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@cupidscorner48342 жыл бұрын
Being positive and happy all the time is what keep my suitors coming back. No drama and if I have issues going on I never tell them since I am not in a relationship with them. Also I never act needy. If they don't text or forget I just relax and let them do them. I learned that giving them freedom to choose is the best way to know if they are really interested. When a man really wants to be with you. He'll make it happen even when you are not sleeping with him. I date without sex at all. I date the old fashion way. Now I have 3 men who stays in the zone trying to win my heart. Why, because women should learn to love themselves enough that no man is needed to make them happy. Be fulfilled with your own life and he will want to be a part of your world.
@tansmith1917 Жыл бұрын
Great advice!
@rekry40510 ай бұрын
Yes!❤❤ im in this
@Baheieujlsksnen9 ай бұрын
Amazing!!❤
@alexandracardos94966 ай бұрын
So true!❤ I am like that naturally!
@shellieblack5282 жыл бұрын
My partner actually said to me "You are gravity! You are continually pulling me to you!" And that caused my heart to melt even more!!!!!
@valerievalle52074 жыл бұрын
"The universe doesn't see your intention. It sees your attention." That hit home to me!
@danamixer39463 жыл бұрын
Where your focus goes energy flows!
@lilyxavier52524 жыл бұрын
Mathew Boggs How to keep him interesting forever 1. Give him your attention 2. Hive him micro challenges ;goal, gap, time line 3. Give him random wet kisses 4. Encourage his space 5. Give your self rejuvenation time 6. Give the relationship variety Have wonderful weekend💐 Accepted Challenge no 6 ! 🤗 What i found relationship always interesting is that we r always in the same vibe, evaluate our relationship and both crave challenges-variety♥️
@m.cg.v98174 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 💚
@rosesoto22684 жыл бұрын
🥰
@user-vp1pj3xb7s4 жыл бұрын
😙🌷
@はII4 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this summary! I gave him challenge to build his arm muscles and be ready that u carry me in your arms on my next birthday . He listened and seemed interested initially but I don’t see him motivated at all ☹️. Never touched those dumbbells after 😜
@kenyanempress91754 жыл бұрын
you just saved 13minutes of my life
@lilylife44264 жыл бұрын
Step number 1: Find a man like Mat.
@daniellamoreno36163 жыл бұрын
🥰😆
@funnypie72743 жыл бұрын
Haha
@viesztranovierra98053 жыл бұрын
🤣
@doi4life3 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@annas40213 жыл бұрын
😂😉👍
@sruthiramesh25224 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself. The right one will find you intresting for eternal ❤️
@rbuk0012 жыл бұрын
Being myself means accepting the fact that I’ll be alone for life 😫💔 and I can’t have that I want kids and a family too someday
@arturo1652 жыл бұрын
@@rbuk001 being single is not that bad. I'm loving it more now that I am in my forties.
@livesimplyandhumbly2 жыл бұрын
The only problem is that most have horrible personalities. Being oneself means being a B*tch.
@paolanamuncura88792 жыл бұрын
Get away from this channel
@imeldamacababayao4142 жыл бұрын
You can’t fake love. Just be who you are and he will find you.
@MinnieTyko3 жыл бұрын
Challenges don’t work for narcissists. They always expect something in return, they don’t thrive off of hugs and love
@AnantyaV3 жыл бұрын
So don't be with a narcissist
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
No one does kid.
@luffyadski46582 жыл бұрын
@@AnantyaV pretty sure it was just some it advice man
@sheriwl10 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, nothing works on a narcissist lol
@writer19864 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been married for two years now, and we definitely give each other space. My husband is a hobbiest and likes to enjoy his hobbies with his buddies, so they get time together; I get quiet me-time and time to catch-up with girlfriends. It definitely refreshes us and makes appreciate and love each other more when we come back together.
@francineroot-adler72053 жыл бұрын
I have a friend serving in Iraq. I sent a voice reading of a wonderful book called The Velveteen Rabbit. While listed as a children's book, it is about love. In the past I read this book cuddled up with a boyfriend who loved it! Thought I would see how a voice reading would do. He loved it! This way when ever he has had a hard day( he is a surgeon), he has my voice to uplift him.
@livesimplyandhumbly2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Great idea. And giving instead of demanding. Unique approach.
@MaryTheresa1986 Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@lynnemorrison87024 жыл бұрын
Every guy needs their space, so do woman 100%
@gpeace91874 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree both persons in a relationship need their space. It's absolutely healthy! If I don't get my time, I feel smothered! Someone who MUST be with their partner every moment is NEEDY!
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
Everything the video said applies to both genders.
@Kyosti50004 жыл бұрын
As a young man I remember the emptiness and the feeling of having no direction in life. From evolutional perspective men have one single task; to take care of the family. That's why young men are often reckless and all over the place. As soon they find someone they typically lose interest in goofing around. The next feeling of emptiness comes when you have kids. Wifes attention goes to the children, as it should, but the man often feels like he is just someone that pays the bills. Remember ladys, that your guy is not made from stone, he needs to feel that you appreciate the things he does for you and the family and here's where Matt's advices comes handy. You need own time as well as a couple. 👍🏻
@legdaytacos623 жыл бұрын
Kyosti5000 try to organize the nice dates for your wife and hire a nanny one evening a week. Like, one day a week you aren’t parents . You don’t come back home until the kids are in bed. If you can’t afford the weekly nanny try to get friends to keep the kids for you and you do it for them as well once a week :) After work go for a walk with your wife if possible or take a bath with her. If not possible buy her her favorite pastry once a week or flowers Update me on this A question: do you feel like having a family and a wife made you want to work harder and make more money ?
@Kyosti50003 жыл бұрын
@@legdaytacos62 Thank you for your kind pieces of advice. I love taking care of my family. I often buy something nice to my wife and I really love to se her smile. To answer to your question. I've always been a hard worker. It's just now that I have small kids and a house I need more money to pay for the expenses.
@kubra_sultan3 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I appreciate your comment and advice :) I hope to someday do this when I am married.
@angelablackthorne30264 жыл бұрын
I agree with him that this 80% HIM/INTERVIEW approach is important on a FIRST DATE in particular. Let him tell you about himself FIRST. One of the mistakes that women make is they reveal too much about themselves and about their expectations right out of the gate without allowing space for a man to make an effort, first to REVEAL HIMSELF AUTHENTICALLY and then to get to know you over time so that you know that the person in front of you is the real him. If you give a man a laundry list of everything you want/expect he will attempt to be those things in order to sleep with you. It's almost irresistible for most men if you hand him a blueprint to yourself on the first date. He has to earn learning about your life by revealing himself so you know whether you are actually interested in him first!
@krishnatejadubbaka25423 жыл бұрын
Apologies mam! I am a man and we don't like mind games from women. For us, women are meant to be gentle, soft like flowers with some innocence. If she tries to play this game or some mind game intentionally make us do something then I think we can't trust that woman for a lifetime relationship. Unfortunately! And sometimes, it's a huge turn off.
@livesimplyandhumbly2 жыл бұрын
Not a realistic approach. A long list of demands will not inspire him. Men's list include the woman being a teenage beauty. Can that be fulfilled? It makes the woman appear like someone looking for a slave.
@nanic84582 жыл бұрын
Not all man are wired the same !! Or not all women want the same things . Just a thought
@kokolatte8252 жыл бұрын
@@krishnatejadubbaka2542 but her comment isn't about playing mind games. Just don't sit on the first date talking about yourself the whole time and the laundry list of things you want. Allow the relationship to unfold naturally and he can learn about the woman over time. There is no "mind game" in that.
@danielechristine78824 жыл бұрын
FYI-this is not only how men feel, women like and require the same sort of treatment...
@LouiseSantiano4 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@kiahoamin.52523 жыл бұрын
Yes you are very right.
@jennifercurren26543 жыл бұрын
and that i find very interesting because i have found that with EVERY relationship ive had as soon as i start asking is when the problems start. its all about him and if not then there's demise.
@danielechristine78823 жыл бұрын
Because I have a voice and use it... How I choose to do that in no way requires your approval or agreement. Arturo Asael, i see that you are some sort of speaker...your comment is even more bazzaar and arrogant .
@linda84853 жыл бұрын
That's when I knew my marriage was over, when he no longer needed anything from me or asked anything of me.
@not.your.basic_chicaaa4 жыл бұрын
Damn I love how he is all about his wife! 🌸 #Luckyher🥰
@rowenaramsaran65684 жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for men who are crazy in love with their wives (1man:1woman).
@mgsol33163 жыл бұрын
Trishamol Thomas I love that about Matt too.
@emilydesrosiers90343 жыл бұрын
Me too! I question dating coaches that are single. lol
@legdaytacos623 жыл бұрын
The way it should be
@e-feitonachina29213 жыл бұрын
of course, he has to be an example of his own sayings
@isla24bonita4 жыл бұрын
While this will help... it will still depend on what kind of a man you picked.
@marrencebaraquiel2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank God i picked the right BF!
@azrael_flugel43354 жыл бұрын
When I would ask my man to do little things for me, I felt a better connection to him and thought he was happier I never actually understood what all this meant, now I do! Micro-challenges!
@nafsi85194 жыл бұрын
How to keep long distance relationship interesting? Edit: we had long distance relationship for 6 years until last year I moved to his city. I was asking for pandemic. Stop saying it doesn't work. We are living breathing prove that it works. And we are getting married and in my culture marriage is for life.
@geneviveross42344 жыл бұрын
Don’t do long distance relationships..! It just doesn’t work..
@dashiajames18824 жыл бұрын
@@geneviveross4234: You're so right it doesn't work, cuz that person most likely cheating on you. Or lying to you about something !!
@rosesoto22684 жыл бұрын
Lookup Matthew Coast
@nofybn77944 жыл бұрын
Find someone local.
@user-eh9jy1dh6b4 жыл бұрын
Don’t listen to the negative comments you can find someone local who could still end up cheating and lying to you. You run the risk with all relationships. The same rules he says can be applied to LDR.
@dancingnachos36343 жыл бұрын
To make a man like Matt, obviously you need good parents also. He has had good upbringing.
@lebe68634 жыл бұрын
1. Give him your attention. Let him talk 80percent 2. Mini challenges. 3. Random wet kisses hug him. 4. Encourage him to go fishing. Lol. guy time when hes restless. 5. Give yourself rejuvenation time. Your happy = hes happy. Gift. 6. Variety. Brand new thing every month. Hike.activity. play a game. Movie. Try something different
@laurenspring16283 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@christinawatters88713 жыл бұрын
I like this
@atiyehatiyeh83223 жыл бұрын
Matt I don't kiss on the first date.Im trying to.get to know him
@tsebosei12853 жыл бұрын
Hugs and kisses
@hannahberlinpetry4502 жыл бұрын
Let him talk 80% of the time? Because THAT sounds like a healthy, egalitarian relationship 😅
@adri15674 жыл бұрын
When each one is individually happy in his own world, and the other worries that he continues to be. Happiness is magnificent in your relationship. That's it. ✨🌈💞
@komai79522 жыл бұрын
I try not to hit my anger for my bf. When I felt angry,gently tell him how sad I was. Because an angry face is hard to love. I watching this video from japan. It was helpful for me! I can learn English and about love at the sametime. Thank you so much!
@francescanadine86604 жыл бұрын
Hi, Mathew! I just want to congratulate you for your very successful youtube channel! I know you will go a long, long way! I have been consistently watching and gaining a lot of wisdom from your videos. You have been such a big guide towards my journey, in my love life and life in general. More power to you! God bless! 😊
@nadyc.lassk.44264 жыл бұрын
Mathew I love minute 10! VERY important in every relationship! I have ended with love of my life cause he never permited me to have my own time or go somewhere without him. He had big problems with selfesteem and we were young that time. But that means everything. And doesn't matter how much you love someone you cannot support being only dedicated to him.
@TheSharronW4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like he was controlling
@LouiseSantiano4 жыл бұрын
Give him, and yourself, the space! You both need that.
@blythekendal4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mat, for another great video! I"m in a relationship with a man that has a career that causes him to be "dark"(he can't call or text) during the assignment. I write him letters to read when he returns, called After Dark Letters. I create guessing games, send him photos of funny things I see while I'm out and about, and I even code the letters so he has to figure out the order to read them. It's a way I can feel like I'm still connected and I can't wait until he gets home to see what I've created for him. P.S. He doesn't read the letters in front of me. I allow him time to read them by himself.
@karaneaster69174 жыл бұрын
I do my own thing. He lives me more.
@ValeriiaTurysheva3 жыл бұрын
I have found that telling to each other new curious things keeps the relationship and him interested. I just write down some cool pieces of knowledge I get through my studies-conversations with others-media etc. which I think will interest him. In this way every time we see us I have some content he will listen with pleasure and will learn something from it. As I really appreciate people which can teach me something, open some new view, I also try to share to be interesting. Another thing is a list of really curious, deep questions which we have made (Internet sources) and try at least once a week to ask ourselves some questions to know a bit more of each other. The third positive thing I can mention is switching languages. Once a week we make an English day when we only speak English which adds a big variety to the story.
@mayacornwell72912 жыл бұрын
sounds helpful, i'm w him for 10 years and sometimes he kinda ignores me and i feel so... i don't know how to explain this... miserable? But yeah, relationship between me and my man is sometimes hard . but at least i enjoy every moment w him in bed . he was always so bad there but after i bought him 6 packs of natural drops spanish fly he wanted me to buy more of them (i think he literally said 100) so great results
@kinalanela69654 жыл бұрын
I really like videos like this one which is aimed at people who are in relationships. I am married for almost 10 years and there are some nice reminders and good advice in this video. - Would love to see more of this kind of videos.
@alexaodgr84 жыл бұрын
My guy and I don’t live together and we can only see each other once a week. (Living and work situations) Neither of us is much of a texter and we don’t call each other much either. I find that we are always excited to see each other and the time we spend together is always great. Eventually we’ll spend more time together and more frequently but for now I think it helps that we’re slowly building a strong foundation of friendship and respect
@juliafisher58442 жыл бұрын
Hmmm Idk that sounds great if it works for BOTH of you I hope you have a timeline for increasing the level of contact and I wish you all the very best
@ms.newcomerteacher65542 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a perfect relationship. I like doing my own thing and I definitely don’t want to live with anymore. A close friend once a week sounds great!
@reagutierrez25253 жыл бұрын
I gave all my attention, he just take me for granted.
@nekologie95204 жыл бұрын
Love your video, i think that's great advice! I found that not talking over text much or at all helps. For example if it's absolutely necessary you can text your man what he needs to know or whatever but other than that just exclusively communicate face to face. I feel like that makes life way easier and more relaxed because you don't have to care about what's happening on your phone or worry about your partner when you're with friends or at work. This might come across wrong but if both partners are on the same page about this, I find it very rejuvenating.
@peachyreen45503 жыл бұрын
“Hey honey, I’d love to do something new this weekend, would you take me out?” Four possible outcomes to this situation 1. Sure, sounds fun… plan something I’m down to do 2. Sure, sounds fun! (Weekend comes and he asks what I planned) 3. Can’t gotta work 4. He says sure then completely forgets
@voidantutu2 жыл бұрын
lol why waiting for him to take you out when you can take him out instead? Men also appreciate women with determination and power
@Chahlie4 жыл бұрын
Oh my heavens, every guy I've had a date with has talked non stop about himself. I encourage it of course as otherwise there would be no conversation as they never ask even a reciprocal question. And the one thing in common is they like to make sure you know when his birthday is and what he likes to do to celebrate....when they are over 50! Seriously.
@Kyosti50004 жыл бұрын
The part he says "I felt good because she felt good" Couldn't relate to more. I don't mind if *hit rains as long I can see her smiling. I know I've been a good husband and a father taking care of my family. Men are hardwired that way I guess.
@ElizabethLawson4MORE4 жыл бұрын
I tell him what I like about what he does so he gets the reward and so he will be more apt to do it again! For instance, we only see each other every or every other week. He chooses to call me every day. I love that and I have told him so! I value our phone callls!
@JennyAmigo313 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving us the clues- and being a freaking genius!!!!!
@debbyparrington93994 жыл бұрын
Hi Mathew I just wanted to say I’m in a long distance relationship and all your wonderful videos give me imagination to continue to keep our fired up!!!! Thx for just being YOU!!! I’m very grateful 🙏🏼
@Ewabiblerevelation4 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video i believe ladies need videos like this frequently.
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
Do you mean they lack basic knowledge on how to do basic things?
@deeinsights3 жыл бұрын
I smile and giggle every time Matt mentions his Family anecdotes!! :)
@sharon_laura4 жыл бұрын
I really love your content and advices. Please please do make a content like this for long distance relationships 😊
@saramations4 жыл бұрын
I'm in an ldr. Its honestly the same thing. Everything Matt says can be applied to any relationship.
@lindavo61733 жыл бұрын
So true i asked my hubby to wake me up at 5am and after I challenging him to do so he set his phone to 5am and when the alarm went off he literally wake me up he was very excited
@carleengilmore3534 жыл бұрын
My guy is a gamer. So I definitely give him his space. I’m like a few other people reading their comments. I am in a long distance relationship. How do you keep it fresh and exciting when you’re not together?
@rosesoto22684 жыл бұрын
Look up Matthew Coast
@carleengilmore3534 жыл бұрын
Rose Soto THANKS!!!!
@rosesoto22684 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely welcome! Helena Heart, Adrienne Everheart. And Matthew Coast along with this Matthew are the best!
@kaylacontreras16324 жыл бұрын
I love the challenge to do new things once a month to create new experiences! I cant wait to start this!
@selinaleigh1004 жыл бұрын
Since we have been on this quarantine we had to find new things and new ways to “date” from indoors. We still go out sometimes we aren’t hermits but with all this going on in the world it’s difficult. We started finding new foods and making them, we got subscription boxes from universal yum and hunt a killer, he’s been teaching me card games I’ve never played, we find local places that offer take home boxes like from the painting place. We buy the home kit pick it up and follow the video (like a paint and sip at home).
@cjenvannigspotlight88884 жыл бұрын
Such an interesting and informative ways and believed it's perfect. Well, my LDR I did not meet yet I let him take his time to do his thing what you called space and let him breathe not obligating him to see him most of his free time to chat. I observed he is happy with it. Liked let him talk more by getting his attention and give him a challenge
@mazolg34404 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I will treasure this valuable information!!! Thank you so much Matt
@craigpurcell16283 жыл бұрын
Hello mazol
@abeero914 жыл бұрын
They say that love diminishes every number of years .. But my love has been 9 years .. Every time I think that I have overcome it .. I find I return to it strongly ..
@latinaalma19472 жыл бұрын
So very untrue...I have been with my mate 40 yrs and we are more in love and even have more sex than ever....the sex gets better with age because men can last much longer,,women are multiorgasmic, and theynhave more time to.imduñge their senses in play...it can be an incredible time of life with the right partner...better than ever!
@hildaopiyo4 жыл бұрын
Now I get it why am still single 😂
@rithastanley85263 жыл бұрын
HA HA HA HA
@amberjones58712 жыл бұрын
Hi there, Mat. I've been watching your videos for a while now, and as someone in a long-term relationship, can I just offer my sincere thanks for your insights into the male psyche? Sometimes life gets busy, and it's easy to forget to appreciate our favourite person, but your words have reminded me to pay him some proper attention. So, again, thank you.
@natalied69233 жыл бұрын
Matt, you are a gem! 🦄 You've got this thing figured out ! I'm so proud of you as a fellow human being! 👼🏆🙏💝 Honest! I can't thank you enough for the work you do 👍🙏 AMEN !
@ettiefeistmann58674 жыл бұрын
Love your positive attitude to relationships.
@craigpurcell16283 жыл бұрын
Hello ettie
@mandybrian0254 жыл бұрын
Fashionals! I love that word. Thanks for this video, Matt. Been a while since I got some new tips from u. Best regards.
@MsRight-sb5ds3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately after letting him talk 80% of the time, he rarely allows me to speak without interrupting me 😟
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
Maybe there is little of interest in what you say.
@MsRight-sb5ds3 жыл бұрын
@@arturo165 Exactly, so he’s not the one for me.
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
@@MsRight-sb5ds so may wrong ones! right?
@MsRight-sb5ds3 жыл бұрын
@@arturo165 yep
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
@@MsRight-sb5ds girl I'm already bored with you. It's you. You are the problem.
@giavalentina39593 жыл бұрын
You know when you have a crush on someone ? And you can't stop thinking about that person 🤭 I find myself fantasizing when you're dating and in a relationship with someone helps keep it interesting , especially for the long term ! ❤️😁
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@eavezdropdlaagan95404 жыл бұрын
Hi Mathew Boggs. Inlove watching your vlogs. I am a Single mum of two Girls. And i am Currently in a LDR. I learned now how to my man keeps his interest on me. Thank you for this vlog..
@Starry-zy8bb Жыл бұрын
Give him chances to show off. Find something he's really good at, and take an interest in it, give him the chance to show off his expertise in that area. This is really good at the beginning of a relationship because again, it gives him the chance to show off and show you a good quality of his. And you taking an interest in something he loves? He's gonna go nuts if he's even a little attracted to you.
@lifeisgoodalways31073 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how different the advice is from relationship coach to relationship coach The women relationship coaches say NEVER kiss a man first always let him kiss you 😘 because it’s being masculine to assert yourself in this way. The woman should lean back and be the receiver of her man pursuing her. they also say do NOT show much attention to a man because he then doesn’t see a women as a challenge and is thus not interested in her. Who do we believe ?....
@latinaalma19472 жыл бұрын
Im a clinical psychologist the female non professional advice givers are giving the WRONG advice if they are saying this.
@user-lf6pb5ms6g Жыл бұрын
Give him attention is what i did on many first dates. They thought i was fantastic but i knew they were not for me. I'm still on my journey yet very close to the goal yet closer to a forever relationship and appreciate advice here. Thank you Mat.
@secretshaman1894 жыл бұрын
Great advice Mat-- give him micro-challenges-- such a great way to look at the relationship and what men continually seem to need to be happy. Love it! Thank-you!
@secretshaman1894 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 Hi Oscar, you made my day, thank-you for the compliment. I will be 65 in a couple of weeks, a proud grandmother.
@secretshaman1894 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 I live in L.A., and thank-you for your interest, but you are way too young for me. Good luck to you!
@secretshaman1894 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 Hi Oscar, yes you are too young, and I have a boyfriend. But thank-you.
@secretshaman1894 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 I don't use social media platforms, but you can send me your email address and I can put you on my mailing list. I do plan to launch a KZfaq in Nov. and can send you an announcement.
@craigpurcell16283 жыл бұрын
Hello lynda
@shortyvibes67183 жыл бұрын
craving is a common word in Matt's videos 😂❤
@raniyuna29304 жыл бұрын
Trying together hobbies which we haven't mutual is fun...🤣😅🙈❤ I recommend it to everyone.😊
@michellebrown31074 жыл бұрын
How to find the balance between showing them attention, leaning back, showing youre i retested yet leaving room for them to chase?
@legdaytacos624 жыл бұрын
Michelle Brown you show them attention when they are in front of you. To lean back: be the master of the time. Always be the one ending the date. Don’t message them first when you are away from them . Post amazing stuff you do on social media.
@anaantonio3363 жыл бұрын
I love the time with friends we do this regularly it’s a refresh button
@TheTripstraps3 жыл бұрын
haha, im fourty and only now starting to understand men little bit. partly thanks to him right there!
@skinney95424 жыл бұрын
Great video thank you! (and may I just say your wife is an extremely lucky woman!)
@arturo1653 жыл бұрын
I really doubt it. She cheats on him. Everyone knows
@JS-mh1fh4 жыл бұрын
Human Needs Psychology in action... love how you can take the best things from the Gottman's, Helen Fisher, Cloé and Tony and more, and then be able to make it easily understandable and immediately actionable. Bravo! :)
@hannahberlinpetry4502 жыл бұрын
Magically read his mind? Lol you don’t “keep someone”. They decide to stay with you or leave. Yes, partners that are healthy and communicate well have a much better shot than the rest of us, but it’s ultimately up to each individual to decide what they’ll do.
@zenaidaondoy68722 жыл бұрын
for me my talent in singing keep my man interested with me because when i am feeling sad or happy iwll just sing for him his favorite melody .....
@teresalakin69992 жыл бұрын
Mat thanks so much this changed my whole life about when u said let ur man talk 80 percent of the time
@rapunzelz5520 Жыл бұрын
My friend who is the Youngest of eight kids said he felt like he had 9 parents. Someone was always telling him what to do…..well into adulthood.
@jessymorel9234 жыл бұрын
That one dislike gotta go sis🙄🤦 hop off the page if you don't fw Boggs
@jleetxgirl3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I found your channel! You have fresh ideas and good humor! Love that!❤️
@elementaryschooltutor.com14 жыл бұрын
We like to talk about traveling. We discuss all the different types of trips we could take together.
@Kristinngechi244 жыл бұрын
You should do a video on how to understand an introvert being an extrovert and vice versa
@kre85044 жыл бұрын
I'm an extrovert, inverted by heartlessness (I'm 29% introverted, to be specific): I'm not Anti-Social, however Pro Me. The Anti-Social is an Introvert, who has no heart, therefore only wears an extroverted heart on his sleeve (pretend love for others): Mr.x is such a man. Does that explain it enough for you?
@Kristinngechi244 жыл бұрын
@@kre8504 No am not asking for an explanation.. am saying how to love them and understand the other because you are both too different... Like for example let's say am an extrovert attracted to an introvert and sometimes its just difficult because am not used to such cases so he would help us understand introverts love language and extrovert
@kre85044 жыл бұрын
@@Kristinngechi24 Oh, okay: I guess that is different for sure. I don't know quiet how to explain that one. I know as an extrovert, I like expressing love. I imagine its not so easy for an introvert to express his feelings (I imagine them as a closed book, that has a lock, you need the right keys to open), I imagine they are the opposite. I know men don't typically express their feelings, they must really feel like they are with someone whom they are comfortable/safe in sharing their feelings, as they are I believe typically taught not to wear their feelings on their sleeves, @ least that is what I've learned so far. As an Extrovert & Introvert: life has taught me, it is abt with the being with the right person & timing that I share my feelings: I'm more expressive of my feelings, just don't always make it obvious unless my love for that person is known by them. Maybe that would take a more in depth look in order to understand it?
@rondas77724 жыл бұрын
I tell my man, you've earned a coupon if our conversation is great! And text him fill in the blank questions. Keeps him interested in a cute way. He loves it! He'll text, can I use my coupon today.. It's the cutest!! When he's acting distant, I'll say, I challenge you to earn another coupon, the other one expired!! 🤣🤣🤣
@harrymarkson79714 жыл бұрын
I got back mu ex wife with the help of someone who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 💙💙💙💙
@harrymarkson79714 жыл бұрын
Text him on what's app 💙💙💙💙💙
@harrymarkson79714 жыл бұрын
+ 2 3 4 8 0 7 7 7 5 1 6 9 5 💙💙💙
@danamixer39463 жыл бұрын
I played "20 questions with my guy he loved it via text"
@Lifes-A-Gameee4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Boggs! Great advice ! 🙌🏽
@Poeticdiva793 жыл бұрын
My Him definitely loves the attention I give him and being intentional when loving him according to his love language.
@sysimusta36614 жыл бұрын
I tell him how beautiful he looks. Yes, beautiful. Not handsome or any other manly way to say the exact same thing. "You look beautiful today" He loves that and always finds ways to dress up for me.
@CrazyCandy54 жыл бұрын
Love your vids. Make one for men. How to keep a woman intrested.
@Matthew84736 ай бұрын
I'm in complete awe of this. I read a book with a similar message, and it was astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@debbiebyrum5636 Жыл бұрын
Mat if you can actually promise that … you’re a genius…
@maryamzizi20234 жыл бұрын
Great video Mathew😊😊
@mariancrole Жыл бұрын
This is so mind-blowing I always get so bored when men talk to much, I feel they are not interested in me. What s the difference between a guy trying to impress and a selfish egocentric person?
@selenabaez49962 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 being the youngest is tough lol @ the biting
@jenniferspisak4 жыл бұрын
Filling your own cup 😋🥰 that’s some great advice
@marieli31753 жыл бұрын
How do you do this on a long distance relationship? How do you keep him interested?
@karenokane73763 жыл бұрын
I would like to know this too?
@ameliagray16183 жыл бұрын
Deep convos
@kopsie63794 жыл бұрын
Your best one yet! Thank you for sharing!
@zarafarah16504 жыл бұрын
Giving him guy time is fantastic idea
@glorymuch67044 жыл бұрын
thnx mr Boggs we r learning more everyday stay blessed
@annclairepagador757 Жыл бұрын
Hey Mat, I’m one of your silent viewer. Here I come back to square one and I’m trying to apply your advices to my current situation which is getting to know each other. So,how to ask micro challenges to our potential partner? ( not boyfriend yet) and this is LDR. Hoping to get your opinion on this🙏.Thank you and more success to your channel from Cebu Philippines!
@naturalbeauty83663 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matthew for this great instructive video. Really appreciated. Bless 🤗
@a.b.28503 жыл бұрын
#1 what if he’s not a talker?! Especially on the first date, some people are shy.. My actual SO said maybe 4 words on our first date. Not many more on the second lol. I did the remark to him, and he said that he was actually really enjoying hearing and watching me talk 🤷🏻♀️ oki. Now, He talks a little bit more but he’s still not a talkative person.. just his normal personality. We have those very quite moments that we actually enjoy both.. I can talk, but I too have my moments when I’m silent, and we’re both comfortable with the silence, as long as we can see and touch each other, we’re good 😊
@docgiea.76734 жыл бұрын
Wow this this excellent Mathew!!!👏👏👏
@docgiea.76734 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 thank you...
@docgiea.76734 жыл бұрын
I'm from Philippines...
@MottoMyYellowFriend2 жыл бұрын
I’m a singel mom living in Sweden 🇸🇪 i find it hard dating, after my husband past away to cancer 4 years ago.
@nonamemar9987 Жыл бұрын
The only page I believe in and note all its points is your page
@Shiney_one Жыл бұрын
Matt, what do you think about Dr. John Gray's research on NOT letting a man talk more than you? He mentions that talking more than you makes him like himself instead of you... What are your thoughts on this? I've heard conflicting messages...
@twinklewankhade8027 Жыл бұрын
New to this channel,but must admit... U talk a gem... Just subscribed ur channel... Appreciate your good work Sir... Take care Sir... from INDIA 🙏🙂