As a man, I really enjoyed listening to this. I love the quiet strength of women and love their softness and love of comfort and beauty. Men built the world but women make it a place you want to be in. It may sound trite, but it made me think of one of my favorite moments in the Disney movie Brave where the queen calmly and quietly walks through the melee and without raising her voice stops the fighting and cows the entire room with simply her presence. I feel like feminism has downplayed, ignored, or outright vilified this quiet strength. We all have lost something from that and I hope we can get it back.

I like how you talk about masculinity and femininity. This is the only thing that will keep both of the people attracted to each other long term.

I like how this is not only about getting guys, but about just being a healthy woman in general.

As a muslim woman, im very proud of the content you make, your values match my values so much and i feel like your channel is on the bright side of the internet, when everything is going completely insane and chaotic your content is calm and grounded and reminds us of our core values. Thank you so much jasmine i really love your channel and always watch your videos as soon as they’re up cause you feel like an older sister to me 💜

Being on survival mode resulted in loosing my feminity this is really helpful. Im learning to take a step back

I dont know why, but the example of the male email cracked me up 😂

The making things smaller point is definitely relatable... my highly emotional personality was punished as a child. I used to think that being highly emotional was a character flaw, but now I've realized that I just need to surround myself with an environment that will appreciate it. Thankyou Jasmine for helping me loath my feminine nature less

I love your point about goal orientation versus experience orientation! We definitely live in a goal-oriented economy, and i have long been motivated by hitting goals, but i have noticed that it erodes my personality and makes me enjoy the journey less and even care less about other people. Honestly, i don't even really know how to conduct myself in a non-goal-oriented way (especially at work and academically), so i might appreciate another video about this topic specifically!

Tip: If you’re embracing feminity(the biological design) ensure you practice at home and meditate on it. Also, practice discerning character through psychology books, psychology videos, the book of proverbs and the book of psalms, etc to guard against Ill minded people who will attempt to hurt you. By doing this when you express your feminity and the moment you see the signs of an sick minded individual, you will properly guard your peace and know how to handle those individuals. Whether it be cutting them off or preparing yourself if you have to be around them.

I love being a delicate flower. 🌺🌷🌸

Thank you for this safe place. This is the video I’ve been waiting for. Everyone says be more feminine, live in your femininity. But no one breaks it down and explains what that really looks like. This is the “how to” girls like myself need to start our journey. I want to be feminine but I honestly just don’t know how to be. Thank you for this video, please make this a series and keep it going!

The second point is REALLY insightful. We just got back from urgent care with my baby, because she had a suspicious rash. It turned out to be an infection (what I had suspected). This was our conversation on the way home: Him: “well, I’m glad you made a big deal about it and brought her to the doctor, because if it had been up to me, you know what I would have said…” Me “you would have said ‘she’s probably fine’ and done nothing.” Him “yep”

This woman changed my whole life. I'm inlove with my soft eraaaa!🪴✨️

Nicely put! I've struggled recently with my traumatized reaction to an earthquake in my area, feeling weak and silly because of my panic, having to sleep at my parents at 30yo seemed exaggerated compared to how others dealt with it. But I'm a highly sensitive woman, I'm feminine and crave protection and get anxious being left alone...and I got triggered. I'm doing what I need to get better, but I won't feel ashamed for being softer and maybe more sensitive or fragile than others.

I'm guilty of the "overcrowding" one. It is extremely hard to not do this since we value busyness so much as a culture--it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman. Making room for stillness feels like failure to me, like I'm not making good use of my time. It's hard to fight against that mindset!

Another amazing video 🤍. Definitely difficult to be a feminine woman in today's world, especially when I don't have a husband and male protection yet, my father passed away so I just need to survive in this world somehow.... trying my best to remain soft and feminine woman 🌸💕

I really struggle with showing or being comfortable in my femininity, thank you for making these veidos.

i genuinely love this channel, as a 17 yr old girl trying to reconnect with myself and my femininity your videos are so helpful 💛 sometimes i have days where i feel so masculine it hurts , but your videos are helping tremendously thank you so much

I love the last tip about being graceful in approaching and addressing people. Never thought of it!

Your videos are so gripping and real! Really gives me a push to be less hard on myself and tap into my feminine energy!

I really enjoyed this video. Thank you so much for allowing those of us that have been traumatized into fight or flight to relax and be ourselves comfortably. I loved the point about not shouting for attention. I am surrounded by mothers who shouted to get their point across so just having a woman say that there is another softer way to get attention was actually a huge relief to realize! Thank you! I’m excited to implement this in my every day life.

I love and appreciate your content🤍You’re vocal, yet maintain your calm/class. I’m the same way. Keep it coming🥰

God Bless you... you've spoken my truth. I've battled with my feminine needs. With your help, I'll embrace my softness and gentle pace. 💜🙏🏾

I withheld so much emotion because I was told I was being too emotional sometimes by women who were themselves traumatized from their past experiences. Even in church my mom and I were told we were too emotional because we cried a lot. When I listened to them it made me hard, cold, sad and feel alone. I’m expressing it better now and accepting my biological clock and better planning my life to suit it. Even at work, when I know aunt flow is coming in advance I will buy Midol, Advil, chocolate, water , decaffeinated tea, to prepare myself for a long day then rest. Thank you again Jazmyne.

Some of the things u said really hit home for me thanks for your sharing your wisdom love your channel and ur faith!

Lovely video as always, I hope u can keep on delivering such content to us. Highly educational especially for those who weren't taught any of this🥰🥰

you are always spot on with these topics

Your curls are lovely

Hi Jas, I love your videos so much. please post more videos on feminine rehab. Love and light !🥰

I can relate. Since childhood I was always really sensitive and whenever I cried... There you go.. omg you're so sensitive.. omg you're such a drama queen. When actually I'm just expressing myself. Women in my surrounding are so in their Masculine energy.. they sometimes even shame me & try to lecture me on why femininity is weak. This is so exhausting. Your videos are home for me.

Thanks again for helping us think through our behaviors and make better choices. The one thing you talked about that I struggle with the most is the balance between full-on materialism/coveting and admiring beauty in things. I seem to swing back and forth and often feel like functionality/necessity should be my only guide in buying anything.

Love this,thank u Jasmyne ❤👍🏻

I really appreciate the content you produce. You are one of the few I know in the Orthodox space presenting the feminine case for women, which I think is very valuable. This said, and take it for what it is, the disagreement of an anonymous stranger on the internet, I disagree with you on women not having any masculine essence. It seems to me that women do have a masculine essence and men have a feminine essence, *however* woman is predominantly feminine and men are predominantly masculine. Consider the classic yin-yang: each is a dance with the other, yet both have a bit of the other inside of it. The problem is when you try expand that dot to predominate the sphere, crowding out the natural presence and ruining the dance. To take a crude example, consider a mathematician who dabbles in literature. There is nothing wrong with this, and doing so may even enhance his study and understanding of mathematics (e.g. St Pavel Florensky regarding Dante in "Imaginaries in Geometry"). However, the mathematician would suffer if he treated approached mathematics like literature, tried to embody the latter while operating in the former. Similarly, a student and writer of literature could benefit from mathematics, but trying to embody the mathematician within that role would produce formulaic, heartless pieces and analysis. I think Christians must say that men and women have both masculine and feminine energy. After all, both are told to imitate Christ (masculine) and both are the bride of Christ (feminine). However, our primary essence and mode in the world is different, for man qua man symbolizes (that is, where meaning meets embodiment) the groom, while woman qua woman symbolizes the bride.

Im at the start of the video but I know its wonderful, really enjoy your content!💜🙏

The technology aspect is so true! Something I’m sure a lot of us struggle with (including myself)

I realized how much I've been forced to be this masculine persona in my family, as an only child :O

Ahhhh...you feel like THE WOMAN I needed as a friend...so much to learn to appreciate being a woman...thank you ~~~ :)

Another great video! I would love to see you make a video about how Christian women can thrive when single, when they really want to settle down and just haven’t found the right person. Lila rose made a video about that, but I’d love to hear the Orthodox perspective!!

This content makes me sane

That fourth point is really good. I came to similar (albeit more "utlilitarian"... I still employ quite a bit of so-called stereotypically masculine behaviors, but now in the service of my tasks as mother) conclusions for not over-packing my day, but for entirely different reason as a mom. Essentially if you are a mother you need a buffer between activities and a lot of flexibility because your life is no longer purely under your control. Buffering your time gives you the needed flexibility to adjust when things go wrong and makes you resilient to complications in your day. I cannot optimize for efficiency anymore as a mom of 2 pregnant with a third child, and when I tried to do it my days would often fall apart because something almost always came up. I've had to optimize for resilience instead.

When you said to men that they should listen to JP, I instantly subscribed 😂❤

I'm learning a lot from you

Thanks for this video!🦋

I love this message I love how self accepting this message is I just love it 😍

May you make a video on speaking well and broadening ones vocabulary? You speak so well. It is inspiring.

I really love your video sist, thank you❤

Thank you ❤ the subject of this video is very important

Very well explained. Thank you so much! 🙏😊❤

Love your vids!

Omg the last one is me to the *core*. My husband mentionned it to me once he said "You know, when I call you from the room over, you dont have to yell "WHAAT?" " 😂 I did it as a teen to my mom and just never outgrew it I guess, now I try to say "Yesss?" Which is an inprovement but making the effort to walk to the person is much better I fully agree!!

Thia video was super insightful amd educational I also realized that i do exactly all of these masculine things😂 But of course part of self improvement is being aware of your weaknesses or in this case masculinity to shift it to femininty Masculinity isnt necessarily bad or a flaw its a just a thing that we ve learned to embody to survive not knowing that we can find even more peace in the feminine

Well. I actually hate the fast life and hustle. It literally makes me sick and it's very boring.

This is something I am struggling with. I think my dad wanted a son and he pushed me really hard when I was younger. Now I cannot express emotion or find the beauty and ease in things. I am pregnant now and having to slow down is really bothering me because I am used to bulldozing through and occupying all my free time with goal directed activities. This video is very eye opening

Could you make a video on hobbies that bring out inner femininity? ❤

Omg that shouting business is my vice! LOL! I hate doing it, but I also have to do something different because I can't always run up and down the steps in my home. I have considered getting an intercom system. That way, I don't have to yell! 😂

I really resonate with the fact of just buying things because you really like how they look or how they make you feel. I just moved in my first home and I remember myself just trying to buy things that have a purpose and not spend money on extra things, but it actually feels good to splurge sometimes on yourself even if you don’t need it.

I enjoy your videos so much. I wish I can articulate the meaning behind important behaviors and beliefs like you do. (Also wish I could follow them better, but don't we all lol) Id love to hear more about your relationship when conflict arises. Conflict that lingers even though we try our best to follow Jesus by forgiving, not resenting and humbleness. When in a circumstance you may actually be the victim and when you are not but might be ready to die on that hill of your beliefs. Is it handling emotions better? Love to hear your thoughts. Forgive me for wanting so much more out of you but here is some other content I love and would love: 1. Thoughts on having kids from different parents in the home and how to handle conflict with that. I can give you examples of the conflict if your interested (mostly its hard to not be overly protective of my son.) 2. More on breaking down atheism and Pegan religions and countering them with Christianity. 3. Being in a relationship where your may not be getting emotional support you need or maybe just perceive that you are not due to high neuroticism. 4. Medications. Specifically ADHD meds. these have drastically changed my emotional regulation. I've tried to find credible studies but am unable to get anywhere. Thanks so much for your content and vulnerability. Keep up the good work.

I love this !

Thank you so much for this!

This video was very practical and understandable. Very easy to take in. I love the points made. I can really see that as I mature these points on femininity are coming into play without me consciously choosing to. Mind you, I have prayed for God to transform me into the God fearing feminine woman that He desires for me to be. God is so awesome❤

You should sooo do a video on advice to take/ avoid for girls in their early 20s. I hear a lot of advice like ‘be crazy and wild in your early 20s, do whatever you want while you’re young, your early 20s is made for trying everything, being promiscuous and non-committal with the goal of ‘learning yourself’, etc.’ I don’t think that advice narrative is good for young women and I cringe when older women say this. Why must we be foolish in order to become wise? Why don’t we teach young women wisdom and biblical femininity first? A video on this might be helpful!

It would be so cool to see you do a collab with Jamie Dyer! ❤

The last tip was my favorite

I like the last advice so much ❤ no shouting

I feel like this is so true for me. I've been very interested in balancing my energy latley and i did amazing also the benefits are unbeliveble. But some people that i took information from said that you must have muscline energy like working hard or being very discipline and i've felt so bad while i'm doing these things it's feels like i'm fighting or like i'm in war with life but it feels good and i feel like myself when i'm trying to enjoy working on my goals instead of working hard and delay my happniess till i achieve them. I tottaly agree with what you said.

Some of these are rather difficult because of my job and because I’m engaged to a military veteran.

I've been absolutely loving your content! You are definitely an amazing role-model for what you are advocating for and honestly doing god's work. Just a tip as a creator's view, give a little pause/breather for each section so that it's clear it's moved on. All your words were so important I just didn't want to miss anything and was trying to keep up with the constant run - just if you wanted to know! Not bashing at all, all love regardless

Please can you pray for me not to swing wildly to being very fraught in my mind and feminine in a too vulnerable lunatic kind of way and being scared not to be feminine. I never used to worry about this but lately it’s been stressing me out💖💖

Every time I watch your videos, I am appalled at how indoctrinated I had been in masculinity. There is so much I am unlearning😣 these poor young girls today…..it’s even worse for so many, especially those in govt schools.

Enjoyed this video👩🏻‍💻 I was asked to provide the meal for coffeehouse after divine liturgy... I ended up co hosting with a brother in Christ. It ended up being a great outcome. I cooked much food after we went grocery shopping. He paid and I cooked. I adore cooking. I made Nativity Fast appropriate food i.e. lentils, orzo pasta w olives, fresh berry medley, bulgar wheat pomegranate salad

Your point on going to where the person is I tell my teenager's all the time.

Could u plz make a morning and night routine video!!!

Femininity is to be celebrated. sometimes we feel we have to hide our femininity but the softness of a woman is the most beautiful thing. It’s so elegant. I cringe when I hear young girls using foul language it’s so unattractive. They can be so beautiful if they chose to be.

This is great! Also what song did you use at the end of the video?

If I could add something to this video, it would definitely be to take of yourself externally. As a working women, there would be times for me when I would just be focused on work and school and didn’t really take care of myself. I thought I had to go out and spend money to get my nails done, but no. It’s just about taking care of yourself whether it’s painting your nails, maybe doing your hair. Always keep up with yourself if you are trying to enter your feminine energy ✨

Many thanks 🤍🌷

Also for men. Whether religious or non religious. There’s a pastor named Paul Washer. He speaks on biblical and biological masculinity and embracing it. He helped my male sibling. Check him out if you want and if you’re not religious I still encourage you to do it and simply watch and listen with an open heart and take whatever you know you need and apply it.

Thank you for this. My biggest problem is the goal of having the children to places. That is when I become stressed and harsh. I get upset that they’re not brushing their hair or playing with toys instead of putting shoes on. This sort of thing happens! They are humans and they are children and that would of course cause them to take extra time. But the option of waking up early or arriving late is not actually an option.

I think many people miss the goal oriented part point. That is, as a woman you can be goal oriented, but don't go about it in the way of men. Go ahead as you enjoy the process and not the way a man would like a bullet.

Im not in to this how to make myself more feminine and masculine but im curious so this is an interesting video

I literally write emails like the male example you shared. Lmao does it mean I am less feminine? I usually hear otherwise but well when it comes to work I certainly feel more focused on the goal than the process. May be that's why I get burnt out easily. Ok this is interesting!

Good content

Man should also be emotionally aware and sensitive sometimes. I have been abused many times but my father and parnter didn't care at all.. They just said it was past,forget it and from now be careful,watch your dressing. I also love to be ambitious,I want to make contributions to world,do invention just like marie curie. But people say feminine women should not be ambitious but good homemakers.😔💔 These things demotivate me...please suggest me what should I do or where I am wrong.

Your so sweet, um, i'm not sure i can do any of this tho. i mean none of these things come natural to me, at least not anymore. I'm extremely goal oriented because if I don't get right down to the point as fast as I can and get something done then I am gonna get distracted and forget and get jumbled up because I have ADHD; on that note my mind and space is always overcrowded. I am a minimalist; i don't keep a lot of things around me or in my life maybe that's because I've always moved a lot- it's how I grew up and now i'm in the military so I don't like a lot of stuff but when I do get something it's cute lol. i am a fairly quiet person. Another thing, everything is tiny itty bitty to me unless it's an emergency i'm not hurt no one's hurt we sucking it up around here 😂 but thank you for all your knowledge and i definitely see your perspective.

Im a woman and I HATE writing emails like a woman or receiving feminine emails its such a Waste of my time Truly. Please I Just want to get from point A to B. The connection is implied. I only want to enjoy and spend quality time establishing connections with a select few. This feminine rambling is a waste of my precious energy. I dont care how most peoples day is going I just want to complete the transaction. Dont ask me how Im feeling in an email either. If you really care you can ask me in person when we both have free time.

Wow, my husband has been trying to make me into a man the whole time!!! Uhh, I’m all about the process and he constantly tells me to be goal driven 🤦🏻‍♀️ and that my emails are too lengthy, now I get that I’m just a feminine girl

can you please make a video about how to be a woman while in the “gyming” phase. i want to be okay with the way i look but i cant find the peace within that

didnt expect a elliot hulse mention. also if u havent watched yet, knowland knows channel is a really good speaker on these christian topics but for masculinity. him and elliot make podcasts together too

Could someone write down the names of the other youtubers/experts she mentioned aside form jordan peterson?

It's hard because I know God has made me softer in nature but because of abuse both sexual and mental I've fallen under fawning and people-pleasing before. I do not want my reconciliation with my femininity to be policed (by either men or me) but I want to obey and participate in my healing with God. I also do not want to be soft and have to account for men (whom I have no interest in being with) either having feelings for me or telling me I am a tease just for being nice. I now desire to be kind to the opposite gender as gracefully as possible, but some men really give me the ick. Lol how do I go about this? I desire to be kind to humanity as Christ taught and as God intended but I do not want to account for the accumulation of lustful approaches that come my way. I struggle to trust men, because they usually dont just want to be my friend (unless they are on the spectrum).

What about women who work in positions of authority? (Army, police force)

It also depends on who you're sending the email to

I dont know if you have a video on this but if you could talk about *how* to express our emotions properly to the people in our lives? People have always told me "you're overreacting", "you're too emotional" to now where I'm 32 and hide a lot of emotions. I worry this is whats being projected onto my 11 year old daughter now, and I'd like to help her cultivate her femininity, not hide it.

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Yep, best not to overuse masculinity for women.

Can you do a video can single women be friends with married women !!?? PLEASSSEEEEE

Can you explain how to embrace love in a relationship while y’all are both learning true femininity and masculinity

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Create a podcast pls!

Iam taking the form of the male iam very goal oriented 😢