manti’s resilience and character. Thank you both!

@carolgeorge6409 9 ай бұрын

Just started watching and I love and respect him already🙏

@altaresjoyceee 9 ай бұрын

What a wonderful and wise conversation! 😊 Thank you so much for this another great episode, Mayim! ❤ Also thank you Manti Te'o for sharing your life, culture, roots and other personal experiences, there is so much to learn, i really appreciate it. I'm glad I watched this episode before bed because I learned so much from it 😊 Thank you again for this! It is very interesting 💯 Btw, i like your ring on your left hand Mayim 😅😁 #GodHasTwoAnswers #YesAndNotNow

@kash9854 9 ай бұрын

I looooved this episode. So much of what he said was so beautiful.

@AliceHollywood 9 ай бұрын

Haha Mayim that line just got me, “God must think a lot me me” haha love that! 😂💖 Great episode btw! Inspirational guy!

@MayimBialik 9 ай бұрын

🤣🤣

@bellaventimiglia35 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, Mayim, for showing such respect for Hawai’i, Maui, the Polynesian/Hawaiian and local culture. I’ve never seen an interview where the spotlight was on Hawai’i in a REAL way! And to answer your question…there are 8 main islands in the state of Hawaii: Hawai’i (the Big Island), Maui, O’ahu, Kaua’i, Moloka’i, Lana’i, Ni’ihau, and Kaho’olawe. P.S. Huge fan of yours from “Blossom,” to of course “Big Bang,” to “Celebrity Jeopardy” and now to your podcast. Keep up the good work, and God Bless You!!! 😇🙏🏾✝️

@SuperLylyca 9 ай бұрын

I loved the interview...and I even cried a little

@vanhoudtshoorn 9 ай бұрын

Beautiful, uplifting conversation. Thank you both❤

@Semper_Iratus 9 ай бұрын

Courtesy & Respect goes a long way in this life.

@rvmush3883 9 ай бұрын

What an amazing way to start my day! So incredibly inspiring 💕

@astreet339 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this one

@orland0110 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for posting this interesting episode beautiful Mayim! ❤

@terrybochansky6271 8 ай бұрын

Thank You so much❤❤❤He is inspiring. At 64 I have a lifetime of experiences I will be sharing in my future endeavors. Mayim I just started following you a week or so ago, it started with an interview you had with Michael Singer. I will be listening to as many interviews as possible so I can learn how to share my story. It has been suggested by many of my Friends that I write a book. Thank You again

@tlcHI 8 ай бұрын

Aloha from Kauai! Mahalo nui loa for this episode. For talking about the island culture and family values. The state of dispair Maui, especially Lahaina, is in and the compassionate dialogue you always so mindfully choose to share. Big fan since the pandemic. Feeling and healing. Bless you!

@CutieWarrior-ol8ik 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for comforting sensitive Hearts. I needed to hear this today.

@MayimBialik 9 ай бұрын

🫶🫶🫶

@normankairns2583 9 ай бұрын

Insightful. Great episode! 🇨🇦

@rawilson7768 9 ай бұрын

Wow I don’t think in my 70 years of life that I have ever heard a man talk that is that self aware and capable of intelligent conversation. How refreshing. Many times athletic types can’t converse like that either. Thank you for showing me that this rarity does exist.

@vanhoudtshoorn 9 ай бұрын

We are all one human family❤. The world is but one country and mankind it's citizens-Baha'i quote

@namoraxo Күн бұрын

Much respect to Manti. I admire his strong ideologies.

@Kimberlinakay 9 ай бұрын

Great ❤ interview! Thank you Mayim and Manti ❤

@bunnybunnyhophophop 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video from the bottom of my heart. I didn’t know I needed it. Hello from a new subscriber 😸

@Noeau 7 ай бұрын

I’m from Hawaii and we have loved and followed Manti forever. But I have never heard him open up or heard his perspective in the things that Mayim eloquently brought up. His story about what his dad said about why there are homeless people made me think that his God brought this unbelievable catfishing situation on him to test him albeit a test of catastrophic proportions. But what came to light in this interview is what a solid and grounded person he is because of his family upbringing and faith. It provides more insight that the Polynesian athletes of some notoriety like Manti, Marcus Mariota, and Tua Tagovailoa have always showed that family and faith have been the reason for their success. And they are all similar in their politeness, humbleness and demeanor as good people. This was only the second podcast that I’ve seen in its entirety, the other being with Dustin Hoffman and Mayim is onto something great with her way of asking the right intelligent questions where the guest is comfortable enough to open up and provide great perspective. Great podcast Mayim!

@josepadilla-bx4jl 9 ай бұрын

A very good interview

@Will.316 9 ай бұрын

I loved you in the Big Bang theroy your the best actor i have ever seen keep it up

@giovanny1984 9 ай бұрын

Just to be a little shallow.... MY GOD, WHAT A HANDSOME MAN!😛😛

@Echolyris212 9 ай бұрын

😂 absolutely

@darnitthelma4247 9 ай бұрын

Yes he is ❤

@diverstalent 9 ай бұрын

Thank you

@AzileTotose 9 ай бұрын

hey Mayim I'm a fan and I love your podcasts♥ and your personality. Are you gonna have Jim Parsons on your Podcasts by any chance? asking from South Africa😘

@kimberlymurman8383 9 ай бұрын

I thought this was a great episode and he is so thoughtful and articulate. But the fact that he DOES NOT know that there are six main islands of Hawaii - the last being Molokai. Molokai is still historical and culturally truly Hawaiian. It needs to be honored and included.

@Ridler42 9 ай бұрын

Interesting videos you have People hate me because I don't have a God. But I believe and invest in myself. I don't need a God. I'm confident in all I do. And people don't like that. The world is what you make it. I don't need reassurance, I know where and when I need to improve. Im very comfortable with myself and don't need people to be around. Apparently, I am weird, but that's other people's opinions, not mine.

@Staywoke2023 9 ай бұрын

Interesting 🤔

@baeconater8 3 ай бұрын

I always hear Gods answers are Yea, Later or I have something better for you. I don’t think that’s the case I think there’s another answer, this is for you to grow and humble yourself. Too many people go through too much negativity for that not to be the case.

@emilyminchew6131 8 ай бұрын

Friendly FYI: We are called Latter -Day Saints. As of about 5 years now, 'Mormon" is a defunct nickname. I also live in Utah.

@lf7784 9 ай бұрын

Actually it's yes and amen

@iwnunn7999 9 ай бұрын

Not meaning to objectify but handsome man

@darnitthelma4247 9 ай бұрын

Yep❤

@noturbo 9 ай бұрын

all my answers are not now lol

@dwight5852 9 ай бұрын

I think he is very thoughtful and compassionate. I notice that he can't seem to include a very large group of us. It may be his religion. That's why I have no space in my life for religion. Most either persecute you to the extreme, or marginalize you. It's usually the former. I'm not other.

@rrussell9731 9 ай бұрын

Both cool and sad. How he lives his values is cool. For those of us raised in severely dysfunctional homes by uneducated, violent, toothless, slobbering rubes I get sad at the waste.

@sshaw4429 9 ай бұрын

Manti……hmmmm, LDS

@jmr9735 9 ай бұрын

The PINEAPPLES?!?! I live in Notre Dame land, and I have never once heard someone brag about the pineapples we get in the stores here. 🤣 "White privilege," eh? Yeah, that's where I stop watching.

@mollysmith1226 9 ай бұрын

😢

@rrussell9731 9 ай бұрын

Don't be upset about the "White privilege" comment. Keep it in perspective. Yes, there probably is white privilege, but it's just one type of privilege. The supreme privilege is beauty privilege and that comes in all colors, so a beautiful black woman has more privilege than an average white woman. There are many types of privilege (money, school, athletic ability), so again, to me it's about perspective.