Ben Stiller: Family Legacy, Workaholism, & Saving his Marriage

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8 ай бұрын

Ben Stiller joins us in the studio to discuss his parents’ influence, his mental health journey as a child, how the pandemic brought him and his wife Christine Taylor back together again, his workaholic tendencies, and what’s next for his career. He and Mayim share the nightmares they had the night prior, Ben shares his favorite Yiddish words and Mayim teaches him a new one during an impromptu Yiddish Word of the Day segment! Ben opens up about what it’s been like to make a documentary about his parents, how his marriage echoes his parents’ relationship, and his mother’s struggles with alcoholism. He recounts his feelings of separation anxiety as a child, the interesting forms of therapies his family tried, and his experience with transcendental meditation. Mayim details her digital detox and inspires Ben to consider giving it a try, and they discuss how creativity can add something incredible to or get in the way of a romantic relationship.
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@susan8946 8 ай бұрын

Ben, one day I saw your parents in NYC and I got so excitred that I almost got hit by a car on the corner. They laughed and helped me! It was one of my biggest thrills. Loved them, so did my dad.

@QuincyDisneyVegan 8 ай бұрын

I met Ben a few times when i worked at Universal Studios Hollywood. He was such a nice guy back then, and very personable and approachable! As he told me In 1997/1998, His favorite ride was the ET Adventure which I had worked at for 3 years, from 1996 - 1999. I seated him on the ride vehicle twice and greeted him once as he walked thru the park headed to the lower lot Studio Center (where ET use to be). Meeting celebrities was always a perk of working there.

@eileengreenspan730 8 ай бұрын

Love this guy!

@user-pv2yx6tp1w 8 ай бұрын

LOVE BEN!

@Muhdah1972 8 ай бұрын

❤

@elizabethheyenga9277 8 ай бұрын

he has a bit of a rep for being a jerk to wait staff, etc....

@Luckyduck82180 8 ай бұрын

The ET Adventure was my absolute favorite as a kid

@Cynshine100 8 ай бұрын

It’s nice to see another side of Ben and hear him talking about his parents. I’m a huge fan of them and him. Great interview Mayim! 🙏🏽💖

@smclarehart 8 ай бұрын

The Secret Life of Walter Mitty is one of my favorite movies! I watch it whenever I just want to feel good! Thanks for that!

@HealthHorror 7 ай бұрын

I like Stiller's body language. The way he sways his chair and has a demeanor like he is just a regular person meeting another regular person. I watch so many comedian podcasts where they sit and move like they are superior beings, like they are above everyone else. You can tell a lot by how someone sits and acts during a conversation. He seems to actually listen and be thinking like a grounded person.

@patriciamurfitt4590 6 ай бұрын

He had pretty good parents 😅

@robert1589 8 ай бұрын

Blossom was a heart-throb growing up in the 90's, she's still got it... Mad Respect. Ben's got that Silver Fox vibe too. Shalom ☮

@MarsaAndari 8 ай бұрын

Speaking of Christine Taylor, them working together in Dodgeball is my favorite thing. Throughout the whole movie her character is totally disgusted with him and I truly dont know how she got through any of that without laughing 😂 Love them both and wishing their family all the best ❤

@HealthHorror 7 ай бұрын

Nobody makes me bleed my own blood. NOBODY!

@MarsaAndari 7 ай бұрын

@@HealthHorror legendary scene😂

@MsMichaelia 7 ай бұрын

Inwardly screaming with joy at this episode! You both are simply fabulous (and yes, we love Jonathan too). But can we just take a moment to appreciate this famous Jewish boy having a sit down with this famous Jewish girl? Eeee!!! Pure magic and greatness rolled into this interview. Thank you for this talk.

@Disney65Fan 7 ай бұрын

A legend. His aged gracefully. I've always loved his movies. His a funny guy

@danastonerock 8 ай бұрын

He looks great for pushing 60 ! Insane. This was a great interview ❤

@orland0110 8 ай бұрын

It is so cool that you have Ben Stiller on this podcast. I really liked a lot of the movies that he did. Keep up the great work Mayim, you are such an inspiration! ❤

@kimdalrymple2288 7 ай бұрын

Loved this interview! You're right, Mayim. Ben Stiller hardly does interviews, so hearing him open up about so many topics was a real treat. Great job!

@elaineturcotte1043 8 ай бұрын

How funny that you both had nightmares before this interview and that you both shared them!

@MayimBialik 8 ай бұрын

🤣😮‍💨

@nicolewilliams2468 8 ай бұрын

What a lovely interview. Gentle, humorous, open, & humble. Well done, both of you. 😊❤😊

@matiaspereira9382 8 ай бұрын

Ben Stiller is an awesome actor Mayim. I really liked his job of voicing Alex in Madagascar, playing Walter Mitty, Derek Zoolander and Larry in Night at the Museum. He also made a guest appearance in Friends. Keep your good job Mayim! Also happy belated anniversary to Big Bang Theory!

@vaskylark 8 ай бұрын

He was so great in Meet the Parents. That movie is so funny and his unease is palpable, you can feel it and audience along for the same ride he's going on. He is a brilliant actor, I agree. One of my faves, just wish he would do more. Tropic Thunder was brilliant too!

@matiaspereira9382 8 ай бұрын

@@vaskylark Oh right. I forgot about Tropic Thunder too

@Echolyris212 8 ай бұрын

He enjoyed unearthing the past and also media and now he’s combining that by digging into his parents past and making the documentary.❤

@lupitasmith9944 8 ай бұрын

There's something so sexy about Ben's openness.

@darnitthelma4247 8 ай бұрын

Something sexy full stop😮way more attractive now he’s older !

@gigidodson 8 ай бұрын

I am a bit older, and i lived Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara Together and separately. Jerry on King of Queens was a reason to watch that show. Anne as Steves Ma, in sex in the city. Amazing!

@darnitthelma4247 8 ай бұрын

Yes she was amazing and felt almost true to life

@benrosn8154 7 ай бұрын

Ben Stiller is the coolest guy in the entire universe

@Libbyerality 8 ай бұрын

Can't wait to see the documentary on your parents Ben. What amazing people! Thanks for all that you do!

@karissameyers147 8 ай бұрын

OK so many gems of wisdom in this interview (you are doing an amazing job Mayim and are truly so amazing at interviewing in a non intrusive way but getting people comfortable enough to open up in a way that feels safe and secure) but the best part was that Ben had a drink next to him that he had probably brought with and was so intrigued by the conversation that the level didn't go down the entire interivew! Call me a dork for details for noticing that, but to me it just showed that this was a conversation he was super engaged with.

@eduardkrammefernandezjulia7586 8 ай бұрын

had the same thought, true! haha

@m_brokenleg 8 ай бұрын

I agree with Ben & Mayim here! I can swear that the workaholoism Ben speaks about is a real thing. It’s a drug that consciously or unconsciously some of us look for like evasion, as in all addictions. It took years, lots of stress, nights of bad sleep & a cancer to me to realize it & try to amend it.. On a less serious tone, sharing your nightmares before today’s episode has been such a pleasant dream to us! 😅

@clairemathews6682 8 ай бұрын

His hairdresser did a great job on the cut and colour mix! Great look

@dporter-gage9907 8 ай бұрын

I could listen to these 2 for hours. Great conversation!

@nauticalrisk8681 8 ай бұрын

First time caller… long time listener… First, truly appreciate you and Ben Stiller as artists! So this was a treat watching y’all nerd out. Second, I respect how your kind but discovering questions about his family gave us but a glimpse into their family dynamic… And lastly, I too got emotional thinking about his family… I guess it struck a chord in myself! Well done chica!

@MayimBialik 8 ай бұрын

🫶🫶🫶

@julietchristensen3957 8 ай бұрын

Loved him ever since Reality Bites. ❤

@pauldavison7858 8 ай бұрын

HEY!! - great mention of the classic movie, "Sliding Doors." You nailed it, that is a keeper.

@laceysilver5714 8 ай бұрын

Love Ben Stiller he seems like such a down to earth guy

@esmeraldajimenez7810 6 ай бұрын

Ben looks just like his dad ..I really love him he is a good actor

@Bailey2006a 4 ай бұрын

I adored his parents but his dad… now, that is what you’d call a true genius.

@anastasiabeaverhausen8220 8 ай бұрын

I saw what I believe was his debut as an actor in "House of Blue Leaves" with John Mahoney at Lincoln Center and while he's continually improved as an actor (and he can do both--I really liked his version of "Secret Life of Walter Mitty") he totally floored me as a director on the extremely serious true crime mini-series "Escape at Dannemora." Also, grew up watching and loving his mom and dad, one of the great comedy stand-up duos of all time.

@elizabethvera5321 7 ай бұрын

Really enjoyed listening to Ben Stiller.

@emilyjensen7223 3 ай бұрын

Loved this one so much. Both Mayim and Ben’s conversations were amazing and had me taking notes! Something hit me pretty hard when Ben said “why do parents love their children so much?” Moved me to tears because the love I have for my children is incredible. Then I thought “and why do some parents (my 8 year old son’s father) have no interest, love or a real connection to with their children. It blows my mind, breaks my heart for my son, angers me etc.

@tanyajedking 7 ай бұрын

I’ve rewatched the secret life of Walter Mitty a lot. Maybe one of my Ben Faves.

@patriciamurfitt4590 6 ай бұрын

The character and the story are classic for a reason 😅

@danitaharris9919 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Mayim, this was such a good show. I can't wait to see the documentary about his parents. I've been a big fan of Anne Meara and Jerry Stiller since I was a child (I'm 65 now). Here comes Ben and he's as funny as his parents. Thank you for this memory. 😊 PS. I'm watching a rerun of Big Bang right now and I love yall too 🤣

@Dena-x 8 ай бұрын

Great Breakdown, Mayim! I loved hearing him talk about Stiller and Meara. His parents were a wonderful comedy team. Great memories of watching them on variety shows when I was a youngun!

@danitaharris9919 8 ай бұрын

@@Dena-x I was a yungun too. We know where he got his talent in the beginning and then Ben ran with it. 😊

@Dena-x 8 ай бұрын

@@danitaharris9919 We sure do! ✌🏽💜

@m2000lbs 8 ай бұрын

Always love Stiller and Mera... Loved their schtik]

@lakehairdontcare3398 8 ай бұрын

So happy to get to know you on a more personal level, Mayim. I grew up watching Blossom and Big Bang was a household favorite. Learning who you are as an actual person has been a blessing. Thank you for calling attention to so many topics. A neuroscientist, a famous actress-what a lifetime-congratulations to you 🎉❤ Ben Stiller is a great guest, happy to learn more about him 😊

@Muhdah1972 8 ай бұрын

Glad he's on here and to hear he's working on a documentary about his legendary parents. Thanks for including favorite Yiddish words; it gave me de ja vu for the actors studio ❤❤❤

@dinleyg 7 ай бұрын

I only found this channel yesterday - not really sure how - but it is utterly refreshing to hear famous people not be asked boring questions about their upcoming film or what happened 20 years ago with this or that film, but actually their every day lives and the mundane stuff that every human being goes through. I've now watched about 8 ......Gold star for you ! 🌟

@jbhindabo 7 ай бұрын

I grew up on the upper west side in the same era on RSD and went to elementary school for 2 years with Benji. Loved this interview! Specifically, the alternate side of the street parking part since that was always so weird and time consuming for my parents too 😄

@josievaccaro 8 ай бұрын

One of the reasons for me being hooked to this podcast is how well-thought-out Mayim's questions are...

@howbigisyourlove 7 ай бұрын

I was in my early twenties when I put the connection together of Ben being related to his Mom and Dad ,, I loved all of what they did .. his dad had a gift .. just a look .. he had a look like my own dad that you knew you were in the presence of comic genius .. not everyone has that .. as for Ben ,, I was like wtf ? ,, that's their son ? .. he must have been taken from the hospital by mistake .. I cannot see in Ben his parents .. he is a really great comedian and actor but I cannot see the connection .. :( he's a great guy and the interview was really great .. :) Mayim is very very good at hosting her studio interviews .. loved it .

@blakrumba 7 ай бұрын

Omg. I love this man. 😭❤

@jennejonez9921 7 ай бұрын

This is the best episode of FUN WITH FLAGS I've seen. 😉 ❤ 👏 great interview

@50hellkat2 8 ай бұрын

Mayim would make an excellent therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist......wow.....her interview style. She does not miss anything. Asks all the right questions.

@marisamartinezolivera 8 ай бұрын

So sorry that lately Jonathan is not “there”..not even in remote!😢 I miss his always great points of view! About Ben & wife: second chances do exist…even if a pandemia is needed to realize! Now seriously..Romantic? Yes! Beautiful and endearing? Yes! But I’m sure they succeded with great and quite untold dose of courage and willpower. Admirable! Bravo for them! Thank you for again a fabulous guest and episode.

@marilynthomson9564 8 ай бұрын

Oh my, I think this is one of my favorite interviews. You’ve done! Love, Ben Stiller.

@Mysticmermaid888 8 ай бұрын

Refreshing episode! I have followed Ben over the years and one of my favorite movies is Tropic Thunder! When I need spirits lifted I go straight to comedy. What a fascinating life he has had. I loved the new Yiddish word Mayim! You are all amazing people. Thank you for sharing this space with us all 🎉❤😊

@Dian2Gig 8 ай бұрын

Ben Stiller is awesome in that he mentioned all the sitcoms on tv that I used to watch. :).

@dreamcatchersong 7 ай бұрын

I've always Ben Stiller but now even more. It takes a lot of guts to open up on such personal stuff 👏👏❤️

@ChardeYogaHealthWellness 8 ай бұрын

Beautiful interview, love it when guests aren't over Zoom! Hits different

@georgiebradley6 8 ай бұрын

I love your talks. You're more than an interviewer - you're a conversationalist with so much nuance. Thank you for this one and all of them :)

@valeriehartman3705 8 ай бұрын

Excellent Mayim, thank you so much for all your work. I love Ben Stiller as an actor, as a human and for his parents too.

@malakib1998 8 ай бұрын

I love this episode! Two of my favorite actors. I love the fascinating backstories of Ben. Thank you Mayim, for always keeping your podcasts fun, enlightening, and down to earth. P.S. Blossom was one of my favorite shows growing up. You and Ben Stiller never age. You guys Rock🎉

@phyllisfuchs9959 3 ай бұрын

What a lovely conversation filled with depth and kindness. Well done Ben and Mayim.

@oldschoolstyle4 2 ай бұрын

I love Ben's perspective of growing up with his parents together and how it related to Christine and him living together. Very insightful.

@louisemoore7715 8 ай бұрын

I am old enough to remember his parents on stage. They were fantastic!...on the Ed Sullivan Show and other stages. They were every bit as good as Mike Nichols and Elaine May. ...I still remember his parents as ground breakers and highly creative and fun. Thank you, Mayim, for this lovely interview!

@ladybrooks3885 8 ай бұрын

He is so great. She is wonderful. Nice discussion.

@jayndough68 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for this Mayim! We love Ben Stiller!!!! ❤❤

@lovingmayberry307 8 ай бұрын

I so enjoyed this interview! A fan of Ben's, but a huge fan of Stiller and Meara (I'm giving away my age)! You two really connected! 👍😊

@wildoceanappaloosawomangay2535 7 ай бұрын

Such a relented man, loved his parents ☮️

@craiglist483 8 ай бұрын

Nice! Mayim I always appreciate your origination questioning. Very familiar aspects to growing up, which can be confusing at times. Ben looks great and I look forward to any project in front or behind the camera. Best of all was the news he is back with his wife- bravo!

@angelaholmes8888 8 ай бұрын

Wow I'm surprised to see ben on the podcast I have been a fan of him since the movie heavyweights and reality bites and zoolander 😊

@trobop1 8 ай бұрын

He’s so mellow…. Is that unusual? But I love it so far

@cindyreseck4429 8 ай бұрын

I fell in love with him in What about Mary...hilarious

@rozzykronfeld-wilbanks8759 8 ай бұрын

I love this. Ben Stiller has always been one of my favorites. I remember him starting out doing MTV stuff. My dad grew up on Riverside Drive. Mom lived across the street and they met when dad and his best friend were at a movie, and mom told them to be quiet cuz she was a usher 😂

@altaresjoyceee 8 ай бұрын

This episode is one I'm definitely looking forward to! This was the last thing I saw before going to bed (its already evening here in PH), and it was the perfect end to the day. Watching these two enjoy their chat makes me incredibly happy. We can see the impact his parents had on him. You can tell that they have a lot in common. It's enjoyable to observe and hear about their personal experiences because they are moving. Ben's use of his favourite Yiddish phrases is another thing I adore. I'm hoping Jonathan will appear in the upcoming episode. He is missed, as is his insightful viewpoint. By the way, you look great Mayim 😊 when i see your happy, im also happy. This was a fantastic episode. Kudos Mayim and Jonathan! ❤ Looking forward to the next guest! 😁 p.s belated happy anniversary to the big bang theory 🎉❤ (ShAmy Fan here 😂)

@nicolewilliams2468 8 ай бұрын

You know, this is completely off-topic but as I’m sitting here doing my normal reading, devotional & prayer time I’m reading two studies of the book of Esther. As a Jesus-follower I absolutely love the way you pull your faith into your interviews. & how the different faith traditions are discussed with your guests. I learn so much even from just the brief discussions in these interviews & in your other social media specifically about your Jewish background, & I just wanted to say thank you for that. You too, Mayim, were born for such a time as this. Thank you for using God’s giftings to you to help so many people. 😊

@thomash.schwed3662 5 ай бұрын

I must admit that I come away from this discussion with a whole new appreciation for Ben Stiller. I had always respected him for the sake of his parents whom I absolutely enjoyed watching when they worked together. (How could anyone not love Jerry and Anne?) But, through the course of this discussion, I can gladly state that the apple really hasn't fallen far from the tree in Ben's case. The fact that he wrote that sketch on the family therapy demonstrates that. I'm looking forward to the documentary and to his future endeavours, particularly in light of his journey of introspection. Thank you, Mayim, for inviting Ben onto the program and, consequently, for allowing me this opportunity to see him in a new light.

@Wandering.Homebody 8 ай бұрын

I loved him in reality bites.

@user-fq9un9bz8b 4 ай бұрын

Its so wonderful seeing my girl mayim bialik again I have really missed her so much I just wish she was ready to return back to jeopardy i really like her alote and love her podcast program I can handle anything with her she so strong so kind so sweet and so smart and so wonderful to I felt like a part of me was gone until I found her again Amanda Miller Rockledge Florida

@susanhendricks3964 8 ай бұрын

Excellent conversation 💫

@louisbonilla6780 8 ай бұрын

Ben Stiller is one of my favorite actors - I bore witness to his expert grip on his craft as an actor in the film "Permanent Midnight" which helped me develop as an adult with anxiety issues brought on by addiction to pharmaceuticals that was creating paranoia in my marriage which eventually disintegrated despite my efforts - please get a chance to see this film Mayim it's a gripper - you look so fantastic with hair and makeup keep it up you're beautiful!❤

@lovingmayberry307 8 ай бұрын

Never heard of this movie, I'll ck it out, ty!

@louisbonilla6780 8 ай бұрын

@@lovingmayberry307 You won't be disappointed - it's a white knuckle ride!

@archaprice3372 7 ай бұрын

I think Mayim is extremely attractive, on the Big Bang Theory she was made to look unattractive with the long straightened hair.

@yami-rnr 7 ай бұрын

I loved this interview so much, I liked the therapy talk , I would like people to be encouraged to talk and go. I'm a fan of both of you and his dad, it was so emotional! hug from Uruguay

@MayimBialik 7 ай бұрын

🇺🇾🧠🫶

@layna-heyhey 8 ай бұрын

Yes marriage. Stay together. ❤

@debbyszatmari7899 8 ай бұрын

This was wonderful! I love the Yiddish ending :)

@ronan1me 8 ай бұрын

They say throw a hook in the beginning of the podcast.. u just gave a segment. Love it.

@SL1PSTAR 8 ай бұрын

I enjoyed every minuet of that.

@wandabrown3964 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for this video with Ben. I was amazed by his acting abilities/skills. Although I never liked his parents, I realized now that I just didn't understand them. But they sure did an awesome job with Ben.

@patriciamurfitt4590 6 ай бұрын

I'm a big fan of Ben's parents. When he came along, the only reason I checked him out was because of who his folks were. They have to be so proud of him. 🥰

@trashleigh87 6 ай бұрын

I can't get over how different his speaking voice is to his 'acting' voice!

@nancya7289 8 ай бұрын

These two make me proud to be a Jew, whatever that means. Such kindness, intelligence, respectful inquiry, humility. Sometimes I feel Mayim's brain racing -- like she's so fascinated, and the ideas are saturating her neurons. And another thing: I adore when she inquires with boundaries -- asks personal q's in a non-invasive way. She's a real pro. They both are mensches. To quote another NY Jew, (may you both) live long and prosper.

@kari4295 8 ай бұрын

Wow! Ben Stiller! Can't wait to watch!

@tomlichnofsky.7048 8 ай бұрын

A really Nice Guy - Ben Stiller and His Famous - Family - Parents 😊😆 Awesome Episode! 👊✊🎃✌🍁

@thiruvetti 7 ай бұрын

People might like him from Zoolander, Night at the museum etc.. But I felt "The secret life of Walter Mitty" was his best work ever. To come out from his world, to creating this beautiful movie about life in general, without wokeism, without being "holier than thou" or being preachy. I can watch that movie any no of times like The Truman Show.

@FilmGrouch 4 ай бұрын

Just discovered your channel this past week, and this was a really exceptional interview. I loved how Ben had some incredibly relatable stories, but also some unique perspectives that only he could convey. I don't always agree with him politically, but you can tell that at his core, he is a good soul. He's also a terrific comedic actor, and I hope he and his wife continue to make it work!

@jonathanross900 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for the John Roeder shoutout, Ben. Loved him as a teacher.

@KyloRen4238 6 ай бұрын

Happy B-day Ben Stiller. UR awesome. I seen Family Guy, about Peter having Joe and his cripple wheelchairs guys. Wow. Still, I love The Watch. Its awesome and hilarious. Same for Madagascar. 1, 2 Escape 2 Africa and 3 Europe's Most Wanted is amazing. And Tropic Thunder, God I love that movies its seriously funny. I kind of love that part when Jeff was giving a war cry, to that Asian drug making madget kid. LOL. I think I did that, when I was a kid... can't remember. Long time. Love Ben Stiller. May the Peace be with u Ben Stiller. From Harlingen Texas. November 30, 1965 November 30, 2023 through November 30, 3023

@dreamchampagne 3 ай бұрын

Ben looks amazing ! Loved this!,

@latnscorpio1 8 ай бұрын

This was soooo good!🙌🏽

@missygarcia3442 8 ай бұрын

Awesome interview. Very interesting. Thanks Mayim 😊

@ruthnagarya2028 8 ай бұрын

When I see Mayim behind the microphne stand, I expect her to start talking about fun with flags...just can't help it!

@anthonywyattStylist 8 ай бұрын

I don't know how that adds to the conversation about what mental issues were discussed or how Mya's or Ben Stiller's conversation relates to you or any intellectual commentary that you would like to add all it reflects his idol worship just like the comment above you talking about how the interview looked and how she did a great job instead of continuing on the conversation and asking questions or adding input to something that was specifically discussed. That's what happens when you put clout and false idol worship above everything else that makes people look ill intelligent

@LMMLR4 6 ай бұрын

I love how Miaym projects her reality onto the interviewed person, and they redirect her to their reality. It makes me more aware of also doing the same. Love this podcast.

@janinehildenbrand1891 8 ай бұрын

I loved the interview! He is so down to earth and nice! I really enjoy this podcast. Really helps listening to topics related to my mental struggles. Mayim, I’ve been a fan since Beaches!!

@archaprice3372 7 ай бұрын

Me too