I don’t have a son but woo yes

And yet she doesn't think she is the problem

I have a son , no,not a chance

I think it proves they are a good match...no different than the other 🤣

You forgot she’s terribly unattractive.

in some cultures, it's customary to spend more on the wedding than on anything else, for the parents' prestige especially. but I'm not sure if that's a factor here.

I agree

The wedding gifts $$$.

inflation standards, make more you spend more. the rich get rich by spending like they are poor and working their butts off.

Yes if you give someone money who doesn't know how to manage money it's gone 😅

Which she was informed about by Gail

She lacks accountability!! and maybe work ethic too. she chose to leave work early. that was a choice. just like every penny she is in debt were her choice.

@@AnnaBella510 Hmmm...soon I will be having a baby. I'll stop working now.

And she is still spending money and paying with checks when it is supposed to be living on cash.

They ALWAYS shit on the man and give the woman a total pass.

It's stupid click bait. I never pay attention to it.

@@JimiSparx-yw3gbyou haven’t watched many episodes of you think that.

Especially since they said at the start of the show they would be having a 2nd ceremony the following year? or in 2 years? Anyway, they're suppose to have a 2nd big wedding later. Did I not hear that right?

Love that idea my husband and I never had a wedding ceremony or party

Exactly! Or save t he party for the child's christening, anyway. Weddings are almost a sham today anyway. Nobody is beginning g a new life together, they usually already live together. Nobody intends to keep those "for better or for worse" vows; when things get tough they're off to divorce court. As for white dresses, I'm rolling on the floor laughing.

​@@christinebutler7630 they are not in a position to spend money on a christening event either. 🙄

I don’t think shaming them is the answer, but I do agree it’s irresponsible

They are both so immature it is SHOCKING.🤯

@@davisholman8149 And procreating at that 🤦🏻‍♀️

@@davisholman8149 OK, but at least Daddy stepped up to the plate. Mom is still acting like a teenager, not like someone who is about to be a mother. If she doesn't fix that, I see a second generation dealing with money problems.

There's contempt because she wants daddy to treat her like a little girl and he can't.

She seems really nasty

Sounds like a plan I still have my prom dress and I'm planning on using it as my wedding dress I'm totally in love with it even after 10+ after my prom

Good on you, girl! I paid $125 for my dress I loved. I’m short, so used the fabric from the bottom to make a veil. $9.00. I owned a catering business (I know - cheating). Our wedding, sit down dinner for 100 with a band came to $2000. It was perfect.

That’s what I was thinking! They could have a little wedding now and then when the debt is paid off they could have an anniversary/housewarming party in 5-10 years!

Happy Anniversary!

And this bride is already knocked up. I'd say she can skip the white dress. Nobody is seeing new stars in the east here

Not married yet.

I had 2 weddings and still didn't spend more than £1500 on both, locations, fees, outfits, food all in that price!

$50k in debt, baby on the way, living rent-free...hmmm...yes, two weddings and a $6k dress please! Good grief!

You are more than right. We spent less than 2000 Euros on our wedding in June this year. That includes the tuxedo, wedding dress, outfits for our 2 children, the wedding licence and a party with 40 guests. We chose an affordable buffet restaurant to feed the guests then went to a friend's waterside house for a party with drinks, cake and pizza.

if you can afford it than nothing wrong with it.

Elizabeth Verrill Dudes got $12K in credit card debt at high interest rates, paying minimum payments so he’s not the sharpest tool in the shed either. But at least he understands how he got there and is willing to make changes. She’s just pathetic though.

@@scottgoodson5132 I’m 75, only income is Social Security, live alone and I’m debt free with 6 to 8 months fall back money. Even my funeral is paid, right down to opening the grave! No, there isn’t a lot of “fun money” but I’m living comfortably. I can’t imagine being in this kind of unnecessary debt.

I feel bad for their baby. An irresponsible, immature mother is a recipe for a bad childhood. Hopefully, Gord keeps them financially afloat, but there's not much longevity in such one-sided relationships. 💔

She appears to be a narcissist, and she literally cannot accept blame. Also, she often demeans and debases her husband, never acknowledging him as anything other than a "less than". Even with the comment from the owner of the restaurant telling him they were the best potatoes, she didn't smile at him or acknowledge the comment in any way, other than to look away and comment, "I wasn't there". She overrode all of his instructions in the kitchen while he was supposed to be the lead chef and just did her own thing throughout the whole show. I would not be able to bear seeing her in "real life". I feel so bad for the husband. He is an optimist, so he tried to put an upbeat spin on all of her negative actions. My best advice to the husband is.....run! Find someone who will work with you to make a good and positive life!

Girl, I've seen these episodes twice or more as well!!!lol I love & learn from them. Least Favorite females, do you remember the one woman who was married to a mail guy who wanted the Mercedes Benz? She didn't want to do the apartment challenge. Or the old lady who had her granddaughter living with her? That old lady was horrible, I believe at the end they got a NEW credit card & couldn't wait for the show to be over, so they could go use the CC!!!!SMH Gail just wasted her time, them people learned absolutely nothing, they were just mad they didn't get $5,000. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ One the good note, i learned & it was entertaining 🍿🍿🍿✅

Totally agree! I am always shocked when parents spoil their children and give them no responsibility or prep for the real world and then suddenly think they will change! They should have at least charged her rent and saved that money for her future debt or something after they paid her debt once!

😂🤣😝

Lol!

@@_____________888 Not surprised at all.

There's no point in buying expensive kids clothes. They'll just out grow it or get it covered in mud anyway. The expensive stuff is for the parents

Yup, we basically had the same wedding... we held (and paid for) different dinners for different groups, like friends, family here, family there... 4 or 5 meals in total, and had a fun and relaxed time where we could fully engage with everyone. Zero regrets.

I hope she's an only child, because otherwise her siblings will resent her to the end of the world.

I agree. There’s no risk of homelessness. You shape up real quick when you think you might have to start sleeping in your car.

Gail did say he was a doofus, but also said that he was the brighter of the two!

Gord seems like a nice guy and very encouraging. When she said “I don’t know where we went wrong” my heart sank for him. This wasn’t a WE issue, this was all her issue. This is the first couple that continued to overdraft and that was all her doing for an expensive wedding that her parents are paying some big bucks for when she already owes them money. So sad for the situation and hope she wised up.

Exactly, I saw that too!

Plus the child(ren)

Plus Gord and the children too. They will allll be living rent free with the parents.

wife is the same

its not outrages if you can afford it though.

You are sooo right. I had a beautiful wedding within budget but years later wished we had used that money for a down payment on property. The wedding was absolutely beautiful and the party so much fun but in the end not worth it. 😢

I lived comfortably middle class all my life, but I had great financial role models and I had all the same opportunities given to me, even during the same time period as this girl. We’re probably the same age. The difference is, I moved home after college with $30,000 of student loans. I didn’t open a single credit card. I was a teacher, my parents let me live with them so I could pay off my loans. That’s exactly what I did. I paid cash for everything, paid down off my loans, saved to pay for my portion of the wedding expenses, then moved into a modest home once I was married. We still live in that home with our children near great schools and huge McMansions, so our home value has skyrocketed. And our mortgage is still the same low payment every month. It will be paid off in a couple years. If someone is willing to give you help or even if you just get lucky in life, it pays to be financially conservative as a way to say thank you and secure your future.

Haha, i think he pluralized "brawn" as brawns....like brains is plural....at least how i heard it

Ditto. Loved it then, love it now, five years later!

Same!

I don't see why the title is so rude, but I think it's a reference to how he sees himself in the relationship?

Do you remember Dan Fielding on Night Court? I loved the episode where his parents visited, and he talked about his childhood - his little toy drum with the man with long hair and a fancy suit on the side (round Quaker Oats box) and his pet turtle that never actually moved (it was a spud). I still have my one and only teddy bear, and after 70 years I find it strangely comforting on occasions. Also had only one doll, not a room full. Amazing what you don't miss until other people tell you that you ought to.

Nope babies aren’t cheap wait until they get older

@@queen.kristal8395 Yes, I agree as the child gets older costs increase. However too many raise their kids as pampered, spoiled brats setting the kids up for a lifetime of dysfunctionality because real life isn't having everything you want, having people waiting on you hand and foot, etc.

Not sure what country you live in but your advice sucks and is outdated. You do need a travel system , you do need a safe carrier for baby, you do need a crib or something meant for babies. Baby stuff can be cheap by shopping second hand. With our first we did new with our next three kids we did second hand. And that includes stroller car seat etc.

@@candi0826 “your advice sucks”😂

Gord is 34, has never lived on his own and is ok with moving in and living off of Angela’s parents with a baby on the way and planning to marry a full grown, spoiled, entitled, irresponsible child who disrespects him constantly. Yeah he is a doofus!

Why should her parents pay anything for her helping them they've already bailed her out of so much money as it is

No the parents should not pay her, she is getting a nice home for free, common sense would dictate that she helps out her parents by doing chores for them for free!

When I said pay a little, I meant for her to work around the house and the money they give her she could use to pay down her debt. I'm sure her parents would rather her work around the house instead of just giving her money for doing nothing. This is a situation where her parents may want to help, and there's nothing wrong with that. But she needs to help out and try to "earn her keep" even if she is pregnant. I was pregnant with my youngest AND had a toddler to chase after, and I kept up the laundry and dishes. My point was that her family would rather she stay home and help while on mat leave instead of staying with the status quo of sitting on her butt and doing nothin while parents take care of her.