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9 Types of Questions to Draw Him Close and Build Love

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Mat Shaffer

Mat Shaffer

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@zellalaing5439
@zellalaing5439 2 жыл бұрын
1) Open Question/ Feelings 2) Playful Question/ Hyperthetical 3) Story Question/ Expand 4) Passion Question/ Excitement 5) Family Questions 6) Childhood Questions 7) Competitive Question/ Challenge 8) Vision Question/ Future 9) Past Relationships/ Lessons Avoid 1) Interview Question/ no agenda 2) Fear Energy Questions
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
@moroccanluv8810
@moroccanluv8810 4 жыл бұрын
Quality question ! Ask with energy , opened end question . Asking with why ,where and who ! playful questions . Story question connection to something watching or listening to . Ask passion question , like what has you excited right now . Question about his family ? Ask about his childhood ? Challenge him with fun . Ask him about his vision , what would you like to happen for years to come. Ask him about past relationships , when safe to know truth . You can make it a good thing. What did you learn from Your passed . And never ask in fear .
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@moroccanluv8810
@moroccanluv8810 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😇
@wendyhavens
@wendyhavens 4 жыл бұрын
Mat are you wearing colored contacts? Your eyes look like Caribbean water! Incredible!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Wendy Havens aww thanks nope that’s just their color 🙏🙏😍😍😍😍
@jennyverano8417
@jennyverano8417 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer seriously? Wow
@Christie_OUR_TURN_2024
@Christie_OUR_TURN_2024 4 жыл бұрын
Wendy Havens, I was just wondering the same thing.
@imabeachandsoyouare2794
@imabeachandsoyouare2794 4 жыл бұрын
Ur eyes are mesmerising!
@cherylyeo5609
@cherylyeo5609 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm often mesmerised until I've to keep watching his videos over and over again... Hahaha
@sissel5369
@sissel5369 Жыл бұрын
This is gold! I have a date in an hour, questions ready and I don’t feel as nervous as I usually would because I am not afraid of the outcome of this date, just happy to be getting a walk with a new person I can get to know 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that Sissel🥰 Lovelots! 🙏❤
@MsDcyr
@MsDcyr 3 жыл бұрын
Newly single after 9 years, and dating is so new to me, so I need advice badly. honestly, I never thought asking questions to build a connection as I am a bit shy. But this gives me some great ideas and I’m excited to try this. Thx for the support and confidence boost ! Dating is hard and I see so many struggle with it. So thank you 🙏 you will help many I’m sure .
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
Whstapp him
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@BlazingPhoenix05
@BlazingPhoenix05 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Mat! The lighting is doing wonders bringing out the color of your eyes!! And I agree that emotional connection is derived from wanting to get to know about him and his life and how he operates. Notice how he has his quirks and dislikes and likes. And find what all he is desiring for a successful life. A relationship isn't purely based on sex. Intimacy is much deeper than that. Humans ultimately crave authentic connection where you bond intellectually, emotionally, physically and mentally.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true!
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- 4 жыл бұрын
i don't understand how your voice is so pleasing.. you don't have a microphone. 😊🤷‍♀️😼🤔
@yw6502
@yw6502 4 жыл бұрын
Mat has the most beautiful eyes, I’ve ever seen 😳😍
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Knowledge Lover that’s so sweet thank you 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
@denissegoatcher-avila3113
@denissegoatcher-avila3113 4 жыл бұрын
I love my Grampa's stories! 😍Never looked at them this way like he said, but it makes sense why storytelling builds one's power!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@traceyhtaylor
@traceyhtaylor 5 ай бұрын
I really appreciate how you summarize what you’ve discussed at the end of your videos. Thank you 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Its my pleasure.
@tinishaavay7263
@tinishaavay7263 4 жыл бұрын
You are a God send! 💫 Thank you for walking in your divine purpose.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@Rubiastraify
@Rubiastraify 3 жыл бұрын
I think the key with any of these questions is to weave them in organically into the conversation, and it means you really have to be an active listener - to not only hear what he's saying, but note if something makes him smile or if he starts talking excitedly, etc. These are great types of questions, and don't require a lot of "courage" on the part of us ladies to ask - it can be playful and warm! Mat - did you say you were a lawyer? Ahh...that makes a lot of sense. Because a lawyer knows how to pick up on nuances in what a witness is saying, and can lead them with the questions to "spill the beans", so to speak (if that is the intent). I've seen some lawyers in action, and their strategies to get the truth to come out are intriguing! Your smile and your eyes are so gorgeous they're almost illegal...🧲
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
Whstapp him
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
@suzieburnette1677
@suzieburnette1677 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so lucky I can ask him anything and he’ll answer me with honesty...
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that! ❤❤❤
@lindat1317
@lindat1317 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, Mat! Been sending positive, healing light your way! 🌞
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful thank you my dear!!
@littlecat2222
@littlecat2222 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much !! Wonderful and practical content ! ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@missadug
@missadug 9 ай бұрын
"Baby daddy audition" questions 🤣🤣🤣
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын
Amazing!
@Baquetsartbakery
@Baquetsartbakery 6 ай бұрын
😂
@meditativehypnosis7614
@meditativehypnosis7614 4 жыл бұрын
I just love how positive these questions are! Thank you for all these great out-of-the-box ideas!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@Madamemedusa1986
@Madamemedusa1986 Жыл бұрын
All I have to do is smile at a man to make him melt cuz am the Goddess of Spring
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
That's very sweet!
@jennyverano8417
@jennyverano8417 4 жыл бұрын
Are your eyes even real? 😍
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@cindyharr2670
@cindyharr2670 4 жыл бұрын
contacts
@norcell1001
@norcell1001 4 жыл бұрын
Its real..
@zensvlognotapro
@zensvlognotapro 4 жыл бұрын
hi ! Mat !! omg! i always ask what your biggest fear ? what makes you happy and hows your ultimate dream? How are you now? I see those eyes again❣️🤗🙏
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Be Enthusiastic Be Inspired great questions !!
@gcobisamapongwana6801
@gcobisamapongwana6801 4 жыл бұрын
OMG this guy is killing me....his eyes,soft voice
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Gcobisa Mapongwana. 🙏❤️
@gcobisamapongwana6801
@gcobisamapongwana6801 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer you wlcm darling
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
I am the conductor? That is nice....we can make a good music. I am excited for our album, hehehe.😊Ty looking forward to seeing you for a practice or sort of...😊
@cn2746
@cn2746 4 жыл бұрын
I've never heard of a zombie apocalypse but decided to ask of each man I am good friends with. Kapow!!! These very conservative professional men's eyes lit up and they talked for 10-15 min while I sat still and nodded. They didn't need my input. What fun!! Carol Arizona
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
That's great!
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
But we become speechless when in person...ty.😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- 4 жыл бұрын
Your knowledge has been unique so far on every one of your videos. THANK YOU Matt! 🥳 keep it up! take care & stay dafe during these times in life.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Wendi Watson! 🙏❤️
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
I think he has already meltef without the talk/questions... God has made him..... Ty.😊😴
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
how will one know his answers if he wouldn't say a thing...!??? you expect us to guess what he's thinking!??not fair...🙄🤔I for one disagree.
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
conversation is still the best to getting to know each other.. 😢😳🤣👦👍🏿🐒🍌
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
you sound like a fool tlking to urself..... nonsense 😳🙄🤔👍🏿
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
thanks... adios!!
@maggiewanjiru2807
@maggiewanjiru2807 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Mat, your video is so good. Thank you. Wish I have so much time with my man..he is incredibly playful, makes all sorts of jokes and he is a super story teller, music lover, dancer too, he loves art and I just love all of it. He is my world. I care
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful!!
@zaria5785
@zaria5785 4 жыл бұрын
The interview questions! Loool I have done this purposely only one time because I wanted a guy who was too clingy to be turned off. He couldn’t take no for an answer so I asked like 20 questions and after he answered those then I emailed him another 20 until he just gave up.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 4 жыл бұрын
Sad
@dora1589
@dora1589 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@hoiliswu6070
@hoiliswu6070 4 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite questions best the open telling i love it all possibilities really helpful you are very good best advice.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Hoili Swu beautiful love it!!
@Joannekrill
@Joannekrill 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all you do to educate us. I just finished your Mastery of Connection course and am bummed I I need to wait to join the MOM course. You are a great teacher and will follow you and sign up for your MOM when I can! Take care of you! ❤️❤️
@flowersflowers5070
@flowersflowers5070 4 жыл бұрын
I was just about to ask rhe same thing when i looked down and saw your comment. I could go swimming in those Caribbean eyes.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@paula-elizabeth
@paula-elizabeth 4 жыл бұрын
Thank-you Mat - You explained that really well. 👍🏽 I’ve subscribed to your channel. Another question Carol Allen puts forward to ask a man you’ve been dating for a while is; “I really enjoy spending time with you - how do I get more of that?”! - I’d definitely appreciate being asked that question! You have lovely blue eyes by the way! 😃
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Paula-Elizabeth! 🙏❤️
@paula-elizabeth
@paula-elizabeth 4 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer Awww, No problemo Mat. 👍🏽✨
@raquelt5342
@raquelt5342 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, really love that you did a recap at the end, super helpful! 👌
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@karencloutier3236
@karencloutier3236 2 ай бұрын
Sterling?! That’s hilarious!!! 😂 ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honest feedback. It’s important to hear different perspectives, and I appreciate you sharing yours.
@ruthcrawford3015
@ruthcrawford3015 3 жыл бұрын
Another truly excellent Master Class!. Thank you Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
But we will be able to talk and meet next year.pa....ty.anyway. God will make things possible. 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Nimfa Bangay 🙌🙌🙌
@iCamzie92
@iCamzie92 4 жыл бұрын
This video makes me smile a lot. Idk if its because of the topic or of your great vibes(and ocean eyes). Maybe both ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@falsehoodbasher7240
@falsehoodbasher7240 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer damn dude nice harem!!! ;-)
@stephsux77
@stephsux77 Ай бұрын
Thank you
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Ай бұрын
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@wyethhan7434
@wyethhan7434 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God.. I love listening and learning from you Sir. Thank you very much and now I'm so in love with you ,the way you help us women.. Please do more videos.. I seriously appreciate you Matt❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Wyeth Han! 🙏
@lourdeskraetschmann5209
@lourdeskraetschmann5209 4 жыл бұрын
Thats good Mat. I have someone we are already 4 years best of friends, don't know exactly our status. We are living in a distance but if we're seeing each other, we have got a lot of questions and they are all answered from both of us. Excited what will be the next😍👍. I'm your great followers. Thanks Mat.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤❤❤
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
It is time to rest.....Ty. so much for your efforts. Gnite.😴❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Good night
@tasniah.6453
@tasniah.6453 10 ай бұрын
Thank you! I will try these tips!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын
You're so welcome! 🤗
@meerak4662
@meerak4662 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, these are great questions but when do i ask them? Since he is always to stressed and tired with work. Just can’t find the right moment. Thanks
@falsehoodbasher7240
@falsehoodbasher7240 3 жыл бұрын
Well then don’t bother him lolol Give him praises & thank him ;)
@lexsie_solena
@lexsie_solena 4 жыл бұрын
0:40 I thought I got a text message 😂😳
@scrapdaisy691
@scrapdaisy691 4 жыл бұрын
I did too🤣😂🤣
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😂📱
@conniejay1694
@conniejay1694 4 жыл бұрын
Haha me too!
@foxerrr7864
@foxerrr7864 4 жыл бұрын
LOL same
@keylalenihan4094
@keylalenihan4094 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all your videos !!! Omg so amazing all the information you are sharing!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@TheSuziiiQ
@TheSuziiiQ 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt. Thanks for this! I was wondering about what kind of questions can you ask when a man has told you that he is depressed?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Susána Ramjit how can I support you?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Susána Ramjit you want to make him feel supported and understood and not alone
@TheSuziiiQ
@TheSuziiiQ 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer and any suggestions on wording? I'm shooting in the dark here
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 4 жыл бұрын
Great contrasts throughout May💕
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Kim Gordon! 🙏❤️
@SF-pm1ov
@SF-pm1ov 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Mat! Caught you on Antia’s panel! Great talk! Also... ten days off coffee! Inspired by you!! 💪😁
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Boom!! Now it’s been almost 2 months and I feel so amazing 😍😍
@marilynzviuya4714
@marilynzviuya4714 7 ай бұрын
My gosh your eyes ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 7 ай бұрын
Amazing! ❤
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
But you have to make a call so we could really exchange words ...ok? What do you want me to say or do in our next meeting...when would that be, by the way. Ty.😊💏
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
He has melted a long time ago...ty.😊Hola!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Hello!
@erinf3552
@erinf3552 Жыл бұрын
Just joined your course 💖
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
That's very sweet. Thank you🙏❤️✨
@vanessamartinsdesouza1718
@vanessamartinsdesouza1718 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn t hear you cause the colour of your eyes,initially...I love see the sea in your eyes.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@TheSentinel555
@TheSentinel555 4 жыл бұрын
Finally! A GREAT video!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Hannah Daniel Hedlund woohoo 🤗
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Hannah Daniel Hedlund thanks!
@LD-qo7kf
@LD-qo7kf 4 жыл бұрын
Gosh, I am terrible at forming Questions!!! More work yeah! Haha
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You got this!😀
@rebeccakennedy6752
@rebeccakennedy6752 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent Questions!!! Thank You Matt!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@felicitygrace5113
@felicitygrace5113 3 жыл бұрын
Where do you see yourself in 5 yrs is an interview questions!! 🤪
@elopez198725
@elopez198725 4 жыл бұрын
I love Mat!!!! Such a hunk on all levels. Marry me? 😆
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Aw shucks! 😊
@michellefilby
@michellefilby 4 жыл бұрын
If a guy was more interested in watchingTV than me I'd run away lol
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Run for the hills!
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
He is taken so its up to him ....ty.😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@aishatwaha5967
@aishatwaha5967 4 жыл бұрын
I think you're right
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@Bianca-sw5id
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
Mat 🙂 , does your 🙂 mindset actually ever change from having been a former attorney 🙂 🥰 , you are still helping but you 🙂 are extremely specialised now and there is less paperwork 🙂-? You 🙂🥰 obviously love to share your 🙂 understanding of everything to help women even if it is something we know it is helpful to know how to use it correctly or not use it
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Sometimes
@sarabisue5167
@sarabisue5167 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mat! I'm in a committed relationship with a wonderful man but when I ask him meaningful questions he NEVER asks it back regardless of if it's deep or surface level. He tends to wait for things to uncover themselves, so he doesn't ask anything about me not even "what's wrong?" when I'm visibly upset. He does value my opinion and asks for my input often when making decisions. Question: It would feel good for him to ask about me too, is there any way to activate his curiosity and reciprocity?
@Aritul
@Aritul 4 жыл бұрын
Oh, good question. I'd like to see the answer too.
@keepersjunk9900
@keepersjunk9900 4 жыл бұрын
I am facing the same thing.. Well.. the man I m dating(no doubt is a wonderful guy) spent his life studying and supporting his family. So he is a little inexperienced and often misses out any hint I give him.. I ask him meaningful questions, he answers them. But he doesn't replicate the questions .. rather he asks the wrong sort of questions..
@OctaviaWayne
@OctaviaWayne 4 жыл бұрын
I’m curious because I’m a girl and I can be this way too (letting things uncover themselves lol) tell us how to reciprocate Matt!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry darling. If your feeling unloved or unsatisfied. If your not able to have a serious conversation. The relationship is not "serious" After 6 months. You should know exactly where the relationship is heading. Plans. Marriage. Living together. Buying a home. You know his family. He knows yours. 😉💕
@Username74-b8h
@Username74-b8h 4 жыл бұрын
Fuck! This is why men become drawn to me when I have a conversation with them! because this is my type of talk! Anyway, I love you mat, but it's called FOOTBALL! It's played with feet okay ? Sorry I can't resist myself from this one 😂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
But i dint want him to melt only softened....ty.😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Nimfa Bangay haha!
@LeslieWells
@LeslieWells 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent... I'm hooked for more
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Ty.😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
:):):)
@MEJ48386
@MEJ48386 4 жыл бұрын
Your eyes are gorgeous!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much MaryEllen Jenkinson! 🙏❤️
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Ty for your interest. 😊 i am interested of what story you want to share....
@kp5870
@kp5870 4 жыл бұрын
And what if he doesn’t have much of an answer to some of these questions? Like they say “I don’t know...” 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Amanda-ej4qz
@Amanda-ej4qz 4 жыл бұрын
I agree that's a struggle with some men
@sweetiepie4328
@sweetiepie4328 4 жыл бұрын
Then leave him
@kp5870
@kp5870 4 жыл бұрын
yep, I did it a month ago. He turned out to be a narcissist.
@sarahmsuya5416
@sarahmsuya5416 3 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Can you cover more about open minded questions . It will be so good
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Great suggestion!
@itsaenn
@itsaenn 4 жыл бұрын
Tysm ❤️❤️for this wonderful video 🥰🥰
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@fantasya3970
@fantasya3970 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mat, I see your hair is back to normal :)) great video. I hit the bell notification but getting none, any idea why?
@jacquieowens7467
@jacquieowens7467 2 жыл бұрын
Your eyes 🤩
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
That's very sweet.
@CaffeinatedTigress
@CaffeinatedTigress Жыл бұрын
After 4 years from my husband's passing... when I think maybe I should put a toe in the water... I realize I just can't do it. I am not cut out for the dating scene. I think I have a better chance at finding a reputable necromancer at this point.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality!
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Its been built.... Ty.😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
@Michelle-ke7me
@Michelle-ke7me 4 жыл бұрын
Draw a woman closer,.... have beautiful, clear, soft eyes. 🤗🤗😁+😍
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You're makin' me blush!
@Michelle-ke7me
@Michelle-ke7me 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer 😃🤭🤗🤗😁
@konfettibaby9676
@konfettibaby9676 4 жыл бұрын
I really like the intro btw :)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Konfetti, Baby! Yay so glad!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Konfetti, Baby! Appreciate it!
@imabeachandsoyouare2794
@imabeachandsoyouare2794 4 жыл бұрын
Ur eyes are mesmerising!
@MizAlexandria
@MizAlexandria 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, your eyes are incredible. Its looks like the Exuma waters in the Bahamas.
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
Whstapp him
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Tell me, how are you these days.? Not really fearful of covid anymore compared to the past days? I am happy if you are. I could always pray again for you....ty. 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words
@areejkhan5751
@areejkhan5751 3 жыл бұрын
His eyes 😍
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Ty.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@ngaihlian618
@ngaihlian618 4 жыл бұрын
I ask aquation to him the book we read togather and he say he will give the answer so you wait he told me than it been one week take to answers me, i need to remind him or still wait for him to text me.we are distance. 🙊???
@momentsformoms9467
@momentsformoms9467 4 жыл бұрын
You asked him about a book you read together? Maybe he doesn’t have an answer or forgot. I would just keep moving forward and let it go.
@alexisgentry7851
@alexisgentry7851 2 ай бұрын
Hey Mat, I gotta know your opinion about whether or not to let a man you take seriously about escorting occasionally even if it does not affect current relationship? Or do you think it could do more damaging? :(
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality.
@ladylibra573
@ladylibra573 4 жыл бұрын
I tried this and now he won't talk to me. He traded me for liars and someone older who loves drama. I want someone who only wants to be into me
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Not all men are like that Lady Libra - I promise!
@ferielabd9513
@ferielabd9513 4 жыл бұрын
Hi,I hope you're doing well🙌
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗❤️❤️🙏 I am!
@rosemarycalogero7017
@rosemarycalogero7017 4 жыл бұрын
You are awesome ♥️💋
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Rosemary Calogero! 🙏❤️
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Ty😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
🤗
@paigewyatt502
@paigewyatt502 3 жыл бұрын
Hello, Mat! I was wondering what your opinion is on dating coworkers? I've been growing close to a man that I work with, and I have a feeling he might like me as well, but we work together, and so I'm not sure if pursuing a relationship with him is a good idea. What are your thoughts on this?
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
Whstapp him
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Go for it! :)
@carolinadocarmo3783
@carolinadocarmo3783 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt! I’m trying g to find the video where you address the “will you” statements but cannot find it. Will you help me?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын
Happy to help!
@bu4459
@bu4459 4 жыл бұрын
Love your style, thanks for the content share, and you look like you are feeling better. Scrub that boston on the head , lil cutie.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Will do!
@denissegoatcher-avila3113
@denissegoatcher-avila3113 4 жыл бұрын
Women are from Venus, men are from Mars. Relationships are so much work! 😥
@Michelle-ke7me
@Michelle-ke7me 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, we are different, however different can be fun. Life is work, we enjoy some days and figure out the hard days just like relationships.
@AuriArun
@AuriArun Жыл бұрын
Thank you... How does one deal with younger to you and not get that Sugar Daddy trigger..because for me that is at times feeling to avoid commitment
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
Its true... Dangerous! Hahaha.😀but ty. Its fun. 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
So fun!
@juanitaisenhart4862
@juanitaisenhart4862 3 жыл бұрын
I am 70 years old and I have a man that's in his 40s we've not met but we sound serious to me it sounds serious what do you think it's a long distance relationship
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
@mannimafi1222
@mannimafi1222 3 жыл бұрын
Whstapp him
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын
Don’t give up on love sister!
@nimfabangay7318
@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын
What I wonder would you say, do to me when we next meet? I have a feeling that this August , you will resurface because you want to see me....ty.😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment!
@QuangNguyen-dw9je
@QuangNguyen-dw9je 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mat, seems like you really know what you're talking about. Do these questions apply for gay men too? I'm not the expert and not sure if you are in this specific area but thought I would ask your opinion
@LeafsIn2024
@LeafsIn2024 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, this was great! People say I have big blue eyes but, WOW!!!, yours look incredible in this video especially! New lifestyle/diet is doing you good! My daughter who prefers "gingers" raised her eyebrows and agreed (that's no easy feat, let me tell ya!). And, we both laughed at the impromptu soccer clip. That was a clever touch! Happy Friday and have a fabulous weekend! Stay safe.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Amanda TML23! 🙏❤️
@LeafsIn2024
@LeafsIn2024 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer The privilege is all mine, Mat! You're a prodigy!! Good night and God bless you and your four-legged family. ✨🇨🇦
@pamiewatkins7354
@pamiewatkins7354 4 жыл бұрын
There are things and I'm not open to like vulnerability I think I need to study the word just sounds like someone could attack you if you're vulnerable are you be seen as weak like your boundaries a beat down and someone could see that you're hurt or something or then something's wrong and why you're not vulnerable keep up your guard not let it down and get surround systems with all these teaching tapes videos always in your mind so you can do things because you forget about how to do it cuz you're mine won't recall with KZfaq beautiful tapes or videos I mean maybe I don't see him as being vulnerable I keep keeps things to himself I don't know if he has his guard up also that we're Fighters sometimes all these old songs keep coming to me all day love songs anyhow I hope to be well and herbal and to share things about myself that I wouldn't share with anyone but him and knowing that he loves me that he would accept me that way is that vulnerability and then for him to be vulnerable put down all my years of frustration and saying that because him and his mother's relationship I found out that he really wanted to protect his mom and his sister you really keeps me up not on a pedestal but he holds me in high esteem I should trust in these things I've been closed up so long and afraid because of the past but let's move on from you
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