This means more than you know to me man

​@@JimmyonRelationshipsYOUR VIDEOS mean more than you know TO US! They are Confirming, Healing and Educational 🌹🌿 Thank, you! Thank, you! And fun to watch 😃

Wow! that’s great to hear. Keep going!

Thank you for trying to work on it. The more guys who start trying the more real love comes back to the world. And maybe somebody's son is watching you and sees the difference it makes in your life.

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your wife is a lucky woman 💙

Thank you!!!

I'm a woman and wish I had the understanding then about what was happening on my relationship But he was a covert narcissist anyway so I just had to recognise things in my own time

I don’t even have a gf but I just want my future partner to actually be a partner for me and me for them so I’m just trying to sort my part of the shit before I find them

Many people, women and men, aren't aware of issues until it's too late. I've seen good, thoughtfull people be in relationships that were slowly breaking apart. Everyone could tell, except them for some reason.

Yep, I committed, I gave love, that didn't mean I was meant to be loved back.

Love just IS committment. Not a fuzzy feeling.

Commitment is a facet of love, you can absolutely still love someone and still decide to leave them. I adore my husband, but if he still behaved like a drunkard I would have left.

I wish the Manosphere community would drill this into their heads and understand that women are filing for divorce because of lack of love in their husbands who think that commitment and “duty” is enough.

@@happilydivorced3235 Transactional thinking. If both husband and wife are compatible then end of story.

That's so sweet! Best wishes to you and your family

Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!

Awwwwwwww that's so great 😊

🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏

💙

That’s exactly right. It’s sucky that people nowadays are so used to playing victim they just aren’t ready to view anything that they do as wrong

In the end, if they want to do their best for their partner, they'll listen

Not 100 percent accurate nor do you know every scenario.

@@bazjones8075 No one said it was every single scenario. I said "someone can" watch them. Blanket statements don't work for situations like these because relationships can be completely different. However, I do stand by if someone isn't open to change and growth, they're not going to do either.

I’m so sorry you were in that position. It’s so lonely when there’s no depth and you’re essentially begging for the bare minimum of love :(

@@JimmyonRelationships 😳you replied😱 You get it Jimmy 👍🏼. Sad but in order to understand you almost have to go through it yourself. Sorry for what your family went through but glad you saw how to fix it😊

Am in your situation

you ruined your relationship by ending it, you deserved those papers.

@@tomster7574 you don’t even know what yr saying. I was so close to ending my life. Pills in my hand. I would get panic attacks when he’d get near me. But yeah believe what u want.

That's sad. The woman of your dreams is out there...just be patient.

The sad truth is most of those men fell into this pattern of behavior and probably don't even realize how they and their partners are contributing to the death of their marriages. Don't get discouraged, you aren't those people. You're here and trying to be a good human who can find their match in another good human.

Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!

I agree! I am a young woman of 26 and I've heard the same thing many times. Yet seeing there are people like you warms my heart. I congratulate you on your hope and encourage you to keep it alive!! There are many wonderful glorious beautiful people in the world and I hope when you get the opportunity to, you apply all the love and selfless kind and gentle consideration you can!! Bravo and God bless you dear Wolverine.

@TheWolvirine25, you are why I have hope for the younger generation and the cycle breakers. Ignore those old men. You want quality, go for it. You will get quality. Just know those old men wake up miserable everyday and don't care about you, they want you as miserable as they are. Good on you for ignoring them.

Pulling for you sir!! The fact that u recognize it and are willing to grow is half the battle ❤

Sincere congratulations on starting a healing journey. You are going to be so glad you chose this path. Very admirable.

All the best! It's always great to see and hear people take accountability! 😊 I believe in you; keep taking it one step at a time and all the best to you and your loved ones!!

My dad’s a veteran of 20 years and let me tell you, things get better. You’ll get better if you let yourself, but it takes time and it happens piece by piece. You deserve happiness and peace.

@@Lillybrae1 I think he means prescription drugs like psych meds, but I might have misinterpreted it. Many people are prescribed psych meds, but that percentage sharply increases for those who have served in the military.

We agree to disagree I guess

​@@JanetteArnolda what do you disagree with?

@@katie11199 I have to say… I am curious as well… @JanetteArnolda what did the guy say that you disagree with?

Why would you hate to admit that

Why do you hate to admit it

Most of them will end up in divorce and will be paying hefty alimony for the rest of their lives..most of the women are liars and are hell bent on avoiding accountability and blaming men..

​@@manukris23that's why I say to forgo relationships

True, men ESPECIALLY do all they can, perform all the mental gymnastics to avoid it

AGREED. Especially men.

@@josephmbimbi Heh, you sound like a 70yo southener convinced about black people being criminals... Maybe you're he one who should self reflect about your generalizing hateful worldview:) reminds me of a quote... ''when you think everyone is an idiot, maybe you are the idiot''

Thank you for being awesome, Sir. Your future wife will be very lucky. I'm currently trying to improve my EQ too so I can handle my relationship properly when the time comes. This channel has truly been God send.

Proud of you sir.

Oof, And I am in the complete opposite situation as a man.

how have you figured out helping your relationship while being a nursing student, what do you do?

Hello pretty how are you doing

Same, lol

The thing is that emotional intelligence can be good for any kind of relationship, friends, family, coworkers. The tools are the same, only the way we relate to people are on different levels. If there's something that can make your life easier and smoother is by being emotionally mature.

Thanks for being the variety 😂

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I'm a woman who actually needs to see those videos haha so it does reach the right audience from time to time!

You're not the only one!😅

We out here frfr

Yayyyy good on you 👏

Hi! My brother who is 19 watches andrew tate & redpill podcasts. His views of himself & women aren't the best but he also doesn't believe in therapy. Could you give me advice on how to help him?

@@Cutestjpg Hello, sadly I don’t think I have any solid advice on how to change their mind. Although I will say that they are still relatively young and a lot of the time younger people have extreme views that mellow over time. Maybe they will be open to therapy in the future, and you can encourage them to pursue it.

Wtf

Don't use your disability as an excuse to stay. Trust me, you'll regret not getting tough with yourself in taking the steps (yes, painful ones) to leave. It's NEVER gonna get better and you'll slowly die inside with every passing year. Baby steps, but TAKE THEM. Rather be alone that to suffer someone else's poison, it's definitely a firm of suicide that we just can't see until it's too late.

​@@justrose6978 You accuse someone of using their disability as an excuse, then tell them to trust you? Wtf? I think I get what you're trying to say, but you have no idea what this person's disability or situation is, so where do you get off thinking you can tell them it's just an excuse?

I feel you, I am disabled and living with my father because he is better than my exes and has more money than my mom but damn can he be such an asshole. I hate having to depend on him so I do my best to care for myself and keep working on building a career online that works for me instead of against me like most jobs end up doing. I can’t be a slave and there are too many jobs that fit modern day slavery standards that are just not possible at my health level. Humanity is so lost it’s just insane how little empathy people have and how that is the root of all our issues. Colonization brainwashed empathy out of us so our ancestors could deny how toxic their impact on all the systems of the world are. Creating these systems harms us all and the abusers are the emotionally weakest of us all. They could not handle my pain but they sure can continue to abuse me without empathy. We all deserve so much more for the health of us all.

@@justrose6978you are unconsciously projecting your situation onto someone else without knowing enough. I hope you see this is something we do when we have unhealed trauma. That means you need to go learn how to heal whatever that trauma is, that is your responsibility because you are harming others by impacting yourself and them this way. I know you won’t believe that now because you are in it but that is the truth of what you need to evolve. I know because I was there and projected my unhealed trauma onto others when they didn’t give enough information for me to even know if my guess was right. When I saw through my damage what I saw was real to me but it wasn’t in the real world, it was tainting my view of the real world. I had to heal those wounds and then I stopped seeing life through them. I also dated a serial killer that told people to trust him in a very authoritative tone, then he gave me so many TBIs I have a severe case of multiple sclerosis. I dated him because I was ignorant to how much my unhealed trauma blinded me to reality and you could be doing it to treat level too. I was doing it because there were killers in my family that I was taught to not see clearly. But killing a nazi and killing innocent people because you are a nazi is in my family and those people have the skill to kill but that does not mean they do it for the same reasons. To see them more clearly I had to heal all the trauma that was blinding me. I don’t know the reason. You do it but I can tell you what I healed which gives you the information you need to heal yourself if you want to listen. I hope you do and you evolve to trust yourself so you don’t have to try and manipulate others with good or bad intentions. Being authentic is harder in these brainwashed times but it is superior because it is a healthier way to live.

Hello pretty how are you doing today

​@@AnthonyPatrick-eg9qtHi

Nice! I've told my wife I feel like we are just roommates a few times. Nothing has changed.

Wonderful! I'm learning from these videos too ❤️

Absolutely!

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

Good for you! Don't be too hard on yourself on your journey, so you won't burn out on your progress.

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

I'm impressed by your profile and personality. I also admire your good sense of humor here I don't normally write in the comment section, but I think you deserve this compliment I'd like to be your friend if you don't mind sending me a friend request

I absolutely echo this! Kudos to the Franks!!!

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

Unless you are losing yourself-or your child…no you are not. Single is great and it’s way better than miserably married.

​@@beastshawneesome people love their partners

Why is he hurt that you made a new friend and wanted to share that part of yourself with him? 🤔 I could see if you made a new attractive male friend that would make your husband feel jealous and insecure, but him being mad and upset that you wanted to introduce him to a new female friend, is insane. 😮

@@KaraKahn it was a male. I can’t say attractive, I didn’t not think so, but I could see where he felt that was threatening. I have had male friends all my life and now coworkers that I call friends. I have come to realize he is picky about which males are a threat, who I can and cannot be friends with. I saw it as protective before. Now I’m seeing insecurity but I just go along with it so that it doesn’t cause conflict. Pick your battles type thing.

It's hard to tip toe around our husband and I don't think we should have to. Jimmy mentioned one of his videos that we need to discuss even the difficult things because if we don't we can't fully more on to a healthy relationship if I summarized him correctly. I have my own personal struggle of my husband not working on personal family life. I have worked part time, taken full responsibility for the kids, taken care of household inside and outside chores and trying to work on my marriage. It's difficult. My husband gets upset and defensive anytime I talk to him and also possessive when we are around other males who talk to me, but why can't he be attentive when where at home and help when it matters? I think he is insecure just because a girlfriend cheated on him like 20+ years ago, but he knows I'm trustworthy, but his lack of being a partner working together is tiring me when it's like I'm doing this all like a single parent, so maybe not be married at all and just be a single parent I wont have to deal with a marriage that is failing and draining my energy. I have already worked a job, had full responsibility of kids, and done all outside and inside chores. It makes me wonder why I put up him, when it hasn't gotten better over the last 15 years I've been trying to make it work and he continues to remain the same even though he knows its a problem, clearly after trying to talk to help about figuring it out repeatedly . Best wishes to you and everyone who is trying to figure this out, it's so difficult.

This means alot to me Bobby

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

Hi

I've never ever made a mistake in any relationship. It was always the girl's fault

@@stef4oben88 certainly hoping this is sarcasm

​@@Here_Today_ yeah me too.

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

It's insane to think of how many relationships that will end in a few weeks after the holidays. Relationships that could have been worked out, ones that could see Jimmys videos and say hey I've got some work to do.

This is precisely why relationships are pointless

You seem like a very nice man Do you wanna be friends?

I am in my first relationship at 43 where there hasn't been a single fight in the year we have been together we just click so perfectly.

There's always a way to come back if y'all both believe y'all are worth it ❤❤❤

​@Mizzpinkperfect key word is BOTH

Hello pretty how are you doing today 🌹

You shoud threaten your partner more regularly in public spaces. It'll improve your life no end.

My mother has NPD, thank you for trying and doing the work.

My father is (or was) a narcissist. I haven't spoken to or heard from him since I was 11. I have no interest in ever seeing him again and I don't know if he's still alive or not, I don't care either way. Thank you for trying to get better, narcissists tend to end up alone as everyone they know usually ends up leaving. I don't think anyone with the capacity to change should end up alone, you are doing yourself and those close to you a great service by becoming a better person.

Hello pretty how are you doing today

If you're still in that relationship then it's your loss as well :(

Bruh. Don't send your man these videos. That comes across as passive aggressive and weird. Just talk to him normally

Or just leave him. Men don't have to be our projects. We do not have to cure them. If he's not willing to learn, choose someone who is!

​@@brendanbudniak2261If you have already attempted to talk with him and it isn't working, finding an outside resource that conveys the message differently could help immensely. It isn't passive aggressive if you have already brought up the problem. Also, some men are more likely to listen and really hear it coming from a man that from a woman.

​@@claudiashundeservice992 Exactly 💯

Sounds like it's time for you to focus on your own healing. Once you are you again it will become clear if there's place for your ex. If they don't understand that (do give explanation) you already have the answer.

That would hurt me too

@@JimmyonRelationships Thanks for the response! I recently figured out that I haven't been showing my husband very much respect when it comes to things I want changed. I think your videos are amazing, but I'm also realizing that it's mostly women who watch them, sadly, and that they sometimes seem bitter or contemptuous. I think we all need to take some responsibility for what we're adding to the mix. I can show respect regardless of how loving he is because I care about the marriage and I'm willing to make the sacrifice. It's helped him show more love, and since he's a good man, he's asked more about what's going on and what I need more of. I wonder if a lot of your female viewers don't think much about what they do to add to the problems. It might not be your thing, but I just thought I'd mention it ❤️ Love your content! Congrats on monetization!!!

Don’t ever stay married to a narcissist! Those are the accusations used as deflection to shut you up. All narcissists throw out accusations like that.