Most Men Blow the First Date

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Күн бұрын

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In this video, I talk about why most men blow the first date and the obstacles men face when going on a first date. This video will show you the best way to have a successful first date and what mistakes to avoid.
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@mystykalmn4434 Ай бұрын

Take it easy on yourselves guys like I'm going to have a good time and if she likes it let's kick on if not move on

@intzeproduction99 Ай бұрын

On the 2nd date she asked me "Are we not going a bit too fast?" I responded with "No" and kissed her. She was so surprised at first, but then started laughing. Just relax and focus on keeping it fun and having a good time together! Also, don't be the guy to compliment her without action. If you tell her she's beautiful, but you show no desire to pursue her beauty, she'll know you're either insecure or don't mean it.

@davidwhite206 Ай бұрын

Ha, great insight there. Never thought about that one.

@christophervanheerden6499 Ай бұрын

Im not kissing anyone until I am comfortable with them. If she dissappears after the first date? Good buy, Next!

@otordaniel3582 Ай бұрын

You are a legend 😊

@Netizen648 Ай бұрын

Potwierdzam

@kenvr2287 Ай бұрын

Hang out….have fun…..hook up…..that’s it guys…..

@peterbrako1612 Ай бұрын

One more thing! Don't get too attached whilst doing it.

@bayetemesgenn1009 26 күн бұрын

it is not allowed for chrstians to hook up. Chrstians suppose to have sex after Marriage. may God help us to control our emotions.

@stephenciotti2127 Ай бұрын

Good morning coach!

@Shazlii Ай бұрын

I love your new thumbnails

@sammysam6522 Ай бұрын

Is it ok to touch the girl on the shoulder or arm during the date if she's made you laugh etc. to break touch barrier My dad once told you have to break touch barrier

@intzeproduction99 Ай бұрын

When you meet the first time, don't shake her hand, hug her. Take her to a place that has a good view (nature is a good option), then when you're having a good time while talking, ask to take a picture together and hold her waist in the process. After this go around together, be playful and funny! When laughing together, give her a little hug when beside her (pull her into you). This will slowly break the touch barrier. You'll soon realise she becomes more comfortable touching you. After that you can take it further by giving her a side hug while walking and placing your hand onto her opposite arm and looking into her eyes while listening to her or talking. You can then sit at a bench to watch the scenery, then you can pull her towards you and the rest will slowly come. Just don't be shy and pursue her. If she feels uncomfortable, you'll know it's too soon for her. For example, I tried to kiss her forehead on the first date, but she just pulled away and said bye while laughing. But I managed to break the touch barrier even more on the 2nd date. Now she expects it every time 😄 Also, bowling isn't a bad idea on the first date. Those high fives and shoulder taps will gradually turn into hugs. Just focus on keeping it fun and engaging, then slowly breaking the touch barrier.

@elijahschnake3863 Ай бұрын

100%, another easy way is to guide her around by putting your hand on her back eg when going through doors or crossing roads etc

@intzeproduction99 Ай бұрын

@@elijahschnake3863 Yeah that's also a great one 👌

@garygregg1378 Ай бұрын

You know, a problem I've faced on 1st dates is the internal question of whether I like the woman enough to handle the fallout from an intimacy attempt. If a woman sleeps with me, and I end up not wanting an ongoing relationship, I might end up having to deal with a slighted ex lover...someone who might have made a perfectly good friend. So...occassionally dates I have requested with female acquaintances have never happened because I've sensed they want "coffee" dates or "lunch" dates...I can see they are trying to avoid encounters where intimacy can happen, maybe just a take-it- slow approach. At that point - without apparent strong interest on either side - we've let it drop. I swear dating for western men in the 21st century requires masterclass skills. 🙄

@intzeproduction99 Ай бұрын

Firstly, as the man you should always be the one arranging the first date. You need to pick where you meet, where you talk, where you walk, etc. So you have the option to choose someplace quiet 😉 If you feel she's interested and you're having a good time, you can then focus on slowly breaking the touch barrier.

@paulbeharrell Ай бұрын

15 dimensional hyper-chess ♟️… except the rules keep changing 😅

@El.Jefe.Tribal1 Ай бұрын

Hey My Dude, when is your newest book "unfvck" your life getting a kindle release??

@DevelopAttraction Ай бұрын

@@El.Jefe.Tribal1 very soon!

@henryized1762 Ай бұрын

Hello Chris I love your work! Just a quick question: I heard is best to withdraw if you get the chick. What's your take on it?

@kayondoedward Ай бұрын

wtf, all comments are right aligned 😂😂

@prod.gregupnext2958 Ай бұрын

Don’t try too hard if you like you she like if not move on

@dandaman9009 Ай бұрын

People don’t go on dates anymore 😂

@oppahadventures114 Ай бұрын

Make a video hie to date a single mom Chris

@DevelopAttraction Ай бұрын

@@oppahadventures114 Don’t do it

@AG31594 Ай бұрын

And wtf do women do, nothing wrong right?

@ddmozz Ай бұрын

This is assuming you find her physically attractive and kind of like her personality. If you don't then... you wouldn't care at all how the date went lol.

@carlospita6442 Ай бұрын

exactly is always about them and what they f want

@bayetemesgenn1009 26 күн бұрын

it is not allowed for chrstians to hook up. Chrstians suppose to have sex after Marriage. may God help us to control our emotions.

@nivea878 Ай бұрын

no problem enough woman one will be interested, matter of time😂

@anerdvirgin Ай бұрын

Youre wrong about going for a kiss on the 1st date. All that shows is "hey I really like you," when you dont kiss the girl it leaves her wondering if you even like her

@carlospita6442 Ай бұрын

F too much work for what??? Damn if you damn is you don't. What work are women doing?

@paulbeharrell Ай бұрын

Great point and agreed 100%. I enjoy Chris’ videos as they help me understand what I did wrong back in the day. But I’m now of the opinion that women aren’t worth the massive effort it requires to meet their standards and pass their tests. Ironic, as I now get more attention from them than when I was young. Call me Doctor Cynical but I think it has a lot to do with $$$$ 😮