As a woman I would tell men.... stop picking women based on looks. They count yes but if a woman has fake nails lashes ect....see those things as signs of what you will have to maintain for her. Get to know a woman before you bed her, and if you dont want kids....make sure your safe. Stop putting your livelihood on the line by being enchanted by shallow golddiggers.

Strong independent women that don’t need a man are wondering why a man never approaches. 🤔

I'm one of those dudes. At 30, I'm decided to spend the rest of it alone, and I can't see myself happier any other way. Feminism killed it, but hey, I guess now they have their equality. Equally unwanted, equally ignored, equally dehumanized.

It’s a shame that young women feel so entitled to “effort” from a man these days. You’re not as special as you think you are, sweetheart. Respect goes both ways.

The current LEGAL provisions of marriage give women endless financial incentives to divorce and collect child support and more. My son was less than a year old when my ex demanded a divorce. Do you know how much I paid for the next 17 years? All while have less access and control over my son's life each year. I committed no crimes... did not cheat... was providing a top 10% income. No fault divorce... my "family" was suddenly little more than a "liability" on my balance sheet.

I've been widowed for 9 years, and I had a 6 year old daughter at the time. Western women my age just wanted to travel, eat out every night, and offered me no support in raising my daughter. 5 years ago I started dating a widowed woman in the Philippines, I have a really big family now. 3 new daughters and a son who love and respect me...and a woman who thinks I'm a king and treats me like one. I'm a happy man with a non-western woman..

RULE #1 to my teen son is "if that girl has any social media with daily activity, questionable posts or selfie thirst trap posts of any kind RUN FAR AWAY!" fact is sensible women are the quiet ones that mind their own business, don't have social media and tbh don't text much and definitely don't know where their cellphone is most of the time

My wallet, my choice.

If this one doesn't work out, I'm 50 and done. Women are awesome, but, relationships are hard.

My son is 29 and can’t find a traditional wife. He has a good job and a lot of money saved. But to girls men are just an instant ATM. His brother just went through a divorce from a stay at home who did nothing but spend his money. He would come home from work and find her passed out from drinking. He would have to feed and take care of the kids, clean her up and put her to bed. Then she would cheat and tell him and laugh about it. What is wrong with women??????

My Body My Choice works both ways ladies.

There used to be a time when a man and a woman would build a life together they would start with nothing and build something a family, a life a future. Nowadays, a woman wants a plug-in play partner somebody who has a life or is on a trajectory and going somewhere and she just wants to plug-in.

The clip in the middle, at ~11 minutes, reminded me of a quote I read a long time ago about not crossing oceans for someone who wouldn't cross a puddle for you.

Married for 18 years, only 2 long term relationships in my life, started trying to date after 2nd ended and after 4 years, I gave up and made the decision to just focus my recources on giving my kids (adults) more options in life and staying single. The women today isn't what I would want as a business partner let alone a life partner. Just my choice, but I hear this from a lot of others.

Cooking does matter. Loyalty, integrity, personality, respect, are all important. Looks degrade over time... Your career, your independence, your money are great for you. Good luck men, glad I'm not dealing with this generation of issues.

Women used to get mad when a man asked them to make a sandwich, now women get mad when men won’t get back in the wallet and buy them a house, a car, a new wardrobe and a monthly vacation.

At 13:30, that chick is named Emily King. She's a sweetheart. She's happily married with a baby.

I am a woman and have been married for 22 years. I am a traditional wife. I do work part time but otherwise, I keep the house clean, cook dinner everyday care for and guide our almost grown children and I love and respect my husband. And, he lives and respects me right back. It’s simple.

saying there are still good women in the usa is like saying this bowl of M&Ms are delicious but there is one poisoned M&M that will unalive you.... you gonna take candy out that bowl?

The young lady that you wanted to give a crown to, I have a very simple explanation, she had great examples from her parents grandparents and a good healthy dose of common sense.

As the great Patrice O'Neil said, the perfect relationship setup is I like her, and she loves me. That is perfection.

Im in my 30s and honestly it feels like every lady wants a fwb thing or something of that nature. Almost as if nobody is emotionally available.

That story she told about her mother meeting her father… it would turn into “viral TikTok loser that tried to check me out at the bar”

Emily King has a great channel telling women what they don’t get about men.

My husband and I have been together for 17 years and we have NEVER had a fight about anything. Why? Complete and total respect for each other. I love and respect everything about him and vice versa. Men and women need to appreciate their differences. Our combined contributions make us a fantastic team. Stop trying to "change" men. They're fabulous just the way they are.

that woman's glasses are so out of pocket. besides that. the number of men in a relationship, in their 20s, is half that of women in their 20s... hmm... just maybe, women are chasing older men for their money

Men can cook if they want to, I know I’m cooking for myself I’m not going hungry, I have two capable hands. I can cook, wash dishes, wash my clothes and all the money I earn goes all to me!!!! If I feel the need for pleasures I can outsource 🤷‍♂️😂

No guys will make fun of a girl who makes an attempt, even if not interested

They tilt at windmills. They can't or won't come to terms with the fact that their strategy of trying to out man a man won't work. They don't want to accept the fact that the difference between getting ghosted and watching your man jump through all the hoops like best of breed is love, and not fear. Women will get no where by promising to be dead weight or obnoxious to be around. That's not how you bait a man, that's how you bait a cat, a whole house full of cats.

I can only speak from personal experience. I'm done with my ex. But she's still holding her hand out wanting me to contribute, while she metaphorically spits in my face at the same time. How can you treat people like s*** and think they will tolerate it forever and give what they have to offer? My poor step daughters are starting to hate me because their stability is collapsing. But i did everything i could and was totally taken for granted and taken advantage of.

That based woman, who seems to understand the realities of dating is a rarity these days. Women who think she's betraying the sisterhood will probably call her a pick-me, but she's just telling it as it is. I tend to find women like her come from family-orientated backgrounds, who had a strong male role model in her life, whether it be father, grandfather, uncle or brother's. So there's a respect and appreciation in her mindset and attitude. And that's the kind of women that men need to find for a long term relationship.

I hate approaching women. Especially since I don't go out really so it's just like grocery shopping but I've started challenging myself to compliment them if a non creepy chance comes about.

I don't approach because I don't want to be charged with grape.

Single forever isnt always sad. I quit dating to focus in myself, exercising, and focused on my hobbies and the peace and quiet of not having to worry about someone else. Then again im getting old lol😅

Met my wife when I was 18. She was raised in an upper middle class suburb. We both wanted to move to the rural northern portion of our state (Michigan). Best choice ever

1 word. Loyalty.

The only problem with the 19 year old females super basic wants is this. How many times have you met a girl with similar interests then a month into the relationship they pull a complete 180 behind closed doors? Next thing you know she makes accusations that you're doing all the things she's actually been doing. At that point a guy is lucky if he makes it out without having the cops called or worse.

I'm a wierd one too man. I've been with my wife since we were 15. We're 38 this year. She is Colombian and westernized but not modernized. She is very traditional, raised on her abuelita's principles. I am as well, raised by my grandfather. At 13:37, she is a real person. I watch her shorts all the time. She is very pro men. It's genuinely nice to hear.

I've been single for 20 years, now a Grandmother, my Dad was a Normandy Veteran, Mum 94,, so sad, he fought saw school friends kil7ed for us. Thank Goodness he can't see we are living in, you know what! Heard podcaster playing Vera Lynne, "We'll meet again" actually crued. This song still relevant today, imo. 👵🇬🇧😥

“ cooking matters……lil bit……u know’😂yeah it feels good coming back home and knowing there’s a dinner waiting for u……

I met my wife like the 2nd week of college, and we were both 18. We are both from the caribbean. I have never been a player, but I also don't tolerate bs. She wasn't perfect, but she is feminine. She tried to put me through a shit test early on, and I basically told her to try that again and I would dump her, if its next week or 20 years from now. I don't play games, I expect the same. Treat me how you want to be treated. Never had an issue since then and its been 24 years.

Thank you for this video! I'm married and have been with my husband for 32 yrs. I'm a college graduate who paid her own way through school and then worked in the corporate world until marriage. I did not date until after college by choice, because I was focused on achieving my educational and professional goals. I've always had male friends and I get along very well my brothers, cousins, uncles etc... I have one 21.5 yr old son and we are very close. I've been winning Miss Congenitally Awards my entire life, so I's say that I am easy to talk, approach and get along with. I have various interests and have been hit on by every race of man under the sun even as a married woman. I think many women today lack, values, self respect and the desire to work hard. They think sexy is the key, but it's not. Kindness, decency, an empathic nature and the ability to nurture are some great starting points. Don't rule guys out because they are not perfect, you aren't either. The 19 yr old woman was very fair minded and will probably get snapped up pretty quickly. People need to get back to being reasonable and they won't be alone, if it's not their choice. Thanks for sharing this video.

Value comes from rarity. When you've slept with everyone in town nobody wants to be the clown you settle down with.

my Brothers wife just out of the blue after 11 years with 2 kids dose not want him kicks him out he is left with northing his kids do not understand why there dad can not live with them the 7 year old broke down in his class 2 weeks after

I’m about to be 39 in October. I’ve been single for nearly 15 years and not looking for a relationship. I live in a small town on the east coast and I’d just rather be single because I know the only thing they have to offer me is easy to get… for free. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Mr Lboyd, we need more videos like this. Such an eye-opener. We love you and we love your perspective on these topics. Thank you sir.

Single IS the BEST for a man now, things have changed.

It just gets so tiresome ✅

They are talking about the movement MGTOW (Men going their own way). Relationships simply cost too much and are too risky in the US.

Why be in a relationship when just hit it and go.

Man: Respects the boundaries she puts down. Her: whoa whoa whoa!! He respected my boundaries!?!? How dare HE? 😲...What's going on here!?!?!

I love listening to your videos. I'm also an American woman living in Spain. I'm originally from Brooklyn NY. I'm a single mom with 3 children and my husband chose to walk away and go back to America.🤷🏽‍♂️

It's sad for normal people, (men and women) who would really love to meet someone, get to know them fall in love, spend time with each other while building your own careers, sharing your interests with each other and then building a family. In todays society men want one thing from a woman but women want it all and then some from a man. Love is never a factor or a prize in the dating game. This is why I have never spent time building friendships with anyone. I'm old fashioned by choice. It works and it's a blessing.

I just went thru a divorce ( not my choice. I wanted to save it ) and she got EVERYTHING. I only wanted one thing and that was the truck. That was the only thing I refused to agree with at first because she wanted me to buy it. In the end, the judge ordered I get the truck. She's high miles and wore out, but a loyal truck and gets me to work! She's my best gal now lol

I’ve had ex’s put our problems on social media in multiple relationships. So exhausting. I no longer have FaceBook, to avoid the rat race of wanting to feel relevant to as many people as possible instead of the ones truly in their life that matter. I left before the me too era and before mgtow was a coined term. Went from being with 20 girls in a few years to only 1 in the last 7. Dynamics are effed, it’s such a turn off.

I've maintained a peaceful, quiet life of abstinence for over 30 years. It's not sad. I do what I want, when I want and no one is bitching or complaining when I get home. FREEDOM!!

At 15:15, we became best friends when you said "I hate people" 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

If 1 in 4 parachutes opened, then nobody would jump!

I married a Filipina so far 5years already and maaaaaaaan these woman they will take care of you for life as long as you treat em right GodBless fellas, Advice get a passport Vet the woman your talking to and marry her you will find a genuine foreigner, I repeat you will.

I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and I cook everyday, clean the house, do laundry, even the yard work, my hubby goes to work everyday and I take care of the rest. Women today are fools and in 5-20 years their gonna be alone, childless, homeless, and miserable. Lmao

Give that woman a crown haha That understanding happens when you listen and acknowledge!

The only caveat with her wanting to have a guy that waits and takes its slow is if she hasn't held that standard before.

7:00 This woman really gets it. Especially pointing out that women have made men afraid of the consequence of trying to talk them.

I’m with hubris. Worst hurt was from an ex, why would I want to open myself again?

I’m not furious it is sad and discouraging to me. It is the media most women do not want the same thing in a man.

I wonder what was on the other 28 or so pages of that last girl's "list" of requirements. What was covered sounded perfectly reasonable but that was just the tip of the iceberg. An attractive young girl doesn't have a serious problem finding a boy friend without there being some kind of issue.

I am 8 years single and celibate and happy

I wouldn't say I don't want to date, I just don't really see a reason to.

Internet has done this. An engineered society being reengineered. Embrace it, or kick it to the curb. They have no problem kicking you.

This is exactly what happens when you stop putting them first.

It’s a two way issue. Which you pointed out nicely. Both parties are going after the wrong people because their basically attracted to appearances and only see what’s underneath the hood when the relationship is breaking down. I say this from experience and I know I’m not a 5 star motor either. So if I can find a good fix-er-upper, with a bit of rust here and there, like me.. But 6 or 8 cylinders.. WROOOM WROOM baby!

😂 you’re not your mom, you’re not your grandma, you’re not your great grandma bravo, bravo bravo! 👏🏼

waited until 45 to get married as I just could not put up with the BS in my 20s was building a career and did not want children, I'm 53 now going on 8 years of a happy marriage, but back in the day I did not put up with most females BS, by waiting I was able to buy a home (paid in cash) and my money strait, that alone tears couples apart. What keeps it real on the long haul is always set boundaries and explain you are more than willing to live without the other if those lines are crossed.

I don't want my girlfriend to look like anything, because i don't want or need one. I'm alright by myself. There is plenty of fish in the sea, i beached myself, not me,

they really need to reject you and you try again, it something with their ego

There's also a lot of single bears for them. 😂

Congrats at the commentators just don’t know that KZfaq shadow banned them. Hope you don’t make content commentators it sucks being shadowbanned

What do men want from a woman? Peace, loyalty, acknowledgement, gratitude, respect. Assistance, cooperation, agreeability. Some tradcons expect submission. But we all just do not want to be locked in a never ending power struggle with you. A lot of us have been burned, and burned more than once. We saw you smashed and dashed by Ten Chads by age 20. We saw you abused and heartbroken by thirty Chads by age 25. You take your anger out on good men who give you everything You say you wanted, but you are always just a “girls’ weekend” Away from finding another Chad. And we are done trying. But, hey, We can still be friends.

We have been saying exactly why we are no longer interested. You ask the same questions and get the same answers. You ignore them because they are not comfortable answers. We walked away from the toxicity. The only women I look at are the ones where we are doing our own things and seem to match up some.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

"Get this woman a crown......Siren...." LOL... MrLboyd reactions are the best

Just be a lesbian. What’s the problem? Let the dudes do what they want.

Couple years ago I’d of rolled my eyes to this, but it’s true. Of all stripes too. Poor not poor, ugly and very good looking. It’s wild.

Got accused of stalking a girl i met at a party. I accidently went to where she worked to get food had no idea she worked there. I saw her working there and asked if she wanted to talk about the previous night, and if so, i was going to be eating my food outside at the dining area. I proceeded to eat like I said the whole damn time i was there the employees kept coming out to see if i was still there and I didnt know why. So went home and the next day someone called me saying they were going to be building a case saying I maliciously stalked the girl. Luckily, the place had cameras and proved I was just there eating and left. Since then, I just keep to myself and dont bother trying to connect to a woman. Most of the girls in my town think their the hottest shit out there so i dont bother. Personality is a rarity in my town.

My girl and I was struggling with this. She did not realize the current agenda has shifts how she acts and reacts. Luckily she gets it now. One day I just popped off, not yelling, but with a serious tone and stern words. It was like a 15 minute spiel. I expected her to give up. But she still loves me and says she realized I outgrew her and still manage to keep composure. So she’s working on herself, finally. But man it was a struggle. Women are full convinced men aren’t worth it. I’m not saint by any means. I had baggage, demons, views that had to be challenged. Like… people are so unhinged these days and I was not excluded. People forgot how to be social then when we try it’s creepy bc we don’t know how. I’m happy my girl decided to hear me, and take it in, then start to understand things better. Bc we’re in a better place rebuilding our relationship.

13:48 she is absolutely real and has spent years advocating for men's rights, men's mental health, and trying to break the "all men are r@pists" stigma

Well the Mom should have just ACCEPTED the NO... women ...😂 but ended up with an ALCOHOLIC DADDY PERHAPS ... 😂😂😂

It Is reality, It's something that I had to accept. After my motorcycle accident, there is no way

The woman at about 13 minutes is Emily King. She does excellent content about the problems men deal with dating women. She’s great.

When you walk up and dont even get a chance to say a word because they already say “hehehe no you too short” more times than a “hey how you doing”. The ratio for me has been 1 hi out of 9 no too shorts. Im not great at math but i know 1 out of 10 is not a good ratio to be trying harder. Lol. Im a keep doing my thing solodolo.

That Asian girls glasses are why she is single. In case she is wondering.

Here’s my cycle: get the number, set a date, get into some what of a relationship, they act flakey, then they break it off with me. Then the cycle repeats. This why I threw out idea of marriage a few years ago. At some point we as men are gonna get tired of going through the motions.

I'm 52 and gave up on relationships 20 yrs ago bc woman are totally unrealistic and purile in thier approach to getting what they need I agree with that dude 100% we've told woman for yrs what we are looking for but they dont listen They just want to talk for the sake of talking instead of getting to the root of the issue I also agree with the 2 woman after him Why get involved with somebody when there's a very good chance the woman is going to pull some type of crap Yes it gets lonely being on your own but at least I know where I stand if you can dig it 😎🧐✌️🤘 DISCLAIMER: I KNOW THERE ARE GOOD WOMAN OUT THERE AND I'D BE OPEN TO THEM IF I WAS TO BE APPROACHED BUT I HAVE NEVER CHASED WOMAN AND NEVER WILL

I said the same after my ex 17 years ago. A month later i meet my woman for life and the ex said she was prago with my kid. Told my new girlfriend and she was fine with it. Shes been there when i was at my lowest. Broke as fuck, possible baby with my ex and living at my buddy's party house at the time. I Meet her at a bar and we spent every day together after for a month until she went on a vacation with her best friend for a week. I thought she was gone but she came right back. Iv never had a friend like her ever. She has a good job, a house and helped me grow my dream business that i have today. And we've had 2 fur babies so far. One woman i feel comfortable having a kid with and it just doesn't seem to work out. Been trying for 15 years and haven't had luck for some reason but hey we have dogs for kids. They are put there and always show up when you least expect it!

Women have been taught that only looks matter, and that men are basically walking ATMs. I’ve taught my son to never allow anyone to see or know how much money he has and if a woman is only interested in looks, run away.

If a woman is willing to get in bed within a week of getting to know her, she is not relationship or marriage material. If she is chasing you and not the other way around, while not a deal breaker, it is a huge red flag. Social media is the major deal breaker, especially if they have an OF or sharing provocative pictures of themselves to everyone.

I been with a Mexican 17 years we just got married ! Literally june 21st 😂😂😂

I complimented the lady at work and she called HR on me for harassment 😂

All these "independent" women who constantly tell every man they "don't need no man," now they all scream, "where's all the men?" Answer, I listened. I found an ideal friend, at the animal shelter. No more worries.

I'm 45 haven't tried dating in 6 yrs and don't plan to. Happiest I've ever been and got to focus on my kids more