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Another weird thing about women is they are 10x more attracted to married men or men in a relationship than single men.

My wife and I went to an out-of-state wedding, where she wore a beautiful sundress. The next year we were going to another affair and I asked if she was going to wear that sundress. She stated, 'I can't, someone will know I wore it already'!!! No man would know or care. Women dress for women.

I looked up the word "superficial" and saw this woman's picture.

0:16 Let me reiterate, " Don't try to understand women , Women understand women and They Hate each other." - Al Bundy

When you say “curvy” men think curves We don’t think spherical

I hate how when an overweight girl loses weight and suddenly starts getting male attention and is treated with more kindness than when she was overweight, she will think "ah ha! This proves pretty privilege! Men are shallow!" instead of thinking "I put effort into my diet, exercise, and self-improvement routines so I earned this positive attention through my own hard work and merit."

That woman just "told on her self" and didn't even realize it. She said that if her friends were not as attractive as her that they would try to sleep with her boyfriend, and then in the next breath said all her friends were more attractive than herself. So she's trying to sleep with her friends partners.

If all a woman brings to the table is looks then it’s just a matter of time before she brings nothing to the table besides bitterness because she lost her looks.

A study was done a few years back where they got student volunteers to pose as job seekers, they had made up CV's to make some of them appear highly qualified and some not very qualified. They also dressed and made them up to appear more attractive, or less attractive. The results were that women bosses would rarely hire another woman if she was more attractive then the woman boss, she would hire someone less attractive even if the person was less qualified.

I am reminded of a joke that I think Rita Rudner tells: If two women show up at a party wearing the same outfit, they will both leave immediately in horror. If two men show up at a party wearing the same outfit, they may become best friends for life. 😂

I dated a woman when I was an undergrad that told me how she couldn't relax in any social setting until she inspected every attractive woman in the room and convinced herself that she was hotter.

I'm done with all this craziness. I'll keep my dogs, money and sanity. I'm happy being alone.

Do they ever stop and truly look at how they behave towards men who aren't in the top 15%-20%. You wouldn't last 2 minutes as a man.

You can see them do it. When you're in a club and some girl walks in, the other girls all snap to look at her and judge them. They destroy each other in some mad quest to be on top of the heap. That's why reality shows are so popular. They're all about women tearing each other apart.

You can't fix her, you can't save her, move on with your life and go your own way.

"Dont develop your personality in opposition to reality" Felt like alot of people skipped over that part.

ALL women are driven by the aesthetic and ALL women seek to surpass those around them. That competition drives house, husband/partner, dress sense, job, friends, holidays/vacations EVERYTHING. That's where all their money goes... You can walk into a man's house and it will be the same for decades, walk into a woman's house and it's decorated at least twice a year with major changes as soon as the resources are available. A man gets rid of something when it doesn't work. A woman gets rid of something that's the wrong brand, manufacture, colour and many other criteria. A man gets the cheapest practical replacement unless he's loyal to brands, a woman demands the right criteria based on current expectations, forcing the replacement of everything else that now no longer matches...

7:30 about this girl who weighed 260 lbs It's not "pretty privilege", it's healthy privilege. Men in general aren't attracted to morbid obesity, it's always comes with severe health complications, and health complications obviously aren't good for childbearing (the reason why men are sexually attracted to women). Just yesterday read an article about women who lost weight due to Ozempic, and "suddenly" were finally able to get pregnant after years of unsuccessful attempts, and it was hilarious that MSM treated this like some surprising "revelation"

While it's true men do care about women's looks, men as a whole have such a vast array on the types of women we like. Some men like tall, some short, some thicker, some thinner, some prefer butts and some prefer breasts. Some girls that my friends have said are "perfect" I did not find attractive at all, and vice versa. There's such a range that unless a girl is actively working against it there's almost certain to be some guy out there who they match as his type. Women on the other hand seem to have far less range, generally speaking. It's always tall, chiseled face, sharp eyes, some degree of visible muscle, large downstairs, etc. While sure they might have some smaller preferences, the range of what's attractive physically is much narrower. Few to no women like chubby short men for example, where as some chubby short women online still have tons of men who adore them. What's unfortunate for men is that while we can do things to improve our attractiveness outside of our looks, the things women do find physically attractive are typically all unchangeable except for muscle.

Wow... That opener... "less attractive women try to sleep with your man"... "I'm the least attractive in my friend group" (paraphrasing) Zero self awareness.

This is why age is such a catastrophe for women, and why they fight it so much.

"You just need to be with equals." "All my girfriends are way hotter than me." So she doesn't have friends who are less attractive than her because they will sleep with her boyfriend, etc. But she will hang out with girls who are more attractive than her, which makes her the less attractive one who will, by her own admission, prey on her friend's boyfriends, will cause drama, will be jealous, etc. I'd compliment her honesty but I'm not sure she intended it.

The amount of Low self esteem in that clip is hilarious 😂

7:39 I lost 20lb as a man, and the way women have been treating me is a lot different. Is she really going to say men are shallow for treating you differently after losing a human being in weight?

By her own definition then she tries to throw shade at her hotter friends and sleep with their boyfriends FFS

The difference in how a woman is treated by other women after losing 100 pounds is much greater than the difference in how men treat her.

Narcissism comes in all shapes and forms

Women who have attractive character are so rare in the modern world.

and they say men are shallow.

No loyalty amongst thieves & 304s. How many times your gf's female friend have tired to sabotage the relationship and tried to sleep with the guy.

When we're talking about not even beauty standard but more like physique standards. An out of shape woman wouldn't date an out of shape man. Now that I am on that topic, I'm a guy that is actively exercising, I care about health someone that fat and doesn't want to change obviously doesn't live the same lifestyle as me. I think the bottom-line really is that people don't want to take accountability for their unhealthy lifestyle. Majority of the overweight and obese people, it's a diet/craving and no exercise issue. This is coming from someone that WAS overweight.

Comparison is the thief of joy.

I am the old 70 YO poster...I come back because MR. Grace has applied the best logic and reasoning to the topic of why are women so crazy....He is a gift...I wish I had this level of street smarts when I was 15 YO...god bless sir...

Men wanting non obese vs women wanting over 6ft tall....which is shallow...which is a physical attribute that is truly biology, not something that is self-imposed

I don't have friends. Problem solved.

From what I recall, there are records of women removing body hair all the way back to ancient Rome.

I have never ever worried about or thought about my friends attractiveness.

Thank you for this video. I didn't realise how blindsided I was to this problem.

My make-up routine : wash face with warm water, check moustache in mirror trim with scissors if necessary, also determine if I need to stand close to a razor today, or wait until tomorrow. Brush teeth.

Men keep score with money; women keep score with attention.

I have no idea. I only notice a friend, co-worker or classmate is handsome when I see various women jam themselves into our conversations, completely ignoring me. (Most) women choose their friends based on looks because hypergamy is a competition, and they are selecting their competitors. Friends who are too ugly won't give them the desired high if they win. Too pretty and they risk losing.

Being a male chadlite myself and living in an area which most guys are normies or subfives I can relate to the jealous thing. I stopped going out with my male "friends" because I could see the jealous and disconfort they get each time they start a conversation with a girl and she automatically shifts her attention to me. I will never forget one time a guy who I just met told me "I feel invisible" after a girl was chatting to him just to get to me. If you hang out a lot in places with sexual connotation, it's best to have friends with equal attractiveness.

There are things you can change about yourself to make yourself more appealing to others, and there are things you can't. You work on the things you can, and you live with the things you can't. You certainly don't expect the world to change to suit you.

Women want men that are tall. They would rather have a tall man with low income rather than a short man with high income. But they’re preference is a tall man with high income if they can get it.

Is it just me or is it that a lot of the women in shape at the gym/fitness chicks that are always single ? Am I just crazy?

This is absolutely spot on Sir.

This and many other scenes petrified me. I'm a woman and it turns out I don't know anything about them. Motivations, way of thinking, the need to be in a group and paying attention to the group's assessment. I learned a lot about women and a lot about myself. Today I look at my past differently and why I was never attracted to girl groups. Thanks to these films, I know more about the struggles of boys and, in general, I wish you good luck in meeting a person who will add value to your life.

Definitely have friends because we make eachother laugh. Women are superficial.

It never even occured to me that someone's looks would have anything to do with if they can be your friend or not. But I'm a man.

Then there's the other side of the SMV due to aging. Since so much societal power is based on youth and attraction, women in their late 30's into their 40's and beyond become disoriented as that societal power wanes. They seek validation outside of relationships and marriage, which erodes their social group. For decades "fragile male ego" and midlife crisis was the incessant drum beat attributed largely to men. Social media has shown women to suffer from "fragile female ego" and midlife crisis equal to or greater than that of men.

My favorite is when I've had two of my non-romantic female friends meet and immediately compete with each other. It's absurd.

For the one woman who was talking about previously being 260 lbs, part of the reason men don't talk as much to larger women is that those men don't want them to get the impression they are looking for a relationship with them and have to turn them down and appear rude. Most men anyway... It's not pretty privilege being close or around normal weight.

What do you mean we are shallow? Our "device" must be in the correct position when we go to bed; if it is not in this position, W will blame us. Therefore, appearance is important to us.

That Pretty Privilege lady made me think about the stuff Hoe Math has gone on about for himself, how he got himself from a 4 or 5 up to a 7 or 8 and he got tons of attention from women.

Bro, I'm right there with you - Our brain waves are operating on the same level

You know who else compares themselves to others constantly? - People with #NPD

So if her female friends are all more attractive then her then she is less attractive then them and by her logic they should all get rid of her in the group.

I definitely believe it, because it's something i've noticed since junior high. And it's something they never grow out of doing.

3:45 I did not expect that. Men work on their looks through exercise, nice!

For the woman who lost the weight, perhaps her confidence level and self esteem is higher now that she likes her body. A lot of people give off a vibe how they are feeling and those with a bad self image will appear desperate or bitter.

That woman accusing men of being shallow must be only going for Chad's

At least she admits it and gives you the opportunity to reject her for it. Most people deny it while behaving passively aggressive.

good for you honey, lets have this convo in 10 years and see how it went xD

Reminds me of a comment made by a college buddy of mine "Nothing is more unattractive than a pretty girl who knows she is pretty". Instant turn off. Matt, where ever you are, thanks for teaching that to me!

When men meet each other, they subconsciously think if they can beat the other dude in a fight.

been subbed for years to your channel, never really disagreed with a topic u've brought. Watching other channels and getting more deep into politics it all made sense to why the things are this way. I know your channel is not about it but its basically the consequences of late capitalism and these topics about looks and relations become a micro problem over the macro one, the system we live in. Also, the videos u make of these women are usually women from specific countries, which tells a lot about the system, either educational or political, they are in. Not all of them are like this ofc but they all are subjected to it sadly. I'd love to watch your channel bring other macro perspectives to these problems although im not sure ur fan base would like... Anyways have a good weeknd!

Punch up a simple generic "Narcissists Will Tell On Themselves" and see what you find. [Usually Within the First 5-Minutes] hahaha LOL

someone should explain to these women why fake it till you make it doesn't work man don't like fake and we really don't like liars every word of honesty and truth goes 10 million times the distance and worth everything that is your value level and buy all creation the value doubles with purity whatever your appearance

Women size up their competition through looks, as you say. Men size up the competition not through looks but through physical size and strength. We behave in exactly the same way as women, but by measurement of a different characteristic.

I was genuinely concerned you were actually asking what percentage of the people in my life are my friends because their hot. 🤣🤣🤣

I’m glad he summed it by saying WTH kind of question is that in regard to how I choose my friends. As a guy, I’ve never considered what my buddies look like. 🤣

Just imagine when Eve confessed to Adam that there was no serpent in Eden, but only herself. The trouble about losing that much weight though, is that your skin remembers it. You might still have trouble going to the beach...

Yep, I don`t really think about such shallow garbage. Wow!

It’s super weird how they do that. How hot their friends are is like a big part of their own worth

this is why I insist women care about men's looks more than men care about women's looks.

But why they are all 10s 😂

"...The correct answer to this questions is: WHAT A *UCK!?!?!? What kind of wierd question is that?..." :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) It's was so funny to me - because it's truth!

As a man, the only metrics in which I compare myself to other men is strength, athleticism, bravery, technical knowledge/skills and overall success in life.

“mEn aRe vIsUaL cReAtUrEs!” - women

Seen her before,she is incredibly conceited

Preference on weight isn't a superficial preference, as height is or skin colour for example, it's something that can be rather easily changed, so it says something about the character and lifestyle in most cases.

7:30 Humble brag harder, toots. 😂

0:25 that “mhm” had so much weight to it 😂💀

I remember seeing a fella at the bar wearing the same top as me on a night out. I went over to him and pointed it out.. We became good friends that night ha!!

Its true. It turns out one of my friends Ive had from primary school days. 30 plus years now is incredibly attractive to women. When a woman once told me how hot my friend was. It occured to me that in all these years Id never even considered or even recognised he was "hot".

To your opening question, I was thinking the same - "no f'ing idea". Who thinks about how attractive their friends are?

I’ll admit, when I was younger I would get a little worried when I had an attractive friend talking to closely with one of my girls. But certainly not on the same level they do.. but I was also a teenager. Im always told I’m handsome myself so no insecurity there.. I just had some good looking friends as well lol. So I’m like hey., you better not be trying what I think your trying. It never happened, but I would by lying if i said it never crossed my mind. However. I don’t have a list or ranking of my friends, I certainly don’t think that way. I was just reacting to what I was seeing.

This channel is cathartic after ending a 7 year relationship.

The original clip... I think is generally true... Look at groups of girls, they're usually with similar types of looks... e.g. in my college I noticed the curvier girls were all in a friend group together.

Gonna have to give some advice here, bro. You need to revamp your lighting system. The light is coming in from above and, at times, can make you look mega ominous and spooky. Might scare some bros away.

The typical tactic for them is to tear others down to their level. Once you realise this it all starts to make sense.

"In comparison is no love."

We should all start judging book by its cover

To be fair, I think the first woman is half right, and at least she honestly explains what she thinks. I see that many women (not all, of course...) behave as she explains. Second part, value of beauty and such... I will remain out of that. It is evident that better looking women get an advantage in many situations, so it makes a lot of sense for people who go with the flow to pay attention to that, as most people do. I find some of the videos to be quite "rational", just a couple that show some obvious "about to cry out of rage / obviously the problem is not what you think" kind of behaviour... Thank you Alexander for the hard work

Men are aware of their associates level of success and drive. The well-understood rule is that if you hang around with successful friends, it tends to foster a better focus on success, and the methods used to achieve it.

Good advice, thanks! ❤

Before you said it, it was my actual reaction 😂😂😂 00:48

Watching women on social media is "projection" magnified.

That's actually very true for most women