There is a larger dynamic to be observered, there are abusers that abuse women in order to make them act recklessly when they find a good man, if they have unhealed traumas they ruin a good relationship potential with a decent guy. Hurt people hurt people.

You people are lost and drown deeper and deeper. P.s. What about badboys that provide NADA, nothing and parasite upon a woman, yet got choosen and being toxic woman still refuse tonleave or even return after breakup. Nope... HUMANITY IS TRAUMATIZED AND SICK, you mix LUST and TRAUMA RELIVING challange to overcome with love. You don't know what love is and poser as psychiatrist and an adult.

@@wileyann9449 You just chose the wrong guy. Stop going for asshole Alpha males and go for a quiet geek instead.

Then why did my single mom tell me to be prince charming, kind and sweet wtf?

Then why do some women date losers? If his instrumental value is emotional, then isn't that her liking him for who he is?

Which is why men are pussies for begging for chances with women. Plain and simple

funny how looking for mating opportunies in a very self-interested way is branded as innocent love in the manosphere, while reality is both men and women are driven by evolutionary instincts

If that was actually the case then no man would bother sticking around to support a wife & children. The whole idea behind romanticism is about reducing the number of mating opportunities that a man's evolutionary instinct inclines him to take.

This is actually the truth women accomplish more then men. So while men are still trying nd working hard to obtain sex the woman has already had lots of sex since middle or high school nd know she can fuck almost anyone she wants so she starts looking for more. While the man is still trying to get past level 1 the woman is already on level 3.

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I'm sorry, I wish the world wasn't so cruel.

Yup. Willing to bet most men have at least one of those stories!

******* And that "love" only lasts a while.

Preach, brother. I fully get you what you're saying.

I can so relate. I met my wife when I was a minister, and she saw me preaching in front of the congregation. Even though I was broke, because I had status in that community, she was interested in me. And when I left the ministry, things started to go downhill after that.

100%%

Very happy to hear from a woman who gets it.

Watching the last samurai and picked up on that? Impressive!

If you have not attracted every man you ever wanted before, now you certainly will 😌 But you will probably hurt him right after and he will end up here anyway 😆

Agree

You're supposed to use this knowledge to be absolutely ruthless not 'hopeless' lol

@@neoreign oh I guess I missed the memo. But seriously fukkkk being ruthless.

@@neoreign ...To what end?

​@@neoreignyup, ruthlessness is the name of the game

it is such a shame I have learnt all this stuff after my divorce (where I lost my money, house and kid). the problem is, I would have never believed this video before my divorce, because I thought women were special, and amazing, and heaven-sent.

Agreed. I learned the hard way and wasted so much time and money seeking something that just was not there. Learning this hurt me, but that is just reality.

Better late than never. You still have the rest of your life.

​@marriagecausesdivorce7540 I felt the same way about my ex wife. She was amazingly loyal. Right up until she wasn't and it broke my world.

Ancient saying, "when is the best time to plant an oak tree ? 100 years ago. When is the second best time to plant an oak tree ? TODAY.

Feel ya. Beingn young man is tough in the sexual marketplace. Those women your age, are being sought after by male aged 18-50 years old. 😅😅

I understand you bros. Stay strong and wise💪🧐

Wich degree did you get? Thinking about going back to school but I feel a bit old for it

@@marcoluiz9694 you will get older nevertheless. It's better to get older with a degree than to get older without one. If you think it will enhance your life and open a passage to experience a bigger slice of life than don't let anything stop you brother.

Very inspiring to hear that you got the job done and eventually got your degree. Kuddos to you sir.

True. You end up getting way more attached and interested to your own money and success than on women. The reward and satisfaction given by your own success is way superior in quality to what you can get from women. Sorry to say this ugly truth, but once you are a successful guy you look at them almost like they're opportunistic parasites.

Computer science degree?

Also, "Women are born, men are made."

Yeah. I always knew this but it was hard to hear

I stopped in February 2018 :) I realized women are always "what have you done for me LATELY" NOT even what you've done in the past but you're always on a trial basis. Meanwhile women can get fat and men won't throw them out of the house lol

@@TheOutlierToday so you've always known this and yet continued to ignore reality?

@@Ed-xv4sy where did I say that I ignore reality? I'm just saying it's still hard for me to hear.

First you believe in Santa, next you don’t believe in Santa and finally you are Santa.

Muney ❤

Women are just there for what they can get - nothing else.

But statistics show that when a woman gets ill the man is more likely to leave.

for most men, it will be too hard to unlearn all the hollywood brainwashing. so many will continue to get married without pre-nups.

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540 pre nups get thrown out.

@@Khan-rz8qi RIP beta male provider husbands. Your wife really wants Chad and Tyrone but could never lock them down despite her "best efforts" (swallow, etc).

@@user-us4qc5zt3n Chad and Tyrone are on the right path. Get the physical intimacy upfront, and then a few months later get out of the relationship. There's no need staying in the relationship and letting her continually extracting value from you. Marriage is a complete disaster for men from a value extraction point of view.

It is incredibly liberating because many men think that in order to be fulfilled complete human being they need to find a soulmate. Once you realize the painful harsh reality that women love opportunistically, you no longer have to orient your entire life around slaving away for one again.

dum dum lol

I’m a very attractive guy and even though I’ve always been red-pilled my whole life because of my father, I truly woke up when I started sleeping with a series of women who were married to wealthy men. They would only be with those guys because they can afford to give them a good life, but deep down I’m the type of guy they truly crave because I look good and got good charm. Based in my experiences, you will never truly understand pure and raw attraction from women if you aren’t a naturally attractive men. That’s just the way life goes.💯

@@Khan-rz8qi Well i used to be poor so i know how these girls think. They have to appreciate you first to appreciate the things u give them. Agreed with the raw attraction thing. It needs to be tested before they know u have money.

It is right. Lead with your wallet & you'll have an abundance of gold diggers after your resources.

Yeah, you think you hide it but it will show in how you behave. The 'ease of walking the world' is how one woman described it. Look for women who come from wealth.

💯% facts. i had to lose my money, house and kid in divorce, before I took the red pill and began accessing this stuff. i would have never believed it before my divorce. as the saying goes, a man will sacrifice his life for a woman. a woman will sacrifice her man for her life.

I was 56. So I guess I win this round.

And you would have done what instead? Not talked to women? Just convinced them to bang you (somehow) and the hit the bricks every single time?

Yeah you men truly love them..till they get fat. Or get cancer. Or you have a chance with a prettier girl. It’s not love motivating men either. It’s sexual attraction you told yourself is love.

My first girlfriend wrote me 200 reasons why she loved me. It didn't matter that I left my job, it didn't matter that I was living far away, it didn't matter what I did. On the contrary, my colleague who I've been in love with for a year and a half appreciates that my side hustle is growing rapidly, that I'm an award winning designer, that my social life is becoming very healthy, and that all of our design students look up to me. But she doesn't love me back. I'm just not her type. So in my eyes, this video is quite a gross generalization. I've had women love me when I was a nobody, and I've had women not love me when I was rather successful.

@@jochem1986 I agree. These generalizations are very bad because it places to much importance on one factor when people including women are extremely different. For the sake of helping a random man that reads this.. In my biased opinion there are 3 things you can offer a women and if you provide 1 of the 3 women will date you if you provide 2 of the 3 women will love you and if you provide 3 of 3 women will be obsessed with you and all three hold the same value non above the other contrary to what most believe. 1. Resources (doesn't have to be rich) as long as you have money to sustain courting, delicious dinner, dates, travelling, activities in other words your spending money to give her an experience these things will beat cars and houses 10/10 times because it is something she can have while a car and house is yours (unless you got married and she is plotting to have your house, joke). 2. Physical attractiveness , ignore what women say about this... Women do want a strong naturally muscular physic and a handsome face to come with it. If you ask attractive athletic man with an average job if he has issues getting women you will soon learn it is not the case, you will also find that lots of accident babies come from these kinds of men simple because they offer women strong genetics. Women don't want ugly kids, and willing to have kids with men who offer strong genes. Believe it or not only the few athletic and handsome men can attest to this. I can use myself as an example, i have dated multiple rich women with houses and all and i would always stay at their place, non of these women would make me use a condom or care much or at all if they got pregnant they also always wanted a long term relationship with me and would put effort ( tips for dating a women with more money than you... Don't care about what she has, it will never be yours...and spend your money on her like you normally would.. go to places you can afford and do fun things within your lane don't bother competing with what her rich family or friends do for her and offer a unique chill experience). Lastly for Physical attractiveness, learn to get good in bed. If you can't consistently give a girl an orgasm or don't think it is important your hopeless and women won't love you the way they do me, take the initiative get a vibrator and show dominance to the women by giving her multiple types of orgasms, Vibrators, finger, tongue, penetration all, educate yourself in the art of sexually pleasing a women and you will see just how much more women want sex than men. 3. Emotional Stability I won't write much more, but for this it is simple enough. Have a consistent personality and stable emotions. You can laugh and make jokes but only when it makes sense like your both playing a board game, be serious and decisive when making decisions. This does not mean you don't ask a women's opinion or ideas as many of you lack good leadership skills, a good example is "Hey, I'm thinking about dinner are you in the mood for something?" She may give you a direct answer of which you answer " Lets do it" or more than likely an indirect answer such as " Do you have any suggestions?" and you just give a 3 direct suggestions for example " Sushi, home cooked steak, Lasagne" she picks one and you again just do it.. You can get a women's input and make a quick decisive decision using her input to make her feel like she is united with you while still feeling like she can follow your lead if she wants to (big on if she wants to). I could go on and on. Be nice and gentleman but do it in a don't care way that makes it seem like you are not looking for validation, example you open the door for a women she says "thank you" and you can either say nothing or in a monotone voice say "your welcome" if she says nothing you can also just say nothing as if the act is normal. There is a lot to this but I'll just add you want to the place she can relax and find comfort in the world of chaos and drama, avoid giving women your problems it generally doesn't workout but you can communicate to them that your dealing with an issue and need time. Anyway I'm wasting time on this for no reason. In conclusion every man needs to be able to offer 2 of the 3 things i listed above. The easiest of the 3 is to provide emotional stability, easily done by critically analysing your own behaviour objectively and working on it, one of the worst things you could have is a bad uncontrolled temper. You could be attractive and have resources and many women will hold on to you but there is no reason to miss out on building on yourself having strong emotional stability that will make women admire you. Work on your mind and if your naturally handsome /athletic have a respectable job that can pay for experiences. If your abundant in resources and have emotional stability but unattractive invest in smelling good, good hygiene, style and coming across as clean and possible working on your physic. Of course you still need to learn to communicate with women be it in person or texting but the above is large factor towards why women will stay and hold on to you vs leaving.

⁠@@jochem1986Liked reading your balanced comment. When it comes to romantic rlsps, there isn’t always a cookie cutter formula.

@@mrreliable2220Great comment. I think it’s a good foundation for men to build on. However, I think it will trigger many of those who read it, lol.

Same here man. I'm glad I got my swings in during my early 20s. I was a broke college kid who worked at the movies, but dated girls who lived in mansions, took trips to Europe etc. I can't imagine trying to pull off the same thing in my 30s where women are all either already taken, married, or looking for both with a sense of financial security.

@@weirdcoincollection Good for you man! By the way, how is sex with a woman life? Be honest, eh?

I think that love is mutual exchange of everything. You said in your other video that if you want the cat to come hang out, you have to put the good milk.Women want to be loved for who they are also.

Those girls still loved you opportunistically. They just did so based on your potential but most of all looks and what those looks implied about you as a man capable of eventually providing and securing her.

@@user-hx5hu4wx4k To be fair I feel attracted to a woman initially based on her looks too. Fair to say that my attraction for someone is also conditional too. Since nature made us this way (men and women value certain things in the other sex), what do you propose that we do then?

Good luck my friend.

@@pocketdweller3771 Thank you🤝

Did you truly love her for who she is? - Then stay, talk, share your love, dreams, and pain, both sides. Be honest and work this out!

​@@DNA350ppm Never trust someone wearing a mask

How did that go

listen up single dudes. women love value (not the high value man). do not be the next divorce court victim.

What did they say about it

women have been rumbled. bravo, dr taraban.

lol, pt.II please, what happened

@@firestick4991no matter how much you try to copy and paste this post on every comment (that I’ve seen), it ain’t working. If you mean it, God Bless. If you’re trolling….you failed. God bless anyway….😊

@@firestick4991 Are you sure you’re a woman and not a bot? This is the fourth time you use the exact same response to a different comment

Orion did not reveal female dual mating strategy yet.

@@firestick4991 Are you sure you’re a woman and not a bot? This is the sixth time you use the exact same response to a different comment

I’m a woman and I agree, but only because my poor husband had to go through hell to show me who I really am. I agree that the vast majority of women simply will not see themselves truthfully. It is beyond a shame, it is destroying our civilization. Really hard times. Thank you to good men like Orion who hold the line of truth.

@@joymrsjoy I appreciate your honesty.

@toxicmale2264 Honesty is great and important and severely lacking. For me, it's really too little too late. I fear the same for our society, "to be honest"...thank you for replying, and I hope you're well in your life.

Bro, why'd you stop making content?

Yoooo @Denmosocial ya'll should collab

yeah so pls don’t copy it the same way you copy hamza, wheat waffles, 1stman etc

@neptune4375 oh i'm sorry i'm not online every day consuming content lol fk pssy, go outside ffs.

💯% facts. once you have given her the diamond ring, house and kids, you are screwed. because she has all the leverage and value now.

Eat Pray Love phase.

Very interesting…it’s like the last chapter they look for, but you have to give them the basics first

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540 simple societal fix for that bs is to simply have all that shit belong to men by default.

💯💯 In all dating apps you will find divorced 40y old women who are looking to find a young man to fulfill her emotionally, and if she doesn’t get that quick enough she will become desperate and that’s how sugarmommies are made.

Can a man keep loving a woman if she gives him nothing back? Not a smile, not a word, not a kiss? She keeps providing for herself, has her family, her friends, her mission in life, but just lets him love her from afar, like if he was a trubadour from a 12th C French Court? He demands nothing, just a second long glimpse, a few times a year, to behold her beauty and virtue from a distance. She demands nothing, he needs do nothing for her - he keeps loving for nothing....he then feels he is loved for who he is, just like that, a pure feeling, because he can love regardless if she does something for him! (And he needs do nothing for her, as she is not demanding.)

But I thought you're not supposed to "do things for women" (other than your wife, let's say), that's simping.

@@Rockownz5150 Whom do you listen to!? Hope you have female friends whom you can ask. There are language-use barriers so be patient. Men shouldn't initially do anything for women in the hope to get something in return. Just do acts of random kindness, out of a general generosity. Not to show off, not to make a fuzz about the gender difference. If you help with holding a heavy door open for an elderly lady, you can also do it for a girl your age walking behind you. If she doesn't like it, just say nonchalantly: "Sorry lady, no offense intended". Add a very small non-ironious inward smile, hardly visible. Show with your behavior that you intended no long contact. Always compare your actions with what you would do for an elderly lady, whom you of course don't need to impress. (For cute young women it is annoying how men out of the blue are hitting on them in obvious ways perhaps even with phrases they have repeated at home or picked up from "tougher" guys. Don't be one of them, it might be new for you, but boring for them, 10 times a day, so you set yourself up for disappointment.)

Off topic but at this point, every role that Ryan Gosling has been given makes him look like a complete moron. But he gets payed a hefty chunk.

Oh gosh, what a coincidence that Ryan gosling would look like a complete moron

What happened since you took it? You're no longer delusional, that part we get, but what else?

Probably goes back to childhood trauma where you seek approval from your mother or father or both. But they are not given to you. Now you seek them in others mainly in romantic relationship.

You can't see why your 20 year old daughter, in her prime, would want the man she is dating to have a job?

Women are always heartless. They also hoe around. Example if guy A can't provide her needs, she will have a guy B that can while still having guy A. Women want a guy for attention, a guy for money, and a guy that will fulfill her needs.

@@chrishnah I can see exactly why… but it’s to merely point out, as Dr Taraban points out, men and women operate differently in the aggregate.

@@chrishnah What a profoundly silly question. Was there a single syllable within his post that came across as unintelligent?

@@simonbeckford interesting you get to see such truths in action now being a father...

Somewhat......

Not worth the effort

@@forgottenfuryan not worth the effort to do it for women, agreed. But you can do it for yourself.

​@@mattsssThat's cap. Nobody improves themselves for themselves, because there has to be a reward involved.

@@colerainswaggify6387 creating a better reality and becoming a better individual IS the reward.

Sorry to hear what you are going through. I have been there myself. Learning about this stuff helped me get peace by accepting responsibility for my contribution to the failure. I didn’t know any better.

Sorry to hear! Any more advice you can give a youth in his mid 20's?

@@zhav3d Work on yourself and learn how to be content on your own. Relationships can be amazing, but you gotta have yourself squared away first.

It's getting fairly well covered now online. This message isn't original, it's merely re-packaged.

Because you are programmed from birth opposite of your firmware. You are controlled.

@@toddjohnson271 what's the original atual programming for men, then?

@@eladbari propagation

​@@toddjohnson271 more like consumption and destruction.

As if many men have the option to be picky when it comes to "employees". They'd settle for crumbs but can't even get that.

@@Rockownz5150Who said that many have that option? Obviously only who has gone through a long period of self improvement financially, physically and psychologically can have his pick. I have been in long and short relationships and I've learned about women through direct experience, not just KZfaq, and it's enough to say I would only go for a woman with specific attributes, and until then, nothing is preferable.

What skills do they bring? I legit don't know. No desire for sex. So honestly, what else can a girlfriend do for me? Inane conversation I have to carry?

This belief of yours is false and limited. You don’t have any evidence for it either. Try a different belief.

@@themightyafrodite5029 I don't care about beliefs. Experience is what matters which taught me that most women aren't worth it.

⁠@@themightyafrodite5029I’ve never seen a more weaker attempt at convincing someone to change their minds. 🤦🏻‍♂️

@@faby1105more weaker is poor grammar. That wasn’t an attempt to convert someone’s beliefs. I don’t care if y’all stay single for life. That’s your choice.

@@themightyafrodite5029 That’s very toxic of you. Telling someone to change their beliefs, how? Then saying that it wasn’t an attempt to get them to change and that you actually don’t care, then why say it?! His experiences make him bitter, and then you go ahead and say his mindset is wrong and provide no other perspective or solution. Like bruh, you’re just kicking him while he’s already down. It’s so unnecessary.

because everything in life is transactional, even down to the physics of the universe. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. You don't go to work because you want to make your boss happy, you go to work for money so you can eat.

The problem is materialism. Value of exchange is not always resorted to physical tangible things. However society at large can’t see past the physical. What women truly at the most subconscious level NEED in a man is one who has unwavering INTEGRITY. INTEGRITY is the most valuable character trait a man can posses, because it requires years of discipline, commitment, devotion and wisdom to posses. All of these are masculine protector qualities that speak for themselves. However since it’s so rare these days, and culture constantly pushes superficial romance through novels, movies, TV shows, music… 24/7, women circumvent that need for materialistic desires provided by a man that she “thinks” has the value she needs… but because she likely has never seen an example of a real integral man, she doesn’t know how to spot it or even how to look for it.

@@Insight-music That's bullshit. All women want is a wallet. Don't believe me? Tell your girl you lost your job. See how long she sticks around.

@@timtarbet4594 I see my point went over your head

That just the thing my dear friend you shouldn't there is literally no benefit in getting into a serious relationship with women literally nothing the only thing women Bring into a man life is pain Stress and drama let not forget how expensive they are outside of sex women generally don't bring much and lucky for us we live in a time period where women are more sexual free then ever women are literally out here fucking for free the real question is why would you want to commit

It's about attention. The more attention she gets, the more "romance" she believes she's in.

Yuk. Never wanted that. Superficially never did it for me. Meet great guys all the time

Don't run from woman. Be a leader, don't let them have control of your resourced by marriage. Kids and family are great. Set the rules, all of them. If you want 1 kid fine, What if you want 10? You will need to plan on more than one wife in your life time. Make the rules and do the work. The biggest problem is what the state can do to you.

@@ArizonaVideo99 The Family Court will destroy your control of resources/rules once she's unhappy and wants a divorce.

@@ArizonaVideo99 💯

Then you'll never experience the magical love and affection that'd enrich your life.

I know all women are hypergamous, but you seem to draw in the gold diggers especially

love, I hear you are hurting. still, try to change your point of view: the fact she is looking for expensive things will - in the best case - be not a act of selfishness but to secure the future of her and your offspring. those gifts are there to secure her and your children if anything happens to you. anybody can make promises through words but only gold, purses and rings can be transformed into cash, it needed. Look for example at the Sri Lankan commuinities, where the girls and women are wearing their golden bangels as a sign of wealth.

Maybe try to hide much money u make??? And if they ask tell them u make 60k-80k(if she makes 90k say 110k & so on) . Also, they research your zip code, company/job title, and etc. So watch out. After they had their fun a lot of women start to become “intentional” aka predatory/manipulative and will happily prey on a naive well off nice guys. Even if she likes him. So start planning seeds in their head early on like “I’m not a materialistic, I like simple things”

Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows.

@@MoYessir Women always know for some reason when men are high income.

Yes

What about women? Just looks I presume?

@@Embearr nope

It will take time. You have been conditioned with lies your whole life.

I am disappointed these types of rhetorics are reiterated and scaring men further away - not that modern women today is making it any easier for men but not all women are like that

Everything you described about your husband is framed in that you love him for what he does for you and makes you feel. Once again proving the point. Men will loyally take care of their wives for 60 years, working themselves into a deathbed until they stuff him into a coffin, happy as a clam, because he took care of his family. Not once in the history of mankind have women done that. Your husband is paralyzed from head to toe and you had to live in a car with him, you would maybe stay for a small amount of time, but every minute that passes will be another minute you gradually love him less and less until you abandon him. The opposite is true for men. When their woman is needy or unsafe or vulnerable then that increases their love. That's the difference. Men love idealistically and women love opportunistically.

@user-hx5hu4wx4k I described idealistic love, and you still managed to reframe it to fit your beliefs. I don't think anything I say will convince you. I wish you the best.

You are blessed to have found true love. As a practical matter it isn't wise for men to gamble on unicorns like you. In reality every woman says she is different, and that this relationship is different; but when the hard times come, her "feelings" change and she rinses him for everything he's worth. Every prisoner in Shawshank is innocent, that's the bit.

@@user-hx5hu4wx4k To be fair, you don't know this person's situation.

I think that is a healthy thought.

Marry a bot. They're more romantic than women, especially North American women.

you have made the right choice

At least a baseline sexual attraction is required.

I think good can come from understanding. The way we were taught about women and love growing up was nice to believe, but robbed us of the ability to have a genuine relationship with them. We never really loved women because they weren’t what we thought they were. The creatures we loved and thought were innocent and perfect were not real. You won’t even go back to being delusional, and thank your lucky stars for that. Now, if you so choose, you can have a real relationship with a real person. Also, isn’t it a relief to find out that women aren’t perfect? If they’re just as flawed as us, now we’re kinda back down on the same level. Women are JUST people. There’s nothing really super special about them. Redpill kinda forces you to see that. They’re just people like us, responding to biological desires and incentives, living in a weird kinda fucked up at times world, trying to make ends meet and figure things out. Yes, there is a fundamentally different male experience that no women will truly 100% understand, but we probably will never truly understand how it feels to be the weaker sex. The one that’s vulnerable to 50%+ of the population. The one that can be killed by every other person walking around. Reality can be a relief sometimes. You never loved women because the people you thought were women were your ideals expressed onto her. Just like women see a hot guy idealize him, making up stories about what he must be like and how their lives would be together, men did this too. But in both instances, you’re not actually fantasizing about a real person

Sad but true 😞

a man will sacrifice his life for his family. a woman will sacrifice her family for her life.

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540which is why men shouldn’t have families

@@marcusmcgraw3519 BINGO!! Look at the recent news of women trying to delete men, and not only that but women trying to delete their children. This is not something no one should accept. I have NO TROUBLE providing and protecting a woman but what about my end of the bargain?

Ain't that the truth? Happened to me. "Happily" married for 20 years. Hit a snag & had an issue which required spinal surgery. Like I tell people, about the time my back went out, so did the wife. Never again will I look at a woman as anything other than a recreational activity.

i'm 41, here's what i am asking myself lately. Shouldn't we be using this new found wisdom to our advantage? I'm not saying to get married, fk no

I wonder how unconditional your love would be to a woman if she gained 200 lbs.

Same. Knowing what I now know the best I can offer these days is a very conditional affection, which is strictly performance based. It's a highly unusual state, (ie it doesn't come naturally), however it's the only thing I feel is reconcilable to the maintenance of self respect, long term. When you examine it, a settlement where the man must provide value, but the woman gets to insist you "love her as she is" is an unconscionable deal.

@@capmidnite I would never go for a woman like that, as I take care of myself, I eat well and workout 3 - 4 X a week, so normally I would only go for a women who shares a similar lifestyle and values 🤷🏼‍♂️

@@darioz5894 Well, I said "if." You didn't answer my question.

That's because those men that laid with her accepted her as an easy whore. When men want to get serious with a girl then they consider their character and sense of accountability.

😂😂😂😂 true

Women are not sleeping around, most people on dating apps are men. Only men think it's all about sex, you're projecting because you'll spend your life with your left hand.

No one is loved by who they are, 99% of time. This same men are the ones that gonna divorce in case of a hard female illness, like cancer (solid stats about this phenomena).

The difference is even if a man is rich she won't love him for who he is. But if a woman is pure he will love her for who she is.

i got pumped and dumped in divorce court. lost my money, house and kid. getting pumped and dumped in divorce is an awful experience.

Please do not give up on love. Love is waiting for you. It's really hard to find, but there are women who can love you deeply.

​@@LizPlantLadyplease stop selling romantic fantasies to men. We are not privileged enough to afford to believe in it.

​@@LizPlantLady Women file 80% of divorces and marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows. Say love again.

​@@LizPlantLadyStop the cap

@LenParliament5 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@LenParliament5 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@@GregMunro Dude, this is a scam... There's no such thing as a "bring back your ex" spiritual counselor. People have free will, if they want to leave, they will leave. Simple as that.

@@ovidiuzakarias678 This conversation reads like two bots.

The trick women play is to get you to love them. Once you are in love, she has successfully enclaved you.

True. But idealistic. Like myself

Ego constructs

Ho got that from Rollo.

No, Rollo said it on his blog, years before FnF were a thing.

The great? LMFAO

If men stopped throwing themselves at women’s feet, they wouldn’t be given the chance to do this. You people are pathetic and weak for not realizing men are the problem

What a doofus. He's not great and he's just reiterating Rollo Tomassi

Unfortunately, feelings change. And when they do, you can be sure, she'll be off.

​@@leviathon2true

Saying men have to provide value/resources is still blupill thinking. Plenty of guys get laid purely for their looks and provide nothing at all. To women, desire is entirely about physical attraction and relationships are just for resource acquisition. Relationships are not beneficial to a man and an attractive man doesn't need to engage with them

@@sleeper9638 infact i wrote above tall, handsome..

@@d3r4g45 height is a part of a man's looks

​@@sleeper9638yep

THIS!

True. That makes what this guy says apply to everyone not just men. Humans aren’t that different. But let’s not forget men aren’t always the same. He looks like he belongs to the lower status men who have to use romance to get laid.

I agree though we don't set the bar crazy high

@EC-yl7xk Cope.

COPE

That is deep. Thanks for sharing this.

And a “happy ever after” for real Christians

I've always said that comedy is tragic and drama is a joke

genius dp

Maybe you just are young, and a little self-centered, it's no great sin or fault. Be kind and tolerant, give other people help and support, try to be self-sufficient when it comes to confidence and trust in your path in life. These are learnable and trainable skills, and will give you a base for generosity. Tell yourself, you have enough to spare, so share it, be loving and hopeful, live from an attitude of being brimful with what's good and positive - people will love and trust you, and you'll reap what you sow! You can handle sadness and sorrow, you can manage challenges and obstacles, you can fall onto your kness, get up, brush the dust off your knees, and walk on, believing in your value and values and your mission on this earth: to be a good human being, a contributor to the solutions! And don't count only beautiful young ladies as people - look around, and notice all kinds of human beings, and share some of your strength and inner light with any of them. Random secret acts of kindness will teach you important lessons!

​@@DNA350ppmmodern man has nothing to share 😂

@@alienkishorekumar I'm surrounded by all modern men who have a lot to share, and who do it IRL, too! You must be in the wrong company - any chance you can improve that part of your life? Why not start by finding men who would share an interest in life-wisdoms like the interviews made by a "wounded healer" like Lewis Howles - he is on YT!

Sorry, Lewis Howes is the correct spelling!

If were watching this video than we probably havnt been 😮

romance is the opium for the masses of men. most men are sedated and asleep at the wheel. most men will only wake up when they lose their money, house and kids in divorce. its sad but true.

Get red pill awareness.

Iza bro

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540 "Hopium"*

Where outside of the Islamic world does religion control the population? The West is secular and has been for decades.

Holy shit. You're right. That explains a lot

The biggest problem is self extrapolation. Men love sacrificially and because they do this they think women do the same. Until they learn to the contrary. The paradox is that, while red pill thinking is required to survive, it can be demotivating compared to blue pill delusion. The latter is a huge driver for many measures of prosperity.

Men will sacrifice their life for their families. Women will sacrifice their families for their life.

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540which is why men should not have families. We should care about ourselves

Like kangaroos!

​@@marriagecausesdivorce7540 🦘

Sure.

As a woman, i want to ask is a woman ever just loved for herself either? We are not allowed to become physically unattractive or to let our sexual appeal lessen. Beauty and the beast would never have worked if the woman was the beast and the man was the beauty. I believe this is a human condition that most of the time we are all loved for how much we can provide either financially sexually or physically.

Both men and women have to be physically attractive, if you're ugly you'll have a bad life. It doesn't matter what gender you are. The difference is that the average man is unattractive whereas the average woman isn't. That's not because men are unhygienic or have bad personalities or some bs, its just nature, its how evolution works. Just because its natural doesn't mean its less painful, my point was that I'd rather people say the brutal truth instead of sweet lies.

It's ugly.

Leonardo Di Caprio? Is that you? I loved you in The Reverent and Inception.

Nothing special just harem.

You have an ego for a reason you shouldn't get rid of it but build it the right way and focus it on the right stuff so it becomes unbreakable If your ego is centered around women or relationships its like building a house on a quicksand

A man is what he is. You can't change that.

Some of us want children

same with fiction, whether books, shows, anime, or games as you mention.

@@AndrewBrownK right, but multiplayer games allow you to interact with your partner, making it quite different from fiction, books, shows, anime, and singleplayer games.