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@silasproffangote9274 жыл бұрын
Too dont always forget to upload Benjamin's clips after the show and upload them in full.
@amandahaupt13274 жыл бұрын
You put A in amazing Benjamin!!!! this is so helpful 👏👏👏 thank you for this show, and sharing this topic . growing up i Had terrible start with the opposite sex, My dad put me down since i was 5.. my friends in the road made fun of me My brother hit me to hospital years later so throughout my life i had a series of bad experiences God bless you Joyce and Benjamin Zulu ❤️ and all you women watching this. You are worthy and beautiful and you matter ❤️
@michelleakinyi9873 жыл бұрын
My self esteem grew when I met Jesus, wow my perspective was changed including my perspective of myself,praise Jesus,he gives us the healing and identity away from the words of selfish and jealous people 🙏
@lavenderflowers10753 жыл бұрын
It's true. He's the best of them all
@nontomdlalose24793 жыл бұрын
I went through the same thing, Jesus taught me to value myself.. All Glory to him. We thank Him for the gift He gave Benjamin, he is truly a blessing!! 😁
@churchillagutu68124 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu should start his own podcast yazi🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@mvuselelo71504 жыл бұрын
I AGREE WITH YOU FULLY
@nimoras4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@klmno90654 жыл бұрын
It's long overdue.
@Miss_Greatness3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@mamaafrika68013 жыл бұрын
Yesss he should!!! I agreee
@givethanks21924 жыл бұрын
Be your biggest fan. Teach yourself to LEARN using the formula: aspire, be curious, be self-aware and be vulnerable. You will SOAR
@winniemathu31683 жыл бұрын
Be valuable
@judithnabaggala83404 жыл бұрын
On the contrary my aunts told me I will be nobody and that made me to make sure I become somebody
@blandinamnyinga83183 жыл бұрын
Bravo Judith that is the way to do things
@MsLezah854 жыл бұрын
Mr Zulu! You need your own show and podcast 💯
@naomibakano97584 жыл бұрын
Joyce you are doing well. Ben Zulu is the bomb. Im Nigerian, i jus discovered the program, and im enjoying and learning. I should learn swahili because of the prog. Thank you.
@nomvulankoro21093 жыл бұрын
Africa shall be one even if borders remain, our spirits shall go back to each other. I am in South Africa, love from the South.
@bridgetjones68193 жыл бұрын
From watching this video I now know what Asante means, imagine if the Swahili had subtitles😂😂 I would be far. I enjoy this show 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 am from South Africa from the Kingdom of the Zulu’s....
@ClassyElegant3 жыл бұрын
Duolingo has Swahili
@lilianwanjugu92553 жыл бұрын
Siyabonga
@towettcheptoo30474 жыл бұрын
The only show that gets me to KZfaq
@mercykasonde94034 жыл бұрын
I enjoy listening to Joyce and Benjamin. But please translate when native language is used. We want to understand everything too.
@rhodahj71214 жыл бұрын
True believe in yourself,we are our own hero,responsible for your own, joy, Trust God who has your purpose thanks Joyce and Benjamin Zulu.
@annet53384 жыл бұрын
True people will talk even the closest ones you should be expecting them to support and tell you keepgoing when doing better, immediately they see you shinning they feel like you've become competition and try to bring you back to start !that's the hardest thing I've dealt with. Back 2013 I traveled out of the country and I was in my early 20s so all my family members encourage me to be strong no matter the distance they will always be there praying for me well things wemt well and I went back on vacation then back to work.....that's where the hate started they felt like am putting too much effort then they started pulling away and saying all sorts of words but I never looked back I am still working and this year I completed my dream home and am grateful for my only aunt who never backed on his words she has been always there and telling me not to mind what others say because if I stop no one will be ready to welcome me so I am doing well and I don't care anything being said, I just respect them and keep cool and so far God has been grateful ....so anyone being shaken by family members keep in mind kuna kiwango binadamu anakuwekea cha kufanikiwa but once you go past that it turns to threat and hate but never give up focus on you and do you
@wekesaalice55064 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thxs
@kenyanlife30743 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is my current situation.
@mwariwambuthia10813 жыл бұрын
This is what i needed to hear.My situation now
@wacekewanjoroge66794 жыл бұрын
I just discovered this ...been bingee watching all episodes..wisdom detected Mr.Zulu👏🏽
@norahnayebare53134 жыл бұрын
God knew i needed to know about this gentleman. Started watching his videos last week but av learned a lot from his wise words
@queendyna25434 жыл бұрын
Happening in relationships a lot glad it was addressed
@Sarah-pw7hz4 жыл бұрын
I'm dark skin and when I was in high school my maths teacher called me a monkey and everyone laughed. I got so broken but I'm getting back to my feet. Thanks a lot for clearing it that self esteem is not a continuous thing... But something to work on.
@benardoumaanyanga83714 жыл бұрын
you are obviously a beauty no one should say otherwise the teacher was just reflecting her insecurities on you because she knew you were strong enough to carry her insecurities since she couldnt
@gakiikinoti45144 жыл бұрын
She sounds broken the tr Remember You were never the problem
@cikuciku23554 жыл бұрын
sorry to hear that just work on it you will be fine.You just reminded me of on of my aunt from where i schooled in primary,one time she found me i was in class six then, with other 2 classmates standing outside the classroom,we were told not to enter cause we were late for class we just came from lunch that is,and there was already a teacher at the class.So as we waited outside for that lesson to end,my aunt happen to be walking at the coridle and when she arrived where we were,she asked why we were outside while others were inside,so we explained to her we were late.So this aunt of mine gave me few slaps just me and only me but she didn't touch the 2.Since that moment,i said to myself well the friendship i used to have with her,saying hallo to her every morning bla bla bla is finished,i chose to teach her a lesson.so everytime i used to see her,or sometimes i could be sent to her office then i will go but i never said hi,i would just knock,enter then tell her what i was sent for,so i gave her a cold war for 2 years, until one time she came home,and said to my other aunt that "i don't know what i did to her until she changed this much towards me" i never said a word.But that cold war really worked.Now we are friends i ended it and she is fine.
@joannjeri5914 жыл бұрын
Teachers tend to be very shallow minded...i went through the same but i am unstoppable..everytime i meet that teacher i roll down my window n say hae to her.....she said very hurtful things to just bcoz of being dark skinned.....n God is great n faithful i am doing better than her kids....it breaks my heart how teachers throw words or thats part of their training.....
@belarlishimw49114 жыл бұрын
The way I love dark skin I beg
@paulinasizeka47014 жыл бұрын
Mr Benjamin ure are healing broken hearts Thank God for the person ure
@mubizz804 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Zulu. You inspire me and you speak right through my brain. Thank you Joyce for always hosting such an inspirational teacher, motivator. He actually changes our minds from the regular African politics and corruption talks. Its time to build a human being then the nation will be built therein. Im from Uganda but currently I'm in Qatar. Big-up to all the Zulu fans😉😉
@rechealjethro55983 жыл бұрын
Hello jebaleko am a Ugandan too, am truly leaning a lot from this show, Am in Dubai for now
@mubizz803 жыл бұрын
@@rechealjethro5598 I'm glad you do enjoy while learning. I'm also in Qatar currently. You got an email?
@sarahnamazzi88554 жыл бұрын
Best revenge is success
@positivejudith41574 жыл бұрын
Wow!! This man is very smart, thank you both for this topic
@moderndaycynic6954 жыл бұрын
This blessed me. What you attract...opportunities, mates, etc has everything to do with how you feel and little to do with your looks. I needed this reminder.
@lavenderflowers10753 жыл бұрын
Your hair is gorgeous Joyce 😍😍
@nancyayabei52493 жыл бұрын
This is inspiring, you're touching the hearts of many. Self esteem! It's your belief that makes who you're. Know your strength and weaknesses. Faith makes things easy.
@phifik10584 жыл бұрын
Ohh my God...this is deep.
@aloyovicky51484 жыл бұрын
My best show ever on KZfaq,, thanks a lot for the good advises Benjamin and Joyce.
@sarahnamazzi88554 жыл бұрын
U r the best. They r too many pipo coming with fire from their mouth. JUST EXPECT IT. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF & GOD!!! WELL SAID
@jacklineachieng11314 жыл бұрын
Succeed to prove that they were wrong, this is true to me and i never gave up now those who thought am nothing they respect me like PhD professor but i don't even have a degree 😀😀😀😂😂😂😂
@nakilabilasauda78274 жыл бұрын
Benjamin really says the facts that life has offered us
@wanjanation55533 жыл бұрын
I realllyyyyyyy love listening to this guy ,he jst speaks to me .I love what you are saying,i wish i started earlier
@hdjjdhdjjd26804 жыл бұрын
Mercii ...Nzulu and joyce
@joliemwinja4244 жыл бұрын
I love listen to you 🇨🇩🇨🇦
@sikhululekilemoyo71564 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you are a great teacher keep it up
@jaineebito26614 жыл бұрын
True dat Mr.Zulu, until you know who U are you will believe everything else others say about you n its PAINFUL. True happiness starts with self awareness...
@confidenceeshiogu99464 жыл бұрын
Big thank you to a man like Zulu
@barnabasndambuki28624 жыл бұрын
I like his advice always inspiring
@blandinamnyinga83183 жыл бұрын
I loooove my self so much to allow someone or something to bring me down.
@sharonjumba46484 жыл бұрын
You must develop thick skin, the world will throw stones even rotten eggs at you. Understand that it's coming from an insecure person and you can do better.
@joycewairimu21574 жыл бұрын
True true wow. Don’t let criticism get into your heart and praises into your head.
@sharonjumba46484 жыл бұрын
@@joycewairimu2157 sure girl.
@orapronobisbet69094 жыл бұрын
Such a good one...
@easterndakondja43282 жыл бұрын
Benjamin thank you 😀my favorite psychologist
@carolmso14414 жыл бұрын
Dating a naccissist is the worst experience ever
@lonewolf18654 жыл бұрын
Damn baby girl u also experienced them😔so painful 😭💔
@bee123554 жыл бұрын
Yes it is. They will lower your self esteem
@Miss_Greatness3 жыл бұрын
It’s painful, you end up losing yourself to please someone. My ex used to say negative things every time I achieved something and threatened me for leaving him
@kmags80653 жыл бұрын
It’s bad believe me trust me my dad is one , we suffer daily
@lavenderflowers10753 жыл бұрын
@@Miss_Greatness what a douche.
@NellyMacharia4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This Bejamin Zulu is a whole wealth knowledge
@abena78263 жыл бұрын
very empowering conversation. so blessed
@susanbookshop35113 жыл бұрын
You decide,your approach and reaction
@teresagitonga87493 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening and powerful message
@blandinamnyinga83183 жыл бұрын
huo mguu wa Joyce chaiii with that heyaaaaa!!!!mamaa👌👌
@immaculaterome24814 жыл бұрын
Please Mr Zulu. Talk about dating married men
@paulinekanyanjua61274 жыл бұрын
Aki for real we need it
@jenniferwanjiru17424 жыл бұрын
Totally
@harrietawino58564 жыл бұрын
Wow,quite helpful.... Thanks.
@prosperousk54773 жыл бұрын
I love this man💕❤️
@BG-gt1xy3 жыл бұрын
Amen Benjamin 🙏
@wanjirukarago93084 жыл бұрын
Dealing with such a person now ( stalker) ....it's a form of manipulation by the way a very bad habit only cowards do that....but he won't succeed.
@magdalenewanjala69574 жыл бұрын
Wow..nice info.very very inspiring.
@CherryJ29113 жыл бұрын
Mr Benjamin is such a blessing
@ajose13 жыл бұрын
Thenx 4 helping me daddy...
@leroyjuma49983 жыл бұрын
Wounded lions need healing.
@samuelmburu85763 жыл бұрын
Nice advice Zulu. keep it up
@nomvulankoro21093 жыл бұрын
My people, please translate to English as well. We are fans from all corners of the world. I am in South Africa, I am interested in learning the language as well. I am picking up words here and there, Asante.
@zikanjideobi69023 жыл бұрын
Nice talk
@ruthkimani66884 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥
@joycemasusu23154 жыл бұрын
Hey Joyce you are beautiful yooh 😍🥰😇
@megkarugi96654 жыл бұрын
Very true, am fighting this, the guy am dating right now he is putting me really down and my self esteem is getting low, ave tried to quit this r/ship nimeshindwa plz help
@lucillea-r95684 жыл бұрын
You are still in the relationship because you want to my dear tembeza miguu
@megkarugi96654 жыл бұрын
Lucille A-R u can’t understand what am going thru, thanks anyway for ua advise
@megkarugi96654 жыл бұрын
Lucy Muhonja thanks a lot 🙏
@blissfulshine4 жыл бұрын
After losing your self esteem, he will graduate to physical abuse and God knows what next...... Girl run, its the best gift you can give yourself. You need to believe that you deserve and can do better. Love yourself.
@faraikaseke49234 жыл бұрын
Educate urself abt narcissists. Ul understand and hopefully gain the strength to let go of ur guy.
@queenafor18613 жыл бұрын
If you know who you are somesome cant tell you who you are not
@jackiesiime98654 жыл бұрын
👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏
@vawor44712 жыл бұрын
Twisted normals. Light bulb moment.b
@sarahsmrdal70943 жыл бұрын
I wonder why alot of women blame themselves for other pipos mistakes.?
@naomibakano97584 жыл бұрын
Joyce you are doing well. Ben Zulu is the bomb. Im Nigerian, i jus discovered the program, and im enjoying and learning. I should learn swahili because of the prog. Thank you.