Emma Crahze I couldn’t agree more I flat out told my mother that she makes me feel like this even as an adult, expecting her to realise what she’d done, but she only further pushed me away by denying everything I still feel like I’m gonna be in deep shit even now

Ezra Stardust it’s just such a flawed and short-term-focused way of parenting that just ends up causing your child to feel suffocated and isolated

Emma Crahze it breaks my heart not only because of how it’s affected me but because she’s clearly mimicking how her own mother treated her I don’t want to be a father because I think I’ll end up doing the same thing

My mum says that she'd like me to tell the truth rather than lie but she she'll hit me either way

When I was young I was dumb enough to tell my mom that i did sometjing she wouldnt like, and after that she pinched my laps until they turn purple. I was 7 by that time XD

noel090909 *_newborn, pain, exploited are three words that shouldn’t be used in the same sentence and if you use them you deserve to have someone calling the police on you_*

I'm no good "People who cause pain to a newborn must be exploited for the rest of their lives" may be a good sentence

I'm no good “People who exploit their newborns vulnerability for crappy ideas of discipline deserve endless pain.”

Mother Of dogs you and the comment under you are going to the fucking hell

Sounds like something from post apocalypse game or movie where everyone live under control and abused

I know. It's very fucked up. People claim to be responsible and honest, but then when they do something wrong, they either play the good ol' victim card or try to justify their actions, even when sometimes there is no justifying what has been done.

Did that really happen?😮

I looked it up... that's HORRIBLE! 🥺

Parent: hitting a child won’t kill him Child: suffers great psychological pain and develops ptsd and depression that will potentially drive him to suicide Parent: phone

Parent: *Yells at their child and calls them names, emotionally neglects them* wELl iT’S nOt lIKE iM hITTING thEM Child *Grows up with PTSD, trust issues, extreme paranoia and anxiety* Parents: smh, Damn technology 😤😤😤😤

!!TW!! Honestly my parents are wonderful and did an amazing job raising me, but they were spanked by their parents and never knew that it was bad. Now, I'm not sure if spanking directly connects to me trash mental health because it wasn't done that often and it didn't hurt(if it did the pain didn't last), but it certainly could be a factor.

@@drunkkillerwhalesdriving Sometimes spanking can be good but in the long term for every single thing the child does turns into abuse. So, it's a grey area to hit a child.

Parents: It was THE LLLEFT!!

Freddie Mercury you’re welcome

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An Dumb Comment IVE HAD THIS QUESTION FOR A REALLY LONG TIME

You are so correct that is why i took my girls away from mandy aka the womb Not to mention both her first daughters called me mommy the first one right in front of her face. She was finally charged with 34 counts of child neglect and one count of felony assault upon a child under the age of 12.

Amen to that!

So right! All physical punishment does for dogs is increase their aggression and may cause them to lash out as they feel threatened.

So your kid is a dog who learns tricks?

Not to mention I have a service dog, and she gets plenty of time to be a puppy. Seeing eye dogs, medical alert, allergen alert, etc, we HAVE to give them breaks or they’ll burn out.

@Density Damon I discipline my dog by holding his snout and making him walk in a circle. It doesn't hurt him at all, but he doesn't like the feeling so it works quite well. I don't know enough about your dog to say too much, but maybe you could try that instead?

@@pucamisc please tell me about service dogs! I really want to learn about them.

Plus, critics wouldn't be here if the ''You're not a ''__'' so you can't criticize'' statement made sense

I don't need to be a chef to recognize a bad meal

Well, I also think it’s more of a person simply criticizing the abuse of a human being, child or not. Its completely within her rights to speak up on abuse, because what they are doing isn’t parenting.

I dont need to be an author to say a book is written badly I'm no expert but I'm allowed to have opinions

Louder for the people on the back! I've always hated this saying.

A good term i like to use for birthgivers and other genetic halves like that is bloodsharer Parents are full of love to me, bloodsharer says all theyve given you is existence

More like birthers and breeders, parents is just a gender neutral term for mom and dad.

@@ShendonV Not even that. Just abusers without a badge.

If you ask why, you clearly understand words

Kind of ironic to have a conversation with a child about how they don't understand words...

Padmja Sopori Now I'm thinking child rearing might be more fun with the proper mood music.

I think they watched boss baby and made some assumptions.

David Roberson lmfao

*Omae Wa Mou Shindeiru*

MrAnimepredator NANNI!?

Yes. To this message

NinjaKED12 definetly. Thats great they teach you that, some people take things wayy too literally and there are cults because of that. Im really happy you and the other people going to that school :D

NinjaKED12 I can relate man

That might be a red flag. Also, people will absolutely take the Bible literally if it serves their point

So true

In all honesty, that sounds like solid usage of legitimate parenting ability.

that is GENIUS hahaha

My brother says to my nephew "Ouch! Hot! Hot!" to discourage him from touching the fireplace or a hot radiator and my nephew repeats it so it definitely works.

LOL for real!!!!!

Micheal Pearl’s “The Art of War”

@@Kaanfight "...part 2: How to suppress the rebelion of the heir apparent" ;)

@@Kaanfight Or in this case "...how to make sure the Prince will rebel".

@@Kaanfight It's not even the Art of War. it's far more tyrannical than that.

It's clearly both the first and the last sentence in a torture guide.

PREACH

This exactly. It’s you’ve been abused to the point where you normalize it, what does that say about you?

Say it louder for the people in the back

YES! If you think abusing kids is fine, you’ve got serious re-evaluation to do in life.

I already saw a tweet that said the exact same thing, but yeah, it's true

well they were never allowed communication with the outside world to even know that they were being abused, as far as they knew it was normal on okay

well they were never allowed communication with the outside world to even know that they were being abused, as far as they knew it was normal on okay

@@asdfgidji879 man... what an asshole Also did you mean to post this twice?

Well that's okay ... He's getting his punishment

Kind of like the death of Stalin

Exactly! Like the reason WHY they obey, matters!!! (Sorry I’m 3 years late but I just couldn’t help myself😭)

@@kiaratheexplorer4 It’s cool lol. I actually forgot this comment existed. But I agree.

I learned how to tie my shoes in second grade because a first grader (she was the younger sister of another kid in my class) taught me how to do it during school.

alex is lonely That reminded me of when I was little, my mom would try to have me recite one to one hundred, first in english, then in thai, I’d try, fail, she’d tell me to try again, I’d fail, she’d get frustrated and angry at me, more failing, and she’d hit me. ..I did end up learning though, but it was definitely not the right way to teach it.

I learned cause I wanted to do it earlier than my older brother lmfao. Sooo....spite?

So you may think this is weird, but my mum had specific ways to put on clothing. For example, she had a specific way to put on tights and if you got it wrong one of the following would ensue; Yelling in your face (moaning about it would be a slipper to the back of the knees) ; ( she’d sit at your knees and watch you do this, by the way) slap your face and if it wasn’t red by the second time you failed another slap to the face or scratch your thigh to leave a ‘reminder scratch’. I never learnt her way, but it’s satisfying now, older and taller ( I’m a F 5’9 ), being able to say ‘NO’.

@@erinkerridge2394 just go up to her and say "a kiss goodbye from a friend of mine" ( referring to your fist) and punch her in the face

Wtf I'm confused...

Well, amputating all of your limbs has a high chance of dying, so...

I’m offering, anyone want some nubs?

Spearmint Snakes aw fuck yeah

@@rezandrarizkyirianto-1933 No? It's just a normal operation.

This is how normal decent parenting look like

I’ve had the same experience. Sure, I get stuff bought for me by my parents, but they often set a budget for how much they spend on me, and once I’ve spent that budget, anything else I’d like, I buy myself.

LMFAO

OMG! 😂😂😂 I know this is a serious issue, but that joke was still hilarious! What an underrated comment!

OMG

HAH

LMAO

I wonder how many children ended up hospitalized or dead because that was the end result of escalating beating severity under that belief.

If hitting them doesn't kill them, they'd probably do it to themselves eventually. Sadly these horrible people exist.

@@DanielleWhite Apparently 3 kids died because of this... www.babble.com/mom/to-train-up-a-child-teaches-punishment-that-kills-kids/

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@@eleanorbanana8219 make some content and I might

People should learn the difference between a light smack or a small pinch on the arm and straight up whacking a child with a stick. One serves as a little warning, while the other is straight up abuse. Seriously though, it seems like the author (and many others like him) is looking for an excuse to beat up children.

@Park ChimMin neither are ok!!!!

Amythyst Hughes Look, I’m against using physical violence to punish children, but a small pinch is literally just a small pinch. It’s not like you’re beating the hell out the kid.

@viibes :3 In my personal opinion it teaches children that they can put their hands on someone to teach them a lesson as discipline. No one should fear physical pain from loved ones.

I'm 15 and I turned out fine😂😂 I think some people need some physical discipline when they get out of hand/ when you've talked and did you best and showed them what they're doing wrong, but it has to have some limitations, my mom didn't know her limitation when she was disciplining me, and she has changed. I saw and understood what she was doing wrong so I probably won't do much to my child, is probably just talk to them and show them what they're doing,

This is something I’ve never understood - how do newborns bite without teeth?

My baby sister uses biting as a defense mechanism when my other siblings wont leave her alone.

@@Justice237 some have teeth. Even Without teeth, neeple is sensitivecenough for it to hurt

When I was a baby I bit my dad and he bit me back (not hard, more playful)

Biting is due to teething. It sucks that people don’t know this lol. Teething is extremely painful. Ur just causing the child more pain if u beat em. Smh

that is me tbh. my mother raised me an my sister before this, and 17 years into my life, I despise her very existence.

100%. This book is for people whose only goal in parenting is to have their child obey them.

Why

Well. That's fior me

ProAnal 6988 Pretty much sums up this book.

Jesus: I died for this shit!?

Destroy the child, corrupt them all

I thought it was Michelle Pearl..I must be blind

Everyone I know living in Utah.

Holy Koolaid hi thomas

Hey! I resemble that remark. I'm a cookie monster though.

Hell, I'm willing to bet the monsters in the closet were hiding from Michael.

Just wondering if this book has been published through a publishing house? And If so how the heck can that be??

Monsters don't always write in closets. Sometimes they hide books.

Capitalism is pedophilia - it needs to abuse youths to survive. We need to fight against this. Educate yr local youths - support yr local teachers.

Oh, thank god. I'm not alone in this world.. lol

my dad choked my once and i have an asphyxiation kink now (safely) lol

😂

You can control it now 🙂

🤣🤣

In their mind it wouldn't be slavery or abuse. if someone died as a result of their punishment, God must have willed it. But someone commit suicide as a result of the abuse they experienced, they'd be condemming them to hell. There's so much abuse in this world....Have to shake my head..... A video of a pastor who raped his wife multiple times a day and justified it because women should submit to their husbands. He was teaching his congregation this was ok. Another cult. www.bing.com/search?q=pastor+rapes+his+wife+australia+cult+youtube&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=pastor+rapes+his+wife+australia+cult&sc=0-36&sk=&cvid=9D98CBBB834B443A850E3F52FFDC84BF

“Oh, you atempted to murder someone? Well... they didn’t die, so go! Be free!”

Nah, the bar is in the core of the earth

cait the bar is so low, it’s burning in hell lmao

@@ziggilypiggily these christians are cherry pickers! God says love your wife as Jesus loved the church and Jesus would NEVER abuse the church.

Semen Maslak alternative title “How to ensure you’ll get beaten when you shit your adult diaper and your adult child has to change it.”

Love this

no joke, this is why we never helped my mothers parents and why I never mourned them.

Amen

Yeah let's see them try paying for even the shittiest nursing home on just SS...

Actually, I wish I was spanked or punished somehow. I wouldn't stand for what I did, or didn't do (what I was supposed to), as a parent now (if I had kids). My parents were too lenient on me.

When I was a kid, I was also part of the my parents hit me and I turned out fine crowd. Now as an adult, I know that I am not fine and nor are my sisters. In fact, my sisters were more negatively affected than I was. But God forbid we critique the picture perfect way to bring up children as was taught in the Bible. At least I know what book I won't go to for parenting advice.

@@huyked Okay pal, just don't reflect your kink on youths k?

@@ButWhyMe... Good straw man, stupid. It's not a kink. It's a life observation.

​@@huykedyou can be disciplined without being hit yo

My parents are balanced

My parents aren’t even there. My mom went to an instituite, and my dad is a drug addict

@@rachelburke5505 my best to you

Sara Wawa this is how you know the world we live in is horrible, dogs are raised better than many children

Sara Wawa I know right? The methods he uses are among my list of torture methods I've read about that traumatized me as a little kid. *_Read_* about. Imagine actually being subjected to them.

Disgusting

Sara Wawa most intelligent dogs don't stop doing what their doing when you hit them, they'll either, be scared of you and not trust you(meaning they'll not listen to you in fear they'll get hurt for no reason) or they'll become aggressive towards you thinking you are an enemy not a companion.

Sara Wawa the most “violence” I’ve ever used is very lightly taping his nose for trying to steal food (even after being told no so meany times) not

Thank you, it's absolutely disgusting to hurt your child or sibling in that fact, that's younger than you. Even if they were older, it's still wrong. Just no, they are incapable of love. If the abusers were abused when they were younger, that still doesn't justify their actions. Abuse is abuse, and it should be stopped

i don't have kids, but i do have a younger sister and pet cats, both weaker and more hopeless than me, of course i could never, ever, see a creature weaker and more hopeless than me and not think of protecting or caring for them. if you're throwing hands on kids or animals, what kind of a human are you? ugh.

Is this book not enough evidence to take the authors children away?

I would like to say that children WILL remember what happened to them no matter the age. I remember when I was 2 years old being punched in the face by my mum for speaking/being loud on the table with my grandparents. I still see the table the blood and the fear. I stopped making noise for year's I'm 32 know and only for the around 8 years I can speak in groups of strangers. I left home for Ireland and speaking English saved my life...

Just don't judge them solely for having the book, you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover so a parent may read the book, think it's hodgepodge, and put it on the shelf. A lot of times CPS oversteps their bounds and takes away kids they shouldn't. Don't be that person.

I’m so sorry. I hope you’re all doing well ❤

And the bible is just no practical life advice besides morals maybe

@@lochiness. and not even that

See also the debate on Ruth being a Moabite or not

And that can easily lead to a really messed up kid

Yeah. That’s how I was raised.

Wicked Amoeba FACT. I was told that it was my fault by my father for getting raped. MY OWN FAULT! Guess whose not coming to my wedding? Guess whose funeral I’m not attending? Getting a job, marrying and moving states has never been better for my soul

So well put. Thank you.

And that is how I was raised. I became a good liar and knew how to earn brownie points from my parents to trust me.

"Tatsumaki"

"Don't forget to tie them to the wall, whiplash is a danger for newborns"

This book is horrible but that sentence was hilarious.

I was angry at the video so I began reading the comments and this made me laugh so thank u

One sharp kick directly to the face, delivered in a calm and controlled manner, is usually sufficient. You must follow up by looking the child directly in the eyes with a cold foreboding stare until their spirit is broken into despondent submission. After that generally you'll want to have some kind of gesture, either by twirling your moustache or just throwing your head back and cackling like a madman, things of that nature.

they’d probably be safer taking care of them f*cking selves than with his “care” and “love”

I see my baby nephew scream to the point that his face turns red, I don't see any selfishness. I just see basic emotional changes that can evolve over time. As much as I think about silencing him, I know it's best to let him go all out. I'm not even a parent myself and I know this. But Mike and Debi ARE...!

Well I mean they do follow a book written 2000 years ago that advocates for stoning your child if they misbehave soooooooooooo

@@Sawdustinthemakeup actually it doesn't?.. those were some wild times and they did hit them and etc but when those principles are applied to modern life they are executed differently. Like you obviously shouldn't rip your eye or arm out when looking at someone w/ desire

My brother who is 12 years old has autism and my mum thought it was a good idea to start hitting him while he was having a breakdown, I had to reassure him I wasn't going to hurt him when I went to calm him down

My little brother bit me a few times, climbs on my head, hits me, I'm letting him for now until he gets a bit bigger but the little asshole does it on purpose 😂

😂😂😂😂😂

"if your child breathes exesacly or even at all, use a rope, towel or if you have nothing around your hand to choke the child. While beating your with your hand is ineffective. It works very well in this case. This will teach them not to steel your air. Which in turn will instill in them the moral value that theft is worng. After choking the child talk to them about the value of air and why using without permition is imoral. This can be used on children from newborn to 35. Continuing this practice throughout their life will show the child that you control them. If your child doesn't respond it's because they hate you for trying to teach them things. Hate is a power chemeical the stop the brain from functioning. But don't worry, it will pass.."

Dougie26200 2 Interesting joke 😂😅

@@xeecstasy3183 thanks.

to be fair theres probably genuine joy if they have that plan. Knowing how close they are to freedom

@@asdfgidji879 unsettling

Way to call me out like that but I'm planning to just put chemicals in their tea

I say often to my partner that I would’ve killed their dad if he was my dad. At least would’ve stabbed him or something. People are conditioned in abuse to think their abusers are all powerful, but I was abused and that never worked with me. When someone hit me I hit them back, every time.

As somebody who was often beaten with a rod as a child you have no idea how close to truth you are. Being a physically weak but fairly smart kid (around 8y old) I had several plans of how I was going to get my father seriously injured or killed in a way that won't be traceable to me. Really glad I got rescued by my kind grandparents who saw what was coming.

You are not alone.

I hope you never visit your parents or send them to a bad nursing home

Yup! *raises hand to confirm that statement*

Also it can equal psychopaths and you know. Literally my dad says that's how some abused kids grow up.

@@clemenmurillo7806 true, but rare...they will most likely grow up with bad habits and violent tendencies.

@@clemenmurillo7806 Psychopaths are born, they cannot be made. however, Sociopaths can be made through abuse and certain social conditioning, and are similar to psychopaths.

Not to mention self-destructive tendencies

Mel 4 maybe the person that wrote the book does understand psychology and is using it for bad

Tayler maybe the authors altered and distorted the facts to suit their writing method.

@@tayler2856 No. He doesn't. Just the fact he thinks punishment is the best way to learn is a proof of that.

Petite Sayo i think what Tayler meant, correct me if i’m wrong, is that the author probably knows that this abuse IS traumatising and finds pleasure in encouraging other parents to abuse, and end up traumatising, their children too. it sounds crazy but not as crazy as what the author is saying. hope that made sense, i’m not the best at explaining things but that is how i interpreted the comment! :)

and the fact that they (the author and his wife) receive messages from other parents telling them and seeking approval about how they abuse their children; what works and what doesn’t, the children’s’ reactions, etc. is probably the exact sort of response an ill-minded person, such as the authors, would want from all of this.

:'(

My father got beaten so he abused my mother, siblings, and me. I much prefer your father's method of dealing with it

@@jana7359 I'm sorry that happened to your family. I hope your okay now

@@smudged4090 Yeah I'm fine. My Ma, brother, and I moved out about a year and a half ago

Jana Great to hear!

Madison Bodfield but when is a child too young to understand right and wrong? People really underestimate how intelligent kids really are, most know right from wrong from before they can crawl- even in situations where all they see is wrong, wrong, wrong. If you dont enforce what is right (an sometimes a spanking or pop on the ass is needed for that, especially if say your kids pulling a dogs tail, or trying to play with something potentially dangerous)

@@Eclipsethealpha i cant quite recall from my psychology class but i believe children dont develop an understanding of abstract concepts such as right and wrong until either 9 or 11 years old. i could be wrong, but i do know they dont get a real understanding of such things on their own until later elementary school age. anything younger is is most likely the child parroting what theyve been taught by adults. i could be wrong but thats what i can recall off the top of my head.

kix kix abstract thought is generally believe to be developed anywhere from 9-16 years of age, but children have been proven to exhibit a sense of morality from a very young age, morality has been proven in recent years to be instinctual, but persuaded by ones environment. A child from as young as 1-3 years of age understands that certain things are right and certain things are wrong. The best time to “train” a child in terms of morality and what is and isn’t socially acceptable is from from about 2-9 years old. I had to sit through three years of human and health sciences, its like a coverall for psychology, behavior, development, and culture as it pertains to children and teens, as well as some extra stuff that doesn’t pertain to the convo (drug and alcohol abuse, death, marriage, pregnancy and statistical data about literally everything) something that was also taught was the abuse cycle, abuse, and how to help/spot/stop and abuser/victim. The book that shes talking about does most definitely have extremely toxic and abusive notes in it, but physically punishing a child for something they did wrong is not abuse, it’s discipline. It becomes abuse when the parent physically punishes the child for small matters and overdoes the punishment (pulling an infants hair for biting, beating the shit outta ur kid for leaving the toilet seat up, sitting on a child 6 times smaller than you) A child receiving a pop on the hand when they reach for something they dont need to be messing with is okay, setting the child up to be hit is not, spanking your child for being disobedient at a restraunt or for giving lip is okay- in moderation- spanking your child for not coming to their name being called is not. Switching a child for stealing or sneaking out is okay- in moderation- switching your child for idk, coloring on the walls, is not okay. It all is within moderation and for the right reason. The problem is parents aren’t taught the right and wrong reason and either overdo it or under-do it. I personally would never switch my kid more than once and even that once they would have had to done something absolutely terrible.

@@Eclipsethealpha first of all, no child knows the difference between right and wrong at crawling stage. It's mostly just what to do or not do because of reinforcement. I was never spanked and i grew up without problems. Spanking a child for exploring the world is not a good thing to do, period. Your child then internalizes the spanking but not why you did it. I was always told why not to do something, and i was put on timeout without my books (these were of paramount importance). I learned my lesson, got a punishment, and no one got hit. I'm a social worker now.

nakedlaughing well i did get spanked and havent internalized shit dude. It all depends on the kid, as ive said already, and how they react to the punishment. Some kids react to soankings, some kids dont, some kids react to time outs, some kids dont. I reacted to spankings and not really time out as much, my older brother reacted to spanking, my younger brother reacted to time outs, my youngest sister reacted to words. Its all dependent on how the kid reacts. If you are a social worker and u put people down as abusive for spanking their child then i have a serious problem with that. And i dont mean spanking your kid til they have welts and bruises either, i mean just 1-5 moderate hits. There is nothing wrong with it, its not abuse. Im not a social worker myself, its not what i want to do in life, but i could very well be one right now if i chose to and i would have nothing wrong with a parent who spanks their child unless the punishment was way overboard and/or for no good reason.

Hope you moved beyond your past :( no child should deal with that...

Never contact her again. No matter how much she begs, never contact her!

I'm glad you reached out man. I hope your doing better, and your mother has worked/working in these blatant issues.

Kaocat:3 thanks for supporting people in the comments.

@@noyes8882 no problem dude.

Lunafae the only times i’ve seen are light taps to regain the dogs attention if they can’t get it from other methods. i agree with you !

Well beating them works. It's called aversive training. Basically it assumes that a dog will learn that doing something bad will earn it a slap and will start avoiding situations that earn it slaps. Of course it doesn't mean you are supposed to beat the shit out of your dog to the point it's a curled up psychotic mess. Or treat your children like dogs for that matter...

Sonlirain is right also dogs have very thic skin and don't feel a light slap while babies are fragile

Right? Like I've given my dog and cat a little pop on the nose the same way you might give a light pap on the hand. It's not meant to be painful, it's mean to give an obvious signal that what you just did was a no-no. You're not supposed to hurt the dog, you can give a light pop that wouldn't ever hurt them, but you're not supposed to purposefully inflict actual pain on them!

And also when you hit a dog , can’t it get taken away from you because it’s uhhhhhhhya know abuse

TempleAmarok it's technically not wrong, a child can't think of the world from any other perspective than their own until a certain stage.... I want to say some time in elementary school.... Not saying that their methods should be used because they are horrible methods of course. I doubt they even knew that little fact or they would have changed their tune because it's backed by science.

Egocentrism is a normal stage of a child's development. Well said.

TempleAmarok lol babies are self centered by evolutionary necessity. To look negatively on this is being in denial about human nature

TempleAmarok That’s so toxic. My mother used to tell my brother and I we are selfish parasites and that we’re horrible for never thinking about her. And you’re, like, ten years old thinking... wait, what?

It's perfectly normal for a small child to be self centered. It's not a bad thing you have to train out of them or something; they'll grow out of it if they're properly raised.

Ikr? Even Spartans are not this cruel

Worse than gladiators. The Editor or your opponent could raise a finger to end the fight in gladiatorial combat, but this book teaches not to accept any surrender

Adriano Arne-Ritz Actually no, Spartans were worse, they beat children each year before either they passed out or died

How to cause CPTSD. Because this has happened for people I know. I think they were raised before this book, and not nearly as strictly, but the same idea applies.

*how to give your child PTSD and maybe make them insane*

Cant wait to have children and fuck them bitchasses up

Phoenix J. Haha yes

@@bendover2684 perfect text for a 5 Star review of this book

Guess the police is too busy shooting unarmed black people

AlashiaTuol because probably it isn’t exact evidence and if they were to investigate they would say ‘training’ so its not like they would actually even confess but if they got some statements and asked the kids and the right question they would probably have enough evidence

AlashiaTuol at least they're admitting to it I guess. This is the day69 of books.

I don't understand how he's still walking free. Three children (all from separate families) have died because their parents were followers of his. I'm shocked he wasn't charged along with the parents.

The question is how isnt that book banned already. Or taken out of the market. Even the most radical believer should see this book is outright crazy.

Now this is parenting ^ not whatever nasty bullshit was that book.

Thanks you Also funny cuz you have 123 likes

Amen

my dad says "moms say that you can't hit your kid because it's abuse but that's the only way they'll learn!" he's a Trump supporter. and homophobic, transphobic, racist, and sexist. I'm not exaggerating...he's a terrible father

cindy the cringey lmao these white moms love “timeout”

hahayourfunny94 I can't imagine doing that when my little girl is here to her. For anything, much less nursing.

Wouldn't surprise me if the infant develops disordered eating as a child. Heartbreaking....

hahayourfunny94 its disgusting. Every breastfeeding mother has dealt with bites. Apparently this sick woman is just too weak or impatient to deal with the natural hurdles of being a mother

True. There's a good chance that they'll develop an eating disorder :(

Kayleigh or never properly learn how to latch on to a nipple messing up their nutrition during breast feeding and bottle feeding.

Chaos Beam It’s such a mystery.

Honestly true my sister beat my niece growing up and she moved out at 17 and now my sister sits on her bed crying wondering why her daughter doesn't want to come visit her :)

none ya That’s honestly horrible. I hope your niece is doing ok

@@noneya5954 Man, fuck the parents...

My parents do that and they wonder why I don't speak to them "Oh, father , spanking, speaking down to me, calling me names and shaming me for being bullied, and saying i'm not allowed to have mental ad psylogical issues is totally NOT the reason I don't come to family reunions or hug you or tell you i love you" Like I get it, you want your child to listen. But how my parents and so many others, if you beat and hurt your kid without telling them why they shouldn't do it or why doing it upsets you won't make them love you or care for you growing up. As a kid I got hit for doing things that normal kids do and mess up because that's the part of life, I remember being 4-7 and at that time I had a weak bladder and couldn't make it to the bathroom and guess who got beat and left in their room as punishment? When I got older I just got more and more angry for getting hit for small things so I started to rebel and steal, but also got hurt for it and I told myself that I would never love my parents or trust them. When I got to my teenage years (still a teenager now just almost 18) I became fearful and just very scared of doing something wrong or saying something wrong so at 14-16 I stopped speaking and only would talk if I was asked a question and would try my best not to even be in their pressence but later my dad was sad and told all my siblings that I don't love him and I never do because if you child isn't speaking to you then they're disrespectful and ungrateful and don't care about you at all because you totalllly ddn't do anything wrong Sorry for this vent.. i'll see myself out now

IKR?

Idk if you got this from another source or whatever, though shit this is a bit too true

@Freakazoid 27 Lmao, dude that doesn't make it acceptable. That's like saying "I got punched by a stranger and I turned out fine". Sure, maybe the punch didn't have a huge impact on your personal life, but punching a total stranger is still not acceptable behaviour and can land that person in prison or with fines to pay. It also doesn't take into account that every human is different. While a few beatings may not had done harm to you, someone with a different personality may have internalised those beatings differently.

I think the person was being sarcastic, becauseeveyr person who got slapped in the face say "my parents hit me as a child and i turned out fine", i believe this is sarcasm because the leather belt bit sounds more violent to those people in general so you definitely can't see it as "normal" even if hitting a child at all is terrible

@@erwanasuzumiya6347 A leather belt is a pretty normal child beating tool. A lot of kids who were/are hit are hit with either belts or switches (thin branches). I don't really see the sarcasm in stating "my parents used to beat me and I turned out fine", it's just repeating a comment that some abusers make.

Wait till they are older and piss you off

Why are you doing those things, then? That's also just conditioning. You probably instinctively know that making someone experience smtg unpleasant by inducing false consequences is wrong.

I'm also a victim of abuse. It's so hard to move on from that environment, and these monsters encouraging you to abuse your children makes me sick

You say "evil," but they think it's justified. They're delusional masochists with a superiority complex.

QJ89 they aren’t even humans they are evil creeps who need to d I e

Saying that you are abusing someone because you love them is absolutely disgusting it only will it cause them pain now, but all throughout their life. They will believe if someone hits them it’s out of love or they will abuse people thinking it’s out of love.

Oddrey M ^^^^

IKR how do they not realize that?

@@Bella-zf6nl Due to a medical mistake i was diagnosed with Autism and my most recent worker told me to go outside and get a buggy. I had a bit of a flash-back to an incident in my day care where i was told to go outside and color. i got a bit confused and actually went outside and got a whuppin' for it. What the day care worker meant by outside was to the play area but 5-6 year old me thought she meant the actual outdoor porch cause i was told outdoors. In the buggy thing she wanted me to get a small buggy of which there were none and i wondered 'uh outside like this or do i actually go outside the store? This is just like that daycare incident' the worker i was with showed me that she meant for me to get a buggy from outside the store and told me off for not listening and i was thinking 'well you should've been more specific' but i said nothing aloud as i had loooooong since learned that trying to explain the situation only led to me being yelled at like i was a 5 year old.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Disorder Disorder Disorder

@@lizgawin899 It is amazing how traditionally raised adults sincerely believe that their own emotional outbursts are the correct way to teach a child, while the child is learning only that the adult _might_ have their head on backwards sometimes... so since the adult can't be trusted to protect children, the only safe course of action for the child is to avoid danger from the adult's unstable mental state. And apparently that's satisfactory......

@@davidk7529 my grandmother does have outbursts i, and the others she's raised, watch out for but she only has them when, for example, if she sees someone go up behind me and shove their hands down my pants. Now that's just being a good grandparent, not an abusive one. She prefers trying to talk things out in a reasonable and civilized manner first and having an outburst as a last resort. She has a firm hand but is quite fair, tryin' to keep it as real and as honest as she can with me and i respect and love her for it.

Exactly what I was thinking about. How are they still running free??? And their poor children.

I dont know about the UK but I live in the US and here, likely not. Now CPS could theoretically look into it if they have dependents. But otherwise, this would probably fall under freedom of speech

Rainy Day Exactly! The child will have trust issues!

Kind of like how the Christian God put a tree with forbidden fruit right in front of Adam and Eve and punished their descendants with death and eternal damnation for daring to take the fruit.

raelonewolf “how to raise a sociopath”

How to make your children kill you when they grow up

How to raise a school shooter

How to raise more abusive parents with several mental problems

How to raise your own early death

A Bicycle you know, you could sell that guide and make more money than they did for their bullshit

It’s in the fracking ship!!!!

You said Frakking. BSG Love.

Well my case is different lol I went atheist cuz i prayed and tried for years but still failed Also my condolence Every abusive parents DO NOT deserve to go near ANY child at a 15 km radius

Sounds to me like SHE failed at raising her daughter to properly raise you if she considers you a disappointment.

I'd like to know what your mom was like. My grandmother was a hitter and my mom had a lot of internal struggle with it raising us.

Pignated oink whut?!

Pignated oink Boi I hope that was sarcasm

No offense, but your grandma sounds like a bitch. People like her come to mind whenever someone gives me the "respect the elderly because they are old" speech. No, fuck off, I'll respect people who deserve respect, age is irrelevant.

House2017 How to abuse a child and then proceed to deny the child proper help and teaching later in life, overall resulting in the creation of a domestic abuser

Travian Roberson ...or a criminal, such as a serial killer.

Taylor Davison or an individual so emotionally damaged they fear all of their actions and are nearly incapable of functioning as a person entirely

House2017 shit that was the most accurate statement ever. My dad raised my sister and myself according to this way and she hasn't spoken to him in six or seven years and he asked me if I think it's right that she does that.

its ok to teach your children manners and that does take training but training a child like a dog......that analogy seems pretty strange to me since you want a pet to do what you say but you want a child to think before they act so they eventually learn to act responsibly on their own. Obviously, without saying, it goes naturally that hitting a child won't accomplish getting them to think before they act. They will act out of fear, rather than out of reason to resolve problems.

Id be terrified if I was trying to write for punishment for my mom and then what im writing gets etched into my hand

Honestly, it sounds like some Puritan crap

She also said, "A theoretical knowledge will be sufficient," which ironically makes these people worse than her

I sense a Harry Potter fan

ugh you're right.........

Well that's not shady at all.... (sarcasm)

GabbityGabby what's SS?

Mayumi Maria Menezes Sugimoto hitler's bodyguard

Anna Bradis oh boi

Xiao Mei Jesus Christ indeed, holy shit