Married to a Doctor Q&A | Stan's Advice

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@vashti2389 5 жыл бұрын

Stan, if you read this, you really are an amazing dad. Just from what I saw in the videos. Other dads would have put their kid in day care, but you stayed home with him. I applaud you for that.

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

vashti thank you! I’m glad I had that option to stay home with him.

@catlsam8996 5 жыл бұрын

It’s so hard finding blogs/videos about the wife being in medicine. Majority of stuff out there is “being the wife of a doctor.” Thanks for sharing your advice!!

@stephaniewelch91 5 жыл бұрын

Didn’t realize how much Wyatt looks like Stan.. so cute ! Lol.

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Right when Wyatt was born! Looks exactly like Stan

@tqdinh2 5 жыл бұрын

Like father like son girl😐

@islandagps9797 5 жыл бұрын

Wyatt is his dad's twin! They look so much alike!

@DrAdnan 5 жыл бұрын

I think people in relationships often don’t realize how much time and energy their s/o will have to put into medicine. This is a great heads up for couples!

@justak2938 5 жыл бұрын

True

@paulinapaka-cabrera494 5 жыл бұрын

I love how supportive Stan is! I'm also a 3rd year medstudent and I know how hard it is for my boyfriend who I live with that I don't have a lot of time for him. But he's similar to your husband, very understanding and very supportive and I think this is the most important for good relationship

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

3rd year! That’s awesome.

@mangocaramelz 5 жыл бұрын

Love Stan ! Love that he seems like a gentleman, patient , understanding & mature emotionally.

@ambreeezy197 5 жыл бұрын

This is great! I love how supportive Stan is! Also I've heard that reading / thinking you know what your love language is can put pressure on a relationship, like Stan was saying, because then the other person is constantly seeking you to know/ demonstrate that you know their love language. So I completely agree with Stan, just let the love flow!

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Lol Stan is definitely going to see this comment and say “see!! People agree with me”

@ambreeezy197 5 жыл бұрын

Jenny Le lol im sorry jenny!

@allahassan7182 5 жыл бұрын

Hey I agree too.

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Amber djk lol.. yessss I am not alone. 😝

@sakshikohli5393 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh....the way you guys literally don't try to make your relationship not made up or fake is so good! You two quarreled so genuinely in the entire video! Sweet

@graceji4082 5 жыл бұрын

My biggest challenge as a wife of a senior resident is to see him always exhausted physically and mentally. I have to stay strong for him. ☺️

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

We can’t do it without a good support system at home. Senior resident hopefully means he’s almost done and will go to a normal schedule!

@michellez8293 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the advice Stan! I really needed to hear it and seeing you and Jenny together helps motivate me and remind myself to stay strong. I’m in your past situation right now where I’m dating a med student long distance and visiting each other, talking on the phone keeps us feeling close.

@airEEehn 5 жыл бұрын

Loved this video! I’m glad Stan decided to be in your video!

@AycheYSM 5 жыл бұрын

Your husband is stylish! Love the pink slim fitted shirt!

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

He just got home from work! His coworkers thinks that too haha

@allahassan7182 5 жыл бұрын

You are SOO lucky to have Stan. Love the video. Your husband is such a GREAT guy. You are honestly a really great couple. And also, when is the next Stan video? He's setting the bar rather high.

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏.. umm Idk about being in front of the camera again tho. Lol

@TeamXiao 5 жыл бұрын

I had this video on as I was going through Netter’s and I love the advice you guys gave! It’s a struggle finding quality time to spend with your S/O, especially when one has more free time than another. Even though it’s currently a long weekend and my S/O’s masters program only just started, I can’t always accompany her and that’s disappointing. There’s also being long-distance where you know this time is limited and you have to travel back to school after. So I definitely applaud Stan for being so patient and to both of you for making it so far already. There’s a lot to learn from you guys and I’m definitely showing my S/O this. Also, I agree with Stan on the love-languages thing. I said the same things to my S/O 😅

@jandres725 5 жыл бұрын

I love these kinds of videos! You both are AMAZING and I agree with the other viewers, he’s a great DAD! Love you both!

@dodieg12 5 жыл бұрын

Loved this! Stan doesn’t seem so camera shy anymore :)

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

He may have done a little bit of day drinking to get over his nerves 😂

@dodieg12 5 жыл бұрын

Lol!!! Nothing wrong with that 😂

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Dodie G very camera shy! Haha

@anushkapapney8062 5 жыл бұрын

Good to see you again 💓

@oliviathompson4818 5 жыл бұрын

I loved watching this because I plan on starting med school after I finish college soon then residency . I was so skeptical about everything especially since I'm already married . I talked to my husband plenty times about my ideas and dreams & he was supportive , especially with him being in the military I'm always behind him . You really shed a lot of light from seeing your husbands perspective also & how to maintain .

@jpham3 5 жыл бұрын

Hey Stan!! I'm so happy to see you on camera! I hope you come back soon! I really loved hearing how things are going from your point of view :)

@Memoriasxvida 5 жыл бұрын

I really love Stan. He's such a likable dude and he's a great dad and husband!

@swiftieforever9793 5 жыл бұрын

i love Stan so mature and calm.

@rociomonserratt346 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for brining Stan on. He seems like a sweetheart. Its amazing to have a supportive loved one when you're undertaking something like residency. Wyatt looks just like Stan. I like how Stan answered the question about handling your success and such. Indeed I think each person brings something amazing to the table. Wyatt is such a ham. Love your family, you guys are so sweet.

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

A lot of people have been saying Wyatt looks like Stan lol

@mariajoserios8711 5 жыл бұрын

I love you two!!! It seems like Stan is such an amazing person!!

@abbydavis3138 5 жыл бұрын

I loved seeing you in a different element so cute and so proud of you guys !

@taliapopz9649 5 жыл бұрын

late but BEEN WAITING FOR THIS!!

@denisem1860 5 жыл бұрын

I didn’t think this video would be so helpful and reassuring, thank you^.^

@reenh462 5 жыл бұрын

Hes so laid back and chill.

@ranika3995 5 жыл бұрын

I knew you were going to do one of those time lapses with Wyatt love it

@tuannguyen-yt8ty 5 жыл бұрын

Am glad to see dan doing the video with you , the key of happiness in a marriage is doing thing together. 👍

@rociomonserratt346 5 жыл бұрын

Also agree with your comments on bringing a child into a relationship. Indeed they do make things more challenging. I think you really have to be solid before introducing little people because they will try & test your relationship in so many ways.

@charlenemerlobispo6517 5 жыл бұрын

Salute to you both!!! You're very inspiring!

@whitneywujkoayala8613 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you both for a great video. I’m no where near the stage you’re at now, but it is very helpful info to have

@allisonvanderstoel570 5 жыл бұрын

This video is awesome! Go Stan!

@sofiasotres801 5 жыл бұрын

Stan is amazing you are a lucky girl, apreciate him moreeee, love you!

@CarochannSoba 5 жыл бұрын

Aww this was so cute, please do more vids with Stan!!!

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

CarochannSoba idk about more videos with me. Lol. But glad ur watching 😎

@saraa1102 5 жыл бұрын

Much love Jen, love your videos!! They have been helpful in educating about the realities of being a physician, wife, and mother. Look forward to seeing more content!

@kristywong2713 5 жыл бұрын

i love this so much!!

@IramAlam94 5 жыл бұрын

Lovely video... we all admire you Stan. You are everything a partner could ask for. And ofc you are an amazing dad as we see... Thank you for answering my question. Yay! My question was awarded the best question 😊😊 Love your family. #goals

@honestinsky 5 жыл бұрын

Good day to you Stan and Jenny, how are you doing on this very nice and calm day? Thank you both for taking the time and effort to create this excellent educational video, thank you. Stan you are one cool dude, I like you bro, fist bump ; ) I love your channel Jenny and I salute all the very hard work you are doing to becoming a doctor, way to go my wise and gifted sister. I appreciate you. Stan, be at peace where you are, you are not in a competition. We are here to help each other. Future book reading suggestion, The Power of Now. Until next week, be at peace my friends : )

@Fandomonium456 5 жыл бұрын

So glad we got to see Stan’s personality!!

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

gfan105 I had a few drinks but yes that’s me. Haha

@Lizzo_is_my_role_model 4 жыл бұрын

This reminds me of watching the movie from the 1980's. "Mr. Mom." Stan is the man!

@EmmaCooksYouTubeChannel 5 жыл бұрын

I adore Stan!

@jisav9266 5 жыл бұрын

Your husband is so innocent and mature.you are so lucky to have him.

@mizzannie001 5 жыл бұрын

He seems like a really good dad! I hope my husband is like that when we have a child.

@hayleepadgett5509 5 жыл бұрын

My favorite color is grey too and everyone thinks that’s weird!! Finally someone agrees with me

@MsFantasy30 5 жыл бұрын

Cute couple! ❤️

@MHSMagicLuver 5 жыл бұрын

I’m in PA school. I have been with my bf for 5 years. I live 5 your drive away so I can’t see him much. Especially because his car is falling about so he can’t drive here. I moved down here May 17th. Didn’t see him again until July 13th for my white coat ceremony and next time was the end of the semester like August 10th. Came back last Sunday so the 26th I think and I won’t be able to go back until the day before thanksgiving. But we are doing it. He knows I love him and he trusts me and I trusts him. We both don’t have any money so that’s a thing.

@tgoodman2076 5 жыл бұрын

God bless your marriage and family; you both are too cute. Stan is an amazing and supportive husband and father to me that equal success. I love the way you guys balance your careers and family. Best wishes

@suzetterutihinda7855 5 жыл бұрын

Stan you ARE a great dad!!! :)

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Sue Jeff thank you 🙏😊

@tangomz7070 5 жыл бұрын

Made for each other. A beautiful couple!

@mchavez3126 5 жыл бұрын

Love your relationship with each other

@maxinechow1178 5 жыл бұрын

Very nice to see you together. Very cute couple...

@kaitlynkilpatrick36 5 жыл бұрын

i love his laugh! and this video is so timely. my partner and i are working through some intimacy issues brought on by my stress and its hard to explain to him that it sucks but i don't know how to fix it. so i'm letting this play in the background while we're stewing at each other and hopefully it'll get through to him lol

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

In my opinion open communication is key. Sometimes Stan knows I’m upset but not necessarily know why. So it’s hard for him to make amends.

@kaitlynkilpatrick36 5 жыл бұрын

thanks jenny, i appreciate it. and low and behold, we made up thanks to this video lol. i told him that i'm sorry that i'm not able to fully explain what's going wrong and i don't know how to fix it as long as i'm in school, and he said that he's sorry he's not more patient. STAN IS A PARTNER WHISPERER YALL. but i also have to learn to not just cop out of every stress and just blame it on school, i'm capable of fixing some things when i can.

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Yay! I love happy endings ❤️

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Glad ur watching! Yeah med school/life will put pressure and test all relationships. I’m a advocate of patience and my wife preaches open communication. Which I wasn’t the best at but getting better. Don’t fight over things u can’t control. I almost get upset when she works 16hrs but how could I possibly blame her for that.

@sanithanazeeb3 5 жыл бұрын

This is the first time I'm commenting your video just cause u said stan would sneak through these comments 😉😅😅. Jenny you have such a loving family, especially stan who understands you and that is something everyone lack . Ah and your lil beautiful baby he is just soo lucky that he has the best parents .

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Sanitha Nazeeb awe thank you! And thanks for following my wonderful wife thru this journey! 😊

@sanithanazeeb3 5 жыл бұрын

@@stanleybillings2124 😋😊😅

@deborahkimilipaak5821 5 жыл бұрын

Stan is just dope. Oh and that’s an adorable son you got there.

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

@lilsamantha1 5 жыл бұрын

Ur bby look all stan. Stand ur awesome!!! ❤️❤️

@user-bj6gl5vk7k 5 жыл бұрын

Yeeey👯 New video~~😁

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Hii 🙋🏻‍♀️

@LittleRedRubyWong 5 жыл бұрын

i like these type of videos.

@BeauteeAndTheBeat 5 жыл бұрын

Great advice! I can see the love you both have for each other ❤ Idk if you already shared in a previous video but how did you two meet?

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

We met in Vegas lol

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

Jenni Gal Vegas fist pumping together (when that was a thing) ✊😝😎

@BeauteeAndTheBeat 5 жыл бұрын

@@drjennale Ooo cool! You should do a story time.

@mikey51951 5 жыл бұрын

great content!!!!! hopefully in a few years I can apply for NP school! (How are the NP in your hospital?

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

They have pretty good autonomy. I see them most in ER and urgent care.

@ashnaagarwal5904 5 жыл бұрын

Jenny! Great video, but try reducing the volume of the background music 😊

@soeyunaing8544 5 жыл бұрын

Wyatt looks so much like Stan. Stan is cute :)

@ElNietoPR 5 жыл бұрын

Sooooo, two kids!

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Haha Stan seems pretty convinced we’re having two.

@tuannguyen-yt8ty 5 жыл бұрын

This message to dan , been successful is doing something you love and good at , title mean nothing.💪 don’t mind other think bad though about you , they just jealous .

@loismoskow1959 5 жыл бұрын

I think you guys make an awesome couple and it will all be good for the long term.

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🥰

@sedlandeladoucet5763 3 жыл бұрын

I really want to work in the medical field and its a dream of mine but I also really want to have a happy married life in the future. Happy married life as in going on dates often and just really working well in the relationship. And I am not saying at all that you cant be a doctor and be happy in a relationship, I am just saying it'll be hard to spend time with your partner. Now I feel like I have to give up one . 2 of my biggest dreams. Although I'm still quite young I just wanted to map out my future. Now I think I might have to choose a different career path. It's honestly so hard to find a man like Stan. Loved the video tho ❤️

@jenniekim1294 5 жыл бұрын

What did Stan do to get to where he’s at now? To become a realtor what was his journey?

@Exoticbeauty015 5 жыл бұрын

I'm happy with just one kid too. Pregnancy was very hard for me. I couldn't even work I was so sick.

@WifeMommyFamilyJourney 5 жыл бұрын

You two are such a cute couple❤️

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Stan was so worried that people would criticize him but it has been the opposite ❤️

@sazizi3570 5 жыл бұрын

Great to see Stan talking to the camera although he seemed a little uncomfortable.

@stanleybillings2124 5 жыл бұрын

S Azizi yes pretty uncomfortable. Haha. Thanks for watching tho 😊

@latinainmedicine4315 5 жыл бұрын

I am currently reading 5 love languages :)

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

How do you like it?

@tqdinh2 5 жыл бұрын

Doc's a bad ass😀

@Wendy.0522 4 жыл бұрын

I just find you and I was like did they head up having another kid? Then go to IG and saw you guys had another one.

@JolieFleur0116 5 жыл бұрын

My husband is a first year medical student and I am a stay at home mom, we have to little girls (1yro and 4yro). I asked my husband for 7hrs a week to work out or run some errands and he said that he couldn't guarantee anything. I should mention that I also take two graduate courses online. I understand that he is busy but is medical school really this busy? I am barely keeping up with my courses and am always doing households chores too (I do about 90% of the housework). I've tried communicating this to him but he says that he is too busy. How do you and Stan manage it all?

@C3yl0 5 жыл бұрын

JolieFleur0116 master degree is nothing compared with med school.

@JolieFleur0116 5 жыл бұрын

@@C3yl0 I was not comparing my Master's program to his medical school program. I guess you could say I was comparing our "free time." I understand that his workload is heavier but I do think he could pull some weight around the house.

@sagek7949 5 жыл бұрын

I think it depends on where he is studying . Some places make it much easy for students while others add unnecessary pressure. Also it depends on his personality. I know some people who think too much of themselves and look at chores as something beneath them. Then there are people who get bogged down by their responsibilities and have no strength for anything else.

@ZinebFakir 5 жыл бұрын

You're so cute together!

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

👵🏼👴🏻❤️ thank you!

@thecuriousapple 5 жыл бұрын

Jenny, I have a question for you that I really would appreciate if you could answer. How did you manage to be a Medical student with so much going on in your life? Like you were in love, had a baby, you mentioned you were feeling lonely ( I felt the same too thank you for normalizing it for me) , and did step 1 and step 2 all at the same time. Any advice on how you did all that?

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

I like to set goals for myself. Take everything a step at a time. If I thought about everything I needed to do, I’d probably have an anxiety attack on a daily basis.

@tigermason7624 5 жыл бұрын

Your moms dish is mine LOL

@logictd567 5 жыл бұрын

Stan! What’s up bro.

@Sam-tg4ii 2 жыл бұрын

I think some doctors may have more flexible/predictable schedules than others. Without this, I think family life and parenting could be negatively impacted. Parents, especially moms, should be able to spend at least a quality half of their time on kids.

@failyourwaytothetop 5 жыл бұрын

The only way I'd marry a doctor if I were a doctor. That differential between doctor and non-doctor is a gap that's too wide for me.

@hannahsample3044 5 жыл бұрын

so cute :)

@clorenesimilien3033 4 жыл бұрын

You guys are so cute

@drjennale 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😬

@simplyyjhez 5 жыл бұрын

Hi! Big fan here❤️ I’m currently in medical app cycle and I’m afraid because of the distance and time apart with my boyfriend. We see a future with each other but waiting 4 years and another 3 years of residency is too long for both him and I. I’m afraid he won’t move to where I am placed for residency 😔 Any advice ?

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Just open communication. You guys will figure it out if the relationship is something you want to continue

@cali-love1116 5 жыл бұрын

I don't know why, when I see Stan, Dave Matthews comes to mind lol They don't look alike but---- kinda sound/speak alike???

@moriahthompson9404 4 жыл бұрын

Do you think it's absolutely ridiculous for me as a premed student to consider dating a doctor? My ex was super supportive and all, but I do kinda want someone that understands my research, how excited I get about a case study, and has the same passion for science and learning as me. Also someone who also believes in vaccines.

@drjennale 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Stan is not in medicine but he can understand and appreciates my passion towards medicine. Not ridiculous to want to date someone with your same interests. I would say that’s normal

@moriahthompson9404 4 жыл бұрын

@@drjennale Thank you! I know it's not your case, but do you think dating a fellow doctor or med student would be easier or harder than dating outside the field?

@drjennale 4 жыл бұрын

Possibility easier? But I’m just speculating at this point because I dated Stan before med school and haven’t dated anyone else since then 😅

@moriahthompson9404 4 жыл бұрын

@@drjennale Thank you so much for your help!

@kkkkhhhh2539 3 жыл бұрын

Stan u work at nasa?

@adrenalline8250 3 жыл бұрын

Thank God this woman is not my wife... She is all about work. At the end of the day, she will realize what she was missing on. a life and a family... He is a family oriented person and don't tell him that you don't wanna have kids. He is family oriented but he became a family medicine oriented person.

@hagermostafa9046 5 жыл бұрын

How old are you Jenny ??! As I am planing to get into med school after pharmacy is it will be so late

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

29. I think that would just depend on what you want out of a career.

@PameGlezBl 5 жыл бұрын

We have the same iPhone case 🙆🏻‍♀️😝

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

I use to buy my phone case off this site called velvet caviar but then I found the same case off amazon for half the price!!

@PameGlezBl 5 жыл бұрын

Jenny Le yeeeih great minds think alike! 😜 I bought it form amazon too!!! Greatings from Spain and blessings for you and your family! I’ve been watching you since you were a MED student! Im from Dominican Republic but right now I’m studying for the exam to obtein a medicine residency here in Spain! You are such an inspiration ❤️

@dick12lauj54 5 жыл бұрын

Why does Stan remind me of Tim McGraw? ....lol.

@heal-thylife77 5 жыл бұрын

Do residents get holidays off? Haha I ask you so many quetsions. You are just so repsonsive and I learn so much from your videos😊😊😊

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

Yes and no, again depending on rotation. This year I’m working both thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years. Last year I got Christmas off.

@danielsea6479 3 жыл бұрын

Not a good idea. She will loose interest once the kids grows and move on. It will be 1. Career 2. Kid 3. You.

@redsloane879 5 жыл бұрын

Sorry but it would have been great to hear Stan answer the questions directed at him, too many Jenni interruptions and disagreements. The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman is an excellent book.

@parasrajput3742 5 жыл бұрын

Hey tall boys lover and short boys rejecter girl

@nonono1907 5 жыл бұрын

you're so cute :)

@nftking1371 3 жыл бұрын

He looks so depressed

@openmind9152 4 жыл бұрын

Oh the humble bragging is unbearable. Really nice guy. But she found someone who she can control, not someone she admires.

@atychiphobiaful 5 жыл бұрын

Mmmm don’t say that Waytt will choose who cooks better..... the kid only eats junk food 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

@drjennale 5 жыл бұрын

I’m hoping that will change the more food we expose him to 🤞🏼

@atychiphobiaful 5 жыл бұрын

Jenny Le of course he will.... he is a smart kid, he’ll figure out what is best for him.... love watching Ur vlogs..... keep up the great work and God bless ❤️❤️❤️