How to Keep Him Interested Forever | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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@matboggs Жыл бұрын

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@cupidscorner4834 2 жыл бұрын

Being positive and happy all the time is what keep my suitors coming back. No drama and if I have issues going on I never tell them since I am not in a relationship with them. Also I never act needy. If they don't text or forget I just relax and let them do them. I learned that giving them freedom to choose is the best way to know if they are really interested. When a man really wants to be with you. He'll make it happen even when you are not sleeping with him. I date without sex at all. I date the old fashion way. Now I have 3 men who stays in the zone trying to win my heart. Why, because women should learn to love themselves enough that no man is needed to make them happy. Be fulfilled with your own life and he will want to be a part of your world.

@tansmith1917 Жыл бұрын

Great advice!

@rekry405 10 ай бұрын

Yes!❤❤ im in this

@Baheieujlsksnen 9 ай бұрын

Amazing!!❤

@alexandracardos9496 6 ай бұрын

So true!❤ I am like that naturally!

@shellieblack528 2 жыл бұрын

My partner actually said to me "You are gravity! You are continually pulling me to you!" And that caused my heart to melt even more!!!!!

@valerievalle5207 4 жыл бұрын

"The universe doesn't see your intention. It sees your attention." That hit home to me!

@danamixer3946 3 жыл бұрын

Where your focus goes energy flows!

@lilyxavier5252 4 жыл бұрын

Mathew Boggs How to keep him interesting forever 1. Give him your attention 2. Hive him micro challenges ;goal, gap, time line 3. Give him random wet kisses 4. Encourage his space 5. Give your self rejuvenation time 6. Give the relationship variety Have wonderful weekend💐 Accepted Challenge no 6 ! 🤗 What i found relationship always interesting is that we r always in the same vibe, evaluate our relationship and both crave challenges-variety♥️

@m.cg.v9817 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks! 💚

@rosesoto2268 4 жыл бұрын

🥰

@user-vp1pj3xb7s 4 жыл бұрын

😙🌷

@はII 4 жыл бұрын

Was looking for this summary! I gave him challenge to build his arm muscles and be ready that u carry me in your arms on my next birthday . He listened and seemed interested initially but I don’t see him motivated at all ☹️. Never touched those dumbbells after 😜

@kenyanempress9175 4 жыл бұрын

you just saved 13minutes of my life

@lilylife4426 4 жыл бұрын

Step number 1: Find a man like Mat.

@daniellamoreno3616 3 жыл бұрын

🥰😆

@funnypie7274 3 жыл бұрын

Haha

@viesztranovierra9805 3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@doi4life 3 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

@annas4021 3 жыл бұрын

😂😉👍

@sruthiramesh2522 4 жыл бұрын

Just be yourself. The right one will find you intresting for eternal ❤️

@rbuk001 2 жыл бұрын

Being myself means accepting the fact that I’ll be alone for life 😫💔 and I can’t have that I want kids and a family too someday

@arturo165 2 жыл бұрын

@@rbuk001 being single is not that bad. I'm loving it more now that I am in my forties.

@livesimplyandhumbly 2 жыл бұрын

The only problem is that most have horrible personalities. Being oneself means being a B*tch.

@paolanamuncura8879 2 жыл бұрын

Get away from this channel

@imeldamacababayao414 2 жыл бұрын

You can’t fake love. Just be who you are and he will find you.

@MinnieTyko 3 жыл бұрын

Challenges don’t work for narcissists. They always expect something in return, they don’t thrive off of hugs and love

@AnantyaV 3 жыл бұрын

So don't be with a narcissist

@arturo165 3 жыл бұрын

No one does kid.

@luffyadski4658 2 жыл бұрын

@@AnantyaV pretty sure it was just some it advice man

@sheriwl 10 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, nothing works on a narcissist lol

@writer1986 4 жыл бұрын

My husband and I have been married for two years now, and we definitely give each other space. My husband is a hobbiest and likes to enjoy his hobbies with his buddies, so they get time together; I get quiet me-time and time to catch-up with girlfriends. It definitely refreshes us and makes appreciate and love each other more when we come back together.

@francineroot-adler7205 3 жыл бұрын

I have a friend serving in Iraq. I sent a voice reading of a wonderful book called The Velveteen Rabbit. While listed as a children's book, it is about love. In the past I read this book cuddled up with a boyfriend who loved it! Thought I would see how a voice reading would do. He loved it! This way when ever he has had a hard day( he is a surgeon), he has my voice to uplift him.

@livesimplyandhumbly 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Great idea. And giving instead of demanding. Unique approach.

@MaryTheresa1986 Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@lynnemorrison8702 4 жыл бұрын

Every guy needs their space, so do woman 100%

@gpeace9187 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree both persons in a relationship need their space. It's absolutely healthy! If I don't get my time, I feel smothered! Someone who MUST be with their partner every moment is NEEDY!

@arturo165 3 жыл бұрын

Everything the video said applies to both genders.

@Kyosti5000 4 жыл бұрын

As a young man I remember the emptiness and the feeling of having no direction in life. From evolutional perspective men have one single task; to take care of the family. That's why young men are often reckless and all over the place. As soon they find someone they typically lose interest in goofing around. The next feeling of emptiness comes when you have kids. Wifes attention goes to the children, as it should, but the man often feels like he is just someone that pays the bills. Remember ladys, that your guy is not made from stone, he needs to feel that you appreciate the things he does for you and the family and here's where Matt's advices comes handy. You need own time as well as a couple. 👍🏻

@legdaytacos62 3 жыл бұрын

Kyosti5000 try to organize the nice dates for your wife and hire a nanny one evening a week. Like, one day a week you aren’t parents . You don’t come back home until the kids are in bed. If you can’t afford the weekly nanny try to get friends to keep the kids for you and you do it for them as well once a week :) After work go for a walk with your wife if possible or take a bath with her. If not possible buy her her favorite pastry once a week or flowers Update me on this A question: do you feel like having a family and a wife made you want to work harder and make more money ?

@Kyosti5000 3 жыл бұрын

@@legdaytacos62 Thank you for your kind pieces of advice. I love taking care of my family. I often buy something nice to my wife and I really love to se her smile. To answer to your question. I've always been a hard worker. It's just now that I have small kids and a house I need more money to pay for the expenses.

@kubra_sultan 3 жыл бұрын

As a woman, I appreciate your comment and advice :) I hope to someday do this when I am married.

@angelablackthorne3026 4 жыл бұрын

I agree with him that this 80% HIM/INTERVIEW approach is important on a FIRST DATE in particular. Let him tell you about himself FIRST. One of the mistakes that women make is they reveal too much about themselves and about their expectations right out of the gate without allowing space for a man to make an effort, first to REVEAL HIMSELF AUTHENTICALLY and then to get to know you over time so that you know that the person in front of you is the real him. If you give a man a laundry list of everything you want/expect he will attempt to be those things in order to sleep with you. It's almost irresistible for most men if you hand him a blueprint to yourself on the first date. He has to earn learning about your life by revealing himself so you know whether you are actually interested in him first!

@krishnatejadubbaka2542 3 жыл бұрын

Apologies mam! I am a man and we don't like mind games from women. For us, women are meant to be gentle, soft like flowers with some innocence. If she tries to play this game or some mind game intentionally make us do something then I think we can't trust that woman for a lifetime relationship. Unfortunately! And sometimes, it's a huge turn off.

@livesimplyandhumbly 2 жыл бұрын

Not a realistic approach. A long list of demands will not inspire him. Men's list include the woman being a teenage beauty. Can that be fulfilled? It makes the woman appear like someone looking for a slave.

@nanic8458 2 жыл бұрын

Not all man are wired the same !! Or not all women want the same things . Just a thought

@kokolatte825 2 жыл бұрын

@@krishnatejadubbaka2542 but her comment isn't about playing mind games. Just don't sit on the first date talking about yourself the whole time and the laundry list of things you want. Allow the relationship to unfold naturally and he can learn about the woman over time. There is no "mind game" in that.

@danielechristine7882 4 жыл бұрын

FYI-this is not only how men feel, women like and require the same sort of treatment...

@LouiseSantiano 4 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@kiahoamin.5252 3 жыл бұрын

Yes you are very right.

@jennifercurren2654 3 жыл бұрын

and that i find very interesting because i have found that with EVERY relationship ive had as soon as i start asking is when the problems start. its all about him and if not then there's demise.

@danielechristine7882 3 жыл бұрын

Because I have a voice and use it... How I choose to do that in no way requires your approval or agreement. Arturo Asael, i see that you are some sort of speaker...your comment is even more bazzaar and arrogant .

@linda8485 3 жыл бұрын

That's when I knew my marriage was over, when he no longer needed anything from me or asked anything of me.

@not.your.basic_chicaaa 4 жыл бұрын

Damn I love how he is all about his wife! 🌸 #Luckyher🥰

@rowenaramsaran6568 4 жыл бұрын

I have so much respect for men who are crazy in love with their wives (1man:1woman).

@mgsol3316 3 жыл бұрын

Trishamol Thomas I love that about Matt too.

@emilydesrosiers9034 3 жыл бұрын

Me too! I question dating coaches that are single. lol

@legdaytacos62 3 жыл бұрын

The way it should be

@e-feitonachina2921 3 жыл бұрын

of course, he has to be an example of his own sayings

@isla24bonita 4 жыл бұрын

While this will help... it will still depend on what kind of a man you picked.

@marrencebaraquiel 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank God i picked the right BF!

@azrael_flugel4335 4 жыл бұрын

When I would ask my man to do little things for me, I felt a better connection to him and thought he was happier I never actually understood what all this meant, now I do! Micro-challenges!

@nafsi8519 4 жыл бұрын

How to keep long distance relationship interesting? Edit: we had long distance relationship for 6 years until last year I moved to his city. I was asking for pandemic. Stop saying it doesn't work. We are living breathing prove that it works. And we are getting married and in my culture marriage is for life.

@geneviveross4234 4 жыл бұрын

Don’t do long distance relationships..! It just doesn’t work..

@dashiajames1882 4 жыл бұрын

@@geneviveross4234: You're so right it doesn't work, cuz that person most likely cheating on you. Or lying to you about something !!

@rosesoto2268 4 жыл бұрын

Lookup Matthew Coast

@nofybn7794 4 жыл бұрын

Find someone local.

@user-eh9jy1dh6b 4 жыл бұрын

Don’t listen to the negative comments you can find someone local who could still end up cheating and lying to you. You run the risk with all relationships. The same rules he says can be applied to LDR.

@dancingnachos3634 3 жыл бұрын

To make a man like Matt, obviously you need good parents also. He has had good upbringing.

@lebe6863 4 жыл бұрын

1. Give him your attention. Let him talk 80percent 2. Mini challenges. 3. Random wet kisses hug him. 4. Encourage him to go fishing. Lol. guy time when hes restless. 5. Give yourself rejuvenation time. Your happy = hes happy. Gift. 6. Variety. Brand new thing every month. Hike.activity. play a game. Movie. Try something different

@laurenspring1628 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@christinawatters8871 3 жыл бұрын

I like this

@atiyehatiyeh8322 3 жыл бұрын

Matt I don't kiss on the first date.Im trying to.get to know him

@tsebosei1285 3 жыл бұрын

Hugs and kisses

@hannahberlinpetry450 2 жыл бұрын

Let him talk 80% of the time? Because THAT sounds like a healthy, egalitarian relationship 😅

@adri1567 4 жыл бұрын

When each one is individually happy in his own world, and the other worries that he continues to be. Happiness is magnificent in your relationship. That's it. ✨🌈💞

@komai7952 2 жыл бұрын

I try not to hit my anger for my bf. When I felt angry,gently tell him how sad I was. Because an angry face is hard to love. I watching this video from japan. It was helpful for me! I can learn English and about love at the sametime. Thank you so much!

@francescanadine8660 4 жыл бұрын

Hi, Mathew! I just want to congratulate you for your very successful youtube channel! I know you will go a long, long way! I have been consistently watching and gaining a lot of wisdom from your videos. You have been such a big guide towards my journey, in my love life and life in general. More power to you! God bless! 😊

@nadyc.lassk.4426 4 жыл бұрын

Mathew I love minute 10! VERY important in every relationship! I have ended with love of my life cause he never permited me to have my own time or go somewhere without him. He had big problems with selfesteem and we were young that time. But that means everything. And doesn't matter how much you love someone you cannot support being only dedicated to him.

@TheSharronW 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like he was controlling

@LouiseSantiano 4 жыл бұрын

Give him, and yourself, the space! You both need that.

@blythekendal 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mat, for another great video! I"m in a relationship with a man that has a career that causes him to be "dark"(he can't call or text) during the assignment. I write him letters to read when he returns, called After Dark Letters. I create guessing games, send him photos of funny things I see while I'm out and about, and I even code the letters so he has to figure out the order to read them. It's a way I can feel like I'm still connected and I can't wait until he gets home to see what I've created for him. P.S. He doesn't read the letters in front of me. I allow him time to read them by himself.

@karaneaster6917 4 жыл бұрын

I do my own thing. He lives me more.

@ValeriiaTurysheva 3 жыл бұрын

I have found that telling to each other new curious things keeps the relationship and him interested. I just write down some cool pieces of knowledge I get through my studies-conversations with others-media etc. which I think will interest him. In this way every time we see us I have some content he will listen with pleasure and will learn something from it. As I really appreciate people which can teach me something, open some new view, I also try to share to be interesting. Another thing is a list of really curious, deep questions which we have made (Internet sources) and try at least once a week to ask ourselves some questions to know a bit more of each other. The third positive thing I can mention is switching languages. Once a week we make an English day when we only speak English which adds a big variety to the story.

@mayacornwell7291 2 жыл бұрын

sounds helpful, i'm w him for 10 years and sometimes he kinda ignores me and i feel so... i don't know how to explain this... miserable? But yeah, relationship between me and my man is sometimes hard . but at least i enjoy every moment w him in bed . he was always so bad there but after i bought him 6 packs of natural drops spanish fly he wanted me to buy more of them (i think he literally said 100) so great results

@kinalanela6965 4 жыл бұрын

I really like videos like this one which is aimed at people who are in relationships. I am married for almost 10 years and there are some nice reminders and good advice in this video. - Would love to see more of this kind of videos.

@alexaodgr8 4 жыл бұрын

My guy and I don’t live together and we can only see each other once a week. (Living and work situations) Neither of us is much of a texter and we don’t call each other much either. I find that we are always excited to see each other and the time we spend together is always great. Eventually we’ll spend more time together and more frequently but for now I think it helps that we’re slowly building a strong foundation of friendship and respect

@juliafisher5844 2 жыл бұрын

Hmmm Idk that sounds great if it works for BOTH of you I hope you have a timeline for increasing the level of contact and I wish you all the very best

@ms.newcomerteacher6554 2 жыл бұрын

That sounds like a perfect relationship. I like doing my own thing and I definitely don’t want to live with anymore. A close friend once a week sounds great!

@reagutierrez2525 3 жыл бұрын

I gave all my attention, he just take me for granted.

@nekologie9520 4 жыл бұрын

Love your video, i think that's great advice! I found that not talking over text much or at all helps. For example if it's absolutely necessary you can text your man what he needs to know or whatever but other than that just exclusively communicate face to face. I feel like that makes life way easier and more relaxed because you don't have to care about what's happening on your phone or worry about your partner when you're with friends or at work. This might come across wrong but if both partners are on the same page about this, I find it very rejuvenating.

@peachyreen4550 3 жыл бұрын

“Hey honey, I’d love to do something new this weekend, would you take me out?” Four possible outcomes to this situation 1. Sure, sounds fun… plan something I’m down to do 2. Sure, sounds fun! (Weekend comes and he asks what I planned) 3. Can’t gotta work 4. He says sure then completely forgets

@voidantutu 2 жыл бұрын

lol why waiting for him to take you out when you can take him out instead? Men also appreciate women with determination and power

@Chahlie 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my heavens, every guy I've had a date with has talked non stop about himself. I encourage it of course as otherwise there would be no conversation as they never ask even a reciprocal question. And the one thing in common is they like to make sure you know when his birthday is and what he likes to do to celebrate....when they are over 50! Seriously.

@Kyosti5000 4 жыл бұрын

The part he says "I felt good because she felt good" Couldn't relate to more. I don't mind if *hit rains as long I can see her smiling. I know I've been a good husband and a father taking care of my family. Men are hardwired that way I guess.

@ElizabethLawson4MORE 4 жыл бұрын

I tell him what I like about what he does so he gets the reward and so he will be more apt to do it again! For instance, we only see each other every or every other week. He chooses to call me every day. I love that and I have told him so! I value our phone callls!

@JennyAmigo31 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for giving us the clues- and being a freaking genius!!!!!

@debbyparrington9399 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Mathew I just wanted to say I’m in a long distance relationship and all your wonderful videos give me imagination to continue to keep our fired up!!!! Thx for just being YOU!!! I’m very grateful 🙏🏼

@Ewabiblerevelation 4 жыл бұрын

thank you for this video i believe ladies need videos like this frequently.

@arturo165 3 жыл бұрын

Do you mean they lack basic knowledge on how to do basic things?

@deeinsights 3 жыл бұрын

I smile and giggle every time Matt mentions his Family anecdotes!! :)

@sharon_laura 4 жыл бұрын

I really love your content and advices. Please please do make a content like this for long distance relationships 😊

@saramations 4 жыл бұрын

I'm in an ldr. Its honestly the same thing. Everything Matt says can be applied to any relationship.

@lindavo6173 3 жыл бұрын

So true i asked my hubby to wake me up at 5am and after I challenging him to do so he set his phone to 5am and when the alarm went off he literally wake me up he was very excited

@carleengilmore353 4 жыл бұрын

My guy is a gamer. So I definitely give him his space. I’m like a few other people reading their comments. I am in a long distance relationship. How do you keep it fresh and exciting when you’re not together?

@rosesoto2268 4 жыл бұрын

Look up Matthew Coast

@carleengilmore353 4 жыл бұрын

Rose Soto THANKS!!!!

@rosesoto2268 4 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely welcome! Helena Heart, Adrienne Everheart. And Matthew Coast along with this Matthew are the best!

@kaylacontreras1632 4 жыл бұрын

I love the challenge to do new things once a month to create new experiences! I cant wait to start this!

@selinaleigh100 4 жыл бұрын

Since we have been on this quarantine we had to find new things and new ways to “date” from indoors. We still go out sometimes we aren’t hermits but with all this going on in the world it’s difficult. We started finding new foods and making them, we got subscription boxes from universal yum and hunt a killer, he’s been teaching me card games I’ve never played, we find local places that offer take home boxes like from the painting place. We buy the home kit pick it up and follow the video (like a paint and sip at home).

@cjenvannigspotlight8888 4 жыл бұрын

Such an interesting and informative ways and believed it's perfect. Well, my LDR I did not meet yet I let him take his time to do his thing what you called space and let him breathe not obligating him to see him most of his free time to chat. I observed he is happy with it. Liked let him talk more by getting his attention and give him a challenge

@mazolg3440 4 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! I will treasure this valuable information!!! Thank you so much Matt

@craigpurcell1628 3 жыл бұрын

Hello mazol

@abeero91 4 жыл бұрын

They say that love diminishes every number of years .. But my love has been 9 years .. Every time I think that I have overcome it .. I find I return to it strongly ..

@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын

So very untrue...I have been with my mate 40 yrs and we are more in love and even have more sex than ever....the sex gets better with age because men can last much longer,,women are multiorgasmic, and theynhave more time to.imduñge their senses in play...it can be an incredible time of life with the right partner...better than ever!

@hildaopiyo 4 жыл бұрын

Now I get it why am still single 😂

@rithastanley8526 3 жыл бұрын

HA HA HA HA

@amberjones5871 2 жыл бұрын

Hi there, Mat. I've been watching your videos for a while now, and as someone in a long-term relationship, can I just offer my sincere thanks for your insights into the male psyche? Sometimes life gets busy, and it's easy to forget to appreciate our favourite person, but your words have reminded me to pay him some proper attention. So, again, thank you.

@natalied6923 3 жыл бұрын

Matt, you are a gem! 🦄 You've got this thing figured out ! I'm so proud of you as a fellow human being! 👼🏆🙏💝 Honest! I can't thank you enough for the work you do 👍🙏 AMEN !

@ettiefeistmann5867 4 жыл бұрын

Love your positive attitude to relationships.

@craigpurcell1628 3 жыл бұрын

Hello ettie

@mandybrian025 4 жыл бұрын

Fashionals! I love that word. Thanks for this video, Matt. Been a while since I got some new tips from u. Best regards.

@MsRight-sb5ds 3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately after letting him talk 80% of the time, he rarely allows me to speak without interrupting me 😟

@arturo165 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe there is little of interest in what you say.

@MsRight-sb5ds 3 жыл бұрын

@@arturo165 Exactly, so he’s not the one for me.

@arturo165 3 жыл бұрын

@@MsRight-sb5ds so may wrong ones! right?

@MsRight-sb5ds 3 жыл бұрын

@@arturo165 yep

@arturo165 3 жыл бұрын

@@MsRight-sb5ds girl I'm already bored with you. It's you. You are the problem.

@giavalentina3959 3 жыл бұрын

You know when you have a crush on someone ? And you can't stop thinking about that person 🤭 I find myself fantasizing when you're dating and in a relationship with someone helps keep it interesting , especially for the long term ! ❤️😁

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@eavezdropdlaagan9540 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Mathew Boggs. Inlove watching your vlogs. I am a Single mum of two Girls. And i am Currently in a LDR. I learned now how to my man keeps his interest on me. Thank you for this vlog..

@Starry-zy8bb Жыл бұрын

Give him chances to show off. Find something he's really good at, and take an interest in it, give him the chance to show off his expertise in that area. This is really good at the beginning of a relationship because again, it gives him the chance to show off and show you a good quality of his. And you taking an interest in something he loves? He's gonna go nuts if he's even a little attracted to you.

@lifeisgoodalways3107 3 жыл бұрын

It’s amazing how different the advice is from relationship coach to relationship coach The women relationship coaches say NEVER kiss a man first always let him kiss you 😘 because it’s being masculine to assert yourself in this way. The woman should lean back and be the receiver of her man pursuing her. they also say do NOT show much attention to a man because he then doesn’t see a women as a challenge and is thus not interested in her. Who do we believe ?....

@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын

Im a clinical psychologist the female non professional advice givers are giving the WRONG advice if they are saying this.

@user-lf6pb5ms6g Жыл бұрын

Give him attention is what i did on many first dates. They thought i was fantastic but i knew they were not for me. I'm still on my journey yet very close to the goal yet closer to a forever relationship and appreciate advice here. Thank you Mat.