3 kids, 8 years together. That was the excuse I heard from my ex. “I’m not happy”. Cheap cop out to go ride the cock carousel. I warned her that once I was gone, I wasn’t coming back and she said “I don’t want you back”. I moved out, got joint physical/legal custody of my kids, got my own place and got on my purpose. Guess who came back 😂 and my response…”no I’m good”.

So true..a lot of broken people out there. We all need to work on ourselves to be better.

Amen brother. Misery loves company. And all the women like that is going to do is make you miserable

facts facts facts facts, you just narrated my life. nothing can make these woman happy, I mean absolutely nothing for five years. finally I had to walk .

This is excellent advice man

Truth Bro!...also they are always searching for a man who protects(even when they cause problems) her, make her laugh, buy her gifts&make compliments, hold the door, and also be ready anytime to give it to her, nonstop. But do they believe really all men can be held ransom for sake of that triangle? insensitive

My ex is a narcissist and one of the most wicked people I have ever met. Among her favorite selfish/ narcissistic sayings is “happy wife, happy life”, “it’s always about me”, “if you don’t like it, don’t be with me”, “I’m a queen” etc.

Let’s broaden what this particular initiative information is saying. It is never anyone else’s job to make someone happy even actors, singers and comedians don’t have to make you happy. They should try to entertain you and make you get the point they were trying to convey that’s it.

Wisdom without Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels kind of energy. Big Brother, I have all the time in the world for you. Keep up the good work.👍

very wise man 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 definitely taking this advice ❤️ from Madagascar 🇲🇬

If a person is not willing to be fixed Nor take responsibility, run!

We get joy from our Lord Jesus Christ.🙌

I am a woman in my 50s and I fully agree with this message. Happiness is not dependent on a man, but this cuts both ways. Taking the 'fixer' role in any relationship....even platonic friendships, is a recipe for disaster.

listen to this man• once you fix a broken woman, she will brake you and disgard you

Wow!! That's another food for thought: eye opening from the blessed one. Thank you so much, ,brother.

That is so true! I’m extremely exhausted from doing that and I’m done!

Man, I learned this the hard way. Never again.

This is such an important message. Someone please send this to my ex. I tried to teach him this but he seemed stuck somewhere... If we learn this by the time we are teens, we would have a very different world. Thank you for this video. Fill yourself with happiness until you overflow. That overflow is what you give to others as it never runs out because you are always filled and when people disappoint you, you never truly get disappointed because you're full. Infact you love them more because they teach you something about you and about themselves.

100% true!!! Don't tiptoe through someone else tulips! 😅

It goes same with women, women it’s not your responsibility to make a man happy and watch for the same red flags

I am a woman and I totally agree....No one can make anyone fully happy...Joy is derived from other things in life like hobbies,passions,life purpose....It's a combination of many things...A good and happy relationship is only an icing on the 🍰

That's so true. You can't make a person happy.

That's so true,it happens that they only get good Men only to hurt them.

This post should be viewed by millions and millions Problem is MOST are broke

This is all truth! I think most women when they say “she wasn’t happy” are generally saying that she was being disrespected and unappreciated. The I wasn’t happy phrase is a catch all meant to lighten the blow to her ego.

Another Red Flag is when they say " I want a man who makes me laugh ". She's telling you she's boring without telling you she's boring.

Only God can give a woman true and lasting happiness.

I forwarded this to my daughter to share with my ex. I hope it helps.

Yes, I second this statement....I married a broken one...don't do it to yourself

I 1000 percent agree with this 💯. This is soooo true. Amen 🙌🙏🙏🙏.

Most people are broken.

Amen!!!!! You can not fix broken people. Abusive, Drug Addictions, Cheaters, Over-Weight…. All you can get them professional help.

Don't ask about da pass true masters feel energy and don't require the necessity to ask about ones pass 💯

Absolutely correct thank you sir.

Great advice and absolutely true. 💯

So true!!! She move in with so much depression. It burns you out 24/7

Wow! 🤯. I couldn't agree more! For some reason I attract "broken" or at least damaged women,.. and when I tell you it almost always ends in an absolute train wreck! Trust me it does. The only thing I can say is this if you find someone you truly love and you know she has a lot of issues in the past you both need to go to therapy maybe even together and that's probably the only way that you can truly heal what's hurt her.

I agree. This goes both ways. Loved this.

The converse is also true. It’s not a woman’s job to fix a man. Both people should be happy with themselves.

True facts we as people have to make ourselves happy, and our partners bringing value to the relationship is a bonus.. .

He is absolutely correct. My experience.

Thanks bro ❤️👍.

Facts!!!my ex said she wasn’t happy,I spent 8 years with her and she still wasn’t happy,my present wife stays happy without me moving a finger,too many miserable women out there.

So true so true women have to be happy within themselves as well as men being happy with themselves

Truth.

Great advice hope you young man are listening.. focus on your goal and dreams

Very true

I'm glad to hear that. I'm dissapointed you didn't end with, " and men, dont expect her to make you happy" but close enough

OMG this is #Facts!!! Women that are already happy are the absolute BEST to be around. Do not mess with women that are not happy or she says her happiness condentds on you and you jumping through hoops to TRY and make her happy. You can not make an unhappy woman happy. Do not waste your time. You'll be missirable.

Amen brother, very true!👌💯

Amen.. 😊❤️

ABSOLUTELY 100% AGREE!!!!!

Promiscuity and the effects of it (abortion, STD, unwanted pregnancies) has broken women

I got a girlfriend who is married and is overwhelmed with being unhappy and thinks nothing is wrong with her. I'd love to send this comment too

Real talk lesson learned 💯

Yesssirr

True. 100%

You're 1000% correct

Well spoken OG 👏

Yip, True

Thank you

So true I feel you sir you are on point am living proof

Your Right Again My Brother!!!.

ppl who think they can FIX another person are usually broken and/ or unaware (not RP aware). I think they mistake "my partner isn't perfect" with "this is not a problem I can fix nor should handle".

So true, brilliant advice, if a woman’s not happy then it’s the mans fault! Most men are busting there nuts to do the best they can but it’ll never be enough,

I agree with you 💯 percent 😊

We all have to make ourselves happy.❤

Very true 👍.

You are not responsible for others feelings.

This is solid advice 🫡💯

True words bro.

It's as simple as that.

Never try to heal someone's hurt

Yeah, couldn't agree with you more!

BIG FACTS BROLY..happiness is an emotion, not a reality..

This is gold.

Young men!! Listen to this older man..He speaks excellent advice ..thank you so very much for sharing your experiences..I was raised by highly independent-black women, who matured during the 1950s and 60s..enough said… You’re on point, Brother-I’ve lived it…

You can absolutely say the same for men, they can NEVER be fixed

Facts

Yes indeed.. Happiness comes from w/in..

I'm not fixing anything.

Facts been there done that 💯 !

TRUTH BOMBS GALORE! If you bleed red, you NEED to hear this, understand it, and make it a cornerstone of the foundation of YOU, whoever you are.

Emotionally wounded people are very dangerous and alot of them are black women...

100% true

Very true.

Wise words. Same goes with a man as well. If a person isn't happy they can't be made happy

Yep! Had a wife that said that to me. I didn't want to see the red flags and in turn, divorced and I can say relieved.

Soooooo true!!!!

You are Right,I did exactly what he said and at the end,I'm the 1 who's broken hearted and pain. Now she's the 1whos Happy with our babies. Listen to this Man hear,he's giving some knowledge here. You don't want to experience this.

That’s true. If she not happy with herself you will stress yourself out trying to always make her happy!

Very wise advice.

Truest words ever spoken.

Amen you said what you want what are you

Nothing but truth!!!!!

happiness is an external stimuli

Solid and valid facts

Excellent advice.

Happyness is an unsatisfying thing meaningfullness is what we should look for.

Learned this through experience… Respect ✊🏾