DON'T. PROPOSE. WITH. A. CROWD. AROUND. YOU.

Proposing is public is manipulative, its best to do it alone

That guy with the April Fools Joke was extremely cruel. I hope she left him! Never propose in public unless you've talked about marriage already and you want the same.

Why is no one talking about the last one?!?! The train, the awful poem, the smack in the head, and the “I really thought it was sweet”. I’ve been laughing for an hour because of it😂🤣

Never propose in public. It's embarrassing and not romantic.

moral of the story: if you want to get married, make sure the other person also wants to get married... oh and don't propose in a public place

No one is talking about the baby falling? Terrifying.

Im so sorry, but the one at 9:10 KILLED ME when the train read "NOT. SO. SWEET." 💀

Talk about marriage before you propose

Most woman don't want to be proposed in public because it's embarrassing....

The last one fucking killed me; the waffling, the train coming through, the band playing completely out of place, the whack in the head with the ukulele… absolute perfection 😂

0:25 “everyone look - this baby would rather die than have him as a father” *baby jumps*

Proposing in public is super cringy.

These guys are idiots for doing this in front of hundreds and thousands of people, putting a girl on the spot basically. Ending up embarrassing themselves.

I've not seen one person empathise, cuddle their partner and say "I'm so sorry, I'm not ready right now, can we talk about this." They just run 😂

People proposing in public scream VALIDATE ME.

The April Fool's joke---seriously how cruel can you be?

Don't ask the question unless you already know the answer!

Proposing in public is the complete opposite of romantic.

I like the" You're my Sweetie Pie" and then she hit him with a mini guitar lmao

You can just see from the women's body language how much they don't want what's coming. Note to everyone - men and women: DO NOT PROPOSE IN PUBLIC unless you are 100% sure their answer will be yes (meaning you've discussed marriage beforehand and you know they like public displays).

I would never propose in public. It’s nobody’s business but hers and mine.

9:55 the little guitar to the side of the head was definitely a classic touch. I DID NOT see that coming. LMFAO

Lessons taken from this video: 1. **DON'T** even think about having a huge crowd, unless you've asked about that possibility. Some girls might be fine with a few friends around, but that's it. 2. TALK ABOUT THE POSSIBILITY OF MARRIAGE **BEFORE** PROPOSING!! (gosh, this should be #1) 3. Maybe talk about who would rather do the proposing? That last video - the train had me laughing so hard!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

If you're going to propose in public, be prepared to be dumped in public.

Come on, getting married and spending the rest of your life together should be a decision you've discussed and agreed to, rather than a yes/no question in public when one person out of the couple feels like it.

A lot of the people in the comments are right - there are multiple conversations that need to happen before you get to a proposal to avoid feeling humiliated in front of a crowd. Marriage absolutely needs to be discussed before any sort of proposal. You can’t spring that on people out of the blue. Make sure you’re on the same page about where you want your relationship to go. There are a lot of things people may want to talk about or experience before feeling ready to get engaged. It’s also beneficial to talk about what kind of proposal you want/your significant other wants long before that day comes. Some people may want a public proposal, and that’s okay. Some don’t. Ask the person you want to propose to a while ahead of time what they want, or if you would be the person getting proposed to, speak up and say something about your preferences. I made it extremely clear to my husband on multiple occasions that I did not want to be proposed to in public, so he was respectful and didn’t propose in public. Granted, there will always be some people who have a change of heart when the question is finally “popped,” but a lot of these public letdowns in the videos could definitely have been prevented. I wish these people the best of luck in the future and hope they get their happy endings.

The guy at the mall is #1 🤣 and lady askin’ “are you ok?” Should get the prise 🤣

*"It's not like I can't afford it myself...I'm not going to marry you just for this house!"* mad respect

Proposing in public is the worst possible way to do it.

9:04, I’m so sorry, but this one has to be the best one. The poem, the band, the random singing train, and the ukulele slam to the head to top it all off. *italian hand kiss thing* marvelous.

“I really thought it was sweet” perfect ending. 😂💀⚰️

HAHAHAH the girl that fainted was like screw that I rather play dead

This is why I think proposing in a public place is a stupid idea

Can we NOT normalize public proposals anymore please? Its such an immature and unrealistic progression into a marriage that it needs to stop. Most married couples usually talk about it before they put a ring on. None of this one knee down and open the box bs. Sheesh, my Fiance and I just bought each other rings and off we went to plan our marriage vacation and life. No public proposal. No seen. Just priorities and adulting.

I didn't so much ask as dare my wife to marry me. She took the challenge and 20 years strong. Mad respect to those that say no though. It shows me that at least a few people out there still value marriage and how serious it is.

Pro tip, guys--a surprise proposal out of the blue might sound romantic, but getting married is a big deal, and if you haven't talked about it with the girl, she might freak out, and rightly so. But even more than that, never, never, NEVER, put her in the position of making the biggest decision of her life on TV in front of tons of people. It's inconsiderate, presumptuous, and it leads to public humiliation for all involved. Don't do it. If you want to marry the girl, TALK TO HER. You don't have to disclose when and where and how you're going to propose, but if you're going to be married, you need to be on the same page. True for the proposal and for the rest of your lives together.

4:40 April Fool Proposal is a suicide for your relationship. it aint funny for the girl

The fucking train rolling by saying “not so sweet” with the guy’s heavy Indian accent is the funniest one 😂

some girls react to proposals the same way some guys react to pregnancy announcements

This is why you never propose in public and watch yo damn baby!!

You know when to propose to your woman? YOU WAIT FOR HER TO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT! 😂

You are my sweetie pie, you are my cutie pie 😂😂😂😂...No wonder she refused. ....this guy has no game

That baby falling was more tragic than any of these proposals! 😭

These places are sooooo romantic. No wonder why they failed

I knew it was over when the Train rolled on through his proposal!🤣🤣🤣🚂🚂🚂

The last one has to be the most embarrassing one ever in the world lmfaoooo. That train and that song has me dead everytime I see this hahahaha !!

When you propose in public in front of a crowd you aren't being romantic, you are forcing her to either give you the answer you want or look like the bad guy. Proposing in front of a crowd makes it about you, which means you just don't get women yet and aren't ready for marriage.

I don't think it's fair to propose to anyone in public. It's like you're using public as extra pressure.

The train said “not so sweet” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The train randomly passing by saying ”Not so sweet” 😳😂

I am a married guy, father of a wonderful daugher. Me and my wife took the decision to spend our lives together, well... together. We discussed it a lot before announcing it to anyone. Why do people feel compelled to propose in public ? It's a very tough decision, that will change your life forever. Don't expect your partner to take it on the spot in front of everyone, without the time to properlly reflect upon it, without the time to talk to you about it. Don't transform this commitment into a little show just because it makes a better story.

Don't propose in public?

Tables Ladders and Guitars in the last one .😂😂😂

Some guys clearly weren't reading the girl right, but one has to wonder if any of them ever regretted saying no.

I wonder how many women want a public proposal. I would be so mortified.

I actually think anyone who proposes in public DESERVES to get turned down. It's incredibly manipulative. It's like "she won't say no to me in front of all these people". It's pressuring her to say yes. Plus it's so invasive, in what should be a private romantic moment, not a freaking theatrical production. I guess I'm weird but I would just say NO. (My husband proposed to me on Valentine's Day, in the local paper's Valentine's messages, which he knew I liked to read. He knew I'd find it. )

9:20 the cleaner just keeping mopping the floor .... Hero😂

All the people going Usain Bolt after the proposal are killing me

Compilation of reasons why you should never propose in public unless you’re 100% sure the answer will be “Yes”

I hate when guys trying to propose a girl in the public places. If u really love someone , propose her in a private environment so both of u enjoy the moment.

If i was at the food court with the guy who april fooled the proposal to his girl I would have thrown my chair at him

This is so heartbreaking because that literally means the girl you love don't see herself living a life with you forever.

How clueless do you have to be to publicly ask such an important question and not know the answer ahead of time?

Rejected marriage proposals are life saving events.

Lmao 😂I love how everyone runs away. Not sure why anyone would propose without knowing 100%, seems kinda strange.

If you are wondering whether or not they will say yes, it's too early. If a girl wants to marry you, you'll know it

I'm so happy my husband proposed IN PRIVATE! My wedding can have an audience...not my proposal or marriage.

Oh, please guys, do not ever propose in public, in a restaurant, at a show or a game. Be a little more romantic and private, and most important; be sure she feels the same as you do. She might like you, but that is not the same as wanting to spend the rest of her life with you.

The small Train at 9:10 is absolutely knocking me out 😂😂😂

Can I just say the most awkward ones are when you go “hey everyone can I have your attention” i mean if you have family around that’s one thing or to have planned it out with people but to just inturupt people that you’ve never met makes it more awkward

“Guy: Your my sweetie pie, my cutie pie, my honey.” “Me: no stop just stop”

The choo choo train interrupting the proposal with *NOT SO SWEET* painted on it had me rolling. 😆

The train had a message " Not So Sweet" unfortunately guy couldn't see it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

"Your my sweetie pie, my cutie pie, my honey....but all I want to do is run a train on you." CHOOO CHOOOOOO (9:10)

There is an old lawyer saying, "Never ask a question for which you don't already know the answer."

Y’all. This is why it’s important to discuss marriage with you partner and when. So that when you ask, they’ll say YES🤦🏼‍♀️

That last one was amazing from beginning to end. The train cracked me up. But then that ukelele strike. Omg. It was perfect.

The it’s written on the walls one got me lol it says Jesus jams 😂

This video basically teaches us to not propose to people in public. Not only is it embarrassing but it is very overwhelming and just not very romantic.

A proposal should be between YOU and HER. Why would you ask everyone to look at you and tell them. Pretty sure if you just asked her in public and other people watched it'd be pretty obvious to them already lol

There are 3 rules to follow for a marriage proposal, 1. Keep it private, don't make it into a public show. 2. Make sure you've discussed marriage a good deal. 3. Actually date this person for long time(more than 2 years) and that you really know each other.

I proposed on the beach, and as I was about to spring the surprise question on her I swear to God a Dove came down and landed on a wooden railing at Jupiter Beach Florida ten feet away from me and stared at me. I thought that was a sign from Heaven that this was meant to be and that is when my journey through the fires of Hell began. 👀 Thanks for posting this brought back a lot of memories. Nice work 👍

Proposing public is not a good idea :/

better to be turned down than to accept your proposal, then cheat on you later

Got proposed on top a huge mountain in New Zealand on our 2nd year together. It was just myself and my fiancé while the sun rises infront of our eyes. It was magical.

Omg how could he (( the April fools)) she loved him how cruel

The person who cheered when he said when u smile, the whole world stops and stands for a while

Getting proposed to at a mall in front of a crowd and a janitor. How romantic. Just what every girl dreams of. Looooool

Rules to live by: never put a woman on the spot. Some things are meant to be private.

All these proposals in public are so non-romantic and horrible ! People cheering and shouting around, nothing intimate just for the 2 of you to cherish, who needs that’ circus? Don’t do that, guys! Celebrate later with your friends and family when you get a “Yes”, or if...you get it. 🙃

Guys, please listen to us women. Don’t propose in a cringe way in public, especially without really knowing how your girl feels.

It's OK to propose in public, but please make sure that you've discussed your mutual future BEFOREHAND, and that the intended lady is on the same track as you are. Save yourself the embarrassment and heartbreak.

Proposing in public = Guilt tripping a person to say yes to avoid embarrassment. You deserve everything you get when she says 'no'.

HAhahahahahahahahahahahahahaah..... The last one DONE ME IN!!!!!!! The recorder, " ARE YOU OK???" Hahahahahaahahaha

If I ever propose, it has to be intimate. The "yes" from a state of clarity is much better than getting a yes from the stress of public.

*I feel bad bc if the girls says "no" everyone is mad, but she may not be ready just yet😭*

My husband proposed in our home under our Christmas tree , down on one knee, just he, and I, and our dog. It was the most magical moment of my life, and everyone should have that. Not some attention grabbing move in public.

The final guy's proposal was just classic! "You're my sweetie pie..." Train interrupts speech with banner that says 'Not so sweet' Woman grabs ukulele and knocks him down for the count. Then when he sits up. 'Are you ok?' ROFL

Pls don't think I'm wicked, but when the last guy proposed and the girl hit him with an ukulele (or whatever it was) and he fell, I found it so funny 🤣😭