Don't let your marriage die, taking care of the kids! You want your marriage to last long after the kids have grown and left the house. You need to spend time having fun together, dating each other, etc.. It takes work. I have been married 18 years, so I speak from experience!

Dangnabit! I need to hear the rest of this! I've been a part of your journey since MAFS. I was so happy that you guys wound up together. You took it slow and I loved that.

Came for the assumptions, 9 minutes in is when they actually get to it

Here is what you do for each other; you two are married, created a family, watch over your kids and each other, and most important, so far you are there for each other. That is alot for any couple to share and give each other. Marriage has a tendency of numbing those view points if you allow it.

Assumptions start at 9:08

I just finished your season of MAFS and I’m SO happy you’re still together and have created such a beautiful family 🥺🥺😍😍😍 May God continue to bless you! 🙏

Just finished watching the show, I absolutely love your story ❤️ By far my favorite. I'm so glad I found your podcast, you're both amazing & even more amazing together.

Your story is heartwarming.. beautiful ,soo glad you stayed together,just watched your mafs. 😁

Even though the camera died, it was a perfect fade out! You guys are GREAT! Hello from Minneapolis!

Just finished your season I’m so glad I found your channel you guys are the best so glad to see you guys are still going strong much love 💕

You all are the cutest ! Here from married at first sight. I knew it would work out. I knew that doug was an angel from the moment they introduced him and Jamie he is who you deserve ! You both deserve each other ❤❤❤❤ I am so happy for you all. ❤❤

Happy you are on You Tube. I'll be following you so much easier for me then podcast. I hope you go back and just repeat everything for catch ppl. up I've followed you since MAFS literally everything you guys do I'm a supporter. You're so lucky, Doug is super caring,understanding, from a great family since day one. So wonderful to see how awesome of family you guys are making the two of you on your own! You're beautiful Jamie. Keep up the great content.

Omg I love y’all. Jamie you are so down to earth I’ve watched y’all since married at first sight ♥️♥️

Doug does do a lot but Jaime you are definitely a very loving and caring person. You show Doug how grateful you are for what he does. Don't let these people make you doubt who you are. You grew up completely different that Doug did and I can relate. The touchy feelie will come it took me years to get there. My family never told each other they loved each other. I am very touchy feelie now. My kids never leave my sight without a kiss and a I love you. And you taking care of the babies and all the things you do for the family is showing Doug how grateful you are. He sees you and adores you. I love you guys but I can relate so much with you Jaime, I think you have come a long way from who you were when the show 1st aired. Dougs family and of course Doug and the kids have real shown you what love truly looks like and I know that was something you craved your whole life. You never thought you would have what you have now and I believe you thought you didn't deserve to be happy. I know I pour it on thick but I mean every single word. I have tried to keep up with you guys since seeing you on married because you guys are the only ones I truly saw that were there for the right reasons. I saw the broken Jaime the one that tried so hard to make everyone believe she had her shit together. The one that was gonna show everyone that she was ok no matter what they had done to you in the past. But you were lead to that show because someone had a plan for you and they wanted to show you they were there and they knew your heart. They just needed for you to cross paths with this wonderful man and his amazing parents. I am proud of you Jaime you stuck it out even when everything in you said run. That was your way of dealing with things you put up walls and you ran when it got hard. I know me being proud of you isn't a big deal but I want to make sure you know someone saw you and they know what you were doing. I have been married 30 yrs and you and Doug will make it as long as you keep doing what you are doing, when shit gets hard you dig in and work harder and you don't quit. If I am around when you hit the 30 yr mark I will be celebrating right along with you.

Love you guys! I have been put up to speed on your MAFS beginning by my lovely daughter, and have loved watching your Instas. Can’t wait to now get caught up on your KZfaq and Podcasts. I haven’t done them before so you are my firsts! Lol. Love your amazing truth and character you have both exhibited, and your love for your family. Oh you babies are so yummy! ❤️🙏🏼. Best wishes.

There were so many times when Hendrix looks like he’s telling his dad to hand him the mic lol! He’s so freaking cute!😍

It's really cool to see that you take the chance in a backhanded comment to communicate about your relationship. It shows your love and commitment. And your want to make it work continuously

As a postpartum, nursing mom, THAT is what you are doing for your family! You are keeping a baby well fed, and taking care of YOU. Please don’t feel guilt about that. It’s exactly what you should be doing. Doug should be taking care of YOU during this time. Sad to hear him say he couldn’t think of anything. What your body just went through and is going through - mentally and emotionally and physically - is enormous. I hope you take care of you and he appreciates that you taking care of you IS taking care of your family right now. ❤️

I can't watch the podcast ~ please continue this episode on KZfaq!! Love you both

I just finished watching 2 seasons of you both on Married at First Sight-The First Year and it was super informative and interesting to see the story and progression of you all-I recommend watching it back , you can learn a lot of yourself on the show that could really benefit even now..

I loved you both from the first time I saw you. And I’m so happy you are still together.

Just saw series 1 Married at first sight for the first time. Amazing to seen where they are now.

Love you guys so much! My suggestion is to name the channel Hehnertainment!! And Kids Hehnertainment!! Or at least use that word sometime?!🤷‍♀️❤ I thought it was clever! 😋🤣 Also, Hendrix is the cutest!

Y’all will always be my favorite MAFS couple! Love y’all’s love story ❤❤❤

Well i guess u guy's answer 2 questions. wish It was more but I enjoy watching😁 may be next time can u can do more ty

I'm here so early! Love you guys so much. 🥰 I have followed you since Married at First Sight! I appreciate how real you are. ❤Also, sorry Doug , I'm siding with Jamie on the name of the channel. Although both are good options!

You guys are so cute together. You are such a good mom. Your husband is so caring to you and you try hard to be a good wife.

Omg! Hendrix is TOO cute and I love his name so much

Can you do more of these! You barely did any assumptions!

Glad to see you guys have such a darling family. Marriage goes thru stages. Toddlers are a stage that everything kinda goes toward the family. But you positive communication. It would be hard to find more sweet partners.

I want to tell Jamie how sweet it was when she got the surprise photographer for Doug. My assumption is that Jamie thought of that herself! My boyfriend and I watched season 1 recently, and I commented to him how thoughtful that was. If you were my wife, I would look forward to surprises like that!

Why did you guys move to Florida? Are you away from family? And where can I find your podcast? Love your fam since MAFS days!

I feel kinda sad it ended like this. I guess I better go listen to the podcast. I don't really listen to podcasts because they put me to sleep no matter how good it is. I still love you guys anyway ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'm with Jamie on the name for both youtube channels! It's catchy & make sense.

Jamie and Doug I was so excited to see you guys on Dear Christmas. I was screaming "Thats Doug and Jamie" now thats so cool! You all are so amazing. I hope you all have a great holiday season. I have a couple questions Do you have any holiday traditions that you started for your family? If you have another child how likely would you keep the "H" for first name? Love your channel and have been watching your love story from MAFS. #MAFSTrueLove

The section about what Jamie could be doing for Doug really hit me hard! I always feel like my partner does so much more for me than I do for him. And he tries to assure me I do enough but I still feel like he does far more! And then when he says he wishes you would be more physical with him, that is what my partner says. It all boils down to love languages. My love language is acts of service so he shows me love by doing extra things for me, and his love language is physical touch. So he would rather do things for me but he would also rather me give him more physical affection rather than doing things for him. So that really helped me put into perspective!

Love u guys

I think you should call your program, Doug and Jamie's Memories!!

"Hanging w/ the Hehners" for the family channel & maybe "Hanging w/ the Hehners...Kids Edition" for the kids Channel.

just starting watching y our mafs season in the uk on channel 4 streaming service. that what brought me here

“The question about what do you do for your husband?” I just thought - acts of service are one of the top five love languages. A better question would be, “What are your top two love languages?”

Or, Doug and Jamie: Making Memories!

Doug's idea was better. LOL

Your children are beautiful. Love seeing u on couples cam.

Do you have your podcast on other apps besides apple?

I vote for “Hanley and friends” the thing that Doug suggested. I agree. It needs to be different.

I wanted to just give you a big cuddle after that first assumption Jamie 💕

Hello Jamie how are you haven't heard from u in a while hope your doing good on your hpv any updates.

Love watching you utube from the day you got married do you know how many couples are still marry and are you going to have more children

Thank you 💕🥰 so much I always follow you guys nibahle iNkosi inibusise 🙏🇿🇦🇿🇦💯 put God first please love you 💕 be blessed the Hunners danko 💮🌸🌹

Love you guys. I like hanging with Henley & Hendrix. You can update the name when you have more children

I have watched you two since the MAFS since the beginning (even saw Jamie on bachelor lol). I love you guys! I am so glad you’re on KZfaq. I don’t Twitter or pod cast but I love you both here.

From the Netherlands: I agree with Jamie 😁👍🏼

We all miss you! When is your never video?

It seems like Jamie runs the show. She wears the pants. It seems like Jamie is so used to being in the spot light....that you need to continue that.

You guys should do more vlogs

Kinda CLICKBAITED us ...😒😔

Hey, hey it's the Hehners

was that the whole vid??? she only did two assumptions bc she was so hung up on the first one 💀 i wanted to hear moreeee

Yes...

Sweet Hendrix was so focused on his daddy. So cute!

Get into it already

Why did it bother me so much that Doug couldn't think of anything you do for him? Well, I know why. I have those same issues thinking I don't do enough for anybody.

I’m with Doug as far as kids u tube ❤️

So the assumption that she does nothing for him got turned around and he had to reassure her that she does stuff even though she doesn't? Narcissist alert?

Got to go with jamie on the names of kids youtube kids channel.

Hanging with the Haniers hhowever you spell your name- I agree with her on that

(Johanna, Patrick's wife) I just love evrytime you kiss. So much affection !!! :"") "Future kids are out of luck" 😂😂😂 Nobodys business if you have sex and how often and etc. That's personal. Just hope you don't feel pressured by feeling you have to answer to strangers questions personal moments. Simply stating "we are happy with each other" should be enough. How can people have assumptions when nobody lives in your corner ? I'm a new follower. Was routing you would remain married. I cried when you don't give up and find joy in this relationship. Jamie, don't be son hard on yourself. Doug is very happy with you. I agree with Doug. Its your daily life to show affection. I would put little notes in unexpected areas for my husband to find. Or mail a card to his work day, aiming it for a day of week that I kniw is his worst. Or made a bubble bath with his favorite treat and beer and a sports magazine. (Ready for him as so in as he gets home from work)

Personal preference here. 1. Don't change your current pages name. 2. Should not make a podcast/youtube video at the same time. It was hard to watch, since you talked to each other, but not us.

Goodness, I frequently, often wonder why jamie is so domineering, frequently shuts Doug down, puts him down. This is what you have put out there, what is recorded. BTW, "Henley Hendrix and friends" is the best. But no doubt Jamie will trump.

Im so glad you laid down your pride of his unattractive physicals looks- he would probably treat you better than any man. Inside beauty is better than the outside. you looked pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside on your marriage day- sounds right opposite attracts

Can you please explain why you took $57,698 in PPP loans during COVID for payroll?

Make him a special meal.

Isn't it true that ol girl didn't even like him at first

7:00

Not everyone that tunes into your content is a fan or likes you. Its entertainment for a few reasons. Guess you'll never know what everybody thinks about you, lol.

You all can name things as you would like. Personally, my brother hung himself. Anything with "hanging" is not something I will click on, even when it's used in a light hearted context. Too sensitive. Hope you understand. Thanks.

This is awkward

Please, please do not have Jamie Otis as a host on 90-Day Fiancé. She is so emotive and and needs to tone it down 100%. She’s old news. Use Kevin exclusively.

Woman gets fat, now she magically loves him 🙄 looks matter people…

The name of KZfaq channel is the Hehner fam and can you make a good intro with kids names intro

You've gotten too many sponsors and other things that have pulled you away from your family and that you owe it to your sponsors etc. Just concentrate on you and Diug and the kids. Forget sponsors, unless they are paying your bills. You can't have it all. You either have your family and work a normal job, or fly from NJ to LA and promote yourselves. Something is going to suffer

how borng.....waste of time my chubby friend

Just found your channel had to subscribe.. only just watch MAFS omg I'm so happy you two stayed together and now have children ❤❤ such a lovely couple 💞💞