You say respectful and kind, I say doormat

​@@romano968Go ahead.

@@romano968 Seems like you're pretty alone in that thought VS the nearly 4k people that liked/agreed with my comment. So ... idk. Maybe you need to sort your thoughts out and figure out why you think of a kind gesture as some one being a doormat. Js

@@romano968 We didn’t ask

@@jamifitz he isn’t used to kindness and being kind.

First one was more muted grayish color but final result was really warmer

​@@hal_jordan2814 I don't see it

@@TheSailorDogMom it's about how i word it sorry. At first one there was no dimension and anything and it was so bland and muted looking. But 2nd one has some depth and it adds some kinda warmth i think. But i paid too much attention so i can get that it's not visible. I also dye my hair myself and no one gets it even if i don't think it's good

So did I… I couldn’t tell the difference either.

First one was an bad mousey brown. Not flattering at all. 2nd time she had a bit more highlights to it. But yes nothing drastic just more dimension

Right

You look beautiful hunny. Rock that

I know right? I feel for that stylist. She oozes an unstable vibe

Likely a lighter shadow root to help hide the hairloss which is what she appears to leave the salon happy with.

IKR😮

I agree the first stylist was ok but If she didn’t feel comfortable giving the what the customer what she wanted she should’ve been upfront abt it.

​@its_me_luv6941 she did what the customer wanted, she just misunderstood that the client didn't actually want a protective style. How tf is she supposed to know based of the information the client gave? Read her mind?

@@e-qvlant Ur contradicting urself in that comment. How can she give what the client wanted when she misunderstood that the client didn’t want a protective style? She clearly didn’t give the client what she wanted. How do u know what exact information was given at the time? This is an overview of the story so clearly it leaves a lot of information out. When someone is recovering from a disease like this the stylist would have had a consultation. As a stylist it’s up to u to get all the information you need. If the stylist could not give the client what she wanted she should have said so. If as u said she did know and just decided not to in order to protect the clients hair she’s still in the wrong. U need to be upfront if ur not comfortable w doing something. This is what you’d call a misunderstanding it’s not the stylists or the clients fault entirely but the stylist is still at fault bc it’s not what the client wanted. And the client is at fault for not explaining it in a way the stylist would understand.

@its_me_luv6941 The customer explained that she was having issues with hair loss and wanted a protective style. Therefore the hair stylist gave her a protective style. The customer actually wanted highlights, which inherently are not protective which is why the 1st hair stylist didn't give her highlights. Therefore the hairstylist gave the customer what the customer wanted (as in what she originally requested), and the customer hadn't actually requested what she really wanted because she asked for a protective style while wanting bleach. Those two things don't go together. Therefore the hair stylist gave the customer what she expressed she wanted, because the hair stylist can't read her mind and telepathically understand that the customer is contradicting herself. The hairstylist didn't decline the request because based on the information she was given, the request itself, that the customer wanted protective and gave a sample photo, she provided those exact requests in her style. It's not her fault that her customer doesn't understand her own request. It's literally like going into a McDonald's and asking for a CHEESEburger with NO CHEESE, or a hamburger ADD cheese. Or going to a nail salon and asking for a square nail, but round oval. You can't explain wanting a protective style, ask for a protective style, and then get pissy when your hair stylist gives you a protective hairstyle that looks like your sample photo, but protective. As for where I got the "details", use context clues hun. This is an overview of the story, but there's information throughout the story that points to the misunderstanding being from the customer incorrectly requesting a protective style when that's not actually what she wanted. If you'd like to claim that I can't make an educated opinion based on said context clues, you can't either (because that's also what you're doing in your argument). It's the pot calling the kettle black 😉.

@@e-qvlant At no point in that video did the client ever say she wanted a protective style. She said she was ‘very specific abt how she wanted her colour’ done. Which means it wasn’t protective and I think ur using the phrase protective style wrong. It’s abt causing as little damage as possible which is the same for every single client u get in ur chair. I’m a stylist myself if someone is booked in for foils or a colour it’s not abt a protective style. It’s abt trying to damage the hair as little as possible while still getting the end results the client wants. That’s where the first stylist failed and the second was successful. If u can’t do what ur client wants u need to tell them. Bc the stylist didn’t say that I’m going to assume there was a miscommunication. But please, tell me exactly where the client said she wanted a protective style.. I’ll wait.

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Agreed, sadly even with photos sometimes they still go rogue XD I always brought photos and one stylist literally razored off my hair when I said I wanted to keep the exact length that I already had more than once. To be more specific I was basically getting most of my hair cut short EXCEPT for my bangs. I hate my eyes and always keep my bangs long to cover them. I've even had that stylist quite a few times previously as well. Unfortunately, she started with the bangs and as I said she just razored them off and I freaking cried.

Ok but first all how would you know if the stylist didn't want her face shown you are not her and you should get what you paid for its not always the client fault that the stylist just can't communicate and comprehend and another thing we do anything for a little cash but you don't know her at all you saying all the bull crap but you don't know anything about her you see what you want because this is the internet don't judge a book by its cover until you've seen it personally we never know what people are going through but we don't have to leave nasty comments also do we

Let's not forget the whole "flying back to Florida for hair extensions EVERY SIX WEEKS" part. Yikes.

I think it's the part about having to explain the actual problem each time. And of course when things like this video happens it can be even harder to trust a stranger will get it right the next time.

@@SharonRepici Understood.

​@@SharonRepici She did it once, though. And I think that stylist was a stranger this time around too. I think she's just having a hard time changing.

Looks great

Ya, I agree. She is paying, so she should not have to ask to do it again unless she wasn't listening

idek

The first outcome was very cool and ashy, it didn't compliment the existing highlights and from the looks of it the roots didn't quite coincide. The second outcome was more golden, bright, and the highlights were pulled through more fetchingly.

Agree to take on this bratty influencer as a client, that's what she did wrong

​@@romano968 It's not bratty to want to get what you paid for and asked for.

@@romano968 oh wow she's such a bad person for not getting what she paid for

Colors appear different on camera, probably there was a bigger difference than we can see

It's called "I'm a crybaby princess"

Respectfully, the color is VERY different at the end compared to the beginning in terms of color and highlights/low lights. It's not one solid tone. The first color is lighter and washed her out more.

​@@lovinavargas-carriedo2698 yea, I'm surprised at all the comments saying there is no difference. But alas, I can pass all the red, blue and etc tests where the hue and color is only slightly different... I have good depth perception, so I wonder if it might be that. To me there is a huge difference. But I do think she should have blurred the first girls face.

@@hippiewtch9885 it’s called paying for a service that you expect a certain outcome from

You literally have no idea what the stylist did and how dare you tell someone they are over reacting. Have several seats.

@@kwonsmommy she is over reacting

@@kwonsmommy at the end of the day she still got what she wanted at that establishment and they tried to make her feel comfortable as possible. Other places would just take your money and send you home. Hair is temporary.

@@kwonsmommywe literally know she filmed it and put the stylist out there.

@@kwonsmommy because she is? I don’t even see a damn difference

I don’t think she was shaming her, just showing a day in her process through treatment if u will. She literally said it was a communication error on her end and wasn’t upset ab it

The stylist most likely had to give permission for her to record it in the first place

Right . So ridiculous .. I can’t stand these people posting everything

​@@hiddenkitty675yeah but she probably didn't know she was gonna put her on blast. Could have at least blurred her face lol

Who th films a haircut?? 🙄

Preach it I 100% agree

The first outcome was very cool and ashy, it didn't compliment the existing highlights and from the looks of it the roots didn't quite coincide. The second outcome was more golden, bright, and the highlights were pulled through more fetchingly. Neither was better or worse imo but they are very different results in my eyes and clearly the client (who is paying for this service) wanted something closer to the second outcome.

​@@riohoney6 I seriously just think her hair was just wet in the first shot that's why it looks darker/more cool. I've played it back several times and truly can't see that big of a difference at all

@@booknerdjebbi5037 well I played it back three times and the difference is clear to me. Try to check your preconceptions before looking again

​@riohoney5076 Everyone sees color differently (that's a fact), so check your fkn attitude.

@@booknerdjebbi5037hi, I’m a stylist and the first stylist did a color that was quite a few shades lighter than the second outcome.

it’s just darker

Looks the same.....😢

I see it. The undertone is definitely different

I never flew back once for my hair. Just considered it before we left Florida.

@@FamilyofNomads u literally said that u did?

@@gabriellelouise999 no she hasn’t done it yet but once she moves she doesn’t want to have to fly back and get them done every 6 weeks. That’s what she meant

@@gabriellelouise999 She actually said, and I quote, "After going back and forth *about* flying back to Florida every 6 weeks to have them redone…" 😊

I am a hairstylist and I have several clients from other states that plan trips back just when they're getting their hair done. It's like any other service, once you find someone that works for you, it's hard to replace them.

Because she wanted to! If you don’t like it, then get off of social media and watch some tv.

Literally she was dtm

Babe there is no “we”. If you don’t wanna record everything, no one’s forcing you to.

I agreeeeee!

@@kaylanetanyanope. You put stupid shot on the internet, we are allowed to comment on it, negative or not.

“Only a few shades lighter” wouldn’t compromise the shaft enough to make it break and this was catty and unnecessary.

Her hair falling out after this Karen style video would be the karma we are rooting for!!

Wait till you have to pay for your own things kid

@@hereforthebuffoonery yeah I’m no kid and I pay for my own things and would never complain and show someone’s face like that. Completely unnecessary to try to hurt her career like that especially when there’s a huge chance the miscommunication wasn’t the stylists fault.

Yeahhhh this whole video have toxic Karen vibes.

Thank you!! Take it from me (and I’m older) this is Karen behavior.

Thank you so so much for everything you’ve said! How incredibly sweet are you!

@@FamilyofNomads thanks and yeah ofc!! ❤️🥰

​@Family of Nomads hi! I also have connective tissue disorder and I think it's really cool that you're open about it!

@@FamilyofNomads did you have to pay more for the mistake just asking

​@@FamilyofNomads I just saw you guys on the news!

The stylist should learn from her mistakes. The color was awful and not what she asked for. Stop coddling people that don’t need it, she’s an adult

Stop being a snowflake

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Woah, that's terrible to talk this way

@@hereforthebuffoonerylearn from her mistakes by public shaming her? What’s next - town square stoning?

This!

same, people are really bad at communicating what they want and are pretty delusional about whats possible. I didn't finish my license because the industry is toxic as hell too, both spiritually and chemically

So much yes

This exactly I’m still scared to say anything to stylist If I don’t like it cuz when I was a teen a lady cut my hair 4 inches to shorter then I wanted cuz she was distracted talking to a co worker and when I started crying she started yelling at me told me it was my fault

Agree. After watching my mom lose all her hair during chemo and my own really thinning hair over a surgery that caused nutritional deficits you are right. It is only hair. I’d give anything for thick lustrous hair again. Ain’t ever gonna happen.

As a stylist i agree that does get to us sometimes we are human. Just by the video I can tell the type of client she is.

The second stylist literally added TWO foils in her hair and most likely toned it slightly differently Lmfao and curled it. If someone’s unhappy with their hair and let’s me know that’s all well and good and I do appreciate it but if someone jerks away while im literally trying to dry them to pick at their hair I really do lose patience 😭 but I also tell my clients they aren’t allowed to cry 😂 just use your words, we are all grown and I’m more than happy to fix your hair but no meltdowns allowed

Its lighter and a more brown color in the end. It was grayish the first time

Thank you so much!

@@FamilyofNomads you’re very welcome:)

Thank you so much

@@FamilyofNomads

I agree with not doing the extensions however if she has a connective tissue disease, multiple washings is what she should be avoiding as most connective tissue problems usually involving compromised collegen and most medications promote hair loss. The usually tell us to wash our hair less

its silly

As a stylist, please take my advice! We NEED to know that you're not happy! Communication is key! Please let your stylist know.

I was to until I found a really good stylist that my mom is now friends with and now she only does vips and I’m one of them

Please, please tell your stylist that you’re not happy with your hair color most of the time if you tell them it’s something that’s easily fixable. But if you have already communicated to her the issues and it hasn’t changed, then don’t waste your money honey and tell her that you think she’s awesome but you need to find someone who you better communicate with.

It was grayish at first. Its more of a brown and highlighted at the end

Awe thank you!

She didn't downgrade she just posted her face on the internet for 1 million plus. I am sure the stylist is happy about it

@@blackpuppy5645but honestly she was very respectful and said “I’m sure it was a miscommunication issue”

Totally agree 👍

Putting the first stylist on KZfaq was negative enough. Did she ask permission?

​@@akj1818 I'd admit I didn't even think of it from the first stylist perspective. Hopefully she has permission.

Have you ever mentioned this to your hair stylist? If not, you def should. Have they never shown you exactly how to use the products that they are using on your hair before? If not, that’s a bummer imo. Because they could be selling you some great products hopefully for you to use at home. And giving you some tips or instructions on how to use them yourself. I went to hair school and have a cosmetology license. I don’t work in a salon anymore. But it’s very rare for someone to be able to do their own hair in the same exact way a stylist can. Simply due to the angle someone else can work at as opposed to you doing it yourself. But I would def say something next time you get your hair done. A great hair stylist will have no problem helping you achieve a similar look at home with the right tools, technique and products.

Thank youuu

Thank you so much!

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So she can exploit you? I dont think you want that

Whilst I agree with you, if the girl getting her hair done was a decent, compassionate person, the stylist wouldn’t have needed to say anything in the first place. A decent, compassionate person wouldn’t have uploaded this video at all.

because some people are emotional about things that are important to them. It's clear you don't understand how stress and new medications can affect emotions and hormone balances.

@@FigmentPigmentCrosserTosser well she made the other stylist waste her time when it practically looked the exact same and most probably made the first one feel bad

@@CAssandra-ox2qg The other stylist OFFERED to help, she didn't force her too. Also, if she didn't like what the first stylist did then maybe the first one should have listened better.

😊 thank you

Oh thank you!