Men, Don't EVER Do This For Single Moms... Is He The Dumbest Guy Ever?
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@PATRYK-R1 Жыл бұрын
Most of single mothers are looking for help, not love
@angrydragon4574 Жыл бұрын
Not even help, robbery.
@ergunyildizoglu8018 Жыл бұрын
Never feel sorry for them. When they were screwing with bad boys, they did not ask for permit from me. So why do I feel sorry for them?
@ballen0360 Жыл бұрын
Not most of the time, all of the time
@briandam8126 Жыл бұрын
Exxxactly
@robertmendick3195 Жыл бұрын
Single moms only have love for her past bad boys
@ThePitPony Жыл бұрын
This guy's convinced himself that ANYTHING is better than being "alone". He doesn't realise, for whatever reason,that a fate much worse than loneliness awaits him. He is a product of his culture.
@636NinjaBlade Жыл бұрын
Lonely and less money lol
@ThePitPony Жыл бұрын
@Matt THX Ah yes!....Thats the indoctrination right there!! 😃👍
@ThePitPony Жыл бұрын
@@636NinjaBlade ....And decidedly less appealing to other women,even 5/10's 🤣😂
@ThePitPony Жыл бұрын
@Matt THX Once you're aware of it,we see it everywhere.👍
@rnt45t1 Жыл бұрын
I've been alone for over ten years, and I haven't had sex in over 6, loneliness is real, but I've never let myself stoop to this level. At least I have that going for me.
@thispagenolongerexists1096 Жыл бұрын
She tells the guy she wants his money even if they split and he didn't pick up on that?! He's beyond saving.
@w_i_k_i_d Жыл бұрын
Haha so true. He's too far gone. Definitely raised by a single mother himself.
@starguy2718 Жыл бұрын
Stupid is as stupid does.
@felipetejeda7545 Жыл бұрын
I think she was Implying she wanted long term commitment and security. Hinting at marriage essentially
@DudeDesi07 Жыл бұрын
Maybe this video of Rich's is the slap that he needs to wake up.
@DaneRates Жыл бұрын
They need to have a serious adult present relationship and future requirements goals expatations (need to date at least before considering a relationship). Anyway women and men with children from a prior relationship should put what's best for their children above anything or anyone else.
@EW-gv5ov Жыл бұрын
2 single moms that I know personally , both remarried. Then a few years after having a child with the new husband , cheated on the new husband . Basically they were used as security income / paychecks ,not husbands . Can’t wait to teach these lessons to my son.
@1990notch Жыл бұрын
Definitely teach your sons to make smart choices in life. As they get older they sometimes reject it, so best to start early.
@lindseysummers5351 Жыл бұрын
Teach your daughter to stand on her own two feet instead of relying on others to clean up her mess(es).
@Vakator-29 Жыл бұрын
Lol I definitely learned the hard way, even had my own kid from it 😆. Never talking to a single mom again unless it's at soccer games 😄.
@baronvoncrags771 Жыл бұрын
@Lindsey Summers how about teach your daughters how to pick good men and then stay with those good men
@warriormanmaxx8991 Жыл бұрын
@@Vakator-29 - re: "Lol" = since you learned the hard way .... what is so funny about the comment, along with 2 smileys??
@brutalhonesty3737 Жыл бұрын
This single mom definitely hit the jackpot. She's the envy of all the sisterhood.
@bfreeman8786 Жыл бұрын
Brutal Honesty confirmed.
@davidturner1641 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if i could get him to marry me. Platonic, of course. I dont roll that way of unnatural behavior. But If a moe ron wants to give money to people who don't care for him in any way. I am willing to get in the game.
@dmitry5233 Жыл бұрын
@@davidturner1641 Well I think he would marry you if you can fuck him like she's fucking him... Men are so thirsty and desperate these days that even hoes are marriageable to them knowing it is a detriment to them.
@starguy2718 Жыл бұрын
@@davidturner1641 For real.
@improvisedsurvival5967 Жыл бұрын
Found herself a sucker.
@christopherb.6323 Жыл бұрын
I'm a man in my fifties with no kids and until this present day I do not date single mothers ⚠️. Too much of a Liability 🚩🚩
@arreng2364 Жыл бұрын
Also, your parents did not raise you to end up with a single mom. So, wear that badge with honor. 😂
@colexovitch Жыл бұрын
Why seek out praise for doing the right thing?
@nvn__ Жыл бұрын
@@arreng2364exactly
@TheZooBrooksAB Жыл бұрын
If you're in your fifties.....your only options are single mothers or childless spinsters. They both are problematic. So, don't date them, just bang them. And don't be so stupid that you get caught in their web.
@TheZooBrooksAB Жыл бұрын
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow ESPECIALLY if you have money.
@DB57RB Жыл бұрын
I had a coworker do this. 32yr guy, he married a 28yr chick after knowing her for 6 months. After they got married she started pressuring him to adopt her 4 yr old daughter from a previous relationship, the father wasn't paying any child support. My coworker talked to me about it cause we were friends. I tried as hard as I could to talk him out of it for a week, which ended up destroying our friendship. Roughly a year after he'd adopted the kid, she divorced him and he's on the hook for child support. Some dudes are so dumb with this stuff.
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Жыл бұрын
Your friend will learn the hard way lol
@thomasandrewmcgonigal5150 Жыл бұрын
Sad to hear,however he had to learn the hard way.
@paulchakola7372 Жыл бұрын
.....the wife may have also been interacting with the non child support paying Ex the whole time AND may have gone back to that guy once she divorced your former friend. Yikes.
@I_am_Raziel Жыл бұрын
In Germany we say: "If you don't want to listen, you have to feel."
@nikimilky Жыл бұрын
Can you follow up? What happened next?
@DsLink1306 Жыл бұрын
Dating a single mom is like starting a new game on somebody else's save file.
@THESKYLEE Жыл бұрын
That’s great 😅🤘🏼
@philliz2629 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@AlphaEngineer2022 Жыл бұрын
Ooh that’s a good one 😅
@eddiewiggles9398 Жыл бұрын
💯
@deaddropsd1972 10 ай бұрын
Hope you don’t learn the hard way but browse the posts of other guys who got burned 2023 I am 51. In 1995 I was 22 US Army stationed in Germany 🇩🇪. Met gorgeous Brazilian who had 2 kids w German and was getting divorced. I fell in lust. Moved in. But, I knew it was a bad call. Army asked if I wanted to extend 1 more year in Germany? I said no, knowing it would hasten our break up. It did. 1998, I was back in USA 🇺🇸, and got a Christmas 🎄 card from her w new last name Tucker and military address. She married another soldier. 2004, I bumped into her in Germany 🇩🇪 again !! She had another kid w the American. I was an officer now. We had a 1 hour conversation. Caught up. They moved to Georgia. 2019, I went back to Germany. I FB peeked her. Divorced. I am happy w my wife and 2 kids in California. I was lucky 🍀. It’s painful. Like cutting off your infected leg. But, you will be better off. Trust me. I wish I could talk to her 2nd ex husband and ask if he felt it was worth it. He got 2 kids out of her, so maybe? But, now I know she is bound to him and Georgia for YEARS due to custody. Oh well. Life. AVOID 🚫 UNNECESSARY DRAMA 🎭!!! PS5 DEAD-DROP
@samobispo1527 Жыл бұрын
She is already planning the divorce!
@ron.247 Жыл бұрын
Since the wedding.
@davidturner1641 Жыл бұрын
100% true
@WJamesBeoch Жыл бұрын
Bingo!
@yourmum69_420 Жыл бұрын
@@ron.247 they're not even married
@paulbartell Жыл бұрын
men are fucking stupid. Why would she be worried about her financial security if she planned on staying married to him?!? 🤦♂
@neilhartigan7456 Жыл бұрын
You know, it’s actually a federal crime not to report a train wreck. 😂
@steveburke7675 Жыл бұрын
...or a dumpster fire.
@AggressiveNugget Жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@davidturner1641 Жыл бұрын
N1
@brianwaller7383 Жыл бұрын
Not to take it personally for those in pallestine Ohio but this makes that derailment a cake walk
@allenscott8485 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@goldeneagle3638 Жыл бұрын
For me dating a single mom was the worst nightmare and the darkest place i was in my life.
@TOCC50 Жыл бұрын
Rezources
@ryanwolf4101 Жыл бұрын
I did the same many years ago. Huge mistake on my end and will not happen again.
@krimodiarbi9800 Жыл бұрын
@@ryanwolf4101can you explain more why is it so awful to date a single mom bro?
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Жыл бұрын
@@krimodiarbi9800 they will use you without taking accountable for their actions
@samtraji1 Жыл бұрын
@@krimodiarbi9800 if you date one, keep your life style, keep your own place, keep finances separated. If she is looking for someone for dating love and sex, then it should be enough. But be aware that she wont have much time for you, and only don it in the case there is a father who takes the kids every weekend or so. If not, its not worth it and she will have zero time for you
@DagwoodDogwoggle Жыл бұрын
I would love to call this a fake but I've been around long enough that I never underestimate people's stupidity.
@DudeDesi07 Жыл бұрын
Dude you and I are in the same boat, there is truly no limit to human stupidity.
@rodneykingston6420 Жыл бұрын
And very often, the only person in a young man's life who will give him this kind of advice, is his OWN mother. And he doesn't listen to her.
@malone4735 Жыл бұрын
Single Mothers are a Liability Not an Asset -Kevin Samuels 💯💊
@bbh7550 Жыл бұрын
What about the Dad that walked out on his child ? I guess he's a hero.
@bfreeman8786 Жыл бұрын
@@bbh7550 nope- he's where that Tyler Durden guy came from. Settin up Franchise shops. Selfish isn't heroic.
@starguy2718 Жыл бұрын
The Godfather!
@evos469 Жыл бұрын
@@bbh7550 well if you're dumb enough to keep his kid knowing what kind of guy he is that's your problem.
@rejectwokeness1314 Жыл бұрын
Substitute "Single Mothers" with "Women"
@csx6910 Жыл бұрын
She straight-up told him he's temporary and there to make her life easier. Amazing.
@paulie153 Жыл бұрын
Disgusting. Unkind people, products of social nanny states. "Social Welfare" promotes single motherhood.
@hansmeier3287 Жыл бұрын
How can't he see that he is being used and abused?
@steringp1434 Жыл бұрын
@@hansmeier3287 Obviously not. Think about it, he's such a weak person that he is so uncertain what to do in this situation that he posts online looking for advice.
@rogerward3390 Жыл бұрын
Probably an issue from childhood, single mother parenting
@andrewcolleypropertiesreal1941 Жыл бұрын
@@hansmeier3287 hindsight is a wonderful thing. Lots of comments here saying 'it would nt happen to me' but this is soo common!
@Tarantulisimo Жыл бұрын
2 types of guys who are beyond help & are most in danger of being totally vulnerable to these types of scenarios: 1) the young guy who's never been in love before & feels like she is "the one"; 2) the older guy who is desperate & feels like he's running out of options
@dingfeldersmurfalot4560 Жыл бұрын
Been/am both. Still trying to keep my nose clean, despite offers. Just not worth it. As I close in on retirement age, I have too much to lose.
@klawlor3659 Жыл бұрын
I can add to that. Got six kids with a fruit loop ex (ALL mine and I've had them DNA tested) and one baby with the last one. In my mid 40s and I've had it with women. Loved the sex, occasionally loved the company but can seriously live without the shite afterwards!
@thebesttheworst2277 Жыл бұрын
@@klawlor3659 ... *Mr Lawlor knows* 👏👌
@klawlor3659 Жыл бұрын
@@thebesttheworst2277 I've fought the battle. Didn't lose my house (everything was/is in my name from day one). Definately won't be going down the well trodden relationship path again!
@mintoxace5571 Жыл бұрын
Never resume another man’s saved game.
@lopiyo Жыл бұрын
That guy is eager to go to a life sentence being non guilty of any charges 😂
@bfreeman8786 Жыл бұрын
Is possible cuckold a charge? He should be rather careful.
@Matt-us1gt Жыл бұрын
Bro really woke up one day and decided to fuck his life up
@JamesHarmony Жыл бұрын
My ex wife mom of 4 thinks she deserves the world. Delusional
@blake-nw4pd Жыл бұрын
For real. May as well visit a prison and plead guilty to someone else's murder conviction.
@marist9806 Жыл бұрын
One of the greatest sins, and the guy in discussion has it, is stupidity.
@caffiend. Жыл бұрын
How can he be 39 years old when he was born yesterday?
@angrydragon4574 Жыл бұрын
Apparently age is NOT a sign of wisdom. That's almost sad, we live in the information age and men like this still walk around... But hey, societal brainwashing is also a very powerful tool. And it seems to have worked wonders on this guy. That bastard probably never stood a chance.
@kly826 Жыл бұрын
I know right...
@oldhag2881 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@rebel4721 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😆
@natanaelmanzueta5824 Жыл бұрын
Nice
@user-zm1rq6xj9v Жыл бұрын
"Being the dad that stepped up" is the biggest lie a guy who dates a single mom tells himself to make himself feel good or feel like a "real man"
@peterwallis4288 Жыл бұрын
I do feel bad for the kids though. It's not the child's fault.
@user-zm1rq6xj9v Жыл бұрын
@@peterwallis4288 That may be true, but it's not another guy's job to raise the kid. And any guy that does do it, while he may think he is doing a noble or admirable thing, in reality, is not.
@peterwallis4288 Жыл бұрын
@@user-zm1rq6xj9v that's true too. But imagine you had become a father figure to the kid. You truly care about the kid and want him or her to have a good start in life. I really don't think I could abandon that child even if I split up with the mother.
@peterwallis4288 Жыл бұрын
@@user-zm1rq6xj9v having said that, I wouldn't be giving her permission to split up with me by signing an agreement. That's just dumb.
@peterwallis4288 Жыл бұрын
@@user-zm1rq6xj9v also, how can you say it's not a good thing? Obviously it might be a stupid thing to do, but isn't giving a child a better education always a good thing?
@kallen7435 Жыл бұрын
My wife left me thinking I had no future…now I’m a lawyer earning a six figure salary… and she is stuck being broke and constantly asking me if we can reconcile I simply turned to her and said I’ll take the kid but I don’t deal with bludgers
@rocatanski Жыл бұрын
Reading between the lines. She cut off sex and he's trying to negotiate his way back into the bedroom by showing m'lady his worth.
@ronmexico8383 Жыл бұрын
Beyond cutting off the bedroom fun she let him know that she’s about to monkey branch to another guy by insinuating that she’s worried about her financial future. He’s been paying her bills for the last 9 months, so she’s worried those bills won’t get paid when she monkey branches to Enrique.
@MichaelBrown-zp1sf Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking.
@PotBotorg Жыл бұрын
Women who make bad decisions who have kids make horrible partners...DONT DO IT. HIT IT AND QUIT IT
@PATRYK-R1 Жыл бұрын
I would say hit a good woman, you have to value your time
@johnrodriguez2438 Жыл бұрын
@@PATRYK-R1 Foreal. Another dick means nothing to women who make bad decisions.
@paulie153 Жыл бұрын
I wouldnt even hit it. Let her marinade in her venom alone 😅
@jkow814 Жыл бұрын
Don't even hit it, it takes too much time and effort and they cancel too often, the. They can take back their consent afterwards. So just move on or tell her you just want a fwb
@cmm9360 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, don’t even hit it..
@wgjdehaan3949 Жыл бұрын
Next will be the guy who wants to pay alimony for a single mother he has never met in person, only online.
@MisterMonsieur Жыл бұрын
Yeah, they're called Twitch and OF "subscribers", buddy!
@MichaelBrown-zp1sf Жыл бұрын
Funny.
@davidcox3076 Жыл бұрын
"Dealing with single moms is never really a very good idea." - You, sir, have the wisdom of the ages.
@1949coupe Жыл бұрын
Wouldn't it be easier to pay for sexual favors directly? If you're paying top dollar, might as well hire a professional who leaves when the job is done and doesn't want 50% of your stuff when you are no longer a customer.
@MisterMonsieur Жыл бұрын
This is what I learned last year. I had coworkers who claimed they spend $150 on a date and then get "ghosted". Then a friend took me to a gentleman's club and I learned I can get a "full meal" for $150 in a private room. I'm old enough now not to look down on these "catering services".
@peterwallis4288 Жыл бұрын
Maybe he wants to give the kid good opportunities. Its not the child's fault.
@thomasandrewmcgonigal5150 Жыл бұрын
Best comment so far.
@asdzt123 10 ай бұрын
Agreed. She made clear all she wanted from him was his money, exactly like a professional but without the advantages of a professional.
@starsaber9631 5 ай бұрын
You don't pay her for sex. You pay her to leave afterwards 👍
@ericweber7707 Жыл бұрын
Asinine... this is a perfect example of why Beta weak males exist vs strong Alpha males. I hope the guy comes to his senses although it does not seem likely. Stay strong fellas!
@billr5842 Жыл бұрын
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow shit, didn't even think about that lol. Maybe we need some betas for these scenarios
@feoxorus Жыл бұрын
Betas might as well wear a flashing "Kick Me" sign, they're so desperate that they'll sacrifice their future for a little short-term poon and women can spot that from across a crowded bar.
@billr5842 Жыл бұрын
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow 100tries and you've never pulled a girl? Something is wrong if you're good looking and have money... I see ugly guys with reasonably good looking girls all the time. I am good looking, tall, and have money but I'm an autist with bad social anxiety so I don't even try lol
@stevens1041 Жыл бұрын
Society creates betas--the schools, the media. We have to teach those weaker and hopefully wake them up. Most times they don't do it, but once in a while they see the light.
@Frank020 Жыл бұрын
@@billr5842 @billr5842 tall is really important to them. I have ADHD, anxiety, and sleep disorder. But, I'm short, and minority, so it is all the harder. Maybe there is some website? Or maybe luck will come your way someday.
@bighoss8793 Жыл бұрын
Never under any circumstance underestimate the power of stupidity.
@aylmer666 Жыл бұрын
A friend of mine had another horror story dating a single mom - he had another kid with her, but then when they broke up he ended up having to raise not only his kid alone, but the other kid that wasn’t even his!
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Жыл бұрын
Bad
@LunaKaiFloat Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@seadog9298 Жыл бұрын
I would say he at least has a return on his investment in this case. Anytime a man can get full control of his own kid is a good thing despite having to raise the other one. Sounds like she went to prison, is a drug user, or is dead?
@yuris6125 Жыл бұрын
I hope his kid is truly his, you know what I mean.
@glorgau Жыл бұрын
First rule of financial holes; stop digging.
@emtdad8821 Жыл бұрын
I married a single mom. My wife and I were both single parents and had 2 together. All 4 are adults now. Going on 24 years married.
@jeremiaha5167 Жыл бұрын
Since I got redpilled (roughly 2018, I think) and started seeing the "code in the matrix", I tried to warn many friends against getting into LTRs with single moms. None of them listened. A dumpster fire each time. I am frequently shocked with how visible and predictable all those behaviour patterns are once you know what is what.
@Haykke Жыл бұрын
What are the patterns, please tell me I need to know
@I_am_Raziel Жыл бұрын
@@Haykke Easy, basically any westernized women.
@ihavenopantson. Жыл бұрын
This guy isn't even going for the low hanging fruit, he's picking up the rotten fruit from under the tree
@johannavivino3980 Ай бұрын
I hope he likes worms.
@aussiewanderer6304 Жыл бұрын
I was dating a 'traditional' woman from an Eastern European country but questioned it when she told me she wanted a prenup that would see me pay her alimony if we ever broke up. I live in Australia where we don't have alimony, so I wasn't going to sign up for that. We didn't last much longer after that.
@dingfeldersmurfalot4560 Жыл бұрын
That's the single most positive thing I've ever heard about Australia.
@KP99 Жыл бұрын
Can you expand on this? I'm shocked that any Western country doesn't have alimony. How are divorces handled there?
@vinculaomega5283 Жыл бұрын
@@KP99 We don't have alimony in Sweden either. Im 80% sure Denmark and Norway doesn't either. There's a split of assets at the divorce, but that's it. Nothing afterwards. My guess is that alimony is an anglosphere thing, and not very common outside of that.
@MannyLoxx2010 Жыл бұрын
True!! Alimony is a bullshit Anglo-American invention that has hurted men for over a century or longer!!
@stevens1041 Жыл бұрын
Good on you. Right choice.
@jrd3675 Жыл бұрын
I just ended a relationship with a single mom. I'm never doing that crap again.
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Жыл бұрын
What happens
@arbiter8246 20 күн бұрын
What if the next single mother is like really REALLY hot?
@tmilby74 Жыл бұрын
Dated a single mom for 5 yrs and it ended pretty bad lol her youngest son's dad died before he was born. I love this kid and after the break up he came to live with me. She was doing drugs. It's been almost 8 yrs and he is almost done with school. Every situation is different but I hear what you're saying
@randont Жыл бұрын
That’s honorable. Good for you. Poor kid got a raw deal for a mother.
@Frank020 Жыл бұрын
Dang...good job, but seems unusual.
@warriormanmaxx8991 Жыл бұрын
@Thomas Milby - re: "lol"(first line) = what is so funny about the first line above?!? Or do you use "lol" in most social media comments.
@tmilby74 Жыл бұрын
@@warriormanmaxx8991 laughing out loud because they all end bad when they end in my experience. It's rare I get to part ways without any bs
@jons1992 Жыл бұрын
Bro, you rescued that kid from a horrible life. It's honorable that you took on that responsibility and raised him. I commend you for being one of the rare people able to do such a thing. He was delt a bad hand in this life and you stepped up to make sure he has a winning hand.
@uclajd Жыл бұрын
In addition to everything you said, my immediate reaction was, it's always a huge red flag 🚩 when a woman you are in a relationship with is openly contemplating her future without you. Run Forrest! 🏃♂
@Ospery157 Жыл бұрын
Yep, listen to his advice on this topic. I got nailed on child support for a child I didn't see for 2 years. But, there was only one BIG problem. She picked a fight a with woman, my mother, that grew up during WWII in German. She knew how to fight. And we won full-custody a year later. Steven and I are very close 25 years later.
@hnr9lt-pz7bn Жыл бұрын
Who's Steven? 😮
@Ospery157 Жыл бұрын
@@hnr9lt-pz7bn My son.
@randomrebuilds Жыл бұрын
In my early 30s, I was naive and didn't know much in the dating world. Was kind of surprised when an attractive single mom made me her favorite on a dating website. So after inquiring with her as to why and messaging back and forth - started dating her for a few months and saw the red flags of trying to get locked down so I could be her financial escape.
@echohunter4199 Жыл бұрын
Damn, I’m 57 now and when I was still dating 35 years ago, I dated a couple single moms and my buddies warned me but like this guy, I ignored their advice. After a couple months it became real clear why she latched onto me, I had a good income and benefits from being in the Army and women know our benefits packages. So after probing a little deeper, it became clear and I cut sling load. A few months later, I met a Puerto Rican lady that was a virgin and we’ve been married for over 33 years now and have to grown daughters AND, my wife still looks hot because she never smoke or drank and weighs a pound or two from her body weight during our dating days. I dated her for about 3 months and asked her to marry me so, after 5 months total we got married. She’s around an 8 but she has a humble heart and doesn’t hang around materialistic, shallow women. So please choose wisely men, single mothers are always single for a damn good reason! Looking at what kind of friends a prospective girlfriend/wife has will tell you everything you need to know about how she’ll be in the future.
@kenlandon7803 Жыл бұрын
You hit the Lottery of Lotteries!
@echohunter4199 Жыл бұрын
@@kenlandon7803 I had to buy 31 tickets before I won though, lol. And 2 were single moms which taught me well. Just hope all this helps a young man before he makes the worst mistake in his life. Single moms are ALWAYS nice and perfect until a few months after putting a ring on their finger then the crazy starts to show its face. I’ve seen it happen with a few of the Soldiers I worked with and family members and each time they were warned by many people what was in store for them but like me, they blew it off thinking they were special or could do better.
@PoyTroy Жыл бұрын
Get into a committed long term relationship with a single mother if you want to. You'll figure out why she's a single mother within a year tops.. this dude is gonna pay all her bills. Her debt. And take care of her. Only for her to leave him for her child's father. Or a better option. Seen this happen wayyy to many times through friends ,and acquaintances I've worked with. Don't do it. The single mother is always looking for help. And you're only around cause the man she truly wanted tobe with doesn't want her.
@23071977 Жыл бұрын
His book is very high to recommend. Especially for the younger guys. 2023 is not 1950. If you choose the wrong woman today, you DESTROY your life literally. The wrong (modern) woman in a LTR bear more danger and risk than a loaded firearm without to know the security rules.
@michaelcap9550 Жыл бұрын
Younger guys should get passports.
@starsaber9631 5 ай бұрын
This comment goes both ways. A female who has a non reliant dudes kid is on the same boat
@buddha7178 Жыл бұрын
His rescue game makes him feel like a hero.
@ButtmanAtHeart Жыл бұрын
This story makes my head hurt. How could somebody be so desperate?
@steringp1434 Жыл бұрын
Some question to ask: 1. Why isn't the biological father paying child support? 2. Why didn't she think about her financial security before having the child? 3. Why does he think it is his responsibility to provide financial security to her, and her child, in the future? 4. After she leaves him, will she be receiving enough money to rent a place big enough for her and her new bad-boy, unemployed boyfriend?
@CosstaJR Жыл бұрын
1. Numerous reasons, might be in jail, dead... 2. What women thinks about that when having a child? No one! It is proven that women think more empathic than men. We, as men, tend to think more rational and we try to find a solution to problems. 3. Beta male, one of the many who thinks with the other head. (He needs to fix a "problem"). 4. Theses questions seem like they are from a 14yo boy or a women who is in the same situation as her.
@OliveOyl12590 Жыл бұрын
1. None of your business. 2. Who cares? That's HER problem, not yours. 3. Because he was raised by a single mother. 4. Again, who cares?
@warriormanmaxx8991 Жыл бұрын
Hey @Stering P - Good Grief !! Do you go through life asking questions no one can answer?? If the answers were given ... would you sleep better at night ?!?
@paulchakola7372 Жыл бұрын
Nailed it.
@starsaber9631 5 ай бұрын
Because they are taught and raised to know that first the government will support them and secondly that a gump will also likely help out which allows them to freely be irresponsible
@onebridge7231 Жыл бұрын
As the movie line goes, “Momma says stupid is what stupid does”. I’m amazed he posted his future disaster plans online.
@uclajd Жыл бұрын
RUN FORREST!!
@alisonb5921 Жыл бұрын
I remember this line off the movie, 'Forrest Gump'. 😊
@mackjrtruckin.9965 Жыл бұрын
I could not thought of this in a dream this is crazy. He is crazy. Thanks, Mr. Cooper. fixing to read your book for the second time. 👍🏾
@modernviking2826 Жыл бұрын
Not to mention the fact that she's already planning that they're not going to be together in the future. She's basically telling him that .
@joshruiz9389 Жыл бұрын
I find it funny how this single mom doesn't want to take the real baby daddy to court for alimony or child support but she's wants to give the new guy basically no options but to pay her alimony and child support if they were to "breakup." As soon as the new guy says and it's finalized by the court or on any type of agreement that he's going to pay her if they break up she'll leave him without any remorse.
@jonathanwes9150 Жыл бұрын
"Beta Bucks"🤣🤣🤣
@marcofalzone6469 Жыл бұрын
Definitely talking from previous experiences. Vetting a potential Mrs. for a whole year or two especially in these times is ESSENTIAL. Men we need to check the woman for a whole Season not only one or two episodes 👍
@Rick-kc6vm Жыл бұрын
RIGHT ON! Marco...
@allseeingotto2912 Жыл бұрын
They change bro , could be ten years later
@marcofalzone6469 Жыл бұрын
@@allseeingotto2912 true
@dingfeldersmurfalot4560 Жыл бұрын
At least two, IMO. Anyone can fake it for a year, especially when the stakes are so crazily high.
@marcofalzone6469 Жыл бұрын
Yeah you need to check her out on HER birthday and YOUR birthday AND the holiday season. I'd say Oct-Jan.
@oldhag2881 Жыл бұрын
She wants to obligate Terasimp to pay so her (Chad) baby daddy is off the hook. Once he starts paying, the child support (AKA alimony) will never stop. Dude should just volunteer for prison, and make a stop at the commissary for Vasiline. I hope this is fiction. It's hard to imagine one person being THAT stupid. It scares me that I might share highways with such people.
@uclajd Жыл бұрын
I know it's so bad it smelled of fiction. I hope so!
@023achilles Жыл бұрын
Honestly, she is probably still banging Chad... And that is why the guy is getting 'weird vibes', like she is not (sexually) interested in him lately...
@petersommelier Жыл бұрын
Guys I fell in love with one who had three. Thank god I keep up on this channel and the energy. That train wreck is over but feel free to bag on me for being stupid.
@feoxorus Жыл бұрын
Why? Most have done something similar. You learned and that's what really matters.
@genxray951 Жыл бұрын
wisdom is knowing when you are about to make a mistake,,, again.
@johnsmith-ht3sy Жыл бұрын
I did worse, it was 1989 before internet was easily available, no wise old man role model male to talk to, no advice anywhere in the biased male hateing media, so I was tricked into marrying a mother with 4 kids, she was 8 years older than me. Boy did I pay a price of being in hell for 5 years. Now with the internet I try to help others by sharing my horror experience.
@TheFavoriteColors Ай бұрын
Alright, I'm about to take your ass to the cleaners, check this out...jk
@caddyshack68 Жыл бұрын
I could never have a serious long term relationship with a single mom. The way I look at is this: The woman made her choice to get involved with another man, she had children with that man. She made a horrible choice hence why she is no single with a kid. You had your chance, you screwed it up. I wont put myself in a situation where you (the woman) screws up my life as well. I also am not supporting another mans child.
@timmy1794 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I know a SM who left her husband (two very young kids) rode the CC for a few years , now wants a husband. Unbelievable 😂
@023achilles Жыл бұрын
It's just impossible for me to believe these women are getting pregnant by accident somehow. What they want, and think they can have, is sex and offspring, with one man. And have another man (or the government!) pay for it.
@stormsurge9953 Жыл бұрын
OMG, this guy is thinking from his little-head instead of his big head
@hansblitz7770 Жыл бұрын
My dad and uncles tought me about crap like this when I was 12.
@johnsmith-ht3sy Жыл бұрын
Consider yourself fortunate , I never received any of this help and got used and abused by unmarried mothers. Now I am wise.
@LonghornATX 5 ай бұрын
Consider yourself super luck Hans
@robzombie5928 Жыл бұрын
If you set the precedent of paying for the kid it will be used by her lawyers as evidence you have to keep doing it when you break up.
@MisterMonsieur Жыл бұрын
As Rich mentioned, it happens. Even if it's just for a year, the court will view that as taking a parental role and compel you continue to pay.
@andrewmarkel6362 Жыл бұрын
Common sense isn't so common anymore...
@Freshina Жыл бұрын
We live in a clown world unfortunately
@oldhag2881 Жыл бұрын
It's so rare that it can now be considered a superpower.
@leesmith813 Жыл бұрын
Unlike some men, single moms don't fear being lonely in the future (they have a kid, which they usually say is their 'world' and always will come first). Instead, they fear being broke in the future. That's their incentive to having a man.
@alewis8765 Жыл бұрын
My buddy broke up with his lady who had two kids from a previous. (dad was not in his kids' lives) He grew close to her kids, as expected. On her way out the door she says she wants him to continue being a part of their lives. I warned him that she only wanted a free babysitter. Sure enough, she wanted him to take the kids overnight while she spent the night with her new guy. (surprise surprise, she was already banging the new guy before they broke up)
@lavander961 22 күн бұрын
Or the opposite I know someone married a former single mom he keeps cheating on her. He doesn't want someone kids thats why he cheats. He married her for being backup, rebound while he still keep looking she married him for money resources, low self esteem afraid to be alone for no wants her anymore cuz she knows men don't want to date single mothers.
@steveouk90126 Жыл бұрын
Eons ago I was dating a single mother who told me that not only would I be obligated to care for her, and for *HER* kids, but also for her ex-husband because he was her childhood sweetheart and the father of *HER* kids. Notwithstanding the insanity of such a demand, I was taken aback that she was claiming individual ownership of the kids while incorporating her ex into my obligations. Never been so happy to part company with a gal in my life.
@jacobcutrer Жыл бұрын
You know I’ve noticed something with single moms and it’s that they always bring money up the first or second thing when I talk to them. Kind of a turn off actually.
@Cogitovision Жыл бұрын
How can we save this man from his own mistakes? There is a brotherhood that must look out for one another.
@MisterMonsieur Жыл бұрын
Well, Rich said that this dope deleted his post after getting roasted in the comments, so it's not like he doesn't have a clue.
@mmontagart Жыл бұрын
Almost happened to a close fam member. They signed some papers on a teenage step kid's newborn just before the wife filed for divorce. Thank God for an awesome legal team.
@mestyatbahlna9430 Жыл бұрын
You know what Rich, am waiting for your second book. I went straight to Starbucks 3 days ago after your book delivered to me from Amazon. It is great book that every man should read it once in 6 months to refresh their mind.
@davetrotter258 Жыл бұрын
I refer to mine just about every week..........
@robertdiminuco689 Жыл бұрын
I can promise this guy who is thinking with the wrong head, that if he becomes legally responsible through consenting to this professional female con artist, that it would be just a few days after he is on the financial hook that she will toss him like the morning trash.
@danielpulido3796 Жыл бұрын
there are too many "good guys", guys with a superhero complex that want to save the world and make everybody happy. Those guys are the one that eat the " happy wife / gf , happy life" and tend to give everything away for a smiles, thanks and a bit of S E X. Sadly those heroes are the ones exploited and taken advantage first, they usually become plow horses and never ending pleasers, while everybody roll their eyes on their backs. Those guys are quite dangerous, because they will sacrifice everything in order to get the Alpha partner happy, not just their own interest, everything around.
@JimmyMFP Жыл бұрын
Dear lord, this dude needs some self-respect. It amazes me how many men are so easily manipulated by women. EDIT: I know this might come off as petty, but I'd say dating single mums isn't picking low hanging fruit, it's more like picking rotten fruit already on the floor.
@GracelessTarnished Жыл бұрын
This man, if I can even call him that, has clearly been with next to no women in his life. Anyone who knows there is always another woman around the corner would NEVER do something like this.
@JustSomeGuy2727 Жыл бұрын
Definitely a Darwin Award nominee
@uclajd Жыл бұрын
There is more than one way to end your line of DNA than just death. 🧬💀
@chriskelly509 Жыл бұрын
I'm speechless... this just makes me want to remain single.
@peterlightning9235 Жыл бұрын
Some dudes are really desperate. I knew a guy that would build homes for single moms for free. He tried to get me to help him with it. I thought he was insane.
@lavander961 22 күн бұрын
Trust me he will have nothing a biological kid from her. Single mom doesn't want anymore kids. He's just wasting time.
@costafilh0 27 күн бұрын
“If the man assumed the parental role of the child during the relationship and the court finds that he has established a parental bond, he may be required to pay child support in some jurisdictions.” I will never date another single mom again in my entire life!
@ricardomilos10 Жыл бұрын
literal captain save a 304
@johnrodriguez2438 Жыл бұрын
Duty calls brother.
@Tarantulisimo Жыл бұрын
been in a "relationship" with a scheming manipulative woman just like this -- But even though I was in love (with the idea of her), I don't think I was ever this bad
@spottheg4874 Жыл бұрын
New generation of single moms are totally waste of time. Save yourself guys.
@jinnantonix4570 6 ай бұрын
I know a guy who started a relationship with a single mom with two young kids. He bought her a house in another city 5 hours flight away. A few months ago, the biological father moved into the house with his ex wife. WTF?
@wolfgangkranek376 Жыл бұрын
You can't buy love or respect.
@angrydragon4574 Жыл бұрын
Love isn't real for most people, respect is.
@greatest7391 Жыл бұрын
@@angrydragon4574 Respect is the bottom line
@wolfgangkranek376 Жыл бұрын
@@angrydragon4574 Both is real, but you can't blindly trust in it being always honest.
@angrydragon4574 Жыл бұрын
@@wolfgangkranek376 You can blindly trust it but that's a fools errand.
@misterman4067 Жыл бұрын
To not even be wrecked by the woman but to go ahead and just wreck yourself?! Quite possibly one of the saddest things I’ve ever heard.
@ewwwt Жыл бұрын
the thing about single moms is that they never say they have kids, until after you start courting her. then you just cut her off. :/ (feels messy sometimes, but it must be done.)
@ButtmanAtHeart Жыл бұрын
My experience has been they always tell me they have kids before i even ask them out and when i hear that i just nope right on out of there😂 they always seem so disappointed too 😂
@darrelc5411 Жыл бұрын
I was dating a woman with two kids, big mistake. I broke up with her, and will never do that again.
@steringp1434 Жыл бұрын
Imagine going to a lawyer and telling him that you want him to draft a "reverse pre-nuptial agreement"!!! That you will pay the lawyer to write such a document that has never been written before because no one that stupid has thought of wanting it before. This document will make sure that none of your assets are protected and you will be required to pay alimony and/or child support.
@dbacks85 Жыл бұрын
“…if she was more sure of her future finances AFTER we part ways” If ever a guys needs a sign to walk away and never look back, this is it.
@jerrym3261 Жыл бұрын
Have you ever noticed that when there's talk of virtues; being honest, taking responsibility, doing for somebody else, ect, it's always men that they're talking to? Women don't do that, it's not expected of them and they see it as a sign of weakness.
@TrephineArtist Жыл бұрын
A definite no-no, especially paying for everything having just met her 😳 and then to carry on paying if they split up 😬
@jacobgriffin613 Жыл бұрын
My own mother agrees with rich, don't waste your time with a single mother, to much drama, I love my mom.
@alextaylor8776 Жыл бұрын
Too.
@lucasd991 Жыл бұрын
Richard I have a worse story involving bringing a single mom and her kid through immigration 🤦. Let me tell it 🙏
@lavander961 22 күн бұрын
And your still with her?? What are you doing Get out fast!
@richardruiz6972 Жыл бұрын
OMG this is just the worst situation ever.... I had a friend that did something like this .. he was a "rescuer" As you can expect it didn't go well
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Жыл бұрын
Damn
@AndyBlackSEO Жыл бұрын
No man should ever have to pay for another man’s child, especially after the relationship has ended. It’s just pure craziness. The laws around the world are backwards.
@kevinlewis5194 Жыл бұрын
You can make this S!@t up!
@CFK83 Жыл бұрын
As soon as I know she's a single mum struggling, I move on. No discussion at all.
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Жыл бұрын
They all do that why they should married the baby father in the beginning from a woman perspective
@Nightmare_-ix7dk Жыл бұрын
High school chick used to be in my class never wanted me , dated 10 year older dudes who were drug dealers. Now she is single mom who would've thought but it's only now she is all over me (ofc she is i upgraded my life x20 since high school) she even posted stories about her preferences of men in the past calling herself stupid. Good to know at least some of them are aware and take accountability but it's too late i just told her if you are up for fun we can do fun until I find a chick for something serious.
@paulchakola7372 Жыл бұрын
Don't risk it man, condoms break.
@Nightmare_-ix7dk Жыл бұрын
@@paulchakola7372 Nah I am not going to sleep with her.. her body count is over 100 lol
@paulchakola7372 Жыл бұрын
@@Nightmare_-ix7dk Good Man!
@lavander961 22 күн бұрын
@@Nightmare_-ix7dk lol even if you sleep with her she's not worth it. Wide private parts and saggy for too much children. Good that you don't sleep with her.
@yayger825 Жыл бұрын
Remember if they can do it to someone else, they can do it to YOU too! Remember that as you begin to uncover her past and who she is as a person to others.
@MisterMonsieur Жыл бұрын
I learned this the hard way. If she could kick the father to the curb, what made me any better? Things you don't think about when you're thinking with your little "head" instead of the big one. Lost 4 years to her and that kid, which broke my heart twice!
@adamorly2971 Жыл бұрын
I'm actually starting to see this kind of behaviour a lot more. I liken it to the masochistic aspect of the "dark tetrad." Guys like to set themselves up for this kind of this kind of relationship, chop of their body parts, tuck their body parts, etc etc., and the reason is because of masochism.
@amolgill7480 Жыл бұрын
I bet the guy is still going to go through with it even after listening to Rich and the comments. Some people can’t be saved.
@charlesadams41 Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of the quote from Cool Hand Luke: "Some men you just can't reach. So you get what we had here last week, which is the way he wants it; we'll, he gets it. I don't like it any more than you men."
@MisterMonsieur Жыл бұрын
"But she's different. She loves me!" 🤪
@LonghornATX 5 ай бұрын
@@charlesadams41”We don’t need no Civil Waaaaahhhhrr”
@chrisboone2755 Жыл бұрын
That box must be magical lol
@jonathancarranza7720 Жыл бұрын
Great video Rich. I wish you know how many lives you have changed with your experience and knowledge. Waiting for your second book
@dr.borisbalinkoff5756 Жыл бұрын
That guy deserves everything that's going to happen to him, and I have no sympathy for him. When this goes bad, and it will, he'll only have himself to blame. But she'll be happy, as will the ex.
@YesYouCANPlayGuitar Жыл бұрын
I wish Rich could have slapped me awake with this 20 years ago!
@d.baileyspeaks Жыл бұрын
I have EXPERIENCE. Kids were dysfunctional, mother dysfunctional. Caused stress on the marriage despite me trying to be noble and welcome them all in. Did my research late into the Marriage and discovered a pattern with the past relationships and baby daddy.
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