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4 Important Keys to Make Him Fall In Love

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Mat Shaffer

Mat Shaffer

Күн бұрын

So you want a man to fall in love with you, eh? Well here are for 4 important keys (and one CRITICAL PRINCIPLE) that will make a man want to dive in HEART FIRST :)
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How do I get a man to fall in love with me? What's the key to attracting love? How do I make a man fall for me? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so here is a video sharing the most important things you NEED to keep in mind if you want to win a man's heart for good.
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0:43 You Get To Give Him Something to Fall Into
1:38 He Needs A Clear Target So He Knows Where to Jump
3:30 He Needs to See and Feel Your Depth Before He Leaps
5:49 Make Him Understand That The Water Is Warm
10:15 What Is Your Dominant Emotional Set Point?
9:41 Ensure That The Current Is Calm and Smooth
13:31 Recap
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@irmabronder
@irmabronder 4 жыл бұрын
Sweethearts, here are Mat's 4: 1. He needs a clear target of you (boundaries, likes and dislikes) 2. He needs to see and feel your depth (deep questions, vulnerability) 3. Make him understand that the water is warm (emotional safety, 5 love languages, praises) 4. The current is steady and calm (your inner dialog, are you emotional stable, look after yourself, love yourself, be positive)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
well done Irma! thank you!
@TheSentinel555
@TheSentinel555 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Irma 😊
@baby-xp9dn
@baby-xp9dn 4 жыл бұрын
As usual, it's such a pleasure listening to your wise words 👏👏 Thank You Mat ☺️☺️
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
5. Have a Life...that doesn't include him. Men love a challenge!
@Alexi-pj4yb
@Alexi-pj4yb 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the summary, I took notes 🙂
@samboriboun7866
@samboriboun7866 4 жыл бұрын
His eye colour is amazing
@QueenE1011
@QueenE1011 2 жыл бұрын
Just the way he explains in depth with great examples to remember what he is explaining.
@karengarr8370
@karengarr8370 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, he's one of my blue-eyed guys!
@Angel6.6.6
@Angel6.6.6 Жыл бұрын
Cause it’s blue 😂
@ivettelee5340
@ivettelee5340 Жыл бұрын
that’s exactly what i was thinking aqua color
@lindalogan5479
@lindalogan5479 Жыл бұрын
I really like the shorter hair style. That, along with the lip hair and beard, shows how handsome he is. I like his videos and great information.
@taymarrogers326
@taymarrogers326 4 жыл бұрын
Provide Emotional Safety Treat yourself like someone you LOVE Ensure the current is CALM and SMOOTH Ask Quality Questions Be vulnerable and set the stage Cater to his love languages
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
you got it Taymar!!!
@TheAttractionTriggers
@TheAttractionTriggers 5 ай бұрын
*Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.*
@santosacosta1199
@santosacosta1199 4 жыл бұрын
Inner dialogue is definitely something I have to stay consciously aware of
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly you got it Santos Acosta!
@user-hi2bh8sc7t
@user-hi2bh8sc7t 4 жыл бұрын
I listen to advice when it’s given in this way calm voice I have sensitive hearing issues,thank you for not yelling.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@jeanjoseph7905
@jeanjoseph7905 3 жыл бұрын
I am always hot for my husband after 47 years married...got married at 23....we still got it.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@shellyharris7091
@shellyharris7091 4 жыл бұрын
Treat yourself like someone you love
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@suhansuha1653
@suhansuha1653 3 жыл бұрын
I love to watch Mat's videos because most of them are so accurate and the biggest point is, Mat's explanation in all of his video. He explained the points and elaborates it clearly every time. Big thanks, Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome! I appreciate that🙂
@elsh332
@elsh332 Жыл бұрын
Imagine if, instead of falling in love, we grow in love 💖 Diving and falling are not the same thing. Falling is an accident; Diving is deliberate. When we grow something, we work together with the natural flow of the thing that grows and support it, investing our time and care into it, nurturing it, learning its needs and meeting them wherever we can, removing that which works against it. Thinking of love like a garden is the best analogy I could think of.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
This is an inspiring story!
@LisaSoulLevelHealing
@LisaSoulLevelHealing 3 жыл бұрын
I like how you summarize items at the end. I forget what the first steps are sometimes lol. You are the only one really speaking on emotional intimacy like this for men. Anyone else doing this?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@kivagirl1570
@kivagirl1570 4 жыл бұрын
One of the BEST videos I have watched! Wonderfully honest information expressed authentically. Thanks Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Kiva Girl! 🙏
@shelley3812
@shelley3812 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice Matt. And just to let you know, your eyes, are incredible! Carribean blue! 👀 😳😉 the " lucky girl" that gets to look into them. 👀😊 just "sayin." 😉
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Shelley Loewen! 👀😀
@reginaalmaraz7561
@reginaalmaraz7561 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Beautiful eyes matt! 😀
@shanthi718
@shanthi718 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I actually had a pen and paper put and was Journaling in some of the tips, advice amd words of wisdom. Very well done! 👏
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@Ladanii
@Ladanii 4 жыл бұрын
Love your new backdrop, Mat! 😍 Great points, thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Yay, thank you Ladanii! Yes we are very excited about the new studio set up, appreciate that feedback :)
@brookeandrews5680
@brookeandrews5680 4 жыл бұрын
this stuff is wonderful help. I am loving refining my skills as a woman dating a younger man. I do want support in asking deep and sensitive questions.
@inspire734
@inspire734 3 жыл бұрын
I am 63 and Ry is 30. He is laid back and quiet. Doing belly dance or strip tease attention to them, the men love it. I move better than most young girls and in better shape.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@jennifercash9691
@jennifercash9691 4 жыл бұрын
BEST QUOTE/ADVICE I've ever heard when you said "another person cannot love you any more than you love yourself." Thanks sooooo MUCH for the AWESOME REMINDER and video! 💖🙏💙
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@jacquieowens7467
@jacquieowens7467 3 жыл бұрын
This dominant emotional set point concept is really resonating.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 3 жыл бұрын
good!!
@smarie4233
@smarie4233 4 жыл бұрын
Those blue eyes were distracting! I like this one. Great points. I also would add that you may have to improve how your partner feels about themselves in order to get the love you want to receive.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly Stacey Biddle! Thank you
@susaneuliano7692
@susaneuliano7692 Жыл бұрын
Mat is spot on and most informative with all his subjects.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you Susan🙏❤
@mylenevalderrama5147
@mylenevalderrama5147 3 жыл бұрын
Love when you summarize all the important points at the end of the video!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@taymarrogers326
@taymarrogers326 4 жыл бұрын
Provide a safe place Give him something warm to fall into
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES you got it!!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Yes and no. Be Warm...Hot. Sometimes. Cold. 🤣
@donnaocasio45
@donnaocasio45 4 жыл бұрын
OMG your blues eyes are just amazingly hypnotic. I’m gonna have to listen to this again to retain everything you were saying, I kept getting lost in your eyes , for real.
@nonam.1592
@nonam.1592 2 жыл бұрын
OMG are his eyes real? I'm curious!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
@afirmacjeznat
@afirmacjeznat 4 жыл бұрын
These are great tips Matt, you are the best relationship coach on YT.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Natalia Wisniewska, your beautiful words truly touch my heart! It's my honor and purpose to support you 🙏❤️
@77angelajoy
@77angelajoy 4 жыл бұрын
Love the new set up Mat. These are some really great tips to remember and to live by!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much angela! 🙏❤️
@MsYaYa62
@MsYaYa62 3 жыл бұрын
I've been using the tools you've been teaching... We are classmates from HighSchool and have reconnected after 40 years 😳 both of us have shared with each other the way our lives were and where our life is going now... The various things I have communicated with him is basically like planting seeds and now I need to feed it... It's not manipulative ... It HAS been growing by his efforts of calling me and sharing his current events... I am looking forward to seeing where this is going to go 😊
@BrooklynBaby100
@BrooklynBaby100 2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
This is an inspiring story!
@billielith
@billielith 3 жыл бұрын
I am sooo on fire about one particular man while watching this. ^^
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it
@debralondon8380
@debralondon8380 4 жыл бұрын
Love this advice Matt... also suggest...i told my Male interest that he should consider counseling (as I have)...to process past relationship issues ...before we totally dive in...and he is doing it...I am so grateful...bottom line... have self respect and ask for what you want and need! And yes...praise praise praise...I love how you meet my needs
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Love that!
@katewarren7242
@katewarren7242 3 жыл бұрын
Your presentation shows your professional training. I am a woman of a certain age(basically at that invisible stage) divorce is damaging the separation after a fourth years relationship. I've pushed anyone & everyone away. So over the passed three months I have unaware that I have been dabbling in you tips with out knowing it. So thank you for reinforcing what I have been ignoring right in front of my eyes.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad my content resonated with you ❤❤❤
@erinhappy-go-lucky5040
@erinhappy-go-lucky5040 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Mat 🥳! I am so that that you have finally found your purpose! Your journey has lead you straight to where you are today. I appreciate the wisdom that you share with me. I will admit, I have had somewhat of a difficult journey myself, but in different ways. I am starting to realize that I live within my comfort zone. I am a shy woman. I am beginning to understand why I am the way I am. Now it is time to reform into a new me. Thank you for your encouragement and words of wisdom 🤗.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
@brightpage1020
@brightpage1020 3 жыл бұрын
I know your main audience is young singles, but this stuff is great for old married farts, too, who might have forgotten among the tides of conflict and overwhelm life with a household full of children can bring. Have you done videos specific to marraige types who have ridden out a few tides and might be exhausted or exhasperated with each other by those efforts?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely! While our main audience might seem to be young singles, our content is for everyone, including couples in long-term relationships.
@AK-iu8ws
@AK-iu8ws 4 жыл бұрын
I like my men like I like my tea: strong, hot, & sweet
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
That's great!
@Cinder1987
@Cinder1987 4 жыл бұрын
I know something for sure. Do not chase or cling or be overly giving with all your strong feelings towards him. Do a bit of hard to get. If he likes you from the get go this ALWAYS works.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@tynaturkova361
@tynaturkova361 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing, briliant, breaktrough content. Thank you so, so much, Mat. 🤗🙂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Týna Turková! 🙏❤️
@welmadejager9844
@welmadejager9844 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are well constructed and simply powerful...thanks..great program.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@ingridkhajeh8982
@ingridkhajeh8982 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, Mat This has been one of the most useful pieces of info about what guys want. A lot of women want the same things too. And you really have a fantastic eye colour, it's crazy man. Love it
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@shary2229
@shary2229 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how you shot this video!! I LOVE the natural light and the background setting. GREAT JOB!!! I hope you continue to use this background and lighting set up for all your videos. AMAZING JOB!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@rolita12
@rolita12 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a great and precise good advice.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome rolita12! 🙏
@JohnnyRebKy
@JohnnyRebKy 3 жыл бұрын
A good kisser who has a sweet mousey voice always gets me lol. The mousey voice and taste of strawberry on her lips......ughhhjj 😎. I like girly girls i guess. The I'm so independent and tough attitude is big turn off for me . I like to feel needed whether it be for protection or just support. I'm a big 6 feet 2 John Wayne type and I love to feel needed by a little petite lady with sweet voice lol
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@linda.ll.7744
@linda.ll.7744 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Thank you so very much Mat! This is such vital information! You make it so interesting and easy to understand! I truly appreciate and admire your genuine approach and heartfelt encouragement! Best, Linda
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much your beautiful words, Linda R 🙏❤️
@gracitaestepa2395
@gracitaestepa2395 9 ай бұрын
thank u again so inspiring being old now i realized loving a new man is awesome .
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome 🥰
@brightpage1020
@brightpage1020 3 жыл бұрын
"Your inner dialogue is painted on your face." Whoaoahw. Seems shallow as skin, but it's so deep. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it hon!
@gracejonesgj3368
@gracejonesgj3368 4 жыл бұрын
so true and got it all except the touch language cause we are 8k miles apart .thank u dear matt for this
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Grace Jones GJ! 🙏❤️
@pamelahopson867
@pamelahopson867 4 жыл бұрын
Great tips Matt i agree strongly i have warm, calm and soothing, waters within me an my friend fell in love with me first, before i fell in love with him. You are so right about the touching on a man, i started first with his hair, playing in it then he became comfortable, moving into warm water's. I experience this 3 years ago. Now we are bestie. Matt you are giving very good advice.😍😍😍
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@annarajab8038
@annarajab8038 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Mat! Congratulations! Best wishes for your personal and professional life! You are sweetest man and kindest soul!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@sandyyanes2337
@sandyyanes2337 Жыл бұрын
Hey Mat, I just found you and love the way you softly speak and review at the end. You have a unique way of helping us ladies understand how to communicate with our man. Thank you ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@HaNguyen-oq9iu
@HaNguyen-oq9iu 3 жыл бұрын
Here is another compliment to a man "you're the only attorney I ever trust " :)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
So helpful; and your analogy of diving into water explains so much. You are gifted !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@staceygantt1119
@staceygantt1119 Ай бұрын
Let me know when you're available Matt! You're the total package.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Ай бұрын
Your comment made my day! Keep shining and being fabulous.
@nancymcloughlin2931
@nancymcloughlin2931 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! I need to look at myself again! I feel open, but he does not know my questions...... I need to listen....🥰🌻🌻🌻🌻🙏🏻🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️😔
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly you got it Nancy McLoughlin!
@kathypayne4380
@kathypayne4380 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, thank you for the wise words. You are so much more informative than any other one on here! I appreciate your time.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@saimamasood1750
@saimamasood1750 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing. Love the style and deeply involved motivational tools.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@captainswan3079
@captainswan3079 3 жыл бұрын
"Your inner dialogue is painted on your face". Damn, that was powerful!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@give__take__
@give__take__ 4 жыл бұрын
Super great analogy with the water :) it works so well for all the points !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@lourdeskraetschmann5209
@lourdeskraetschmann5209 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mat. Relate much to this four ways... It is true. Yours truly from Germany❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@nancymcloughlin2931
@nancymcloughlin2931 4 жыл бұрын
The pool is warm......
@tere24
@tere24 4 жыл бұрын
I like how you did a recap Mat. Thank you! 🙂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Teresa Nunez! 🙏❤️
@bluegalant
@bluegalant Жыл бұрын
I followed these steps. I do think abstractly and and trying to put the pieces of him together with my observations. I asked deep questions and told him I remembered everything he ever said because I think he is so interesting. He almost left dinner. 🤦🏾‍♀️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I promise there are good guys out there my dear!
@irinabrodehl7668
@irinabrodehl7668 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this video. Amazing advices, analogies and examples! Thank you so much.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@HeidisGr8Garden
@HeidisGr8Garden 5 ай бұрын
Treat yourself like your own best friend.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@sharonbiddle9901
@sharonbiddle9901 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely another great video thank you so much Mat!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Sharon! Glad you liked it! 🙏❤️
@ThuyTran-zm4ik
@ThuyTran-zm4ik 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this incredible video with us❤️❤️❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! :)
@fantasya3970
@fantasya3970 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday! :) I bet it was wonderful, We are grateful for you and all your work you put in here, there, everywhere ...
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@beckyswaycookingchannel6890
@beckyswaycookingchannel6890 4 жыл бұрын
I so needed to hear this. In so in love and don't know what to do with it.
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
You love him...do you feel his love? Don't fall in love by yourself.
@sallybroessel2210
@sallybroessel2210 4 жыл бұрын
I just got back with a guy that had drawn away from me for about 5 months, and it seems to be going great, but I tried telling him that " I missed this." and he just ignored that.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 ай бұрын
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
@jackiewalsh9652
@jackiewalsh9652 4 жыл бұрын
Another great video mat thank you ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@jingli8830
@jingli8830 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matt. Your points are so true. I have a great lesson from a recent date about myself. I will love myself as I loved him so that I prepare for the right one to present. Thank you. You are an excellent teacher.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Perfect!
@jacquelinenoel2992
@jacquelinenoel2992 4 жыл бұрын
Really good talk! Smart, articulate man! Thank you, Mat Shaffer. Jackie 💙
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@lunaghr6114
@lunaghr6114 4 жыл бұрын
i loved this video you look great thank you for all this bucket of useful tips 🤩💁‍♀️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Luna Ghr! 🙏
@delfinajewellerysamui3902
@delfinajewellerysamui3902 3 жыл бұрын
Don't want a men falling...want him to rise 😁🙌
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I like that!
@Garland67
@Garland67 3 жыл бұрын
The only problem for me is that I ask all of the deep questions and he just tells me the stories. He doesn't know how to ask questions of me. Great video as always with the "diving into water" analogy.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I’m happy this resonated with you, and don’t give up on love sister!
@hildafung2707
@hildafung2707 4 жыл бұрын
love the way you mention about warmth! Let them know the water is warm to fall :p
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to heat that!
@nita4546
@nita4546 4 жыл бұрын
So true! Thank you 😊
@GuitarAngelOffical
@GuitarAngelOffical Жыл бұрын
When you mention how you talk about self talk i thought about one saying i've been getting myself out of saying. Never has, never will, never gonna said that to myself for years now trying to reverse it
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@christinemaddy6164
@christinemaddy6164 3 жыл бұрын
I wish every guys are truthful to every relationships in real life! If have one genuine that this will just good luck🤣 and happiness for the person. Your advices and informations are great. Thank you 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
I hope so too!
@muyangli6925
@muyangli6925 Жыл бұрын
So inspired and deeply touched by what you shared in this video ! Thank you Mat !❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much too!
@micheledespland2161
@micheledespland2161 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much , you are the best English teacher too ! And your videos are so real and positive !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@imabeachandsoyouare2794
@imabeachandsoyouare2794 4 жыл бұрын
Mat,i love the way u look at me...😂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
@tanyaklawitter877
@tanyaklawitter877 4 жыл бұрын
You have seriously made me miss David alot more now thanks for that. 5 kids under 10 and trying to do everything is hard enough but now I miss David alot more
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@tanyaklawitter877
@tanyaklawitter877 5 ай бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer hey Mat do you ever think we can ever truly find ourselves again after a loss and is it wrong that I have fallen for Davids best mate, is it wrong that I moved on and sure found happiness within David's best mate
@tanyaklawitter877
@tanyaklawitter877 5 ай бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer I actually replied to one of your emails
@wintergoddess8210
@wintergoddess8210 4 жыл бұрын
Your channel is Amazing ,Thank you 👍🏻😁
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@godschild8953
@godschild8953 3 жыл бұрын
Great analogy with the pool and depth of ocean. I put in my notes for reference
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@theresawinborn2228
@theresawinborn2228 4 жыл бұрын
HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAT, ENJOY YOUR DAY
@elviralabartine753
@elviralabartine753 4 жыл бұрын
Very greatful videos you make mat.. I really appreciate you dive deep into my heart, its bulls eye.. Very heartwarming. Thank you so much for this lesson
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much elvira labartine! 🙏❤️
@natural91LC
@natural91LC 4 жыл бұрын
Great video and I love the new backdrop :)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
@zensvlognotapro
@zensvlognotapro 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations great topic .Very interesting. I like your new studio , Lighting is woww. And You Mat looks excited, inspired and energized🙏❤️💪🤗💥 Be well always❤️. I'm going to watch again...net is slower here😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES! It's a huge upgrade. 😊Thank you Be Enthusiastic Be Inspired for noticing the positive energy.
@ld2290
@ld2290 Жыл бұрын
I love this content. It simple and very well explained in ways how to have a man fall in love to a woman. Thank you
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it! Many thanks, L D ❤️
@elizabethhd7895
@elizabethhd7895 2 жыл бұрын
THANKS for your videos, I like your calm voice and logical simplicity of guidance 💚
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@Lovelyuntamed
@Lovelyuntamed 2 жыл бұрын
I had tried to build something with a man I was really into. But he just didn't want it. Which I don't understand because HE pursued me first. I'd give him his space but he told me I need to be reaching out too IF I want a relationship.. But whenever I did initiate contact first I felt like he didn't even wanna talk to me :/ And then he said "it's getting stressful as we get closer"... Like ok? Then why did he come after me again? (Because I had dropped him before because of his hot cold energy, then he came after me!) He started pulling away again! And the final straw was when I was having an anxiety attack from something completely different and I didn't know who to turn to, but I figured I should be able to go to the man I'm involved with....he completely turned his back on me ;'( no response... nothing..I couldn't believe it. He should have just left me alone then if he couldn't handle me. Like wtf man..I quietly left him alone and blocked him.
@afe4452
@afe4452 2 жыл бұрын
Honey I feel for you.Read 'Attached'.He displayed classic Avoider behaviour.It wasn't you.
@danahportlouis3776
@danahportlouis3776 Жыл бұрын
Not compatible with you
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
@ShilpaSingh-cg5gh
@ShilpaSingh-cg5gh 3 жыл бұрын
You are really intelligent... worth it
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
@sarahkraft8834
@sarahkraft8834 4 жыл бұрын
Right on, Mat!
@HappyMonkey11
@HappyMonkey11 3 жыл бұрын
If you want a man to fall try sticking your foot in front of him when he's walking. Guaranteed to make him fall, just make sure you catch him.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@valentinanocross8677
@valentinanocross8677 4 жыл бұрын
This is great.your voice and new set make for a wonderful video. Loyd and clear what your discussing, I made mistakes in. I learned do much through your course Mat.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@jeanettegilles1883
@jeanettegilles1883 4 жыл бұрын
Best video i watched today. Thank you mat❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, thanks! really appreciate that
@paula-elizabeth
@paula-elizabeth 4 жыл бұрын
Another Great Video Mat! 👍🏽 - Being a swimmer 🏊🏽‍♀️ there are some things I’d do in water that I wouldn’t do with a man!!!! 😁 - I’d dive into cold water!! - It would a planned dive!! - I’d definitely do it!! 😃 Also, Men will look at whatever a woman touches - that can be a fun experiment - run your hands along a table - men will look! - Patty Contenta is the person to look up to find out more about sensuality!! 😃 - Spot on as usual Mat, Thank-you. 👏🏽👏🏽💫😃🌟
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're welcome! ❤❤❤
@ruthoximersolis5169
@ruthoximersolis5169 3 жыл бұрын
I love watching & listening to your channel..thanks for sharing.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! So nice of you ❤❤❤
@irmabronder
@irmabronder 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Mat🧁🍰🎂! 💋💋
@jennaayoub5236
@jennaayoub5236 3 жыл бұрын
Such a great video from a great coach, thanks Matt.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure! Hope it helps
@shamnair8793
@shamnair8793 3 жыл бұрын
Love your voice Mat..I am watching your videos just to listen to your voice..the learnings obtained are secondary. Thank you nevertheless.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@honeydrip1962
@honeydrip1962 3 жыл бұрын
My guy refused to listen to what I like or need,apparently he has no real interest in me, I've been very sweet
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын
I promise there are good guys out there my dear!
@hoiliswu6070
@hoiliswu6070 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Man and Women deeper conaction i love it awesome guy you are entalagens Berlin and smart.I appreciate you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Hoili Swu! 🙏❤️
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