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April Lockaby Radford u see the point here wasnt about the husbands fault or the wife! Yet it is about they didnt fully surrendered to God! They tought it was other persons fault which is totaly wrong! Marraige is b/n man and women ordained of God! If God is out the picture then it is in vain. Try God, read Bible & pray u will see wonders!

I feel u girl and yeah it needs gid i justed fininshed praying and crying .i even said lord giv me the serenity to accept what hasnt change.but i did say in jesus name send an angel to the women who took my husband abd let her fear god for the god he is to me and u because they are our husband and we hav the right to claim back our vowels .i feel jesus will not let them decieve us u watch.

God restore my love in me first for u then for my husband danny.dear god help us to know u so we can know each orther for the ow we took

kiki Curry me too

It is well

I’m glad they didn’t break up but I definitely don’t respect their story one bit

@@octaviakf why’s that sir/mam?

@@leecrotty658 grow up

@@abigailschuette7542 for having opinion?

Uldis Zalcmanis be blessed the name of the Lord! U r not late brother pray and read the word of God each day! God will guide u wt to do and He will restore ur marraige ! Give it all! He will deal with ur wife! Trust Him wiz all u got, He went let u down , he never does ! He is a good good God!

You could start praying for her. Like now. When you get up in the morning go to bed at night, or maybe five minutes here or there while you are at work. I didn't know what to do with my job or my boss or even have the right words. So, I would just spend ten minutes in the bathroom at work being silent and quiet and kneel on the floor on the toliet until I had strength and peace again and then would get up and do my work. And I would step aside in my car or while driving or in the shower or wherever...praying in the spirit.

It's called empathy. If you love yourself you're first reaction seeing your wife emotional is to show care and understanding. Why is it so difficult to be compassionate with your partner. Because lots of people are blocked and need to fix themselves before marriage.

@@chaeafri1153 Scripture says that husband are supposed to love their wives as Christ loved His church and gave his life up as an offering for her. It's about putting others needs above our own always in Christianity.

@@RenewalCreations What scripture? The one that the Caucasian dwellers wrote. Man in flesh and full off disagreeable behavior. Christianity is an indoctrination at his worst.

It sounds like you need a break. I’m sorry about your heartache and stress. I want you to love yourself. You deserve as much love as anyone ever did. Part of God’s perfect creation. You sound like a very caring compassionate person. Your dealing with so many challenges. Keep being strong and remember what makes you feel happy

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can't begin to imagine how you feel. I encourage you to continually turn to God. Remember that HE is your source of security and comfort. Get plugged in a christian community by going to church. If you are self- conscious, know that you will probably feel awkward, uncomfortable and fearful being in church around other people, but push through those feelings and begin to develop acquaintances with others (gradually turning into friendship). Seek pastoral help as well. Of course, before you do any of these things, ask your Heavenly Father for guidance. Proverbs 3:5-6 is His promise to you: 'Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Do not depend on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.' God is in control and if you turn to Him, He will help you and give you everything you need. Matthew 6:33- "Seek First the kingdom of God and His righteousness. Then everything you need shall be added unto you." This is God's promise. Follow the principle and see the results.

April Lockaby Radford I hope that things have changed for the better for you...

April Lockaby Radford God loves us despite our physical appearance. I’m trying to eat better just eating more veggies. Declining sugar filled desserts, walking. Start with small steps. Nursing CNA, is one of the most taxing jobs you will ever have. I know. Find something better. Pray with sincerity and attend church, others will reach out in service to you. Things will change for you. As men, we should love our wife unconditionally, they sacrifice everything to have children. God really does love you.

In Jesus's name I pray

Amen

I wish he would have saved my marriage.

In a marriage, as long as both people are willing to work on it, He certainly can fix it.

He's the third party that leads to people in love again and again xD

Ayesha Live13 Pray Galatians 5 the Fruit of,the Spirit over your husband. Find little ways to speak life and encouragement over yourself and your marriage. I do not know you, but I will pray that G-d will allow your husband to see you as the beautiful Queen that you are. G-d bless you🌹

Thanks for sharing!!

Jesus Is Lord Amen beautiful prayer

Wow! Those are the deepest and most difficult words yet they are the truest

Why are you in that marriage? Wasting your time?

There are those that think of themselves as Chr1stian, but are not. I will add here, that I've seen situations where the woman is an extremely light sleeper and is also domineering; this is a woman better off alone and one in which a man will relinquish the notion of a happy marriage bed. This is the sort of situation that a separate room might equate to the best thing, just as long as the s3x is a happy medium for both still. There needs to be more communication prior to marriage to access these sorts of issues. A massive questionnaire would be a good place to start and then some.

Now I don't know what is his side of the story, I am careful to jump to any conclusion.

Hallelujah! We are so glad this was encouraging to you!

Ashton Gilmore unfortunately the way men and women are wired is that they trigger one another. Even an expression of a need or a hurt, is often taken as a criticism by the man...then he acts defensive, basically invalidating the woman’s feelings and concerns. A woman often expresses those as a way to get connected, closer...but doesn’t realize that it can be taken as a criticism or attack by a man...so the cycle goes and goes. If both sides can take things (the ones that are their triggers) less personally...it makes a big difference. But takes a setting aside of ego and pride, but truly reaching out and empathizing. The best aphrodisiac for most women, is the foreplay of listening and validating that happens in the moments outside the bedroom. If a woman feels heard and valued....its game on, for most the women I know!! Withdrawal and ignoring is also a terrible aphrodisiac...it’s basically a man communicating with non-verbal, “I don’t care about, or value, you” No woman is turned on by that.

@@Alphacentauri819 perhaps some men use silence as a method of silent protest( which is a form of manipulation), while others' silence is a result of constant censorship. Censorship in that words dont work, or are frequently reused as a weapon of manipulation by women. We as a society are well aware of the frequently documented bad behavior of men, and so there seems to be some consensus that women are always the victim. That sentiment (in my opinion), demolishes most attempts at resolving gender conflict, at their beginning. Because if you ask women, women are always right.

Ashton Gilmore and I do not agree that women are always the victim...believing absolutes such as “always” prevents us from seeing any info to the contrary. There are definitely SOME women that are harsh and cruel to men. And men might be “victims” in these circumstances? Unless there is abuse...I prefer not to use the term victim... that’s just me. Most the time it’s adults, getting stuck in their amygdala/hippocampus (primitive) zone...acting fearful and hurt. What those behaviors are, is individual to those people in individual situations... Either side...it needs to get better. And it starts with each person, bettering themselves. After that it’s a willingness to hear another person... Most people are so undeveloped socially, mentally, emotionally that few have any business being in a relationship...but they inevitably happen despite any readiness.

@@Alphacentauri819 Your last para....... spot on. A therapist once said that relationships are basically "trauma bonds".

By which author?

@@HephzibahFrances Jonice Webb Ph.D.

Look to God he will help you, reach out to him read the bible pray dont put your eyes on him and your problem the answer is Jesus Christ and him crucified. Watch SBN on TV Jimmy Swaggart you will be blessed

Congratulations on your divorce. One person can't make a marriage work.

What do you mean there's nothing there?

We have been married for 41 years and have been through ups and downs and the isolation at times. I want to encourage you. God’s Word works. I have prayed the Ephesians 1:16-23 prayer for my husband and myself over the years when needed. God changed me first. My husband has grown slowly, but he suddenly started to grow exponentially since studying the Bible together from last year. God revealed to him to read 1 Corinthians 13 daily out loud. He now shows more emotions and empathy.

Do u ever meet in one of them?

@@brokenstrenght that's a good question ☺

Well there is nothing wrong with separate bedrooms. It was like that for Abraham and Sarah.....but they met at least once ☺

If you said "WE", that would have created a stronger argument. Since you say "I", it lends to the question of 'what about him?'; this especially in relation to 'wine tasting'?

Not much of a marriage

Wow...that is a really difficult situation you are in, but God is able my Sister. You can't force him to want God or to read the Word..May I advise you to ask God if there is anything He thinks you should do differently? If there is then you do your part and.God will do His. Definitely keep praying for your husband, ask the Holy Spirit to take a hold of him and for the Lord to open his heart and bring him to repentance.

Yet! Mary said with God all things are possible. Stay close to Jesus and fill your soul with the Word and praises

Ardent Pr4yer No 1. Where there is a will there is a way; inclusive of looking at yourself for change. I would take my gaze backwards and see where any threads might have been broken and revise these with baby steps. As a man, the things that I find attractive in a woman are 1) continued effort i.e. love in action 2) lots of s3x 3) meals of love, 4) continuing to learn, grow and do new things; this without pushing i.e. No > I want it, I want it all and I want it now.

If there isn't, then maybe it's time for you to end the marriage. You deserve to be happy.

Much communication, inclusive of finding massive questionnaire. Unfortunately the question of s3xual compatibility becomes an issue, something of which the waiting can potentially weed out in way of accessing if a person is honest; still, if you are dealing with v1rgins, then this is an unknown, let alone knowing if the other will, at a later date, start to use it as a weap0n (this regardless of religion); this of course also goes back to your position of waiting and accessing the other person. Everyone wears a mask and are adapt at creating new masks. One of the greatest factors is knowing and seeing the depth of love that the other person has for you; this without 'neediness', 'brokenness' or psychosis, of which the other person 'thinks they love you'. Actions help reveal love and commitment, inclusive of if they whine about things. I've also learnt to access if the other person is a very light sleeper (snorer even etc). Unfortunately experience makes for knowing the sorts of questions to ask, of which those green would never think or are in too much of a hurry to even contemplate to ask or find out personally. I would even say that regarding your '5 years' that people might be busy and also have blinders on i..e dismissing the obvious / not willing to see. I would use this time and all encounters to gauge the other person. I would also go out of your comfort zone to create encounters to help answer questions. It is in your benefit that the other person does so likewise.

@@dylanjames7031 Thank you for your answer, it was interesting to read! It was important for us to wait and explore our compatibility before marrying because we are friends since high school, and our social environment is exactly the same, his close friends are my close friends too. We are a very tight group, very much like a family and our relationship has an impact on the dynamic of that group. But being part of the same social circle also helps with trust and in knowing the person in depth. There were a lot of things I didn't need to ask myself when we started dating because I already knew them. I knew what he was like in public, in more private settings and I even knew if he snored or not (he snores like a chainsaw and I couldn't care less). Also what prompted us to be more patient was the end of my parents' marriage. After 35+ years they separated, and the main reason is that they simply weren't compatible. They are completely different people, with nothing in common but their children. When I asked them why they didn't address their issues before marrying, they told me that it wasn't done before. In their community, you married the first person who asked and that your parents approved of. On the contrary my fiancé's parents are happily married for 30+ years so that gives us hope! The question of intimacy is indeed a difficult one, especially for me. I was sexually abused by an adult when I was a teenager, and that is hard to recover from. After 5 years we think we're ready, everything is clicking into place and we thank God for it. We both want to build a home, a family with the Lord at the center. Our bond is strong, and I couldn't have hoped for a better man, God truly blessed me! He is kind and generous and thinks of others before himself. He's secure in who he is as a man but he is also aware of his flaws and his sins. He's a humble servant and I love that about him.

So after 8 months how is it going...

What god puts together let no man put us under and if god is for us me omega and my husband danny delarosa who can be against us so i say the same for ur marriage in the name of our lord jesus amen

May God answer your prayers☺️

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Darlene Candelaria lol my husband too 😂

@@elisianemendesdasilva3233 😄 on my husband's defense he does work a lot plus he's going to school. I know my husband loves me though but his personality is a lot like this man 😂 God has a funny way of putting opposites together.

Darlene Candelaria same here . He works a lot and he is getting his master degree so 😂 yes, my husband loves me a lot too I just need to focus on that 😊 but I am very intense and he is calm like this guy in the video . Yes, God knows what He does 😂😊

@@elisianemendesdasilva3233 Praise the Lord 🙌 my husband is getting his masters too in automotive technology 😊 but yes I understand being married to a man of very few words 😭 been married 15 years now and I just now came to the conclusion that that's just the way he is 😂 and lots of godly couples counseling. It's not easy but with God all things are possible! 🙏

@@darcandelaria - Money and time > the dilemma of females.

I think he sounded depressed.

The amount of blame she takes on herself is heartbreaking. Their kids have grown up watching and learning all this.

Well said! Thank you! She was being severely neglected and rejected.

Yes indeed!

Every marriage has trials. And with God those trials can always be overcome.

It's complicated

Why is it always the woman. We need more men in the world that don't have to be pulled a long by a woman and simply know how to lead, love, and show up for their family consistently and not fold like a two dollar suitcase.

Thank you for sharing this verse. Praise the Lord for adopting us into His family, making us His sons and daughters. }

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Abuse!? It sounds like an unhealthy relationship, why would you wanna stay?

Many many marriages suffer through some point of emotional abuse, it's not impossible. It hurts but it's usually both parties not having the tools or guidance from the holy spirit to communicate effectively. Check out Heather Lindsey she is on youtube. I follow her instagram too @heatherllove she and her husband are prayer warriors and lead together in ministry, she was just speaking on this issue actually this week check her out . Praying for you I know how it feels to be in that situation, both the receiving and giving end, you're not alone ❤ Jesus can heal any marriage no matter how broken.

The best place to start is 1 Corinthians 13. The love chapter 😊. Ask the Lord to reveal to you where you have been falling short while you ask Him for His intervention in your marriage. Whatever the Holy Spirit tells you that needs to change within you, ask Him to help you make the necessary changes. Then you can read the book of Ephesians. I hope this helps

Our God is ever faithful!