Missing Flagstaff woman's remains located after husband pleads guilty to murder

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22 күн бұрын

Officials confirm they have located the remains of 45-year-old Kelly Paduchowski, who was reported missing Sunday in the Flagstaff area. Her husband, Daniel Paduchowski, was arrested for second-degree murder.

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@mjschumaker 20 күн бұрын

Horrible plea deal. Sixteen years? For murder? No justice here for this lady!

@carefulconsumer8682 20 күн бұрын

America, 2024. Basically, Get away with murder.

@rhedrhed157 20 күн бұрын

Of course......

@peterkilbridge6523 19 күн бұрын

That's not enough. In 17 years he'll be driving around Flagstaff in a Corvette convertible with a lovely 24-y-o model and a grin on his face.

@southrules 19 күн бұрын

@@carefulconsumer8682if you’re rich

@H4me7215 19 күн бұрын

It will be half that😢

@Jan-zv7ze 20 күн бұрын

Put this man in jail for his life! He gave her the death sentence all by himself..he deserves NO MERCY.

@for-real-countrygirl4192 19 күн бұрын

I dont understand how he can kill her , hide her body and lie to the police and still only get 16 years ?? What the hell is wrong with everybody ??

@FollowingfromafarBooth-jz4jq 19 күн бұрын

Cut a deal, her family were probably desperate to have her remains.

@for-real-countrygirl4192 14 күн бұрын

@FollowingfromafarBooth-jz4jq you're probably right it's a damn shame that these killers are allowed to hold their victims hostage ,until they get a deal from the DA. If I was the judge,the only deal he would get is this , he'd get a regular sentence, but I'd add a year for every day he won't talk

@Teas.Louise 19 күн бұрын

Neighbors saw her face down and motionless in the yard with him on top of her and NO ONE CALLED 911?

@user-st6nt4ou6f 19 күн бұрын

No! How awful!

@BobbyBrown90210 19 күн бұрын

@@Teas.Louise yeah i mean I've seen those cctv videos of new york and big cities where people just step over bleeding and actively dying people on the sidewalk, so it doesn't surprise me that none of the neighbors called.

@justsaying3729 18 күн бұрын

The new attitudes in the U.S.A.

@PamelaTaylor 16 күн бұрын

THEY PROBABLY DID, BUT ITS SO MUCH CRAZINESS NOWADAYS

@theyclosechannelsthatspeak428 13 күн бұрын

Flagstaff is a liberal assylum.

@tammymorgan9870 20 күн бұрын

16 years for murder? Unbelievable

@angelalake200 19 күн бұрын

outrageous

@thesun-N-moon8885 19 күн бұрын

Unbelievable? Since when? This happened in America, right? You think it’s unbelievable.

@AirQuotes848 19 күн бұрын

@@tammymorgan9870 That's nothing for punishment 😕 for what he did

@oldgloryhillfarmturtlewoma9132 19 күн бұрын

@@tammymorgan9870 Must be a Soros backed Judge. I mean that sincerely.

@theodorabruin4601 19 күн бұрын

Democrats never really punish anyone. And you wonder why the country is a disaster.

@Tuxster3 20 күн бұрын

16 years???????????? Are you kidding me?! That is NOT justice!

@LeTrashPanda 20 күн бұрын

Cheaper for AZ PD to prosecute.

@ericbassett6389 17 күн бұрын

This happens all the time I watch the 48 hours where the guy got 26 years for murder, and they let them out in the year only to murder again and he committed felonies within three months of being let out our justice system is screwed up corporal punishment is the way to go

@axidhaus 17 күн бұрын

@@Tuxster3 a lady just threw her baby out a window to keep her corporate job at Porsche and only got 7 years

@graylingedwards6108 20 күн бұрын

Murder is becoming a misdemeanor. Bankrobbers get 30/50 years.

@lolodee3528 20 күн бұрын

That’s because money/possessions are far more important in our justice system than full grown human lives. Embryos and money. Not food, education or health.

@alexsandra6316 19 күн бұрын

@@graylingedwards6108 you mean convenient stores. Banks don't get robbed only the ATM customers. The wife was accidentally killed due to domestic violence (overkill) . Even if the neighbors called the police it does no good because it is the wife's responsibility to take a fault and call it a loud disturbance.

@imaginethat2003 19 күн бұрын

My brother is in a Florida prison for actual bank robbery. Third offense, second at the same bank. Mandatory 15 years.

@allthumbsrocketry2948 19 күн бұрын

Bankers rule the world. Their wealth is precious, not our lives.

@unapologeticallyauthentic 19 күн бұрын

Ya and pot smokers from the 80s are still in prison... this poor lady

@gwynluv5447 20 күн бұрын

What. In. Thee. Hell. SIXTEEN YEARS?!?! That's an insult to the victim and the prosecutor who made this deal should be fired. Her life was worth a lot more than 16 years. If you murder someone, at a minimum, you spend the rest of your life in prison, period. Prosecutors and judges who offer and sentence criminals to ridiculous plea deals need to be fired. Take it to trial if they don't want to admit their guilt. At least then they can be sentenced to life w/o parole. This is a disgrace.

@Gracefully2045 20 күн бұрын

@@gwynluv5447 unfortunately that’s the laws in arizona for second degree murder, but hopefully they can build more evidence with the investigation. It’s unfortunate. And I’m glad he plead guilty. But, if he hadn’t well we know we’d have a trial.

@clarkness77 20 күн бұрын

Thank god your not a judge😅. Second degree and third degree murder exist

@juliaweber212 20 күн бұрын

I agree

@sudilos1172 20 күн бұрын

Second, Third? Whole Damn Neighborhood saw him on her lifeless body! He staged her “trip to the park”. He knew where her Body was.

@maryjane4432 20 күн бұрын

@@clarkness77he still killed her in cold blood. He just didn’t plan it saving him from first degree. It’s not like it was an accident and he accidentally killed her that would be completely different

@BobbieJeanM 19 күн бұрын

16 years is an insult to the victim and her family! Plea deals should be illegal!

@truth4004 19 күн бұрын

@@BobbieJeanM he probably told where the body was.

@BobbieJeanM 17 күн бұрын

@@truth4004 I think you’re right and I know everyone is different but if it were my daughter, I would rather he received the maximum sentence possible than for her body to be found.

@carylynne6574 15 күн бұрын

Just because he was "kind enough" to show where he dumped her??? NO. Plea deals should not be available for MURDER. A person did not have their life taken so their killer can beg to have their life back....especially not in that length of time. This is indeed an insult on top of death!

@colleensmith3374 12 күн бұрын

Dems soft on crime

@troutfisher7182 20 күн бұрын

Why the heck didn't the neighbors who saw him on top of her in the backyard say something at the time. Maybe she could have been saved. Better to be embarrassed at being a nosey neighbor and wrong than letting someone be murdered

@V.E.R.O. 20 күн бұрын

She was already dead.

@philliphall5198 19 күн бұрын

Cowards say nothing 😢

@thesun-N-moon8885 19 күн бұрын

Why place that blame burden on the neighbors?! You don’t know what the neighbors were seeing or hearing on the daily. This behavior could’ve been “normal” and they overlooked it because she never left. There is always more to a story. I’m more saddened that she never left him if that was the case.

@dnagoddesshealings2212 19 күн бұрын

@V.E.R.O. sadly, yes... she was already dead.. faced down, meaning that probably happened so fast.

@lynnf7542 19 күн бұрын

Those neighbors now have to live with their dumb decision for the rest of their lives!

@AkitaLover1013 19 күн бұрын

16 years? That's a ridiculous sentence for murdering his wife!

@billkraemer4710 19 күн бұрын

We had a woman jogging run over by drunk in a pickup. He went by, ran her over, turned around, looked her over and drove off. While he was eventually arrested, it has been very quiet and I understand he was released after the booking. This is in Maricopa county. The man’s dad works at Phoenix PD. Why is this murder being treated so different? Shouldn’t they both be behind bars?

@amarisimpson1506 17 күн бұрын

You know the answer

@jodyjustice7571 20 күн бұрын

WHAT!!!! Where is the Death Penalty. Shame on the court system, shame on the prosecutors.

@mortalclown3812 20 күн бұрын

Learn something about American jurisprudence, a clogged system, the value of at least getting her body back, etc. Or... Karen away.

@briandaniel931 20 күн бұрын

@@jodyjustice7571 WP

@RichardsWorld 19 күн бұрын

They probably had no solid case if he didn't confess.

@sharonfladeland2621 17 күн бұрын

Totally Agree!!!

@rondameier8168 20 күн бұрын

Typical lazy prosecutor. Excepting or offering that kind of plea deal is a slap in the face to the victim and her family.

@OldJoeBlows 19 күн бұрын

Agreed. Accepting plea deals means lessening the accountability and we are all living with the consequences of a society that is not being held accountable.

@danielebrparish4271 19 күн бұрын

D.A.s normaly consult with the victim's relatives before accepting a plea. In this case I suspect her family wanted to get her remains so they could have closure. I think the D.A. offered the plea deal in exchange for the info.

@elizabethantoine9652 18 күн бұрын

*accepting

@Fuxerz 16 күн бұрын

@@elizabethantoine9652spelling nanny 😂 have a great day

@lindakelley2676 19 күн бұрын

He doesn’t deserve a plea deal.

@nilabrandner433 17 күн бұрын

Agree

@lillysgrandmaable 20 күн бұрын

WHY DIDNT THOSE "NEIGHBORS" THE ONES TO CALL IT IN INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR THE COPS TO ASK ABOUT HER?

@juliaweber212 20 күн бұрын

I agree terrible they waited

@kevincage1641 20 күн бұрын

@lillysgrandmaable It’s easy to say. What would you have done if you suspected your neighbor was committing foul play? Your fears might cause even you to do nothing.

@jesussaves7973 20 күн бұрын

@@kevincage1641 I pray Id have no fear and God Almighty would protect me. He says “Fear not “ many times in His Word

@kevincage1641 20 күн бұрын

@@jesussaves7973 The only thing that justifies what you say is “I pray to God…” Based on my 65+ years, christian’s rarely get involved, due to a church’s non-profit status, or sheer disobedience. Most believers “mouths’ and feet” don’t line up.

@shakenbakedrake 19 күн бұрын

To do Nothing? ... I can't grasp what the reasons for Doing Nothing, could possibly be

@ginapereira8948 20 күн бұрын

16 years? 🙄

@Fat12219 20 күн бұрын

It should be life in prison 😮

@lrn5755 20 күн бұрын

Intentionally and purposefully take his wife's life but gets 16 yrs? 'Deal' more important than the life taken? What about till death do us part?

@BobbieJeanM 19 күн бұрын

In this case that’s exactly what it was although not in intended way of those words.

@Clancy192 19 күн бұрын

Well she's dead and they parting!

@janeskey5042 19 күн бұрын

If you’re thinking about leaving a guy , whether it’s a husband or a boyfriend, don’t confront them. Just pack what you can and get out and go no contact if possible. I don’t know if this is the situation but if you confront certain people, especially a covert narcissist and again I don’t know if he was one, but people can be extremely dangerous and snap. Don’t threaten them. Don’t back them into a corner. Just find a time when they’re gone and leave. Be safe.

@starshine3588 19 күн бұрын

Yes you are absolutely right about that.

@joannwalker3769 19 күн бұрын

@@janeskey5042 so true

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

facts! NEVER give your abuser power.

@Powerfulchange712 19 күн бұрын

That poor lady was MURDERED at the hands of her husband. And the MURDER only have too severe 16 years. That’s sickening ☹️

@chrislj2890 19 күн бұрын

The judge should throw out the plea deal.

@lindawalters1836 19 күн бұрын

16 yrs for murder? He should have gotten life, at least.

@stoneforest7897 19 күн бұрын

I feel angry. 16 yrs for killing his wife??!! The judge is so incompetent. He really should get life in prison sentence.

@patrav4 20 күн бұрын

So, he gets to live his life, and she doesn't. This is what's wrong with this country. Keep slapping them on the hand.

@SandraBlanton-vn3mh 19 күн бұрын

No one has the right to kill anyone. Why would anyone sell their soul and kill their beautiful wife and destroy so many people. Mercy and grace to her family.

@Hannahkeir 20 күн бұрын

Only 16 years behind bars? This man should spend the rest of his life in prison!

@robin4942 20 күн бұрын

Just 16 years??? Crazy!!! A judge should have rejected that deal.

@db2466 20 күн бұрын

16 years! He need to stay in jail forever!

@NMV-ej4zd 20 күн бұрын

This please deal just gave a message to abusive, murderer men that if you just confess and point out where you dumped your victim's body, you will only serve 16 years, then be released to live the rest of your life in freedom. Oh, and while in prison, you can complete a free college degree in between working-out and watching TV, all financed by non-criminal taxpayers.

@maxvickrey4357 19 күн бұрын

Technically you don't know how many of those tax payers are also criminals

@thesun-N-moon8885 19 күн бұрын

What?! Please stop acting like this is something new! It’s not unheard of for the prosecutor to offer a plea deal in exchange for a guilty plea or in hope of finding the place of the body. You do realize prison isn’t the only place to receive a free education, free room and board with all three meals, right? While I agree these type of crimes should hold more accountability I refuse to act like this is unheard of in America!!

@71suns 19 күн бұрын

@@thesun-N-moon8885What's your point? I can think of several deterrence to this two-legged male predator entitled crap happening over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again...and the SEVERE SWIFT CONSEQUENCES would undoubtedly cause pause before another male committed these henious crimes.

@notsocrates9529 19 күн бұрын

It is prison in Arizona, where they have the Mexican Mafia and AB, stop watching so much TV. He is not going to a day camp, he is going to a state penitentiary and will be surrounded by murderers and violent men with nothing to lose. Prison in the US is not like Scandinavian justice where you get a dorm room and personal kitchen plus weekend furloughs.

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

best retirement plan in the world.

@MiltJohnson-sw9lc 20 күн бұрын

16 years is a joke , you get more than that for killing a grizzly bear

@greendesertgoddess 19 күн бұрын

Especially if you're non-white . . .

@reneedennis2011 19 күн бұрын

Sixteen years for unaliving someone? Good grief 😔.

@notsocrates9529 19 күн бұрын

Unalive? You mean murder, or kill? Use your big boy words.

@bethwasserman2882 19 күн бұрын

renee is a woman's name.

@elizabethantoine9652 18 күн бұрын

This is a term that younger people use . They use it instead of terms like suicide and murder so as not to hurt their feelings or the feelings of others. Just annoying AF

@Storm383 19 күн бұрын

So please help me understand,after 16 years is he going to walk free?! Unbelievable!Why not life?!🙏🏽

@azoldguy9025 19 күн бұрын

The fact that the neighbors failed to to respond to a neighbor they knew is concerning! Why in the hell didn’t they respond to the situation? Not the kind of neighbors I want to live near, nosy enough to see what’s going on but not enough to save a life! WOW!

@mariroberts231 19 күн бұрын

Again, as a paralegal the judicial system has FAILED this beautiful mom...16 yrs wrong on many levels...my condolences to her family. May she R.I.P...I hope he rots in hell..

@HokieJuju 19 күн бұрын

16 Years?? WTH?? That’s ridiculous!!!!! 😡

@sudilos1172 20 күн бұрын

Wow Whole Neighborhood saw him kill her. And Cops are like. “Um we have a procedure…. Shes at the park right? “

@Lotuslaful 19 күн бұрын

16 years for a womans life? So sad

@mrwilliamwonder 20 күн бұрын

Many more people have got more time for growing pot in America. How sick is that?

@symontemplar1418 18 күн бұрын

@@mrwilliamwonder false equivalence

@mrwilliamwonder 18 күн бұрын

@@symontemplar1418 It proves how unjust the justice system is

@cuprunnethover2 19 күн бұрын

That's a shame! So many people with murder in their hearts walking around

@kellybrandon1179 19 күн бұрын

Miine is a dr lynn barlow the2nd in utah... he is the grim reaper

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

and the courts are making it easier for people to get away with it. believe me, we are headed for a lawless society.

@mpalmer7800 20 күн бұрын

It’s literally sleeping the enemy

@keeleekeelee9125 20 күн бұрын

JUSTICE NOT SERVED! 16 yrs for murder.

@stephanieallangarman5598 20 күн бұрын

Absolutely, DISGUSTING 🤢 this is not JUSTICE. I do know that without a doubt…WE ALL REAP WHAT WE SOW !! 😢💔

@ShredderTainment 19 күн бұрын

16 years behind bars? Feels like a light sentence for murder.

@anitakephart3851 20 күн бұрын

The neighbors intentionally decided to NOT say ANYTHING after seeing him on TOP OF HER? What I hope for them when they eventually need help is something I can't say out loud. Shame on them, SHAME!!! The baddest of neighbors. Glad I don't have them for neighbors. And the sentence is reprehensible. Shame on the judge and the jury. What are we coming to? Moving on..

@Gracefully2045 15 күн бұрын

That’s the arizona legal system it’s 10-25 years for second degree murder. He should get the 25 at least

@Gracefully2045 15 күн бұрын

And no jury because he confessed pled guilty and took that plea deal

@garyc39 20 күн бұрын

16 yrs with no parole means he will serve 5 if that

@larryjohns5516 20 күн бұрын

16 years ?? Cheap price for human life

@cmckinney380 19 күн бұрын

More proof of the Man or Bear question. He should have been forced to live in prison forever. Plea deal. Smh

@danielearle8886 19 күн бұрын

What is going on with all these murders in America never seen anything like it.God help us.

@Tbear995 20 күн бұрын

Crazy! Hope she gets justice

@KohalaLover 20 күн бұрын

Justice? The woman was murdered by her husband and he got a sweetheart deal of only sixteen years. Where’s the justice?

@catherineseiler7407 19 күн бұрын

He’s despicable

@carolforbes1559 19 күн бұрын

16 years? How freaking sad…that is not justified!

@user-jr6mn9hk7s 20 күн бұрын

Sad at least they found Her Remains. Walking away is much better than Murdering or abusing Your Wife or spouse. Prayers for the Family and friends of the victim. This should have never happened. My Heart goes Out to You all 💔😢🙏

@yvonneerrend8217 20 күн бұрын

It was so obvious!. Unbelievable. Get a divorce. Men... Quit murdering your wife's. Prison is a million times worse. You have to be completely ignorant and stupid to kill your spouse.😰

@hiho8084 19 күн бұрын

Plea deals....so unfair to the people who have to live with the death of their loved ones. That man brutally murdered and covered up the murder, and like the coward he is, he took a plea to save his own skin. She deserves justice. He should not be able to continue to live his life.

@hereitis.2587 19 күн бұрын

Older man with a younger woman can be relationships with unbalanced power control not just age.

@LeTrashPanda 20 күн бұрын

If you don't know WHY she was murdered, you haven't solved the case....pffft.

@22lyric 19 күн бұрын

@@LeTrashPanda They've solved the IMPORTANT part!

@Terry-lh8cn 19 күн бұрын

@@LeTrashPanda They don't have to prove motive.

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

@@Terry-lh8cnthat’s what makes this terrifying.

@rayjimenez3265 20 күн бұрын

16 yrs? I could've done this to my ex and I'd been out 11 yrs ago if we lived in Flagstaff. What a pretty woman, he could've sent her down here to me in Texas. One man's trash is another man's treasure. RIP and no justice.

@Gracefully2045 20 күн бұрын

Arizona second degree murder laws are sad here. Technically the max he could have got was 25 years but I guess because he plead guilty and let them to the body they gave him the mid sentence

@Fat12219 20 күн бұрын

Flagstaff, it's hot n dry 😫 over there 😮

@Gracefully2045 19 күн бұрын

@@Fat12219 it’s nice to me. I’ll take it over 120 degrees in Phoenix any day. Lol

@71suns 19 күн бұрын

Women don't BELONG to men. Period.

@71suns 19 күн бұрын

@@Fat12219It's in the mountains.

@bullirish 19 күн бұрын

Sixteen years?! How can that be true?! What a horrible injustice!!!

@larrytrice8950 20 күн бұрын

Only 16 years…😮….

@bill3641 19 күн бұрын

"Came to an agreement" ,.......What a broken ass system... Is this done because the average Jury/Judge combinations can't/won't do what they are there to do?

@kristi1189 20 күн бұрын

Femicide

@KohalaLover 20 күн бұрын

Sixteen years is all the lady was worth, how utterly pathetic. What a terrible DA and what a terrible husband. Women are disrespected when alive and disrespected when they aren’t.

@katiedid1851 19 күн бұрын

Why murder your spouse? What happened to divorce? Separation? Women and children are targets in this country.

@thehaywire8889 20 күн бұрын

Prayers for her family and friends 🙏

@williamryan9195 19 күн бұрын

There was a San Diego woman that went missing in the Williams/Flagstaff area last year and her car found on a dirt road. It was never reported whether she was found dead or alive,I wonder if they are somehow related .

@StoptheLie 19 күн бұрын

16 years? You take a life, you do life in prison - some states, take your life!

@donthephoneman7084 20 күн бұрын

How about the death penalty????

@barbaraacosta1322 19 күн бұрын

Why the criminals make a deal ? Why dont take off this absurdity

@greenbeagle13 20 күн бұрын

Plea deals are ridiculous - but they make it easier on the courts and court staff - even the bailiffs hate trials because it cuts into their day. I was a bailiff and we loved to hear that a plea deal was made so there would be no trial. This guy only gets 16 years for murdering another human being, just to avoid a trial - sickening.

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

oh the poor bailiff! what a victim of thier own chosen profession. boo-hoo.

@greenbeagle13 18 күн бұрын

@@jendee1260 - You sorta' missed the point, goofball... 😂😂🤣🤣

@Dahlia4777 19 күн бұрын

There is no longer justice in this country. 16 years for cold blooded murder?? This is a disgrace on every level.

@AbuAfakski 20 күн бұрын

we have to do better, men

@lynnf7542 19 күн бұрын

Did we the people give authority for a crap deal like that..only 16yrs for all those charges! He should be getting life!

@Wildhorserebel 19 күн бұрын

I dont think people should be allowed plea deals when they have murdered or raped ....

@susanlewis9351 18 күн бұрын

Why didn't the neighbors immediately call the police?! 16 yrs!!!! That is awful! An insult to her

@jdp2828 19 күн бұрын

Sixteen years for murder?!?!

@theCounzler 19 күн бұрын

Worst plea deal Ever.

@jeffreyallen9626 19 күн бұрын

So very sad sorry to all impacted for this woman rip😞🙏❤️

@kaysimpson8253 19 күн бұрын

Her life's value equals 26 yrs in jail...most pathetic justice!!!!!

@ellek8689 19 күн бұрын

"Neighbors" saw the husband holding her down and only reported that AFTER the police interviewed any potential witness? Disgusting.

@billiamc1969 19 күн бұрын

With neighbors like that, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES???? This is the problem here in America...nobody cares enough or wants to get involved...what a sick bunch of people living in that area

@jenniferrogers5491 19 күн бұрын

WTH 16 years!!

@deb9784 19 күн бұрын

So her life is worth nothing! The trauma she experienced while he was killing her amounted to nothing! What does that say to other abusers of their wives and girlfriends?

@thewickedwitchofse8998 19 күн бұрын

16 years for murder? Notice the cops didn't do jack but pretend they did.

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

we’re headed for a lawless society.

@RichardsWorld 19 күн бұрын

The neighbors saw him on top of her with her face down in their backyard? They didn't call the police? He is the one that called the police. And he only gets 15 years? The police had no case.

@noosphericaltarzan 19 күн бұрын

That's about what you'd get for punching a police dog. The american criminal justice system, everybody.

@georgefirman3187 19 күн бұрын

Plead guilty to a crime like that should be capital punishment.. system is falling apart

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

we’re headed for a lawless society.

@thehaywire8889 20 күн бұрын

An eye for an eye!

@robertbyington7715 19 күн бұрын

What a coward and getting 16 years for pre meditated murder is a joke

@kpac3089 19 күн бұрын

16 years? Free at 74? Wow, a murder sentence just isn't what it used to be.

@jendee1260 19 күн бұрын

we’re headed for a lawless society.

@angiebeasley2868 19 күн бұрын

Only 16 years for murder?! That's bull! He should be under the jail! He should get life!

@tubemycup 19 күн бұрын

Just so sad!!

@shakenbakedrake 19 күн бұрын

Im sorry, but a guy and girl /husband wife, fighting physically- Could Never Be The Norm, for me to see or witness as a neighbor. "Oh, are those two wrestling in the yard again? They're so crazy" NOPE! if I'm your neighbor, the cops will be called EVERY DAY i see some dumb stuff such as a man fighting with a women. Im not religious, but *love thy neighbor, even if they are strangers!*