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If You're Afraid To Fail, WATCH THIS | Mel Robbins

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@FruScarpia 4 жыл бұрын

I read an article this very day, where a great female sprinter (battling injury and depression) said: “I never ‘fail’ - I either win, or learn”.

@vanillawaterfae 4 жыл бұрын

FruScarpia - What a great perspective!!! ❤️

@mozartrn1 4 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@DJVARAO 4 жыл бұрын

Words of wisdom that I totally agree with.

@laurie7703 4 жыл бұрын

I believe that’s from Nelson Mandela. Great perspective!!

@elenamarina9736 4 жыл бұрын

Now THAT is the mindset we women really need!!!❤

@IrishMexican Жыл бұрын

Courage doesn’t come from doing something without fear. Courage comes from the person who is fearful, but does it anyways.

@CakeHeater Жыл бұрын

"You can't fail your dreams, because they're meant to be pursued, not achieved" I honestly think this is so poignant, and it punched me in the gut. I've never thought of it that way

@tatianar.9793 2 жыл бұрын

fear of failure gives me an obscene amount of anxiety when it came to starting something new. so aggravating but anytime I do push through something i'm beyond proud of myself afterwards

@carsonc6659 Жыл бұрын

That's me.

@pedrogoncalves6662 Жыл бұрын

This is exactly me, when I get put Trough new things I didn't planned or don't feel like do but have to do it it gives me such a big amount of anxiety it paralyzes me but once I gain courage and do it I feel like I'm in the top of the world

@silxbeats Жыл бұрын

I went through this today for my regulation exam. While answering the questions I started to feel anxious and a bit fearful of the uncertainty of the outcome of my results..

@mollytejana 4 жыл бұрын

"In the middle of difficulty, lies opportunity." ~ Albert Einstein This quote has gotten me through SO much in my life when I wanted to give up.

@karla_zero 4 жыл бұрын

I learned that the fear of failure is what kept me back from doing many things in life. Overcoming the fear of failure wasn't easy but it's so much better on the other side, doing new things and trying to achieve goals you've been dreaming about!

@nalzym924 4 жыл бұрын

How did you overcome it?

@theultimatereductionist7592 2 жыл бұрын

Go preach your garbage ideology to every single prisoner (all prisoners are prisoners of war) especially those with no possibility of parole. Go look them in the eye and tell them NEVER to give up trying to get out of prison.

@vince6252 10 ай бұрын

Okay. Thank you for the encouragement. Sounds like you're going ahead nicely. Good work. 👍🏻👍🏻

@tejashwinikulkarni7078 4 жыл бұрын

I am afraid of both failures n success ..When I succeed I doubt myself that do I deserve it

@IntheMOMENT22173 4 жыл бұрын

I think that it is called impostor syndrome...it really sucks. When you finally get over the fear of failing and succeed at something, you have to constantly remind yourself that you deserve to be in that position. It is the feeling of not being good enough that holds us back.

@ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926 3 жыл бұрын

That's caused by devil agenda to harm yourself,be careful always.

@gricosandrinotereno2960 3 жыл бұрын

The simple answer is your just fucking lazy

@fai411 3 жыл бұрын

@@gricosandrinotereno2960 nope that's you for assuming so

@whitespider8998 3 жыл бұрын

Me too... and when people cheer me i always think.. oh anyone could have done this I just got lucky. I never appreciate my self and my work and I work hard for my plans, i put my soul in it.

@kaylei001 4 жыл бұрын

Everything we ever want is on the other side of fear

@damiantan6782 Жыл бұрын

4:07: "When you fail once, you double your chances of success." Thanks Mel.😁❤💯

@busymama7903 4 жыл бұрын

F.A.I.L. = First Attempt I Learn, meaning, if you fail, you have actually learned what not to do in order to succeed next time

@onlineincomeburnette 4 жыл бұрын

Love this

@nathrose7612 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you good quotation.🗝️🙏

@nathrose7612 4 жыл бұрын

Sometime you have to try several Times...

@amandadube3981 4 жыл бұрын

I like that too true !

@TheCakeIsNotLie 2 жыл бұрын

First Attempt I Leave, in my case

@zofiajaneczek184 4 жыл бұрын

Not good enough, been told this my whole life! Raised by abusive parents so nothing I ever did was going to be, despite whatever I did, it was not ever going to be good enough for anything and anyone! I'm seemingly stuck in a dead-end, low paying job that I truly despise and ALL I want to do is follow my dreams. It takes so much effort just for me to get to this job, to stay at this job, to pretend to be OK there. I'm dying inside from this current life and this horrible job! I have to try doing whatever I loved to do years ago, I need to get that creative spark back and try to move forward in some small way.

@roseannebenjamin8832 4 жыл бұрын

It's not too late to follow your dreams, good luck 😋

@r.k.wilson7123 4 жыл бұрын

Always felt as a failure due to what my mother told me through out my life. But she’s gone now. I just launched my own blog and business 2 weeks ago at age 59. Mel you are the reason I tried this. I hope it’s a hit. Thank You Mel!

@sharlharmakhis280 Жыл бұрын

I hope wherever she is now she's looking at how well you're doing and kicking herself. 👍

@thisisgood44 6 ай бұрын

I dont afraid to fail when it comes to learning but when money joins in it gaves me the chills maan

@joud9482 4 жыл бұрын

This is me, and that's why I procrastinate!!!🤦‍♀️😫😕

@beartheburn3863 3 ай бұрын

Exactly how I feel like you

@Heisnotfound-mk2sd Ай бұрын

@joud9482 same...

@JS45678 11 ай бұрын

I perform music on stage weekly (guitar player) and I suffer from severe performance anxiety due to my deep fears of failure. Imagine taking off on a blistering guitar solo only to lose focus, hit the wrong notes, or just go blank momentarily. These are my deepest fears when I perform… However, I have learned to use these awful anxieties and fears of failure to motivate me to practice so much that I know my muscle memory will overcome the nerves and anxieties of performing in front of hundreds of people. I see my fears of failure as a blessing! I love what I do and no way will I ever allow my relentless anxieties and fears stop me from performing on stage. Practice, practice, and practice is my solution to this horrible problem. Tomorrow morning, it all starts again but I’m ready, I’m prepared, and I’m going to do awesome! 🎸😊🎶

@Kandyrose0108 9 ай бұрын

I've been wanting to sing in public sometimes but I feel scared of looking stupid and others would laugh at me and say the same (eg Divz is stupid for trying). Inner critics come too

@skylebrown6070 4 жыл бұрын

Stop putting yourself down if you make a mistake it's normal to make mistakes so we learning from them

@Emmalemma90989 10 ай бұрын

This video hit me hard. I had a teacher a few years ago that destroyed my confidence by yelling at me a lot and telling me that I was wrong. This helped a lot.

@hobbytoby8887 2 жыл бұрын

dont let failure hold you back.

@PurplePinkRed 5 ай бұрын

The worst part is when you do try and you put 110% and you still fail. I love a challenge and I love trying new things. Yes, it is an experience and I'm not starting from square one. Thank you ❤

@EllaRingrose 4 жыл бұрын

You either win from an experience of learn and grow from an experience. It's all a matter of perspective. Every failure is a learning experience. Once we decide to feel the fear and do it anyway we learn that every 'failure' is a gain because it shows we are chasing our dreams and learning along the way rather than waiting for the perfect moment (which never comes about). Remember you are one failure closer to success. Keep going, anything is possible!

@pinkbot 2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@mohamedismail6273 2 жыл бұрын

Fear of failure is bad if it is stopping u from taking action but good if it make u work hard

@kurrves 4 жыл бұрын

Failure to Succeed. Yes, I don’t feel good enough, always someone else to compete with.

@KatyDCoach 4 жыл бұрын

Karen Kurves Stippey whatever you do you are good enough as long as you take action to achieve it

@kurrves 4 жыл бұрын

KatyDBusinessCoach thank you. Yes!

@wandalee5010 4 жыл бұрын

Only compete with yourself! Be better everyday, forgive your learning processes, rid your life of anyone who holds your failures against you, they are small minded and need to go so you can achieve your goals.

@VertigoMusicMagazine 6 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤ it’s actually ridiculous to feel that way! It was my family of origin that made me feel that way! It’s BS! We are fabulous!!!

@kerryfoster1 4 жыл бұрын

Everything we attempt starts in ignorance. Failure only comes when you give up. Keep trying and eventually you become the EXPERT. There are no short cuts - the more you try the better you become. All world champions do this!

@mahmoudmagdy8383 3 жыл бұрын

"your dreams are meant to be pursued and not achieved" wow this quote has changed me a lot and I think we all guys have to change our attitude towards failure cuz once you pursued your dream once you've put an effort and strived for your dream there is no regret regardless of the outcome

@windflier1684 2 жыл бұрын

“You live and learn. At some point of your life, you live.”

@Battleganz 9 ай бұрын

Mel Robbins. Helping women to win!

@flame0111 2 жыл бұрын

2:48, i can literally understand how it feels to be afraid of failure... I can relate with her honestly ....

@ASMRconKiki 2 жыл бұрын

You’ve saved me so many times. I remember I was so scared of flying and your videos pushed me outside of that fear bubble. Now I am intensely scared of failing and your words are such a great comfort. Thank you!

@NibberKSmooth 4 жыл бұрын

Success takes passion, skill, time, patience, effort and energy. It will happen, keep working at it and do not expect the end result to be instant.

@yuliiaslyvka2602 4 жыл бұрын

I needed this. Mel, thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

@atuhairejonathan8834 3 жыл бұрын

Hi its me your sister , victoria justice your twin sister😮😮😮

@billielith 3 жыл бұрын

She is incredible

@MrAnugar Жыл бұрын

Your video just answer a big question that I had. I couldn't see the answer until now. Thanks for your words!

@katemichelle 2 жыл бұрын

Currently in my second year of med school, realizing I want to be a general surgeon after convincing myself that I didn’t want it in my first year. Now I’m setting up meetings and making baby steps towards preparing my application

@NenaLavonne 4 жыл бұрын

The only way we really fail is failing to try. We get so caught up in comparison and self-defeating thinking that we forget that everyone starts somewhere. We can't compare our beginning to someone's end product. We need to take that first step forward and keep taking baby steps. We will get there eventually! We also can't hold ourselves up to impossible standards! Sometimes "done" is better than "perfect." :) Have an amazing day, everyone! We're all in this together!

@LightnessofJoy 3 жыл бұрын

4:18: “All I ever want you to do is try.” Thanks Mel💫 It helped to hear this today🙏

@Salma-mj9hw 3 ай бұрын

I really needed to hear this ... I started posting singing videos recently, and I've been so self-critical, I take days to film one cover because I keep playing the same song again and again until my fingers hurt from playing the ukulele. Even after posting, I still think in my mind "ugh, I could have done better"... I honestly feel scared and embarrassed at the same time, like how could I ever be as good as other great singers. This video really helped to make me understand that it's okay to feel afraid, embarrassed, scared to fail, because all of that just means I'm actually trying and putting in the work to get somewhere. Thank you! ❤

@feelingnifty Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your video, the way you put things makes a lot of sense.

@brightpage1020 4 жыл бұрын

I have ADHD. Every day, I fail at most things. I have 4 kids, 2 still very little, and 1 still kind of little. There is no such thing as a “successful” day to me because every single plan goes awry every. Single. Darn. Day. I have learned to adjust my definition of success to “Today, my kids got 3 meals and at least 1 snack. They ate off clean dishes. They started the day in clean clothes. They ended the day in clean jammies. They brushed their teeth at least once today. They all have health insurance now and we can catch up on Dr. stuff... None of them died today. None of them died. Despite the very real possibilities of potential dangers. They’re loving and compassionate and fun and smart and developing. And nothing else in the world has to go right because that’s all there is. There is so so so much more I wish would work out for us but I can tow this line day after day for years and get by... until... until they’re less dependent, can dress themselves and use the potty... can spend some time at school... Then, I can refocus on the bigger goals for this family. But right now they need me making sure they are alive, and bathed regularly... so, that’s enough. That’s ok. It’s ok. Even if it’s not ideal, it’s livable and we can improve a little bit every day or every month or every year until we get there.

@konablu 5 ай бұрын

I am so glad to read this comment. I hope you see it. I had to do something like this myself. I 0:00 fought the negative family dynamics. I devoted my whole day to caring for my kids. I became the parent who was always there. We left the controllers, the doubters, and the people living a double standard. Lots of hypocrites. I made myself go to sleep and rest most nights. I learned about taking baby steps toward my goals of living better. I learned more lessons about who I did not want to be. I kept my faith in the face of haters. I humbled myself to Jesus and told him I felt like I was not doing enough. I needed his wisdom. He brought peace to my heart and my spirit. He led me to the mentors I needed. I became a woman of faith and a better Mom. I got brave. I walked away from all the "impostors" in my life. Former friends who had gotten so used to a "people pleaser" that when I stood up for myself and my kids, I was being "stubborn." So be it. I had found my voice, and I was going to use it every day. The word "No" became freeing for us. My kids grew up knowing they did not have to fit into someone else's box. We have all been learning how to set up the paths we desire. I put quotes on the walls of our apartments and houses. I made lots of mistakes. I got into debt. We had to leave a home I bought due to abuse. I thank you for sharing your comment. It will help other parents, who wonder if they really have what it takes to keep it together and love and care for their families. I am praying for you and your family. Especially your children. Oh, yeah, I want to tell you about the bullies in my elder family. Many of their relationships ended. They were removed from authority, and some lost their health. I am not happy that they ended up like that. But, the abuse and oppression finally stopped.😊

@brightpage1020 5 ай бұрын

@@konablu 💕💙❤️💕🥰 love this! Thank you!

@KatyDCoach 4 жыл бұрын

If we are afraid of failure we project the failure and it happens. I love to think that the failure is just showing me that this solution will not work and I am encouraged to give it a try from another angle :)

@JulietteVeronica1201 4 жыл бұрын

I've learned a lot about success and failure from the Greek myth of Orpheus. For a brief background for people who aren't aware with this story, he was trying to save his wife and get her out of Hell so the God and Goddess of the Underworld let them go to live on a happy life together under one condition. They had to walk out of Hell with Orpheus in front and Eurydice behind on the trail and Orpheus couldn't look back, but at the end he does turn back cause he didn't have enough faith in her. Success is a journey out of another world, which we call reality and sometimes reality can be hell. When doubt comes in, we can relapse and our fears from the past will over consume us. My advice, don't look back and trust that if you keep climbing the mountain you'll eventually reach the top. It will take time and effort, it won't be easy. But imagine your futuristic self is walking behind you, guiding you to your desired destination. You won't see them, you won't hear them, but if you believe in yourself you will feel their presence more which only helps encourage you to climb more.

@naletsanaele 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you ,this is beautiful

@elizabethnotyourbusiness3655 2 жыл бұрын

I'm afraid of failing with money I don't really have to to try with. This hits me in the gut because it's the truth. I don't feel good enough.

@vince6252 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Mel. This is helpful. I have become fearful of too much hard work. (What most people would call normal levels of work.) Because I haven't got results. In fact, since my PhD, I believe I've achieved less and less with each project or year with my hard work. Maybe including my PhD. Maybe that was a high-point in achievement per time. So, why work hard? I need to work on things: 1. I can do And 2. I want to achieve. Then, maybe I'll achieve my goals, then find new goals after those. I shall try. And I shall try again. I'll keep trying, moving forward probably.

@regi8838 4 жыл бұрын

Mel & Friends, aren’t failures a given towards achievements? Of course we aim to avoid devastating failures, but all success stories are loaded with some failures... in my assessment of all successes, there seem to be three real forms of failure. Failure to start, failure to learn from failures and failure to get back up, dust yourself off, and get going again. Les Brown days, “Shoot for the moon, land on the stars”.... if we don’t start/launch, we’re stuck holding our fears, looking up at the stars. Let’s shoot and land among them! Thank you Mel for all you do! You’re a stars in my book! Best to all!

@lisac6139 2 жыл бұрын

We're the same age, but you are the mother to my inner child giving me the courage to try. I'm gonna do this thing. And I will learn.

@ljkoh20052000able 9 ай бұрын

Nope. I failed the bar exams because I pushed and tried outside my comfort zone. I failed not because I was afraid to fail. I failed because I did not have the right support system, I was not in the right time or place. I did not have the right circumstances or history, up bringing. Its a lot of factors. Save that you have said. And after failing the second time I gave up since I placed everything already on the line. Then I succeeded when I saw that everything comes in place for yourself in life.

@InnerVisionStudios 4 жыл бұрын

This was sooo good Mel! I hope this inspires people who are crippled by the fear of failure to go forward with their dreams.

@lamargames3940 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@Djake3tooth 2 жыл бұрын

Well, the fact that so many people still struggle with this makes me feel like the problem hasn’t been solved…

@annrice2405 4 жыл бұрын

I was 'let go' at work 2yrs ago after the company I worked for was bought out. Shocking after being there 17yrs. I managed to build my own business over the last 18mths, yet I almost had a panic attack after doing an elevator speech at a networking event. Exactly what you said..... saying out loud to an audience was what induced the sheer panic afterwards.

@naletsanaele 4 жыл бұрын

Well done you!

@marinaSassygUrl88 4 жыл бұрын

From the first few minutes of the video, I started crying because it HIT ME. Thank you Mel, you’re wonderful ❤️🥺 . I will try . fuck the failing, I am trying and I will go through it!! F the fears and the thoughts that make me feel so little. I am doing it 💪🏻💪🏻😊

@Blackdiamond929_ 2 жыл бұрын

Failure is a by product of success

@RosePetal17 4 жыл бұрын

YES! I have always wanted to use my voice in a creative way, either singing, or doing voice over work. When I am alone, I can do crazy voices and accents, feeling free in myself. I recently took a voice over class through college continuing ed. I was in a class full of naturals, felt awful about myself, and left the animation class early...:( I inhibit myself in the presence of other talented folks :(. I had an email from the instructor after the class to find out if I was ok. I am not feeling comfortable to go back to the last class, but I will, just to commit to myself and to not run away (which has been a pattern for me...)

@bloodmajesty414 4 жыл бұрын

If it helps, try posting it online where there's no comment section (a freelance site like fiverr, or selling songs on itunes) and see if you got traction. KZfaq is great too if you don't mind some comments. Most of the times, what you think as "awful" is actually "wow this is amazing" to a group of people - you just have to find your own group of people. I mean 50 shades of gray and twilight got fans...

@RosePetal17 4 жыл бұрын

Blood Majesty 🙏 I do have voice demos and songs up on SoundCloud.com and posted a bit on KZfaq😉💖. Thank you so much for your suggestions...

@marijkevv11 2 жыл бұрын

So strong you💜

@analiza329 Жыл бұрын

Thank you . I just had my long breathe after watching this video

@melaninandaura9713 10 ай бұрын

They’re not to be achieved but pursued. ❤

@SharonHorneEllstromBeMe 4 жыл бұрын

There is no failure...just stepping stones to what we want. Love this video!

@oluwanifemirebecca5256 2 жыл бұрын

And I really want to make them proud. I'm trying my best but I get scared every time things get the slightest bit confusing

@ConstanterMotivation 6 ай бұрын

Don't be afraid to go out and achieve your dreams! Better a life of failures whilst experiencing greatly, than to die a life unlived.

@ananyagarg2888 4 жыл бұрын

I m trying to pass my finals and this was exactly what i needed. Thankyou!

@everydayfun9531 2 жыл бұрын

I just want to Try and Keep Doing my Best as I can I think that's What matters the Most to me?!

@drmether9150 2 жыл бұрын

This fear is ever present now that I realise I want to pursue to seperate things in my life…

@Marie-zq1xr 4 жыл бұрын

I love her. I pray she is genuine thru and thru because she helps me get out of my headspace♥️

@marijkevv11 2 жыл бұрын

Why pray she's true? The inspiration feels true, your heart knows, follow that🙏🌿

@carsonc6659 Жыл бұрын

Maybe not to expect perfection is a good start.

@rebeccaoprea9917 4 жыл бұрын

Every closed door leads and prepares you to another one . Nothing is wasted .

@mikegarrens5286 Жыл бұрын

Fail your way to success! You will not be the only one.

@NibberKSmooth 4 жыл бұрын

All true. Mel, you are genuine and kind, thank you.

@Ban-ge3zy Жыл бұрын

this makes me feel real better , thankyou!

@donnykurniawan6630 2 жыл бұрын

"You have to push through it" I've tried. But my fear becomes worsen.

@uniquesedan1824 4 жыл бұрын

I was programmed to fail and was kept in the vicious circle about it with family dynamics. Took me til age 57 to get to the info I needed to realize it and created the effecting family member cut me off cause I acted out of new programming so she can no longer control me. Like an energy field that was suffocating me lifted. But now I'm left with the sub conscious programming I have to deal with it.

@naletsanaele 4 жыл бұрын

Have you considered hypnotherapy to address the residue from the old programming? It goes away after a while you just have to reaffirm every day and have something ready in your mind to tell yourself everytime doubt pops in,wishing you best of luck in your your new found reality x

@uniquesedan1824 4 жыл бұрын

@@naletsanaele yes. If I had the money or could find a therapist. Right now I'm just reprogramming. That's all there is left for me to do.

@valn.6584 4 жыл бұрын

I learned Fail stands for First Attempt In Learning. We have all failed in some area in our lives. Lord knows I sure have. I was told most of my childhood I should have been aborted by my mother. I was invisible and when I was seen I was bullied horrifically. But it made me a strong woman today. I take care of my Mother to this day. But I have struggles with OCD, perfectionism and trust issues. But I give it to the Lord and have to take it one day at a time. So who ever is struggling out there with that negative self talk , you are not alone. You are normal. You are human. You are loved. Stop chasing happiness bc it doesn't always come. Just make a difference in someone's life and know that we are all struggling in some way trying to get through this thing called life. We will never be perfect. I will never be enough for my Mother. But I'm enough for myself. I will fail. I will have bad days. Just know YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE JUST BECAUSE YOU FAIL AT SOMETHING! God doesn't make mistakes. We are all here for a reason. Don't give up! Thank God for people like Mel who I listen to daily to show me their is still hope and good in this world.

@nancylucas8555 4 жыл бұрын

A big hug to you. God made you and He loves you totally and completely. You are enough, more than enough in His eyes. He is your Father, your big Brother, and He had appointed you to His royal family--a true Princess in His kingdom. He is the Creator of heaven and earth and you are an appointed Ambassador of the Most High God. May He continue to bless you, empower you and fill you with His love, joy, happiness and peace that passeth understanding. May He hide you under His wings in the difficulties of life, and give you His wings to soar on through the good times. And always remember His VALUE of you when negative thoughts try to encroach--He created you, let Him define your self worth. And He loves you completely. Blessings to you

@valn.6584 4 жыл бұрын

@@nancylucas8555 Thank you so much Nancy! You made my day! Those words were beautiful. People sometimes don't understand how their words can affect you. I thank you from the bottom of my heart; and may God bless you as well.🙏❤

@konablu 5 ай бұрын

Thank you, God. Thank you, Mel. Thank you, @valn6584. I had to come against my doubts. I got back to my Bible and surrendered my plans to God. I had thought I could handle certain areas of my life, and God could have the big areas. When I committed my whole life and lay everything out to him, he stepped in and turned so many things around. He removed an unhealthy desire that ruined my early adulthood. Once the" pull" was gone, I knew I was free. Blessings to you and your family. I pray that Jesus will give you grace and strength for the day.

@phantomfriplo376 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing, I will break the cycle of my mind (negative).

@aminulfarooque8014 Жыл бұрын

Mel Thank you soooo much... I needed this in the most crucial moment in my life...it's now or never!

@RH-ds4wk 10 ай бұрын

This is SUCH a nice video, thanks so much - am a freelancer unused to having to look for work and guess what am terrified! Am finding that even taking small steps make me feel better, something every day or at least most days.

@SridharPatchigolla 4 жыл бұрын

Mel you make things look so easy & you give ways and means to achieve it .. I feel indebted to you . Thank you dear..

@salsitadk3752 4 жыл бұрын

Such a valid point one thing often leads to something even better

@balancedhumans3413 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! It's super hard but take that first step, then the next and the next. You win by trying it and just keep going until you find that right fit. Kinda like shopping for a new pair of jeans... just keep trying them on and be open to ones you don't like before you try them on.

@susancrome6200 4 жыл бұрын

It isn't always easy to succeed, especially when your dreams involve other people.

@SC_327x 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You so much this was a eye opener to life.

@zeynand4039 4 жыл бұрын

Im afraid to fail but it makes me fail even more. My therapist says I have negative angsts and its crippeling. It makes me act stupid, be more insecure. I behave incompetent. My whole demeanor changes when I'm afraid and I achieve failing. I'm ashamed all the time. I'm a horrible test taker. I never realized how terrible this is for your life.

@whitespider8998 3 жыл бұрын

Your video made me realize one thing. Lately I have been experiencing huge fair of failure which i think leads me to apply and right stuff when i am close to the deadlines. I think in some sense i feel i don't deserve it and i am not good enough. Probably because my elementary school teacher bullied me whole time and i think I am still that 10 years old girl who has been called stupid in front of the entire class

@Khushi-lu9qo 2 жыл бұрын

Same

@sherenbaloum7127 2 жыл бұрын

I love you , your words hit me always , thanks god you exist ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

@EjabiPositive 4 жыл бұрын

Love you Mel. ❤️❤️❤️

@mohamadsuhaimi6127 3 жыл бұрын

I should've thinking positive and human will always make a mistakes

@KalashZikov 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. Thank you. I shall try tomorrow

@filmic1 4 жыл бұрын

I was 270lbs, morbidly obese and couldn't jog 50 metres, T2 Diabetic. Chipping away with that run building on the run before brought me down fifty pounds and I did two half marathons. I didn't think of that marathon, ever. Reflecting on what you are saying here, it was just that next jog/run routine to the point I was getting runner's high. Thanks you for the video and insight!

@aawrnnc 2 жыл бұрын

There is lots of wisdom in this video!

@viviankirkham1677 4 жыл бұрын

Fascinating about how your dreams and goals led you to something else. Thank you.

@jdthornt 4 жыл бұрын

Aww this video makes me sad 😔 sorry about the show mel. Love ya ❤

@_nobodyslistening 2 жыл бұрын

im so scared that even though I watched this video and even when I do try, I will just repeat the same cycle of not trying once I am facing my goal

@andreurestrep 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, this video helps me a lot when I feel demotivated when I can't understand something, I just play and play again this video and keeps me moving forward toward my goals.

@ins4nutty341 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you im feeling motivated now to get a job while having social anxiety

@agathaeagle2495 4 жыл бұрын

Preach!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@robertjv 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@tilleternity 2 жыл бұрын

Thankful

@vince6252 10 ай бұрын

I didn't even know I had a fear of failure. An online coach survey (of myself) and video sales letter told me so. Amazing! I usually like to jump because the fear that is greater is of not taking a chance. Maybe I have both fears: Fear of failure Fear of not trying, which is greater. I'm gonna kill the first.

@victormoreno803 3 жыл бұрын

thank you, today is the day ...

@carinatiotuico6453 4 жыл бұрын

This is true you are the best and beautiful and so so smart. My son struggles all the time with this situation

@Ed83295 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for giving me this motivation

@helenarichard 2 жыл бұрын

I'm afraid of making mistakes at work, it's crippling, even though I usually have jobs where I don't make relevant mistakes. Then i remember that everyone makes mistakes, even experts, even architects, lawyers, doctors, surgeons, .. people with many higher stakers than me. People have lost millions due to Tiny errors or little forgetfulness. If you think about that, that puts things in perspective. Most mistakes are insignificant compared to these mistakes. Yeah sure many employers expect too much of all of us, but we are all in the same boat and if we can't hold onto this job, whatever. Next in line. Worst case, work below your level in your next job, or work less. I work 36 hours in 4 days, how can I stay focused all the time? I'm always exhausted. And my managers make mistakes and coworkers get mediocre training. It happens everywhere and it is not your fault!