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That's family right there

literally

I hate his dad

Probably a trip of a lifetime for both of them.

Nah his dads lowkey going to disrespect him

@@rjcrabbe1210that’s what Mexican/Hispanic families are here for tough love ❤️..

​@@8Nickgarcia Equating tough love with disrespect is wild.

He needs to cut his hair first.

YES this

That mom is so cool and chill!

na the mom is great

@@Zack_God Why did you say na if you agreed?

She's the cool aunt down

She reminds me so much of my Russian mama 🥰

The proverb about all the fingers being the same made no sense though. I put the thumb first over the other four fingers, a hand is pretty much useless without a thumb.

​@@canchero724let's just say she didn't give it that much thought at that moment

@@canchero724 it kinda did tho and even if it did not u can still get it and i think is also because is a bit hard for her to express herself in english

I kind of understood when she was using her fingers as a demonstration on which she "loves" more. You love your fingers equally the same, because you need all of them, maybe or maybe not at the same time, but they have their uses. But instead of looking at them as uses but more as parts of the person that makes them who they are, the complete hand being them as a whole.

reminded me of my mom 🥲

The relationship this mom has with her daughters was so very beautiful to see❤

And the daughter on the right side teared up on that. They cut out most of that reaction. Such an emotional moment ❤

My dad used to say the same thing all the time, Rip 💗🌷

That's really Russian) Saying that as a Russian)

Lmao right ? There’s always a despicable one but not this time its weird

haha yes! well said 👌

​@@ohmygodsteve5224it's wholesome

me too omg

Dad went away for a reason, no need to go back.

@@PROVOCATEURSK…

I agree! I think it really depends on the Russian parent cuz I have seen some be really strict raising kids (usually just after they immigrate) and relax and the child gets older or becomes an adult. That’s how it was with my parents atleast. I would not have been able to have open conversations like that with them 4 years ago.

She really is a blessing!! She had a really tough upbringing and a super strict mom, and said she never wanted to be that way if she had kids one day! She is the best ❤

​@@allasoundallasound I truly hope your sister understands that parents are proud of their children just for existing. Also, she is still just a baby in her late 20s early 30s. Most people are still struggling to figure out who they are well into their 30s and 40s, and beyond! Give her a big hug, tell her there is no timeline, and that she is perfect. :)

@@helianabanes4875little sister in the video here, thanks for your kind words ❤❤

@@avadasar1104 you are welcome :)

yes!

Go back

Me too, the son and dad reminds me of me and my dad, he’s really doing so much for me and I just love him a lot

@@Gatozpartysame, but it’s my mother instead of my father

⁠@@elenacatana7636give back the land you stole from the natives first

дааааа жесь да!

what does it mean lol

@@zdf74it’s “how to say” respect

wasn't it bulgarian ? saying "как се казва?"

no it was russian but bulgarian is close as a language to russian so

Oh your god? Why is life on Earth more valuable for you than heaven?

@@PROVOCATEURSK It's not that deep. I found a family story to be touching. The end.

@@PROVOCATEURSKy’all ruin everything lmao

Thank you Lucas!!! ❤❤❤❤

@@Nearthelighting Don't act like you don't have certain preconcieved thoughts about ways that different cultures are, everyone has these thoughts, it's fine.

Thought the exact same thing about the Russian mom, I knew she looked too cool tho. Lol

As a person who grew up with a Russian mom, this particular mother is an exception to the rule, there is a reason why she moved.

Same AF! I’m 1/4 Slavic. My grandma was Slovenian and I was expecting something completely different from the Russian mom. Really made me check my bias and made me happy.

most russian moms are really strict lol....

29 here🙋🏿‍♀️ Still living with my mother and getting rejected from grad schools again, but we persevere!

super true, even the people who seemingly “have it together” probably don’t actually know what they’re doing either and are just winging it tbh. i’m in my mid twenties and have no idea what i’m doing and only have a rough idea of what i might do in terms of career, but that’s heavily dependent on getting into and paying for grad school. i hope jessie and anybody in a similar situation knows that their worth as a person doesn’t diminish based on what they’re doing in life, what their occupation is, what their life plan is, etc.

Something that brought me peace was hearing that some Native American tribes believe the purpose of life is to just live.

Yup.. I'm 29.. in university and my parents are supporting me.. don't let ppl rush you.. things take time

Jessie for president. Her and her mom are so hot😊

Thank you!!! We are super lucky!

😂😂

LOLLL

This is so true 😂😂 they all have the same answer

Oh my god. This is so true! My parents said they were tired of bribing me to learn their languages. I was 4!!! What?!

I’m an older Baby Boomer. In my youth in this country, we moved to our own places when we were in our early twenties. Rents were affordable even to those making small salaries. These days, however, rents are exorbitant. It’s understandable that young adults can’t afford to move away from their parents’ homes.

I’m 28 and still living with my parents. I have severe depression so I’m scared to be alone, since I am suicidal at times. Being with my family has helped me. I’m moving out in 6 months, after I get married and it’s scary.

@@CeeradsThank you for understanding. So many people don’t and they can have really negative opinions of adults who live with their parents rn. I had to move back in with my mom because when inflation happened what was barely scrapping by every month even with a 2.5% annual raise, $17.04 pay, a promotion and a boss who kept complaining that the people he was trying to get into our understaffed fedex office store were insane for asking for a starting pay of more than $15. I couldn’t afford to pay rent, buy food, tampons, toilet paper, internet and I was still working 50 hour weeks. I couldn’t take it anymore and my mind just snapped. I ended up having a mental breakdown and ended up in a mental institution because I was suicidal. I would often tell coworkers that I just felt like I wanted to die because I was so tired of struggling. The crazy thing was they agreed. I held onto my apartment with every last shred of my dignity until there was none left and I was told I couldn’t renew my lease and I would have to leave. That’s when I moved in with my mom. I don’t work there anymore. I now make $16/hr and I live with my mom and I can finally laugh and not feel guilty for breathing when I can’t afford it. It’s nice.

Agreed. In many other cultures, people live at home until they get married.

She SO is a rockstar ⭐️

That’s it. The perfect way to describe it. “We work hard to give their sacrifices justice” it’s always in the back of my mind and that’s why I do what I do

"We work hard to give their sacrifices justice." Wow, that's a powerful statement. Thank you for that.

I feel like you have not ask her about it. We all as parents have great expectations of each. Give yourself a chance to ask and show. 👍😎🤗

❤❤❤❤

lol, I asked to use my mums netflix and the PW was my name, I thought it so funny that "my" account has me as the password XD

And rents, food, etc., are sooo high!

Thank you so much, she is the greatest!

They must be treasured at all costs!!

thank youuuu ❤

im in my healing era. thanks for the love 🥺🥺🥺❤❤

They all seem like amazing parents as well

Reminds me of my mom's lol. People give her sideways glances or family will try to shush her/poke fun but I never minded it. In my head, it's one of the many things that she'll be remembered by when she's no longer here. Simply a happy lady who loves life. ❤️

Admitting it causes a complex though

Why would you admit it though? It’s pretty dysfunctional to say. Personally I stand by the words of the Russian lady

Fairly I would say is the word

The word should be "easiest child". When you say one of your kid is the favorite it puts into the other ones' heads that they can never reach that 'favorite' title no matter what.

Favorites a strong word tho, he could’ve said “Rays the one I identify with.” Or “Ray and I got along best.” Etc. “But I love them all the same, and respect the new things the others show me about life.” Or something like that.

She just has that energy about her!! ❤

She made me cry too. I definitely feel that at times but try to keep my head up and affirm that I'm moving at the pace that I was meant to be moving. Despite trying to do good though, there's always the nagging thought that I think my mom will simply never get over the fact that I had my son young, turning my life in another direction than the one my family envisioned for me but hey, I'm proud of what I've achieved and still am working towards my goals! I hope you & I will feel at peace one day, OP. Believe me, I know the low moments are hard, but that hole you think you're in will one day become a pinprick.

She cuts her own hair and makes her own clothes.... literal icon!

Not sure about the sweet part if you are not judging based looks. She hinted strongly that she will put her mom at a home (a truly sweet person will said yes instantly).

and she's hot.

@@cnaizhen being sweet isnt incompatible with not wanting the pressure of being an elder's care taker. It's not an easy response to give.

@@anb2526 The reason for that reply is because the girl did nothing that stands out as sweet in the video. Genuine yes, sweet definitely no, other than her looks.

What other videos has she been in

Gets me still every time! 😢❤

We loveeeee Zemfira!!!!

She's very cool! And definitely a perfect mix of both ❤

Its wild but not necessarily disrespectful. Its about the intention and I don't think that the intention had anything to do with the mom. Probably just the one big bed in the house

clearly the mom dgaf lol

⁠@@blablaklabautermann7578 exactly 😂 For us, it's not that deep. It was my room/bed for a summer while she was out of the country.

It's truly a blessing!

I don't think you'd be alone in that perception! I'm glad you saw that in her, she's the best ❤

There’s a lot of stereotypes of Russians in media, so I think it’s a common misperception. As a Russian, I’m so happy they included a Russian family here! Love to see real representation

I share this sentiment. As much as I’d hate to put them in a home, I don’t think my childhood self would ever heal completely. I’m sorry for your experience and sending you love🤍🤍🤍

I hope u and ppl in the thread heal as much as u can. Ur feelings are valid

It’s hard not knowing how to approach or let know you guy’s without making you feel so bad about yourself. At times we believe that if we just express it it might be changing positively but not often turns out like that.

I agree!

A couple of years back I would have just take the shot. But I know I have to let the pain go away!!🤗🤗

thanks for the love ❤🥹

idkk

that is emotional damage waiting to happen lol

no way they’re doing that😭😭😭