Her comments about not wanting a cis male son, and "we better make him gay or trans" are disgusting to the extreme.

Can we stop conflating the words “unsafe” with “uncomfortable”?

“That’s not how the old cod days were” she has no idea wtf she is talking about

Being offended isn't oppression. Oppression is when you want to control how people act because you think you have the right to never be offended.

Skill issue.

"I don't feel safe"...you're sitting in your house, behind closed doors and windows, playing as an anonymous number online...how much more safe do you need to be?

I played in a CoD lobby and immediately got so much sh*t for being a girl with a southern accent who couldn’t hit anything. I gave it right back to them and we’ve been friends for 14 years. Even met a few of them in person.

>Some space exist >Demands to join said spaces or else you're phobic >Said spaces are "toxic and unsafe" >Demand said spaces to change and cater to them >Said spaces becomes boring, stale and most of the original resident leaves >Abandoned said spaces since no one is left >Move on to next target >Repeat

Tourist blames residents for not catering to her entitled garbage.

2014-2017: We want access to male spaces! 2018-2023: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 2024: Male spaces shouldn't exist!

The whole “unsafe” term is another problem. Being uncomfortable isn’t dangerous.

1944: Teenagers going to front lines war, basically guaranteed to die, fighting for freedom 2024: I don't feel safe in my room because someone called me a name online

“Men are be emotional” - ranting lady.

her top is like: look at me but if u look at me you are pervert but please look at me.

I've only ever spoken to ONE female in a videogame, and I felt like I had to step in. She was relentlessly bullying a small child in the game to the point that he was in tears. I got my headset on and raged at her for the first time ever. I've never SCREAMED at someone online before that.

'Hey thanks for letting me join your group, now let me change everything about it until it fucking sucks because it isn't what I want. '

she says men aren't targeted for being men in the gaming community while targeting men for being men in the gaming community.

90's, "they can't hurt you unless you let them" 2020's, "everythings hurtful and it's everyone else's fault."

Treat me as an equal!! -gets treated as an equal then instantly starts bitching about.

men get all the same kind of taunts and threats online. the difference is men don't take it seriously, they laugh it off because they know its just shit talk that'll never be followed through on. Women tend to take it much more seriously and like its real.

A) mute. B) play with friends C) create your own party. ?? Bubble wrap yourself, ffs

The "Educate yourself" is a giant sign that she doesn't have any valid arguments

Guy knowingly walks into a minefield, demands the mines don't blow off his legs, proceeds to dance a waltz, gets his legs blown off, blames the mines for being mines, takes no accountability for knowingly dancing in a minefield. Her rant condensed.

"I'm not your mother. It's not my job to teach you." I agree with you there. But I'm not your father either. It's not my job to protect you.

"I'm not your mother-" Then why are you scolding me?

Had an 19 year old employee tell one of my managers that "she felt unsafe" because he told her not to be on her cellphone in front of the customers. ... had a field day with that one, parents and teachers are completely failing their kids.

Difference between women and men. Women will be all nice and supportive of each other to their faces then go talk shit about each other behind their backs. Men will talk shit TO each other, then behind their backs tell people how cool their friend (s) are. Which group would you prefer to be a part of.

I'm not going to go out of my way to tell guys in a lobby to stop making jokes about some random ass woman in the lobby. She isn't paying me, so I'm not playing security for her. Its incredibly sexist to assume that all men are there to protect you.

She's representing privilege. She is definitely the problem. She's misrepresenting an entire group of people by trying to dictate how two different groups should be treated. Buying RGB headphones and wearing a cute outfit to play a game is certainly NOT representative of the majority of men or women that lazily lounge around playing a game on crappy speakers and a crappy table.

She didn't laugh, she didn't smile. She didn't flinch or draw it out as if it were sarcasm. She wasn't joking nor was she sarcastic. She meant every word of what she said.

what does she mean by “unsafe” did she meant “uncomfortable”?

women are like "treat us equally" but then complain when we do.

I'm gay but was never "taught" to be gay by my parents. There are many times where I wish I was straight. So I can't imagine the damage done to a child by a mother who "tells" their child to be gay - because if they actually do turn out gay then they'll always wonder if it was their mother who did that to them or not, and if they turn out straight they'll never feel like they would be truly loved by her. It's such a sick form of child abuse and she is psychotic for even saying that.

41 years old here, boomer of this community, I can confirm that old CoD days were in fact, like this. The difference between then and now is we didn't bitch about it and post every inconvenience in the gaming world. Im Latino and I was always the "taco" or "border" "illegal" etc. And what did I do? Laugh. I dont give two shits, im here to play games and have a good time. I dont care enough to post it and bitch about it. That is all.

hot take. dont make people gay or straight, just make them good people.

If you pick a FPS game like CoD or Halo expecting no toxicity. You picked the wrong game. lmao

Raising a child the way she is suggesting is pretty much how serial killers are made. Trying to force him to be a certain way, dumping all of her baggage on him his whole childhood. How's she gonna treat him if he doesn't get "converted"? Dude is going to grow up to be the 'Cis-Man Chopper'

There is a mute button, it goes both ways

Saying you won't tolerate having a straight son is just as bad as saying you won't tolerate having a gay son

People that use the word UNSAFE when it come to gaming online have never been in actual danger in their lives.

"We are not having a cis gender straight son" sounds an awful lot like we are not having a gay son.

"A male dominated space is a bad one" just makes me think back to that show where men and women survive on an island. The lads were having a great time playing irl minecraft while the women couldn't even pick a leader after a week and had to be evacuated to not die of malnutrition.

My sister had a bunch of guys in the lobby and she hated them at first it took some time for her to adjust, but it’s almost like a weird initiation. One of them says why don’t you just stay in the kitchen and she was like I am in the kitchen y’all the ingredients. I was like damn now that’s a good comeback and she ended the game with 27 kills and only five death which I thought was pretty impressive

To any woman reading this: uncomfortable IS NOT the same as unsafe. unsafe means harm might come to you. in an online video game, no harm can come to you. unless your headset explodes.... which is VERY unlikely to happen.

I do not understand that top at all. Likely the kinda person that would complain about the male gaze.

4:20 Being the only guy in a female workplace, you end up hearing some crazy stuff when the ladies forget (or don't care) you are there.

The only real problem with online shit talk is when people get swatted, outside of that just grow fucking backbone

I knew she was a fake gamer from the moment she said "old cod wasn't like this", wtf are you talking about cod has always been like this.

WE have to make HIM gay or trans.... so much for "they're born that way"

1) Play competitive game 2) Complain about competitive trash talking 3) Realize culture is moving away from rewarding complainers 4) Regret

1:12 I'm male, I've had all that shit said to me and much worse, in Halo 2 lobbies back in the day. Women do not get treated worse than men in vc, that's horse shit.

So gaming has traditionally been a male space, and it's men's fault you don't like a traditionally male space? Of course, makes total sense.

If you feel "unsafe" playing a video game you have bigger problems than someone calling you a name.

Best part is her bio says "public health expert" but shes like 230 pounds

There was a study showing that generally speaking in lower skill brackets, girls get treated worse and in higher skill brackets. They get treated better because the players respect. Oh you're in the same rank as me. So this quite literally might be a skill issue.

This woman is clearly not qualified to be a mother. She is so narcissistic that she thinks she has the right to manipulate her son into someone he is not just to please her own ego. Honestly this type of behaviour should be criminal

She also said the silent part out loud. “We have to either MAKE him trans or make him gay” Literally talking about forcibly “indoctrinating” a child

0:36 “That’s not how the old CoD days were.” Clearly she never entered a CoD lobby in the early-mid 2000’s- 2010’s

Male dominated spaces being toxic? I've worked on both, female and male dominated work places and there is not even a doubt that female dominated work environments are 1000 times worse.

No one deserves to get harassed, but it is not unique to women. Online games are toxic as fuck, especially in the old days. You need to grow a spine and not take it to the heart. People just get agitated especially in competitive games. Let them vent and continue and if they drag it too far, just mute. Some of the things she said though is on a whole other level of fucked up compared to some online stranger making the same shitty remarks. I have played COD, LOL, CSGO, RL, VAL, OW, and plenty more comp games. Shitty treatment is not tied to your gender or whatsoever, but to your performance and literally anything someone can pick on.

Toxic? yes, unsafe? No.

You are not our mother Not our friend But want us to defend you Jeeesus Something got fucked up really bad in the world

My buddies and I shit talk each other to a point an outsider might think we're bullying each other. However, we all know that if one of us comes in with "ahh life has just been kicking my ass lately" we all immediately drop the jokes and ask whats up or whats going on and provide a space to vent about our troubles while killing shit in a video game. That's just what being friends with guys is about lol. We shit talk until one of us needs to actually talk and then we all listen.

Men are almost the entirety of the gaming lobby though!? If we are the problem and we leave, there will be no one left for her to play against.

Modern feminism is so hypocritical. They want to be treated equally but, also want to be treated like they are some sensitive princesses.

As someone from the Military, I can confirm that being tested in high-stress or inconvenient situations is all about finding out who is the stable one and who isn't. It has nothing to do with "Finding an Alpha", trust me, it becomes pretty obvious who they are by doing daily tasks (it's a way of 'being' more than a moment-to-moment thing). Instead, you want to figure out who is going to lose control of themselves and make the situation more dangerous... Life isn't easy, it's best not to try and include people who make it harder.

Jordan Peterson has an interesting thing about teasing. Men use teasing to see if other men are well adjusted and in control of their emotions. Men who blow up when teased clearly weren’t properly socialized as children. She clearly falls into that category.

"Enough about women's rights. What about women's wrongs?"

I do not care what women have to say about male spaces.

nah chill this girl dressed up as a cam girl to record a video calling out the people she is also trying to appeal to.

I feel unsafe in my house because somebody on a game said mean things to me 😂😂😂😂

Talking shit is how we make friends online and have fun

I hope he brings up Iceland's "womens day off" where roughly 1/3rd of the population did nothing that day, and nothing stopped, because men do all the work.

As a man I have been roasted by people on discord in the most unique way "You look like you park vans outside of schools". If your on the internet your 100% going to be picked apart for anything it just comes with the territory.

Basically, she's suprised that the gaming space is like the wild west and she wants it to be more like a daycare centre...

I am ashamed to even have the same headset as this human

Does she know Jeffrey Dahmer and John Wayne Gacy were gay?

These professional victims are sprouting up like mushrooms

Asmon actually being able to consider the perspective of others while this type of feminism focusing on exclusion more than inclusivity.

I miss the days when video games were a niche hobby.

She's mad that all of her Ken dolls aren't acting like they did when she made them do whatever she wanted as a child

Modern tourists finds out male only spaces contains trash talking and super competitive dudes. Shocker!

ACTUAL CHILD ABUSE...

First rule of the internet/gaming, don't feed the trolls. Blocking and muting are included in voice chats for the purpose of not feeding.

She 25 and looks 40 years old.

I am not your mother or teacher... ok. I am not a cop or your father. I don't have to protect you.

The only thing she is entitled to...is half off that shirt, because she only bought half of it

COD lobbies weren't like this? I seem to remember much different for our UK lobbies, it was constantly far... far worse. You beat someone? Instant voice message DM "Where do you live/come to my house address at "*insert address*". You're young sounding? > Squeaker. Woman > Kitchen/whole slew of sexism. They got nothing on you? > "I'll 'grape' your whole family". Bro, my best friend on xbox was a girl 3 years older than me since I was the only guy who treat her as a normal person... Like back then it was 90% sexism, 9% simping, 1% normal people. Now it's probably 85% simping, 14% sexism, 1% normal people... I can't play Valorant with men because they tend to hyperfixate on a woman being on comms and will half throw the game just trying to flirt with her, and they do so with 0 charisma... I often queue with female friends whom guys will obviously flirt with, and when rejected they'll say "you sound like a kid/you sound ugly/fat anyway" > Compare this to 14+ years ago where people would outright threaten you or give their addresses out???? I know which is more "welcoming/inclusive"...

I was in a Rocket League game once, and a guy saw the Canadian flag on my car. He did not stop shitting on the me, and Canada, for 5 minutes. I have never laughed so hard in a multiplayer lobby in my life. Plus he was typing so hard I won the match, which also felt good.

Why does she keep saying “unsafe” your in the comfort of your own home, unless they know your address your not unsafe.

I played grand theft auto once pretending to be a girl. Not only was it pretty much on easy mode for me. Anytime I got into a fight people I didn't even know came to my rescue. They let me drive their cars they gave me money. Where if I would play it as a male character I would be attacked and nobody would care. Trust me being a woman is life on easy mode more than you realize.

Played a game with a group of random black dudes. Got mocked for speaking “professional” and assumed I was white and when I told them I was actually black and called them dumbasses apparently the way I talk “isn’t black”

Work as an young guy between 18 - 25 around older (female) nurses and then we can talk about cat calling.

11:00 she inadvertently implies that being gay or trans is not natural and is a result of outside influences

It can be a circle. If you go into a lobby and people start being toxic and they know it bothers you they will go harder. And it bothers you even more so they continue.

im from mexico, in spanish we say someone stretched a leg when they pass away, and in my group of friends there was this guy in a wheelchair we called him the immortal...

"This is the problem, fix it" "How?" "I don't know, educate yourself and do something" "Well, why don't you just use the mute button? It literally removes the issue you're dealing with" "No"

17:15 "If you were taught to be gay it would be fine". Well, I totally disagree with you. Believe me, it creates very deep psychological problems for the victim of "teaching". For someone who is not gay, it can lead to suicidal thoughts, development of paraphilias like masochism, self multilation and so on, as an escape mechanism. Im telling you this from my own experience. Its like a humiliation that will never leave your side, as childhood memories are very powerful and meaningful.

rip son. parenting shouldn't have been a free experience, some of these guys don't deserve their kids

I've played as a woman in games and in my experience people are nicer to you than when playing as a male. As a woman I get gifts and gold from people etc.. Only thing is you have to put up with the "how old are you", "where do you live" etc questions that can be rather annoying.. When I play as a male I get none of that.. Also no gifts..