How To Get Your Spouse To Talk To You

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There's a method to get your spouse to talk to you, and it doesn't include manipulation or control tactics. This method is acquired from years of research and experience working with thousands and thousands of couples from around the world. Let's talk about it for today's episode of Relationship Radio with Dr/ Joe Beam And Kimberly Beam Holmes
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Instead, what we teach you is a method we like to call SMART Contact™.
If anything works to get your spouse to open up and talk to you, this will work.
Communication is a vital part of any marriage. But what is communication? Speaking to each other every day about bills and mundane happenings isn't enough. So, what do you do when your spouse refuses to communicate with you anymore?
Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes discuss how to improve your communication skills in this episode of Relationship Radio. Taking a look at how you might be contributing to the rift should be your first step. Look at your body language, your responses, and if you’re genuinely listening when your spouse is talking. Tune in to find out all the ways that Marriage Helper can get the communication flowing again in your relationship.
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0:00 Intro
2:13 Why People Stop Talking
6:00 How To Create Communication
10:25 Question 1 - How do I get my wife to talk to me?
17:35 SMART Contact Toolkit
19:15 Question 2 - How To Have Emotional Conversations
27:55 Marriage Helper Workshops
29:26 Marriage Helper Saved Our 27-Year Relationship
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@rockstarofredondo 2 жыл бұрын

How about starting off with a sincere apology? When a wife stops talking (women talk a lot) it’s a sign you have repeatedly done some behavior that lead her to lose hope in getting through to you.

@dumfriesspearhead7398 11 ай бұрын

Hence the "Wantaway/Walkaway Wife" Syndrome.

@bu8336 8 ай бұрын

So very true!

@WilliamOdum-mi2yo 8 ай бұрын

You just have to get over it and be happy to talk to her again and don’t think about the day be Think about rest of your life

@barbarabrooks4747 Жыл бұрын

Often a spouse gives up on the marriage because of addiction, ADHD, poor money management etc. A professional evaluation is really helpful. Some people are going to need medication, therapy and perhaps neurofeedback to function normally. Sometimes erratic behavior is a sign of early bipolar disorder or the beginning of a psychotic disorder. If your spouse won't talk to you, he or she may have given up because you have a major issue that marriage counseling can't solve. Some people continue to have ADHD into adulthood or mild, undiagnosed autism. When in doubt, get a professional evaluation, and bring a good friend or family member who can describe your behavior. Therapy is expensive, but divorce costs even more. Its better to get both medication and therapy until your problematic behavior is under control. Then hopefully when you are stabilized, your spouse will talk and go to therapy both to help with your relationship and underlying problems.

@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 6 ай бұрын

I do agree with an evaluation for a numbetr of reasons. But I cannot see how getting a professional evaluation is going to help him TALK more. I feel that we would be more successful in getting to the root cause not the symptoms....not talking. It may "confirm" his cognitive decline and ADHD but not likely to "help" him process his emotions....

@MrScooter33333 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent!

@noorwahab24434 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@susannjau159 Жыл бұрын

Thank you I appreciate you to, you're a great help in my life

@garyzornow9084 Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately I am the guy who is afraid to talk. I have become gun shy over the years. The gun shy results from being corrected or dismissed, so I avoid conversations. This lead me to not only avoid talking but physical contact. This has happened over many years and I don’t know or how to reverse this fear. Lonely life. Gary

@kimora7964 4 ай бұрын

How are you now Gary?

@garyzornow9084 4 ай бұрын

@@kimora7964 Hello I am still struggling. I also realized that I do not feel love or anyone or anything. It seems like I tolerate people and situations,

@kimora7964 4 ай бұрын

@@garyzornow9084 I'm sorry to hear that. Do you believe in God

@garyzornow9084 4 ай бұрын

@@kimora7964 well yes I do. The Bible says to love your neighbor as yourself, but I don’t love myself. God is love, but I am not and I don’t.

@kimora7964 4 ай бұрын

@@garyzornow9084 Have you ever read The Bible...the whole thing. It took me 15 months. 20 mins per day . I used to have similar feelings to you but after reading The Bible n praying daily..my self love grew and grew. God is love n He created you so you are walking and breathing love. You are a manifestation of love.

@jeffangelo5447 8 ай бұрын

Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.

@garyzornow484 10 ай бұрын

Hello I am the spouse who doesn't talk. I believe I have a fear of intimacy. I fear speaking to my wife, I feel that I say something wrong and feel judged, and I feel I am being corrected or convinced in another way. I am the guy who won't talk, we didn't ever talk, we didn't date, we never in my mind we didn't have anything in common. I often feel I am wrong and being judged, so I don't talk, I avoid arguments. So to avoid arguments and being corrected I shut down don't talk don't touch give her space. It's a very lonely marriage I don't feel comfortable. I am not opened, not vulnerable and not honest. I will avoid the conversation and give as short of response as I can so don't have to explain myself.

@sierrashafer2886 Жыл бұрын

At the end - “I want our communication and marriage to be great,” etc, what should we do if our spouse does not want this? He just wants to be left alone to do what he wants and doesn’t want our marriage to be good or talk?

@AL-pu7ux 4 ай бұрын

I make convo and she texts on her phone and then I get blasted when I try to talk about being present with one another

@ivahasty5384 2 жыл бұрын

I'm assuming this video is talking about couple who are still in the same home?

@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Iva Hasty, The things we teach can actually apply to the situation even if you are separated. However, living separated can make things more difficult. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

@phillipjones611 2 жыл бұрын

How much do all these toolkits that are mentioned cost in £ not $, I'm British?

@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын

Hey there Phillip Jones, if you have questions about pricing information regarding any of our products that isn't already mentioned on our website, we highly recommend calling and speaking to one of our Client Relationship Representatives! They can help answer all of the specifics! Call 1 866 903 0990 or follow this link to schedule a call with us for a time that works for you! marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ Looking forward to chatting with you!

@johnallen4057 Жыл бұрын

What if she is wanting someone else and that is why she doesn't want to talk?

@WilliamOdum-mi2yo 8 ай бұрын

If she is with someone else if you want her back and she comes back I don’t ever talk about it just be happy to have her back

@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын

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@kimberlymurphy5345 2 жыл бұрын

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