5 Scientific Ways to Become More Attractive to Men | Relationship Advice by for Women by Mat Boggs

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@matboggs Жыл бұрын

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@norahmurdaa4542 5 жыл бұрын

1- Laughter (Recieve his jokes) 2- Smiling (Smile at them) 3- Honesty (Demonstrate honesty by communicating exactly what you want) 4- Wear Red (It increases their desire) 5- Mirroring and Matching (Imitate his body expressions) You're welcome

@iknowwhatsup2880 4 жыл бұрын

The whole mirroring thing...🤔

@eiilyk888 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@princesslacson6291 4 жыл бұрын

i am finding a comment like this. thanks

@tintinpenaredondo6531 4 жыл бұрын

Narah Murdaa thanks u 😂

@glorymuch6704 4 жыл бұрын

like it big up.Matt Boggs u er star

@jerushadowdy7094 7 жыл бұрын

It dosnt matter what u do. Sometimes the person just isn't into you. Just remember not to lose yourself along the way! 😊

@joanstevens-yates7756 5 жыл бұрын

Heeey

@laraswitamori9545 4 жыл бұрын

True.. I did all of those things + made him feel wanted and special most time, still he left lol 😂😂😂

@divinecommerce3912 4 жыл бұрын

Jerusha Dowdy great advice especially for recovering codependents 💕

@Iamhadorable 3 жыл бұрын

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@kelleysciarrino8024 6 жыл бұрын

Any man who shows kindness to everyone ,a waiter,bartender,other people not of same size race or color.That is what I find attractive.A truely kind man.

@75Cee Жыл бұрын

So so true.

@LoveLostization 7 жыл бұрын

I like when a man gets excited about something he is talking about or really passionate about. The over excitement is cute and attractive 😊

@fuzzydogpa7348 7 жыл бұрын

I like when a guy positions himself around me in ways that shows he is protective of me. Like when they walk on the traffic side of the sidewalk or he puts his hand on my waist and sorta shields my body in a crowd of people and helps guide me through it, especially when he is much bigger than me. I like when a man is protective of me and makes me feel safe and provided for. That's sexy.

@corgisrule21 4 жыл бұрын

fuzzydog pa exactly. I hadn’t seen this guy since March (but I’ve crushed on him since my freshman year of college in 2000 lol). We’re friends, but it never went anywhere, sadly. Well, this last weekend we happened to see each other at an outdoor festival and for some (happy) reason, he lifted me up in a “hello lover” sort of way and spent most of the rest of the day/evening with his arm either around my shoulders or on the waist/small of my back area. He’s a tall guy, too, so I got more vibes and feelings of safety/intimacy just in those actions than I’ve had with most sexual encounters😂 My love language truly is touch, but in the non-sexual way. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex, but on a normal, daily basis, hugging and touching are soooooo my vibe. ❤️

@lesliekauble4701 4 жыл бұрын

Im.... so a dude then!! I do that all!!

@atomicplaygirl66 4 жыл бұрын

YES×1000!!! That is the best feeling ever knowing a man is protective of you.

@ritabrandow1318 4 жыл бұрын

I am in a relationship with a man that does that and I found out he can also be a total jerk

@iknowwhatsup2880 4 жыл бұрын

Yep!

@sarahnorment 6 жыл бұрын

I'm attracted to men who are total gentlemen....not just as an act during the first few dates, but the real deal. 💜

@Mariajbh2 5 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@laurapiovan 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah me to. But where are they? Maybe I am on the wrong planet?

@kalaccount4918 5 жыл бұрын

I’m 38 and just met a real gentleman for the first time in my life. I got simple flowers on the go

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 4 жыл бұрын

That doesn't mean they are good men or not hiding wife beating tendencies. Trust me.

@perfectlyyoubeauty 4 жыл бұрын

Everyone brings their representative the first few months of dating. Even women. Think about how you’re always in a good mood when you see him.. he doesn’t see you when you’re frustrated at work or stressed over mess at the house or doing homework with the kids. It takes time to really get to know someone in all types of situations.

@kenann279 5 жыл бұрын

Attractive Men are those: who listen deeply and empathize Men who have good hygiene/grooming Men who have a sense of purpose/drive Men who take the lead to plan Men who are honest and transparent Men who are kind and ethical

@niag9950 Жыл бұрын

And none of them want to settle down with one woman. This man you describe is exactly what We are ALL looking for. If this unicorn exists he isn’t gonna be satisfied with one woman the rest Of his life. He may pretend, he may for a while (start a family), but eventually he will want someone else. While married, or want a divorce. Because Nobody stays satisfied in this disposable swipe lifestyle. I’m tired of advice when the pool of men out there is just looking for someone that night. Or for that holiday, wedding… not for the long term in the trenches … I’ll love you at your worst and stick by you for life, as you are aging and young girls want me for my money!

@GOJOistheBESTuRAT Жыл бұрын

Yes

@katasandberg8110 Жыл бұрын

kind & ethical is huge.....

@TheLauraMarieT2 7 жыл бұрын

I like guys that are humble. To me that is a true marker of confidence. 🔥

@heidiheidi0 7 жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank you for saying this. It's underrated.

@missnaomiivy 7 жыл бұрын

Definitely the most attractive quality!

@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын

Indeed. That took me a while to learn. Humility but confidence.

@tonzowall9210 7 жыл бұрын

Aquarian Christianity: Modest too! Don't forget the word indeed belongs in the last century though.😀

@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын

Really, sir/madame? Okay. Humility?

@jjerrett5068 6 жыл бұрын

I love when a man simply listens instead of wanted to "fix" things. Sometimes just listening is enough.

@saraifascinetto5437 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you.

@deborahb3501 4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love it when a man acts like a gentleman & holds a door open for me. I always say thank you. It may surprise you how many men out there don't take the time to show this courtesy.

@laurieroth4589 6 жыл бұрын

a gentleman, opens the door, listens to you without interrupting or glancing at the TV, talks kindly about you in front of others, holds your hand, plans a date a few days out and stays connected throughout the day...

@Mariajbh2 5 жыл бұрын

Thats all women want!!

@michaelatorn8380 5 жыл бұрын

Men want that too

@crystalmorrison1539 3 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@MJ-lm6em 7 жыл бұрын

I really admire men who are direct but not in a rude way, honest, humble, vulnerable and have COURAGE to communicate what they want in a confident way without being cocky.

@missyl3119 6 жыл бұрын

Men initiating conversations are the best..... showing interest....

@christinepenacerrada6060 5 жыл бұрын

I belive this

@ronnieg3398 2 жыл бұрын

Me too x when someone actually does something and starts chatting first when u don't expect it.

@arlinejernigan 6 жыл бұрын

I love when a guy makes me laugh, when they are easy to talk to, when they are physically active, affectionate, engaged in life, have integrity, who match their ideals with their actions, who think outside the box, have strong sexual energy, who follow through. I would love to experience that. I am willing to mirror that behavior.

@Mariajbh2 5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@mamalovesmunchkin648 4 жыл бұрын

My 2 favorite qualities about my husband are that he is a family man and that he has a great sense of humor. We met when we were both 16 and the way he was very involved in the lives of his much younger siblings made me realize what an excellent father he would be - the opposite of my childhood (workaholic parents with no interest in their children). 15 years since we met, 10 years of marriage and 4 children of our own later - there is plenty of love and laughter in our precious family. We each think we’re the lucky one.

@carmensolis8544 8 ай бұрын

Awwwwwe 🥰 that's so awesome ❤ u r both lucky ☺️ i want tht type of love sumday 😏

@AniaBumba 7 жыл бұрын

Chivalry must be one of the most atteactive things in a man. Great video, thanks for sharing.

@Elkraiden 6 жыл бұрын

I like it when a guy has a big personality, and is super fun flirty with me but not in a gross manipulating way. I love sarcasm and trust.. still respect when a guy is a gentleman and can be open with me. A guy who listens and remembers

@shivanisharma4983 7 жыл бұрын

Okay, so basically wear red and laugh a lot ;) kinda like santa claus? :P

@mist__4974 6 жыл бұрын

shivani sharma Ha ha!

@UmmansamirasChild 6 жыл бұрын

shivani sharma Hoh! Ho! Hoooo.. 👺

@angelinagal8453 6 жыл бұрын

shivani sharma lol

@poorvasharma116 6 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@danasalter8186 6 жыл бұрын

shivani sharma Lol

@kristine6996 7 жыл бұрын

Being galant to a lady, having a good hygiene, helping out, having humour, be sincere..

@sarajohansson7461 7 жыл бұрын

i love guys who are humble and show that they really care about things. i also like when they give me the feeling of beeing protected

@alinavoron5659 7 жыл бұрын

Ability to make decisions, taking charge of situations! I find it extremely sexy when a man is decisive and actually sticks to his choices. I guess it all boils down to being confident.

@sarahleach9997 7 жыл бұрын

my husband is the funniest man on the planet.he makes everybody around him laugh.30 years of so much laughter.thanks gorgeous the info.its great.love it.😊😊😊😊

@SimGTAandCOD 7 жыл бұрын

Sarah Leach sounds like a keeper

@sfoster4874 7 жыл бұрын

I find it attractive when he strongly and confidently initiates high level of banter and chatter between us. And when he tells me a funny story or two.

@itsadate10 6 жыл бұрын

I love to banter, i love this one guy for that but not totally attracted to him, but my man now doesnt like to banter he considers it mocking..but hes very chivalris, caring, hardworking, empathetic and so car we are working..and hes begining to cut up with me..so we are movin slow and gettin to know more about each other and im in my 50s...

@morgannathan4142 4 жыл бұрын

I like guys who show respect for others and are actively passionate. Overall, I like it when guys show interest💕

@gypsybelle4757 6 жыл бұрын

Guys that show kindness to others. Especially in situations where it has no direct benefit to them. It’s easy to be kind when it feels you will get something in return. How you treat others when you won’t receive any reward is truly telling.

@nissamelton8597 7 жыл бұрын

Confidence is the #1 attractive quality in another person

@ELISSASMITH472 6 жыл бұрын

Hygiene. Man who smell and care about your first inspiration. Hair nicely trimmed around ears and back of neck. Clean hands and nails trimmed nails. Clothes not wrinkled and tidy. Looking like they made an effort to think that you were worth the effort to spend extra time to press .Shoes nice and go with they’re outfit. Last and most important there nice pick of cologne to compliment their look. Not overwhelming. But just enough that when he moves around you, you can get a whiff of some of life’s greatest aphrodisiac!

@Mariajbh2 5 жыл бұрын

A clean men it's really attractive to women. Who wears clean

@jessyjonas4988 7 жыл бұрын

Yes humility is attractive 😁. Also kindness.A man that looks out for and seeks to include others who perhaps otherwise would tend to be overlooked 😇

@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын

I don't like "overlooking," i.e., ignoring people, making them seem unimportant: That's Rude!

@jessyjonas4988 7 жыл бұрын

Aquarian Christianity that is quite admirable. The little things will always set you apart as a priceless gem. As you continue to abide in Christ, the fruits of the Spifit will be manifested, giving you authenticity. Faith is very attractive😇

@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын

jessy jonas Thank you, ma'am. Got faith.

@SuperSetoile 7 жыл бұрын

I like taller and broader guys. Those who smiles easily but not in a weird way. The one with whom i can get constructive debates with. The one that just have that positive aura which makes you feel comfortable in any situation.

@lorigardner5380 7 жыл бұрын

I'm attracted to guys that are more humble and hard working, guys who do not act like the world owes them everything and who seem they are so proud that I just absolutely have to love them or else something is wrong with me

@marialaganson3091 3 жыл бұрын

I’m attracted to men who are smart and confident , kind, someone who is responsible ,funny , and shows respect ..and who has leadership skill..

@NewYorkNadia 5 жыл бұрын

Kindness! A man who is genuinely kind and attentive on a date gets my attention. Kindness is so rare today that finding it in a person is like striking gold. Thanks for another great video, Matt!

@s.carmen 7 жыл бұрын

we like honesty too.

@LaughingblueSu 5 жыл бұрын

S. Carmen but honesty in men is like trying to find a unicorn

@Andrea-sl8wd 5 жыл бұрын

More than confidence.

@kalaccount4918 5 жыл бұрын

#1 emotionally: be responsive, attentive & emotionally available. #1 socially: you cannot be too respectful of others. Go overboard with respecting others... holding the door for an older couple etc. Talking positively about someone whenever possible. Do it all the time when I’m not around and it will be authentic and I’ll hear about how great you are. #1 physically: not in an obvious way just how you would in your office alone... show defined forearm (roll up long sleeves on a dress shirt while in public so I can’t touch). Forearms are my favorite physical attraction on any man, a little muscular but not too veiny. Only if in a relationship talk softly and dirty while in public- not too early on. Keep it simple at one sentence.

@ahr76at 7 жыл бұрын

Attractiveness has many aspects but mainly is based on physical appearnce most of the times...but the best tactic to be attractive to others is to be yourself which is very important, not what other think you should be act behave, have lots of positive energy, laugh, enjoy life and show you are an independent, confident, social and caring person a person someone can rely on... and I totally agree red is the colour!

@joytotheworldddd 7 жыл бұрын

agree with the physical appearance at first, but however personality is what really attract the person to me. notice how at the end of your sentences are all about personalities too? :)

@Victoriagenix 2 жыл бұрын

Your explanation of honesty is exactly what i did to get my fiancé although at that time I didn’t know this theory. So i met my fiance on tinder, we met, on our first date, I told him that i wanted a serious relationship he responded cold. However, after the date, i thank him for dinner which he paid for, i told him that i like him and i felt like kissing him. He was stunned and later admitted to me that at that moment, he admired my confidence, for him, im the woman who knows what I want and not scared to speak up my mind honestly. He just admired me and then deleted all his online dating app 😁 We engaged 7 months later.

@carojames6776 2 жыл бұрын

Happy days, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!

@dianneciresi7208 Жыл бұрын

How do u know he deleted all his on dating apps? Did he do it in front of u so u could see it? Some men are deceivers & players. . Have to be cautious. Many men can't be trusted..

@siobanethier 6 жыл бұрын

When an attractive guy acts like he has no idea he's attractive. When a guy is a gentleman. When a guy DOES NOT bring up sex at all in any way, leaves it up to the woman (because she would be risking more). When a guy is not afraid to be vulnerable, let his feelings show. When a guy pulls the protective vibe for the woman he's with. When a guy is Jamie Fraser in Outlander, except for the spanking scene. Everything he does with regards to Claire, apart from that scene, and certain words he says during the fight at the river. When he puts his hand out for her to take. When he kisses her forehead. It would be SOOOO damn easy for guys to be a lot better but they don't even want to try.

@richym3899 5 жыл бұрын

Because you ask for all that in exchange for what exactly? I'm genuinely curious as to what a man of this caliber recieves in exchange

@tinacook4906 5 жыл бұрын

@@richym3899 All of me and more because I know the kind of woman I am, and what he'll be getting and that's a fact.

@MultiJudgmentdragon 5 жыл бұрын

Think I will pass and stick to the handjobs, its so much simpler and less drama and time consuming ahahahah

@tinacook4906 5 жыл бұрын

@@MultiJudgmentdragon oh no, such a shame. And i bet you have a lot to offer.

@hayleebennett6596 5 жыл бұрын

You are talking about 10% of men that are already taken. The rest are shit lol.

@beverlybruton2271 Жыл бұрын

I like a man who looks strong and clean cut but is also gentle towards me. That makes me feel like he really cares for me. Also, somebody who seems to pay attention to me. I recently went for a walk with a gentleman that I had just met, and he paid attention to my breathing, slowed down without me realizing it. He was looking out for me and I didn’t even know it during the walk I noticed that he did something equally as nice to somebody behind me or us and I just thought it was very nice. His thoughtfulness really impressed me.

@BellaBiljana 7 жыл бұрын

A man who publicly stands up for me and protects my heart has the ability to win my heart. The strong silent type is whom I'm attracted to. Big mouth guys are just that... empty and shallow.

@Crystal107 5 жыл бұрын

How is someone who speaks their mind empty and shallow? Wouldn't you say a silent one who doesn't express themselves more empty and shallow?

@iknowwhatsup2880 4 жыл бұрын

Bragging is boring.

@13DarkMelody 4 жыл бұрын

Loud obnoxious dudes are so gross.

@MsSusy22 7 жыл бұрын

confidence and taking charge or certain situations

@kimkeiko2725 6 жыл бұрын

This is so awesome that pretty much my whole life I have done the first three. I always told people many men find me attractive just based on my positivity and me just being myself (which includes brutal honesty) now I will add matching and mirroring and more red to my daily routine. Thank you so much for this video!

@Kdedman67 2 жыл бұрын

True confidence! Not egotistical. Not fake it till you make it. True confidence. From ordering a cocktail for you that he knows you love, to being confident enough to ask what you “like.”

@donnahannaford6840 7 жыл бұрын

I watch the way men walk, a bloke who walks with confidence etc is bit more attractive than slow hunched over joe.

@LaughingblueSu 5 жыл бұрын

Donna Hannaford one problem with that. The guys that strut can be playrs

@gemmalindridge4232 7 жыл бұрын

I find when a man smiles is very attractive. I like when a man laughs very very attractive.

@carolwangeshi9506 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the smile is not nice🙄red gums😂😂😂😂

@ceecee8757 4 жыл бұрын

@@carolwangeshi9506 #eddiemurphy 🤣🤣🤣

@user-xl1ou7oe2g 6 жыл бұрын

Laughter, smiling, honesty (confidence) and color of red and mirroring and matching 😉💗

@JenniferAyoub 5 жыл бұрын

Honest, humble, kind confident understanding compassion- these are some of the qualities I look for in a partner. Also, a man who is a gentleman and who has a passion in life.

@catherinedobbs1827 5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate it when a guy is a good listener and takes an interest in me by asking personal questions.

@julieoliphant1615 7 жыл бұрын

I'm attracted to men who are friendly and smile a lot.

@bananashake2163 5 жыл бұрын

I like a guy who have utmost respect and love for his parents and siblings.

@kklatour4 5 жыл бұрын

A man that gives you a wonderful smile when looking at you.

@bsh9291 6 жыл бұрын

how did such a young man as yourself become so wise? I sure wish this kind of info had been available to me when I was young! These matters of the heart do not go away with time. Rather, we care even more as time goes by. Thank you for being so bold as to publish your insights into our hearts and minds. Afterall, its not over until its over! TY! (wish me luck ☺).

@squishiette 7 жыл бұрын

I love all these videos. Luckily i already have a really great guy and don't need to use any of these but i do find that keeping myself in check to make sure i'm not doing anything unattractive helps build on the relationship. I think when i notice my partner being patient with me when he is tired or annoyed is a good trait, also when they go out of their way to do something nice. Also when a really confident guy shows a bit of insecurity, i just want to jump in there and take care of them and tell them everything is going to be ok! lol I think the most attractive trait in a guy or even girl is when they have their life together because it shows who they are as a person i think.

@anafernandez9536 7 жыл бұрын

being positive all the time also attracts men!!!!

@user-zw4wb1bu1r 4 жыл бұрын

I get attracted to guys who give compliments, feel confident around me and ask about my wishes a lot. I also really appreciate guys who are able to combine being themselves and being attentive to me at the same time

@danasalter8186 6 жыл бұрын

I like it when a man has a true love for God first before me. Along with that, gentle, humble,caring, and to give himself for me, so other than that I love attention. I also love to expect the unexpected. For example, just say "Where would you like to go eat out tonight?" I wasn't expecting that, and it's a great great turn on I love it!!!!! Or just something small like "Come on honey, hop in the car"!!!!! and we just ride around the town.

@kimstevens5513 7 жыл бұрын

Loved this video a lot more than I thought I would! Really appreciate the scientific studies you based the video off of! So cool!! Thanks, Matt!

@GypsyRock 5 жыл бұрын

I like men who do what they say they’re gonna do. I like men who initiate, plan a date, tell me where we’re going. I like chivalry. I like an arm around me. And if we get to that point I like sleeping in his arms. 🤷‍♀️current guy is good at this ;)

@laylabug39 4 жыл бұрын

A man who is protective, confident and stable. He is dominant but not afraid of showing his emotions.

@hmmmph3578 7 жыл бұрын

I love funny men. It shows me they're intelligent as well as fun and that's sexy.

@reneenand8408 6 жыл бұрын

Nice video Matt. Recently I was so attracted to a colleague at work who was sooo superior and highly educated than I am. He was recently divorced and was available for relationship. We both were soooo attracted to each other that I could actually feel it. I would dodge him if I saw him coming my way, I became a nervous wreck. ☹️. Wish I saw this video earlier so to understand his action towards me.

@rigtjeh 7 жыл бұрын

It's really attractive when a guy is: honest, caring, humble, himself in different contexts. Meaning: whether he there's a group of friends over or it's just the two of you, he doesn't change all of the sudden. Now, of course, everyone acts a little different in different contexts and that's fine. That's not what I'm referring to. What I'm referring to is that you'll know it's him and he won't act completely different.

@mariagoergen4064 3 жыл бұрын

1. Laughter 2. Smiling vs. Not smiling 3. Honesty 4. Color (wear red) 5. Mirroring and Matching

@rdsparrowriter 4 жыл бұрын

Showing respect irrespective of the age of a person, smiling with sparkly glittery eyes, kindness, humility, honesty and great sense of humour without insulting or mocking others :)

@margaretelucas2636 7 жыл бұрын

Mathew thanks for your videos ... I start follow you almost a week and I'm absolutely happy.. thanks for share all your knowledge . God bless you from Portugal 🇵🇹

@Sara-xb8ql 7 жыл бұрын

my boyfriend will become single in an hour and he doesnt know yet #prayforhim

@sukib.3412 7 жыл бұрын

Mara Djordjevic why is this so funny 😂

@Sara-xb8ql 7 жыл бұрын

Sukkhmani Batth lol i broke up with him but he still not single . cheating piece of shit

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li 6 жыл бұрын

Mara Djordjevic Lmaaao...This got me like pikachuuuu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ritaasuncion205 6 жыл бұрын

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@richym3899 5 жыл бұрын

@@Sara-xb8ql lmao god bless him

@anyadarlingg 4 жыл бұрын

I love when a guy can be completely authentic w you right away. I went on a date w someone and he was telling me that his car was kinda messy before we made plans to hang out. He said the same about his room but it's like he was excited to let me know that he was looking forward to seeing me and he put effort into impressing me.

@dianneciresi7208 Жыл бұрын

I tried being authentic, vulnerable, they lost interest when they found out things that didn't resonate with them like my kind of lifestyle, being prejudice cause I have mixed color in my family, or one that didn't want to have any family & kids around, other one when they found out I lived with my daughter & wondered why I didn't have my s--t together at my golden age.

@lanadellhatestheclock3325 Жыл бұрын

In the US we live in a very tough society. Sorry for your experience. But, dust off and keep going.

@szee8588 6 жыл бұрын

The problem is, most people are not as smart as they used to be (really, the fluoride), so the jokes are not witty nor funny. Sometimes men don't realize that they are making the joke at your expense instead of making you laugh WITH them. I can only do so many courtesy laughs before I feel like I want to vomit. I'm not meeting too many intelligent men.

@summermurphy69 7 жыл бұрын

thanks for the video! I have to agree with everyone, a humble nature is extremely alluring and provides a slow reveal of who someone is. Also a great communicator, listening and speaking, is a great sign. no 'wait to talkers', ew!

@bonnieyam6565 6 жыл бұрын

I like guys who are intelligent, logical, listen well, but can be playful and challenging at the same time. I don’t need constant attention, but I expect them to remember everything that I say and show care and understanding at the right time.

@MatthewCoast 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!

@melissawalker3265 Жыл бұрын

I really like hearing him tell me details about things he knows. Not bragging but talking to me about things he knows and finds interesting

@martyna2371 7 жыл бұрын

Matt, I like you so much. You're so natural! It's so inspiring.

@sumartinez811 7 жыл бұрын

i like when a guys ask about my day and ask me questions on the first date. ps i love your videos🙌👌😉

@legendliz 6 жыл бұрын

i adore confident yet humble men who use humour daily, i love to laugh. laughter is important to me

@sehrish_sajjad 3 жыл бұрын

What traits men find attractive in women. Finding Opportunity in every challenge. Turning gaint mountain. problems into tiny pebbles. Passion about ur goals. Playfulness in every small thing in life. Full of positive energy. Certainty in what you want. It shows confidence. Don't give lukewarm response instead show ur interests if u r interested and just say no if u aren't. Versatility is ur ability to adapt n grow in new areas. Get interested in what he's interested in. You enter in his world. Sense of humor. Laughter at his jokes. Smiling at him. Honesty by communicating exactly what you want. Wear red increases sexual desire. Mirroring and matching by imitating his body expressions.

@misskathy4931 6 жыл бұрын

I love when he picks me up, or wraps his arm around me and pulls me close, or wrestles with me and pins me down ( makes me laugh so hard). So yeah, I notice biceps on men. Good stuff

@carmenmichaelian8307 5 жыл бұрын

I enjoy when my date is asking me questions about me. Being aware of my being there.

@podersa241 5 жыл бұрын

I love when I am telling a story and he gets equally excited or if she tells the story and he gets excited so do I.

@TheSeji 3 жыл бұрын

Men are my favorite people! I love everything about them. Thank you, Matthew, for making my life so much better. Applying what you teach has changed my life completely.

@akibatuissah5582 7 жыл бұрын

guys love the way I am and am Happy when I can connect to them in all ways.😘

@rstarsflow 7 жыл бұрын

lol,...My Husband says I am too Honest!! That is Funny....I am Smiling and laughing too much and therefore am rarely taken seriously,...I am a confident person. and I am approached all the time!! so I am not changing anything!!❤😄

@giannarivera6608 6 жыл бұрын

Robin Busse just shut up 😊

@viwikiwi5541 6 жыл бұрын

Gianna Rivera oof

@gitanjalisirwal5684 5 жыл бұрын

Robin Busse you need to change your husband then

@HeesunAndesBusinessCoach Ай бұрын

The most attractive thing a man can do is be honorable, kind, and exude masculine energy. That makes me melt every time.

@patriceryan1835 7 жыл бұрын

I like persistence. I tend to say no a lot if I am unsure. Gives time to reconsider. I also like firmness

@natashapratt8466 6 жыл бұрын

Physically, Im attracted to jaw lines, and consideration and consciousness/awareness for others around them.

@jennie20able 6 жыл бұрын

Humble, honesty, trust confidence, humor: I also find it very! very! attractive when a man has it in for her has eyes and only eyes for her ;) A one women man

@strictlystarlight 7 жыл бұрын

I like guys who are naturally positive with good energy.I.e smiling, ask how you are etc and good manners. Thanks for posting video

@kamiladonald8471 3 жыл бұрын

A man who acts according to what he says he will do This shows me I can trust him through seeing he is confirming through his actions what he initially said he would do. A man of his word and action is extremely attractive and forms the initial foundation of trust.

@rrredone1 6 жыл бұрын

I find a man attractive that likes himself... and has achieved success in his career... I FIND A... FAMILY MAN... that takes care of his children... attractive... and takes care of me... PLAYFUL... FUN... TAKES CHARGE... I like my boyfriend now... that just say... do what I say... I kind of like that. He is not being mean... he gave me money... and I said... you don't have to do that... he said... DO WHAT I SAY... I LOVE IT... especially when I am told to take his money... THANKS MAT... LOVE YOU MAN...

@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын

Great, as usual, Mr. Mat! I do all these things except wearing red. I'm a man. A little red is okay, but I can't pull it off often. My woman, my fiancee, doesn't wear red much either. I find her attractive. I do videos on KZfaq, and I was trying to follow someone's advice to appear better in them. Someone criticized. I think whatever you do it has to come from you...has to be natural. God bless all the women here, and you too.

@kellyjennine3747 5 жыл бұрын

I take really great care of myself & I appreciate men who take care of themselves. Its super attractive

@Kathleenherd488 2 жыл бұрын

It’s amazing how much work you suggest instead of just being yourself.

@gssh632 7 жыл бұрын

i'm really attracted to my man who can totally be mysterious and serious against the ppl 😍 but super honest and funny with me 🙈💏💕💍

@TheArtemis07 6 жыл бұрын

I love creativity and thoughtfulness. When a man takes the time to create experiences that are beyond the cliched dinner and a movie date night, I find that highly attractive. Or when he does something thoughtful “just because.” It doesn’t have to be expensive-but it needs to be unexpected.

@emilyirvineartist 5 жыл бұрын

Lives in integrity and can stand up to me in a good way when I need it, is strong enough to call me out when I am not being good to myself or if is fosters growth even when is sometimes hard to hear. When it's from a place of love.

@marshaonnestee9447 5 жыл бұрын

I love it when men listen intently and pay a lot of attention to me, to show that I am interesting.

@shakingbirdart 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video! I'd love some more information like this! Something I find outrageously attractive in men is a genuine apology. And no, not just an "I'm sorry." I mean real, un-fakable contrition! It shows humility, compassion, the ability to learn and a will to rise above and do the right thing.

@eftsoulpath333 7 жыл бұрын

I love it when a man shares the 'stage' and asks me about how I'm doing. Biggest turn off ever is a man (or anyone) monopolizing the conversation....

@juliekoski301 5 жыл бұрын

I really like when a guy searches my eyes out with his and holds the eye contact. It show me he is intellectually engaging with me, that he respects my opinion or wants to hear in earnest what I have to say. It also helps me see a little into him. It makes him seem open, vulnerable, honest AND confident it can also aid in making me feel safe. Direct eye contact (if pleasant) is important in business transactions, unassuming socializing, attraction or in close intimate settings. Eye contact makes a man very attractive or in some cases less attractive if they are not acting with good intentions. I also like to be given appropriate and insightful compliments, you know, ones that says they see me and they are paying attention to life around them. This makes me feel like they value quality of life and are a positive support of what enriches life. I like when a guy knows how to appropriately touch: proper physical guidance with hands, a stabilizing touch or maybe a non invasive comforting couple fingers at rest on my forearm while talking. Also, that a guy might ask for me give them my hand to unassumingly touch while talking. A man that can ask permission to any part of me in a delightful and respectful way thats perhaps creative too. Communication. Also, I like for clear signs of intention ( whatever it is). And in this respect if his intentions are in me for something more intimate then don't go looking at other women around or talking about attraction to ex's or conquests, stay focused with me.