Clearly we now need a Scishow Psych on the smutty misreading of long title words.
@Shigellosis6 жыл бұрын
acapellascience simple, you're more used to seeing the word "masturbation" than "misattribution", as well as you being good enough in English to be able to quickly scan a sentence, and with the 2 words looking relatively similar, your brain automatically assumes the former
@SamSeama6 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't misattribution explain the Stockholm syndrome? People confusing the fear caused by a kidnapper or robber with love for said kidnapper or robber?
@SalemK6 жыл бұрын
TrwSeama Some of it can be explained by missattribution, but there is a lot more to it than that c: Hope I helped
@seasong76556 жыл бұрын
In another video they said its not known
@LulitaInPita6 жыл бұрын
SalemK it's a good hypothetasy. I think it maybe a part of it, but not the entire cause of it.
@callies89076 жыл бұрын
Stockholm Syndrome is way more complicated than misattribution, and is more common in cases where the victim has been in captivity for a long, long time.
@Ghorda96 жыл бұрын
could also just be understanding the kidnapper and feeling sympathy.
@Toastmaster_50006 жыл бұрын
Funny how the moment I was thinking "aaah so this is why horror movies work so well" she brought up horror movies, and said to not intentionally scare your date (not that I would ever do such a thing anyway).
@Xxxbluebirdxxx6 жыл бұрын
Peter Schmidt Honestly though as long as the situation isn't psychologically scarring I don't see how it's douchey. I mean if you're into horror I guess it's a great first date; if you're not into horror going to an amusement park, or somewhere that gives you similar symptoms but isn't, you know, horror, will work just as well. And I can understand wanting a small boost. As long as you're not forcing anyone to do anything they don't want, or banking on your exciting experience to make up for personality it seems like a good idea.
@genessab6 жыл бұрын
Match Ashes intentionally trying to make someone attracted to you by using a psychological trick is extremely douchey, and something that would make any reasonable woman (or person) freaked out by you.
@Toastmaster_50006 жыл бұрын
Match Ashes I see what you mean, but I personally agree with Vikings488. If being yourself isn't good enough to convince your date to like you, then it's a bad idea (borderline pathetic) to use a thrill to basically "force" it to happen. If this is like a 3rd date idea and who you're with likes these sorts of things then sure, I don't see anything wrong with it at all. But if you need to hijack someone's emotions so they like you more, that isn't doing you any long-term favors.
@Xxxbluebirdxxx6 жыл бұрын
Well, I would suggest studying pick up artists to increase your creep/douche radar. This missatribution thing is used alot, as well as some other things, like negging, also horrible. I am a woman myself, I guess I just wanted more of an explanation. I didn't think this was really forceful enough to create a relationship. It might sound ridiculous wanting an explanation, but I kinda wanted to understand why it was douchie.
@gubx426 жыл бұрын
Using psychological tricks to make someone attracted to you is pretty much the definition of seduction. It is used by both men and women, though the tactics may be different.
@NJStroebel6 жыл бұрын
This TOTALLY makes sense now! There's a guy I initially thought I had a crush on because I would become a jibbering wreck when I saw him - shaking, heart pounding etc. But the thought of doing anything intimate with him kind of grossed me out. Yet, I'd react the same way every single time I saw him. I figured out later that it was more linked to social anxiety and intimidation because he's absolutely gorgeous and rather well-off. Totally misattributed that! 😂 (I'm comforted by the fact that it's a known phenomenon and not just some inexplicable weirdness on mt part... 😅)
@marianagodinezsansores10146 жыл бұрын
I thought I was in love with the guy that bullied me when I was in elementary, I was actually terrified of him, so scared that any time I saw him I would start shaking and sweating and some times even have difficulty to breathe, I thought that was how love felt but I was just scared of him since he had been so bad to me... I think it was almost like the Stockholm syndrome for some people
@tudorsike7366 жыл бұрын
This theory sorta lends some credibility to that annoying trope in action movies where during/after natural disasters or adrenaline filled chase scenes, the two lead characters pretty much always hook up; even though the audience doesn't feel like it's earned at all. "Ah see, in fact they were just misinterpreting their cold sweats as hot sweats"
@PhyreI3ird2 жыл бұрын
It would be cool if a movie actually explored that side of it, and the two 'in-love' characters eventually realize they don't actualy like each other but the danger they involve each other in, or whatever.
@comicsans64876 жыл бұрын
Misattribution not only applies to fear and love but to all emotions, like when you misattribute your anxiety to a social event, really interesting topic.
@lynncohen28972 жыл бұрын
This is likely one (of many) reasons for why Domestic abuse happens so often between partners. Men who do this are finding the woman’s fear attractive bc arousal of fear is being mistaken for passion, the two emotions having the same physiological characteristics. It may be the reason why some women don’t leave those man, mistaking it as love or passion.
@TheBoundFenrir6 жыл бұрын
lol I love how they interrupt the video to really hammer home the "don't do it" bit XD
@zacharythebeau1636 жыл бұрын
TheBoundFenrir I took it as to do it the moment they tried to hit it home.
@abdallaismail21916 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna
@jonahlongoria6 жыл бұрын
100% of the comments are about misreading the title as Masturbation
@SlowWinterNuts6 жыл бұрын
Masturbation: How we mistake fear for love
@3800S16 жыл бұрын
I didn't, I actually didn't even think about it until I saw the comments, only to be confused how anyone could misread it? the words don't even remotely look the same to me.
@youmaycallmeken6 жыл бұрын
Then you don't understand how percentage works.
@KatGlos5 жыл бұрын
This happens to me a lot. I often travel in somewhat dangerous countries, and I often feel a strong emotional connection to the people I'm travelling with, even if I don't actually like them.
@NewMessage6 жыл бұрын
I stopped misattributing when I got married. Really. No, really, I did. I just take a long time in the shower.
@mikerphone.6 жыл бұрын
New Message, Lol at least im not the only one who had to double take when seeing the title.
@USSAnimeNCC-6 жыл бұрын
Or did you lol
@Lizard-8136 жыл бұрын
New Message It took me a little, but I eventually got it.
@Tehbestestevasss6 жыл бұрын
Lawrence Clarkson it's a joke about how misattributing can be mistaken for masturbating my man. Enjoy
@jamesgrey136 жыл бұрын
I, rightfully, mistook "misattributing" for "masturbation", but I also mistook "married" for "mad"... So my over-mistakinization ruined the joke for me... :(
@Prizzlesticks6 жыл бұрын
Huh. Yeah, I'm just constantly anxious about everything. All the time. My two moods are 'depressed' and 'faking positivity really, really hard' with a constant buzz of anxiety overlaying everything
@fran6b6 жыл бұрын
Pearl Carol Hi ! I wish you a good 2018 year. :)
@biljanaI.6 жыл бұрын
Pearl Carol Thats how I feel too all the time :/
@fromscratchauntybindy97436 жыл бұрын
Yup. Completely relate.
@sjcross84 жыл бұрын
This is really cool. I’m currently reading a book called “Deeper then Reason: Emotion and it’s role in Literature, Music and Art” and something that the author talks about is how emotions are based off of an initial chemical reaction that gets sent to two parts of our brain, one which reacts, and one which is associated with higher functioning. So in the moment, we don’t really know what we’re experiencing, but then after the fact we use context clues to figure out what emotion we had. This is she refers to as ‘cognitive monitoring’. For example, if you step on a stick and it cracks loudly, you may have a reaction of increased adrenaline and a jump. Before you can understand that it was just a stick, you first experiance an initial response, which the author labels an “affective appraisal”. It isn’t until afterwards, sometimes almost immediately, that you recognize that your reaction was unwarranted and that you’re okay. But because of the physical reaction you had to the sound of the crack, you make a guess using “folk psychological” terms to determine that what you were experiencing was fear. But in actuality you may be incorrect. I think this really relates back to the video in that sometimes we mistake similar physical reactions from a certain type of emotion for something else. And a lot of that has to do with the fact that we don’t really know what we’re experiencing as we’re experiencing it and we may misinterpret context clues that allowed us to reach some sort of guess in the first place.
@lauralara61006 жыл бұрын
I thought this was about staying in a relationship due to fear of being alone...now I'm weirdly relieved
@LibbyStephenson6 жыл бұрын
Where do I sign up for a study with a hoop-jumping ficus?
@squeaksquawk42553 жыл бұрын
Same here, please
@tira29936 жыл бұрын
To me this explains abusive relationships. How and why someone could possibly still love someone who is abusing them. Obviously on some level they know it's harmful, but they probably often mistake their fear for love.
@zetakung6 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of one of the Buddhist meditation method where a practitioners need to be aware of their body reaction which connected to feeling. For example, to help yourself acknowledge your anger (weather from the present situation or something experience you recalling in mind) is to be aware how your body felling more tight in the chest, harder and shorter breath, blood-rush; or other feeling as your body reacting through situation. These help you being aware of your feeling and identify it, and not let loose of your mind and sanity.
@XxdoggyshitxX6 жыл бұрын
Had to double take the title
@cameronicheese44626 жыл бұрын
Gotta love the brain messing with us
@Shadow-zf5uc6 жыл бұрын
As someone with HOCD, this happens to me all the time.
@statikverse6 жыл бұрын
"What is Love? Baby don't hurt me... don't hurt me... no more."
@duchessedeberne39096 жыл бұрын
StatikVerse The Shock "dum dum dum dududum dum dum"
@adamjass72586 жыл бұрын
I will definitely do that
@soullight86326 жыл бұрын
I got this cool little trick i do sometimes that helps with my fear. Just replace feared outcome with the opposite, excited outcome. So if i fear getting killed, i replace it with im excited to *not* get killed. 👍👌
@LulitaInPita6 жыл бұрын
SoulLight does it really work?
@soullight86326 жыл бұрын
LulitaInPita usually but in some situations it doesnt
@LulitaInPita6 жыл бұрын
SoulLight I'll give it a try, thanks!
@jjc54756 жыл бұрын
could this be one of the reasons why people stay in relationships that are less than ideal? (abusive)
@invisibleninja866 жыл бұрын
I just read about the shakey bridge study in my sociology textbook yesterday, and this video explains it so much better it's ridiculous.
@user-rm9uy1it5e6 жыл бұрын
Do people who are more anxious get more crushes on random people they come across i wonder? 🤔
@exactly30536 жыл бұрын
peach sunshine Yes
@TheGreatRakatan6 жыл бұрын
Or because they are always anxious they get fewer random crushes since they require a much higher level of anxiety in order to feel that attraction
@You_work_tomorrow6 жыл бұрын
Showing people how to do something that’s advantageous to their goals, then telling them not to is a not so good idea. That’s like making a video detailing the best way to rob a bank then after saying, “This will improve your chances of getting away with it, it’s been tested, but DON’T DO IT!”
@GLaDTheresCake6 жыл бұрын
To be fair to scishow, this isn't proven to work to actually make someone more attracted to you. All they're saying is it's a bad idea to base any relationship on manipulation or deceit if it were to work, as that's just not healthy or a good idea for either person involved. At least that's how I interpreted it, can't read the minds of the scishow people, so don't know for sure of course.
@You_work_tomorrow6 жыл бұрын
GLaDTheresCake I think it’s obvious it’s not a guarantee or it might not even be a more successful idea, the thing is that it is portrayed as increasing attraction. But to be fair this is already an old “guy trick” to take a girl to a scary movie or to something scary, I remember getting this advice my freshman year from a much older friend. Maybe this research is why the scary movie date is such a popular idea
@MysticZefer6 жыл бұрын
I was actually just thinking about the scary movie date too +1
@HoudaOussous6 жыл бұрын
Who will do this don't want a relationship... They want a trophy for their manipulation skills
@vrstovsek6 жыл бұрын
I MISSATRIBUTED the title of the video for 'something else' 😙
@kaizer00026 жыл бұрын
I knew some women who chose dorm rooms on the top floor so their dates would have racing hearts from climbing the stairs when they went to see them.
@ozdergekko6 жыл бұрын
I can easily mix up being in love and being depressed.
@annadushenkina35126 жыл бұрын
So adventure films do make sense! You know, when characters all of a sudden start making out in the middle of mortal danger...
@SunshineSerenade3 жыл бұрын
XDDD
@SunshineSerenade3 жыл бұрын
Holy fck that’s true XDD
@matthewdockter24246 жыл бұрын
Perfect level of detail here to expose a non psych person to this stuff. Great work all around, SciShow Psych staff!
@semicolon.advocate6 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I've watched this host, and I must say I really like her voice. Pleasant to hear and not too fast or slow
@NayOnFrames6 жыл бұрын
3:31 "It DEFINITELY doesn't mean that you should take your date somewhere creepy(/scare them) just to make them more attracted to you." In RED LETTERS: *"DO NOT DO THAT."*
@EpicLPer6 жыл бұрын
If only I ever had someone to love. Well...
@Haesslicherblaubarsch6 жыл бұрын
This is actually fascinating, it opens up a whole nother way of looking at love and fear, thank you a lot!
@dindings6 жыл бұрын
Love is that time of the night when you get home wasted and sleep in the coach, when you wake up is the hangover
@seatbelttruck6 жыл бұрын
I wonder if that's why serial killers get so many fans...
@LMacNeill6 жыл бұрын
Definitely glad to know I’m not the only one who, at first glance, mis-read the title! :-)
@raisinjeffreys24816 жыл бұрын
Would you say this is what causes Stockholm syndrome?
@meerkatnip8926 жыл бұрын
Raisin Jeffreys Stockholm syndrom (from what I have read) is a bit more complicated and has more to do with social processes than basal physical processes like emotion/arousal. Stockholm results from interpreting the police's (careful) inaction that is supposed to keep the hostage safe for the moment as being let down and interpreting the criminals behavior towards you (like letting you go to the toilet or giving you food) as very positive and nice. It's like losing track of the bigger picture and the relative (!) niceness of someone's behavior.
@Master_Therion6 жыл бұрын
I went on a date with a beautician named Audrey. The smell of nail polish remover made me light-headed, which I mistook for love. My experience with misattribution was... Miss-Audrey-Beautician.
@sebastianelytron84506 жыл бұрын
lol your jokes are so left field and wacky, I love it
@IceMetalPunk6 жыл бұрын
I say this as a friend: you've done better work, buddy. You'll get 'em next time.
@azdgariarada6 жыл бұрын
Should have gone for the low hanging fruit. A masturbation joke would have worked much better than this long walk for just a "meh" pay off.
@AmeshaSpentaArmaiti6 жыл бұрын
you having fun on the moon there, friend? you really went a long way for this.
@brettpalmer17706 жыл бұрын
Master Therion I liked it.
@alicered41986 жыл бұрын
Welp. I saw the title of the video and instantly related in reverse.
@KathySueTube6 жыл бұрын
Every “meet cute” moment in romantic comedies is simply... misattribution. IT MAKES SENSE NOW
@CheeseTaterson6 жыл бұрын
I wonder if this might be the reason I feel a deep-seated terror whenever I start to catch feelibgs for someone, or just a natural reaction due to some of the relationships I've been in. Maybe a bit of both?
@ceilingfan18133 жыл бұрын
Sorry this is so delayed but I'm trying to find more about experiences like these, because this is (most likely?) what I'm experiencing now and it's confusing and difficult to distinguish and interpret my thoughts and feelings. Have you learned any more about it since then?
@joshuasadler53046 жыл бұрын
Is this why the Ferris Wheel has become the amusement park ride of love
@alisanhaji23966 жыл бұрын
"Do not do that." Yeah, some people might not have figured that possibility, but you presented it, and now they know. Of course they won't do it...
@yes_papii6 жыл бұрын
As a dyslexic, I got shook for a sec.
@Kris-cu1vx6 жыл бұрын
It all makes sense now. I don't have an anxiety disorder, I'm in love with fear ;D
@YurinanAcquiline6 жыл бұрын
This completely explains something that happened to me. At the end of the video, I was like "ohhhhhhh!"
@bizzelboem69226 жыл бұрын
What is love? Baby don't hurt me Don't hurt me No more
@TheAstip6 жыл бұрын
I know my anxiety means I misattribute my excitement for stress or anxiety.
@ChronicNewb3 жыл бұрын
OH
@Kissarai6 жыл бұрын
So many 'romance' stories explained.
@hakimdiwan51013 жыл бұрын
I feel so good that I'm not the only one who misread it
@userequaltoNull6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, love is great. For people who still feel.
@erodgenator6 жыл бұрын
Good video this person is an awesome host!
@leonormorais85096 жыл бұрын
this speaks to me. i almost never know why i'm feeling the why i am and i wish i could but i'm also tired of trying.
@aleksandrasrimdzius6 жыл бұрын
Psychopaths and narcissists apply this strategy really good.
@Julika76 жыл бұрын
What is the difference between anxiety and fear? In German we differentiate between a specific provocing thing and a general feeling.
@Angel-mv5gi6 жыл бұрын
So could this affect and be one of the causes of Stockholm Syndrome?
@LulitaInPita6 жыл бұрын
Hannah Burke possibly
@SodaCat166 жыл бұрын
My favorite part of SciShow psych is "You don't have to worry about it. Stuff like this happens to everyone, and not very often. Stop panicking. Stop being your own psychologist I SEE WHAT YOU'RE DOING PUT WEBMD DOWN"
@AshNinjas6 жыл бұрын
How aboot an episode on intrusive thoughts? Like how I see me stabbing myself in the eye, whenever I pick up something sharp...
@zyaicob4 жыл бұрын
"Be sober, be vigilant, for your adversary the Devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour" His mission is to destroy humanity, and he doesn't take a day off
@AnimilesYT6 жыл бұрын
Pokémon XY(Z) uses this as a reason for Serena to love Ash. In her childhood she was lost and scared up to the point of crying, but then Ash showed up. The relief, happyness, recent anxiety get later mixed up as a feeling of love
@aellalee47676 жыл бұрын
The bridge study was done where I live!
@mamavalpromise6 жыл бұрын
There is plenty of anxiety intrinsic in the first phases of a close encounter--it brings up deeply-buried primal feelings connected with mom or primary caregiver. Thus our entire identity, our entire selfhood, is on the line...especially for those with a shaky sense of self. It's why the thrill wears off once we feel validated and accepted enough within a given relationship, and why we get more blasee about close encounters as we get older, if we have more than one relationship. (Not to say that misattribution isn't a "thing," but it's good to be clear that there's inherently a certain portion of fear in what we call love.)
@Alr1ghtyThen6 жыл бұрын
The multitude of similar comments is why I read at least 10 comments before commenting the same sentiment as nearly 99% of people who commented.
@EidolWays6 жыл бұрын
This seems like a field of research that could very easily mistake correlation and causation. For example, the subjects getting off the roller-coaster who were more likely to rate a photo of a stranger as attractive. If you presume misattribution is the cause, then you could say the anxiety and/or thrill of the coaster was carried over to the experience of viewing said photo. However, it seems equally plausible that someone who chose to board a coaster did so for the enjoyment of it. Thus, when they exit the coaster, they may also simpler be in a better mood and thus more open to rating a photo of a complete stranger, presented to them by a complete stranger, as attractive.
@oli2.0196 жыл бұрын
But what is it called when you misattribute misattribution?
@exactly30536 жыл бұрын
Oli2.01 Woah
@duchessedeberne39096 жыл бұрын
Patrik?
@lazyperfectionist16 жыл бұрын
Let's not be down, though, on the feeling we experience just before going over that first hump on a roller-coaster. That feeling is anticipation, because the feeling we experience _while_ going over the hump is _excitement_ and _thrill!_
@EVEspinosa796 жыл бұрын
I love SciShow Psych. No... wait, WHAT?!
@mgarcar12556 жыл бұрын
I used to have severe panic attacks when I was younger, because I was misinterpreting anxiety as a physical illness. Some minor pain would trigger anxiety and lead me to believe I was actually sick, then the anxiety would intensify rapidly and eventually put me in the hospital. So, I was panicking to the point of sustained physical pain (this was all brought on by a general fear of death). Once I was diagnosed, I stopped having panic attacks, because I knew there wasn't any actual life threatening illness, It was just me psyching myself out. I still almost get them on rare occasions, but as soon as I realize what is going on, I just get it under control and it subsides.
@marnenotmarnie259 Жыл бұрын
i always had a hard time telling different emotions apart. this video has explained… a few experiences i had in high school lol
@Mu51kM4n6 жыл бұрын
do a video explaining why "standing on a cliff, but completely relaxed" led me on a thought trail where I spaced out the video and imagined myself accidentally falling into the grand canyon and trying to save myself by slowing my fall. I had to force myself out of that mini thought rabbit trail. Yes, I do have an unhealthy and debilitating fear of death and falling from heights, so I'm sure that's related. These kinds of "thought rabbit trails" happen to me a lot, mostly concerning my fears of dying, losing people, falling, drowning, etc, but usually not lasting long and not quite like the thought spirals that John Green has shared about. But still, I would love some sciencey-details on these things... and also maybe a therapist...
@muskduh2 жыл бұрын
thanks for the great explanation
@patrickmccurry15636 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that my love feels absolutely NOTHING like fear. My anxiety disorder would make that literally torture, and not something I would ever pursue.
@Caitlin_TheGreat6 жыл бұрын
I'll take your word on it that this happens to people, but from my own experience it seems absurd that you could be confused about what you're feeling. Of course, as a person who enjoys that little rush from being genuinely frightened, I've sort of become numb to most fear-stimuli. But I've also never felt "nervous" as part of attraction... for me it's something I arrive at after several interactions where I've gotten a decent feel for the personality (i.e., at a point where I feel confident that it's not just an act). Nervousness in general is very rare for me. I'm usually pretty relaxed and pragmatic... and get lost in thought.
@AEther02386 жыл бұрын
Oh. Is this why I run from the ones I love? Okay.
@KaelinatorPVP6 жыл бұрын
Very fascinating video!
@SadeLife-uj5lw6 жыл бұрын
If u mean that fear can bring people together & thus people mistake that for love: it happens sometimes, fear of being lonely, fear of facing dangers alone, fear of defeated by a common enemy, that's why horror & adventure movies always have this ( romantic relationship) develops usually between a man and a woman facing a common danger; for instance, while hiding from a monster, an alien or a natural disaster ( like the 2 main characters in Titanic), and the only way to test if it's love or not, is when that fear is gone, Would love remain?!
@route20706 жыл бұрын
I thought the exercise study would have felt more arroused since many people think of sex as exercise so they would be "warmed up" kind of like foreplay.
@nicolali47926 жыл бұрын
Ugh research like this was why I dropped out of my psych degree. Too many conclusions with words like "probably" and "might have". Also ethics boards halted progress.
@namthainam6 жыл бұрын
Wow! You are a really good presenter. Good job!!!
@ALacunae6 жыл бұрын
Let's be honest, we're all taking our dates on rollercoasters now.
@VandrefalkTV6 жыл бұрын
Another good one, thanks! :)
@ButtercheeseYay6 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. Thank you for sharing.
@loganhoffner41786 жыл бұрын
When I was in 8th grade, a new guy joined our class in the middle of the year and he sat right next to me. I talked to him for a bit, and after a day or two, I thought I hated him. I didn't know why, it was just a feeling I got. After he moved away, my friends where talking about him, I realized that I actually missed him. I think I mixed up my feelings of a crush on him for hatred.
@unluckypuppy136 жыл бұрын
I've done this, I had too much caffeine and confused my heart racing and sweating as anxiety
@clayton8or6 жыл бұрын
What date?
@yangtse554 жыл бұрын
Sadly this sort of explains a lot regarding my disastrous relationships ..
@xMDawg19x6 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else read "Masturbation" at first glance in the thumbnail?
@brucephillip64566 жыл бұрын
oh... we weren't supposed to be doing that?!
@kujmous6 жыл бұрын
This is not likely the same thing, but my mind will misattribute a lack of reply all the time. I've gotten much better at seeing it, though.
@meerkatnip8926 жыл бұрын
Didn't find the explanation of the Schachter Singer model very clear. It's a very odd theory when you first hear it because it totally turns around our common conception of what emotions are and how we experience them. I know about this and other theories from uni (I study psychology) and it took me a while to get this one. One example I have experienced myself is when I consume caffeine. My heart starts beating faster and I get super fidgety but not really awake or energetic. So one time I was just chilling around but constantly felt on edge and like I had to be vigilant all the time. That was me misinterpreting my body's physical reaction to caffeine as fear/anxiety.
@steelhawk81266 жыл бұрын
Ahahahaha I'm going to do exactly what you asked us not to do xD
@dylantruong8976 жыл бұрын
Mis read title...
@maroon5man6 жыл бұрын
I defiantly had to read that twice
@roguedogx6 жыл бұрын
Dam, I would have liked a ficus jumping through hoops.
@drunkondandelions2 жыл бұрын
can I use this to trick myselfe to like a good person? i sadly only find way to controling people attrctive (yes, i have some issues to work through), but can i try to trick myselfe into liking someone who I know is a great, kind and genuin person and i should like, but since i apparently can only feel unhealty attrcktion i was wandering if i can use this to trick myslefe into liking a decent person...
@diablominero6 жыл бұрын
I suppose I'm not a great example, because I have alexithymia, but one time I thought I was feeling dread/nervousness when in retrospect it was probably some form of sadness/grief (a family member had just died).
@LulitaInPita6 жыл бұрын
Since the release of this video there's been a 300% rise in men taking their partners to dates in dark allies and horror houses in hopes of getting it on.
@LePedant6 жыл бұрын
Love and fear are two completely different feelings. Fear feels tense and raises your anxiety, love feels warm and relaxes you. Do people really mix up these two feelings?